I Say There's No Excuse For Treating People Like Crap

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    Just because you're not feeling too great

    yourself doesn't mean you got the right to put others down and make them feel crap also... Just because your life is hell doesn't mean you make other lives hell! Just because you aren't too sure about your own feelings doesn't mean you can mess up someone else's feelings! How...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    Your reaction shows the real truth.

    .......there are no words to repair after.......
    FineVelvetandLace FineVelvetandLace
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jan 22

    if its for revenge, am cool with it an eye

    for an eye, a tooth for a tooth. go ahead baby
    dollarsigns dollarsigns
    16-17, M
    Jan 22

    Your Problem Should Not Be My Problem

    It really bothers me when people are having a bad day or are in a bad mood over something and then they take it out on others. It really is not fair and I for one many times get tired of having to be the "adult" person and be the one to understand.  People being...
    Grits4life Grits4life
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Sep 15, 2008

    I usually take the brunt of misdirected anger.

    I suppose I have always been an easy target. I just feel like I'm about done with everything.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 22

    :my Husband:

    How do I make my husband ;stop; calling me ;insulting; names when he's mad or not.....:Before you ask...yes we are in counseling for a few months now,,, Tonight it was pretty little wrench. It;s been b**ch etc...It happens when he is angry which is most of his sorry *** life...
    Anto815 Anto815
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Aug 24, 2011
    justmyself11 justmyself11
    51-55, M
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    My ex is continually treated like crap by her

    family and by her once close friends, and that just irritated me to high heavens. She honestly doesn't deserve it, and when she calls me crying about it, my heart only breaks more to know she's hurting so much. There's no excuse for what they do.
    notthatoneguy notthatoneguy
    13-15, M
    Dec 13, 2015

    I was out with a friend

    who suffers from downs syndrome. we were walking through the park when some unintelligent boy shouted something so horrible it made my friend cry. not being funny but there is no excuse at all for this guy to be such a d***k towards someone who cannot defend themselves. it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    Re: I Don't Treat People Like Crap.

    It's sadden me to see some people treat other like crap. I love all people(EP friends) I respect my EP friends. I treat them with dignity. They treat  me with dignity  as well. Thanks EP friends. Stay Positive. I will be your positive storm. Oh I forgot I wrote this...
    mother1983 mother1983
    31-35, F
    9 Responses May 11, 2008

    Especially Children

    Yesterday my daughter knocked on her friends door and was greeted by a belligerent mother. Apparently her two little girls 6 and 8 went into the wooded area behind my property to climb trees. Obviously, this mother had told her two girls they were not allowed to go back there...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Aug 15, 2011

    "When one walks out of someone's life without

    any reason, one has no right to come back with an excuse."
    hiddentears hiddentears
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2015

    Seriously control yourself,

    there is no one to blame but you for your own **** poor behavior. Stop thinking your actions don't matter. Everything you do matters at least a little. Be good to others. We are here for each other.
    faerieoglen faerieoglen
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 29, 2015

    we're all not perfect,

    we're not all your ideal, we're humans, we learn and make mistakes, we hurt or offend others unintentionally, but we are still fragile souls with feelings. next time you think to treat us carelessly or ignore us, please remember. thank you
    roobs42 roobs42
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Mar 5

    I Say There's No Excuse

    I say,There's no excuse,For treating peopleLike crap,Some bosses do,Workers don't deserve it,Why don't they revolt?
    cndrewdrvr8 cndrewdrvr8
    46-50, M
    1 Response Sep 10, 2011

    Its really infuriating

    when you plan something fun for someone to do with you and they are determined, actually appearing to decide ahead of time to hate it, to make it very obvious they barely tolerated it.....begrudgingly. Especially when you know for a fact they wouldve loved it and made a big deal...
    FineVelvetandLace FineVelvetandLace
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Feb 7

    Currently the number on your clothes tag

    determines how you will be treated. People dont matter, numbers are all that matters. If your tag has the wrong number your feelings dont matter. And yet, actually, the ones being cruel, heartless, and vicious have no worth.......like beautiful china vases filled with disease...
    FineVelvetandLace FineVelvetandLace
    51-55, F
    Jan 22

    No Justification....

    I really do believe this. We all have trauma in our lives, we all have bad days and we sometimes hurt those we don't want to. I get that. But most decent human beings will apologize and try and make ammends. Yet there are those who continually abuse others good natures. In my...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 6, 2012

    No excuse. Everyone has a right to be alive.

    I've met some real nasty people on here. Those who believe they're better than others, those that love to bring another down. It isn't on. You shouldn't pick on other people just because you're behind the safety of a keyboard.
    Ejoyh97 Ejoyh97
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 8

    Close your eyes to sleep

    and rest, not to ignore things which are uncomfortable.
    ReflectivMind ReflectivMind
    31-35
    Jan 23

    I don't agree with this title,

    I feel there are justifiable times where treating somebody like crap is a nice alternative.. say a murderer or something.. someone whos face you should just bash in with a rock.
    Cocrispy Cocrispy
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 22

    None

    *shrugs* The group title pretty much says it all.  There really is no excuse for treating people like crap.  Be the bigger person and rise above the garbage.  Swallow down that blistering comeback, keep that finger down, delete that email before you send it.There is no excuse...
    Plaid Plaid
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 22, 2011

    This is my general rule in life.

    EXCEPT FOR BULLIES and those who are condescending. The Bible says not to throw pearl before swine. Even Jesus treated the Pharisees more harshly than others BECAUSE of the way they treated others.
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 22, 2015

    Some people who've been through lots become

    so cold, bitter, hateful, mean. No sympathy or compassion of any kind in them at all. Angry, poisonous attitude.... Like pure hate itself. If theyve some type of bad life and escape.... What good does it do to escape.....if theyve turned to acid inside?...... If you arent going...
    FineVelvetandLace FineVelvetandLace
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Feb 26
    xXShellyBeanXx xXShellyBeanXx
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 12, 2015

    Ever

    There is no reason to treat people as inferior. I'm not saying let them push you around, if they do something worth a good telling off then they are treating themselves and everyone around very poorly. There is no reason for it. In fact I don't even understand why people do it.
    VincentValentine VincentValentine
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 27, 2011

    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 8, 2015

    Why would you ever treat someone in a mean way?

    There's is no excuse on this earth for treating someone like crap!
    cotygal123 cotygal123
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2014

    It doesn't matter the reason,

    everyone should be treated fairly
    metalchick18 metalchick18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2014

    What do you think of a person you see trying to

    humiliate another person? Are you impressed by them?
    FineVelvetandLace FineVelvetandLace
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Jan 22

    No Excuse

    Sometimes, people treat others like crap for unknown reasons.  Yeah, I agree with the title: There's no excuse for treating people like crap especially if they haven't done anything to us.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 4, 2011

    I Dont Have To Take Your Crap

    Ive kept my mouth shut about my feelings long enough, I am not holding it in any longer. I cant stand it when people judge someone they dont know just because they sin differently than they do, and I cant stand it when someone treats another like crap for no apparent reason. I am...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 1, 2013

    When people put stones in my way,

    I smile and climb over them. Not because I'm okay with what they do to me, but because i know it bothers them most to see I reach my goals anyway.
    ReflectivMind ReflectivMind
    31-35
    1 Response Jan 22

    You Can Not Treating People Like Crap!

      yes  i have to agree 1000%  ... you can not treating people like crap.   thai is true and no other words is necessary.  NOBODY CAN NOT TREAT PEOPLE LIKE CRAP. we need to share humanity and love for everyone.
    HAL9001 HAL9001
    36-40, M
    9 Responses Jan 15, 2009

    It's Pointless

    Some people seem to thrive on treating others like crap. I see it as a sense less act myself. If someone treats me that way no way will I lower myself to their level and do it to them. Their not worth making myself feel bad cause of their actions or moods.
    Lizzy2046 Lizzy2046
    46-50, F
    11 Responses Mar 31, 2011

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