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I Say There's No Excuse For Treating People Like Crap

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    xXShellyBeanXx xXShellyBeanXx 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2015

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    Your Problem Should Not Be My Problem

    It really bothers me when people are having a bad day or are in a bad mood over something and then they take it out on others. It really is not fair and I for one many times get tired of having to be the "adult" person and be the one to understand.  People being...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 15, 2008

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    If you dont know how to treat yourself

    well Then its impossible to treat others as well
    nalbyan nalbyan 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    "When one walks out of someone's life without

    any reason, one has no right to come back with an excuse."
    hiddentears hiddentears 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2015

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    Seriously control yourself,

    there is no one to blame but you for your own **** poor behavior. Stop thinking your actions don't matter. Everything you do matters at least a little. Be good to others. We are here for each other.
    faerieoglen faerieoglen 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2015

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    Especially Children

    Yesterday my daughter knocked on her friends door and was greeted by a belligerent mother. Apparently her two little girls 6 and 8 went into the wooded area behind my property to climb trees. Obviously, this mother had told her two girls they were not allowed to go back there...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    No Justification....

    I really do believe this. We all have trauma in our lives, we all have bad days and we sometimes hurt those we don't want to. I get that. But most decent human beings will apologize and try and make ammends. Yet there are those who continually abuse others good natures. In my...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F Apr 6, 2012

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    The no. 1 reason why people start hating each

    other. We all have a conscience that clearly indicates that it's wrong to misbehave with people by giving them the cold shoulder in some way or other. I don't understand why people get so self-conceited to hurt other's feelings and when their inhumane attitude backfires, then it...
    consciousness811 consciousness811 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 7, 2015

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    When people put stones in my way,

    I smile and climb over them. Not because I'm okay with what they do to me, but because i know it bothers them most to see I reach my goals anyway.
    ReflectivMind ReflectivMind 31-35 1 Response Jan 22

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    I was out with a friend

    who suffers from downs syndrome. we were walking through the park when some unintelligent boy shouted something so horrible it made my friend cry. not being funny but there is no excuse at all for this guy to be such a d***k towards someone who cannot defend themselves. it...
    shazza98 shazza98 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2015

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    No Excuse

    Sometimes, people treat others like crap for unknown reasons.  Yeah, I agree with the title: There's no excuse for treating people like crap especially if they haven't done anything to us.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 4, 2011

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    if its for revenge, am cool with it an eye

    for an eye, a tooth for a tooth. go ahead baby
    dollarsigns dollarsigns 16-17, M Jan 22

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    I don't agree with this title,

    I feel there are justifiable times where treating somebody like crap is a nice alternative.. say a murderer or something.. someone whos face you should just bash in with a rock.
    Cocrispy Cocrispy 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Your reaction shows the real truth.

    .......there are no words to repair after.......
    Darkmoonshadow Darkmoonshadow 46-50 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Why would you ever treat someone in a mean way?

    There's is no excuse on this earth for treating someone like crap!
    cotygal123 cotygal123 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 1, 2014

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    Ever

    There is no reason to treat people as inferior. I'm not saying let them push you around, if they do something worth a good telling off then they are treating themselves and everyone around very poorly. There is no reason for it. In fact I don't even understand why people do it.
    VincentValentine VincentValentine 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 27, 2011

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    Re: I Don't Treat People Like Crap.

    It's sadden me to see some people treat other like crap. I love all people(EP friends) I respect my EP friends. I treat them with dignity. They treat  me with dignity  as well. Thanks EP friends. Stay Positive. I will be your positive storm. Oh I forgot I wrote this...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 9 Responses May 11, 2008

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    This is my general rule in life.

    EXCEPT FOR BULLIES and those who are condescending. The Bible says not to throw pearl before swine. Even Jesus treated the Pharisees more harshly than others BECAUSE of the way they treated others.
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2015

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    *shrugs* The group title pretty much says it all.  There really is no excuse for treating people like crap.  Be the bigger person and rise above the garbage.  Swallow down that blistering comeback, keep that finger down, delete that email before you send it.There is no excuse...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2011

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    You Can Not Treating People Like Crap!

      yes  i have to agree 1000%  ... you can not treating people like crap.   thai is true and no other words is necessary.  NOBODY CAN NOT TREAT PEOPLE LIKE CRAP. we need to share humanity and love for everyone.
    HAL9001 HAL9001 36-40, M 10 Responses Jan 15, 2009

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    We all have bad days -

    but that's no excuse for not treating people with respect. It's easy to be nice when you're in a good mood, it only really counts if you're respectful to people in a bad mood. Treat people with respect! It's just common courtesy!
    DrunkGiraffe DrunkGiraffe 26-30, M Dec 6, 2014

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    I just saw a post about someone posting against

    a member.I know that member and she is a nice person.This is supposed to be against EP guidelines,isn't it?
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 51-55, F 3 Responses Dec 16, 2015

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    What do you think of a person you see trying to

    humiliate another person? Are you impressed by them?
    Darkmoonshadow Darkmoonshadow 46-50 6 Responses Jan 22

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    Currently the number on your clothes tag

    determines how you will be treated. People dont matter, numbers are all that matters. If your tag has the wrong number your feelings dont matter. And yet, actually, the ones being cruel, heartless, and vicious have no worth.......like beautiful china vases filled with disease...
    Darkmoonshadow Darkmoonshadow 46-50 Jan 22

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    I Dont Have To Take Your Crap

    Ive kept my mouth shut about my feelings long enough, I am not holding it in any longer. I cant stand it when people judge someone they dont know just because they sin differently than they do, and I cant stand it when someone treats another like crap for no apparent reason. I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 1, 2013

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    :my Husband:

    How do I make my husband ;stop; calling me ;insulting; names when he's mad or not.....:Before you ask...yes we are in counseling for a few months now,,, Tonight it was pretty little wrench. It;s been b**ch etc...It happens when he is angry which is most of his sorry *** life...
    Anto815 Anto815 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    justmyself11 justmyself11 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 12, 2015

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    It's Pointless

    Some people seem to thrive on treating others like crap. I see it as a sense less act myself. If someone treats me that way no way will I lower myself to their level and do it to them. Their not worth making myself feel bad cause of their actions or moods.
    Lizzy2046 Lizzy2046 46-50, F 11 Responses Mar 31, 2011

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    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 8, 2015

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    I Say There's No Excuse

    I say,There's no excuse,For treating peopleLike crap,Some bosses do,Workers don't deserve it,Why don't they revolt?
    cndrewdrvr8 cndrewdrvr8 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 10, 2011

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    It doesn't matter the reason,

    everyone should be treated fairly
    metalchick18 metalchick18 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2014

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    Just because you're not feeling too great

    yourself doesn't mean you got the right to put others down and make them feel crap also... Just because your life is hell doesn't mean you make other lives hell! Just because you aren't too sure about your own feelings doesn't mean you can mess up someone else's feelings! How...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I usually take the brunt of misdirected anger.

    I suppose I have always been an easy target. I just feel like I'm about done with everything.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 22

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    My ex is continually treated like crap by her

    family and by her once close friends, and that just irritated me to high heavens. She honestly doesn't deserve it, and when she calls me crying about it, my heart only breaks more to know she's hurting so much. There's no excuse for what they do.
    notthatoneguy notthatoneguy 13-15, M Dec 13, 2015

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    Close your eyes to sleep

    and rest, not to ignore things which are uncomfortable.
    ReflectivMind ReflectivMind 31-35 3 Responses Jan 23

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