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I Secretly Hate My Fiance But Cant Leave Him

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    My fiancé made it seem like we were living a

    fairytale. On the day of our last venue meeting for the wedding he did not show up and left me there alone to find out thy what should be the last payment was actually only the second payment and we had an outstanding balance. While I was there alone finding this out he was...
    lanns lanns 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    No Solution To My Love

    I'm fairly young and I went into a relationship really fast we moved in together mostly because i was so sick of living with my parents. They are the super controlling type and I've always been more to myself anyways and independent. I agreed it would be great to live together...
    Littleflower19 Littleflower19 18-21 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    Had Enough

    My fiance and I have been together for 2 years. After 6 months of dating he cheated on me at some random party. I forgave him. After that there were some text messages to other girls I found out about. I really always had a little bit of a trust issue. It's been a year and a...
    Xxfoxy Xxfoxy 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2011

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    Why Cant I Leave Him,When Im Not Happy,

    im dating this guy that started out doing everything rite and now only after two weeks the dissrespect and true colors are starting to show, am i just now seeing things that i refused to see at first, was i like lying to myself blinded by love,is the honeymoon over
    sextons266 sextons266 41-45, F Jul 13, 2013

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    3 Yrs And Counting

    I hate him so much. He constantly makes me feel like I am stupid and like I can't do anything right. He yells at me, pushes me, and then tries to say I'm sorry. He's the only one I've ever actually been in a relationship with. I am sure he is lying about smoking pot behind my...
    stucknurse stucknurse 22-25 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    I'm Stuck Here, And I Don't Know How To Get Out.

    After graduation, (I am only 19) I decided that I would take a trip down to Nevada to visit my family. My aunt had opened up a restaurant the year before and I wanted to see it. So when I went down there, I ended up getting the job as the baker at her restaurant. I moved down...
    StuckHereForToLong StuckHereForToLong 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    My fiancé was so wonderful.

    .. I moved states to be with him. But he drinks and smoke pot, hides it from him family. I haven't found a job yet, currently stay home and take care of the household. He has become verbally and mentally abusive since I moved; says extremely mean and hurtful things when he comes...
    PrettyB86 PrettyB86 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    I Am Getting Married In 5 Months!!!

    am supposed to be happy and excited..overjoyed...but am not. instead am scared am freaking out....after all i've been through i think am just getting married to make my parents happy. they like the guy n i am ok with him. we dont rly get along..he talk so much its like he never...
    afraidtoreveal afraidtoreveal 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    Thought It Was Love......but He Was Cheating!

    Was dating a guy for about 6 months when his "ex-girlfriend" called him like every week. Finally got tired of seeing the same number appear on his phone and answered it. It was the ***** ex-girlfriend. I talked to her as well as her current fiancee. I went off on her and said...
    sbgirly sbgirly 26-30 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

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    My Fiancé Cheated On Me...

    i've been together with this wonderful guy for 2 years and a half. and he proposed to me when it was our 2nd year anniversary. everything seemed to be wonderful, the rest of our lives was written in stone and we didn't think that we would come across a problem ahead. we were what...
    effendyk effendyk 22-25 3 Responses Oct 23, 2010

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    The Same Story For Me

    I hate my fiance so much, he's has been mentally abusing me 6mnths after our relationship, we have been together for 2 years now, and are getting married in october this year. I didnt know at first he was abusing me, I used to turn a blind eye but as time as gone by I havent...
    misskaur misskaur 22-25 4 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    So. That's a lie . I don't HATE my fiancé.

    But he annoys the **** out of me. I don't know why I agreed to marry him, about a month after we were engaged I cheated on him with an ex. I felt guilty about it and confessed everything to him expecting to call of the engagement. He forgave me and wouldn't let me quit on our...
    jeniferis jeniferis 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    My fiance doesn't like weddings,

    being around groups of people, etc. and our wedding is coming up in a few months. If anything is discussed regarding the wedding, he instantly tells me he's sick of hearing about it (and I rarely bring it up due to his horrible response). He says weddings make everyone unhappy...
    comesthedawn comesthedawn 31-35 2 Responses Mar 31

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    It started out as true love.

    He rescued me from a terrible relationship and I adored him. We were friends for three years before we became a couple and engaged months later and started living together. My family adore him and think we make a great couple but only I know the truth. He had turned...
    birthdaywish86 birthdaywish86 22-25, F 7 Responses May 4

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    I Cant Handle It Anymore..

    I have been with my fiance for 8 yrs, since I was 15 yrs old & I believe that is one of the big reasons why I have stayed for so long.. because I just dont know anything else.. Anyway I just dont feel like I used too & I am too scared to leave as the last time I tried he actually...
    unsurelily unsurelily 22-25 5 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    My Fiancé Stresses Me

    I have been engaged for 3 yrs and my fiancé stresses me out to the point I'm getting white hairs !! We fight all the time. Honestly at least once a week. He has such a temper that he blows at any moment. I want him to pay attention to me but he is too busy on the phone or making...
    Makda Makda 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    Last Priority

    When we first got engaged, we were so happy and spent so much time with each other. It was absolute bliss. Then after the first year or so my fiance started to fade. Saying that he had to go do this and go do that. Making up reasons that he couldn't spend time with me or even...
    Talois Talois 22-25 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    I'm serious. I can't stand them. I had one bad mark on my report card, I threw something across my bedroom to an empty space, my dad takes away a few of my electronics (phone...
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    Just no. I hate them with a passion.
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    It's not even that I hate it as much as I think it's hurtful. If you love someone you shouldn't just leave without saying goodbye. If you do then it leaves them to suffer thinking...
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    Leave me and forget to say goodbye and you break my heart
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    I love him and everyone except him knows it because he's always talking about how he loves the single life and never wants a relationship...we were playing truth or dare and I took...
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    Hate this. Most of my body wants sleep. Mind vetoes.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    **** you **** you **** you! Why do you you always leave when I need you most? You're never here for me anymore.
    xXBeautifulTragedyXx xXBeautifulTragedyXx 16-17, F Nov 7

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    It makes me sick. If you know you're leavin me forever at least have the decency to say goodbye. Not through text but to my face.
    Dynasty2000 Dynasty2000 13-15, F Nov 12

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    It's more along the lines of. Im tired but don't want to sleep. When you sleep you are using up hours that you could be using for better things. I try to keep my sleeping to a...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 26

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    I am tired but I don't want I sleep. I want to stay up and talk to you :) if I slept whenever I was tired then I would always be asleep. I'm always tired whether it be mentally, or...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 2

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    I can't sleep but I think it's from my depression and stress and from thinking to much. Even tho i want to sleep but I can't caus my mind is thinking to much tht it dosent let me...
    Anabe1995 Anabe1995 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    FXCK!!! She's a total mind fxck!!! She's a beautiful mind fxck.... And I can't have her. She's like 18 or something like that, blue eyes and dreadlocks - she is perfection! But...
    MixedJayy MixedJayy 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I hate the smell, the texture , the color all of it!! But what the heck I just eat ice cream the I did not realize it have chocolate with peanut butter and I was in love!!! But...
    Marialz Marialz 22-25, F Oct 29

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    I get told I'm weird for this but I'm 18 and I adore Elvis Presley. Really weird, huh? I've seen each of his films at least 5 or so times, I listen to him almost every day, and I...
    presleyan presleyan 18-21, F a week ago

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    This experience has come about from a recent conversation I was having with someone on here. It started fairly late last night, so I didn't get a chance to respond. To his...
    Mmmcherries Mmmcherries 46-50, F 6 Responses Oct 31

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    Fvckbruh Fvckbruh 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    What are some things I can do to help me sleep when I can't? Suggestions anyone?
    badgirl2266 badgirl2266 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 23

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    too much on my mind mostly to do with loneliness, volunteering at the animal shelter and not having anywhere near enough money to live in this world the way it is. If i could sleep...
    animallover412 animallover412 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Like it would very much appreciated for you to say you have to go or you'll be right back instead of just leaving me hanging and thinking I did something wrong...
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F Oct 26

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    It makes me feel forgotten
    metalchick18 metalchick18 18-21, F Oct 28

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    Awkward I'm the only male in this groupXD
    austin1218 austin1218 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 28

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    It sucks when friends say goodbye forever
    tarkovsky tarkovsky 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 11

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    Why do people say goodbye? You supposed to say later Even if you leaving to go back home from a different state..
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Nov 12

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    It's 530 am where I am , and I cannot sleep. Everytime I close my eyes I see my boyfriend And bestfriend having sex. I've tried music, having a drink, snack, A movie, talking on...
    senoritax senoritax 18-21, F Nov 4

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    Me and my big stuffed bear
    thatguy373 thatguy373 13-15, M Nov 9

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    I'm loosing my love life. I don't feel like falling in love anymore I feel everything apart as if there is no feeling of love or attraction any more. My life is paused
    Lostmyselfinpain Lostmyselfinpain 26-30, M Nov 11

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    Why can't I sleep FFS! Can't sleep then can't wake up grr!
    Unnecessarilylostsoul Unnecessarilylostsoul 26-30 Nov 13

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