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I Secretly Hate My Fiance But Cant Leave Him

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    So. That's a lie . I don't HATE my fiancé.

    But he annoys the **** out of me. I don't know why I agreed to marry him, about a month after we were engaged I cheated on him with an ex. I felt guilty about it and confessed everything to him expecting to call of the engagement. He forgave me and wouldn't let me quit on our...
    jeniferis jeniferis 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    I Am Getting Married In 5 Months!!!

    am supposed to be happy and excited..overjoyed...but am not. instead am scared am freaking out....after all i've been through i think am just getting married to make my parents happy. they like the guy n i am ok with him. we dont rly get along..he talk so much its like he never...
    afraidtoreveal afraidtoreveal 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    My fiancé made it seem like we were living a

    fairytale. On the day of our last venue meeting for the wedding he did not show up and left me there alone to find out thy what should be the last payment was actually only the second payment and we had an outstanding balance. While I was there alone finding this out he was...
    lanns lanns 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    My Fiancé Stresses Me

    I have been engaged for 3 yrs and my fiancé stresses me out to the point I'm getting white hairs !! We fight all the time. Honestly at least once a week. He has such a temper that he blows at any moment. I want him to pay attention to me but he is too busy on the phone or making...
    Makda Makda 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    I'm Stuck Here, And I Don't Know How To Get Out.

    After graduation, (I am only 19) I decided that I would take a trip down to Nevada to visit my family. My aunt had opened up a restaurant the year before and I wanted to see it. So when I went down there, I ended up getting the job as the baker at her restaurant. I moved down...
    StuckHereForToLong StuckHereForToLong 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    I Cant Handle It Anymore..

    I have been with my fiance for 8 yrs, since I was 15 yrs old & I believe that is one of the big reasons why I have stayed for so long.. because I just dont know anything else.. Anyway I just dont feel like I used too & I am too scared to leave as the last time I tried he actually...
    unsurelily unsurelily 22-25 5 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    Last Priority

    When we first got engaged, we were so happy and spent so much time with each other. It was absolute bliss. Then after the first year or so my fiance started to fade. Saying that he had to go do this and go do that. Making up reasons that he couldn't spend time with me or even...
    Talois Talois 22-25 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    It started out as true love.

    He rescued me from a terrible relationship and I adored him. We were friends for three years before we became a couple and engaged months later and started living together. My family adore him and think we make a great couple but only I know the truth. He had turned...
    birthdaywish86 birthdaywish86 22-25, F 7 Responses May 4, 2014

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    My fiance doesn't like weddings,

    being around groups of people, etc. and our wedding is coming up in a few months. If anything is discussed regarding the wedding, he instantly tells me he's sick of hearing about it (and I rarely bring it up due to his horrible response). He says weddings make everyone unhappy...
    comesthedawn comesthedawn 31-35 2 Responses Mar 31, 2014

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    Thought It Was Love......but He Was Cheating!

    Was dating a guy for about 6 months when his "ex-girlfriend" called him like every week. Finally got tired of seeing the same number appear on his phone and answered it. It was the ***** ex-girlfriend. I talked to her as well as her current fiancee. I went off on her and said...
    sbgirly sbgirly 26-30 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

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    Why Cant I Leave Him,When Im Not Happy,

    im dating this guy that started out doing everything rite and now only after two weeks the dissrespect and true colors are starting to show, am i just now seeing things that i refused to see at first, was i like lying to myself blinded by love,is the honeymoon over
    sextons266 sextons266 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2013

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    My Fiancé Cheated On Me...

    i've been together with this wonderful guy for 2 years and a half. and he proposed to me when it was our 2nd year anniversary. everything seemed to be wonderful, the rest of our lives was written in stone and we didn't think that we would come across a problem ahead. we were what...
    effendyk effendyk 22-25 3 Responses Oct 23, 2010

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    3 Yrs And Counting

    I hate him so much. He constantly makes me feel like I am stupid and like I can't do anything right. He yells at me, pushes me, and then tries to say I'm sorry. He's the only one I've ever actually been in a relationship with. I am sure he is lying about smoking pot behind my...
    stucknurse stucknurse 22-25 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    Had Enough

    My fiance and I have been together for 2 years. After 6 months of dating he cheated on me at some random party. I forgave him. After that there were some text messages to other girls I found out about. I really always had a little bit of a trust issue. It's been a year and a...
    Xxfoxy Xxfoxy 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2011

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    The Same Story For Me

    I hate my fiance so much, he's has been mentally abusing me 6mnths after our relationship, we have been together for 2 years now, and are getting married in october this year. I didnt know at first he was abusing me, I used to turn a blind eye but as time as gone by I havent...
    misskaur misskaur 22-25 4 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    No Solution To My Love

    I'm fairly young and I went into a relationship really fast we moved in together mostly because i was so sick of living with my parents. They are the super controlling type and I've always been more to myself anyways and independent. I agreed it would be great to live together...
    Littleflower19 Littleflower19 18-21 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    I've been with him for 4 years , I love him and I know if I do decide to leave him and move out its going to hurt , but right now I really don't like him we make each other feel...
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    I dont wang none of these boys that be texting my phone I only want him but then again his age is in the way ugh
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    The worst feeling ever has to be being with someone in a room but not be able to say a word not beacouse you don't like them, not beacuse you don't know each other, not beacuse...
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    There's a difference. School, for me, is receiving packets, getting yelled at by impatient teachers, being ignored, not getting the help I need because the teacher is too busy, and...
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    Tried to go to sleep hours ago. It's 3:30 am and I'm wide awake... Did someone slip me caffeine ? It's not like I'm thinking of anything and it's keeping me up. I'm just wide awake...
    Questx Questx 41-45, F Feb 12

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    So much has happened today and so much to do tomorrow :/ uhg the life of an adult. Makes me wish I was 12 again
    jussme91 jussme91 22-25, F Feb 16

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    No This Can't Be Love No words, no converse, no text, no answered questions, only good mornings and hello's. No this can't be love. No time, no plans, no attention, no initiative...
    Tr3asur3dLuv Tr3asur3dLuv 36-40, F Feb 14

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    Know what I mean? When you think too much and because you're hurting you just think how it seems like nothing's gonna go your way and you can't seem to catch a break? Step one...
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    All day I've been craving sleep and now that I'm finally in bed I can not sleep, errrr..Very Frustrating!!
    sunkiss2015 sunkiss2015 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    people come and people go. the sad truth is it's easier to remember the goodbye than the hello
    simplyafriend simplyafriend 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    Still really sore from yesterday :( ughhh. It's a good thing classes got cancelled today because I wouldn't be able to sit comfortably. It's going to be a long day...
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 26

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    it is like being a slave, it is not a normal marriage because my husband is controlling and no matter how I try to find good in this , it is nowhere to be found. I always wanted to...
    unadorned unadorned 46-50, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I hate my husband and don't even remember the last time I even liked him. He's SO annoying and I can't stand to even be around him anymore. His moronic actions and things he says...
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    Hate is a strong word but I have lost all respect for my bf. We have been living together for a year and a half and at first he was the most sweetest, caring guy I ever met.I...
    cgs62887 cgs62887 26-30 1 Response Feb 23

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    12 things I observed about my in laws: 1. Inability to recognize and accept change in family relations and dynamics. Your son/brother has new priorities; his wife has taken the...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 9

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    My ex boyfriend has a girlfriend now I know because I saw his instagram and facebook with a girl and all the captions but after 4 months of not being together and no communcation...
    queenchristianjay queenchristianjay 26-30, M Feb 21

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    I have been with my boyfriend almost 5 years we have two boys together...And most days I just feel like he is the worst thing that ever happened to me...he is abusive controlling...
    alyssamarie1 alyssamarie1 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Thomas was my best guy friend through high school. He was who I went to when I needed to talk or wanted advice. I told him everything. After high school we went our separate ways...
    PARKPARK360 PARKPARK360 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I was friends with his sister before I met him. then I met him which she was egging the whole thing on and we have been together for 3 years and she literally won't leave us the...
    haybree haybree 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    I hate my husband with every fiber of my being. Our 15 years of marriage have been the most horrible years of my life; there has never been a time when things were good or easy...
    Lulu73 Lulu73 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    I am tired of his bullshit alls that he does is make up stuff and lies all time about everything .he is such a jerk he knows that his mom and sister have always been horrible to...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    So **** hit the fan again. The kid faked sick to get out of a school test, she always fakes sick and her mom takes her to dr's because he mom is an idiot. Anyway, she's only 9, I...
    MommyToMine MommyToMine 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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