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I Secretly Hate My Fiance But Cant Leave Him

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    So. That's a lie . I don't HATE my fiancé.

    But he annoys the **** out of me. I don't know why I agreed to marry him, about a month after we were engaged I cheated on him with an ex. I felt guilty about it and confessed everything to him expecting to call of the engagement. He forgave me and wouldn't let me quit on our...
    jeniferis jeniferis 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    No Solution To My Love

    I'm fairly young and I went into a relationship really fast we moved in together mostly because i was so sick of living with my parents. They are the super controlling type and I've always been more to myself anyways and independent. I agreed it would be great to live together...
    Littleflower19 Littleflower19 18-21 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    Thought It Was Love......but He Was Cheating!

    Was dating a guy for about 6 months when his "ex-girlfriend" called him like every week. Finally got tired of seeing the same number appear on his phone and answered it. It was the ***** ex-girlfriend. I talked to her as well as her current fiancee. I went off on her and said...
    sbgirly sbgirly 26-30 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

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    Last Priority

    When we first got engaged, we were so happy and spent so much time with each other. It was absolute bliss. Then after the first year or so my fiance started to fade. Saying that he had to go do this and go do that. Making up reasons that he couldn't spend time with me or even...
    Talois Talois 22-25 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Why Cant I Leave Him,When Im Not Happy,

    im dating this guy that started out doing everything rite and now only after two weeks the dissrespect and true colors are starting to show, am i just now seeing things that i refused to see at first, was i like lying to myself blinded by love,is the honeymoon over
    sextons266 sextons266 41-45, F Jul 13, 2013

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    My Fiancé Cheated On Me...

    i've been together with this wonderful guy for 2 years and a half. and he proposed to me when it was our 2nd year anniversary. everything seemed to be wonderful, the rest of our lives was written in stone and we didn't think that we would come across a problem ahead. we were what...
    effendyk effendyk 22-25 3 Responses Oct 23, 2010

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    My fiancé was so wonderful.

    .. I moved states to be with him. But he drinks and smoke pot, hides it from him family. I haven't found a job yet, currently stay home and take care of the household. He has become verbally and mentally abusive since I moved; says extremely mean and hurtful things when he comes...
    PrettyB86 PrettyB86 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Had Enough

    My fiance and I have been together for 2 years. After 6 months of dating he cheated on me at some random party. I forgave him. After that there were some text messages to other girls I found out about. I really always had a little bit of a trust issue. It's been a year and a...
    Xxfoxy Xxfoxy 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2011

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    My fiance doesn't like weddings,

    being around groups of people, etc. and our wedding is coming up in a few months. If anything is discussed regarding the wedding, he instantly tells me he's sick of hearing about it (and I rarely bring it up due to his horrible response). He says weddings make everyone unhappy...
    comesthedawn comesthedawn 31-35 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I'm Stuck Here, And I Don't Know How To Get Out.

    After graduation, (I am only 19) I decided that I would take a trip down to Nevada to visit my family. My aunt had opened up a restaurant the year before and I wanted to see it. So when I went down there, I ended up getting the job as the baker at her restaurant. I moved down...
    StuckHereForToLong StuckHereForToLong 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    My fiancé made it seem like we were living a

    fairytale. On the day of our last venue meeting for the wedding he did not show up and left me there alone to find out thy what should be the last payment was actually only the second payment and we had an outstanding balance. While I was there alone finding this out he was...
    lanns lanns 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    It started out as true love.

    He rescued me from a terrible relationship and I adored him. We were friends for three years before we became a couple and engaged months later and started living together. My family adore him and think we make a great couple but only I know the truth. He had turned...
    birthdaywish86 birthdaywish86 22-25, F 7 Responses May 4

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    My Fiancé Stresses Me

    I have been engaged for 3 yrs and my fiancé stresses me out to the point I'm getting white hairs !! We fight all the time. Honestly at least once a week. He has such a temper that he blows at any moment. I want him to pay attention to me but he is too busy on the phone or making...
    Makda Makda 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    The Same Story For Me

    I hate my fiance so much, he's has been mentally abusing me 6mnths after our relationship, we have been together for 2 years now, and are getting married in october this year. I didnt know at first he was abusing me, I used to turn a blind eye but as time as gone by I havent...
    misskaur misskaur 22-25 4 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    3 Yrs And Counting

    I hate him so much. He constantly makes me feel like I am stupid and like I can't do anything right. He yells at me, pushes me, and then tries to say I'm sorry. He's the only one I've ever actually been in a relationship with. I am sure he is lying about smoking pot behind my...
    stucknurse stucknurse 22-25 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    I Am Getting Married In 5 Months!!!

    am supposed to be happy and excited..overjoyed...but am not. instead am scared am freaking out....after all i've been through i think am just getting married to make my parents happy. they like the guy n i am ok with him. we dont rly get along..he talk so much its like he never...
    afraidtoreveal afraidtoreveal 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    I Cant Handle It Anymore..

    I have been with my fiance for 8 yrs, since I was 15 yrs old & I believe that is one of the big reasons why I have stayed for so long.. because I just dont know anything else.. Anyway I just dont feel like I used too & I am too scared to leave as the last time I tried he actually...
    unsurelily unsurelily 22-25 5 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    This really sucks. Being in a bad relationship has been THE most taxing and draining experience of my entire life. As we speak, I HATE HIM and I am also still in love. Maybe what I...
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    I could talk to you all nice and stuff but I also be holding a grudge for something you may have done! It's a really bad characteristic 😑
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    I hate that I've developed this bad habit of sleeping late. Which has now become a problem. Because that's when the negative thoughts become strong. And I hate that. I hate that it...
    synergist synergist 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    my therapist tells me to accept that I cant change this man. what does that mean-to accept how he is. I fear accepting that it means all possibilities of change is gone and I...
    4u2heed 4u2heed 26-30, F Sep 4

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    Am I the only one here who finds it in bad taste for another EP member to just abruptly leave in the middle of a conversion during private messaging? It's especially annoying when...
    Cristofori Cristofori 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Pregnancy insomnia sucks. You're so freaking exhausted, but once you lay down you're wide awake.
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F Aug 21

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    I have been chatting a lot lately and it makes me mad when people just leave and don't say brb or I'll be back in a little bit please just do something to say your leaving before...
    create1908 create1908 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    You talked to me every day.. Made me to attached you.. then you left me without saying Good Bye... I want you .. but you don't want me.. it sucks.. :(
    AnnaKhit AnnaKhit 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    My mom yells at me when i wake up a 11-12 but My meds have a side effect where you cant fa asleep...
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    So I've been nocturnal for awhile now. I dont know why i cant sleep. When im up im not the happiest person. But recently when im up, started writing down my thoughts. Ive done it...
    raynbow32 raynbow32 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Am dead tired but can't sleep.
    Manhater013 Manhater013 22-25, F Aug 28

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    Tonight the one night I would like to get some sleep but I can't cause my sister and her boyfriend a fighting and to busy worring about them selfs then everyone in the house
    mtndew25 mtndew25 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I'm bored and tired, but my eyes are wide open :/ chats till I fall asleep anyone? Girls preferred. #notaseed #notacreep Lol
    NoJuanNose NoJuanNose 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    It's 12 am. I feel exhausted but at the same time I'm not able to sleep /:
    pricilagudi pricilagudi 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I haven't really been able to sleep properly since about March e.g. Going to need about 11 not being able to sleep till 3/4 then waking up at 5 ... But yesterday I went to the...
    Daisyellenrose Daisyellenrose 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    Mine and my sister's are always Bare bottomed Spankings... It's the only way to get the point through! Even known I hate it while it's happening I still agree with it all the way...
    MtnDewForever MtnDewForever 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    I'm sitting here looking at this rent statement, regretting that day I agreed to let you borrow the rent money, thinking of the 22 months that we spent living from family member to...
    truloveit84 truloveit84 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I think too much and it keeps me up
    cassieeeeeeeeee cassieeeeeeeeee 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    5:30am, and there's no end in sight.. all I want is to sleep, that is all I ask for. why is it so difficult? how can I turn my brain off, so I can simply rest? oh well, if I can't...
    fuckitol fuckitol 22-25, F Aug 23

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    I can't sleep, I wanna cuddle soooooooooo bad :( get your *** here please
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M Sep 1

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    Oohh emm gee!! Its 7:04am now and i am still awake. Oh no!!! Please eyes/brains sleeeppp!!
    Manhater013 Manhater013 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    B E S T F R E I N D !!!!!!!
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Too excited to sleep! I'm in Hawaii and found out I was pregnant ;p
    loveylaura loveylaura 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Sleep has been knocking t my door for two days I think I'm going to answer it now
    karlakashes karlakashes 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's been a while since I was last here. A lot of things happened. I'm not sure if any of you guys will read this, or care. But I'll share a bit of me with you. Please, excuse my...
    marie027 marie027 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    So I need to vent! Some lil girl just decided to state that she can't handle bein with a marine and that she didn't sign up for the relationship. How the hell do u get with a man...
    redneckarmygf2014 redneckarmygf2014 22-25, F 56 mins ago

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    I thought i get it all off my chest on here seeing as I was reading lots of emotional abuse and psychical abuse stories on here a few weeks ago that got me moving in my decision to...
    catgirl87 catgirl87 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    My father was never dedicated to my mom... He always has another girl to go back to secretly... One time my mom caught him walking out with 2 chicks and she didn't expect a thing...
    D3fau1THack3R D3fau1THack3R 18-21, M Aug 24

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    I am sick of putting my all in this marriage and him putting me down! I am a stay at home mom and he makes good money and when we fight everything is his and i feel hopeless and i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses 4 days ago