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I Secretly Hate My Fiance But Cant Leave Him

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    Thought It Was Love......but He Was Cheating!

    Was dating a guy for about 6 months when his "ex-girlfriend" called him like every week. Finally got tired of seeing the same number appear on his phone and answered it. It was the ***** ex-girlfriend. I talked to her as well as her current fiancee. I went off on her and said...
    sbgirly sbgirly 26-30 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

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    I'm Stuck Here, And I Don't Know How To Get Out.

    After graduation, (I am only 19) I decided that I would take a trip down to Nevada to visit my family. My aunt had opened up a restaurant the year before and I wanted to see it. So when I went down there, I ended up getting the job as the baker at her restaurant. I moved down...
    StuckHereForToLong StuckHereForToLong 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 21, 2012

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    My Fiancé Cheated On Me...

    i've been together with this wonderful guy for 2 years and a half. and he proposed to me when it was our 2nd year anniversary. everything seemed to be wonderful, the rest of our lives was written in stone and we didn't think that we would come across a problem ahead. we were what...
    effendyk effendyk 22-25 3 Responses Oct 23, 2010

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    No Solution To My Love

    I'm fairly young and I went into a relationship really fast we moved in together mostly because i was so sick of living with my parents. They are the super controlling type and I've always been more to myself anyways and independent. I agreed it would be great to live together...
    Littleflower19 Littleflower19 18-21 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    I Am Getting Married In 5 Months!!!

    am supposed to be happy and excited..overjoyed...but am not. instead am scared am freaking out....after all i've been through i think am just getting married to make my parents happy. they like the guy n i am ok with him. we dont rly get along..he talk so much its like he never...
    afraidtoreveal afraidtoreveal 18-21, F 8 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    My fiancé was so wonderful.

    .. I moved states to be with him. But he drinks and smoke pot, hides it from him family. I haven't found a job yet, currently stay home and take care of the household. He has become verbally and mentally abusive since I moved; says extremely mean and hurtful things when he comes...
    PrettyB86 PrettyB86 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Last Priority

    When we first got engaged, we were so happy and spent so much time with each other. It was absolute bliss. Then after the first year or so my fiance started to fade. Saying that he had to go do this and go do that. Making up reasons that he couldn't spend time with me or even...
    Talois Talois 22-25 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    I Cant Handle It Anymore..

    I have been with my fiance for 8 yrs, since I was 15 yrs old & I believe that is one of the big reasons why I have stayed for so long.. because I just dont know anything else.. Anyway I just dont feel like I used too & I am too scared to leave as the last time I tried he actually...
    unsurelily unsurelily 22-25 5 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    My fiance doesn't like weddings,

    being around groups of people, etc. and our wedding is coming up in a few months. If anything is discussed regarding the wedding, he instantly tells me he's sick of hearing about it (and I rarely bring it up due to his horrible response). He says weddings make everyone unhappy...
    comesthedawn comesthedawn 31-35 2 Responses Mar 31

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    My Fiancé Stresses Me

    I have been engaged for 3 yrs and my fiancé stresses me out to the point I'm getting white hairs !! We fight all the time. Honestly at least once a week. He has such a temper that he blows at any moment. I want him to pay attention to me but he is too busy on the phone or making...
    Makda Makda 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    Had Enough

    My fiance and I have been together for 2 years. After 6 months of dating he cheated on me at some random party. I forgave him. After that there were some text messages to other girls I found out about. I really always had a little bit of a trust issue. It's been a year and a...
    Xxfoxy Xxfoxy 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2011

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    The Same Story For Me

    I hate my fiance so much, he's has been mentally abusing me 6mnths after our relationship, we have been together for 2 years now, and are getting married in october this year. I didnt know at first he was abusing me, I used to turn a blind eye but as time as gone by I havent...
    misskaur misskaur 22-25 4 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    So. That's a lie . I don't HATE my fiancé.

    But he annoys the **** out of me. I don't know why I agreed to marry him, about a month after we were engaged I cheated on him with an ex. I felt guilty about it and confessed everything to him expecting to call of the engagement. He forgave me and wouldn't let me quit on our...
    jeniferis jeniferis 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    Why Cant I Leave Him,When Im Not Happy,

    im dating this guy that started out doing everything rite and now only after two weeks the dissrespect and true colors are starting to show, am i just now seeing things that i refused to see at first, was i like lying to myself blinded by love,is the honeymoon over
    sextons266 sextons266 41-45, F Jul 13, 2013

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    3 Yrs And Counting

    I hate him so much. He constantly makes me feel like I am stupid and like I can't do anything right. He yells at me, pushes me, and then tries to say I'm sorry. He's the only one I've ever actually been in a relationship with. I am sure he is lying about smoking pot behind my...
    stucknurse stucknurse 22-25 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    I am twenty-five years old and I have hated peanut butter my entire life. My mom first offered me some as a treat when I was a toddler, and I hated it so much I gagged and vomited...
    gladmadhatter gladmadhatter 22-25, M Mar 29

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    peanut butter sucks it's just awful the smell, the taste, EVEN the JAR! i just freaking hate it, my dad eats it my friends eat it my flipping coach/chemistry teacher eats it at the...
    earpollution earpollution 18-21, F Apr 12

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    I don't know why I hate people butt love people
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F Apr 9

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    I know i've shared with everyone that i hate peanut butter but it's sad that i like the song peanut butter jelly time my world can never be at peace with out nasty peanut butter...
    earpollution earpollution 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I think I have slight OCD because of things such as HAVING to sort out things in shops if they are in the wrong isle and so on... but that makes my life very organised which is the...
    LizzPixie LizzPixie 16-17, F Apr 10

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    Most people I know cannot be honest with what they feel about me, and I hate it. It bugs me when they go drink alcohol so they can have the guts to tell me. Man up and say what you...
    Kaksy Kaksy 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    So I met him again after how many months like 5 or more. We used to go out and have coffee together then I fell inlove with him but he seemed like not ready to take it to the next...
    Miya2727 Miya2727 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I found myself overwhelmed by a crush when I was 20 and periodically stayed in touch with her. I was a troublemaker growing up and paid severe penalties for my selfish ways. we...
    g3o1980 g3o1980 31-35, M Mar 30

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    Stay up almost every night because I can't sleep. I sucks because I have nothing to do or no one to talk to. Unless my dads not busy at work but it's gets old just talking to...
    boomargan boomargan 13-15, M Mar 30

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    Grrr....every night I fall asleep without a problem, but I'm up every couple hours for a LONG TIME. By the time morning rolls around, I'm lucky if I got 4 hours sleep. One or 2...
    seahawksmom seahawksmom 31-35, F Mar 30

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    Wish I could just tell people how I feel, but I just can't :( ever since I was little I've always kept things to my self and tried to battle them on my own. I use to think if I...
    pardz pardz 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My mom still likes to spank me, but I don't wanna hurt her feelings by refusing? Any advice friends?
    billy19887 billy19887 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    A great man is one who does not do extraordinary things ordinarily, but ordinary things extraordinarily - Zig Zagger
    Zaran7 Zaran7 16-17, M a week ago

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    I am returning to work after being off a week and so not in the mood to even look at other humans but I have to wear "The happy bubbly" mask.
    Hally2001 Hally2001 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    I'm not sure how many times I'm going to have to keep posting stories like this and it's really starting to get on my nerves. I am actually a lesbian and no guy will ever change...
    Snowfurr0LESBIAN0 Snowfurr0LESBIAN0 18-21, F Apr 9

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    "send me some pictures." "No." "come on pls." "Nope." "pls send me some." "Did your parents play kick the baby?" "wat lol, i just want pics." /headdesk/ *Blocked*
    Naxxaras Naxxaras 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I'm going to smash my face in to a wall... Every night here I am on this stupid app because I can't sleep.. :(
    YupThatsMee YupThatsMee 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Alright everyone, here is your task for tonight. Find a way to help this guy (<----) get back on a normal sleeping schedule that way I am not falling asleep at odd hours.
    Gino009 Gino009 22-25, M Apr 10

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    I have a boyfriend thay absolutely loves me and I professed a love that its not entirely there. I do love him with my heart but im not quite in love with him as I am my ex. Its a...
    sabedoria sabedoria 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    Seeing what some others in this group have posted has made me realise that I've, thus far, been unable to aptly articulate precisely how I feel about my OH, and this is probably...
    EponymousAnonymous EponymousAnonymous 13-15 39 mins ago

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    So this situation i am in is terrible...let me start from the beginning. 3 years ago i met a man who was a sizable amount of years older than me i was 21 and he was in his early...
    kdiggpants kdiggpants 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    this happened in Shiawassee county Michigan. on saturdat 3/15/2014 I came home from work to find out from my now ex girlfriend that her oldest son which I cognitive imparment had...
    kennyeagle13 kennyeagle13 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I dont want to go into a big sob story. I chose the mess I'm in. I know that. I just dont know how to get out of it now. We have been struggling financially since we've been...
    toughluck08 toughluck08 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I really want to leave my husband, we have 5 kids together and although he is a great father, i cant say much for his husband skills. He has an alcohol problem, he can't stop...
    Pissesmeoff Pissesmeoff 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    i have a brother with ADHD, my parents are split up, I don't have a lot of friends and I cant cope anymore! I know im probably no different than any other tennager when saying that...
    scarlet36912 scarlet36912 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Ok. So I'm worried that my fiancé might cheat on me again. We are in the military. He was on duty and I was at home. I started thinking about a lot of things. I always think when...
    Jaazaniah Jaazaniah 26-30, F Apr 8

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    My mother in law is mean. My sisters in laws are just as crazy as her. The rest of his family is weird, too. I am beginning to think my husband is no good for me either. Maybe...
    tiredofit44 tiredofit44 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    This post maybe a nonsense... -_- so there's a girl in my class who I hate very much, call her Lucy. She's such an attention-seeker and a crybaby who gets scared of every little...
    Tiffany98702 Tiffany98702 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I can't get over my ex. I have lost two amazing guys because of the fact that I can't leave him out of my life. Me and him are like fire and gasoline, no good. But I still can't...
    XOXO2011 XOXO2011 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Gawd :/ I seriously thought I was the ONLY one who felt this way. I am ALWAYS thinking that people secretly hate me. Even my friends. I always worry that they are just being...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Ok time for the rest of the stuff I've come to learn on my spiritual journey! Please read my first post on this if you haven't already. Otherwise a lot of this one won't make sense...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Hate is a very strong word, so I'll try not to use it. I have a stepson (he's 15 now) who I have been around since he was 6. I knew that he was gay the day I met him. That is of no...
    needinghelpbadly needinghelpbadly 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Valentines day was never easy for me.....I always fell into the commercialized crap and always got my heart broken, unfortunately old habits are hard to kill ...lol! So I find my...
    tbuns tbuns 22-25, F Mar 23

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    The title is my life. It happened 8 years ago. Wow, I can't believe it has been that long... At 7 years of marriage and 3 kids, my husband and I became roommates... I loved him but...
    swimminginemotions swimminginemotions 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    First off shame on you for using the word hate. Second if you don't love your husband please leave him. My wife just died and I can tell you it's a whole lot easier to go through a...
    Shmily68 Shmily68 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    I have always hated myself. I remember being a little girl and when people asked what I wanted to be when I grew up, I told them, "and actress so I can pretend to be someone that...
    Breatheuntome Breatheuntome 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I don't hate her but I do not care too much for her. Where to start. My bfs brother and his gf have been dating for almost 5 years now, so that means she have been around for a...
    Slumbergirl92 Slumbergirl92 18-21, F Apr 9