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I Secretly Hate My Fiance But Cant Leave Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 48 People

    I Cant Handle It Anymore..

    I have been with my fiance for 8 yrs, since I was 15 yrs old & I believe that is one of the big reasons why I have stayed for so long.. because I just dont know anything else.. Anyway I just dont feel like I used too & I am too scared to leave as the last time I tried he actually...
    unsurelily unsurelily 22-25 5 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    So. That's a lie . I don't HATE my fiancé.

    But he annoys the **** out of me. I don't know why I agreed to marry him, about a month after we were engaged I cheated on him with an ex. I felt guilty about it and confessed everything to him expecting to call of the engagement. He forgave me and wouldn't let me quit on our...
    jeniferis jeniferis 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    The Same Story For Me

    I hate my fiance so much, he's has been mentally abusing me 6mnths after our relationship, we have been together for 2 years now, and are getting married in october this year. I didnt know at first he was abusing me, I used to turn a blind eye but as time as gone by I havent...
    misskaur misskaur 22-25 4 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    My fiancé made it seem like we were living a

    fairytale. On the day of our last venue meeting for the wedding he did not show up and left me there alone to find out thy what should be the last payment was actually only the second payment and we had an outstanding balance. While I was there alone finding this out he was...
    lanns lanns 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    It started out as true love.

    He rescued me from a terrible relationship and I adored him. We were friends for three years before we became a couple and engaged months later and started living together. My family adore him and think we make a great couple but only I know the truth. He had turned...
    birthdaywish86 birthdaywish86 22-25, F 7 Responses May 4, 2014

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    Last Priority

    When we first got engaged, we were so happy and spent so much time with each other. It was absolute bliss. Then after the first year or so my fiance started to fade. Saying that he had to go do this and go do that. Making up reasons that he couldn't spend time with me or even...
    Talois Talois 22-25 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Had Enough

    My fiance and I have been together for 2 years. After 6 months of dating he cheated on me at some random party. I forgave him. After that there were some text messages to other girls I found out about. I really always had a little bit of a trust issue. It's been a year and a...
    Xxfoxy Xxfoxy 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2011

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    Thought It Was Love......but He Was Cheating!

    Was dating a guy for about 6 months when his "ex-girlfriend" called him like every week. Finally got tired of seeing the same number appear on his phone and answered it. It was the ***** ex-girlfriend. I talked to her as well as her current fiancee. I went off on her and said...
    sbgirly sbgirly 26-30 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

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    Why Cant I Leave Him,When Im Not Happy,

    im dating this guy that started out doing everything rite and now only after two weeks the dissrespect and true colors are starting to show, am i just now seeing things that i refused to see at first, was i like lying to myself blinded by love,is the honeymoon over
    sextons266 sextons266 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2013

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    My Fiancé Cheated On Me...

    i've been together with this wonderful guy for 2 years and a half. and he proposed to me when it was our 2nd year anniversary. everything seemed to be wonderful, the rest of our lives was written in stone and we didn't think that we would come across a problem ahead. we were what...
    effendyk effendyk 22-25 3 Responses Oct 23, 2010

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    I Am Getting Married In 5 Months!!!

    am supposed to be happy and excited..overjoyed...but am not. instead am scared am freaking out....after all i've been through i think am just getting married to make my parents happy. they like the guy n i am ok with him. we dont rly get along..he talk so much its like he never...
    afraidtoreveal afraidtoreveal 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    3 Yrs And Counting

    I hate him so much. He constantly makes me feel like I am stupid and like I can't do anything right. He yells at me, pushes me, and then tries to say I'm sorry. He's the only one I've ever actually been in a relationship with. I am sure he is lying about smoking pot behind my...
    stucknurse stucknurse 22-25 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    My Fiancé Stresses Me

    I have been engaged for 3 yrs and my fiancé stresses me out to the point I'm getting white hairs !! We fight all the time. Honestly at least once a week. He has such a temper that he blows at any moment. I want him to pay attention to me but he is too busy on the phone or making...
    Makda Makda 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    My fiance doesn't like weddings,

    being around groups of people, etc. and our wedding is coming up in a few months. If anything is discussed regarding the wedding, he instantly tells me he's sick of hearing about it (and I rarely bring it up due to his horrible response). He says weddings make everyone unhappy...
    comesthedawn comesthedawn 31-35 2 Responses Mar 31, 2014

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    I'm Stuck Here, And I Don't Know How To Get Out.

    After graduation, (I am only 19) I decided that I would take a trip down to Nevada to visit my family. My aunt had opened up a restaurant the year before and I wanted to see it. So when I went down there, I ended up getting the job as the baker at her restaurant. I moved down...
    StuckHereForToLong StuckHereForToLong 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    No Solution To My Love

    I'm fairly young and I went into a relationship really fast we moved in together mostly because i was so sick of living with my parents. They are the super controlling type and I've always been more to myself anyways and independent. I agreed it would be great to live together...
    Littleflower19 Littleflower19 18-21 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    So there's a boy I like and 3 days ago he asked me if can date and I remember what my mom said she said I can date at 16 or 17 and now I ready she takes that away from me...but...
    cassett cassett 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    I do love going to the coffee shops like Dunkin donuts or Starbucks but I must say I don't mind finishing up a old cup of coffee. Yes that may make me sound crazy but u know me the...
    Longislandangel Longislandangel 70+, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Yeah but the only thing I hate about them is I cannot find anyone to give me a real bottom roasting spanking that leaves the guilt gone and me in tears for a while. In other words...
    HorseAngel33 HorseAngel33 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Mostly it takes 2 hours for me to get to sleep. I don't even do anything just laying in bed but the sleep wont come quick. I have had a good nights where less than 5 min i will be...
    mrvr mrvr 18-21, F a week ago

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    How long do I have to keep waiting ? Not knowing if I'm waiting for nothing... I'm afraid he'll pop back up right when I have moved on and I'll remember all the pain he's caused...
    infinitexhope infinitexhope 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    this post is for straight guys and guys and women as well that do not flip out about jokes that include some sexism...and please if you are a woman, read the whole thing .. it's...
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    Will I tell him I love him even if he's not ready? Or should I just walk away and move on?
    iamreal2015 iamreal2015 36-40, F Jan 2

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    So today while I was on my way home, it's dark out, and a homeless man wanted to pick a fight with me for no reason loll, "Yo fking wanna die?". I was kinda freaked out at first...
    JamesLindberg JamesLindberg 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 10

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    When I was younger I lost my grandmother and I cried everyday for almost a month, and I cried and cried but now, I find it hard to cry, I come close Every Time but can't seem to...
    Hotdudez78 Hotdudez78 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    Going to be getting a very bad blistering tonight... I'm really scared to be honest. I'm going to need a new butt after this spanking. I guess I deserve every swat I'm going to get...
    Sweetgirl120 Sweetgirl120 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Ugh... why can't I sleep? I just have been waking up randomly all night and this time I can't fall back asleep. It definitely doesn't help that my little sis keeps making weird...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 3

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    For me there seems to be so much more to do then to sleep. I'm a night owl. I'm lazy during the day and wide awake during the night.
    Girlinpink0075 Girlinpink0075 18-21, F Jan 15

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    What's happening to me? Lately I just feel like everyone is against me. Nobody cares about me in this world. My friends are more like an acquaintance more like a close friend. I...
    gueswhobb gueswhobb 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Seriously. I've been online for past few days, and after few good laughs and talks, people suddenly disappear. I really don't enjoy it. I'm very open and prefer people to tell me...
    ManishLogan ManishLogan 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 25, 2014

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    See this is why I have trust issues ima just chill Fn I dont have time for the games that he wanna play
    amberloves16 amberloves16 16-17, F Jan 12

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    It's 6:19am where I live & I haven't slept at all !
    Loveelygirl Loveelygirl 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 5

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    I am so tired, I have had the most two exhausting weeks ever and I still can't sleep. I will lay awake for hours just staring at the wall :/ anyone else have the same problem?
    venessad17 venessad17 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    Having trouble sleeping right now. Can't stop thinking about certain things and people.
    Uoaman Uoaman 36-40, M Jan 10

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    Why can't I fall asleep 😞
    nadirah96 nadirah96 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I can't I always am thinking or on somethin!!
    IceUpSon19 IceUpSon19 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    I hurt too much to get sleep.
    itstiffanylea itstiffanylea 13-15, F 13 hrs ago

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    just got spanked for bad grades at school :(
    Theboy1997 Theboy1997 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    It was thanks to spankings with the hand and hairbrush I learned the multiplication tables, a long afternoon in the lap of my mom
    Theboy1997 Theboy1997 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    Sitting in my room trying to write papers with a sore bottom/thighs just may possibly be one of the worst things ever. It's going to be a looooong day...
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hello, I am new here. I had something happen to me that I have never seen before and just wanted to talk about. I was beginning to heal from it because of reading other people's...
    Fresh1414 Fresh1414 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    Recent events demand a new perspective to my experience with my mil. Everything we lived through with her somehow settled into familiar reactions from her, but with our changed...
    stellera stellera 51-55, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
    Lsngthsbttle Lsngthsbttle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    This is a fat story I just made up Hayden has always been a skinny athletic girl. She's prettiest in her class and is loved by every guy at school. In the middle of October a...
    peculiarghostly peculiarghostly 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Sometimes I think I'm just going mad since I was born in a Christian Family. Because of a such horrible past which I can't entirely forget, I always liked doing devilish things. I...
    jonnyland9 jonnyland9 16-17, M Jan 13

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    I was the perfect child in the perfect family. Good grades, sporty, i have ADD but once that issue was settled my life was generally the perfect childhood. It's hard to express how...
    Cannibalcheezecake Cannibalcheezecake 18-21, F 5 days ago

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