I Secretly Hate My Fiance But Cant Leave Him

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    Had Enough

    My fiance and I have been together for 2 years. After 6 months of dating he cheated on me at some random party. I forgave him. After that there were some text messages to other girls I found out about. I really always had a little bit of a trust issue. It's been a year and a...
    Xxfoxy Xxfoxy
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 4, 2011

    ** warning this is a bit long*** I can't stand

    him but love him more than you could even understand.when have been together since I was 13. We have two kids. The oldest is 5 years and the youngest is 7 months. He doesn't respect me. He makes me feel as if I am the stupidest person ever and even calls me a laymen. Our...
    Mkz9410 Mkz9410
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 21

    Why Cant I Leave Him,When Im Not Happy,

    im dating this guy that started out doing everything rite and now only after two weeks the dissrespect and true colors are starting to show, am i just now seeing things that i refused to see at first, was i like lying to myself blinded by love,is the honeymoon over
    sextons266 sextons266
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2013

    Okay, so I met my fiance 3 years ago.

    Within 6 months, he proposed to me. 8 months after he proposed to me, I allowed him & 2 of his kids to move in. This is when my nightmare began. Prior to him moving in i developed a close relationship with his mother who warned me about her son. I was naive & thought that maybe...
    stepmominpgh stepmominpgh
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Sep 30, 2015

    My Fiancé Cheated On Me...

    i've been together with this wonderful guy for 2 years and a half. and he proposed to me when it was our 2nd year anniversary. everything seemed to be wonderful, the rest of our lives was written in stone and we didn't think that we would come across a problem ahead. we were what...
    effendyk effendyk
    22-25
    3 Responses Oct 23, 2010

    It started out as true love.

    He rescued me from a terrible relationship and I adored him. We were friends for three years before we became a couple and engaged months later and started living together. My family adore him and think we make a great couple but only I know the truth. He had turned...
    birthdaywish86 birthdaywish86
    22-25, F
    7 Responses May 4, 2014

    I'm Stuck Here, And I Don't Know How To Get Out.

    After graduation, (I am only 19) I decided that I would take a trip down to Nevada to visit my family. My aunt had opened up a restaurant the year before and I wanted to see it. So when I went down there, I ended up getting the job as the baker at her restaurant. I moved down...
    StuckHereForToLong StuckHereForToLong
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 21, 2012

    I Cant Handle It Anymore..

    I have been with my fiance for 8 yrs, since I was 15 yrs old & I believe that is one of the big reasons why I have stayed for so long.. because I just dont know anything else.. Anyway I just dont feel like I used too & I am too scared to leave as the last time I tried he actually...
    unsurelily unsurelily
    22-25
    5 Responses Mar 18, 2012

    Okay so I was friends with my fiance

    for 7 years before we ever started dating. We started dating when I was about to go off to college but wasn't able to because I got pregnant from my ex. He was there for me throughout the majority of my pregnancy and through my delivery. At that point I truly believed he was the...
    ChelseaCheree ChelseaCheree
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 8, 2015

    My fiance doesn't like weddings,

    being around groups of people, etc. and our wedding is coming up in a few months. If anything is discussed regarding the wedding, he instantly tells me he's sick of hearing about it (and I rarely bring it up due to his horrible response). He says weddings make everyone unhappy...
    comesthedawn comesthedawn
    31-35
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2014

    Thought It Was Love......but He Was Cheating!

    Was dating a guy for about 6 months when his "ex-girlfriend" called him like every week. Finally got tired of seeing the same number appear on his phone and answered it. It was the ***** ex-girlfriend. I talked to her as well as her current fiancee. I went off on her and said...
    sbgirly sbgirly
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 13, 2012

    So. That's a lie . I don't HATE my fiancé.

    But he annoys the **** out of me. I don't know why I agreed to marry him, about a month after we were engaged I cheated on him with an ex. I felt guilty about it and confessed everything to him expecting to call of the engagement. He forgave me and wouldn't let me quit on our...
    jeniferis jeniferis
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2014

    My fiancé made it seem like we were living a

    fairytale. On the day of our last venue meeting for the wedding he did not show up and left me there alone to find out thy what should be the last payment was actually only the second payment and we had an outstanding balance. While I was there alone finding this out he was...
    lanns lanns
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jun 30, 2014

    My Fiancé Stresses Me

    I have been engaged for 3 yrs and my fiancé stresses me out to the point I'm getting white hairs !! We fight all the time. Honestly at least once a week. He has such a temper that he blows at any moment. I want him to pay attention to me but he is too busy on the phone or making...
    Makda Makda
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 1, 2013

    3 Yrs And Counting

    I hate him so much. He constantly makes me feel like I am stupid and like I can't do anything right. He yells at me, pushes me, and then tries to say I'm sorry. He's the only one I've ever actually been in a relationship with. I am sure he is lying about smoking pot behind my...
    stucknurse stucknurse
    22-25
    1 Response Jul 12, 2012

    No Solution To My Love

    I'm fairly young and I went into a relationship really fast we moved in together mostly because i was so sick of living with my parents. They are the super controlling type and I've always been more to myself anyways and independent. I agreed it would be great to live together...
    Littleflower19 Littleflower19
    18-21
    1 Response Jan 6, 2013

    Last Priority

    When we first got engaged, we were so happy and spent so much time with each other. It was absolute bliss. Then after the first year or so my fiance started to fade. Saying that he had to go do this and go do that. Making up reasons that he couldn't spend time with me or even...
    Talois Talois
    22-25
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

    The Same Story For Me

    I hate my fiance so much, he's has been mentally abusing me 6mnths after our relationship, we have been together for 2 years now, and are getting married in october this year. I didnt know at first he was abusing me, I used to turn a blind eye but as time as gone by I havent...
    misskaur misskaur
    22-25
    4 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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