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I Secretly Hate My Fiance But Cant Leave Him

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    My Fiancé Stresses Me

    I have been engaged for 3 yrs and my fiancé stresses me out to the point I'm getting white hairs !! We fight all the time. Honestly at least once a week. He has such a temper that he blows at any moment. I want him to pay attention to me but he is too busy on the phone or making...
    Makda Makda 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 1, 2013

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    My Fiancé Cheated On Me...

    i've been together with this wonderful guy for 2 years and a half. and he proposed to me when it was our 2nd year anniversary. everything seemed to be wonderful, the rest of our lives was written in stone and we didn't think that we would come across a problem ahead. we were what...
    effendyk effendyk 22-25 3 Responses Oct 23, 2010

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    The Same Story For Me

    I hate my fiance so much, he's has been mentally abusing me 6mnths after our relationship, we have been together for 2 years now, and are getting married in october this year. I didnt know at first he was abusing me, I used to turn a blind eye but as time as gone by I havent...
    misskaur misskaur 22-25 4 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    My fiance doesn't like weddings,

    being around groups of people, etc. and our wedding is coming up in a few months. If anything is discussed regarding the wedding, he instantly tells me he's sick of hearing about it (and I rarely bring it up due to his horrible response). He says weddings make everyone unhappy...
    comesthedawn comesthedawn 31-35 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Had Enough

    My fiance and I have been together for 2 years. After 6 months of dating he cheated on me at some random party. I forgave him. After that there were some text messages to other girls I found out about. I really always had a little bit of a trust issue. It's been a year and a...
    Xxfoxy Xxfoxy 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2011

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    Why Cant I Leave Him,When Im Not Happy,

    im dating this guy that started out doing everything rite and now only after two weeks the dissrespect and true colors are starting to show, am i just now seeing things that i refused to see at first, was i like lying to myself blinded by love,is the honeymoon over
    sextons266 sextons266 41-45, F Jul 13, 2013

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    I Am Getting Married In 5 Months!!!

    am supposed to be happy and excited..overjoyed...but am not. instead am scared am freaking out....after all i've been through i think am just getting married to make my parents happy. they like the guy n i am ok with him. we dont rly get along..he talk so much its like he never...
    afraidtoreveal afraidtoreveal 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    It started out as true love.

    He rescued me from a terrible relationship and I adored him. We were friends for three years before we became a couple and engaged months later and started living together. My family adore him and think we make a great couple but only I know the truth. He had turned...
    birthdaywish86 birthdaywish86 22-25, F 7 Responses May 4

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    My fiancé made it seem like we were living a

    fairytale. On the day of our last venue meeting for the wedding he did not show up and left me there alone to find out thy what should be the last payment was actually only the second payment and we had an outstanding balance. While I was there alone finding this out he was...
    lanns lanns 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    Thought It Was Love......but He Was Cheating!

    Was dating a guy for about 6 months when his "ex-girlfriend" called him like every week. Finally got tired of seeing the same number appear on his phone and answered it. It was the ***** ex-girlfriend. I talked to her as well as her current fiancee. I went off on her and said...
    sbgirly sbgirly 26-30 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

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    So. That's a lie . I don't HATE my fiancé.

    But he annoys the **** out of me. I don't know why I agreed to marry him, about a month after we were engaged I cheated on him with an ex. I felt guilty about it and confessed everything to him expecting to call of the engagement. He forgave me and wouldn't let me quit on our...
    jeniferis jeniferis 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    3 Yrs And Counting

    I hate him so much. He constantly makes me feel like I am stupid and like I can't do anything right. He yells at me, pushes me, and then tries to say I'm sorry. He's the only one I've ever actually been in a relationship with. I am sure he is lying about smoking pot behind my...
    stucknurse stucknurse 22-25 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    Last Priority

    When we first got engaged, we were so happy and spent so much time with each other. It was absolute bliss. Then after the first year or so my fiance started to fade. Saying that he had to go do this and go do that. Making up reasons that he couldn't spend time with me or even...
    Talois Talois 22-25 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    I'm Stuck Here, And I Don't Know How To Get Out.

    After graduation, (I am only 19) I decided that I would take a trip down to Nevada to visit my family. My aunt had opened up a restaurant the year before and I wanted to see it. So when I went down there, I ended up getting the job as the baker at her restaurant. I moved down...
    StuckHereForToLong StuckHereForToLong 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    I Cant Handle It Anymore..

    I have been with my fiance for 8 yrs, since I was 15 yrs old & I believe that is one of the big reasons why I have stayed for so long.. because I just dont know anything else.. Anyway I just dont feel like I used too & I am too scared to leave as the last time I tried he actually...
    unsurelily unsurelily 22-25 5 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    My fiancé was so wonderful.

    .. I moved states to be with him. But he drinks and smoke pot, hides it from him family. I haven't found a job yet, currently stay home and take care of the household. He has become verbally and mentally abusive since I moved; says extremely mean and hurtful things when he comes...
    PrettyB86 PrettyB86 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    No Solution To My Love

    I'm fairly young and I went into a relationship really fast we moved in together mostly because i was so sick of living with my parents. They are the super controlling type and I've always been more to myself anyways and independent. I agreed it would be great to live together...
    Littleflower19 Littleflower19 18-21 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    I Hate When Guys Dont Answer.. Wtf? You Start The Conversation And When I Reply You Don't Answer. And When You See Them, They're Like "Oh? What Text?" Mhhmm. ._.
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    Hate this. Most of my body wants sleep. Mind vetoes.
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    I don't want to go to school tomorrow. I hate it and I'm always so tired but I can't sleep.
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    I go thru these times I can't be around anyone, weeks or months later I go crazy in my head wanting to be with someone. A woman in my life would be great but it's only a matter of...
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    FXCK!!! She's a total mind fxck!!! She's a beautiful mind fxck.... And I can't have her. She's like 18 or something like that, blue eyes and dreadlocks - she is perfection! But...
    MixedJayy MixedJayy 16-17, F Nov 22

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    Where I'm from it is quarter past two in the morning and I'm tired but I can't sleep this happens every night and I have no idea why the worst part is I need to get up at 7o'clock...
    digglett digglett 16-17, F Nov 23

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    I do have to revise but prefer surfing......
    thadoc thadoc 26-30, M Dec 10

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    Just no. I hate them with a passion.
    Lilneko Lilneko 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 23

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    I don't agree with the things they do, like I have nothing against them it's just that I don't think what they do is godly. Say what you want I just think its disgusting comment...
    Fvckbruh Fvckbruh 16-17, M Nov 20

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    the worse thing to say someone is goodbye. I knew that one day i had to say goodbye but never in my mind i had realized that it will be this hard  My best friend was the only...
    daphee daphee 22-25, F Nov 27

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    well unfortunately I'm the most loyal person in the world. but I won't keep people around when they wouldn't be anymore. cutting people off is sometimes very necessary. especially...
    RememberingSunday22 RememberingSunday22 36-40, F Nov 28

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    I had too much sleep today and now I can't sleep. HELP!
    Iamgroot9995 Iamgroot9995 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 6

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    I don't sleep enough and my mind still won't let me sleep
    ForTheFallen ForTheFallen 22-25, M Dec 9

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    I've been raped 3 times and Molested countless numbers of times. My rapes were all from my some of my ex's and the molestation was from family, guys or girls I knew. The last ex I...
    imateenagewasteland imateenagewasteland 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Then get upset when I say something rude . Like I tried to say it nicely. You don't listen .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    just listing to music. !
    EyelessGlitch EyelessGlitch 13-15, F Nov 22

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    I'm tired. Like really really tired. I just don't have the motivation to sleep. Is that weird? It's currently 7:21AM where I live. I feel bad. My allergies are horrible right now...
    TransmutedHeart TransmutedHeart 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 22

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    Been up all night prepping for Thanksgiving and trying my best to get some shut eye. I guess it's the excitement for today and my guests haven't arrived yet.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Nov 27

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    I'm dead tired as my mind still won't let me sleep. Bloody hell
    ForTheFallen ForTheFallen 22-25, M Dec 9

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    two hours. thanks roomie so glad my sleep doesnt matter.
    komaeda komaeda 16-17 6 days ago

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    sometimes it's happened with us because we are used to it more or less we are getting even harder to overcome pain.
    pskqwer8 pskqwer8 26-30, M Nov 29

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    Having to say goodbye to someone that's become apart of your soul is the hardest thing I've ever had to do. I'm crying as I write this my thought of just of you. Knowing I'll never...
    QuietEmotion QuietEmotion 22-25, F Dec 9

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    I'm not writing this to make myself sound attractive, in fact, I don't find myself attractive at all. I was invited to a high school friend's party, and he's still in high school...
    Theworldisminenow Theworldisminenow 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    So my bf of 9 years just threw me out in a drunken tangent. I'm looking forward to being on my own. It's been a long time coming but I'm not suprised, he just got to it before I...
    Lonesailor14 Lonesailor14 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Ever since I discovered I had feelings for my closest guy friend and was way too emotional, I didn't want to do anything stupid and kept my distance from him. He was always there...
    xxhappilyeverafterxx xxhappilyeverafterxx 13-15, F Dec 6

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    I rather be a friend~less loser then to have a bunch of friends who secretly hate me
    AngieM12 AngieM12 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    At first it was new and exciting. He was so different then me an I thought we could learn and grow together but instead he's Shrunk me. I use to go out and have friends and party...
    TheLovelyOne86 TheLovelyOne86 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 26

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    I have a friend who never texts me back. I'm starting to wonder if she secretly hates me.
    ParanoidGirl ParanoidGirl 26-30 2 Responses Dec 1

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