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I Secretly Hate My Fiance But Cant Leave Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 51 People

    Why Cant I Leave Him,When Im Not Happy,

    im dating this guy that started out doing everything rite and now only after two weeks the dissrespect and true colors are starting to show, am i just now seeing things that i refused to see at first, was i like lying to myself blinded by love,is the honeymoon over
    sextons266 sextons266 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2013

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    3 Yrs And Counting

    I hate him so much. He constantly makes me feel like I am stupid and like I can't do anything right. He yells at me, pushes me, and then tries to say I'm sorry. He's the only one I've ever actually been in a relationship with. I am sure he is lying about smoking pot behind my...
    stucknurse stucknurse 22-25 1 Response Jul 12, 2012

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    Last Priority

    When we first got engaged, we were so happy and spent so much time with each other. It was absolute bliss. Then after the first year or so my fiance started to fade. Saying that he had to go do this and go do that. Making up reasons that he couldn't spend time with me or even...
    Talois Talois 22-25 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Okay so I was friends with my fiance

    for 7 years before we ever started dating. We started dating when I was about to go off to college but wasn't able to because I got pregnant from my ex. He was there for me throughout the majority of my pregnancy and through my delivery. At that point I truly believed he was the...
    ChelseaCheree ChelseaCheree 18-21, F 1 Response May 8

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    No Solution To My Love

    I'm fairly young and I went into a relationship really fast we moved in together mostly because i was so sick of living with my parents. They are the super controlling type and I've always been more to myself anyways and independent. I agreed it would be great to live together...
    Littleflower19 Littleflower19 18-21 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    Thought It Was Love......but He Was Cheating!

    Was dating a guy for about 6 months when his "ex-girlfriend" called him like every week. Finally got tired of seeing the same number appear on his phone and answered it. It was the ***** ex-girlfriend. I talked to her as well as her current fiancee. I went off on her and said...
    sbgirly sbgirly 26-30 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

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    It started out as true love.

    He rescued me from a terrible relationship and I adored him. We were friends for three years before we became a couple and engaged months later and started living together. My family adore him and think we make a great couple but only I know the truth. He had turned...
    birthdaywish86 birthdaywish86 22-25, F 7 Responses May 4, 2014

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    My Fiancé Stresses Me

    I have been engaged for 3 yrs and my fiancé stresses me out to the point I'm getting white hairs !! We fight all the time. Honestly at least once a week. He has such a temper that he blows at any moment. I want him to pay attention to me but he is too busy on the phone or making...
    Makda Makda 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 1, 2013

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    My fiance doesn't like weddings,

    being around groups of people, etc. and our wedding is coming up in a few months. If anything is discussed regarding the wedding, he instantly tells me he's sick of hearing about it (and I rarely bring it up due to his horrible response). He says weddings make everyone unhappy...
    comesthedawn comesthedawn 31-35 2 Responses Mar 31, 2014

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    My fiancé made it seem like we were living a

    fairytale. On the day of our last venue meeting for the wedding he did not show up and left me there alone to find out thy what should be the last payment was actually only the second payment and we had an outstanding balance. While I was there alone finding this out he was...
    lanns lanns 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    I Cant Handle It Anymore..

    I have been with my fiance for 8 yrs, since I was 15 yrs old & I believe that is one of the big reasons why I have stayed for so long.. because I just dont know anything else.. Anyway I just dont feel like I used too & I am too scared to leave as the last time I tried he actually...
    unsurelily unsurelily 22-25 5 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    My Fiancé Cheated On Me...

    i've been together with this wonderful guy for 2 years and a half. and he proposed to me when it was our 2nd year anniversary. everything seemed to be wonderful, the rest of our lives was written in stone and we didn't think that we would come across a problem ahead. we were what...
    effendyk effendyk 22-25 3 Responses Oct 23, 2010

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    Had Enough

    My fiance and I have been together for 2 years. After 6 months of dating he cheated on me at some random party. I forgave him. After that there were some text messages to other girls I found out about. I really always had a little bit of a trust issue. It's been a year and a...
    Xxfoxy Xxfoxy 22-25, F 1 Response May 4, 2011

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    So. That's a lie . I don't HATE my fiancé.

    But he annoys the **** out of me. I don't know why I agreed to marry him, about a month after we were engaged I cheated on him with an ex. I felt guilty about it and confessed everything to him expecting to call of the engagement. He forgave me and wouldn't let me quit on our...
    jeniferis jeniferis 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    The Same Story For Me

    I hate my fiance so much, he's has been mentally abusing me 6mnths after our relationship, we have been together for 2 years now, and are getting married in october this year. I didnt know at first he was abusing me, I used to turn a blind eye but as time as gone by I havent...
    misskaur misskaur 22-25 4 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    I'm Stuck Here, And I Don't Know How To Get Out.

    After graduation, (I am only 19) I decided that I would take a trip down to Nevada to visit my family. My aunt had opened up a restaurant the year before and I wanted to see it. So when I went down there, I ended up getting the job as the baker at her restaurant. I moved down...
    StuckHereForToLong StuckHereForToLong 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    Don't let it drag out if you hate your husband. Leave him. Otherwise you will end up maybe like me and have no money, no house and a person you don't want to take care of in your...
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    I'm a kind and gentle person. But I will **** you up if need be.
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    This is my first post and I am just so mad that I had to post something somewhere. I am 21 years old and Asian roots, with classic stereotypical family. So I live in london and am...
    muqu muqu 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    It causes me so much pain physically because my muscles tense up all the time then it hurts so much. It makes me back out of being out of the house i cant leave the house without...
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    I'm sorry. I hate goodbyes but my problems are my burden and my responsibility. I cannot drag you down with me, if you wanna remember me, God knows why, but if you do wanna...
    JamesAlcock JamesAlcock 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Forever still chasing me, I cant help but wonder why. You ruined my life and you expect me to forget. You act as if I owe you something but I do not. You dont seem to take hints...
    sketchmylife4me sketchmylife4me 22-25 5 days ago

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    Damn whatever going through my mind now are pretty exciting but they make me not sleeping -_-
    MienaMena MienaMena 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Been kinda missing someone lately that i use to know.I know it was for the best,but i still think about him.He was my first real friend and he was there for me lots of times.Tried...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I'm used to being ignored at school. I've been ignored, bullied, and excluded for 11 years in my school and I'm already used to it. I can't wait to be out of school in 2 years. I...
    adriana0102 adriana0102 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I cant sleep so i might as well get stuff done.
    HigherCalling HigherCalling 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    They suck every time..Even though you know there for the best
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F a week ago

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    i would do ANYTHING to take back that awful mistake. my fiance and i had been having problems. at one point, i'd almost convinced myself that i wanted to dump him and find someone...
    fadedphoenix fadedphoenix 22-25, F a week ago

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    His wife's dad died today. I know he needs to be there for her and it's killing me. The thought of him comforting her has me all depressed and weepy. It makes me feel like an...
    lilimartelini lilimartelini 51-55, F a week ago

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    I've been dating my man for about 7 months now, he has the most needy dependent baby mama/ex wife. he has expressed clearly not only to me but all his friends & even her that he...
    giinaxox giinaxox 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have had a backwards relationship with my dad. He was a great "kid dad" but has become a selfish bully since I became an adult. That is not to say events happened when I was...
    ChiChi816 ChiChi816 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    Ok so, here's a pretty long story about a guy that my dad knows. This old guy, i think he's around 55 years old and some weeks ago he called my dad and invited himself to our house...
    Cocaholic Cocaholic 16-17, T Jun 22

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    I don't know if breaking up with him was a right choice. I still love him and leaving someone when you love them especially because you think of the future is just really...
    xoabelxo xoabelxo 18-21, F Jun 22

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    OK, this'll be maybe long. I'm very sad and disappointed. My parents have been together for 19 years, they claim that it was great love at the beginning. Dad still loves mom, but...
    cutepenguin cutepenguin 16-17, F Jun 22

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    All i can think of is my friend. They are trying to leave and i can't be there for them. I miss them and it's killing me that they won't let me be there for them.
    BloodyVictim BloodyVictim 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I'm in love with someone I can never have. It's a complex situation, involving circumstances and distance, but the feelings are stronger now than they were a few months ago when...
    ally124 ally124 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    He told me he hated me today but he always make me feel worthless. He's always trying to check other girls out when I'm with him and that makes me feel like if I'm not wanted...
    Anonymouspls Anonymouspls 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    Right now I'm feeling like I never want to talk to him again - it will pass I'm sure. I'm resisting the urge to sign off first our nightly ritual of saying goodnight. He hit me...
    lilimartelini lilimartelini 51-55, F Jun 20

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    I hate spankings so freakin much! My sister basically raised me after my parents died when I was 1 1/2! my sister-in-law is married and has 3 kids! twins who are 6 and a little 3...
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    I'm married and not very long ago I found out my husband is secretly talking to men behind my back and jacking off to them it makes me sick!!! He is sick and twisted in the head...
    Angelwings821 Angelwings821 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 18

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    Sorry this is pretty long... I hope you'll read it anyway. At first, she liked him, she thought he was a very nice and considerate guy. He and I have been together for 9 months...
    Jesxica Jesxica 18-21, F Jun 18

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