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I See Myself As A Winner Even When I Feel Like A Loser

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    Right now I'm feeling like the epitome of a loser. I'm 23, have little to no friends, no boyfriend, unemployed, no car, no one to talk to or hang out with, pretty much no life. I'm...
    ConfessionsOfALostGurl ConfessionsOfALostGurl 22-25, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    i never really grew up with a paternal figure.my dad was a drug addict and he lived in another country,he and my mom divorced before i was even born.my stepfather lived in another...
    izzy66 izzy66 16-17, M 6 hrs ago

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    Right now even as I type I'm crying...everything is just too much right now. I feel so alone...I feel like I have no one. I go to school and all I do is get tormented and picked on...
    lizzielazylove97 lizzielazylove97 16-17, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I push people away because i'm tired of people judging me and feeling sorry for me. When i try to open up to some one its hard since i almost never do it yet when i do i feel i...
    yiyaa yiyaa 16-17 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I did something terribly stupid. I fell in love with my best friend and I jumped the gun. She digs me in some sort of way I just know it but I should have given her and myself...
    krickets krickets 26-30, M 8 hrs ago

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    I feel like a total failure. it all started when i got thrown out of college once&started at another college but left it half way. Everyone else in my family seems normal but i...
    zenii15 zenii15 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Living in the Deep South way in the country part living a country life where blue jeans and boots are a must, I'm wondering if I live a sheltered life. These ppl in the city, like...
    Cricket75 Cricket75 36-40, F 15 hrs ago

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    I feel like a loser on my new IG, can you guys follow and like a pic to help out!! :( @daniellabella1024
    Daniellab89 Daniellab89 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    I'm a loser and I'm ashamed of my life and because of that I pushed away people even when I needed them the most. I don't answer calls nor text from my friends and it's been almost...
    almasolitaria312 almasolitaria312 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    I work in the hospitality industry and I have started my carrier as as an Agent but after a five years of working in this industry I have moved from a hotel to other one for...
    Yassan Yassan 26-30, M Jan 5

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    The hidden secret of life I mean. I myself don’t know what I mean. I have a huge trusting problem. The problem is not that I don’t trust anyone but that I trust EVERYONE. I...
    avnn avnn 16-17, F Jan 21

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    Hello everyone. Up until this point (for several years) I have decided to stay silent and observe posts similar to this one. Now, here on this website, on thos particular group it...
    Abufihamat Abufihamat 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    sometimes, I think to myself.. what is the point of even trying in the world any more if people just result in not liking me in the end. i'm a very nice person and i try to belong...
    tirwin6471 tirwin6471 16-17, F Jan 16

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    I'm new to the group of friends I have right now and I can't help but feel left out sometimes. They're all great people, but sometimes I feel like I'm intruding, or like I'm not...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I am turning 41 years old in 2 weeks and when I look back at my life I keeping asking myself the same question over and over. I do not know why I was born or brought into this...
    ShyGuyInFL ShyGuyInFL 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 9

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    It feels like ****. The brighter side, though, is that it could've hurt more if he had felt the same, we'd been together, and then something bad and super dramatic happened...
    TiraVara TiraVara 22-25, F Jan 22

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    I feel like my life has no meaning and therefor I should not continue this dreadful path. I think that people have as much right to die as to live. Why should suicidal thoughts...
    nuttyduck nuttyduck 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's this kind of sadness that is starting to consume me whole. I've tried fighting it off on my own for as long as possible, but I'm getting tired. I'm just miserable all the time...
    alexis3000 alexis3000 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I feel alone in the crowd. Sounds depressing, doesn’t it? The other day, one of my closest friends celebrated her birthday in this restaurant. She begged me to come, even though...
    Nananat Nananat 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I met him when I was 19. We got married when I was 20. We've been married a little over a year and already I can see my husband loving me less and less. I was born and raised in...
    marriedyoungandconfused marriedyoungandconfused 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    I am loved by my one set of grandparents, my single mother of 51, boyfriend, and my bestie carey. I don't have any other family anymore :-( I don't feel like I can truly talk to...
    JessiAnn27 JessiAnn27 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    I cut myself as a teenager but stopped. Since that I used to scratch myself till I had cuts and bruises. I managed to stop that. I keep seeing myself cutting myself in my head. I...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 5

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    Hi I suffer from hard to deal with ocd, when I was diagnosed about 7 years ago I was really struggling and my binge drinking got even worst and I used alcohol as a means to deal...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 13

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    When they say, don't drink before bed, I ignore that fact and drink half a cup of water before bed. Even when I'm having a 3/4 quarter full bladder I can survive the night. But if...
    iTetra iTetra 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 15

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    I feel like there are so many versions of me. Is that weird? Yeah, that's weird... but it's like I open myself up to certain people. Some people know things about me that others...
    Froma2zee Froma2zee 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Im only one girl but I feel like inside me there are more. I still have no idea who I am. I'm scared. I get weird thoughts when I breakdown. I never had anxiety before but when my...
    JaineDoh JaineDoh 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've been feeling this more and more recently, I've become quiet, distant... I cover it well which I guess is what I do, but I can't do it no more. I just don't feel good enough...
    codenamekidnextdoor codenamekidnextdoor 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    Everytime I get angry I feel like an animal is trying to take over and I am going to transform but then I think I probably am watching to much Teen Wolf/Vampire Dairies.
    SaVaGeLyssa SaVaGeLyssa 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I'm feeling lonely this past few weeks. 2015 was a bomb. It's true as days goes by everything constantly change. I was happy and full of life my heart was filled with joy when I...
    imsoflhai imsoflhai 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    It's not pretty but me, myself and I are in a relationship with each other, the killer is we don't see eye to eye. I basically feel that all the goodness in me is being held back...
    HelterSkelter1 HelterSkelter1 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I heard this report on the radio today... It's from Colorado Public Radio, and it was a piece about children that grow up in poverty, or even homeless. They interviewed this girl...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    I know this might sound crazy or stupid or weird, I honestly think I might be the only one when it comes to this.. but maybe not? So.. when I first meet a person, they look...
    mcsunshine09 mcsunshine09 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I wish I wouldn't give up so easily. I feel like I always let people down. I don't feel good enough for any one. Not even myself. I'm just a weak, stupid, and pathetic person. I...
    christarose96 christarose96 18-21, F Jan 6

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    This has happened to me for as long as I can remember. I feel as if people just get bored with me. It's like things are really good for awhile and then out of nowhere, I'm only an...
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337 31-35, T 1 Response Jan 8

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    It feels terrible and lonely. i do have friends. really But sometimes i feel so left out. nobody notices me. even if i speak out i was often pushed aside. nobody kind to of...
    hazedmemories hazedmemories 13-15, F Jan 13

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    I feel like crap more than ever right now... I've never said anything because I don't want to upset you, I don't want to make things worse, but communications the key right now.. I...
    catho catho 18-21, F Jan 13

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    I knew I was different. I feel like I have been living a lie for a long time now. My family told me when I was born my eye color was black and I mewed like a cat. No crying just...
    caydiabla caydiabla 18-21, F Jan 14

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    For anybody who doesn't know the real me: I feel as if everybody does it. We all put an exterior out there that promotes our best features. Nobody wants to be that angry, annoying...
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F Jan 19

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    When you finally shed those trappings in which you have to act like someone else, and can just "be yourself," it's a great relief. Who knew it took so much energy to act like...
    streetcsi streetcsi 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    most days bring new challenging experiences in to my life. it is a struggle to face the world everyday feeling like a failure. it is even harder when folks look up to you are a...
    tsnuggles tsnuggles 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    Managers at one job didn't like me and it made me unhappy so I quit. Now I got fired from my new job. My housemates don't like me. I haven't been close with any of my friends in...
    msr1122 msr1122 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I feel left out. I have two other roommates, but ever since the third one moved in, I have been feeling left out. I feel like my roommate and I ( the first ones who lived in our...
    Via70 Via70 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Every ****** g day. Today (now technically yesterday) is my birthday and I feel like a giant POS. My wife made me feel like **** because she said she would cook dinner when I got...
    snake215 snake215 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 6

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    It's kind of a strange situation, that probably requires a whole lot more back story than I'm willing to give it. Consequently, this will probably be a bit short, a bit rambling...
    LostInCode LostInCode 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 7