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I See Others In Pain and It Hurts Me Too

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    I think it hurts me a lot

    when I see a loved one hurt, my heart just instantly breaks. I'm one of those people who can't stand to see others suffer, I can't help but give my last $10 to a homeless person or my lunch for work that day, just to ensure he/she does not go cold or hungry. I believe in...
    32forever2016 32forever2016 31-35, M Jul 21, 2015

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    Hart Braking

    When ''i see someone in pane on here or real life it makes me want to cry. Whether its from depression or my friends pet gold fish bob died it all makes me sad. I usually want to cry but never do. anyways....
    tomtombear tomtombear 18-21, M Aug 28, 2008

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    I Feel It Too.

    I see the tears that you hide from everyone else.  I feel the pain that you pretend that is not there.  I see the fear in your eye that says  you just want to give up.  No one would think anything less of you if they just knew the hell you were going through...
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    There was once a woman on the bus crying and everyone turned their heads. I saw her and felt pretty bad and wanted to something but she was holding on to child while she cried. It was a shame that everyone else didn't acknowledge her at all. I tried to make eye contact but that...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Dec 8, 2011

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