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I See Others In Pain and It Hurts Me Too

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 171 People

    I Feel It Too.

    I see the tears that you hide from everyone else.  I feel the pain that you pretend that is not there.  I see the fear in your eye that says  you just want to give up.  No one would think anything less of you if they just knew the hell you were going through...
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 2, 2010

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    Hart Braking

    When ''i see someone in pane on here or real life it makes me want to cry. Whether its from depression or my friends pet gold fish bob died it all makes me sad. I usually want to cry but never do. anyways....
    tomtombear tomtombear 18-21, M Aug 28, 2008

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    There was once a woman on the bus crying and everyone turned their heads. I saw her and felt pretty bad and wanted to something but she was holding on to child while she cried. It was a shame that everyone else didn't acknowledge her at all. I tried to make eye contact but that...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Dec 8, 2011

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    I wish I can take someone's pain away even if I have to feel it myself. I would most likely die of a heart attack though. I just want to be able to take away the people's pain even...
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    its a little weird, but if im reading a book and someone gets punched in it or i see someone get slapped, it feels like its happening to me and i dont know why. If someone has too...
    cece14779 cece14779 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I care too much. That's my greatest power and my biggest weakness. I really hate seeing and knowing that people are suffering. I wish that I could take it all away. And wars, I...
    supernerd22 supernerd22 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I wish i could take these two and remove the fear and pains of there young live away..... My wife and i love them dearly. There great kids in my book. They know where to turn if...
    ImHungry2 ImHungry2 51-55, M Apr 13

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    i always have a soft spot when i see people cry . so i will just try to make them smile or make them stop crying. i will also cry when i see people cry in the movies...
    xiaospirit xiaospirit 18-21, M Apr 11

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    I feel very relaxed around animals, and always have. I think that some people have a certain touch with them, can just connect to them in certain ways. I love them because they don...
    ViperaStellaris ViperaStellaris 13-15, F Mar 28

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    so so so true!! I went up to my friend, and I could just FEEL her getting depressed, and she drew a picture, and I guessed what it meant, cause it was crazy looking, and I said...
    StevieP15 StevieP15 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    Everyone deserves to be happy and if you're happy but the other person isn't, then move on. It's better for the both of you. Don't hold on to things that just wants to slip away.
    KayKay90210 KayKay90210 16-17, F Apr 10

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    I cannot stand when people are sad around me. If I have to I will dance around the place and make a *** of myself to make someone smile ahaha
    MixedJayy MixedJayy 16-17, F Apr 11

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    It's been such a long time since I have been on here. One of the reasons is because I live in chronic pain 24/7. I knew I wouldn't get better and that eventually, I would get worse...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream 36-40, F Apr 4

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    It's been such a long time since I have been on here. One of the reasons is because I live in chronic pain 24/7. I knew I wouldn't get better and that eventually, I would get worse...
    TwilightDream TwilightDream 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I wish the world was filled with rose colored glasses. I wish that everyone could find their own happiness in life. Emotional ups and downs take tolls on everyone. It makes me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 7

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    I'm hurt I'm upset I cry every night I've lost the person I love most I'm never allowed to see him love hurts whyyyyy
    Brookybear246 Brookybear246 16-17 3 days ago

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    I rather let myself get hurt than seeing others get hurt.if I have a choice to choose which of us gets hurt,I'll let myself get hurt so that others could find happiness....but...
    Nikki355 Nikki355 13-15, F Mar 29

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    I really don't know what I want to do with my life. I see others planning their life out and knowing what careers they want to have in the future and I feel stuck. I don't have a...
    Indomitable6811 Indomitable6811 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    In Need of a Mentor I've been blessed throughout life with gifted teachers, mentors, directors or insightful friends who expected of me more than most, accepted what I could give...
    breadcrumbscu breadcrumbscu 56-60, M 2 hrs ago

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    I wish there was an easy way to end my suffering. I often wonder what I've done to deserve to always suffer. I'm tired of the pain. The physical pain, the mental pain and the...
    St4rbright St4rbright 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    Those overwhelming and heartbreaking times I’ve seen when I look into someone’s eyes and all i can see is sadness/pain/tears! That moment when you look into their eyes and...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I just broke up (last sunday) after 6 month of being together. i know it's not a long time but it hurts really bad we both have decide from the beginning that it's something for...
    killingmeslowly84 killingmeslowly84 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    My two cents on animals through an essay I wrote for class: Title: The Duty of Life It is generally accepted that killing another human being is worse than killing a...
    BSAeagle60 BSAeagle60 18-21, M Mar 30

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    I feel as though I feel everything and I don't know how to cope. I have a lot of friends who disclose their lives to me, and I understand they need to talk to someone but as I'm...
    LadySweetz LadySweetz 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I see any emotion as weakness in others eyes, if I need help I will help myself. I spent to much time relying on others to be disappointed again when someone lets me down. To many...
    Georgedinozzoo97 Georgedinozzoo97 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    At least I think so.. I learned that others were actually out to get me if I let them be in second grade.. I learned that people lie just for the hell of it in second grade.. In...
    DementedKarkat DementedKarkat 13-15, T 10 hrs ago

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    Self-awareness is such a pain in the ***.
    shadowx1224 shadowx1224 22-25, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I always know when my period comes because of the pain. It's pain that hurts but isn't at the stage where I'm thinking "I can't deal with this anymore". It's like an alarm clock...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 1 Response 1 day ago

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    The truth is, I am too demanding of others.. You know when we faced disappointments upon disappointments in life, we would reach a point where we wonder what the fvck is wrong...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have been in chronic pain for 25 years, what that has taught me I would like to share with others, My life was perfect, our four children were grown and on their own and we were...
    darlingrose darlingrose 70+, F 11 Responses Mar 29

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    I am married to a black man and have biracial children. When I am out I love seeing other mixed race couples. It is so natural when that happens. I normally smile at them as my...
    momlovesoutdoors momlovesoutdoors 36-40, F 4 hrs ago

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    Well let me start from the very beginning. So this is going to be long. I was barely fifteen when I was sexually assaulted by one of my neighbors and his friend (this can be...
    AttachmentIssues AttachmentIssues 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    The conceptional myth that love hurts, do you believe it does? The truth is, love is just like any emotion that we feel except that we can have it positively or negatively...
    RestlessFlame RestlessFlame 18-21, F Apr 13

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    literally my life. I just HAD to start the day before finals. and the second day (my first day finals) is always the most painful. I feel like death right now and I'm so freaking...
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I have always been different, I knew it...couldn't deny it, didn't understand it either. I've recently had an epiphany of sorts... Before anyone else could and would accept me as...
    Allysoninaz Allysoninaz 46-50 10 hrs ago

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    Dear Fantasy, I have no regrets for loving you even though it hurts.You made it very easy to fall for you.Your beautiful smile, your sensuous charm, your sweet melodies, your kind...
    Tr3asur3dLuv Tr3asur3dLuv 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    My ankle is shot it's not functional anymore. I need it to be fixed so bad. I'm crying silently because it hurts so unbelievably bad but my family can't know. They would make me...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Too much pain right now, my back chest neck and head hurts my bladder has been playing tricks on me all day and sorry but I felt like having a moan, thanks for reading
    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I was diagnosed with it three years ago. I slowly started to realize that my level of pain probably wasn’t in the average range when it increased with each day. I sometimes...
    mishale80 mishale80 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I am so tired of being in pain all the time. I am tired of feeling like a complainer. I hurt so badly everyday, every step I take feels like my bones are breaking. It hurts so...
    Alli6372 Alli6372 31-35, F Apr 3

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    It is easy to judge others when you are not going through what they are experiencing. One would be surprised to see to the lengths one would go to just receive a bit of warmth and...
    rockingentleman rockingentleman 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 4

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