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I Seem Cold And Inaccessible

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    Me Too

    I never thought I was cold and unfeeling. I just thought other people over reacted to emotional situations. I only react to anger. Which I've learned to control because my mother lashed out at us and threw things.I dont want my children to feel the way I did so I kept my temper...
    tsp2010 tsp2010 41-45, F Jan 17, 2010

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    This Is True

    People have described me as "robotic." I'm actually very sensitive..
    Mdear Mdear 18-21, F Jan 8, 2011

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    Do I?

    I don't know, sometimes I wonder if I'm too standoffish to others? I know that we all have those moods that force us to shy away from the groups/crowds but not sure I am like that all of the time. I would hope not anyways. I've been told I'm unapproachable at times but I think...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2010

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    Challenge Day

    At school this one day we had Challenge Day and well uh it was basically like a cathartic, social event. I remember sitting down with the group I was assigned and having to share personal hardships with that group. It didn't seem hard but as I was watching each group member of...
    ashelin ashelin 18-21 1 Response Apr 18, 2011

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    In Real Life

     I seem like the cold hearted *****...but it is partly who I am.I need to be cold hearted so that I will not get hurt so easily. 
    reset reset 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    That's How It Is

    This makes me -me.I don't want to seem cute and fluffy,becouse I'm not.I'll snap off your ******* pride And your ******* stilettos.
    PhedoRuka PhedoRuka 16-17, F 15 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    If

    If I seem this way in the beginning it is my caution. My stalker made me this way and I am sorry.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I was born in Chicago and grew up most of my yearly years in Oregon. I join the USAF and spent the next 20 plus years traveling the world thru hot and cold climates. I retired by...
    jesusfreak247 jesusfreak247 56-60 1 hr ago

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    No matter what the weather, I am always cold. My room is right above the garage so it's temperature changes with the seasons-and through half of them I'm freezing. People have...
    sassysarah98 sassysarah98 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    I love sleeping in a cold room! I used I absolutely abhor all things chilly! Not really sure how it happened, but now I love the cold a lot more than the heat and I'm dreading the...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Hook: at night I pray to Jesus that they'll stop saying "please us" cuz I ain't here for their benefit I just do this for the fun of it and if I have fans, I don't care...
    LunarDream LunarDream 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 6

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    Ya I kinda like cold showers more than hot showers, unless it's winter. Otherwise cold showers are really quite refreshing.
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M Mar 23

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    Well it's pretty cold tonite ((like maybe down to 20 or 30 degrees idk)) but yet I have my window open all de way... Idk I like cold air wen I sleep.. :p just how I am c:
    xXAliCatXx xXAliCatXx 13-15, F Apr 3

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    When you're cold you can cuddle up in blankets with a pet, or a loved one, or hey, go solo if you want to. Then you get all happy because you're warm and comfy. But living in...
    behindthelens behindthelens 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    Always preferred the cold weather and wrapping up warm esp having cold bedding to get into at night
    EnglishEmpress EnglishEmpress 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Anything cold please! I never drink hot beverages - always waiting till it gets a little bit colder
    lecosc lecosc 31-35, F Apr 11

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    Much prefer cold weather to warm always have my best memories are associated with the cold
    EnglishEmpress EnglishEmpress 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have a theory as to why it's better to eat ice cream when it's cold out rather than when it's hot. If you eat ice cream when it's hot it's gonna melt and be all sticky and that's...
    TheRealLWord TheRealLWord 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I hate when I get cold and wet from the rain but getting home and having a hot bath always help
    Lisalocket1225 Lisalocket1225 18-21, F Mar 24

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    Best concert that I've ever been to! I love this song!! All my life I've been trying to fix things... Now it's time to fix myself. http://youtu.be/k4V3Mo61fJM "Fix You...
    Optimistic34 Optimistic34 31-35, F Mar 25

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    I may actually prefer it to hot coffee ( it's a close call)...although I do need it a bit sweeter and creamier when it is cold for some reason.
    classyandhung classyandhung 36-40, M Apr 1

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    Why the **** is it so cold here right now in California -_-
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 1

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    I live in the UK so you have to love the cold to stay alive over here. But I love warring hats and coats so that is a bonus.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M Apr 2

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    That's why I live in Florida, I can't stand cold whether.
    Maurelle Maurelle 22-25 5 Responses Apr 4

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    I love sitting by my log fire when it's cold out ❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️❄️
    Darkmoon65 Darkmoon65 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    My hands, how you torture me so. Even in the hot pits of summer my hands remain cold. Sweat runs out my pores. It`s quite nasty. Every time i use the subway i cant hold the...
    seraphinamisbhavn seraphinamisbhavn 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    The hotter it is outside the better. I don't care for cold weather, it takes too darn long to warm up;-). I just love to feel the warm sun on my back. Summer is coming up soon, the...
    PixieLeah PixieLeah 41-45 5 Responses Apr 8

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    I love the warmth. If it is too hot then find some shade and sleep. I hate the cold. I love warm evening, being outdoors. Hot sunny days. Plus hot weather means less or no clothing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 9

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    In a cold night, sipping coffee while enjoying the beautiful sound of the music playing summertime
    0silence0 0silence0 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    30 degrees and snow. I can't believe I was running in shorts and a sports bra only 3 days ago! But I love how it feels to step into a nice hot shower after a run in the cold. I'm...
    cpoppins cpoppins 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    The best feeling ever I say is cold bedding
    EnglishEmpress EnglishEmpress 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Just had my windows and door painted so they all have to be left open. Am now freezing cold!
    abi87 abi87 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    it seems all my life that I am meant to be the good friend, the good lover, the one person who cares about every single person I meet. unfortunately it seems that I cant find...
    zesta zesta 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    this seems to happen to me quite a bit. its like d@mn why cant it be the way i want it. lol life would be so much easier. lol
    hallowedwillow hallowedwillow 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Rather than being unable to hold a relationship, I never seem to be able to get one. I've never held hands with a girl nor kissed a girl nor even been on a date. Although the last...
    ArtSparrow ArtSparrow 16-17, M Mar 23

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    i don't know what to do. past weeks have been rough. :'( every area of my life seems to fail
    missyj89 missyj89 22-25, F Apr 4

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    Ok some people in my life seem that you could make something easy hard while I think I do everything Wong I hate knowing people step down for me I kinda hate it I can't do anything...
    TinaBuckel TinaBuckel 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I am having a good day then all of a sudden I meet rude/angry people in stores on the street, employees ,customers, black white, Asian, Hispanic,doctors, in person, online I've...
    Goldenchocolate Goldenchocolate 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 11

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    Optimum established like a man seemed up Aion Kinah Pathfinder, hence the name. Nearby a little lake and sea h2o sea viewpoint. Contemporary people a poem: "Huangshan seventy-two...
    apple4s apple4s 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I'm 21 years old and I have only hurt the people around me and myself for the past 5 years. My mother died in 2009 from an overdose (I grew up watching her pack down her soul). I...
    Teskine504 Teskine504 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I actually prefer iced coffee
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    It feels like my throats closing up. D:
    LittleListener LittleListener 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    The best band from Britain ever. Their music is the best, and only the best. Magic! :)
    karmadarling77 karmadarling77 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I just had a coughing fit so bad I threw up blood. No biggie. ✌️
    LittleListener LittleListener 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I'm ill how do you get better QuickTime
    Abbiesbackpack Abbiesbackpack 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    My favorite ice-cream shop😍 strawberry ice-cream with peanuts 😘
    RubieeCeee RubieeCeee 16-17, F Mar 29

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    ...on sugar. Yep. I said it. There's having a sweet tooth and then there's just addiction. I hate to admit it but I think I have become addicted to sugar over the past month or so...
    Hels21 Hels21 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    It's happening right in my town and I hate that nothing is being done. Just down the road, there are three pitbulls that are left outside most of the day. Chained and unable to...
    puberro puberro 70+, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    North Dakota it's pretty much April and we are currently in a blizzard where we are supposed to get 20 inches of snow :) I'm sensing snowmobiling tomorrow :)
    Justanobody17 Justanobody17 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    It's supposed to be better for your pores and hair andddd it burns caloriesssssss it feels amazing after running lol otherwise Warm water plz lol xD
    MyHeadsUnderWater MyHeadsUnderWater 13-15, F Apr 1

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    My roommate keeps the room at 75-80 ALL. THE. TIME. I have to wait until she falls asleep, sneak another blanket on her, and then crank up the AC. Ugh.
    ArguablyLonely ArguablyLonely 18-21, F Apr 1

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