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I Seem Cold And Inaccessible

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    In Real Life

     I seem like the cold hearted *****...but it is partly who I am.I need to be cold hearted so that I will not get hurt so easily. 
    reset reset 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    Me Too

    I never thought I was cold and unfeeling. I just thought other people over reacted to emotional situations. I only react to anger. Which I've learned to control because my mother lashed out at us and threw things.I dont want my children to feel the way I did so I kept my temper...
    tsp2010 tsp2010 41-45, F Jan 17, 2010

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    LifelessSource LifelessSource 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2011

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    This Is True

    People have described me as "robotic." I'm actually very sensitive..
    Mdear Mdear 18-21, F Jan 8, 2011

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    Challenge Day

    At school this one day we had Challenge Day and well uh it was basically like a cathartic, social event. I remember sitting down with the group I was assigned and having to share personal hardships with that group. It didn't seem hard but as I was watching each group member of...
    ashelin ashelin 18-21 1 Response Apr 18, 2011

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    If I seem this way in the beginning it is my caution. My stalker made me this way and I am sorry.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    Do I?

    I don't know, sometimes I wonder if I'm too standoffish to others? I know that we all have those moods that force us to shy away from the groups/crowds but not sure I am like that all of the time. I would hope not anyways. I've been told I'm unapproachable at times but I think...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2010

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    That's How It Is

    This makes me -me.I don't want to seem cute and fluffy,becouse I'm not.I'll snap off your ******* pride And your ******* stilettos.
    PhedoRuka PhedoRuka 16-17, F 15 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    I lay on my bed silently, feeling content and okay in general. I try to relax and ease up however I cannot. I stay still looking up at the ceiling, every breath I take seems to...
    Prevaricator Prevaricator 16-17 1 Response Sep 8

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    As the icy mist sinks into my skin I feel covered in sizzles, as if I were a freshly opened can of mineral water. They say spring is for new beginnings, but I disagree. For you...
    aknownothing aknownothing 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Sweat in eye. Or runny nose. Lol. Sunburn. Or shaking from cold. Yikes. Me has muscle disorder. Me shakes enough not cold. Me picks heat. Me no like cold...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 25

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    This is a totally true statement. I would much rather be hot then cold. I hate wearing several layers of clothes and still being cold. Last winter in Illinois it didn't matter how...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Sep 5

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    I've always liked HOT... hot COFFEE hot MEAL hot SHOWER hot PICKS hot MUST READ and I can go on and on...simple reason? I am a hottie! (giggles) When I think of cold, I imagine...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    my fingers are cold. my toes are cold. I am cold *~*
    bR0k3nWings bR0k3nWings 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I hate this chest cold! Coughing fits. Chest pain. Headache. Feeling hot. Feeling achey. Stuffy nose. It's not even winter! Summer colds suck. Go away already. Four days and...
    Ludavin Ludavin 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I much prefer cold weather over the heat. At least with cold weather, its much easier to sleep, etc. I find during Summer, its a lot harder to sleep as its sticky, dry & humid...
    rennie23 rennie23 22-25, M Aug 27

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    as kids i always been to a big camping week during easter. now easter isnt exactly warm but worst is that all showers on the camping place were cold.. and i mean ice cold. and not...
    Marceline2000 Marceline2000 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I "adapted" to cold coffee. I drink 90% of my coffee intake at work, and very often I get too busy to sup it straight away so it goes cold. Never mind... still tastes good.
    ConcreteSleeper ConcreteSleeper 31-35, M Sep 10

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    I hardly ever make my own coffee. It always gets made for me (luckily) and therefore I always forget that I have coffee in my cup. I always remember when the coffee is cold already...
    youngwarrior420 youngwarrior420 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    why is it that, on a cool night-like 60 degrees or so-my bedroom is burning up?? the fan is on and it is not helping and now I actually would like to sleep so darn it. it has to be...
    Risingabovetheashes Risingabovetheashes 70+, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I love the cold, I live in Florida so it doesn't get cold but I love it
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M Sep 12

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    Noi dont.. Lol I cant stand cold.. I prefer hot than cold!
    prettygoddess prettygoddess 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    Last night was horrid! Laying in bed alone and trying to get warm, no matter how many blankets I had or what warm comfy pjs I had on; I was as cold as ice. Currently having a cold...
    ErinTripp94 ErinTripp94 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm always cold its not fair:(
    Allanah97 Allanah97 16-17, F Aug 25

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    I need a personal heater. Cold has become an emotion for me.
    DayDreamingDragon DayDreamingDragon 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    Stone Cold Steve Austin
    Fitguy1984 Fitguy1984 26-30, M Aug 28

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    I always listen and remember every lyrics of Coldplay. They are part of my childhood. It feels like I am growing up with them ;)
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Books, drawing, friends, Sims 3, and Coldplay are my life!!
    purpleathena purpleathena 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I'm always cold. Just curious if anyone knows my pain. I live in Florida so outside is warm but inside is freezing! I have to take a jacket everywhere in summer!
    Bcori1999 Bcori1999 13-15, F Aug 30

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    I've been called a cold hearted ***** before. I can be, but I got a lot of love for the right people.
    TaylorRenee14 TaylorRenee14 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    fml, two cold sores on my bottom lip 3 days before school starts 😭😭😔
    biebbrauhll biebbrauhll 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 1

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    Hot cold,,,,,,its all good
    Goralski Goralski 41-45, M Sep 3

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    Stumptown's Nitro Cold Brew is so good.
    pxjt pxjt 22-25, M Sep 3

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    I do. Winter is my favourite season. I don't know why but I just love the cold weather lol.
    PandaLovee PandaLovee 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 6

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    I am a warm blooded woman and love the heat that the Arizona desert gives me year round. I have been in cold climates and hate the feeling I have from them.
    maturemominbackyard maturemominbackyard 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    When I get cold I always go to my bpy friends house so he can keep me warm
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47 16-17, F Sep 9

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    First of all i only drink coffee in the mornings when i work. And since i have to hurry to do other things too, my coffee gets cold quite often. I won't bother warming it up again...
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M Sep 10

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    A lot of gamers that Blizzard is trying to get back the 25 team is beyond reproach, but should not be at the price of the devastation of a number of 10 individuals. In edition 5.2...
    ykqlm ykqlm 26-30, M Sep 10

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    I make myself a coffee in the morning for the drive to work, and sometimes I don't finish it. It's a nice afternoon pick me up for when I get back to the car, cold coffee. YUM
    TwinkletoesNZ TwinkletoesNZ 31-35, M Sep 11

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    Every might I get cold I go to my bf house<3 - Kinnon Xoxo luv u babe<3
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47 16-17, F Sep 11

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    Goes from nice whether to freezing within 24 hrs, worst part about Nebraska. I'm so cold I'm wearing my winter coat:/
    fallout07 fallout07 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    Unfortunately Im from the south so it doesn't really get cold
    fookur fookur 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 12

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    Winter is evil.....the cold is evil. Simple as that lol
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Sep 12

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    Do you think it's possible to have the summer blues? Lol I hate summer! It's too hot and most of the time even if I'm doing something fun I can't enjoy myself because of the heat...
    cicisays13 cicisays13 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I love the hot weather instead of the cold weather. This is one of the reasons why my family moved to Arizona several years ago. My husband was transferred in his job to Arizona...
    momatpool momatpool 41-45, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    I'm so fxcking cold! I have 3 heavy blankets, long fuzzy pants, a long sleeve shirt, a sweatshirt and a robe and I'm still freezing. Thanks New York. And to know its only fall...
    happytobeanon happytobeanon 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate colds... Well, hate is harsh- just to have patience for them...
    Ziptie4777 Ziptie4777 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    It is actually pretty horrible. I just dont know what it is!. So there are like 3 cashier girls, within a couple of weeks or so.. where I feel something, and I start thinking...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 3 days ago

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