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I Seem Cold And Inaccessible

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    Challenge Day

    At school this one day we had Challenge Day and well uh it was basically like a cathartic, social event. I remember sitting down with the group I was assigned and having to share personal hardships with that group. It didn't seem hard but as I was watching each group member of...
    ashelin ashelin 18-21 1 Response Apr 18, 2011

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    In Real Life

     I seem like the cold hearted *****...but it is partly who I am.I need to be cold hearted so that I will not get hurt so easily. 
    reset reset 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    Me Too

    I never thought I was cold and unfeeling. I just thought other people over reacted to emotional situations. I only react to anger. Which I've learned to control because my mother lashed out at us and threw things.I dont want my children to feel the way I did so I kept my temper...
    tsp2010 tsp2010 41-45, F Jan 17, 2010

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    This Is True

    People have described me as "robotic." I'm actually very sensitive..
    Mdear Mdear 18-21, F Jan 8, 2011

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    Do I?

    I don't know, sometimes I wonder if I'm too standoffish to others? I know that we all have those moods that force us to shy away from the groups/crowds but not sure I am like that all of the time. I would hope not anyways. I've been told I'm unapproachable at times but I think...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2010

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    That's How It Is

    This makes me -me.I don't want to seem cute and fluffy,becouse I'm not.I'll snap off your ******* pride And your ******* stilettos.
    PhedoRuka PhedoRuka 16-17, F 15 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    If

    If I seem this way in the beginning it is my caution. My stalker made me this way and I am sorry.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    LifelessSource LifelessSource 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2011

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    I feel like a broken person like I can't make any connection with people emotionally, being cold hearted you don't actually realise you even are cold hearted until you turn around...
    ElizaChloe ElizaChloe 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    You know how when my heart was broken and didn't want to pick up the pieces? Well soon I picked them up, but the hurt and pain was still present. I was just a shell of a man. No...
    LuckyGuy001 LuckyGuy001 13-15, M Jul 13

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    When I was small I had a couple of paper routes, and in the winter it was so very cold here, that I would become terribly chilled. We had poor winter clothing and the adults were...
    therepurposedmale therepurposedmale 61-65, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I love to be warm, I guess I must have cold blood. Waking up and the day feels warm is a lovely feeling. I love the summer months. I always feel more relaxed. I get chilled easily...
    TamaraTheWorld TamaraTheWorld 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    Maybe I'm weird but there is nothing better than wearing sweaters and shorts, and curling up in a blanket. I like warm weather too but I love that feeling when I'm curled up with a...
    lilzaybae lilzaybae 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    ALRIGHT SO I DONT GET COLD SORES VERY OFTEN. IN FACT THIS IS THE FIRST TIME THAT I HAVE EVEN CLUED IN TO THE FACT THAT IT COULD BE A COLD SORE (IT DEFIANTLY IS). BUT USUALLY I JUST...
    ahhhFuck ahhhFuck 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    when youre cold you can just put on a blanket and youre fine. but if youre hot you have to suffer and suffer until youre cold.
    mewtoi mewtoi 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's sooooo cold!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Frankineedles Frankineedles 13-15, F Jun 29

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    I love the feeling of the heat rushing out of my hair . my skin getting goosebumps and my lips quivering from the cold.
    seybear seybear 22-25, F Jun 29

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    I love❤ 🎶 Magic - Coldplay 🎶
    jaynick15 jaynick15 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    It was a cold January morning. It was -16 °C and the windchill was -26. I covered all of my skin (except the eyes). My eyes were freezing. Like... the tears turned solid. Ughh...
    spammerr23 spammerr23 18-21, M Jun 30

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    I have enjoyed fishing in cold weather with a couple of friends. The temperature on the Green River this last late December was well below zero and the guides on the fly rods kept...
    PaleRyder PaleRyder 51-55, M Jun 30

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    Coldplay is my ish, I could listen to it all day every day :)
    Lanigga14 Lanigga14 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Taco Salad. Brown a Lb of ground beef or turkey, add 1/2 chopped onion,salt to taste, 1/2 tsp garlic powder, 1 tsp chili powder, 1 8oz can of tomato sauce. cook till well...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    So would I but in a cold..damp Britian you have to be resaulseful to keep hoy... My prefered method is a long hard session with a. Guy. Then spooning himm all night long between...
    thegaychef thegaychef 51-55, M Jul 8

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    I like for my room to be fairly cold while under big comforters and just playing around while cuddling. Best sleep ever!
    hgprice hgprice 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    I'd rather be cold than hot, but I live in Texas. Some days in summer here get up to 115 degrees. What do I do? I stay in my air-conditioned house with the thermostat set to 50-60...
    youthberry youthberry 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I was born and raised in the northeast in the USA, but I always hated the cold weather. I'm the type that likes it around 85-90 degrees Fahrenheit, and humid. I moved to Florida...
    PunkinH2O PunkinH2O 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    This cold is dragging along for both me and my little boy. He woke up with an ear ache today, think it's time to go to the doctor for a checkup.
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 36-40, F Jul 11

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    I've always felt like its easier to warm yourself up than it is to cool yourself down. So I'd rather be cold.
    QuiltedBathwater QuiltedBathwater 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    because dead things are cold
    KidAgony KidAgony 18-21, F Jul 12

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    i likes to wake up early in the morning and have a run.i enjoy it .the calm and cool atmosphere.but unfortunately yesterday was heavy rain when i went for the run.but i did'nt...
    nonsenseinnature nonsenseinnature 26-30, M Jul 13

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    I would prefer to be living in a warm climate instead of a cold one. Yes, I love the winter months with snow from a distance and in a picture. I do live in a warm climate love...
    nudistfamilyonbeach nudistfamilyonbeach 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm freezing in my bedroom and I really need to turn my fan off but like reptiles do when they are cold, I am trying to conserve energy by not moving. This will end badly.
    CrownedWithLaurel CrownedWithLaurel 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    i'm soooo cold!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    paige100 paige100 13-15, F Jul 20

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    Hot is like in the rain of the sea where cold is like the lemon of the pop.
    Okayurturn Okayurturn 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    I feel like I'm becoming cold hearted. With the way people treat me I don't see why I should be nice to anyone. Like yesterday this slutty girl from my school j walked across the...
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I get recurrent cold sores in one spot on my cheek underneath my eye. the itching and tingling is unbearable. I wish I didn't have to take so much valtrex or worry about the...
    uv521 uv521 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It's currently the end of July and I am wearing warm fuzzy gloves and long sweatpants. It's really uncomfortable sometimes, but you know what they say "cold hands, warm hearts...
    alisemichelle alisemichelle 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Funny how when you give advice, you actually end up giving yourself advice. I've read some stories on EP and have sought after answersvto my own problems currently in the zone of...
    defconfigueroa defconfigueroa 22-25, M Jun 29

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    Sometimes, though it may seem like it, I'm not a happy person. I hide my feelings behind fake smiles and laughs, but behind closed doors something else goes on.
    PartyingWithEllie PartyingWithEllie 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    I don't get along with Democrats either. I'm Libertarian. Republicans don't seem to understand that the majority of the ever-expanding federal budget is spent on military and...
    benjamin111991 benjamin111991 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    I honestly think I mess things up all the time. When things are going great I just seem to say the wrong thing. Then everything just starts to fall apart. I think I just ruined...
    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F Jul 18

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    Lately I've been living in the repeat button it seems like everything in my personal life is repeating itself Same experiences different people but those people have the same...
    samlellis49 samlellis49 22-25, F Jul 21

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    Everyone on here I can relate to and share similar experiences with. It seems like there are so many people here online are more accepting than those in real life. Why can't people...
    jacithepanda jacithepanda 13-15, F Jul 21

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    It's 80 degrees in my room right now. It's usually like 65. I am freaking dying! 😫 How dare my AC just break! It had one freaking job! Ughh it's soooo HAWT 😩
    Shanequa18 Shanequa18 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Drain & rinse 2 cans of kidney beans. Chop & add : 3 hard boiled eggs, half C of celery, 1 small onion, half of a green pepper, 1/2 cup of mayo, 1/4 C sweet relish, 1 clove...
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Yeah, I dislike romantic stuff totally. I am passionate in whatever I do but romantic...requires some skill if you actually want me to fall for it lol. I prefer it if someone...
    Suxa90 Suxa90 22-25, F Jul 2

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    .....cause you're a sky full of stars.
    asiasproject asiasproject 16-17, F Jul 6

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    I lived most of my life in northern tier states. I didn't mind until the last couple years living there. I was easily chilled and completely miserable in the winter. We moved to...
    lm99 lm99 56-60, M Jul 9