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I Seem Cold And Inaccessible

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    Me Too

    I never thought I was cold and unfeeling. I just thought other people over reacted to emotional situations. I only react to anger. Which I've learned to control because my mother lashed out at us and threw things.I dont want my children to feel the way I did so I kept my temper...
    tsp2010 tsp2010 41-45, F Jan 17, 2010

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    If I seem this way in the beginning it is my caution. My stalker made me this way and I am sorry.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    That's How It Is

    This makes me -me.I don't want to seem cute and fluffy,becouse I'm not.I'll snap off your ******* pride And your ******* stilettos.
    PhedoRuka PhedoRuka 16-17, F 15 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    Do I?

    I don't know, sometimes I wonder if I'm too standoffish to others? I know that we all have those moods that force us to shy away from the groups/crowds but not sure I am like that all of the time. I would hope not anyways. I've been told I'm unapproachable at times but I think...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2010

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    In Real Life

     I seem like the cold hearted *****...but it is partly who I am.I need to be cold hearted so that I will not get hurt so easily. 
    reset reset 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    LifelessSource LifelessSource 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2011

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    Challenge Day

    At school this one day we had Challenge Day and well uh it was basically like a cathartic, social event. I remember sitting down with the group I was assigned and having to share personal hardships with that group. It didn't seem hard but as I was watching each group member of...
    ashelin ashelin 18-21 1 Response Apr 18, 2011

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    This Is True

    People have described me as "robotic." I'm actually very sensitive..
    Mdear Mdear 18-21, F Jan 8, 2011

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    What I really hate is when it's cold outside, and my room is cold but my den is warm. I don't do well with cold weather. In bed, I have to wear socks on my feet and worse i catch a...
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I love the warm weather best. I do not enjoy being cold. I have been in cold climates in the USA and in Europe. I am in a warm place now and looking to retire here with my...
    olderandmaturefemale olderandmaturefemale 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 7

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    I love it when it's cold I hate hot weather. I love it when the sky is gray and it's cold out side I just find it beautiful :D
    herealways2017 herealways2017 13-15, F Oct 8

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    Ever since childhood, I had no issues with the cold. I was always warm, even just wearing a t-shirt and jeans around our drafty old farmhouse in the middle of winter (in Canada...
    cdndave77 cdndave77 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate being cold, its not comfy when your naked, which i am alot, and two some parts just arent full size when its cold.
    theridick theridick 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I always get told that I should have a better relationship with my mother but she is so cold, rude and mean to me. My other two sister don't get treated like I do. My younger...
    wisdom26 wisdom26 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I just had to post this! I have newly laundered pillows. I love the freshness and now it's cold both sides. Yey!! Fresh sheets, fresh pillow, and a warm blanket. Will be having a...
    lonelydinosaur lonelydinosaur 26-30, F Oct 1

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    It started when I was working nights and I brewed my own. I would pour my cup and then go back to reading my book .(I worked a job with lots of non-productive time and NO...
    CFOM CFOM 70+, M 1 Response Oct 1

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    I think I'm frozen...like my nose is red from cold! I wish there was someone to warm me up :(
    KristyGoesRoar KristyGoesRoar 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    It's so cold and i can't sleep!! Arghhh
    rupeeka rupeeka 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    Being cold is the worst:'( I need cuddles...
    Allanah97 Allanah97 16-17, F Oct 5

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    I love the cold and I love the rain, I hate sweating and being hot. Plus it's a reason to wear jackets an long sleeves to cover my cuts and punctures.
    Alaquesha Alaquesha 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    I hate my feet being cold, what a horrible feeling ❄❄❄❄❄
    mysticangel40 mysticangel40 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    I actually hate being cold but I honestly love this weather because that means it's time to wear my hoodies:) current favorite is the one I bought yesterday from the bookstore at...
    fallout07 fallout07 18-21, F Oct 7

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    Like forreal tho. I'm cold almost 24/7 I swear. And then when I'm hot it's like "oh no I'm gonna die of heat stroke! "🔥 what iss this? Gotta wear parkas in the summer now...
    AriHenderson AriHenderson 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 10

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    This is probably because I know I don't need one now. Or I don't think I need it ever in my future. I can't even see myself with someone and I wonder why. I try to imagine myself...
    Bumblebeat Bumblebeat 61-65, F 4 Responses Oct 11

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    I feel like I need to be a cold hearted person when it comes to romance because I always get treated badly
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Listen to life in technicolor by coldplay will change your life
    jon5400 jon5400 18-21, M Oct 11

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    I hate being clod in bed especially my feet . I hate it when my feet's cold .
    wildman43055 wildman43055 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I act guys differently than to girls. I get cold to them without conscious I dont know why actually like spending time with them even though they get jerk sometimes
    lisa1996 lisa1996 18-21, F Oct 14

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    Been having cold showers for 40 days now, no hot water what so ever but I am starting to like them now.
    TheDarkOak TheDarkOak 18-21, M Oct 16

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    i used to be a kind-hearted person but now i am cold hearted.. thanks to those people who push me so far... -_-
    ElizabethSwannTurner ElizabethSwannTurner 18-21, F Oct 17

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    Winters coming. Daylight savings time nov 2nd. Sun already goes down earlier. Gets cold here. Enemies exiled me from clubhouse. Using lies and numbers. A legal...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Oct 19

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    I used to wait someone else as my husband, my parents, my friends tell me how to live my life and do anything to be loved by them. Now I know I have to make the things happen and...
    WhenYouLeastExpectIt WhenYouLeastExpectIt 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    My room is the only one in the entire house with two vents in it, and it is always freezing cold.
    disneyalltheway disneyalltheway 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I hate cold weather. My family and I are now living in the desert southwest. I love the weather here and am so comfortable outside at home, beach, shopping, and running errands...
    maturewifeandmom maturewifeandmom 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love the cold and rain. Especially when I have to go out to fix something like broken gutters. Makes me feel alive.
    jonnyfun1 jonnyfun1 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Just woke up freezing cold!
    Ballos Ballos 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've learned to not tell people I'm cold at school because then they'll say "you need to get some meat on your bones" please-I'm a vegetarian
    katsrecovery katsrecovery 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    When I was in Europe I found it to be rather cold than warm for the summer months. I loved Europe but was in long pants, top, and sweater. I love wearing shorts, top, and flip...
    momfromusa momfromusa 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am 31 years old now and I have a family of my own and love it but I can't seem to keep a relationship with my parents. My son is 5 years old and neither one of my parents have...
    jcli5092 jcli5092 31-35, M Oct 15

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    I open my eyes to gaze at a figure who seemed as familiar and natural to me as breathing, he stood over me wearing a mask all to well known to me and his close were as mine were...
    Ericsoftpaw Ericsoftpaw 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 15

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    Dont make fun or judge people at first look they may not be as happy as they seem... I look happy at first look i will never tell people about my pain and thats just the way i am...
    LostInLife19 LostInLife19 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 5

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    I don't know why people walk on the other side of the hall... Snickering and jeering me on as they go... Im pretended Im liked... I cant seem to figure out why... Anyone else? Talk...
    ItsAdam2014 ItsAdam2014 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 6

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    i have a long story but i would really appreciate it if someone could help me. in high school i had no real friends only people that i would talk to during school but never outside...
    davnava davnava 18-21, M Oct 15

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    I am dating to people at once and still neither of them seem to ever want to commit to me. I asked my so called bf last night about our future and he said he was unsure about it...
    Deadlynightshade5 Deadlynightshade5 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    For years I have recognized that things happen in my life in opposite sets; like bookends. It has been such an obvious pattern in my life that I’ve learned to just accept that...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 4 days ago

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    love this song :) You go Meg!
    0LOvEsHaTeRs0 0LOvEsHaTeRs0 13-15, F Oct 3

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    Maybe inside I'm dying I just feel kinda numb.
    RazorToMySkin RazorToMySkin 16-17, M Oct 1