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I Seem Cold And Inaccessible

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 95 People

    In Real Life

     I seem like the cold hearted *****...but it is partly who I am.I need to be cold hearted so that I will not get hurt so easily. 
    reset reset 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    This Is True

    People have described me as "robotic." I'm actually very sensitive..
    Mdear Mdear 18-21, F Jan 8, 2011

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    That's How It Is

    This makes me -me.I don't want to seem cute and fluffy,becouse I'm not.I'll snap off your ******* pride And your ******* stilettos.
    PhedoRuka PhedoRuka 16-17, F 15 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    Challenge Day

    At school this one day we had Challenge Day and well uh it was basically like a cathartic, social event. I remember sitting down with the group I was assigned and having to share personal hardships with that group. It didn't seem hard but as I was watching each group member of...
    ashelin ashelin 18-21 1 Response Apr 18, 2011

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    Me Too

    I never thought I was cold and unfeeling. I just thought other people over reacted to emotional situations. I only react to anger. Which I've learned to control because my mother lashed out at us and threw things.I dont want my children to feel the way I did so I kept my temper...
    tsp2010 tsp2010 41-45, F Jan 17, 2010

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    If

    If I seem this way in the beginning it is my caution. My stalker made me this way and I am sorry.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 24, 2010

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    LifelessSource LifelessSource 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17, 2011

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    Do I?

    I don't know, sometimes I wonder if I'm too standoffish to others? I know that we all have those moods that force us to shy away from the groups/crowds but not sure I am like that all of the time. I would hope not anyways. I've been told I'm unapproachable at times but I think...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 18, 2010

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    I once lived on the dark side of the moon. As far as I know I was the only one there. It was a time of my life when my spirit of exploration was as non-existent as every other...
    lifeisforfree lifeisforfree 66-70, M Mar 29

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    I'm dying and there is no one to whine to *coughing violently* and *coughs some more* so I did what any person on earth would do and whined to the thousands of people on EP. I'm...
    absolom absolom 41-45 Apr 17

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    I had a terrible nightmare last night, and I can't get over it. I was raped, and I didn't know by whom and I was suddenly like four months pregnant. Everyone at school was laughing...
    kingbrizo kingbrizo 18-21 Apr 11

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    Might nightmare was actually the scariest of all nightmares in my life. I was basically walking in a cave like structure full of ice. but its weird because it was warm. Thennext...
    Haroldw Haroldw 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I love the dark and the silence. Cold weather brings them together. Also, I just love fresh snow and how it glitters in the night. I love the fireplace and hot tea while snuggling...
    sierraladeirdre sierraladeirdre 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I hate cold showers but when it's no hot water I stay take a cold shower. I'm not gonna small bad just because it's no hot water.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I have lived in cold weather when I was in Europe and here in the USA too. I prefer to be hot then being cold anytime. This is why I have moved to the desert southwest in America...
    maryannelamb maryannelamb 46-50, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I would much rather be hot than cold any time. I hate the cold. So glad it is finally getting warmer weather and time has changed to where it is daylight longer. I think I get that...
    68JustMe 68JustMe 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 7

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    As I read the stories on this page, I'm saddened that they're written by people who are so very young. What is this world coming to? I have been in the process of becoming...
    IamBeautifulandPeopleLikeMe IamBeautifulandPeopleLikeMe 36-40, F Apr 11

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    i'm often being cold in bed:( i don't even eat cold sweets. hot greet tea and hot soup works. but every foods in my country are too salty!! i have to cook by myself everytime...
    Theykillme Theykillme 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I would prefer to be hot than cold. When living in other areas than where I am living now I have been cold and hated it so much. This is why my husband and I moved to a new...
    oldernudistfemale oldernudistfemale 51-55, F 5 Responses Apr 15

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    So sick of the cold and snow. That's snow flurries. Again. It's spring you mother effer!!!!! The snow was finally gone!
    kmac72 kmac72 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I have blankets upon blankets! I've made myself a home with blankets! I'm just laying here cold! It's driving me crazy!
    Lexigirl12 Lexigirl12 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I procrastinate getting out of bed when it's cold in the room. I was about to get up and heard the ac vent kick on. Now it's a waiting game between me and the ac unit. Once it's...
    thebestyoucan thebestyoucan 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    It makes me feel. The cold is so real I can feel it all and it makes me real for once I don't feel like I'm just a backseat driver in my own body.
    nonamerr nonamerr 13-15, F Mar 29

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    I do love the cold. I hate that you can't have enough clothes on to keep warm.
    peppit peppit 36-40, M Mar 30

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    I was so cold last night I couldn't sleep ;-; I just lay there freezing.
    OneWithTheSkies OneWithTheSkies 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    My room is literally the coldest in the house and I kid you not, I wear woolly jumpers to bed almost every night.. #IrishProblems 🙈
    IrishRedhead IrishRedhead 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    but as soon as my heart breaks boom cold
    o3118152 o3118152 26-30, M Apr 4

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    Winter came back and bit me. Everywhere. Except buttokss. Very cold. And mad. And sad.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 8

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    I love the cold side of the pillow and I am constantly changing to get it....
    Micky7288 Micky7288 56-60 Apr 9

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    I live in a suburb just outside of Washington D.C. It is so cold here with all of the snow during the winter months. I love the spring and summer months for going to the beach...
    americanfemaleonvacation americanfemaleonvacation 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    The entire basement of my house is my bedroom which is great except it is literally always cold down here. Currently buried under 3 blankets and my fingers are still numb.
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    I need to control my feelings and I can't stop my heart from loving but I'll try I need to be cold like I used to and I need to become the player again and that's what I will be I...
    CallMeFaye CallMeFaye 18-21, F Apr 11

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    Having grown up in the Tundra, it's not that surprising I'm not so keen on the freezing cold as much as I love the snow although like most people I like something between the...
    Joanne0chan Joanne0chan 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    It started about two years ago, at first as an attempt to help my acne but then even when the acne was gone I kept doing it. I start every shower with hot water (like anyone would...
    TheRealAyyLmao TheRealAyyLmao 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    I don't get any cold weather here. :( Florida...
    AwesomeIBGuy AwesomeIBGuy 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 14

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    "Hey! I haven't finished yet.." "But it's cold!" " and?!.. I'll drink it either way."
    lozzenbee lozzenbee 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 15

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    But love cold drinks. And charging my phone. By truck battery. To talk to ep saints. Who survive the ep trolls. And other corrosive mooks. Then chat back. Lol.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Apr 16

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    Cold showers are a tool of the devil! Evil incarnate if you will!
    3Dogmatic 3Dogmatic 36-40, M Apr 19

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    I Really Dislike Summer For Some Reason. I Have Really Bad Breathing Problems And I Get Hot Really Fast . Can't Sleep Unless Its Cold . If Its Hot I'm Up All Night . But I Love...
    BabyMera BabyMera 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I am sitting her with fuzzy socks on. Columbia jacket on and a blanket and I am still cold. UGGH!
    savannaD14 savannaD14 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    no more fckin feelings. no more dumb thoughts about stupid a-hole people. how to be cold like ice to dumb strangers, but nice to your real friends?
    Felicitas23 Felicitas23 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Mmm love a cold beer at work.
    kmac72 kmac72 41-45, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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