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I Set My Wife Up To Cheat

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    So I recently found out that I was cheated on by my boyfriend. It's been a real struggle to deal with this because of conditions in which it happened. Since my boyfriend nd I have...
    Marquinta Marquinta 22-25, F 7 mins ago

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    Yes, I'm the paranoid type, I'll admit that. I've checked his phone for texts and there's usually nothing. But I've seen the setting is set to delete any read text messages. So...
    smilesofazombie smilesofazombie 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was going through experiences on here n I see soo much support for cheating. Really? My husband n I have strong values. To him those girls r nasty *** ***** that have no values...
    12pebbles 12pebbles 26-30, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    So a couple days ago I went on my first vacation with a man ever, my boyfriend of over 1 year. 1 Year 3 months to be exact. The second day of vacation I received a friend request...
    awkward11 awkward11 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband cheated on me with prostitutes. Two a month ago, and once in 2012, when we were separated. He had that one come to our house while our kids were sleeping upstairs. These...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    Yes i was the wife of a man that cheated on me, Husband that cheated with my best friend ,She was married to his best they grow up to-gather did everything to gather, that night...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I've been m@rried for 5 years (2 kids, 4 & 1 years old). I thought I was happy. Then one Saturday morning a old high school crush started chatting to me on Facebook. I didn't think...
    maendie maendie 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 30

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    My marriage is at its end right now. Wife is demanding her freedom after twenty plus years together. I was in an open marriage it's just that I didn't know or approve of it. I...
    SamStartingOver SamStartingOver 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I was cheated on but when the man confessed to it, it was during a proposal. I cried and cried and so did he. I asked him how he could do that to me when I treated him so well, he...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Hey everyone, I am new here but I have a weird kink! I want my wife to cheat on me, it turns me on so much! So much I have started talking to this girl that cheats on her bf...
    iwanthertocheat iwanthertocheat 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well for the last 10 years I have been married and over the last 3 years I now fear my wife emotionally. Since we had our first child life has slowly gone to ****. After our first...
    cyborg333 cyborg333 36-40, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My husband is working out of state and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I need some advice. I've been married for 15 years and have 3 wonderful kids. We've been going through a rough patch for a year or so. Seemed like she was always angry at me and...
    lifeinhell27 lifeinhell27 46-50, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Day 1 for me: About to leave my family for the love of my life until I found out she has been with 3 other guys over the last 6 months alone!! The pain is like a knife to the...
    LostSoul235 LostSoul235 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    Today I was washing his clothes and found a note written on a small piece of paper from a woman telling my husband to meet her at a motel room and how much she misses him. How can...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    I Hate Cheaters, I Can't Even Think About Kissing Another Man Thats Not My Boyfriend. How Can Any One Think Of Sharing Their Wife Or Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Husband! It's Down...
    KateMost KateMost 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    It all happened yesterday. I went out to a work dinner party and we had free drinks from my boss. We all got wasted drunk. There was a new coworker from Texas and him and I got...
    hellsvien hellsvien 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I have been with my wife now for 30 years and I don't think I can take it anymore. She has cheated on me three times but I forgot and forgave. I forgave her because we have four...
    jsk007 jsk007 46-50, M Apr 4

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    I met my girlfriend in 1994 (True Love - 6 hours apart - highest long distance bills ever paid in my life). In the summer of '95, I drove to see her again. We hit it off again...
    daveredding daveredding 36-40, M 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    It's simply disgusting when people cheat on their spouses and I will have no sympathy for these people. If lying alone is disgusting enough because you can't be trusted, now the...
    Close2You Close2You 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Ten days before Christmas my husband of almost 12 years at the time (together almost 18) gave me a kiss, told me he loves me and left to go shopping for me. It was a Sunday night...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    It's not complicated. "Cheating" is the act of sneaking around and doing something that you agreed not to do. So if you said that you would remain physically monogamous with your...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I've been with my husband for three years now. At first it was a nightmare he had absolutely no boundaries with his ex wife and his house was a revolving door for all of her...
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    I guess I just do not understand why this type of behavior would come across to someone as acceptable! As a person who has been on the non guilty party side I can say with...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45 2 Responses Mar 18

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    How is cheating alright? Even if you are in a loveless marriage , cheating will never be okay. Do the honourable thing and break it off if you are unhappy. I was called "naive" on...
    AdelaideHayashi AdelaideHayashi 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    He cheated 3 months into us dating with an ex who he wasn't over. I didn't find out until our 4th month of dating, after we said we loved each other. I literally found out he...
    berrybumble berrybumble 18-21, F Mar 20

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    I will write about this. I actually kind of want to have at least one story for each experience I've got listed, but I doubt I will ever manage all of that. I will preface the...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    I am a 16 year old girl and I am a cheater. I do recognize it's wrong. But I absolutely love it. I lasted almost 2 years with my last boyfriend, cheated on him with over 10 guys. I...
    anatomicalheart anatomicalheart 16-17, F 13 Responses Mar 17

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    I thought everything was perfect in my relationship, I had given up my family and my home to be with the girl, but not long afterwards she cheated on me with someone I know (and...
    Kurt18 Kurt18 18-21, M Mar 19

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    My last boyfriend was my first love, and everything was perfect between us. He told me he wanted to be with me forever, we were planning on moving out, and everytning was great...
    visionsofexile visionsofexile 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    Damn right i am, have been now since my ex bf went and current on came into my life, I cheat on him with other guys i meet at work usually or just neighbors. I love being able to...
    midschtch midschtch 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    Ok so from my previous post my husband has been cheating on me and I just found out. Before I get in to what I'm going to say first off I'm playing on living him but we are trying...
    chris760 chris760 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    My boyfriend has emotionally cheated so far. I am not sure if he has had sex with anyone else but he says he hasn't. So far I believe him on that but I don't believe him on the...
    AdaLove17 AdaLove17 26-30 Mar 29

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    My boyf cheated on me the whole way through my pregnancy, He cheated on me with someone whom had wished our unborn child dead! He let his child bond with me and my family knowing...
    charl28 charl28 22-25, F Mar 31

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    I can understand if you have a spouse who does nothing but mistreat you, abuses you in some way, just plain out ignores you. So you go find someone that will treat u better. It's...
    tinyhuggie247365 tinyhuggie247365 36-40, M Mar 31

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    Ok. So I'm worried that my fiancé might cheat on me again. We are in the military. He was on duty and I was at home. I started thinking about a lot of things. I always think when...
    Jaazaniah Jaazaniah 26-30, F a week ago

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    I have cheated before. I will never do it again. Can't think of many more ways to demonstrate, with devastating clarity, exactly how deeply you can hurt people you care about and...
    xeian xeian 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have been cheated on many times I'm sure. The first and most memorable was my first love. Cheated on me 3x and that 3rd time I cheated on him and boy did that feel good. He...
    GreekGoddesz GreekGoddesz 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I cheated on my abusive bf. I've lived with him 3000 miles from my home and family for 2 years now. He is insanely jealous and short tempered, also very immature and likes to start...
    Jevely Jevely 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am now on a life long mission to destroy the personal lives of cheaters who continue on their life of self lustification and self gratification. This being a long weekend coming...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend cheated on me last year. Long story short, he slept with her in our flat, in our bed I should say, and I found out the next day when I found him hypo-glycemic. That...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I have been cheated on alot. My first long term relationship ended in me finding out he had cheated on me atleast 5 times. When i eventually moved on, i got cheated on again, same...
    Soldottern Soldottern 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Do all men cheat on deployment? Mine does!!!
    chellabella76 chellabella76 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    been married for ever I think she has sex more with other people than me I know she cheats im ready for affair
    crazyaboutit123 crazyaboutit123 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    Over the course of our relationship these past 7 years we have up and downs and now it seems like everything's goes downhill again. My fiancé has an ex who is really close with...
    odalisr odalisr 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend cheated on me 3 weeks ago found out everything on the weekend. I kicked him out. He begged to come back. Everyone said to give him a second chance. So I did. I've had...
    Ruby2711 Ruby2711 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 18

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    I just found out yesterday that my girlfriend cheated on me with one of her coworkers. We'd been together for over two years. I'm so lost and confused. I feel so weak and unloved...
    MrStayPositive MrStayPositive 22-25, M 7 Responses Mar 18

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    I hate all the "I'm the other woman" "I have been unfaithful" experiences. What's the point in being with someone if you are going to cheat with someone else..if you know your...
    Irishlady20 Irishlady20 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 18

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    I drank too much at a party , and I ****** up pretty hardcore. I am in a relationship with a boy who cared deeply for me and I cheated. I feel like trash. I'm not gay I'm bisexual...
    BlueD93 BlueD93 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 19

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    My first boyfriend cheated on me with several of his ex girlfriends. I was 17 when I got with him and he was 18. He was somewhat of a player before me so I probably should've known...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I just recently found out that my boyfriend of almost 5yrs was cheating on me .. he confessed it to me .. so I gave him another chance.. has anyone ever been cheated on and took...
    cococrispies91 cococrispies91 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I think one of the worst things that has come out of cheating and ending my relationship, is that I'm in love with the woman I cheated with... It makes me feel like such a horrible...
    rajasaeed rajasaeed 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 21