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I Sex Begins In The Mind

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    A deep sexy voice, a kind demeanor, good conversation, gentlemanly manners, a great smile... You can take my to bed and spread me open any day.
    Lucy185 Lucy185 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    What a fool am I! Thirteen times a year I trick myself in the same way. When her period arrives I wonder if I will finally receive the imaginative and energetic manual and oral...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It was a nice weekend. The weather was nice and your family spent some time with us. We barbecued a little and when your girlfriends came over we blended plenty of margaritas. Now...
    Lovefetishes Lovefetishes 46-50, M Jul 18

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    Love Addiction - OBSESSIVE LOVE & DEPENDENCY IN RELATIONSHIPS Love Addiction (some call it relationship addiction) is a compulsive, detrimental dependency in relationships that...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    I mean it sucks but isn't it a great metaphor for life.... The endless cleaning up of ones own messes. Enjoying those few peaceful moment when everything is sorted and fresh...
    Z00Z00Z Z00Z00Z 36-40, M Jul 13

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    So this is my first post/experience. I am a man in my 40's. I have been married 21 years now we have the 2 most amazing children in the world. For 15 of those years our marriage...
    Tryingtobeagoodman Tryingtobeagoodman 36-40, M 9 Responses Jun 30

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    Last week on Friday, I told my stbx that we were done. Completely done. No maybe or we will try. DONE. He still argued and said it was bullsh*t but I stuck to my guns. It was...
    texmex82 texmex82 31-35, F 16 Responses Jul 17

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    Message me and see the naughty stuff begins :) hit me up soon
    SexyGuy09 SexyGuy09 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    Fandango Those reckless eyes lure me closer flashing brightly pulling me closer Telling me that you are on the hunt and that yours is a dangerous game But girl I'm not afraid...
    Warriorpoett Warriorpoett 56-60, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm 29, married for 5 years, 2 beautiful kids. Unfortunately like most here I live in a sexless marriage. I have for several years. Now some will say, your young and just not happy...
    incognito21 incognito21 26-30, M 15 Responses Jul 1

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    3 days...3 refusals Just couldn't take what she was offering. There are so many rules she has about what I can touch and when, that it's not worth the time. So here's what...
    angryspartan angryspartan 36-40, M 12 Responses Jul 9

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    I sometimes feel like i'm teetering on the fence of outsourcing or trying fixing things with my husband. Some days I feel like I owe it to myself and my family (kids/husband) to...
    asterinight asterinight 31-35, F 16 Responses Jul 2

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    There was this particular person who commented on my sexiness. So I asked him, how could he say so when he hasn't even seen me. His answer was like the words in my head that were...
    malipatient malipatient 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    SIX SIGNS OF A LOVE AVOIDANT (This is a Good read) 1. Evades Intimate and Emotional Connection In romantic relationships evading intimacy and getting too close emotionally is...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise 51-55, F 12 Responses Jul 18

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    Yup. I'm just one of those open minded people with open minded thought , and is very open minded about sex 😂 lmao
    MiaSnider MiaSnider 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Ok, so that first post wasn't so scary so why not a post two? I cannot begin to express how freeing it is just to have expressed it all. SM isn't something most people would want...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 1

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    Pelvic Floor Disorder. Something to think about. My marriage ultimately ended due to this disorder. The lack of intimacy and sex killed our marriage. For over 12 years I...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 15

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    I don't know if anybody else experiences the same but there is no intimacy not just lack of sex. There is the mandatory kiss goodnight....which I absolutely resent! We have only...
    forensicfox forensicfox 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 6

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    This is just an update on my story and I hope it can show other people here that there is future after a bad relationship. I read stories for here for maybe more than one year...
    mfur mfur 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 20

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    Observations from amazing night of passionate sex last night. Aftermath. I only post this because i use to spend a lot of time wondering weather or not I could go through w...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 27 Responses Jul 22

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    I'm not sure what I am to be honest, but this is the one definition that fits best. I have found myself attracted to male and females, but only after close relationships, after we...
    beautyfromthis beautyfromthis 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I was reading a post from someone who described their sex at the beginning of the relationship as just 'fine' and I wondered was sex mind blowing in the early days of your...
    celtusa celtusa 46-50, M 13 Responses Jul 2

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    I feel sexier at my current age than I did when I was 20. There's a certain confidence that comes with age. I know what I want, I don't play games and I realize that sexy doesn't...
    pixelita pixelita 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 3

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    Sex is fun. Its like an adventure with every occurrence. A woman's sexuality is one of lifes greatest creations. I am always think sexually. Doesn't mean its naughty, just means...
    incognito21 incognito21 26-30, M Jul 6

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    While this is about a sexless relationship, not a sexless marriage, there is an important lesson in here for those in sexless relationships because your partners claim that you...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 11 Responses Jul 13

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    It been a few years since I posted. I have stayed married and even started having sex, first once a week and lately even more. It's been a bad year, my father died and there were a...
    Katerinro Katerinro 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 14

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    I've been married for 17 years. He has help me to raise children from my first marriage and we have 1 of our own. He has medical issues that have lowered his sex drive. This...
    CrazyKatLady CrazyKatLady 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    First off, I don't want to complain, I want to vent... He's making a huge effort and I am ecstatic about that! Sex is always the last thing on his mind, therefore, our sex lacks...
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84 22-25, F a week ago

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    I have forced my husband to live a life without sex for what was supposed to be the good of everyone. It was not he did not want sex, if fact there were many times he was demanding...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I think too much!! I have lots of worries, I think too much till the point I break! And things get to be so quiet, laying on the floor with tears and scratchy throat, then I...
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F Jul 8

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    It is a good thing that Sexuals can go to specific groups for specific needs and talk with like-minded people to get together or just share stories and ideas. Anyway, these groups...
    ninathecat ninathecat 31-35 Jun 30

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    I've been in a sexless marriage/relationship for 14 years: all of my 30's and now into my mid-40's. It's a total mind-****. if it weren't for my drive to get pregnant, have kids...
    thruwithblue thruwithblue 41-45, F 11 Responses Jul 2

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    *An update* well last time i updated we had agreed that he was moving out as his **** addiction had won over our sex life. well any way the next day we had another make or break...
    desper8 desper8 31-35, F 18 Responses Jul 2

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    Anyone's spouse have a former relationship with someone else that included mind blowing sex??? During counseling yesterday he revealed the girlfriend before me they had non stop...
    LuckyOctober LuckyOctober 31-35, F 29 Responses Jul 2

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    So sorry this is happening in your marriage. I as, the wife, am suffering the consequences of a sexless marriage. But I am here over 24 years... it's been going on for at least...
    mwmom mwmom 46-50 17 Responses Jul 4

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    I have posted a couple of times about my refuser and our sexless marriage, but feel compelled to post an update. We are in marriage counseling, and she is also getting some...
    mistereko mistereko 36-40, M 16 Responses Jul 5

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    So in the list of complicated relationships I've had, my sons father is one I rarely explain. At the time (2010) he and I were both separated from our spouses and he was/is...
    LynxKitty LynxKitty 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 13

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    Hi, I've not been around on this board for a while but have recently started reading some posts again. Thank you for all the support you'd sent my way when I posted - I hope you...
    copperdoodle copperdoodle 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 15

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    My thoughts in this may come off as arrogant, I have certainly been accused of that before. Being a female rocks. I can visit any site and say F for female and I'm in hot prusuit...
    FrolickingFemale FrolickingFemale 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    Well, I just got back from an amazing eve. It was a first date so to speak. A guy I met a few months back at a music festival I attended ( ok Coachella). We 'd been trying to...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 21

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    It's so easy to let your mind wonder away from you when your upset,you know like making up sexual scenarios in your head,that's the best time for me ;) so c'mon guys tell me sexy...
    greatinbedchick greatinbedchick 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I love having fun over the phone! Women tell me I have a sexy voice and I don't mind. I am a sucker for a woman with a sexy voice also. If you want to. Have fun let's chat first I...
    heartgun heartgun 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I love talking about sex and a lot of sexual things. I am open minded. People message me?
    Imsobored123 Imsobored123 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Recently I caught my wife of many years cheating with another man. Since I have had problems for awhile satisfying her, I didn't make a big issue of it. I told her that I was hurt...
    MauryD MauryD 46-50, M 9 Responses Jul 8

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    I am open minded in that I won't judge based on looks, opinions, beliefs, etc...but that does not mean that I want all kinds of messages in my inbox about the sexual things you...
    handledwell handledwell 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    Broken mind. Healing imagination. Calming imagination Loving imagination. Without it i could kihll. Glad its there.
    converted converted 46-50, M Jul 15

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    I'm strongly against sexual repression. It starts in childhood and that's why we have so many weirdos now. Free your mind.
    dirtydarkness dirtydarkness 26-30, F 11 Responses Jun 30