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I Sex Begins In The Mind

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    A deep sexy voice, a kind demeanor, good conversation, gentlemanly manners, a great smile... You can take my to bed and spread me open any day.
    Lucy185 Lucy185 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    As a woman in my 40s, I am very comfortable with my sensuality and sexuality. I make sure I am very sexy for my husband to enjoy and ravish in the bedroom. I keep our sex lives...
    femalenakedathome femalenakedathome 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    So I have been married for eight years to a smart, good looking, caring man who loves me dearly. And I do live him. But we haven't had sex in 8 1/2 years. I've tried to initiate...
    Candymaker Candymaker 41-45, F 14 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I think the problem with my sexless marriage is not the fact that it's sexless, but the fact that it's a marriage. The wedding of a non-union. What is not united should not be...
    Aeonian Aeonian 51-55, M 7 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    This was a while ago, my gf and I would sneak into my room and start all types of nawty things was soooo much fun , I loved it, and days went passed she'd come over and now we want...
    h3lldriv3n h3lldriv3n 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    I love sexy talk but i necer know what to say, and when i do sayy something i feel like it didnt turn him on .. Ive said stuff like (i wanna suck you ...lick you ... Wanna move my...
    SaraBenSon SaraBenSon 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I had sex with over 200 girls before my 18th Birthday...
    Raddaddy Raddaddy 41-45, M 1 hr ago

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    I bought my girlfriend a riding crop and blindfold for her 30th birthday. Then lightly flicked it all over her body -- with a few surprise hard swats on the bottom. The suspense...
    Bircher Bircher 56-60, M 33 mins ago

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    It was a nice weekend. The weather was nice and your family spent some time with us. We barbecued a little and when your girlfriends came over we blended plenty of margaritas. Now...
    Lovefetishes Lovefetishes 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    Love Addiction - OBSESSIVE LOVE & DEPENDENCY IN RELATIONSHIPS Love Addiction (some call it relationship addiction) is a compulsive, detrimental dependency in relationships that...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise 51-55, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I mean it sucks but isn't it a great metaphor for life.... The endless cleaning up of ones own messes. Enjoying those few peaceful moment when everything is sorted and fresh...
    Z00Z00Z Z00Z00Z 36-40, M Jul 13

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    So this is my first post/experience. I am a man in my 40's. I have been married 21 years now we have the 2 most amazing children in the world. For 15 of those years our marriage...
    Tryingtobeagoodman Tryingtobeagoodman 36-40, M 9 Responses Jun 30

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    Last week on Friday, I told my stbx that we were done. Completely done. No maybe or we will try. DONE. He still argued and said it was bullsh*t but I stuck to my guns. It was...
    texmex82 texmex82 31-35, F 16 Responses 6 days ago

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    Message me and see the naughty stuff begins :) hit me up soon
    SexyGuy09 SexyGuy09 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I started dating a girl, we'll call her becka, well over a year ago. When we first got together it was amazing, for months at the beginning we were the perfect couple. I loved...
    mitchel71 mitchel71 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    I'm 29, married for 5 years, 2 beautiful kids. Unfortunately like most here I live in a sexless marriage. I have for several years. Now some will say, your young and just not happy...
    incognito21 incognito21 26-30, M 15 Responses Jul 1

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    3 days...3 refusals Just couldn't take what she was offering. There are so many rules she has about what I can touch and when, that it's not worth the time. So here's what...
    angryspartan angryspartan 36-40, M 12 Responses Jul 9

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    WHY? SEXUAL ANOREXIA. Bazaar posed an interesting question to me: I thought I should post my response on the main page in hope that it may help others. It's a question we all ask...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 13 Responses Jun 25

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    I think I've got the guts to post this now. My wife and I have talked about this many times. I think it would help me to talk to others about it, even if it is anonymously. Since...
    7Sparrows 7Sparrows 26-30, M 14 Responses Jun 27

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    I sometimes feel like i'm teetering on the fence of outsourcing or trying fixing things with my husband. Some days I feel like I owe it to myself and my family (kids/husband) to...
    asterinight asterinight 31-35, F 17 Responses Jul 2

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    As lost as I am in some areas I think I've finally found some resolute stance from which I will stand and I will continue to stand. Today I almost had some sort if internet...
    QuadrupleM QuadrupleM 13-15, M 17 hrs ago

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    There was this particular person who commented on my sexiness. So I asked him, how could he say so when he hasn't even seen me. His answer was like the words in my head that were...
    malipatient malipatient 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    SIX SIGNS OF A LOVE AVOIDANT (This is a Good read) 1. Evades Intimate and Emotional Connection In romantic relationships evading intimacy and getting too close emotionally is...
    toolatetoapologise toolatetoapologise 51-55, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yup. I'm just one of those open minded people with open minded thought , and is very open minded about sex 😂 lmao
    MiaSnider MiaSnider 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Is anybody else in the same boat? I never EVER imagined myself being in my 20s and in such a horrendous situation. My partner and I have been together for 3 years. The first year...
    mistakeoverload mistakeoverload 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for 14 years. It started going down hill within the first year and I knew then something wasn't right. I've poured my heart out to him so many times...
    ABlueChristine ABlueChristine 41-45, F 19 Responses Jun 29

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    Ok, so that first post wasn't so scary so why not a post two? I cannot begin to express how freeing it is just to have expressed it all. SM isn't something most people would want...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 1

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    Pelvic Floor Disorder. Something to think about. My marriage ultimately ended due to this disorder. The lack of intimacy and sex killed our marriage. For over 12 years I...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 15

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    I don't know if anybody else experiences the same but there is no intimacy not just lack of sex. There is the mandatory kiss goodnight....which I absolutely resent! We have only...
    forensicfox forensicfox 31-35, F 21 Responses Jul 6

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    This is just an update on my story and I hope it can show other people here that there is future after a bad relationship. I read stories for here for maybe more than one year...
    mfur mfur 26-30, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    Observations from amazing night of passionate sex last night. Aftermath. I only post this because i use to spend a lot of time wondering weather or not I could go through w...
    Jane1024 Jane1024 36-40, F 27 Responses 2 days ago

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    ive been married for 13 years , the last 3 years have been totally loveless in everyway , my wife wont even look at me , i excercise everyday and take care of my body , try and...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 14 Responses Jun 25

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    I was reading a post from someone who described their sex at the beginning of the relationship as just 'fine' and I wondered was sex mind blowing in the early days of your...
    celtusa celtusa 46-50, M 14 Responses Jul 2

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    I feel sexier at my current age than I did when I was 20. There's a certain confidence that comes with age. I know what I want, I don't play games and I realize that sexy doesn't...
    pixelita pixelita 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 3

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    Sex is fun. Its like an adventure with every occurrence. A woman's sexuality is one of lifes greatest creations. I am always think sexually. Doesn't mean its naughty, just means...
    incognito21 incognito21 26-30, M Jul 6

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    While this is about a sexless relationship, not a sexless marriage, there is an important lesson in here for those in sexless relationships because your partners claim that you...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 11 Responses Jul 13

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    It been a few years since I posted. I have stayed married and even started having sex, first once a week and lately even more. It's been a bad year, my father died and there were a...
    Katerinro Katerinro 41-45, F 9 Responses Jul 14

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    I've been married for 17 years. He has help me to raise children from my first marriage and we have 1 of our own. He has medical issues that have lowered his sex drive. This...
    CrazyKatLady CrazyKatLady 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    First off, I don't want to complain, I want to vent... He's making a huge effort and I am ecstatic about that! Sex is always the last thing on his mind, therefore, our sex lacks...
    wantingtobehappy84 wantingtobehappy84 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I think too much!! I have lots of worries, I think too much till the point I break! And things get to be so quiet, laying on the floor with tears and scratchy throat, then I...
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F Jul 8

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    This post is about my recent FWB experience (the good and the bad). It was last Saturday night. And, if I may say so, it was wonderful. I had met this man several times last...
    CalypsoAgain CalypsoAgain 31-35, F 18 Responses Jun 26

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    It is a good thing that Sexuals can go to specific groups for specific needs and talk with like-minded people to get together or just share stories and ideas. Anyway, these groups...
    ninathecat ninathecat 31-35 Jun 30

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    I've been in a sexless marriage/relationship for 14 years: all of my 30's and now into my mid-40's. It's a total mind-****. if it weren't for my drive to get pregnant, have kids...
    thruwithblue thruwithblue 41-45, F 11 Responses Jul 2

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    *An update* well last time i updated we had agreed that he was moving out as his **** addiction had won over our sex life. well any way the next day we had another make or break...
    desper8 desper8 31-35, F 18 Responses Jul 2

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    Anyone's spouse have a former relationship with someone else that included mind blowing sex??? During counseling yesterday he revealed the girlfriend before me they had non stop...
    LuckyOctober LuckyOctober 31-35, F 30 Responses Jul 2

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    So sorry this is happening in your marriage. I as, the wife, am suffering the consequences of a sexless marriage. But I am here over 24 years... it's been going on for at least...
    mwmom mwmom 46-50 17 Responses Jul 4

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    I have posted a couple of times about my refuser and our sexless marriage, but feel compelled to post an update. We are in marriage counseling, and she is also getting some...
    mistereko mistereko 36-40, M 17 Responses Jul 5