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    Had that conversation "open it or complete it" I was very gentle about it giving her every opportunity along the way. I asked her if she knew how many times we made love a year...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I both embrace and freely express my sexual side completely. I don't like how society pressures us to hide this aspect of ourselves in public, as if it doesn't exist. I love...
    NewEra0916 NewEra0916 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Had my first best experience with a 48 year old man and I am 23. I let him finish inside of me. Best sex ever
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 6 Responses 1 hr ago

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    The best way to make a Narcissist go away with their tail thrust firmly between their legs – Show them you’ve seen the face behind their mask, Narcissists are very good at...
    westsideblues1 westsideblues1 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 26

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    We all have wants and needs and desires. We are able to live without them but they are always present and bubbling away in the background. If the world was a bit different we would...
    cuddles1266 cuddles1266 56-60, M 2 Responses Sep 29

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    Aftermath update: Went to the tub to think and relax, it's better to reflect before taking action. She comes in and asked to wash my back, she knows about me and my online sub *I...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 4 Responses Oct 10

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    Rediscovering Sex in a Sexless Marriage: Rediscovering sex - This is where things are at now. For those who are reading my story for the first time let me point out my marriage...
    Fireflyz26 Fireflyz26 31-35, F 13 Responses Oct 2

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    Just had a bunch on my mind and feel like rambling. So I want to share a little about my rehabilitated sexless marriage (see backstory for details) due to a few private emails...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 9 Responses Oct 3

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    Update. Last time I posted I was overwhelmed at how many responses I had. Some understood my struggle and some completely didn't get it. Reading it now I was pretty upset writing...
    2Blossom 2Blossom 46-50, F 15 Responses Sep 27

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    How to Find Out About Someone's Sex Life edits by: PoliceExperiment, Andrew (see all) Every been curious about someone's sex life and you know it's off limits to talk about? but...
    policeExperiment policeExperiment 22-25 Oct 2

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    I've been in a long term sexless marriage (decades). I was sexually insecure at the time of the marriage, and she was too, so it worked at the time for both of us. Over all those...
    Figureitoutguy Figureitoutguy 51-55, M 9 Responses a week ago

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    I'm new here and hope my post makes it to the right place. I've been with my H for 17 years. He's 10 years older than I am, I'm 55. from the beginning he had ED problems, but I...
    Sarita22 Sarita22 46-50, F 20 Responses 5 days ago

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    Coercion. Years ago I read about husbands forcing their wives to perform a certain sex act (named at the end of this story for those curious) under the threat of divorce. It was...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 16 Responses Sep 25

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    Maybe I shouldn't complain but I would probably b in a sexless marriage if I never initiated the sex or intimacy with my wife. I always initiate, my wife never will and when I do...
    booyah73 booyah73 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 4

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    Hi I am new to this forum but I have had the opportunity to read posts and study them. I feel less lonely now and realize that my experience is shared by many. I decided to post as...
    FantasticNJGuy FantasticNJGuy 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 7

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    There’s a number of reasons why people live in sexless marriages, every married couple’s situation is different; you could talk to fifteen different couples and hear fifteen...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I will try to describe my sexless marriage. We have been together for a long time. We met in high school and were each others first lovers. Both of us were shy and insecure and...
    Tamara68 Tamara68 46-50, F 15 Responses Sep 20

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    I honestly don't get why so many people treat sex like it's something you can't talk about. Sex is great: it's athletic and fun and romantic and stimulates your brain (as well as...
    hottiewithabody94 hottiewithabody94 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 21

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    I would really appreciate to hear stories/opinons/advice on this. Sorry for the length! I have been with my fiance for 5 years and we are engaged to marry next year. On face value...
    Tyogani Tyogani 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    I'm not Catholic, but I think they may be onto something: http://bigstory.ap.org/article/5ac7492950f544a897cb0f98e3a56a39/pope-and-prelates-get-crash-course-sex-synod VATICAN...
    Waiting4What Waiting4What 46-50, F 9 Responses Oct 8

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    So, I've posted previously, but its a been a long time. I've been married over 11 years, the vast majority of which which have been sexless. I've spoken to my wife countless times...
    Xaeth Xaeth 36-40, M 22 Responses Oct 8

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    Sexual content. Not adult content. Haven't you noticed that every time you see a member protesting the ban on sexual content, they refer to it as "adult content" ? Well why is...
    1stepforward3shovesback 1stepforward3shovesback 16-17, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    House of Mirrors - My STBX said the creepiest thing to me last night. He came into my bedroom (I moved into the guest room 4 months ago), sat on the edge of my bed (which he hasn...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 31 Responses 6 days ago

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    If you knew you were going to live another 20-30 or so years would you be willing to remain in a sexless marriage or would you divorce? According to this quiz, I will live...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 16 Responses 6 days ago

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    DSM (Diagnostic & Statistic Manual of Mental Disorder) diagnosis of HDD (hyper sexual desire disorder) as a mental affection, devaluates asexuality as a sexual orientation. Which...
    JesseVicious JesseVicious 22-25, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sex once. Sex twice. Then love. Or sex fout times. Then love. But too much sex ruins sex. If the body has a brain to soul link. Lol
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 21

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    So this past Sunday I watched this gentleman perform a dance while painting. He was Cuban and had lots of Cuban music playing along with poetry and other meaningful things playing...
    OhGK OhGK 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22

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    My wife's best friend is divorcing her husband, who is one of my good friends. She said things were bad for a while, and somehow it escalated past the point of therapy. They never...
    7Sparrows 7Sparrows 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 27

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    I feel like this experience us turning me into an emotional Jekyll and Hide... In the morning, when domestic life goes on as it must, I feel inclined to be patient, more forgiving...
    ace4444 ace4444 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 28

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    In case you're wondering whether your spouse is asexual, here's some info. "(CNN) -- It's not just a phase. They're not frigid, sick, repressed or broken. Meeting the so-called...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 7 Responses Sep 29

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    After reading a newly wed speak of his Teddy's are sexy, I wanted to share my own experience and thoughts. I think Teddy's are sexy cute and so on. But they are too out there...
    Gemma3sahara Gemma3sahara 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 5

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    A friend of mine told me a story at work today. My friends eight year old ask her if she has sex with her husband (remarried couple). Her response was to be honest, "Yes". Then...
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 7 Responses Oct 6

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    An interesting situation arose this afternoon/evening. I am a confident woman with a strong sex drive, and I'm not at all afraid of it. This doesn't mean I sleep around, or that I...
    lola101202 lola101202 36-40, F 19 Responses Oct 10

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    I have read a lot of the stories here and they all seem to blame the 'refuser'. (a term I have just learnt) Well I guess that means I am the refuser but I don't believe that means...
    alyssiax alyssiax 41-45, F 23 Responses Oct 11

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    To my fellow suffers I have a question. Let me first say that I know I'm an idiot. I married my first wife when I was 26 y.o.a. and I had some red flags but I thought I could fix...
    Nick5211 Nick5211 51-55, M 4 Responses Oct 11

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    Laying here typing this in front of her sleeping. Tonight, I rolled over to cuddle her, was refused sex verbally (which wasn't my goal although I won't deny I was feeling like I...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 8 Responses a week ago

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    Okay, listen, I'm a teenage (Tomboy 😏) girl, and if this offends you in any way possible, I'm sorry, it was not intentional. Though I don't know how this would be offensive...
    DarkOnTheInside13 DarkOnTheInside13 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    How do guys really feel when your wife tells you "I think the reason we have unexplained infertility is that we don't have sex often enough"? It's been more than 2 months since...
    surfiehall surfiehall 31-35, F 9 Responses Sep 20

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    Hey, It's the worse to have a sex driven mind.. I have a desire to focus on the things life has to offer that I love, and this constant need for sex, or anything related to it, in...
    Rafmuses Rafmuses 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 20

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    I have talked here a few times about how my man is constantly talking to me, telling me all about whatever thing he's interested in at the moment. Honestly - this would not be...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 27 Responses Sep 21

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    I'm in a sexless marriage, but it's me who doesn't want it. I love my husband. We have three beautiful sons together. I am being affected by a case of childhood sibling sexual...
    coffeeIover coffeeIover 26-30, F 13 Responses Sep 22

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    I had a successful sexual experience last night. I didn't feel dirty or used after. I really talked at length with my husband about the events of my childhood. He assured me I'm...
    coffeeIover coffeeIover 26-30, F 11 Responses Sep 23

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    Note from OppositeLand My post SM lover threw his back out last weekend, and is in pain, plus had a 5-hour drive starting early in the morning to do today. So, of course, I...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 14 Responses Sep 25

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    I’ve been reading sexless marriage posts for a while now (being in one myself). In a way the experience of reading these posts is like beginning to recognize it as a hydra - the...
    ace4444 ace4444 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 26

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    I have been married for 34 years. We stopped having sex around 5 years ago. I am the husband. My wife tells me she just isn't interested in sex anymore. She knows I am not the kind...
    Leo502K Leo502K 61-65 20 Responses Sep 27

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    I can't stand it any longer. Last night I had a date night with my wife after dropping my oldest boy off for homecoming. We took a bunch of pictures. At dinner, I realized I...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 17 Responses Sep 28

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    I need advice ( preferably from some one older than me. I'm 14.) OKAY so me and my boyfriend have been steady for almost 2 months now ❤️ ( it'll be 2 on the 14th ☺️) and he...
    Shaileyrae Shaileyrae 13-15, F 19 Responses Oct 6