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    i want sex ,but it's only because i have not done enough t ,i did just twice ...but i can't do with every lady ..i can think about them ,can fantasy but i can't in real ... lol i...
    rev429 rev429 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    I told my husband I would like to have sex. It's been over 4 months since the last time. He picked a fight and is not talking to me now. Took me a day to link it to me asking for...
    dyingalittleeveryday dyingalittleeveryday 41-45, F 19 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Letter from Diane in Duluth Several of my friends are involved sexually. They kid me because I'm still a virgin. Is premarital sex wrong?
    brinahU brinahU 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    We have often talked about having a young (but of legal age) au pair. She would undertake the normal roles of an au pair, but part of her role would be to sexually satisfy us...
    kinkycoupleuk kinkycoupleuk 46-50 53 mins ago

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    Just needing to remind myself of this ... as I've gotten to know people better on here I'm finding myself becoming guarded again. It's interesting to me that with some of my...
    StarLily71 StarLily71 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    I want to live my life according to my will. I want to take risks, fall inlove, choose freely over something. But sometimes too much freedom could be bad.
    Maricorrr Maricorrr 16-17, F Aug 11

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    Asbestos — A The natural way transpiring mineral, utilized throughout the world for its toughness and warmth resistant qualities.An FDA lawsuit is often produced by an...
    Joseph048l7jx2 Joseph048l7jx2 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    I feel mentally I am a nymphomaniac but I doubt I would actually act upon these thoughts unless I had some one who could be open minded to it and could actually be willing to...
    zaynisbae zaynisbae 16-17, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    I am so addicted to my FWB it's not even funny. I can't function with out him and this is driving me crazy. Sex is so good it's like I need it everyday. I know he needs a break...
    piper2828 piper2828 31-35, F 6 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    So I tried with him this morning and as I let my hands caress all of him, he didn't mind. But as soon and I tried to please him he yelled no and jerked away. I felt so embarrassed...
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 22-25, F 10 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I don't satisfy my wife sexualy. I don't last long enough. Please laugh at me I'd love that and call me names
    sportyboy sportyboy 46-50, M 2 hrs ago

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    Tell me anything bout it.. How u do it? How u start it? how to seduce someone for sex
    Hyep Hyep 18-21, F 22 mins ago

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    i am currently in a long term relationship we have been together for 2 years and 4 months. We used to have sex often but lately i feel as though im the one making the effort and...
    emloves emloves 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 19

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    I need some opinions as to whether I'm being a jerk. My wife has developed a medical condition that she says is making it uncomfortable to have sex and also makes her desire to...
    lookingforanswers1 lookingforanswers1 51-55, M 23 Responses Jul 31

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    I can't believe I am doing this. I have been married for just 10 years, and we have a young child My husband is attentive, plugged in, affectionate, and present. He is...
    ChildOfDNM ChildOfDNM 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    My Story Part 2 About a year I could not face the reality... I thought it all was happening to somebody else and I was just watching... at the same time my country collapsed in...
    TheFullMoon TheFullMoon 51-55, F Aug 1

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    My husband is a sex addict. I discovered this about a month ago, although I had been ignoring the clues for years. Throughout our marriage of 14 years (and before we met) he has...
    WestSiderWoman WestSiderWoman 46-50, F 16 Responses Aug 12

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    My wife and I love each other but we have not been physically intimate in five years. It began when my wife gave birth to our only son. She had preeclampsia and was very ill; our...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 13

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    My wife and I love each other but we have not been physically intimate in five years. It began when my wife gave birth to our only son. She had preeclampsia and was very ill; our...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 15 Responses Aug 13

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    Here goes...I found EP doing a search about sexless marriages so here I am, my first story. I've been married 15 years to a man who in the beginning had me believing he could not...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 14 Responses Aug 15

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    I am not at all ashamed of sexuality. I think that being a woman is a great thing and I have no problem showing off my curves, my chest my ***. I think there is nothing wrong with...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    For me a dress specifically a body con & a great pair of heels has always made me feel like a goddess. The key is to be sexy in a "tasteful" & "subtle" manner nothing too tight or...
    livelymind livelymind 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    Okay, so I was on here a few days ago and told a little about my situation and history. Most people were harsh and judgmental towards me when I admitted to being the one who...
    Nil0 Nil0 46-50, F 11 Responses Jul 30

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    I have been married for 15 years. The crossdressing came out about 8 years ago. I was really supportive and loving about it. Felt sorry for Husband that he had had to hide it all...
    LadyLana39 LadyLana39 51-55, F 6 Responses Aug 1

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    This marriage of ours has been teetering on the brink of failure for some time now and I am really struggling to cope with the absence of sex. My wife is an alcoholic / pain pill...
    007jeep 007jeep 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    It was long ago. They grabbed sexy. Rolled into a van. And drove away. Since then others became sick mimicrees. Sexy is now erotic but greedy and mean. Not really...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 2

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    I haven't had sex with my wife in almost a year. In the meantime I've cheated on her with other men about 6 times. After being not just sexless but affection less for over 6 months...
    Jasonpresten2 Jasonpresten2 31-35, M 8 Responses Aug 3

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    On the Today show today they talked to couples over 50 about their sex life. There was a couple on there who have sex once or twice a month. The wife says she wants to have sex...
    suburbanmomoftwo suburbanmomoftwo 51-55, F 19 Responses Aug 6

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    Being so "young," one would expect me not to have a m*sturb*tion problem, but I do. It's not about the pleasure, it's the only way I can fall asleep at night. So as one can imagine...
    dpaulbenjie dpaulbenjie 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    This is how much is missing when sex is missing from one's marriage. "“Sex is more than an act of pleasure, it’s the ability to be able to feel so close to a person, so...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 10 Responses Aug 11

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    I've always been monogamous by nature, so a few years ago I decided to go through the mutual testing procedure before taking a new lover, so we could enjoy sex to the fullest...
    EyeOfHorus EyeOfHorus 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I don't know where to start. I can only be where I am. My wife cheated on me in 2009 during a time when our children were very young (1 and 3). I din't dind out until 2012 and...
    Homewaters Homewaters 36-40, M 13 Responses Aug 13

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    Thanks to all the great feedback I’ve been getting here, I’ve been able to process a lot of what’s going on in my marriage. Most of it is simply about clarity rather than any...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 6 Responses Aug 14

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    The situation in my home hasn't been good for the last couple years, and I know I need to leave my girlfriend of 8 years. Not only has she completely excused the behavior of her...
    LostStepDad LostStepDad 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 15

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    I've been thinking... Maybe people with high sex drives are 'normal' and those with 'normal' normal sex drives are missing something. A high sex drive is different to sex addiction...
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 16

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    I'm a 22 year old female in a loving committed relationship of 1 year with a 30 year old man. The relationship is great except when it comes to sex. The sex is good when we do have...
    Twistedlover13 Twistedlover13 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 a week ago

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 1 Response a week ago

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    Well. It is finally official. I am divorced! After all the craziness, after years of sexless marriage and emotional distance, after emotional and physical abuse, after having an...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    Not necessarily a sexless marriage, but one lacking intimacy. I have sex often...not as much as I would like, but often. I think I'm an above average sexual guy, so I kind of...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30, M 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been married for 4 years, together for longer. My husband is only a few years older than me. He has low testosterone and literally no sex drive, whereas im genuinely a bit...
    Coraltorch Coraltorch 26-30, F 20 Responses 5 days ago

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    OK, so I don't actually have a totally a sexless marriage but here's my input & what we have that others don't have. Communication. We've been together for 20 years, married for 13...
    Xlandria61 Xlandria61 61-65, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have posted here before, and am still (just) in my SM - but taking steps to leave it. I guess this might sound like a rant, but it's really just a question, and I would welcome...
    adeptlinguist adeptlinguist 51-55, M 24 Responses 3 days ago

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    Married 23 years, no sex for the last 5. If you count years when sex occurred less than half a dozen times, then the number of sexless years climbs to 15. Some people say that a...
    EmbraceableMe EmbraceableMe 41-45 23 Responses 3 days ago

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 22 Responses 2 days ago

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    hi all I am a 54 male an d have been married for 30 years my wife had a hysterectomy about 10 years ago and sex along with intimacy have gone down since now it is at zero my wife...
    Nightb4 Nightb4 51-55, M 10 Responses Jul 31

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    I'm sexual not in the way of ************ or sex with another person, but sexual in the way that I think most everything has a sexual element to it. You can say that money makes...
    mistressmonique mistressmonique 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 2