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    I have been married for 24 years and probably about 20 have been relatively sexless. My W and I had a fight on Sunday, I slept on the coach on Monday (my choice), and had yet...
    RestonLonely RestonLonely 46-50, M 10 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    i dont belong here, i feel fre in the nature and it´s where i wanna live. i wanna live freely and fully where i belong and it´s not here
    lynnewolf99 lynnewolf99 13-15, F Sep 15

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    A few weeks ago I met someone here via his responses on my posts. He seemed very nice. I checked his profile. Others liked him. It seemed "safe" to chat with him. So when he...
    IrisROE IrisROE 56-60, F 46 Responses Sep 5

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    The best way to make a Narcissist go away with their tail thrust firmly between their legs – Show them you’ve seen the face behind their mask, Narcissists are very good at...
    westsideblues1 westsideblues1 41-45, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    We all have wants and needs and desires. We are able to live without them but they are always present and bubbling away in the background. If the world was a bit different we would...
    cuddles1266 cuddles1266 56-60, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Question: is your Refuser generally happy or miserable? My wife and I have fixed our problems for the most part and our sex is still fairly frequent albeit predictable (that is...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 9 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I found an interesting study on sexlessness in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. I can't share the full pdf because there's no way to upload it here, but I will copy and paste the...
    RedOctagon RedOctagon 22-25, F 10 Responses Sep 2

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    Today's Dear Prudence: " Dear Prudence, My wife hates sex. Over the years, her libido has gradually faded to nothing and she now finds even the thought of intercourse unpleasant...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 19 Responses Sep 4

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    My "best friend" tried to rape me when I was 12, I don't want something like happen again, where someone I thought I could trust betrays me. But I'm not sure I could avoid it if a...
    KamiTheBear KamiTheBear 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    My husband and I have been together ten years, and married for seven. Sex dropped off right after the wedding. Over our married years, we have typically had sex every other month...
    VanillaAlmond1 VanillaAlmond1 31-35, F 22 Responses Sep 2

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    The road that has led each of us to the SM we find ourselves in is unique to each of us and in reading stories I can imagine that many people would wonder which came first, the...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 17 Responses Sep 19

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    Coercion. Years ago I read about husbands forcing their wives to perform a certain sex act (named at the end of this story for those curious) under the threat of divorce. It was...
    something2talkabout something2talkabout 51-55, M 17 Responses 5 days ago

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    Update. Last time I posted I was overwhelmed at how many responses I had. Some understood my struggle and some completely didn't get it. Reading it now I was pretty upset writing...
    2Blossom 2Blossom 46-50, F 15 Responses 3 days ago

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    As it says I love sex but I'm not desperate I'm not worried if I go a few weeks without it or a month it's not a big deal & no I would not chase someone for sex or date someone...
    londonboy1 londonboy1 46-50, M Sep 5

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    It was New Year's Day seven years ago when I got the message. My niece called me to tell me my Dad was on the way to the hospital. It seems she had found him in the garage in a...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 19 Responses Sep 7

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    When I originally posted in April of 2011, I was living in a sexless marriage. I was confused, heartbroken and angry... What happened in the 3 years following has nearly destroyed...
    malms malms 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I AM CURRENTLY working for a sexy demanding female boss. This is something I have always wanted but sort of gave up on. I always had male bosses as well as an unsexy female boss...
    Cleancut Cleancut 41-45 Sep 9

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses Sep 15

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    I guess I don't really know what I am, nor do I really care to put a label on it, but when you label it, I guess it's easier to find others who feel similarly and who you can talk...
    graveyardghosty graveyardghosty 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 16

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    My ex and I would have sex all the time but did not want it to become ordinary home sex so we would incorporate outside the home and outdoor sex. We have been at the beach, park...
    Kelbos123 Kelbos123 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 18

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    Dear, "Our lives improve ONLY when we take chances, and the first and the most difficult chance to take is to be honest to ourselves. TRUST is the hardest thing to find and the...
    kenmok kenmok 36-40, M Sep 19

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    Well...It's a bit of a long story, but I can't really say that I am FOR SURE demi-(hetero)sexual..........But I'd like for people to hear my part on why I think that I am. First...
    RayniiDays RayniiDays 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 19

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    I will try to describe my sexless marriage. We have been together for a long time. We met in high school and were each others first lovers. Both of us were shy and insecure and...
    Amaaj Amaaj 46-50, F 12 Responses Sep 20

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    I honestly don't get why so many people treat sex like it's something you can't talk about. Sex is great: it's athletic and fun and romantic and stimulates your brain (as well as...
    hottiewithabody94 hottiewithabody94 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 21

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    So I love my wife and don't kid me wrong she's my soulmate, but we can never have sex. You see my wife suffers from Lichen sclerosus which hurts her and makes it hard for me to...
    Aqualung27 Aqualung27 31-35, M 7 Responses Sep 1

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    Yesterday we once again had a chat, I had to chip and chip at the hardened exterior of his, to try and talk. He opened up a little more than usual perhaps because I was getting...
    saxappeal saxappeal 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 8

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    I have been asked this question many times, but I think its time to revisit it again. This took place the other night out with friends. The question was , As a t girl how do you...
    MiriamK MiriamK 56-60, T 3 Responses Sep 12

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    I'm tired of people on here complaining that their partner won't have sex with them. Sex doesn't just happen because one person gets turned on. You can't treat someone like a...
    emptynow emptynow 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 12

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    It's been a little over a month since I posted my last story. In this last month, the two large things that occurred were that we had our 5 year wedding anniversary and this past...
    dangerouslyheartbroken dangerouslyheartbroken 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 16

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    While sexless it is not loveless. I often am ashamed because I don't always "get past" my own physical needs. Here's a little background. My wife, while not "touchy feely" is a...
    expromiscuous expromiscuous 41-45 5 Responses Sep 17

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    Sex once. Sex twice. Then love. Or sex fout times. Then love. But too much sex ruins sex. If the body has a brain to soul link. Lol
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 21

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    So this past Sunday I watched this gentleman perform a dance while painting. He was Cuban and had lots of Cuban music playing along with poetry and other meaningful things playing...
    OhGK OhGK 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 22

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    My wife's best friend is divorcing her husband, who is one of my good friends. She said things were bad for a while, and somehow it escalated past the point of therapy. They never...
    7Sparrows 7Sparrows 26-30, M 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    Like it says. Sex is just Sex. We all have different ways we show or explore our sexually. I personally believe that one person can have sexually relationships with other people...
    howawesome howawesome 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I feel like this experience us turning me into an emotional Jekyll and Hide... In the morning, when domestic life goes on as it must, I feel inclined to be patient, more forgiving...
    ace4444 ace4444 41-45, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    In case you're wondering whether your spouse is asexual, here's some info. "(CNN) -- It's not just a phase. They're not frigid, sick, repressed or broken. Meeting the so-called...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    im in a sexless marriage And I need to talk with someone who can relate, and not judge me or my situation. because the random person would call a sex addict, but its not that.. I...
    ooomooo ooomooo 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 4

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    Our sex life was awesome until we got married. We had sex almost everyday for two years. Then it all just stopped. 4 years later we still don't have very much sex. How we had two...
    gingersnap23 gingersnap23 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 5

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    How do you know if you're sexually attracted to a specific gender? I get strong sexual desire and when I do sometimes to let off steam I fantasize, but it's never about any guy...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    I love him. I love him even with all his faults. tomorrow doesn't matter. We are here today and make the best of it. He was there when I was at my lowest. He lifted me out of...
    ijustneedtoletitout ijustneedtoletitout 31-35, F 8 Responses Sep 6

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    I personally and firmly believe sex education starts in the home with the parents and not in the schools. In fact, I home schooled all my kids because I do not approve of public...
    maturemominbackyard maturemominbackyard 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 7

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    Wrong. I have, and it wasn't as fun as I thought it would be. I spent more time looking at ads online, trying to choose the right lady, than I did with her. But that didn't stop...
    LifeDispenser LifeDispenser 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    I love having sex with strangers no strings attached just sex sex and more sex!
    Vannnessaaaaa Vannnessaaaaa 18-21, F 23 Responses Sep 9

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    I've heard the technical definition of a sexless marriage is sex less than 10 times in a year. But what about quality? What about a partner who doesn't just roll over and tell you...
    frogchop frogchop 46-50, M 14 Responses Sep 9

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    My H and I have been together almost 15 years. In the beginning of our relationship, of course, we had sex constantly. He would even make a 2 hour drive to give me sex before I...
    beentoolongLily beentoolongLily 46-50, F 14 Responses Sep 9

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    I guess I'm a very sexual person, I've had a lot of sex partners and I've enjoyed it all. I don't dress trashy, but I will dress sexy. Sex is awesome and I always enjoy doing it...
    YellowGirl225 YellowGirl225 22-25, F 15 Responses Sep 10

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    Ok. So it's been a while since I posted a proper story. The last two years have been insane. I've gone from thinking I'd never have interesting sex again (a very sad thought for...
    Stayandcheat Stayandcheat 36-40, M 22 Responses Sep 11
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