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    I honestly don't get why so many people treat sex like it's something you can't talk about. Sex is great: it's athletic and fun and romantic and stimulates your brain (as well as...
    hottiewithabody94 hottiewithabody94 18-21, F 5 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Sex once. Sex twice. Then love. Or sex fout times. Then love. But too much sex ruins sex. If the body has a brain to soul link. Lol
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 10 hrs ago

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    I have talked here a few times about how my man is constantly talking to me, telling me all about whatever thing he's interested in at the moment. Honestly - this would not be...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 15 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    i dont belong here, i feel fre in the nature and it´s where i wanna live. i wanna live freely and fully where i belong and it´s not here
    lynnewolf99 lynnewolf99 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    A few weeks ago I met someone here via his responses on my posts. He seemed very nice. I checked his profile. Others liked him. It seemed "safe" to chat with him. So when he...
    IrisROE IrisROE 56-60, F 43 Responses Sep 5

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    I'm CJ from Alabama. I'm 15 years old. I was straight with a girlfriend, but I've recently had gay fantasies. I've imagined making love to a cute and sexy bottom boy. I just wasn't...
    cjfrombama cjfrombama 13-15, M 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    My current email to my husband of 12 years: It's after 3 and I am up, tormented by our lack of intimacy. I've asked you for months to seek out help and you have given me no...
    thruwithblue thruwithblue 41-45, F 16 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Turns out a friend is a refuser. This explains many things she has described about her husband's behavior (accusing her of cheating, reading her emails over her shoulder, etc.). We...
    ghostofacheerfulowl ghostofacheerfulowl 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I'm bored an I'm looking up stuff about sex an to better please my "boo"lol I just started having sex not to long ago an I'm not addicted but I am only with him tho🍌🍒
    Stonerchick23 Stonerchick23 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    Love have some hot sexy chat and naughty pic fun, always good to meet new sexy people and have a great time, and ladies interested?
    morninglory69 morninglory69 26-30, M 6 hrs ago

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    I'm kinda scared to really take full control when having sex because I don't want to be not good ya kno like I know imma be good just not what I wanna be if that makes since...
    Stonerchick23 Stonerchick23 18-21, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I could have sex repeatedly everyday, and all night if i had the chance :P
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 12 hrs ago

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    Well that is always of this one particular guy I get some very sexual thoughts.
    XXwildoneXX XXwildoneXX 18-21, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Well kind of, I've made many vids of me playing with myself and using toys anal and others, I guess I kinda fall into this category as I have and used some sex dolls, I was curious...
    morninglory69 morninglory69 26-30, M 5 hrs ago

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    I like pictures sometimes when guys are being sexy... Just not completely naked. Sometimes I also like it when a guy can be sporting a hard-on, but still in underwear. I know this...
    Stubby1 Stubby1 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    Be careful with these people even long after your gone. I am raising my children alone. He is involved zero. Never calls them and never sees them. This has gone on for 2 years...
    HAR1978 HAR1978 46-50, F 5 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I don't really know if this counts as sexual abuse but he used to not stop when I said stop...and held me down and did things. And would act all sad afterwards and say sorry so I...
    danixy danixy 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    So I am wondering if the sexless marriage folks in MN would like to get together sometime? I'd be willing to organize an event somewhere. We would need to set up ground rules to...
    rangerrick1958 rangerrick1958 56-60, M 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    so i'm 26 and i have little interest in sex. i've gone almost 1.5 years without it and now i have little to no interest in it. a part of me really wants to find a guy who i can...
    candywave candywave 26-30, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    "Sexual Aversion Disorder" I am not sure if anyone has ever posted about this in this group...Actually I am sure someone has but I cannot find such post. apparently there is an...
    JackHawthorne JackHawthorne 31-35, M 7 Responses Aug 31

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    I found an interesting study on sexlessness in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. I can't share the full pdf because there's no way to upload it here, but I will copy and paste the...
    RedOctagon RedOctagon 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 2

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    Today's Dear Prudence: " Dear Prudence, My wife hates sex. Over the years, her libido has gradually faded to nothing and she now finds even the thought of intercourse unpleasant...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 19 Responses Sep 4

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    My "best friend" tried to rape me when I was 12, I don't want something like happen again, where someone I thought I could trust betrays me. But I'm not sure I could avoid it if a...
    KamiTheBear KamiTheBear 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    My husband and I have been together ten years, and married for seven. Sex dropped off right after the wedding. Over our married years, we have typically had sex every other month...
    VanillaAlmond1 VanillaAlmond1 31-35, F 22 Responses Sep 2

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    The road that has led each of us to the SM we find ourselves in is unique to each of us and in reading stories I can imagine that many people would wonder which came first, the...
    thescarletibis thescarletibis 41-45, F 14 Responses 1 day ago

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 Aug 21

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    On Sexual Abuse I will go, with the reason I am composing this letter, this is I'm sending this missive, because my daughter who is 8, was sexually assaulted, By my 22 year old...
    IrmaH IrmaH 36-40 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Well. It is finally official. I am divorced! After all the craziness, after years of sexless marriage and emotional distance, after emotional and physical abuse, after having an...
    unexpectedlove15 unexpectedlove15 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 22

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    Not necessarily a sexless marriage, but one lacking intimacy. I have sex often...not as much as I would like, but often. I think I'm an above average sexual guy, so I kind of...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30, M 8 Responses Aug 24

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    OK, so I don't actually have a totally a sexless marriage but here's my input & what we have that others don't have. Communication. We've been together for 20 years, married for 13...
    Xlandria61 Xlandria61 61-65, F 5 Responses Aug 26

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    I have posted here before, and am still (just) in my SM - but taking steps to leave it. I guess this might sound like a rant, but it's really just a question, and I would welcome...
    adeptlinguist adeptlinguist 51-55, M 24 Responses Aug 26

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    Married 23 years, no sex for the last 5. If you count years when sex occurred less than half a dozen times, then the number of sexless years climbs to 15. Some people say that a...
    EmbraceMe68 EmbraceMe68 41-45, F 25 Responses Aug 26

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 23 Responses Aug 27

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    As it says I love sex but I'm not desperate I'm not worried if I go a few weeks without it or a month it's not a big deal & no I would not chase someone for sex or date someone...
    londonboy1 londonboy1 46-50, M Sep 5

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    It was New Year's Day seven years ago when I got the message. My niece called me to tell me my Dad was on the way to the hospital. It seems she had found him in the garage in a...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 19 Responses Sep 7

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    When I originally posted in April of 2011, I was living in a sexless marriage. I was confused, heartbroken and angry... What happened in the 3 years following has nearly destroyed...
    malms malms 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    I AM CURRENTLY working for a sexy demanding female boss. This is something I have always wanted but sort of gave up on. I always had male bosses as well as an unsexy female boss...
    Cleancut Cleancut 41-45 Sep 9

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I guess I don't really know what I am, nor do I really care to put a label on it, but when you label it, I guess it's easier to find others who feel similarly and who you can talk...
    graveyardghosty graveyardghosty 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My ex and I would have sex all the time but did not want it to become ordinary home sex so we would incorporate outside the home and outdoor sex. We have been at the beach, park...
    Kelbos123 Kelbos123 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Dear, "Our lives improve ONLY when we take chances, and the first and the most difficult chance to take is to be honest to ourselves. TRUST is the hardest thing to find and the...
    kenmok kenmok 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    Well...It's a bit of a long story, but I can't really say that I am FOR SURE demi-(hetero)sexual..........But I'd like for people to hear my part on why I think that I am. First...
    RayniiDays RayniiDays 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I will try to describe my sexless marriage. We have been together for a long time. We met in high school and were each others first lovers. Both of us were shy and insecure and...
    Amaaj Amaaj 46-50, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been married for close to 8 years. Before we had kids I actually had to tell my wife to take it easy...I didn't need to have sex everyday! Boy do I miss those days...We now...
    Raboebie1210 Raboebie1210 36-40, M 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm sure we all have read the story of the guy who emailed his wife a spreadsheet of his failed attempts at sexual advances. I've read more than a few articles on the story...
    chuckdaly chuckdaly 36-40, M 11 Responses Aug 22

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    I married a great guy! Seriously. He is just not into any form of sex. No hand holding, No kissing, no nothing. Last time we had sex. 13 years ago. Conceived our last daughter. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Aug 24

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    I don't have anyone I could talk to, but I am dying for sex. I was sex deprived as a kid, because my parents controlled my life too much. They consider sex as a kid of sin. In the...
    pblack pblack 41-45, F 7 Responses Aug 26