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    I need some opinions as to whether I'm being a jerk. My wife has developed a medical condition that she says is making it uncomfortable to have sex and also makes her desire to...
    lookingforanswers1 lookingforanswers1 51-55, M 19 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I can't believe I am doing this. I have been married for just 10 years, and we have a young child My husband is attentive, plugged in, affectionate, and present. He is...
    ChildOfDNM ChildOfDNM 41-45, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    hi all I am a 54 male an d have been married for 30 years my wife had a hysterectomy about 10 years ago and sex along with intimacy have gone down since now it is at zero my wife...
    Nightb4 Nightb4 51-55, M 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I have spent most of my adult life in relationships and have found that I give up sex so easily because I want the person to love me because I am so desperate for a real connection...
    estelle76 estelle76 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    If you have a relationship that is entirely based off sex then it is one useless relationship! Intimacy and sex are two entirely different things. Intimacy is very important...
    Keespanker Keespanker 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    Just needing to remind myself of this ... as I've gotten to know people better on here I'm finding myself becoming guarded again. It's interesting to me that with some of my...
    StarLily71 StarLily71 41-45, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    We've been married for 26 years. I am tall and very fit. I keep myself clean and well groomed. I know men find me attractive. But my husband is very inhibited. He does not french...
    debbiedee623 debbiedee623 51-55, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Honestly I dont see why everyone is so fussy about sex these days, its taboo to talk about in public, its taboo to like it, and what you enjoy in bed is told to be kept secret. Why...
    Quillton Quillton 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    I am addicted to rough sex and i need someone to help me
    kdoll6 kdoll6 16-17, M 20 hrs ago

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    I spoke to a former lover yesterday who recently married his long time partner. He kept reminding me that married people don't have sex. And then laughing about it. On the other...
    Katertoten Katertoten 46-50, F 3 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I really want to have great mind blowing sex with someone I love.
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    so i guess my marriage is going to come to an end , my wife and i had a huge fight this morning , it was the first time in 13 years that ive yelled at her , to be honest i dont...
    skiball5150 skiball5150 36-40, M 18 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    It's been a little over a month since our vacation. Everything is back to the way it was before. He hasn't been interested in sex at all. I can't say I am surprised. This is...
    kflesh kflesh 46-50, F 12 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I have been married for 22 years and although I love and will not leave my wife, we have not had sex in months. Even when we do, it's like she is only doing to for me, and cannot...
    letsdoit74134 letsdoit74134 56-60, M 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Hi girls! I'm Melanie. I'm new here and was just curious to see what this is all about. I'm looking for feminine women who like other women. I need to get my sexy chat on. So, hit...
    bisexualgurl69 bisexualgurl69 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I just think that trans women are so hot. Girl up top but guy down below. I don't know why I just think it's incredibly sexy.
    LadyCNote LadyCNote 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Ok here goes. I've been married for 2 wonderful years so far to an amazing man who I know worships the ground I walk on... Our sex life has gone from 3/4 times a week to now at...
    ebonygold ebonygold 41-45, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I really want to try rough harder sex.. Not sure how to introduce the idea.. I'm curious what dirty things a girl does turns you on? What should I try???
    YupThatsMee YupThatsMee 22-25, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I need sex talk somebody message me
    ashleydaniels0012 ashleydaniels0012 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I enjoy sexting more than I should really!
    oldwise oldwise 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Feeling SOOO horny right now any girls wanna sext me right now?
    MarkoMan5 MarkoMan5 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Yesterday was National ****** Day in UK http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2711865/Its-not-man-******-learn-Sexpert-Tracey-Cox-pleasure-bedroom-responsibility.html
    TheFullMoon TheFullMoon 51-55, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Okay question. I'm getting all kinds of advice but has anyone ACTUALLY gotten a real answer/diagnosis from their man/boyfriend/husband to WHY they're not actively wanting sex?? I'd...
    kros10 kros10 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I questioned my sexuality once during high school while playing truth or dare, I got to kiss my friend. Two days ago I went to a friend party and I don't know if I got a little...
    allclairity allclairity 18-21, F 3 Responses 57 mins ago

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    Any ladies out there wanna sext me??
    MarkoMan5 MarkoMan5 22-25, M 32 mins ago

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    well its more cute than sexy but either works, I feel really good tho and sent G rated pics to my bf hope he likes because for once I love the way I look in them <3 :D
    quietangel101 quietangel101 18-21, F 23 mins ago

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    From Psychology Today "Contrary to conventional wisdom, married couples—and their cohabiting counterparts—have more sex than the nonmarried, a fact confirmed in a 2010 survey...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 8 Responses Jul 7

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    My college sweetheart and I have been married 21 years and we have three children (11-20). My wife desires no sex. I pay very close attention to and meet her needs in all other...
    NoTalkJustDo NoTalkJustDo 41-45, M 10 Responses Jul 13

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    What can I say? I love sex. I am very in tuned with my sexuality. I know what I like, I know what I don't like. I know what I'm doing in the bed room. I've accepted the fact that...
    LovelyLadyJ LovelyLadyJ 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    Myths about low sexual desire: "Myth #3: If your partner wants sex but you don't, you can express your love in other ways. We tend to think that people should be able to choose...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Maybe ladies and gents if your partner doesn't want to have sex often or ever maybe it's cause their self esteem is low, try complimenting them by saying as often as you can how...
    greatinbedchick greatinbedchick 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 11

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    There was this particular person who commented on my sexiness. So I asked him, how could he say so when he hasn't even seen me. His answer was like the words in my head that were...
    malipatient malipatient 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I'm in a same sex relationship, we've been together for over a decade. Same sex marriage isn't legal in our state but we had a commitment ceremony several years ago and consider...
    cloudsinyoureyes cloudsinyoureyes 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    Sexless Marriage is a Biblical Reason for Divorce This is a re-post of a comment I wrote to someone that TheWendigo suggested I post as a story, in case it helps anyone. I am...
    UndefinedValue UndefinedValue 31-35, F 13 Responses Jul 21

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    Ok, so that first post wasn't so scary so why not a post two? I cannot begin to express how freeing it is just to have expressed it all. SM isn't something most people would want...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 7 Responses Jul 1

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    I am mostly naked when Im out on the streets because I love to show my sexy body for people but I also love to dress sexy in a bra, a garter, stockings, a sexy top, a short skirt...
    nakedmartin nakedmartin 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    I've been reading posts here and I guess I'm what most of you would call a "refuser", and here's why: my husband's "sexy" touch creeps me out and knowing that the sex (if I allow...
    equila equila 41-45 21 Responses Jul 11

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    Pelvic Floor Disorder. Something to think about. My marriage ultimately ended due to this disorder. The lack of intimacy and sex killed our marriage. For over 12 years I...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 15

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    I've been reading for a couple of weeks and I couldn't believe that it's not just our dysfunction. We've been married for 12 years but "together" since high school that's like 24...
    Anirak73 Anirak73 36-40, F 13 Responses Jul 16

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    I Am Looking For Someone Going Through The Same Thing. I am in an all-but-sexless relationship with someone I love and respect, and I'm looking for someone who can relate to talk...
    NXS3 NXS3 26-30, F 18 Responses Jul 17

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    Read and weep or read and vow to take the steps under your control to make your life better. "Don't believe us? A Reddit thread popped up this week asking married folks to weigh...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    Not a whole lot to tell. My wife announced over 10 years ago that there would be no more sex. She has hip and shoulder joint pain from being a hairdresser, so I don't blame her for...
    greyeagle45 greyeagle45 66-70, M 6 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm 42, he's 40. We've been married 7 years with 2 kids. I just thought we were too tired for a sex life. For the last couple of years I have had this low level of resentment...
    Blox99 Blox99 41-45, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Sex-Shaming I ran across this, buried down in a string of comments: "Actually they say the more intelligent a person is often the less sex they need..." I was a little surprised...
    MeNotWe MeNotWe 26-30, F 16 Responses 3 days ago

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    Okay, so I was on here a few days ago and told a little about my situation and history. Most people were harsh and judgmental towards me when I admitted to being the one who...
    Nil0 Nil0 46-50, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hey everyone. I have not updated in a while. Found out my husband has a sex addiction. I would have never thought so since we hardly had sex and to me a sex addict was someone that...
    miamorinvano miamorinvano 26-30, F 15 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm 29, married for 5 years, 2 beautiful kids. Unfortunately like most here I live in a sexless marriage. I have for several years. Now some will say, your young and just not happy...
    incognito21 incognito21 26-30, M 15 Responses Jul 1