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    Psychology Today has a couple of recent articles regarding "Does Sexless marriage justify adultery". The articles are reasonable and informed and the comments worthwhile. They...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    Before and After … Nearing 8 months after my separation, I reflect on the emotional desert I have called my marriage. During those years, I was starved for a smile or a hug. A...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 6

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    Although it wasn't truly my first. I had my first gay sexual experience this summer with a boy I know. I love having sex with guys, but emotionally I'm not attracted. I'm not bi...
    TJGO TJGO 18-21, M 6 hrs ago

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    I love having sex with strangers.. I am 35 years old, military man, married to a beautiful wife; but I love having sex with strange women.. My wife is very understanding and we...
    BraveRifle BraveRifle 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    I was doing some internet research for a friend of mine. An anonymous call has been placed to the DCS regarding her ability to raise her children. I read for several hours and what...
    pafforda pafforda 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    Recently I discovered that I enjoy her relationship with other men. I even want to see her have intimate relationship with them. This I realized when I saw her sharing some adult...
    rimpi1972 rimpi1972 41-45, M 5 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm so horny today I can't stop thinking about the hot steamy sex I had this morning,I love sex while talking about dirty kinky fantasies with my mrs she sure knows how's to make...
    supercat01 supercat01 31-35, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Just because I talk about it doesn't mean I want to do it with random strangers. Sexuality is an important part of my life and so I share about it just like any other experience...
    softbunny6 softbunny6 26-30, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I thought it's just me but I love listening to other people have sex.. I don't even care if I can't see them, because in my mind I will imagine them pleasuring each other however I...
    luc85 luc85 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Fun to talk about and even more fun and sexy to experience it. But really sexy to hear others experiences :)
    WhereIsHome WhereIsHome 36-40, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My sex dreams are always so vivid but i always wake up right before penetratin.. So frustrating..
    luc85 luc85 26-30, F 8 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I love to make my girlfriends tell me during sex how they first sucked someone off… at what age they started ************… usually this confessions are followed by a compliment...
    thewondererberlin thewondererberlin 26-30, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    i have been secretly taping my gf having sex with me when she found out she was mad and said i wont delete it so she got angry and i said you should whatever i want starting right...
    95mquijano 95mquijano 18-21, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Hi, my name is Kate and I'm 13. I was sexually abused by my grandpa from ages 4-6. The first time he did it, he told me we were going to paint a birdhouse upstairs that I had...
    katerz224 katerz224 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I’ve been sexually harassed countless times in my life. And there are a few that stick out. One of them bordered on rape. But other than the harassment itself, what plights me is...
    aew11 aew11 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Haven't have sex while my life ? I want to try !! I'm 18 years old
    frsrs frsrs 18-21, M 5 hrs ago

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    Nothing is sexier to me than a confident, well read, polite and cultured man who can hold back and forth discussions on poetry, classical music, books, music over some wine.. He...
    luc85 luc85 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Well on My work there is a really sexy woman. 20 years older than Me. And she doesnt know My naughty thoughts about her :)
    WhereIsHome WhereIsHome 36-40, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 13 Responses Apr 10

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    Illusions That Kept Me Trapped in Sexless Marriage If you read my first EP story, you will get the impression that the sexlessness started with the conception of my child 4 years...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ive been married for 13 y. And Ive been living in a sexless marriage for the past 4 or 5 maybe more. We have three kids and there was always an excuse for not having sex with...
    aking1973 aking1973 41-45, M 18 Responses 1 day ago

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    Thoughts on counter-refusing, or "why would I do to my SO what has hurt me so much?" This was posted elsewhere, but I thought I would post it here. The practice of a HL...
    stayinghereforreal stayinghereforreal 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 3

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    Those who do not have to deal with this situation must find it odd that those of us who do, express such deep sadness and longing. How often do the comments suggested the simple...
    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 18 Responses Apr 14

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    I'm a little bit tired of sexlessness one-up-manship that's been taking place in this forum recently. We haven't had sex in 15 months.... Reply: that's nothing We've had sex...
    elkclan elkclan 41-45, F 23 Responses 2 days ago

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    I can't believe it. Over two years and a half years gone....And, let me tell you I have had more sex in these past two years then the twelve years of that relationship combined...
    rosedl rosedl 41-45, F Mar 26

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    Result of the “talk” Friday night & going to try to keep this as condensed as possible. But, Im going to preface this with….some ppl on here would NOT consider my situation...
    Neverthoughtit Neverthoughtit 46-50, F 11 Responses Mar 29

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    One month update on my one month update. My wife continues to try to fux me out of this group. The last 4 weeks (totalling 8 now if my math is good) we have been having a lot of...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 18 Responses Apr 7

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    Update from Opposite Land Even though I normally have sex 3-4 times a week with my beloved post sexless marriage lover, I haven't had sex for a week. Why? He is sick with...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 14 Responses Apr 10

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    the reasons why i dont want to do anything sexual before marriage : reason number 1 : what if i had sex with my girl friend before marriage , and after few days i met with...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 7 Responses Apr 15

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    Seriously need advice :(....Soo I'm new at this... I'm 23 years old.. Got married really young, have 2 babies, one of which was born this year. I've been married for 5 years. My...
    missme90 missme90 22-25, F 11 Responses Apr 15

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    I discovered this board about a week ago, by chance, and by reading the many posts surrounding this issue, it's been an eye-opener to say the least, and not just because I now know...
    copperdoodle copperdoodle 41-45, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    There are many instances of people here, especially newbies, claiming that everything is good but the sex. I have even said it myself . But we all know that sex is far from the...
    SuntObosit SuntObosit 56-60, M 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Make that, that I used to live in a marriage that was becoming a sexless marriage. Today would have been our second anniversary. The story is complicated, but to make it short, she...
    soundtrackforantarctica soundtrackforantarctica 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 25

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    I have been married for 8 years. The sex was just alright in the first couple of years and then basically dwindled off into never ever land. I thought I could accept her lack of...
    ll2live ll2live 41-45 8 Responses Apr 7

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    The Other Big Question-- In Case You Think "all-great-bar-the-sex" Baz posted a story the other day about how we ought to consider what we are "really" searching for before we...
    EinEngel EinEngel 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 8

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    Me and R have been together for more than a year now. At the beginning he wasn't interested in sex at all, he was very respectful and made me wait for it. I was crying inside...
    Miss2nn Miss2nn 18-21, F Apr 9

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    I have been together with my wife for 18 years and been married for 8 years soon. And the past 8 years there have been less and less sex. For now, no sex at all. All these years i...
    WhereIsHome WhereIsHome 36-40, M 16 Responses Apr 9

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    This is a little scary, posting about such private matters to people I've never met, but here goes. I googled sexless marriage for the first time today. What triggered it was the...
    TCKat TCKat 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 10

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    I love my husband, but I have been having sex with just him for over a decade. I would much rather have sex with a different man every other month than to have sex with my husband...
    FrolickingFemale FrolickingFemale 36-40, F 16 Responses Apr 12

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    I love that I found this app and people out there in sexless marriages. My husband has a ****/************ addiction which he sees a therapist for on a weekly basis but I just don...
    dmb8927 dmb8927 36-40, F 12 Responses Apr 16

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    The thing is, it's hard to put a label to my sexuality because it is fluid, as I believe all sexuality should be. For starters, I believe in there being a difference between...
    TheAlbinoGirl TheAlbinoGirl 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't know if my story is the same, or different...some of us know nothing and everything about the reasons why we're here. I'm in my mid 30's, my husband is 50ish. We've been...
    DichotomyInMotion DichotomyInMotion 36-40, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm only sexual towards one person at a time and in that process. I'm too sexual.. it is very uncommon for someone to be with me and not see my naked or touching myself. I know...
    jellyrolls34 jellyrolls34 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Hi, i would like to find a couple who is interested in helping me convince my wife to join in on couples play and swinging. I know that she would enjoy it, and has an extremely...
    Eha8584 Eha8584 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 24

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    No, I don't think its the MOST important thing, but I do know that if you and your partner aren't on the same wavelength, it can truly mess up an otherwise good relationship. I...
    suzieb1971 suzieb1971 41-45, F Mar 27

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    My wife whom I love dearly and I had sex twice last year and not at all this year. I know I will never again have sex and I'm doing my best to come to terms with this. The...
    Dropbear Dropbear 41-45, M 21 Responses Mar 27

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    Two weeks ago, I shared what I thought would be my current status for awhile. Life being what it is - it has thrown me into a crazy roller coaster loop once again. The good news...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 21 Responses Mar 28

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    Overview: Male 47 ; Australia; Dated (celibate) a young Catholic lady for seven years; Married for seven more years (sexless after honeymoon); no children (guess why); We have had...
    angelwanderer angelwanderer 46-50 27 Responses Apr 1

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    I don't know what to do. I have never been sure about my sexuality and I have been experimenting with both sexes. I am currently in a relationship with a male and even though it...
    x5m45h1ngx x5m45h1ngx 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    My mom just told me the other day that I might have been sexually abused when I was 4. I was like, "What do you mean, "might" ? " She would drop me off at daycare when she went to...
    innerself000 innerself000 18-21 1 Response Apr 7

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    I have sex sex all the time not with my hubby but his friends whenever they come over I make sure my boobs r showing n I look hot so they get hard sometimes I send my hubby to get...
    Roshni23 Roshni23 18-21, F 10 Responses