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I Should Let Him Go

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 49 People

    What Am I Doing?

    We have been together for 4 years minus 3 months of being broken up.  He is my first real boyfriend and I do still have feelings for him but he for whatever reason does not want to settle down with me.  He dosen't even want to move in together.  I am ready for a...
    Be4Me Be4Me 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2007

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    Too Far Away

     I met Jake on myspace  over a yr ago last month ...  and he seemed to good to be true  i should have taken it from Eminems song  if it seems to good to be true they usually are ... but anyways ... at first i screwed it up .. i got scared. it was my first...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2007

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    I Dont Know What To Think Anymore

    I've really liked this guy for the longest time and at some points in time I felt like he might've possibly felt the same way about me. But there have just been too many complications and too many situations that he probably never even knew about. At the moment I am nothing but...
    arangeharrer arangeharrer 13-15, F Apr 17, 2010

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    hizkitten hizkitten 41-45, F 38 mins ago

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    I don't know what to do. I can't persuade him of anything. He has to figure it out on his own. I just hope the happiness and love I brought into this relationship is enough for him...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    Hopelessromantic98 Hopelessromantic98 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 15

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    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
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    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13

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    I think I'm in love with a guy that I know I can't have and I'm trying to let go of him... It's the hardest thing to do... I can't let go of him, but I need to :'(
    MindOfManyThoughts MindOfManyThoughts 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Dear Parents, Jasmine was in a relationship with a dirty homeless guy named Aladdin. Snow White lived alone with 7 men. Pinocchio was a liar. Robin Hood was a thief. Tarzan...
    Xlandria61 Xlandria61 61-65, F Oct 14

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