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I Should Let Him Go

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 46 People

    What Am I Doing?

    We have been together for 4 years minus 3 months of being broken up.  He is my first real boyfriend and I do still have feelings for him but he for whatever reason does not want to settle down with me.  He dosen't even want to move in together.  I am ready for a...
    Be4Me Be4Me 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2007

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    Too Far Away

     I met Jake on myspace  over a yr ago last month ...  and he seemed to good to be true  i should have taken it from Eminems song  if it seems to good to be true they usually are ... but anyways ... at first i screwed it up .. i got scared. it was my first...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2007

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    I Dont Know What To Think Anymore

    I've really liked this guy for the longest time and at some points in time I felt like he might've possibly felt the same way about me. But there have just been too many complications and too many situations that he probably never even knew about. At the moment I am nothing but...
    arangeharrer arangeharrer 13-15, F Apr 17, 2010

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    (I am learning to let you go) I am listening to Dolly Parton - I will always love you, while writing this. Yesterday and while I was talking to a friend and searching on my...
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    I find it very hard not to think about people who have hurt my feelings. I have running dialogue in my head of past confrontations and future ones. I still remember in 3rd grade...
    tarabull tarabull 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    It is true love and I'll never let it go. It's hard to live by loving someone who broke your heart and don't love you as much as you love him. But my heart says not to let it go...
    EleniHaru EleniHaru 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    There was a time when the words " I love you " whispered by him would ignite a fire from within. Sparks would fly and my heart would be singing a song of it's own. My arms would be...
    MzPhoenix MzPhoenix 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I realize I sometimes hold on to people when theyre letting me go.  Sometimes the toughest part of letting go is realizing that the other person already did. This is hard for...
    LanaKane LanaKane 70+, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have one insecurity that I don't think would bother me so much if I just let it go in the first place. In general I don't think I can completely let go of it, unless I talk to...
    taminglife taminglife 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I met this guy online we talked for a month and have been together for almost 4 months now. he's amazing and pretty close to everything I've ever wanted. I'm 19 he's 26. **** was...
    countrysgirl countrysgirl 18-21, F Jul 21

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    If I truly love you then I'll never let you go no matter what. I'm quite a selfish person so even if you want to break up with me I wouldn't want to let you go however if you truly...
    dreaamer101 dreaamer101 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    After 2 days of not speaking after what he said, he texted me again. It's not that I wanted to start a fight, I wasn't at all surprised I was just stating the facts. I can see now...
    taminglife taminglife 22-25, F Jul 20

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    I know I am in a better place now that he is out of my life. He cheated on me. He's an alcoholic and unstable person. Yes, I do miss him. I stay up at night thinking of us and what...
    macabre00 macabre00 26-30, F Jul 20

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    Dear Achelle, Hey, what are you doing? You know what, many told you that you are a good person,caring,sweet and loving. You always think about others first right? :) Do you...
    Achelle07 Achelle07 22-25, F Jul 19

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    he cheated while I was pregnant he was never home I have two little boys and a baby girl while I was pregnant with her he cheated left me alone hit me and I was always home with...
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    I finally fell asleep without dreaming of you. But what good does that do when I'm not waking up to you. You're always on my mind. I wake up & the worry is there again. The pain is...
    taminglife taminglife 22-25, F Jul 19

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    WhatTheMEL WhatTheMEL 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 19

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    I just started band camp, and I met this cute senior. He's really polite, and whenever I ask him for something he always willing to help me, but whenever I think about talking to...
    enchantedvibes enchantedvibes 13-15, F Jul 19

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    I have 7 or 8 notebooks filled with letters written to my mom over the past 10 years starting with the one I wrote the day she passed away. I have sad letters mad letters and happy...
    KylieeBear KylieeBear 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    I have accepted the fact that I will always love him. A love so true & loyal. It's impossible to forget or let go. I feel that nobody will ever be able to take his place. That my...
    hadyourchance hadyourchance 36-40, F 17 Responses Jul 19

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    I haven't seen him since Tuesday and God I miss him. We aren't even dating but I like him so much. Only problem is I'm 16 and he's 21... He keeps telling me it's wrong and we...
    Nicole1334 Nicole1334 16-17, F Jul 18

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    I am still in the process but I am moving in that road. I've been doing few attempts now and then on various aspects of my life but nothing was broad clear. I was shyly moving...
    StrongWoman9 StrongWoman9 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    ladyfingerz ladyfingerz 31-35, F Jul 17

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    I've pretty much lost all of my family. My mother is completely different, and she's mean now, and irresponsible. Her father is violent and mean as well, not to mention sneaky and...
    DementedKarkat DementedKarkat 13-15, T Jul 16

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    JennPenn JennPenn 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    He says he wants a closer friendship with me... I don't know what my intentions with him are yet... but... I don't think he & I are compatible, NOT even as friends.... and that's...
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I still love him and I think that is what's keeping me from letting him go. I keep thinking of all the good times and less of the bad times. I don't understand why I can't just...
    soulfulmuse soulfulmuse 18-21, F Jul 13

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    Today is a really hard day. I gave my absolute heart and soul to a heartless and soulless person. The nice guys... I say "no thanks" to the nice guys. I need to figure out why I...
    cloudedsky cloudedsky 26-30 2 Responses Jul 13

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    but i can't.all i can do is give him alot of space to move on and be happy by himself.it was nice talking to him today,it felt like we really ended on good terms.i really want the...
    thatalexchick thatalexchick 22-25, F Jul 12

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    After 7 years hoping one day he'd be mine.....im finally happy to leave my AP in the past. The last 3 years have been all about be trying to find out his true feelings.....after...
    sillysoo sillysoo 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Emberlasting Emberlasting 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    FindingMyself03 FindingMyself03 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I mean I have moved on... he did not treat me right anyway. but I never saw how bad he was for me and I know he is bad but there's a little part of me that feels like I can make...
    Cheya Cheya 18-21, F Jul 9

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