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I Should Let Him Go

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    What Am I Doing?

    We have been together for 4 years minus 3 months of being broken up.  He is my first real boyfriend and I do still have feelings for him but he for whatever reason does not want to settle down with me.  He dosen't even want to move in together.  I am ready for a...
    Be4Me Be4Me 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2007

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    I Dont Know What To Think Anymore

    I've really liked this guy for the longest time and at some points in time I felt like he might've possibly felt the same way about me. But there have just been too many complications and too many situations that he probably never even knew about. At the moment I am nothing but...
    arangeharrer arangeharrer 13-15, F Apr 17, 2010

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    Too Far Away

     I met Jake on myspace  over a yr ago last month ...  and he seemed to good to be true  i should have taken it from Eminems song  if it seems to good to be true they usually are ... but anyways ... at first i screwed it up .. i got scared. it was my first...
    starstruck2xtrme starstruck2xtrme 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21, 2007

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