I Should Not Be Judged By My Cover, But The Content Within

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    A Tale Of Many Parts...

    I appear to be a disabled woman who despises fluffy bunnies, romance and the government. I am socially outcast. I hate bunnies who are really monsters. Romance is felt, not given in a box. Nobody tells me what do do, I already have morals and morale. I was sexually assaulted as a...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid
    36-40
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2013

    I Am Not A Different Species

    Why does society look at larger people as a different species? I would love to go one day without an insult or a reminder that I am fat. I know that I am. I don't need anyone to tell me over and over again. I wish people could see ME. The REAL ME! I am a very good person. I don't...
    sillybitch44 sillybitch44
    16-17, F
    Feb 18, 2013

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