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I Should Not Be Judged By My Cover, But The Content Within

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    A Tale Of Many Parts...

    I appear to be a disabled woman who despises fluffy bunnies, romance and the government. I am socially outcast. I hate bunnies who are really monsters. Romance is felt, not given in a box. Nobody tells me what do do, I already have morals and morale. I was sexually assaulted as a...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 3 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    Today, I was told that I looked like a serial killer in my profile picture! There is only one person, to date, who has taken the time to get to know me on here. The sad part is, they are right!!! I've tried to end My life twice and my marriage of 23 years died, when my Wife...
    Mencrytoo Mencrytoo 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 5, 2012

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    I Am Not A Different Species

    Why does society look at larger people as a different species? I would love to go one day without an insult or a reminder that I am fat. I know that I am. I don't need anyone to tell me over and over again. I wish people could see ME. The REAL ME! I am a very good person. I don't...
    sillybitch44 sillybitch44 16-17, F Feb 18, 2013

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    Here I am undercover. Light falling sycopantic and broad. Drowning into the fog of my continuation in this world. Feet dragging under missed steps. 1000 thoughts spangling with every heart beat and yanked breath. Imponderable and rigid under supple skin. Fearing you will see me...
    SilentBluemoon SilentBluemoon 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2012

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