I Shut People Out When They Hurt Me

The moment someone starts to hurt me or hurts me really bad I start to push them away. I can’t help it,when someone I care about hurts me, I shut down, close up and when needed do not talk to the person (s) until I am ready too...

You tell me your drama free when you make a big deal out of nothing. You need to grow up

You insult my family, you may as well just walk the fuck out of my life. I may not be the smartest person on the planet but leave them out of it...

Time heals all wounds, but time does not rid us of the scars. The sight of them turns my stomach. I wish instead of history repeating itself, people actually had genuine feelings for one another once again. Too many evil desires have...

This Actually Happens: Setting a Date For Your Breakup
by Jo Piazza on April 09, 2013

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We’ve been talking aplenty about breakups – specifically, about a condition called FOBU, or Fear of Breaking Up. Read all about it, find...

I have developed my own sensor to situations or people that can hurt me. It has just developed from being constantly hurt and disappointed by my husband.So now, if I sense something painful is coming I automatically put up protectors...

I've found friends (which now I'm not terribly good) and I've let them in.

Showed them my feelings.
My likes and dislikes.
My home.
My life.
My heart.

Then when I feel like the luckiest girl in the world to finally have someone who...

Things happen for a reason right? Actions have consequences, words can hurt, things go on in life that really shouldn't have to happen. I like to believe that people are inherently good, and they don't intentionally hurt people. However...

I really hate the fact that there is someone I would do anything in for. But what good does that do me? Not a bit of good. I am serious the slightest change in someone, and I am ready to head for the hills. I am too loyal to those who...

and I'm not proud of it.  I need to have a lot less "all-or-nothing" patterns in my life I think.  And start realising that humans make a lot of mistakes a lot of times, which can create a lot of hurt unintentionally.

I know that shutting people out after they've hurt me isn't very helpful, and you could argue that it's even somewhat hurtful to other people as well as to myself (I acknowledge that it isn't very forgiving) -- but in all honesty, it's...

Sometimes it amazes me how easily I can do this, how easy I can shut someone out and move on. I have done it several times. It is probably a survival strategy that I acquired still as a child.

It might be an immature reaction, but, on...

i am hurt and its borthering me

To cut people off from my life.

I used to be this cold person when I was younger. If a person would hurt me in indescribable ways that really shook me to the core, I would simply just not talk to them, email them, call them...cut them...

Well its not a good night tonight. I am afraid it's trying to happen. I mean seriously, I never cry, ever. And then there's tonight. And now I am. And i guess it's my own fault. I don't want to shut people out, but I just get an...

Yeah. Fuck you people. You can go straight to hell. If I don't matter to you, then you don't matter to me. Action is character.

Now, I could go on for days and write novels about how my life has been but I don't want anyone's sympathy or admiration. I'll sum up my life as fast as possible. I was born with a mental condition. It's been called many things, nothing...

I have no other choice but to shut people out when they hurt me. I am always cautious not to hurt another persons feelings so i expect the same in return. Sure there are times we step on someones toes without knowing.... but that's...

I'm not the best when it comes to being upset and dealing with my emotions. I would rather be angry; it's something I can deal with, but being upset and hurt....I can't. So when i'm hurt I shut them out because sometimes silence can...

I do shut people out when they hurt me. I think its natural to need to close off from that. But I also notice I soon forget that need to shut people out and I open up maybe more afterwards.

I don't let pain from someones actions take...

I moved to small town to help take care of my mother. I worked for a family business that had a son about thirty five years old and we became friends. We were never meant to be more than friends as I was fifty nine.
After knowing him a...