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    My husband cheated 3 years ago, but before that he treated me so badly. He was cruel, cold and distant for the first 14 years of the marriage. After I discovered his cheating, he...
    sadkitty77 sadkitty77 51-55, F Jan 20

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    I am in an interracial marriage. I'm a black man, and my wife is white. She has a daughter (who is white) from a previous marriage, and recently gave birth to my second daughter...
    DamnedDalmation DamnedDalmation 26-30, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My husbands girlfriend just told him that she feels bad for me. That she's angry for me. That if she were in my position she would feel used, disgraced, and embarrassed. I feel bad...
    nyas28 nyas28 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 15

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    Please explain how "emotional issues" have become the "get out of jail free" card to excuse bad behavior in adults. I know that there are people who truly have diagnoses that make...
    BrainOverridesHeart BrainOverridesHeart 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I am not in a troubled marriage. I am now in my second marriage. My first marriage lasted 21 years. My wife was confined to a wheelchair due to disability. We had three children...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Well I'm not going I say never but as of right now I don't feel like i need to get married in the future. Look I'm not in a serious relationship, do I want to be yes. I want to be...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F Jan 18

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    my husband is neglecting me and doesn't care about my pregnancy. I'm in his country and I'm helpless without him he doesn't take me to doctor and whatever I say he just ignore. I...
    dc0d3 dc0d3 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    India as you all might know is a country rich in culture and tradition. Arranged marriages happens to be a very integral part of this culture. I am 27 years old and got married in...
    femaleskeleton femaleskeleton 26-30 1 Response Jan 19

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    The uncle I suspect of raping me died this Monday... And memories started to haunt me again. All the things I keep inside... Most of them are about my grandmother. He used to live...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I would like to get some responses.. Is there any of you or somebody you know who is in a long distance marriage, -I stressed, marriage, not 'long distance relationship', -and...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Why do they call it gay marriage? Im so sick of the labels they give everything. Its not a gay marriage. Its marriage. Marriage is about two people who love each other. It doesnt...
    WarriorPoet97 WarriorPoet97 16-17, F 8 Responses Jan 2

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    Facing marriage, people have different ideas about the contrast between love and money. However, I prefer love to money, if I have the choice. Firstly, as a matter of fact, love...
    rosafiermonte rosafiermonte 26-30, F Jan 14

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    It does not belong to me it belongs to everyone. Marriage is between consenting parties who vow to be in a committed romantic relationship. Far be it form me to stop someone from...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F Jan 19

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    maybe against would be a strong word, but i dont agree with force arranged marriage. what i feel more painful however is the fact that... for children who love their parents, they...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    I have been divorced for over 3 years now. I often read stories here from people in sexless marriages, hoping that maybe I can help someone either save their marriage or help in...
    sundancesoul sundancesoul 46-50, F 1 Response a week ago

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    The words marriage and engagement still depress me; make me feel disgusted somehow… Yes, disgusted! For different reasons which I may freely share here some time in the future...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    To help people to be more informed about Pakistan instead of listening to poverty and falling for any stories. Having been to Pakistan many times, I can safely say the below;- 1...
    Eridanus Eridanus 31-35 2 days ago

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    It saddens me deeply that people do not take marriage seriously anymore. Marriage used to be "until death do us part" and because of which, people actually took time in getting to...
    MsBree01 MsBree01 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    This is the walk away wife script. http://youtu.be/eyty0xb7IMM Every situation is different but at least 90% of this can ring thru in one way or another IMHO Well I was the...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Hi everyone, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help SOLVER KING render to me in my marital life. i have been married...
    sharon1234524 sharon1234524 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    It is better to learn faithfulness before marriage. Those who were not willing to wait before marriage, will more likely not restist within marriage. I believe that true love waits...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I have been married for 19 years. my husband prefers I keep any issue that may start argument's to myself. he respects outsiders over me and our marriage. he doesn't listen to...
    mrsunderstood72 mrsunderstood72 41-45 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Well , yesterday we had our first joint counselling session. Beforehand I was very anxious. I had a knot in my stomach and a pain in my head. I wasn't sure if H would appear, but...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 26 Responses Jan 20

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    I have been in my prison sentence of a marriage way to long I have given everything I can think of for my marriage and nothing works I had a glimmer of hope yesterday evening...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    New year-New Beginning The new year of 2015 is upon us So many things I'm glad are over One of them being my relationship with you You hurt me like no other has before you...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Hi Everyone, I have this unusual problem and it’s affecting my sex life in a big way. It seems that over the past month or so, I’ve developed some kind of infection at the...
    suzzieQue suzzieQue 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 1

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    My partner has a very bad habit of not taking any responsibility of our relationship. The desisions we made as a couple like getting a dog, looking after his Nan's dog etc are now...
    Imoveryou Imoveryou 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    My wife and I have been together for just over 20 years. We have 3 wonderful Children and for the most part have been happy. We don't fight, I cook, clean, wash clothes, run the...
    sadsack44 sadsack44 41-45 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I feel married destroy the true lobe this details after married can start as a boring things then will start fighting and in the end the both are not happy so after my experience...
    tetomni tetomni 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Whenever we get in a fight and I either leave the house or lock myself in the bedroom to get away, so many thoughts run through my head. How I want to leave. How I deserve better...
    LeglessPotato LeglessPotato 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Soo I toke a shower, put lotion on, and put on something sexy.... And I didn't get lucky! Sometimes I don't know what to do anymore... I'm trying to figure out a solution to this...
    URLOVED4EVA URLOVED4EVA 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    NYE 2014 I am anxiously awaiting a new life. I started writing on here in October and have learned a lot about myself since then. I find that writing & reflecting about my marriage...
    Luckymomof2boys Luckymomof2boys 31-35, F 12 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I feel like there are so many women out there that are having these fairytale marriages, and have the most perfect husband. I find myself often longing to have someone surprise me...
    curiousmermaid curiousmermaid 22-25, F Jan 2

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    I don't know whether to read the stories about sexless marriage just to feel better about my own or look for stories about happy marriages so I don't start thinking it's a...
    justNIK justNIK 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    After years of begging my husband to go to marriage counseling and him flat out refusing or agreeing and then going once and then finding excuses why he can't go, I started therapy...
    MLH205 MLH205 41-45, F 11 Responses Jan 5

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    I am so alone. I have been with my wife for almost 2 years and married for only 4 months. The first month after marriage was fine. sex at least 3-4 times a week. But shortly after...
    masterdriver1313 masterdriver1313 31-35, M 10 Responses Jan 6

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    Well, here we go! I....I guess we....will be starting our new life style this Friday. I discovered DD about 8 years into a horrible marriage. I didn't agree with a lot of what I...
    TownsendsGirl TownsendsGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    My wife wants me to sleep with other women. I'm 34, she's 34, we have a daughter, and I think we fight too much. She is very touchy about any time I even bring up our lack of...
    RealColonelMustard RealColonelMustard 31-35, M Jan 8

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    isn't for the most part every one unhappy in their marriage? I know its wrong but my body is broken so I am still married due to money, our kidd, I love my in laws n he wont leave...
    sixtens sixtens 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    A brilliant, long term FWB relationship (great friends, sex and conversation) - with no compulsion from either us for an " in love" scenario to develop and spoil it, possibly...
    Ashanti Ashanti 51-55, T 3 Responses Jan 12

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    & I have no regrets. That said, I sincerely believe "to each his/her own" and would hate to imply my choices were the best choices. I respect people who choose to wait til marriage...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 13

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    This is something I've thought about for quite some time. I've had the marriage thing, and for all sorts of reasons, admittedly, some my fault, it did not work. Now after being...
    quasimotoornot quasimotoornot 56-60, M 3 Responses Jan 13

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    I'm still a virgin now, but I think it will not be like that until marriage though, my parents are basically making me stay a virgin until marriage. I don't want that at all...
    ItWasTheLastWeek ItWasTheLastWeek 13-15, F 9 Responses Jan 13

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    For over 20 years I lived a life with very little sex. The times we did have it were mostly initiated by me. After many years of this it really messes with a person's psyche...
    sundancesoul sundancesoul 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I've always thought the concept of marriage was a good idea, but not for the reasons why most think. I don't think that marriage is an act that symbolizes "love" between 2 parties...
    ivan305 ivan305 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 19

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