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I Sideffects Of Bad Marriage

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    I am lonely in this marriage , my husband had gave up on life .I know we have been through a lot together ,but I never gave up on our family ,I still try hard . I love him to death...
    Nectar12 Nectar12 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 23

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    I am just looking to vent a little bit here. I've been married for 20 years. It's been 20 years of pretty awful. My husband doesn't have conversations with me and we haven't been...
    endjoy1994 endjoy1994 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    It will be 4 years in a few weeks that we have been married. 6 months after we married everything fell apart. He became distant, cruel, and emotionally abusive. I stood up to him...
    ditsheyo ditsheyo 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    The lord is close to the brokenhearted. He saves those whose spirits have been crushed. Psalm 34:18
    Pierce7891 Pierce7891 16-17, F Aug 30

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    Today's disappointment is going to be the last time I have one of the kind... Someone who wrote to me in such a sweet, loving, caring way...even asked for my address to send me a...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    How sad, another bad marriage complaint. I can't even find or think of anything good about you. You make me feel like I should just die. FML! If ever I find myself divorced I won't...
    Fitguy1984 Fitguy1984 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I have failed my my wife. It took an entire year for me to be able to admit that or even see it. For the last 11 months it's been "my wife is selfish" or "my wife is unreasonable...
    TonyM323 TonyM323 36-40, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Oh wait, I mean "Won't". "Won't" wait until marriage.
    RustinCohle RustinCohle 18-21, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Undecided whether to post this under this group or under the other one "I'm having random thoughts", I believe posted here the discussion shall be more thoughtful and sensitive...
    TheMaverickWoman TheMaverickWoman 36-40, F 11 Responses Sep 15

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    "For Better or For Worse" I have been thinking about this particular vow. As someone who was brought up from birth in the church, I was always taught that divorce is not optional...
    EmbraceMe68 EmbraceMe68 41-45, F 9 Responses Sep 2

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    Me, myself and my parents marriage... I asked my wife to go to a shrink with me about 3 years ago. she did not refuse the idea, but she ways always too busy, or tired or had a...
    frozenhere frozenhere 31-35, M 7 Responses a week ago

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    I am going to tell how trying to keep my husband in a sexless marriage turned into a terror. When my husband came back from the military his father and other wanted me to assist in...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 7 Responses Sep 12

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    I'm new here. I've been reading stories and honestly felt better that I wasn't alone. I'm angry about my marriage. I feel like I could write a book called 101 reasons why I don't...
    silvermoonflower silvermoonflower 31-35, F 14 Responses Aug 25

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    Sorry, this is awfully long! I'm a married mother of two little boys - two little treasures who make my heart soar with every kiss, every pudgy hand-hold, and every time I hug...
    Wonderloon Wonderloon 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Everything is ok but sex. Yes, I know; those are the most unpopular words here. Those who dare to utter them are frequently treated with …….. But I just wanted to give some...
    largehopes largehopes 36-40 8 Responses Sep 2

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    For those with children who are thinking of divorcing or outsourcing, a word of caution. I won't go into my background as of now, how I grew up and how little I knew and understood...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    "Sexual Aversion Disorder" I am not sure if anyone has ever posted about this in this group...Actually I am sure someone has but I cannot find such post. apparently there is an...
    JackHawthorne JackHawthorne 31-35, M 7 Responses Aug 31

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    This Aug. 21 advice column may be of interest to those staying in a miserable marriage "for the sake of the children." "DEAR AMY: I have been married for 15 years and have two...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 5 Responses Sep 8

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    I have been denied sex by my wife for the past 24 years. I acknowledge that in the beginning I was responsible for most of the problems in the relationship. I was an alcoholic and...
    davejgj davejgj 66-70, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    I am so exhausted from the roller coaster. Not enough sex, talk to my husband about it. Fights and tries to blame me so make whatever changes but ultimately promises it will get...
    newdaynewway newdaynewway 46-50, F 7 Responses Aug 30

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    I did not write the following but it is a great take on what an open marriage is like and what it should be like. I found this article at Salon.com. What I learned from dating...
    sosexyincolo sosexyincolo 36-40 2 Responses Sep 11

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    As a guy it is difficult to wait because we have a biological predisposition to mate often, but society says that's bad. Before the concept of marriage, our species did what it...
    LifeDispenser LifeDispenser 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    A few weeks ago I met someone here via his responses on my posts. He seemed very nice. I checked his profile. Others liked him. It seemed "safe" to chat with him. So when he...
    IrisROE IrisROE 56-60, F 43 Responses Sep 5

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    Journey to Opposite Land - I'm still swimming strong headed for the opposite shore. My lawyer filed my motion for divorce this week, and I'm ensconced in the guest bedroom of my...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 21 Responses Sep 5

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    I've heard the technical definition of a sexless marriage is sex less than 10 times in a year. But what about quality? What about a partner who doesn't just roll over and tell you...
    frogchop frogchop 46-50, M 14 Responses Sep 9

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    Well the day finally came….and went. I did the deed and asked for a divorce. As expected she was upset. I couldn’t blame her. Her whole world was going to change. She...
    beachlivin04 beachlivin04 41-45, M 47 Responses 3 days ago

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    I will try to describe my sexless marriage. We have been together for a long time. We met in high school and were each others first lovers. Both of us were shy and insecure and...
    Amaaj Amaaj 46-50, F 12 Responses 3 days ago

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    My boyfriend of almost 7 months and I broke up.. We were in a long distance relationship and for the past 2 months everything wasn't okay at all. Then he decided to end it, I...
    bel1000x bel1000x 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    I just read something that makes too much sense, good people make you feel good, bad people make you feel bad. That is the exact reason I had to have my husband find some place...
    sartur sartur 36-40, F 9 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    This last year all of these emotions have been festering.. I try to communicate but he doesn't listen. My husband is such a nice person but he blows up on me for the littlest...
    kathryn30 kathryn30 26-30, F 29 Responses Aug 23

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    8,165 to 1 Revisited. In a recent story I suggested the raw data showed that the odds of your ILIASM shithole turning around were 8,165 to 1. Been thinking about it a bit more...
    bazzar bazzar 56-60, M 24 Responses Aug 27

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    Today has been a bad day. All I can think about is how my husband doesn't want me. How he seems perfectly content in our marriage. How he constantly ignores my needs and shows me...
    kflesh kflesh 46-50, F 62 Responses Aug 31

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    I think many of us can relate to this song. Especially when we're feeling angry. http://youtu.be/jTgK-wqiH4s Not Coming Home Maroon 5 When you refuse me You confuse me What...
    coffeeflavoredkisses coffeeflavoredkisses 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 2

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    62 is still not old feel bad for u but there is a way u can find something outside of marriage wat he does not know does not hurt there r plenty men out there u will have husbent...
    jack24681012 jack24681012 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 5

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    I'm struck with a big picture thought about being in sexless marriages... If sex is not happening regularly with our spouses, WHATEVER they say about it, whatever excuses they...
    ace4444 ace4444 41-45, M 2 Responses Sep 10

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    The Scarlet Letter - Last night was very eventful in the Cherish household. I was drawn and quartered in front of my children, and the scarlet letter "A" branded on my forehead by...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 29 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am against the demand in girls marriage by Inlawas.....very bad!!
    gautamkeshu94 gautamkeshu94 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    It's at this ultimate phase, if preferred, the ornately dressed elephants carry the pair for the trip together the Seaside.We can easily then function together to generate your...
    Jeffrybup Jeffrybup 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Former member checking in. I wrote in I am Dating After a Sexless Marriage but it seems pretty quiet over there... so I am checking in here, too. It has been an amazing journey...
    awakeforthedancechecksin awakeforthedancechecksin 36-40, F 12 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    So I guess the question for me is, "How long does it take to turn an SM into a "normal" marriage?," or "How long does it take to recover from an SM, and make it better?" Of course...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 23 Responses Aug 27

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    Last night my father in law (lives with us in the front wing of our house) had my wife and daughter come in the room. In order to keep this story short I am going to give you the...
    NHotH2O NHotH2O 46-50, M 13 Responses Aug 30

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    When I originally posted in April of 2011, I was living in a sexless marriage. I was confused, heartbroken and angry... What happened in the 3 years following has nearly destroyed...
    malms malms 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    There are truths behind these funny quotes....To the singles, would you still wanna take the plunge on marriage? ***I never married because there was no need. I have three pets at...
    0nOpalsMind 0nOpalsMind 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    Days 6 and 7 – reclaiming my bed – in conjunction with my previous stories. So, day 6 was ok. #3 had his first real cough and found it difficult to settle in bed, so, and as...
    dadonthesofa dadonthesofa 46-50, M 17 Responses Sep 15

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    I've been putting off this update for a while. I cannot do so any longer. It's long and winding, so if you choose to dive in, prepare yourself. Curious things are happening in...
    Catonapillow Catonapillow 31-35, F 22 Responses a week ago

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    Sitting here with my coffee and my dog cuddled up next to me, feeling oh so relaxed from the sedation from the cervical epidural. Funny thing is the sedation didn't kick in at the...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 15 Responses 4 days ago

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