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I Sideffects Of Bad Marriage

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    I have been in a common law marriage for nearly 4 years. There have been many issues with me especially because i battle some anxiety and depression issues. Then i met someone...
    saria89 saria89 22-25, F Jul 9

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    Dealing with this crap from my husband. I want him to give me the divorce papers. Instead of taking things day by day has he saids. Who wants to live there life wondering what...
    OverPowered1 OverPowered1 31-35, F Jul 16

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    My wife just told me that we shouldn't celebrate our anniversary this week. Fine by me. The rest of our marriage is sham. Why pretend we are okay one day out of the year?
    Shaider83 Shaider83 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    My wife and I met in college 14 years ago but we didn't date we just were friends. She leaves to return home because one of her parents get ill and we lose contact until 3 years...
    Solonelysc Solonelysc 31-35, M Jul 14

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    Me and my husband tried to watch a movie together. It just seems forced. Our interaction with one another is forced... I feel like we are more like roommates than a couple. I...
    Shawneeluv Shawneeluv 22-25, F Jul 6

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    I'm 47 and very lonely My wife has been seeing someone else for years
    Solo24 Solo24 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Any women that want some fun with me ? Xx
    Solo24 Solo24 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    This is just an update on my story and I hope it can show other people here that there is future after a bad relationship. I read stories for here for maybe more than one year...
    mfur mfur 26-30, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    Lessons From Finance Class... I'm taking Business Finance this month (because nothing is more fun than sixteen-week courses packed into a four-week-long summer class), and my...
    MeNotWe MeNotWe 26-30, F 12 Responses Jul 10

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    Thank you all for letting me vent here. It is therapeutic and helps me organize my thoughts. . I do often feel like I am imposing on people when I talk to them. I remember being...
    ImBatmanNow ImBatmanNow 51-55, M 28 Responses Jun 28

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    Someone on this site mentioned that living in a sexless marriage is like living in a bubble. Exactly, that is what i feel like. Inside the bubble is My marriage, My family, My kids...
    whereishome whereishome 36-40, M 17 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Update from me....things are better! Counseling is going very well. I am proud of myself, first of all. The first day of marital counseling, I was so nervous and the weight of...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 15 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Today is our five year wedding anniversary. Five years of virtually no sex, and no intimacy. Not a cause for celebration in my eyes. All week I've been expecting this day to play...
    Catonapillow Catonapillow 31-35, F 22 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    For about a year I've been considering divorcing my wife of nearly 8 years. Our relationship has never been great. We are great friends, but horrible lovers/spouses. We do things...
    randomtiger45 randomtiger45 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    So sorry this is happening in your marriage. I as, the wife, am suffering the consequences of a sexless marriage. But I am here over 24 years... it's been going on for at least...
    mwmom mwmom 46-50 17 Responses Jul 4

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    Diary Entries During The First Months Of Marriage I have been slowly transferring my handwritten diary entries to this site. I've reached the part about my arranged marriage and...
    thelonewood thelonewood 26-30 3 Responses Jun 29

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    My college sweetheart and I have been married 21 years and we have three children (11-20). My wife desires no sex. I pay very close attention to and meet her needs in all other...
    NoTalkJustDo NoTalkJustDo 41-45, M 10 Responses Jul 13

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    I am in my third marriage. Curious how things go, my first one ended because my wife refused sex almost all the time. to the point of being intolerable. The stories I read here, i...
    marcz7 marcz7 46-50, M 9 Responses Jul 4

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    How do you know if it's really over? My husband and I relationship always consisted of "extreme moments"- when things are great they are head over heels great! In turn when...
    Ashante90 Ashante90 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 9

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    So, I've been trying to astral project for almost a year now. This morning at around two o'clock I'm pretty sure I finally pulled it off. Had sleep paralysis, vibrations, and I...
    ddiddi58 ddiddi58 26-30, M 13 hrs ago

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    Marriage is a total trap for men. Like a lot of people, this experience starts with a relationship between 2 people, then life happens. Anyhow there's these 2 people, they...
    carpediemer carpediemer 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have no idea how to balance anything in this marriage anymore. There is zero intimacy in our marriage and every time I bring it up it is always, "we have no intimacy in our...
    glammjunkie glammjunkie 22-25, F Jun 27

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    What does a normal, happy marriage look like? I've been comparing and contrasting my relationship with my husband vs my relationship with my AP. Husband: Separate rooms for 7...
    Blue2014 Blue2014 41-45, F 12 Responses Jun 26

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      I feel I have mentally checked out of this marriage months ago. I keep trying to deny my feelings and think everything is okay and not that bad. I am tired of being...
    Goddess65 Goddess65 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    I never thought that I would be in a situation like this. I was raised in a strict Christian family that honed in on the importance of being a "good girl". My 1st marriage ended in...
    BHEwife BHEwife 41-45, F 19 Responses Jun 30

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    What Have You Done? “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” -- Eleanor Roosevelt In sexless marriages...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 5 Responses Jul 11

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    Pelvic Floor Disorder. Something to think about. My marriage ultimately ended due to this disorder. The lack of intimacy and sex killed our marriage. For over 12 years I...
    saiyagyrl saiyagyrl 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 15

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    The chamber is empty, all the bullets have been fired, and the marriage has breathed it's last! I've got no shortage of dates and fun and friends, I wake up every day smiling, no...
    Gearcynic Gearcynic 31-35, M 11 Responses Jul 17

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    Seeking Therapy I’ve made my first step. I am seeing a therapist. This is not to try and repair my sexless marriage. I have realized that my sex life, the passion, the lust...
    Adam4Eve Adam4Eve 46-50, M 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    So I'm not finding much on here from the refusers perspective but I'll give this a try as I could really use some advice. I have been married for 8 years. We have a marriage that...
    britt48 britt48 26-30, F 32 Responses Jul 14

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    So I have spent the last several months debating on whether or not to talk to a good friend about my marriage. I finally opened up and told her how I have been denied/refused for...
    gardinel gardinel 36-40, F 16 Responses Jul 2

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    Blast off! So I told my husband I wanted a divorce today, and tried to give him a letter from my lawyer to make it a reality. It did not go well. My H said he won't agree to a...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 30 Responses Jul 5

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    This brat's life. Part 1 of 2 I will begin this blog by saying up front that I have never been in love like this in my entire life. I found my soul mate and I am crazy head over...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I've been married for 17 years. He has help me to raise children from my first marriage and we have 1 of our own. He has medical issues that have lowered his sex drive. This...
    CrazyKatLady CrazyKatLady 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Interesting article on obesity and its effect on people's sex lives. "Readers first encounter Englehardt at her heaviest, 265 pounds, strapped to a CPAP machine for sleep apnea...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am bad girl!!! Hahahahahah and crazy too hahaha 😭😭😭😭😭
    pangitako pangitako 22-25, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I've done something bad, and now I feel awful, how do I make this guilt go away? how do I make things right?
    beewbs beewbs 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Punished to the fullest-I took liberties Well I haven't been in here much. So much has happened. Moved, he started a business, kids, just crazy busy. During this time he was so...
    RsBrat RsBrat 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Countdown to D-Day: 8 days and counting... The end of a marriage is so sad. I loved my spouse and we were married for 17 years. I promised "to love and to cherish, until death...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 17 Responses Jun 28

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    And I do not know why I can't keep my mouth shut! Ive got three punishments waiting for me when I get home after work. I broke three rules today. I was really crabby and...
    LovingDDandHoH LovingDDandHoH 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Ok, so that first post wasn't so scary so why not a post two? I cannot begin to express how freeing it is just to have expressed it all. SM isn't something most people would want...
    justnanl justnanl 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 1

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    Been married for21 years, three great kids who I love dearly. My wife was my best friend, my fascination, my desire. 6 years ago she lost her spark. The fires of passion have died...
    RoughRed RoughRed 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Yesterday marked a year out of the house I shared with my refuser. Life is different, and so much better. I don't have to be his emotional and physical support (bad back=I did...
    misssunnybunny misssunnybunny 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 7

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    Afraid of change? It appears I shouldn’t have to be... As the journey in my head has begun...I’m contemplating what are the things that normally change after a separation...
    TheWeepingWoman TheWeepingWoman 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 10

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    Since I was a little girl I never really fit in with everyone.I always felt something was wrong with me.I couldn't ever figure it out and still never have and I don't think I...
    oceanwaves1989 oceanwaves1989 22-25 1 Response Jul 13