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    Still Single

    And alone. Thankfully I'm finally getting used to it. I don't like living alone, but at least it doesn't hurt so much anymore. Usually now I'm fine. Sometimes when its very late at night I still get sad. Not every night like it used to be. Now I've got my hope back and I'm...
    campcrazy campcrazy
    51-55, M
    1 Response Nov 22, 2013


    Hey reader, It's been a long time since my last relationship and I was lucky back then. I felt lonely and empty inside for a while. Because of this, I started to go out more often and look for anything to happen. I also decided to read about talking to girls and I really tried to...
    jm2serious jm2serious
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 15, 2012

    Pulsar Heart

    There is an ache just to the right of my heart So profound that it glows ice cold And it grows till it fills my chest and burns Oh, how it burns, till it consumes my every breath Then in silence, empty silence with a vacuum whoosh, The darkness sucks back to pierce like an...
    KTbeautifulKT KTbeautifulKT
    51-55, F
    Jul 20, 2013

    The best parts of my Christmas alone was having

    a bacon and cheese sandwich. Then I took a long nap. Then I had a steak for dinner. Now I'm just listening to some classic rock.
    campcrazy campcrazy
    51-55, M
    Dec 25, 2013

    Single As Always

    I only had 3 serious relationships in my life.the last one just crushed whatever self-esteem i had left in me. He was abusive verbally and even physically at times. It's been 5 years since. I forgave them all and if i had my shortcomings in the relationship as well at the time...
    maemac maemac
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 8, 2013

    Painfully Alone

    I need to get this off my chest. I need to vent... I am suffocating. I am alone and have been my whole life. I can’t describe how much it hurts!! What is wrong with me? It must be me… I have no other explanation for this situation I am in. I just am unhappily alone and...
    bluer0000 bluer0000
    Dec 16, 2012

    A Little Bit Of Venting For A Stressed Teenager

    A little backstory: I'm the average "nerd" of today's time. I stay home and play video games, I watch anime and whatnot, and I have a close to dead social life. There's not much I really do. I've got a few close friends, but not too many. Now, onwards to the real reason: I've...
    OmegaColonel OmegaColonel
    22-25, M
    Aug 4, 2013

    Its the first time in years

    that I don't have someone special I love to try and spoil for Christmas. I miss that. Its like that part is better then the gifts I get. I guess with me it is better to give then recieve.
    campcrazy campcrazy
    51-55, M
    Dec 21, 2013

    Just Another Story

    Hello,my name is Rowan. I am16 years of age, and am a wiccan. I identify myself with, and practice several conceptual traditions. Some of which include esoteric, ceremonial, and Cherokee witchcraft and magick. I am on a search for a nice girl (appearance does not matter) who I...
    rowantree12 rowantree12
    18-21, M
    May 16, 2013

    Single But Not Out....

    Even though my health hadn't been that great I sometimes do become exhausted when I work 12hr days but the good thing about it, I love what I do its just amazing having a job like it. I take pride in what I produce and I guess anyone else would feel the same. I do consume a lot...
    kipross44 kipross44
    46-50, M
    1 Response Oct 29, 2012

    I Seriously Want A Girlfriend

    Hello! I really want a girlfriend however I feel I will never have one I don't think I;m quite attractive I feel I could be easily friend-zoned The girl I LOVE doesn't really date...at all But I can't stop thinking about her. I just don't know HOW people can just have...
    catlover23 catlover23
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 4, 2012

    Hey the year-ometer on exp doesn't

    automatically increment, I stay the same age, for ever.
    deleted deleted
    Feb 16, 2016

    He Called Me Boring

    This Is a short story about my first (and shortest) relationship ever. For the sake of convenience (he has a long name) I'm gonna call him Chip. Okay......here goes. So, this particular tale occurred during my eighth grade year. I was finally putting a little effort into more...
    Mephistos Mephistos
    18-21, F
    Jul 6, 2013

    Single for the holidays.

    Blah!!! No point putting up a tree or decorating. There's really going to be nothing special about it. I don't have anyone to give gifts to. Looks like I will be ringing in the New Year with a rockin party of one, as well.
    campcrazy campcrazy
    51-55, M
    1 Response Dec 13, 2013

    It would be so great,

    just to have that feeling of hope. Having someone that seems to like me. Leaving me messages on here or giving me the joy and happy smile of a text. Someone that seemed like more was possible. A loving friend. A sweet caring soul. A chance. Its so good to think there may be a...
    campcrazy campcrazy
    51-55, M
    1 Response Dec 16, 2013

    Could It Be Possible This Girl Likes Me?

    I used to be fat and unattractive for my whole life, so I grew up with no girls ever being attracted to me. A few years ago, I lost weight and kind of "bloomed", but I still carry my old fears and find it hard to believe when a girl is flirting or showing interest in me. My...
    Becks7 Becks7
    18-21, M
    Feb 24, 2013

    Confused And Maybe He's Just Not That Into Me.....

    I've been on several dates and also joined a few dating websites, when the men give this story that they're looking for a woman who has her own, someone that will love them and looking for loyalty..blah...blah..I am all those things and more but yet once we go out on date and I...
    anewme35 anewme35
    31-35, F
    Nov 20, 2012

    A Lonely Life

    What is about life that always leaves me alone, no one to hold onto, no one to share my day or my feelings and no one to love. Life is skipping by getting ever quicker leaving me behind in its wake, my heart breaking daily as all i want is someone to love and someone to love me...
    Woollyback Woollyback
    46-50, M
    1 Response Feb 25, 2013

    Your Better Off Alone.

    God created you in his image. God does not need anybody. The moment you set yourself up to be with somebody is the moment Satan takes over. God says to choose the narrow path and not take wide path. In the narrow path you will not fall into a trap like the wide path were sheep...
    justicenpeace justicenpeace
    26-30, M
    Oct 16, 2012

    Weird. I guess tomorrow is Christmas Eve.

    It just does not mean anything to me this year.
    campcrazy campcrazy
    51-55, M
    1 Response Dec 23, 2013

    Single-don't Know How I Feel About That

    Yes, I know being single isn't a curse or anything and it doesn't mean there's something wrong with me but it doesn't mean that I'm always ok with being alone. I got pregnant at a young age and my friends at the time didn't think it was cool to hang out with the pregnant girl...
    twilightflowerchild twilightflowerchild
    22-25, F
    Nov 3, 2013

    I Need A Woman To Love And Spoil

    So much of my life is good. I'm really just missing that special woman in my life. I'm a very caring and loving man. I'm a good listener and don't watch TV. All the more time I could devote to a relationship. It might even work well if she was a bit younger then me. I don't look...
    campcrazy campcrazy
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Sep 29, 2013

    Dedication To Singleness Well After Blind Selfishness..

    Having blindly and unexpectedly let another into my life with my son I lost him fulltime, cried nights gone, was blind the man did not know how to open my eyes.. young and vulnerable, my son stayed with his dad and parents in where I came from a loving environment and well...
    Gregariousgirl Gregariousgirl
    22-25, F
    Dec 16, 2012

    Here We Go Again

    I created my own destiny, and so far its looking like me three kids busy days and lonely nights weekends filled of marathons of law and order and for a little more excitement some Columbo. To let out some sexual tension I will watch any type of ***** that i feel like. I dont see...
    aliciamichelle aliciamichelle
    1 Response Jul 2, 2013

    Doesn't Make Sense

    My ex and I are still friends. What bothers me is she gets mad that most of my friends on Facebook are women. Well, for one thing I don't enjoy talking to men. I'm not into sports or all that typical guy stuff. Its just stupid. I live alone. I now have no friends. And my family...
    campcrazy campcrazy
    51-55, M
    Oct 3, 2013

    Married Women

    I am in my late thirties. I am successful and have two young children. I have friends and family constantly trying to set me up with so and so. The only reason women are interested in me is for my money and the fact I have a nice house. I am sick and tired of people trying to set...
    ja6121 ja6121
    1 Response Sep 3, 2012

    Single And Hate It

    Well wasnt i the smart one sick of the single life in uk I moved to Catania in sicily an its even worse here I feel so Ugly compared to these Italian guys. All i want is to find miss right. someone who will accept me for me and not try to change me. Is there anyone out there like...
    bowman1984uk bowman1984uk
    1 Response Mar 27, 2013

    Depressed From Not Being Loved

    I thinking about really dating people online or at least hooking up with someone from craigslist this is how lonely iam. It's damn near pathetic, it also makes me very said that I am even considering doing it. I think that I am being sensitive about the situation because i havent...
    aliciamichelle aliciamichelle
    Jun 29, 2013

    How To Handle Singledom

    Being 21 (yeah I know that's 'young'), I go into every day with a hope, a glimmer of faith that it's a possibility that I may find the right person to do life with. I don't go out into social settings anymore with an expectation, which I used to do, but I just get out to increase...
    TheForestOfGnomes TheForestOfGnomes
    26-30, M
    Nov 10, 2012

    I've Never Had A Boyfriend

    So I'm 15 years old and I'm In high school and everyone else has already had a bf I feel ugly and unwanted what is wrong with me why am I incapable of having something else everyone already has and thinks nothing of they should know how lucky they are
    Maceylove5272663 Maceylove5272663
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2013

    Loneliness Is Slowly Killing Me

    I grew up with a serious lack of social skills. Over the years I have forced myself to improve (refer to my other story if you have time). Now I am more or less sociable and can actually talk to people. Not girls I like, though, I feel terrified and act all weird around them. The...
    Becks7 Becks7
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 8, 2013

    Strange, those with partners want somebody else,

    anybody!. those without, want anybody! -A true match? Grass is always greener perhaps? The illusion shatters? never satisfied. aah, the human condition
    deleted deleted
    Feb 16, 2016

    Well, We All Are Looking To See What Turns Up Next.

    Seems that even people who have 'relationships' are looking over their shoulder to see what else there is, Are running to see what has turned up in the inbox, message-box, voicemail, twitter, facebook et all. A socielty of people who are 'for now' , eternally looking to see...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 14, 2012

    Its weird. I talked to my sister the other day.

    She was talking about all the Christmas rushing around. Well, for me its just another day. This year it means nothing.
    campcrazy campcrazy
    51-55, M
    1 Response Dec 19, 2013


    Y the hell i'm not able to understand the fact that, "i came alone, i was alone, i'm alone and i'll be alone", !! Everytime the moment i see people talking to dear 1s closely, i dono wat **** happens to me, may be cos i never xperienced it. and i afraid i may end up without...
    abhi0588 abhi0588
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Aug 24, 2012

    Being Single Sucks...yep

    I've realized that I don't like being single. I want someone to come home to, to cook for, someone that will tell me I'm beautiful and mean it, that will hug me and hold me, etc.... For the longest time I thought my life sucks and this sucks because everyone around me or everyone...
    futurescreenwriter futurescreenwriter
    1 Response Oct 10, 2012
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