I Sleep Better When With My Lover

place for those who find it much better to sleep when their lover is with them than when they arn't. 892 People

    Cuddle Buddies

    I can never sleep alone, since i was a young girl i always slept in bed with our mother or my siblings, now I'm married i cannot bear to sleep without my husband in my arms with his head cradled in my bare breasts, its soothing and something i can barely live without. I also (but...
    TheLastRemnant TheLastRemnant
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 29, 2012
    deleted deleted
    Oct 8, 2015

    Security Blanket

    My husband is like my security blanket, and I sleep so much better when I'm in bed with him. We were apart for 2 -3 months at the end of last year when he went away to bootcamp, and going to bed every night without him felt horrible. It was so hard to fall asleep, or stay...
    paperalias paperalias
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 26, 2010

    Are you awake too? Do you reach

    for me like I do for you and find only empty space... I miss you.
    Elbellzi Elbellzi
    36-40, F
    Oct 7, 2015

    Got to love when in bed

    and the wife is snoring so loud that you pick up the phone and complain about it ha ha ha
    jerkfacehusband jerkfacehusband
    41-45, M
    Oct 7, 2015

    She's in my arms right now.

    .. lol, she swears she doesn't snore but I'm watching her cute *** do it
    littlemissplur littlemissplur
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2014
    cbailey301 cbailey301
    22-25, M
    Oct 3, 2014

    I Will Never Sleep Alone Again.

    I still remember 18 years ago while dating my husband we would spend hours and hours together. We would fall asleep at his house (he still lived at home back then) and he would wake me around 3am and say that I had to leave before his parents woke up. Standing at his door...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 22, 2012

    Last night my wife and I slept well,

    cuddling all night. It was a great night and very restful for both of us.
    WalkingMyOwnPath WalkingMyOwnPath
    41-45, M
    Jun 20, 2015

    I know I do. I get sick of this d-a-m-n truck.

    I love being at home in bed with my arm around my beautiful lady. The best sleep I get is when I am with her.
    PineCone350 PineCone350
    31-35, M
    Oct 8, 2015

    Huge Understatement

    I don't really sleep at all when I'm not with sugar. I toss and turn. I get overtired. I get jumpy. Eventually I drift off only to wake early unable to sleep any longer. It sucks. When I'm with her I sleep like a baby. Cuddled up to my love. I had never slept thorugh an entire...
    bassplayer bassplayer
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Oct 2, 2009

    My stuffed animals are bae,

    they'll never loose feelings or leave me for another, they're always down for cuddleing, plus they're tots adorbs!
    PanamanianPenguin PanamanianPenguin
    22-25, F
    Oct 17, 2015

    Sense Of Relief

    I can't sleep until my fiance is home safe and in our bed. Ever since losing my late fiance I worry constantly when he is not home. Feeling him next to me brings me a calm and relaxed feeling. My mind is at ease and I sleep so much better just holding his hand in bed.
    deleted deleted
    Oct 8, 2013

    That Is, ...

    ...when I have a lover. Right now I happen to have been single for some years.
    eleanorssong eleanorssong
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

    2 Boyfriends

     Hey i've been with my ex boyfriend for only 3 months we liked each other so much but one day he said that he's not the right boy for me he began to tell me lies because he wanted to broke up by the way he's from IRAQ and people from  his country ( brother and friends) don't...
    davidvianney davidvianney
    Aug 3, 2011

    It Takes Me Forever To Get To Sleep!

    I don't live with my boyfriend and we haven't been together for a significant amount of time but I've been staying at his house a few nights a week ever since I met him and there is no place more comfortable than being wrapped in his arms (and legs!) Without him I feel lost in my...
    bunnyyx bunnyyx
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 12, 2013

    Its Comforting

    When we get into relationships we enjoy an awesome comfort level between eachother that is nothing less than fantastic. The want we learn and seemingly need plays with our minds!! I never had trouble sleeeping.....ever! But with being alone I dont sleep as well for...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 21, 2008

    Its Just So Comfortable

    Its feels better to sleep with your lover than to sleep alone. Just being held and the warmth of him makes it so much better. I like it when im sleep and I wake up in the middle of night and he is still holding me. Best sleep ever
    Curiouswatcher Curiouswatcher
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2011

    So Relaxing

    I guess it's just I'm more calm and free of tension when with her. If I'm with her to sleep over, then I pretty much sleep perfectly, and i can even manage to sleep in, which is something I generally find impossible to do because I'm one of those early people. One day I'll...
    HellScyth HellScyth
    18-21, M
    May 17, 2008

    We Have To Sleep Together Or We Can't Sleep At All!

    Ever since we've gotten married, we've had to sleep in the bed next to each other touching. By touching I mean that we have to be right up against each other; his side tucked under/back facing me, and then me up against him. It's like a comfort thing or something. So every night...
    AschiaroseIsYourGoddess AschiaroseIsYourGoddess
    36-40, F
    Oct 25, 2012

    10 Year's And Still I Smell It

    25 May 2011   Today would represent 10 years of marriage to a man who wore many masks, drunk his way to bottom of many a bottle, which inevitably led to many bruises broken hearted arguments, and now has left only the scars on my soul, of what life with an alcohol...
    AngelsChoice2011 AngelsChoice2011
    31-35, F
    9 Responses May 27, 2011

    I have nightmares... I wake up panicking.

    But when I'm with him, with his arms around me, I feel safe for once in my life. Feeling his breath on my neck and his hands in my hair calms me down immediately. I miss it... All I have now is nightmares.
    LoserMaterial LoserMaterial
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2015

    I Love Seeing Him Next To Me

    I don't live with my boyfriend. We live 45 minutes away right now and I spend every weekend with him. My weekdays are stressful as I'm very busy with work and classes, but on the weekends it's a huge relief to be with him. He's a night owl so I'm usually in bed before him, but...
    lovingmydreams lovingmydreams
    22-25, F
    Apr 18, 2013

    She Moves Me

    I love sleeping next to Andy. Ironically that is what I am trying to do right now. She is the greatest relaxing agent there is bar none. I love to feel her body next to me. I love the way she smells and to hear her breathe. It is awesome to be with her. I enjoy her company and we...
    Winterborn Winterborn
    5 Responses Aug 30, 2008

    Me And Sleep.

    Sleep is an incredibly important thing to me, it is like a different form of sex, if you will. Sleeping with someone (Nonsexual) is a very intimate thing to me, and I have noticed that I become closer to my friends if I sleep with them. Sleeping with my partner is almost like...
    goingforgold goingforgold
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 4, 2012

    Something About It

    I've always slept better next to him. There's something about it that I just can't seem to put my finger on. I love the way it makes me feel. At the moment we're not living together, but every now and then I'll sleep over at his house. I can't help it, at some point during the...
    Jessluvzlife Jessluvzlife
    22-25, F
    Jun 3, 2013

    It's just a thing you get use to.

    Once you're by yourself sleeping again for whatever reason. You just feel lost and empty.
    cottoncandypinkk cottoncandypinkk
    22-25, F
    Oct 8, 2015

    I Do

        i always sleep better when i am with my lover . when my gf is away from home i never sleep . i will sleep on her bed and hold a stuff animal to try and trip myself that she is sleeping with me .
    deleted deleted
    Aug 6, 2009

    For Once

    Once when I was young I got married sleep suddenly became problematic. I was restricted to one side of the bed by constant complains kicking and elbowing. There was no peace sleep became hard to come by. Then we divorce  but years of habit continued. I had taken a lover or...
    jadecrow jadecrow
    51-55, M
    1 Response May 24, 2009
    Meshaaaa Meshaaaa
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2015


    there is nothing better than falling asleep n my mans arms n holding n kissing n loving each other all night long until I wake up n the morning to his big one poking me n the back :) ah I miss that cant wait to b back n his arms n our bed!!!
    misskasey misskasey
    Jun 26, 2012


    I almost always fall asleep first. Sometimes he isn't even in the room. But just knowing he will be in our bed in a little bit makes me feel safe enough to fall asleep. At my apartment, I toss and turn on the couch all night, unable to fall asleep. But here, in his (our) bed...
    LeGirl LeGirl
    22-25, F
    Nov 29, 2012

    First night away from my dearest in quite some

    time, and I always sleep better when I'm with him. I love listening to the pitter-patter of his heart as he holds me close. I love feeling my head slightly rise and then fall again, I count his breaths as I would sheep. I love his warm skin on mine and the way his hair tickles...
    Deletedone Deletedone
    26-30, F
    Dec 4, 2013

    Unfortunately at our age it is

    such a fight to sleep together ??
    sachanto sachanto
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 21, 2015

    I Will Never Sleep Alone Again.

    I still remember 18 years ago while dating my husband we would spend hours and hours together. We would fall asleep at his house (he still lived at home back then) and he would wake me around 3am and say that I had to leave before his parents woke up. Standing at his door...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 22, 2012

    I can't sleep at all with out my wife its a

    problem because lately she has been Workin third shift so I don't sleep and miss her so much killin me never thought I would be like that
    Kztrust Kztrust
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 13, 2015

    He is warm and very cuddly.

    .when ever I sleep near him I feel so cozy...its my place of relaxation in his arms..my comfort zone..i just drool like a baby while sleeping with him forgetting the world..love u hon😚
    deleted deleted
    Nov 3, 2015

    I miss you so much when your not here.

    I wish that all my well founded plans for being independant were not completely undermined by the fact that I need your warmth settled behind me now.
    Elbellzi Elbellzi
    36-40, F
    Sep 13, 2015

    Tossing and Turning

    I haven't had an entire night of sleep since Dasmuggler went back home.  Thankfully, I'll be back with him soon.  My body is craving a full night's sleep feeling safe, protected and loved.
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 24, 2009

    I wish she was here..

    Or I was there.. I can't sleep as amazingly as I dream.. Only in my dreams for now I can just imagine us lying together.. soothing her soft warm cheeks.. Caressing her gentle arm.. Holding her kissable hands.. And feeling her hold me close.. Through the night all tight but not...
    DoorMattress DoorMattress
    16-17, M
    Oct 8, 2015

    Tense, Nervous.

    When she's not there, I just lie in bed for the longest time - tired but nervous, uneasy.  It's like I can't relax without her next to me.  I feel a hole in my heart - cold, lonely, anxious.  It feels silly - shouldn't I be independent?  Shouldn't I be...
    shattergirl shattergirl
    22-25, F
    May 18, 2008

    Sleepless In The South

    my sleep with my sarge and i gets to where i will be up all night long, and he will call me at 4/5 am & see if im awake. of course im awake...so he either comes to me or i to him, and once we are together...in less than 10 minutes we are sound asleep. not only that, but we sleep...
    Aimzify Aimzify
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2011
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