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I Slept With People I Felt Nothing For

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    No Love

    I truly believe that the reason that I started sleeping with people that I felt nothing for, is because I was raped at the age of 13 and I lost viginity to a rapist. I felt so dirty after it happened to me, I wanted to find someone that would make me feel like I was special to...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    ......and still feel nothing fer um you don't

    mean nothing at all ta me, you have got what it takes to set me free (say it right)
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 2 Responses Aug 20

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    Please Don't Judge

    I am 25 years old and I would say I've slept with over 200 men I do feel discusting and slutty and dirty so plZ leave out the abuse. I guess I started sleeping around when I was 15 I wasn't the most pretty or confident of girls. I got bullied a bit in high school an never dated...
    Hopeless0909 Hopeless0909 22-25, F 14 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    Wait..who Are You Again?

    Yeah, I went through a "phase." My young engagement had recently ended, and I unconsciously made the decision to not want a relationship again. I was frozen in the heart when it came to guys, and feelings never played a role. I liked being an interest to someone, and I assumed it...
    PolarizedLove PolarizedLove 26-30, F Sep 11, 2011

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    i was in a relationship with a guy

    that i never loved. we ended up having sex once just to make him happy. he thought we were meant to be but we werent so i ended everything for good.
    QueenPerez QueenPerez 18-21, F Jun 1, 2014

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    I was in a 3 year relationship

    that was on off all the time , and when it was off I would have many male friends who were there for me which I liked the attention , some tho I got very close to and most of then I did have sex with that I didn't feel nothing for , it was nice just knowing that someone liked me...
    Bowbow94 Bowbow94 18-21, F Feb 2, 2014

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    I Know It's Nothing

    i can't help it that i can make love with out the feeling that you love that person.. you're just enjoying the passionate love, kissing and the sex.. that's it.. and it may continue as long as i want...
    bjones11 bjones11 26-30, F Apr 4, 2011

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    Ever woken up in the morning

    and asked: "By the way, what is your name?" Guilty!
    bilnic bilnic 70+, M Apr 15

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    I am not sorry to say

    that I regret nothing for doing it!! He was there when I needed him. Pretty much all he wanted was to have sex with me because he like my body. I needed a quick dose of endorphin. He gave it too me! But I ignore him and don't talk to him ever. So we were friends with benefits I...
    lifeschallenge lifeschallenge 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2014

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    We've been friends since high school

    and I always had a crush on him. We've been hanging out off and on throughout the years. But I don't feel anything for him and I have to say the sex wasn't anything exciting yet I kept finding myself with him when ever I could. I can't figure out why....
    erica0415 erica0415 41-45, F 9 Responses May 20, 2014

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    Yes I have done this before.

    I have done a lot of things with people I feel or have felt nothing for. I don't know why I did it or do it. I mean I'm 18 and I'm so young and way to young to make the decisions I do. I guess I want people to like me. And it's like I'll do anything to be liked or loved. That's...
    lexiab123 lexiab123 18-21, F 20 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    It All Started With Someone I Met On EP

    So I am new to the ep world but something great has already come of it. I met this great man on this site and of course other than living very far away he is married! So I continue to talk to him and enjoy every story he tells me including the ones that are privately between just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    ThatOneGothKidxD ThatOneGothKidxD 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 5, 2014

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    Not my prouder moments.

    Life lesson for whomever reads this: sex is pointless if you don't like the person and the best is with someone you love.
    omutsukimi omutsukimi 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 27

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    It's not a habit of mine

    but at least I have noticed the people I've slept with I didn't have feels for them after I slept with them... Well some of the people I've slept with, I think I start pointless relationship with people. I think I'm better off in a relation that waits a little longer before...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 9, 2014

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    I lost my virginity to a guy I feel nothing for.

    And it wasn't even beautiful, it even hurt a lot ..
    Giyy Giyy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    Not Nothing

    I was checking out my experiences.  Seeing if any caught my eye and would inspire me to write something.This is the one that jumped out and grabbed me.I think it is striking a nerve with me because it's not completely true.  During the actual decision making process concerning...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    TheTrollinator TheTrollinator 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 9, 2014

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    Its amazing to think

    that I thought this was cool. Like a life-long objective& goal adding up the tally's,notches to no regard. No concern,no nothing. Emotional detachment is the only time a man has control over a woman. However, the loss of self respect& a self-identity can be detrimental. Then to...
    Sugasug Sugasug 41-45, M 2 Responses Jun 2

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    I slept with four people in a week.

    I'm so mentally unstable.... completing my thesis, dealing with other issues. I'm ruining myself.
    Adam4u Adam4u 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 27

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    Notches In My Bedpost.

    When I was younger I always said that I would never have sex before marriage. I was a good girl. A Christian girl. I respected my body. When I was 12 I was raped and my virginity was stolen from me by a horrible person who walks around like he owns the world because I was too...
    BluePixie93 BluePixie93 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    One Night Stands

    I have had more than my fair share of one night stands. I loved them, it felt so great knowing that whatever happened I would never see that person again, it felt free - like I didn't have to worry about what I looked like or if I pleased them enough. It was passionate and...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 14 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    :(

    & sex if DEFINITLEY sooooo much better when its w. someone u atleast KINDA care for :P ESPECAILLY if they care for u too :) I sometime wish i could go back n time & tell my younger self to quit being such a lil ho , but then i think that i would never wana change ne thing n the...
    wolfspider wolfspider 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    WadexW WadexW 18-21, M Apr 27

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    Been there... Done that.

    .. No regrets really
    sexysammy468 sexysammy468 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2014

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    I have slept with many women

    that I felt nothing for except for the ones that were friends. It was just sex for the fun of it.
    lonewolf2060 lonewolf2060 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    It Was a Phase...

    I admit, I wasn't as modest with my body as I should have been in my younger years.  Between the ages of 18 and 23ish, I pretty much just gave my sex away to people who thought I cared and might pursue something further with.  I haven't counted the number in a long time...
    vampireheart vampireheart 31-35, T 3 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    sometimes the sex is thrilling.

    a complete stranger.
    crikchick92 crikchick92 22-25, F 8 Responses Apr 27

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    And that's when I didn't love myself

    and now I realize my worth
    sjmm5925 sjmm5925 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    Ah, the out-of-character things a lengthy

    episode of psychosis will make you do.
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 Apr 27

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    Sex Addict

    I was diagnosed as a sex addict back in 2006 and have slept with quite a few women over my years that I felt nothing for.
    blackguyindc blackguyindc 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 6, 2007

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    So last week my ex boyfriend Trey came to the

    gymnastics gym and got samantha for a few days, that was no problem at all, so then last sunday he brought her back home like he said he would, he asked me what we was all going to do about dinner, i was like i haven't really thought about it, so he offer to take us all out for...
    jennylovesroses jennylovesroses 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 2

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    It's better afterward,

    because you don't have to commit to anything long-term.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 27

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    I Have...

    And I'm not ashamed of it. It was part of the process of my life, something that I had to go through to get to the other side. I learned just how special a true, loving connection can be by experiencing what its not.
    MountainGhost MountainGhost 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    I Did

    came home from work cleand up wet out and and went out she felt the same way we and sex
    1974sam 1974sam 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    It was something i needed to do.

    I had my reasons and i do not regret it. if anything it feels more empowering.
    violet1698 violet1698 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    I don't know if that says something horrible

    about me but I have mastered it, I can have sex w someone & have no attachment what so ever. Plenty of times at that.
    Giselle1231 Giselle1231 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 22

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    skinnygingebitch skinnygingebitch 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 15

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    I needed sex like I needed a gym session.

    At the time it was just for the physical fulfilment. I wasn't looking for any emotional contact other than lust. No regrets there ☺️
    Feyteulen Feyteulen 36-40, F 1 Response May 3, 2014

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    Women My Weakness

    Well for a long time all I wanted/sex were women. I really didnt want a relationship. For me relationships are just with men. I just F^^^ women. I know thats harsh but that is the way of the world. I havent slept with a woman in 3 years...Sigh...Oh well what we do for love.
    MiseducatedChik MiseducatedChik 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    I was really young, naive

    and stupid. I finally had the cute football player interested in me. We started talking and the closer we became the more I realized that the only thing I liked about him was his looks and popularity. I was so desperate to keep the popularity I received from being his friend...
    ConfusedAutumn96 ConfusedAutumn96 18-21, F Jan 8, 2014

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    Little Love Lost

    When I was younger I always felt peer pressure.  It was never about being popular, or having lots of friends.  I just wanted to feel normal.  Having sex for the first time was a big step to me for feeling normal.  When I got my first boyfriend I didn't really...
    freespeech freespeech 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 5, 2007

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    The most stupid thing I did.

    .. Just to **** a guy off. All it did was make me look bad.... Crazy. Live and learn
    KeeWee812 KeeWee812 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2014

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    Revenge ****

    yes - i did this.  I ****** her just so i could ignore her afterwards. She had screwed me a couple of years before when i was in high school (she was a few years older than me) and it sucked.  I wish i hadn't.  anyway, she shows up at a party and starts talking...
    thatweirdromanguy thatweirdromanguy 46-50, M 4 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    But..

    I don't really worry about it.  I don't think it's that big of a deal.  I have always done it.  But I have also always been smart about it.  I don't think that you have to be in love with someone or even be attracted to them other than physically to have sex with them.  As...
    BamaBabe87 BamaBabe87 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    Nothing more than a warm hole to stuff

    and fill up with my j.izz
    Supercracker90 Supercracker90 18-21, M 2 Responses May 10