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I Slept With People I Felt Nothing For

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    Not Too Many - I haven't slept with a lot of people; men I was in a relationship with but it wasn't always love which is the problem. There must be love. I hate when you start...
    Nuevahoja Nuevahoja 31-35, F Mar 4, 2012

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    Revenge **** - yes - i did this.  I ****** her just so i could ignore her afterwards. She had screwed me a couple of years before when i was in high school (she was a few...
    thatweirdromanguy thatweirdromanguy 46-50, M 5 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I Know It's Nothing - i can't help it that i can make love with out the feeling that you love that person.. you're just enjoying the passionate love, kissing and the sex.. that's...
    bjones11 bjones11 26-30, F Apr 4, 2011

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    It All Started With Someone I Met On EP - So I am new to the ep world but something great has already come of it. I met this great man on this site and of course other than living...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Sep 14, 2013

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    One Night Stands - I have had more than my fair share of one night stands. I loved them, it felt so great knowing that whatever happened I would never see that person again, it...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 14 Responses Nov 2, 2007

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    I've Done It Before - And I'm pretty sure I'll do it again. I don't believe in relationships, so it's easier to just have a **** buddy.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Oct 16, 2010

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    My Daughter<3 - I know this isn't really a story but I need everyone's help! If you could I would appreciate if you could go to this link http://www.facebook.com/#!/photo.php...
    Amner Amner 18-21, F Nov 10, 2011

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    My First One Night Stand - I consider this a one night stand because although I did become friends with this guy, I know there could never be a future between us because we just...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 27, 2012

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    I've Done It - I've slept with a few people I felt nothing for. I don't see anything wrong with it really, it just depends on the situation
    mc683 mc683 26-30, M Dec 1, 2010

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    Women My Weakness - Well for a long time all I wanted/sex were women. I really didnt want a relationship. For me relationships are just with men. I just F^^^ women. I know thats...
    MiseducatedChik MiseducatedChik 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 10, 2008

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    Little Love Lost - When I was younger I always felt peer pressure.  It was never about being popular, or having lots of friends.  I just wanted to feel normal. ...
    freespeech freespeech 16-18, F 3 Responses Jul 5, 2007

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    :( - & sex if DEFINITLEY sooooo much better when its w. someone u atleast KINDA care for :P ESPECAILLY if they care for u too :) I sometime wish i could go back n time & tell my...
    wolfspider wolfspider 18-21, F 10 Responses Mar 18, 2011

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    But.. - I don't really worry about it.  I don't think it's that big of a deal.  I have always done it.  But I have also always been smart about it.  I don't think that you have...
    BamaBabe87 BamaBabe87 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 29, 2012

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    It Was a Phase... - I admit, I wasn't as modest with my body as I should have been in my younger years.  Between the ages of 18 and 23ish, I pretty much just gave my sex away...
    vampireheart vampireheart 31-35, T 3 Responses Jul 15, 2008

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    No Love - I truly believe that the reason that I started sleeping with people that I felt nothing for, is because I was raped at the age of 13 and I lost viginity to a rapist. I...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    Don't Expect Me to Feel Guilty. - I guess I don't consider it "feeling nothing" because something is felt for everyone I ever encounter. Whether it be lust, contempt...
    ofthegallows ofthegallows 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 26, 2009

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    Erasing - Theres not much I would erase in my past, but I think I would erase all but one of those one night stands.  They were pointless.  Except maybe for now having the...
    EyzofBlue EyzofBlue 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 19, 2011

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    I Didnt Do It Intentionally. . I Always Had A Trigger Sayin Id See Them Again - But there were those that would pretty much FORCE themselves on me even when i said NO Some say its...
    IFoundYourDiary IFoundYourDiary 46-50, F Jun 9, 2011

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    Player - i have slept with men that i cared nothing about them i figure that if a man can do it so can i and the funny thing about it my own mother told me i should become a player...
    metalchick metalchick 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 15, 2008

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    Swinging - My god parents were swingers and introduced me to swinging at a 'very young' age.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2011

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    And - This is how I determined the difference between sex and making love. Those I felt nothing for were rushed and I never wanted to see them again, I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Doesnt Everybody Do It At Least Once? - Common, who hasnt had that one night stand? Did you feel something for the person? I doubt, rather you were simply horny and he/she was the...
    addictedryno addictedryno 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    My Favorite One... - ...I was at a party at school and met this girl on the front porch of the house...we went for a walk and talked about all kinds of stuff...it got personal and...
    vespaguy vespaguy 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 24, 2007

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    I Have... - And I'm not ashamed of it. It was part of the process of my life, something that I had to go through to get to the other side. I learned just how special a true...
    MountainGhost MountainGhost 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2011

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    Been there... Done that... No regrets really
    sexysammy468 sexysammy468 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    Please Don't Judge - I am 25 years old and I would say I've slept with over 200 men I do feel discusting and slutty and dirty so plZ leave out the abuse. I guess I started sleeping...
    Hopeless0909 Hopeless0909 22-25, F 13 Responses Oct 15, 2012

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    They Were Nobodies. - Just one of the many things from my past that make me feel sick to my stomach.I like sex and I like feeling "dirty" when doing it.. but not that kind of dirty...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos 18-21, F 4 Responses May 26, 2011

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    I Know It's Nothing - i can't help it that i can make love with out the feeling that you love that person.. you're just enjoying the passionate love, kissing and the sex.. that's...
    bjones11 bjones11 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4, 2011

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    No Boundries - Looking back I have had many times slept with women who I felt nothing for when I was younger I thought it was great because all these women wanted to be with me but...
    giayesim12 giayesim12 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2013

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    Yes I have done this before. I have done a lot of things with people I feel or have felt nothing for. I don't know why I did it or do it. I mean I'm 18 and I'm so young and way to...
    lexiab123 lexiab123 18-21, F 25 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I was really young, naive and stupid. I finally had the cute football player interested in me. We started talking and the closer we became the more I realized that the only thing I...
    ConfusedAutumn96 ConfusedAutumn96 16-17, F Jan 8

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    I Did - came home from work cleand up wet out and and went out she felt the same way we and sex
    1974sam 1974sam 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 26, 2013

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    Notches In My Bedpost. - When I was younger I always said that I would never have sex before marriage. I was a good girl. A Christian girl. I respected my body. When I was 12 I was...
    BluePixie93 BluePixie93 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    And It Ruined My Life - it tore apart my relationship with the one person i never wanted to hurt. thank god he has taken me back and we are going to get married!!
    misskrissywithaK misskrissywithaK 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 26, 2009

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    It's Better When There's Feelings There... - You weren't even attracted to him... your friend was but she hurt you so much, she used you to get to him, she made out with you in a...
    elpatitofeo elpatitofeo 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2011

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    I was in a 3 year relationship that was on off all the time , and when it was off I would have many male friends who were there for me which I liked the attention , some tho I got...
    Bowbow94 Bowbow94 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    Not Nothing - I was checking out my experiences.  Seeing if any caught my eye and would inspire me to write something.This is the one that jumped out and grabbed me.I think it is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Nov 3, 2011

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    Wait..who Are You Again? - Yeah, I went through a "phase." My young engagement had recently ended, and I unconsciously made the decision to not want a relationship again. I was...
    PolarizedLove PolarizedLove 26-30, F Sep 11, 2011

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    Emotionally Nothing For.... - But physically, couldn't control the lust and desire for them.
    Michael5280 Michael5280 36-40, M Oct 21, 2013

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    Sex Addict - I was diagnosed as a sex addict back in 2006 and have slept with quite a few women over my years that I felt nothing for.
    blackguyindc blackguyindc 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 6, 2007

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    True story. I was raised in strict Catholic household. The only talk about the birds and the bees I ever received from my mother was the usual, "act like a lady" comment before I...
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