I Slept With People I Felt Nothing For

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    It's an animalistic instinct.

    And we are simply animals. So why do we put so many rules and stuff around it, so much social stigma? Don't get me wrong, I understand why there are certain rules definitely.
    imnotyourfriend imnotyourfriend
    41-45, M
    Nov 23, 2015

    And that's when I didn't love myself

    and now I realize my worth
    sjmm5925 sjmm5925
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 13, 2015

    Notches In My Bedpost.

    When I was younger I always said that I would never have sex before marriage. I was a good girl. A Christian girl. I respected my body. When I was 12 I was raped and my virginity was stolen from me by a horrible person who walks around like he owns the world because I was too...
    BluePixie93 BluePixie93
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jan 3, 2012

    It's not a habit of mine

    but at least I have noticed the people I've slept with I didn't have feels for them after I slept with them... Well some of the people I've slept with, I think I start pointless relationship with people. I think I'm better off in a relation that waits a little longer before...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 9, 2014

    anyone near mt Morris looking

    for booty call let me know I'm always down
    vyntharin vyntharin
    26-30, M
    Oct 31, 2015

    one person but it didn't start off

    that way. we actually had some good time in the bed room but it wore out in a few months and now we we just chill and watch movies together. which is fine.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2016

    It's better afterward,

    because you don't have to commit to anything long-term.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 27, 2015

    I know I'm too young to be like that.

    but I slept with a guy I hated and his friend
    imugly12354 imugly12354
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 22, 2016

    It Was a Phase...

    I admit, I wasn't as modest with my body as I should have been in my younger years.  Between the ages of 18 and 23ish, I pretty much just gave my sex away to people who thought I cared and might pursue something further with.  I haven't counted the number in a long time...
    vampireheart vampireheart
    31-35, T
    1 Response Jul 15, 2008

    Been there... Done that.

    .. No regrets really
    sexysammy468 sexysammy468
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 18, 2014

    I slept with four people in a week.

    I'm so mentally unstable.... completing my thesis, dealing with other issues. I'm ruining myself.
    Adam4u Adam4u
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Apr 27, 2015

    I lost my virginity to a guy I feel nothing for.

    And it wasn't even beautiful, it even hurt a lot ..
    Giyy Giyy
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    I needed sex like I needed a gym session.

    At the time it was just for the physical fulfilment. I wasn't looking for any emotional contact other than lust. No regrets there ☺️
    Feyteulen Feyteulen
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 3, 2014

    Actually I slept with two Women in two hours,

    they were friends and 20 years younger than me. Message me for more of the story ;)
    TexasRocker TexasRocker
    41-45, M
    1 Response Mar 5, 2016

    I am not sorry to say

    that I regret nothing for doing it!! He was there when I needed him. Pretty much all he wanted was to have sex with me because he like my body. I needed a quick dose of endorphin. He gave it too me! But I ignore him and don't talk to him ever. So we were friends with benefits I...
    lifeschallenge lifeschallenge
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2014

    I Know It's Nothing

    i can't help it that i can make love with out the feeling that you love that person.. you're just enjoying the passionate love, kissing and the sex.. that's it.. and it may continue as long as i want...
    bjones11 bjones11
    26-30, F
    Apr 4, 2011

    After I realized I wasted 3 years of my life

    with a guy that I wasn't good enough for I decided to spend my senior year in high school doing whatever I wanted with whoever I wanted, not too slutty, but had a couple one night stands with a couple guys I had no feelings for, just wanted to get laid. Was a good year for me I...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    I started having sex really young.

    I was only 15. I really liked him. I liked him for a while. The day he invited me over I thought it would be instant. He would ask me out and we would finally be together. Well that wasn't exactly how it went down. I got there and we were hooking up. One thing led to another and...
    maddylionnn maddylionnn
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 26, 2015

    Not my prouder moments.

    Life lesson for whomever reads this: sex is pointless if you don't like the person and the best is with someone you love.
    omutsukimi omutsukimi
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 27, 2015

    Its amazing to think

    that I thought this was cool. Like a life-long objective& goal adding up the tally's,notches to no regard. No concern,no nothing. Emotional detachment is the only time a man has control over a woman. However, the loss of self respect& a self-identity can be detrimental. Then to...
    Sugasug Sugasug
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 2, 2015

    I don't know if that says something horrible

    about me but I have mastered it, I can have sex w someone & have no attachment what so ever. Plenty of times at that.
    Giselle1231 Giselle1231
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jun 22, 2015

    Ever woken up in the morning

    and asked: "By the way, what is your name?" Guilty!
    bilnic bilnic
    70+, M
    Apr 15, 2015
    skinnygingebitch skinnygingebitch
    26-30, F
    20 Responses Jul 15, 2015

    ......and still feel nothing fer um you don't

    mean nothing at all ta me, you have got what it takes to set me free (say it right)
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2015

    sometimes the sex is thrilling.

    a complete stranger.
    crikchick92 crikchick92
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Apr 27, 2015

    Please Don't Judge

    I am 25 years old and I would say I've slept with over 200 men I do feel discusting and slutty and dirty so plZ leave out the abuse. I guess I started sleeping around when I was 15 I wasn't the most pretty or confident of girls. I got bullied a bit in high school an never dated...
    Hopeless0909 Hopeless0909
    22-25, F
    14 Responses Oct 15, 2012
    WadexW WadexW
    22-25, M
    Apr 27, 2015

    It All Started With Someone I Met On EP

    So I am new to the ep world but something great has already come of it. I met this great man on this site and of course other than living very far away he is married! So I continue to talk to him and enjoy every story he tells me including the ones that are privately between just...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Sep 14, 2013


    & sex if DEFINITLEY sooooo much better when its w. someone u atleast KINDA care for :P ESPECAILLY if they care for u too :) I sometime wish i could go back n time & tell my younger self to quit being such a lil ho , but then i think that i would never wana change ne thing n the...
    wolfspider wolfspider
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Mar 18, 2011
    TheTrollinator TheTrollinator
    16-17, M
    1 Response Aug 9, 2014

    Little Love Lost

    When I was younger I always felt peer pressure.  It was never about being popular, or having lots of friends.  I just wanted to feel normal.  Having sex for the first time was a big step to me for feeling normal.  When I got my first boyfriend I didn't really...
    freespeech freespeech
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 5, 2007

    Ah, the out-of-character things a lengthy

    episode of psychosis will make you do.
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand
    Apr 27, 2015

    Nothing more than a warm hole to stuff

    and fill up with my j.izz
    Supercracker90 Supercracker90
    22-25, M
    2 Responses May 10, 2015

    I know I'm too young to be like that.

    but I slept with a guy I hated and his friend
    imugly12354 imugly12354
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Mar 22, 2016

    No one I know is aware

    that I actually put an add on Craigslist for just someone to hold me.. Naive much? Well, it ended in an odd string of just finding a guy to make me feel good sex wise. Slept with 5 different men this way. Completely out of character and a few years back..
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 23, 2016

    Wait..who Are You Again?

    Yeah, I went through a "phase." My young engagement had recently ended, and I unconsciously made the decision to not want a relationship again. I was frozen in the heart when it came to guys, and feelings never played a role. I liked being an interest to someone, and I assumed it...
    PolarizedLove PolarizedLove
    26-30, F
    Sep 11, 2011

    We've been friends since high school

    and I always had a crush on him. We've been hanging out off and on throughout the years. But I don't feel anything for him and I have to say the sex wasn't anything exciting yet I kept finding myself with him when ever I could. I can't figure out why....
    erica0415 erica0415
    46-50, F
    11 Responses May 20, 2014
    alcid506 alcid506
    31-35, M
    Nov 8, 2015

    ughhhhhh it sucks. this guy ,

    he is amazing , and handsome downright gorgeous....he is my f#ck buddy .... that's it. that's all. he's like 45 now i think...he does my tattoos. i literally didn't mean to sleep with him but i did. he went down on me and stuff. it was good. but he's my tattoo man. and he is...
    AubriannaMiShelle AubriannaMiShelle
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 23, 2016

    It was something i needed to do.

    I had my reasons and i do not regret it. if anything it feels more empowering.
    violet1698 violet1698
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 14, 2014


    I don't really worry about it.  I don't think it's that big of a deal.  I have always done it.  But I have also always been smart about it.  I don't think that you have to be in love with someone or even be attracted to them other than physically to have sex with them.  As...
    BamaBabe87 BamaBabe87
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 29, 2012

    I've only done this a few times .

    . mostly I get to know them and can find something besides sexual attraction .
    TooTricky2Trick TooTricky2Trick
    41-45, M
    Mar 22, 2016

    I was in a 3 year relationship

    that was on off all the time , and when it was off I would have many male friends who were there for me which I liked the attention , some tho I got very close to and most of then I did have sex with that I didn't feel nothing for , it was nice just knowing that someone liked me...
    Bowbow94 Bowbow94
    22-25, F
    Feb 2, 2014

    Not Nothing

    I was checking out my experiences.  Seeing if any caught my eye and would inspire me to write something.This is the one that jumped out and grabbed me.I think it is striking a nerve with me because it's not completely true.  During the actual decision making process concerning...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Nov 3, 2011

    I was really young, naive

    and stupid. I finally had the cute football player interested in me. We started talking and the closer we became the more I realized that the only thing I liked about him was his looks and popularity. I was so desperate to keep the popularity I received from being his friend...
    ConfusedAutumn96 ConfusedAutumn96
    18-21, F
    Jan 8, 2014

    So last week my ex boyfriend Trey came to the

    gymnastics gym and got samantha for a few days, that was no problem at all, so then last sunday he brought her back home like he said he would, he asked me what we was all going to do about dinner, i was like i haven't really thought about it, so he offer to take us all out for...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 2, 2015

    No Love

    I truly believe that the reason that I started sleeping with people that I felt nothing for, is because I was raped at the age of 13 and I lost viginity to a rapist. I felt so dirty after it happened to me, I wanted to find someone that would make me feel like I was special to...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 5, 2012

    Yes I have done this before.

    I have done a lot of things with people I feel or have felt nothing for. I don't know why I did it or do it. I mean I'm 18 and I'm so young and way to young to make the decisions I do. I guess I want people to like me. And it's like I'll do anything to be liked or loved. That's...
    lexiab123 lexiab123
    22-25, F
    17 Responses Dec 14, 2013

    I Have...

    And I'm not ashamed of it. It was part of the process of my life, something that I had to go through to get to the other side. I learned just how special a true, loving connection can be by experiencing what its not.
    MountainGhost MountainGhost
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2011
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