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I Sometime I Feel Like I'll Never Find Someone to Love Me

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    I Have Never Been "that Girl"...

    Yeah, so, relationships have never been a big part of my life.  One reason is because it was never an area that I seemed to thrive in.  School, sports, work, got that all under control.  But love...never.  There are girls out there that when I look at them...
    thesensitiveone15 thesensitiveone15 36-40 6 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    Well...

    Regardless of whether or not I find someone who loves me, I'll continue to live life to the fullest.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2011

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    The Beginning Of The End.

    It all started a year ago when I (Erica ..15 years old then, Tall, tan, thin, medium thick long brown hair and dark brown eyes) moved to Montana from Connecticut . I was all alone when I and my family moved into our nice quaint little house In a nice little neighborhood . We are...
    Pasdionateformusic Pasdionateformusic 16-17 1 Response Jun 26, 2011

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    Ha! So True

    It must be because I’m tired but I feel like I’m missing out on something by not having “someone”.  I have wanted to accomplish so much more at this point in my life.  When I see the good that couples share, I really feel like I am missing...
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2010

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    There's A Saying...

    "I'm always behind the scenes, never the star. I'm always the friend, never the girl." Don't get me wrong, I don't mind being "the friend". I like how my guy friends are more close to me than they are with someone they're romantically interested in. They're more carefree, not...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    “I have outlasted all desire,

    My dreams and I have grown apart; My grief alone is left entire, The gleamings of an empty heart. I live in lonely desolation And wonder when my end will come. -Alexander Pushkins ..extracts
    cherishuforever cherishuforever 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Not Surprised That No One Loves me

    sure i have had guys after me.. but thats not the point. who would want to love me? just look at me, im annoying, drama queen, super sensitive, too romantic. i guess im just too much of everything. but i wish, i really wish some guy would just say, i love you and mean it but oh...
    UmbraEyes UmbraEyes 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2011

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    I Feel Like I Can Not Find Some One

    I feel some time I will never find someone to love me. And not use me . Then I get jumping in to the frying pan and wonder if it is right one that it is. I am looking for a freind. But wonder if I find some one in my life. I get unpationed . I can not deal with it. I am...
    lashanda lashanda 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    More Recently Than Anything Else...

    i feel as though all the things that have happened lately in my life are telling me "you expect to much" "you're not worth it" "the love you want does not exist" "you do not have a person just for you" i thought i had it, and then he...
    tanpopo tanpopo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2008

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    It Does Sometimes Feel Like That To Me

    it is said that there is someone out there for everyone. but how much truth is there in that. i dont know if i will ever meet that someone who will love me for me. iam unique and would require someone just as unique. in this world though it can at times be hard to find unique...
    echosofdarkness echosofdarkness 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2011

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    "Have you ever longed

    for someone so much, so deeply that you thought you would die? That your heart would just stop beating? I am longing now, but for whom I don't know. My whole body craves to be held. I am desperate to love and be loved. I want my mind to float into another's. I want to be set...
    cherishuforever cherishuforever 41-45, F Mar 21

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    I Thought I Found The One

    I did find the one. But God needed him in heaven. Now I feel like i'll never feel the feeling i felt with him with anyone else. It just seems impossible. Its like everyone I come across never understands me. It's depressing.
    southerngurl93 southerngurl93 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2010

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    I will never be like my sisters. They are both so beautiful compared to me. So much smarter and outgoing. Their personalities are amazing. So many guys fall for them, while I'm...
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    every anniversary,birthday,valentines,mothers,And christmas day i never get a gift or even a happy . . . day. from my husband. I never show up empty handed on any of those days...
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    And here it goes again, I feel completely useless. It seems that I am never enough and I haven't done anything right for my entire life! Ugh!
    Mariangabalon Mariangabalon 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4

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    I feel like this all the time :'(
    Allanah97 Allanah97 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    No matter how hard I try, I can never be fully happy. I tell myself I am happy but the actual inside of me knows I'm not.
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    alinacc12 alinacc12 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 15

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    zoecc11 zoecc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Been going on six years now without any interest from someone. Would rather not end up alone in love, but that may be inevitable.
    PepsiPlunge PepsiPlunge 26-30, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm ready to fall in love again , hopefully soon meet the right one. I would love to find a great single man between 30-35 :)
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    every time i date a girl i like it starts off well for the first few 2-4 months, then it just starts to snowball as soon as one argument starts leading to break up 😰 i know...
    irvinspider54 irvinspider54 16-17, M Dec 15

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    Too many lies have been told to me, I have huge trust issues
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    I love the Christmas holiday but I'm so sick of seeing these Christmas movies on television when the main character ends up happily ever after with their love interest. It's very...
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    so this morning my husband goes to the gym as usual....at 7am he calls me by mistake and I hear a woman's voice. I couldn't tell what was really being said and I was so mad I...
    newstart1315 newstart1315 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 15

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    there are some horrible things happened in my life..things tat made a huge impact on me..things i cant erase till my death..those wounds are still fresh tat i cant do anything...
    ucbenetton ucbenetton 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've bn in quite a few relationships in my time and 90% of them seemed endless..we get emotionally attached(so I think..) the words I LOVE YOU COME OUT.. and then I get abandoned...
    im4realz im4realz 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    What do I have to do To try to make you see That this is who I am And its all that I can be What do I have to do To try to make you see Trying to be like you isn't good enough for...
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    No matter how hard I try, nothing I do is ever worth anything.
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    capnrhe capnrhe 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Can I just not wake up tomorrow?
    Scaredmonster Scaredmonster 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Whenever I'm with friends I'm feeling happy but i can feel really deep within me I'm not happy.. I just can't help it. I always try to be happy but it doesn't seem to work.
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    So many people are trying to help me... But I can't help myself.
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    capnrhe capnrhe 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    i just want to crawl into a cave and die. i hate my life and how it has completely gone to ****. i hate myself. i hate being left alone. i hate having to comfort myself all the...
    12love34 12love34 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm in a relationship but I feel so alone. I feel so unattractive and useless. Why do I feel like I'll never truly be happy
    Butterflylost Butterflylost 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 16

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    It's crazy. I'm crazy. God, I don't even ******* know. I'm with this amazing guy. His feelings for me are impossible to question. He loves me. I know it. He let's me feel it...
    ohmyfvck ohmyfvck 18-21, F Dec 4

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