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I Sometime I Feel Like I'll Never Find Someone to Love Me

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    Ha! So True

    It must be because I’m tired but I feel like I’m missing out on something by not having “someone”.  I have wanted to accomplish so much more at this point in my life.  When I see the good that couples share, I really feel like I am missing...
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2010

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    I Thought I Found The One

    I did find the one. But God needed him in heaven. Now I feel like i'll never feel the feeling i felt with him with anyone else. It just seems impossible. Its like everyone I come across never understands me. It's depressing.
    southerngurl93 southerngurl93 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2010

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    Well...

    Regardless of whether or not I find someone who loves me, I'll continue to live life to the fullest.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2011

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    I Feel Like I Can Not Find Some One

    I feel some time I will never find someone to love me. And not use me . Then I get jumping in to the frying pan and wonder if it is right one that it is. I am looking for a freind. But wonder if I find some one in my life. I get unpationed . I can not deal with it. I am...
    lashanda lashanda 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    Not Surprised That No One Loves me

    sure i have had guys after me.. but thats not the point. who would want to love me? just look at me, im annoying, drama queen, super sensitive, too romantic. i guess im just too much of everything. but i wish, i really wish some guy would just say, i love you and mean it but oh...
    UmbraEyes UmbraEyes 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2011

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    There's A Saying...

    "I'm always behind the scenes, never the star. I'm always the friend, never the girl." Don't get me wrong, I don't mind being "the friend". I like how my guy friends are more close to me than they are with someone they're romantically interested in. They're more carefree, not...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    It Does Sometimes Feel Like That To Me

    it is said that there is someone out there for everyone. but how much truth is there in that. i dont know if i will ever meet that someone who will love me for me. iam unique and would require someone just as unique. in this world though it can at times be hard to find unique...
    echosofdarkness echosofdarkness 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2011

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    Maybe I'll Never Find The"one"

    sometimes i feel like i'll never find my knight in shining armor. i know i a bit young to be talking about this but i feel lonly like latey i been seeing couples in my school and my friend seem to start dating to and we're only in 8th grade i feel so unattractive so stupid...
    moodyconfusion moodyconfusion 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2010

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    β€œI have outlasted all desire,

    My dreams and I have grown apart; My grief alone is left entire, The gleamings of an empty heart. I live in lonely desolation And wonder when my end will come. -Alexander Pushkins ..extracts
    cherishuforever cherishuforever 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I Have Never Been "that Girl"...

    Yeah, so, relationships have never been a big part of my life.  One reason is because it was never an area that I seemed to thrive in.  School, sports, work, got that all under control.  But love...never.  There are girls out there that when I look at them...
    thesensitiveone15 thesensitiveone15 36-40 6 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    More Recently Than Anything Else...

    i feel as though all the things that have happened lately in my life are telling me "you expect to much" "you're not worth it" "the love you want does not exist" "you do not have a person just for you" i thought i had it, and then he...
    tanpopo tanpopo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2008

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    The Beginning Of The End.

    It all started a year ago when I (Erica ..15 years old then, Tall, tan, thin, medium thick long brown hair and dark brown eyes) moved to Montana from Connecticut . I was all alone when I and my family moved into our nice quaint little houseΒ In a nice little neighborhood . We are...
    Pasdionateformusic Pasdionateformusic 16-17 1 Response Jun 26, 2011

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    "Have you ever longed

    for someone so much, so deeply that you thought you would die? That your heart would just stop beating? I am longing now, but for whom I don't know. My whole body craves to be held. I am desperate to love and be loved. I want my mind to float into another's. I want to be set...
    cherishuforever cherishuforever 41-45, F Mar 21

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    Spent the last 6 years with someone who I didn't love. The sad part is that because it didn't work out I was hopeless of ever finding someone I could genuinely fall in love with...
    Shey12 Shey12 18-21, F 35 Responses Jul 7

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    i just haven't had any luck with men. idk why. i just feel like I will end up alone when i'm older...
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 12

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    It started when I was younger and all of my friends were just discovering relationships.. I always told them how pointless it was. I would say, "I'm fine alone. I'm going to wait...
    amberooo amberooo 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    Going to sleep alone and waking up alone could may just be one of the hardest things to get over. It's been a long time since I've shared my bed with someone that I'm starting to...
    GivenToFly182 GivenToFly182 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    I feel this way everyday. It makes me sad when I see everyone around me so happy and in love. I am 23 and have never had a serious boyfriend. Never been loved romantically, or been...
    livingmemory livingmemory 22-25, F 12 Responses Jul 17

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    Love is so dang hard to find and accept nowadays,I'll just opt for lust.I know I won't be getting anywhere with that kinda' mindset,but eh,it passes time.
    McKnight94 McKnight94 18-21, M Jul 17

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    I'm never going to find someone that truly loves me
    iluvgirls282726 iluvgirls282726 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    The second time I'm posting about the same experience. Last time I didn't receive any help or any feedback and I'm not doing this for that but I just feel like it would be nice if...
    PursuitofHappiness1 PursuitofHappiness1 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I am not afraid i wont find anyone to love me. I chose to live my life to the fullest and just be here to help people in need. Plus finding someone to love you these day doesnt...
    Atlchris Atlchris 16-17 a week ago

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    Platonic or romantic, I can't seem to hold lasting relationships. So many people have left me in such awful ways that I have trouble imagining people wanting to stay. Of course...
    Gold81 Gold81 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    That's Okay. Why do I want to be a part of a homogenised lump that can not think or feel as individuals? I forgive those who have been hurt or cajoled into living acceptably. I am...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Not sure why I feel this way but I'm always never fully or truly happy or satisfied enough. I have friends and we often go out and have fun and I'm always happy but when I ask...
    PursuitofHappiness1 PursuitofHappiness1 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    ha ha ha h this is truly me , i will never be good enough . no matter how smart or fit i become . No matter how many good deeds i do . I shall always be bellow ha ha
    Aniceguyforyou Aniceguyforyou 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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    No one really ever cares about me. I dunno how to react when someone shows interest in me, so I kind of just shut down when that happens. I'm used to being alone, or me being...
    dinorap1 dinorap1 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    No one cares about me. I have no family because they all abused me. My friends are always too busy for me so I'm just not gonna bother asking if we can hang out anymore. I try to...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Whenever I think about love, it's so hard for me to think that it could happen for me. That I don't really see it happening for me. I try to be hopeful but it's so hard when you're...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    When I get too close to someone...I always mess it up..smh
    sisi19 sisi19 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I know I am young but I always worry about not finding the one.
    thatgirlluvsred thatgirlluvsred 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I believe that love is a myth. Hence, no question of anyone loving me.
    Tien101 Tien101 18-21 1 Response 6 days ago

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    What if I'm just not enough? What if everything I have and everything I am is just not good enough. Yeah this sucks.
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 7

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    I have just been very unlucky at love but very lucky at sex. All my adult relationships including a marriage have been unsuccessful at best. I mentioned the sex because it has been...
    curtbgood curtbgood 56-60, M Jul 17

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    I know he/they all have talked to me online before about my 'issues' but it seems to go nowhere. I just need to find more things to do otherwise I'm an empty shell.
    Yleng Yleng 26-30, F Jul 20

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    It's hard to step to the beat of my own drummer, refusing to submit to the mindset that many seem to subscribe to. Integrity is a rare commodity; hard to find. On principles, I'm...
    LaughsAndGiggles LaughsAndGiggles 41-45, F 19 hrs ago

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    I dont know what to do! Im 33 years old and im lonely. I have a husband and family and relatives but im still lonely in my heart. I never had good friends. All the girls in my teen...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Jul 8

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    No one likes me so they make me feel worthless
    iwillkeepmyheadlevel345 iwillkeepmyheadlevel345 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    This is so true πŸ˜”βœ‹ **** my like πŸ’£πŸ™πŸš¬
    alanayolo alanayolo 13-15, F Jul 22

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    My whole family never thinks I satisfy thier needs. My dad wants me to spend all my time with him, I don't. My grandfather wants me to play football, I hate t. My grandmother wants...
    lonelygirl1999 lonelygirl1999 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I wish I had more friends 😭
    megan1247 megan1247 18-21, F Jul 7

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    I just gave birth and my partner is already thinking of spending christmas time with his other family.. I wish i have the power to unlove him..
    SugarK SugarK 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    People say your not outgoing enough, you don't smile enough, your too perky, your not smart enough, an this includes low blow comments I don't know. I am average mediocre and my...
    brnino brnino 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    My computer has stopped working, so now I have no way of getting online from home and OMGGGGG it sucks! I've managed to get through a couple of weeks with no online company but I...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    I can't remember that last time I felt something. I just don't see a future for myself... Ugh. **** thinking.
    Ri95 Ri95 18-21, F 15 hrs ago

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    Ladies, I want you to think of it this way: Bones are for dogs, meat is for men. πŸ˜‰πŸ‘
    Mechawaffle Mechawaffle 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Time after time I'm left without an explanation. One minute they're keen as anything to get to know me and the minute they do I'm suddenly just not good enough. I wish more than...
    RebeccaLouise9541 RebeccaLouise9541 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I refuse to date unless I'm under 140lbs, I don't like myself so why would anyone else.
    TokenCat TokenCat 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago