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I Sometime I Feel Like I'll Never Find Someone to Love Me

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    The Beginning Of The End.

    It all started a year ago when I (Erica ..15 years old then, Tall, tan, thin, medium thick long brown hair and dark brown eyes) moved to Montana from Connecticut . I was all alone when I and my family moved into our nice quaint little house In a nice little neighborhood . We are...
    Pasdionateformusic Pasdionateformusic 16-17 1 Response Jun 26, 2011

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    I Have Never Been "that Girl"...

    Yeah, so, relationships have never been a big part of my life.  One reason is because it was never an area that I seemed to thrive in.  School, sports, work, got that all under control.  But love...never.  There are girls out there that when I look at them...
    thesensitiveone15 thesensitiveone15 36-40 6 Responses Apr 12, 2010

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    It Does Sometimes Feel Like That To Me

    it is said that there is someone out there for everyone. but how much truth is there in that. i dont know if i will ever meet that someone who will love me for me. iam unique and would require someone just as unique. in this world though it can at times be hard to find unique...
    echosofdarkness echosofdarkness 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2011

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    There's A Saying...

    "I'm always behind the scenes, never the star. I'm always the friend, never the girl." Don't get me wrong, I don't mind being "the friend". I like how my guy friends are more close to me than they are with someone they're romantically interested in. They're more carefree, not...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2010

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    Ha! So True

    It must be because I’m tired but I feel like I’m missing out on something by not having “someone”.  I have wanted to accomplish so much more at this point in my life.  When I see the good that couples share, I really feel like I am missing...
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2010

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    “I have outlasted all desire,

    My dreams and I have grown apart; My grief alone is left entire, The gleamings of an empty heart. I live in lonely desolation And wonder when my end will come. -Alexander Pushkins ..extracts
    cherishuforever cherishuforever 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Not Surprised That No One Loves me

    sure i have had guys after me.. but thats not the point. who would want to love me? just look at me, im annoying, drama queen, super sensitive, too romantic. i guess im just too much of everything. but i wish, i really wish some guy would just say, i love you and mean it but oh...
    UmbraEyes UmbraEyes 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2011

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    I Thought I Found The One

    I did find the one. But God needed him in heaven. Now I feel like i'll never feel the feeling i felt with him with anyone else. It just seems impossible. Its like everyone I come across never understands me. It's depressing.
    southerngurl93 southerngurl93 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2010

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    I Feel Like I Can Not Find Some One

    I feel some time I will never find someone to love me. And not use me . Then I get jumping in to the frying pan and wonder if it is right one that it is. I am looking for a freind. But wonder if I find some one in my life. I get unpationed . I can not deal with it. I am...
    lashanda lashanda 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    Well...

    Regardless of whether or not I find someone who loves me, I'll continue to live life to the fullest.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2011

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    More Recently Than Anything Else...

    i feel as though all the things that have happened lately in my life are telling me "you expect to much" "you're not worth it" "the love you want does not exist" "you do not have a person just for you" i thought i had it, and then he...
    tanpopo tanpopo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2008

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    "Have you ever longed

    for someone so much, so deeply that you thought you would die? That your heart would just stop beating? I am longing now, but for whom I don't know. My whole body craves to be held. I am desperate to love and be loved. I want my mind to float into another's. I want to be set...
    cherishuforever cherishuforever 41-45, F Mar 21

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    Related Experiences

    I am very afraid of this actually. I feel like I have found love, but it's one sided. If this isn't love I don't know what is? Please don't give me the you're to young speech, I am...
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F Aug 27

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    Seems to me that alot of men I am around want it all A wife , a mistress , a freak , a mommy , a nurse I can only be ten things at one time I'm afraid I will never find a man...
    applesnbananas applesnbananas 51-55, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I'm afraid I will never find somebody to really love me because they won't be ably to handle my career choice.. I'm in the USAF, and every single woman has either cheated on me, or...
    theHuntedOne14 theHuntedOne14 18-21, M Sep 7

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    I will never feel like I am good enough & I have every reason not to feel good enough.
    Itslisa Itslisa 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    I heard about EP and I thought it might help me, because nothing else has. I'm currently 16 years old living in Matthews, North Carolina. I've always been the kind of kid that put...
    Justjonathan Justjonathan 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have had so many life lesson experiences in my life, these lessons have made me understand that every person I ever met or never meet, needs to be loved and accepted, no matter...
    Mistakemaker80 Mistakemaker80 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I feel like that, like I don't belong here. There's no one I relate to, or understands me or have the same interest in things as me. But I suck it up. And push on, and Pray I'll...
    Salute2MyFlaws Salute2MyFlaws 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    It's because I am mentally ill. There really isn't any other explanation besides that. I am mentally ill and no one wants to deal with it. Well, guess what? I DO. Yes, me. I DEAL...
    Lov3intheasylum Lov3intheasylum 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    Certainly starting to feel that way! I don't know. I thought a while back maybe I was just creating excuses not to find someone. I hated going out as I'm not much of a drinker or...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    im very miserable girl , im always loosing ppl and i have no friends im good at nothing! i met very nice guy and he was the best thing ever happened to me, he was good friend but...
    lulutaa lulutaa 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I need some one to love me to I love you
    123tomcat 123tomcat 51-55, M Aug 20

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    I just met him a couple hours ago and idk I just can't stop thinking about him I've been thing about him the whole night and he's the first person I really have feelings for and...
    DiegoPR13 DiegoPR13 13-15, M Aug 20

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    Everyone around me is falling in love, getting married, having kids, and then their is me... All I want is someone to be with, someone to love me, someone to talk to, someone to...
    KolbySC KolbySC 18-21, M 4 Responses Aug 24

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    I'm going through a depressed/feeling sorry for myself stage. Ugh.
    ksgirl11 ksgirl11 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Everyone tells me that I will find that right girl soon. They told me that soon forever ago ._.
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 1

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    If Society knew my dating life... Mother~Hes too old for you! Father~He better treat you good! Guys my age~Eww, go away you piece of trash. Girls my age~OMG go find your sugar...
    InnerEgo InnerEgo 13-15, F Sep 6

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    I am afraid, there will be no one ever to love me. All I find around me are people who abuse my kindness. People who use me. It was like that ever since I remember and that's why...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 25

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    This is so true. I've been through so many guys but none is the right one.
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 9 Responses Aug 31

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    I'm so tired of being taken for granted.
    annah1 annah1 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    Your not Alone ^^ I am afraid about it too
    KITsune78 KITsune78 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    Honestly during high school two different times I've had someone say something along the lines of "id date you but I don't date black girls" I don't know it sounds petty but it...
    kaelabee kaelabee 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I know we are all complicated beings and I'm no different. However I complicate my life further by not being honest about my sexual orientation. I can admit to close friends that I...
    licwineoffurbody licwineoffurbody 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    In those past 5 years ... I traveled, I asked friends, I even tried the internet, the results were always the same "What I look for couldn't be found". My demands and standards are...
    Alip900 Alip900 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I do a lot for my family daily and I do them because I care but when my mom yells that I am not grateful. I die inside a little I do everything I can, I take care of all 4 of the...
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    yes,probably story of my life.
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Please read my other two experiences
    ouatnatalie ouatnatalie 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I always say I feel like I'm married to someone I hate because I don't particularly like myself and I can't escape myself. It's really hard to be in this position and I hate the...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Aug 21

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    I'm just so tired. I'm a failure, everything I do, is like, bullshit. I wanna be a singer, have my own boyband (I'm a girl and want to be a vocalist for a guys band) But I'm just...
    mariaedwards mariaedwards 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Ahead: Stupid rant My freshman year of high school, I met one girl and pretty much stuck to her side until I made my own friends, which were basically everyone she was friends...
    graveyardghosty graveyardghosty 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    No matter what I do, it's never enough. I feel isolated...trapped. If I don't do something right, I feel like I let everyone down. I want to find my purpose in life, but it's so...
    ohmyshortone ohmyshortone 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Back in 2012 I tried to kill myself and I took a pretty big overdose on some pills. Since then...life hasn't really been the same. I know I'm probably delusional for thinking this...
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F Sep 5

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    Hey guys, my life has been pretty good so far but lately I feel like I don't belong in my country. It started like a few months ago when I went to Thailand for a month with someone...
    msawsome44 msawsome44 22-25, M Aug 20

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    our society is crazy, wierd and corrupted. i hate it. i just wanna find someone to run away with and live of the land, in the woods for the rest of my life :D
    lynnewolf99 lynnewolf99 13-15, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I realized I'll never be good enough for myself or my family
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F Sep 1

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    New York. I want to find someone, my age and that can be trusted. When I'm 18, I want to have a teenage runaway with 4 of my best friends.
    Luke5SOS Luke5SOS 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 7

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    I'm always like the odd one out.. I'm the ugly, fat one in my group of friends.. I'm the talentless one in my family, I'm nothing special. I'm never the one that stands out (for...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F Aug 19

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