Post

I Sometime I Feel Like I'll Never Find Someone to Love Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 129 People

    Ha! So True

    It must be because I’m tired but I feel like I’m missing out on something by not having “someone”.  I have wanted to accomplish so much more at this point in my life.  When I see the good that couples share, I really feel like I am missing...
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 27, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    "Have you ever longed

    for someone so much, so deeply that you thought you would die? That your heart would just stop beating? I am longing now, but for whom I don't know. My whole body craves to be held. I am desperate to love and be loved. I want my mind to float into another's. I want to be set...
    cherishuforever cherishuforever 41-45, F Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Have Never Been "that Girl"...

    Yeah, so, relationships have never been a big part of my life.  One reason is because it was never an area that I seemed to thrive in.  School, sports, work, got that all under control.  But love...never.  There are girls out there that when I look at them...
    thesensitiveone15 thesensitiveone15 36-40 6 Responses Apr 12, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well...

    Regardless of whether or not I find someone who loves me, I'll continue to live life to the fullest.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    More Recently Than Anything Else...

    i feel as though all the things that have happened lately in my life are telling me "you expect to much" "you're not worth it" "the love you want does not exist" "you do not have a person just for you" i thought i had it, and then he...
    tanpopo tanpopo 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    “I have outlasted all desire,

    My dreams and I have grown apart; My grief alone is left entire, The gleamings of an empty heart. I live in lonely desolation And wonder when my end will come. -Alexander Pushkins ..extracts
    cherishuforever cherishuforever 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Beginning Of The End.

    It all started a year ago when I (Erica ..15 years old then, Tall, tan, thin, medium thick long brown hair and dark brown eyes) moved to Montana from Connecticut . I was all alone when I and my family moved into our nice quaint little house In a nice little neighborhood . We are...
    Pasdionateformusic Pasdionateformusic 16-17 1 Response Jun 26, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Maybe I'll Never Find The"one"

    sometimes i feel like i'll never find my knight in shining armor. i know i a bit young to be talking about this but i feel lonly like latey i been seeing couples in my school and my friend seem to start dating to and we're only in 8th grade i feel so unattractive so stupid...
    moodyconfusion moodyconfusion 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 22, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Thought I Found The One

    I did find the one. But God needed him in heaven. Now I feel like i'll never feel the feeling i felt with him with anyone else. It just seems impossible. Its like everyone I come across never understands me. It's depressing.
    southerngurl93 southerngurl93 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not Surprised That No One Loves me

    sure i have had guys after me.. but thats not the point. who would want to love me? just look at me, im annoying, drama queen, super sensitive, too romantic. i guess im just too much of everything. but i wish, i really wish some guy would just say, i love you and mean it but oh...
    UmbraEyes UmbraEyes 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 29, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It Does Sometimes Feel Like That To Me

    it is said that there is someone out there for everyone. but how much truth is there in that. i dont know if i will ever meet that someone who will love me for me. iam unique and would require someone just as unique. in this world though it can at times be hard to find unique...
    echosofdarkness echosofdarkness 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There's A Saying...

    "I'm always behind the scenes, never the star. I'm always the friend, never the girl." Don't get me wrong, I don't mind being "the friend". I like how my guy friends are more close to me than they are with someone they're romantically interested in. They're more carefree, not...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 30, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Feel Like I Can Not Find Some One

    I feel some time I will never find someone to love me. And not use me . Then I get jumping in to the frying pan and wonder if it is right one that it is. I am looking for a freind. But wonder if I find some one in my life. I get unpationed . I can not deal with it. I am...
    lashanda lashanda 51-55, F 4 Responses Aug 25, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    U never close ur eyes anymore when I kiss ur lips. There no tenderness left in ur fingers tips. Ur try hard not to show it... But baby.. Baby I no this. ...
    naughtythoughts101 naughtythoughts101 26-30, M Aug 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My computer has stopped working, so now I have no way of getting online from home and OMGGGGG it sucks! I have managed to get through a couple of weeks with no online company but I...
    TheLuckyHobo TheLuckyHobo 31-35, M Jul 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I think it's one of those moments where you see everyone around you finding someone and you're here alone. I'm always wondering if someday i'll find someone who'll love me. I guess...
    Dreamsooz Dreamsooz 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sometimes I just feel like there is nobody for me:(🎧
    lifeschallenge lifeschallenge 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Not me personally, but I know this girl who was approaching 40 and she could never find the right guy who could really love her. She spent countless amount of hours on the internet...
    sheherme83 sheherme83 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been on my own for 7 years now. The girl I liked was rushing into marriage which I wasn't ready for. Now I'm afraid there's no one out there for me who enjoys the same...
    baraccio baraccio 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am not afraid i wont find anyone to love me. I chose to live my life to the fullest and just be here to help people in need. Plus finding someone to love you these day doesnt...
    Atlchris Atlchris 16-17 2 Responses Jul 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Platonic or romantic, I can't seem to hold lasting relationships. So many people have left me in such awful ways that I have trouble imagining people wanting to stay. Of course...
    Gold81 Gold81 18-21, F Jul 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate being alone and I feel like no one will ever like me… everyone I have feelings for say I'm a great "friend" but i don't want a friend. I wanna feel loved.
    anythingbutfelicity anythingbutfelicity 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Okai where to start basically I have this cousin I love so much she Is also my best friend which makes me and her so close. But every single guy I like ends up liking her. I always...
    PhoebeIsMe PhoebeIsMe 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Atleast not right now.. I'm already tired of waking up each day hoping that maybe perhaps i would meet the guy i would love. I'm tired continuously wishing for someone to love me...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    At 20 I Don't Think I Should Even Be Worried About Things Like This... But The Thought Of Possibly Being Alone Forever Scares Me... Im Scared That I Will Find Someone That Really...
    HopelessLoveHer HopelessLoveHer 18-21, F 7 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need some one to love me to I love you
    123tomcat 123tomcat 51-55, M 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    That's Okay. Why do I want to be a part of a homogenised lump that can not think or feel as individuals? I forgive those who have been hurt or cajoled into living acceptably. I am...
    TheWomanWhoDid TheWomanWhoDid 36-40 1 Response Jul 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I try my best to help my family, but they ******* hate me😡😢, and I have a bad past so I thought I'm never good enough, for friends or for a gf or anyone. Unlit I met my gf...
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    No one really ever cares about me. I dunno how to react when someone shows interest in me, so I kind of just shut down when that happens. I'm used to being alone, or me being...
    dinorap1 dinorap1 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm a wonderful and beautiful woman. My friends question why I'm still single. I have so much love to give and I'm tired of being alone. It's been 5 years since I've been in a...
    Kwiatuszek Kwiatuszek 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can't articulate my feelings better than Warsan Shire in her poem titled 'for women who are 'difficult' to love' you are a horse running alone and he tries to tame you compares...
    sonarlove sonarlove 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's not really a matter of afraid, it's like a realization. It's so hard when someone says they love you and your heart won't accept those words as truth. I'm far from lonely...
    wisemanj47 wisemanj47 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    No one cares about me. I have no family because they all abused me. My friends are always too busy for me so I'm just not gonna bother asking if we can hang out anymore. I try to...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am bpd and I have trouble not rejecting someone else at the first sign that they may find me anything other than perfect. So far nobody has believed I truly cannot control this...
    xandrif xandrif 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just met him a couple hours ago and idk I just can't stop thinking about him I've been thing about him the whole night and he's the first person I really have feelings for and...
    DiegoPR13 DiegoPR13 16-17, M 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know I am young but I always worry about not finding the one.
    thatgirlluvsred thatgirlluvsred 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I believe that love is a myth. Hence, no question of anyone loving me.
    Tien101 Tien101 18-21 1 Response Jul 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    That love, that won't keep you in doubt. That love that I don't need reassurance that he loves me. That love that will last until i grow old...
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F Aug 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ladies hit me up. I already love you but... Who says I can't love a lil more?
    DreadlockJesus DreadlockJesus 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Whether it's platonic or romantic I don't think anyone will actually love me. I can barley keep friendships and the "friendships" I have just seem not to be there.
    musicgurl11 musicgurl11 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm just about ready to give up. No sense in trying, at this point. Life is taking me somewhere, I know not where. But, a lonely journey it is, and forever will be.
    ThatsTheJoke ThatsTheJoke 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When he looked at me, what did he see? Did he think to himself, what am i doing? When his lips touched mine, did he think of someone else? Did he look at me and think to himself...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is actual a question : I think my girl friend is a young **** because she's to young to do it and she had in her room sex stuff.what do I do?😔
    benverdin13 benverdin13 13-15, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Trying to date in your late 20's early 30's is torture enough, but I swear it's even worse if you're not a dog person and you have no interest in having kids. I'm at an impasse in...
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Attention. Do not try to talk to or be friends with the user love2tryalot. She's a terrible person and a *****. She will message you back if you message her and then she will block...
    B2TheZBoy B2TheZBoy 18-21, M Aug 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is so true 😔✋ **** my like 💣🙏🚬
    alanayolo alanayolo 13-15, F Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    People say your not outgoing enough, you don't smile enough, your too perky, your not smart enough, an this includes low blow comments I don't know. I am average mediocre and my...
    brnino brnino 18-21, F Jul 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can't remember that last time I felt something. I just don't see a future for myself... Ugh. **** thinking.
    Ri95 Ri95 18-21, F Jul 30