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I Sometimes Cry When I Think About Him

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    So Complicated

     I don't know how I got to this place. I never planned on caring so much- and yet it happened. He was the first to say those 3 little words the day after I felt them completely in my heart. I guess on some level it's wrong. Many women out there would say it is without a...
    zylastorm zylastorm 26-30, F Dec 7, 2009

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    It's Always The Love Songs</3

     isn't that true though?  most couples have "a song". One they declare is theirs, and it always will be. It's the ringtones on the phones. The one they plan to play at the wedding.  Then something happens. He moves, he cheats, or he just. Leaves. And...
    lostlonleygirl lostlonleygirl 18-21, F Dec 7, 2009

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    Good Tears.

    Thinking of him brings me to tears sometimes. I miss him so much, and wish he lived here instead of almost 2,000 miles away. His voice, his smile, his laugh...it just turns my day around. I felt like absolute crap all day, due to freakin mother nature who hates me, yet when I saw...
    staystrong11 staystrong11 18-21, F Aug 18, 2011

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    Him,him,him,him

    I've had a lot of "him"'s in my life. and i've cried about everyone of them dang it. when i think about him#1 i get mad because of the unfaithfulness, the taking from me what was pure and irreplacable, and i stay mad and grudgeful. then i get jealous that he is engaged...
    sanderskid sanderskid 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2009

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    Because I Love Him

    Sometimes the emotions overwhelm me when I hear a particular song, see a beautiful sunrise, certain flowers, or the beautiful sand on the beach.  Not all the time but sometimes I lose my self in melancholy remembrance and I feel the tears well up in my eyes. I blink to force...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 23 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    Nights Alone

    We spent almost every night this summer together... he would come over and we'd spend nights just wrapped in each others arms. Then summer ended and we both had to start school, me for the first time, and him far away. Some nights when I'm alone I cry just thinking about how...
    LiarGrl22 LiarGrl22 18-21, F Oct 12, 2009

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    "i Sometimes Cry When I Think About Him"

    Because he asked me so many times to be with him instead of the other guy. He promised to love me better and I couldn't see it until it was too late. I have realized now that I love him and the proof? I have a lot in fact. The proof is in every tear that rolls down my face every...
    Blue1484 Blue1484 26-30, F Nov 7, 2011

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    Pastlives

    my first love was egypt and later i discovered why, i had spent many lives there with various soulmates and primery and secondry soulmates aswell. all in all i can recall around 8 pastlives maybe more. i was a witch in the high lands in 1700.s but much before that i was married...
    trishkhb trishkhb 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2011

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    Trying To Figure It Out

    I know somewhat of how you feel. I too have had my share of guys that i cry over. One is also involved with my "friend". She knew how i felt about this gentleman, but still went ahead and started her "thing" with him.  Nothing more to do with either of them now.The next...
    beagles4me beagles4me 51-55, F Jun 27, 2011

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    Can't stop thinking about him and how much he has hurt me. I wasn't in love with him until recently. We had a fling during Summer then he had to move to a different state then he...
    Vickyovox Vickyovox 18-21, F a week ago

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    I can't stop thinking about him... Of how his lips felt against mine. So gentle and passionate. The sparkle in his eyes when he looks at me. Its like he's seeing me for the first...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I've been sleeping with a guy friend. Can't stop thinking about him. He's not extremely attractive or fit, I don't get it. He said he'd go out with me, that he cares for me. But I...
    failure94 failure94 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    About two weeks ago, my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me ovelyr text. 8 months doesn't seem like a long time, but it was the longest relationship I've ever had. I trusted him...
    ksel90 ksel90 22-25, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Sometimes in our life we’ll feel broken inside as if it will never end. But as days pass we’ll meet some people who will make us feel worthy of having a second chance...
    LAithought LAithought 22-25, F Jul 16

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    I've dated other guys, and still talking to other guys but none of them are like him. I've liked him over 3 years now and still secretly love him. We've been through a lot, but we...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I try to imagine how him taking me into his arms would feel. Could I find myself safe with my head on his chest and his arms tangled around my body with his hands resting gently on...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I recently was a bridesmaid in my cousin's wedding. There was a guy there, and I can't get him out of my mind. We had a small conversation, and kept stealing glances at each other...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 days ago

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    I think about my boyfriend all the time He just makes me feel so secure about myself
    lavabug01 lavabug01 13-15, F Jul 23

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    I cryed today because my crush / guy friend got a job a few days ago and when I ever talk to him I take advantage of every moment and I cryed because he works Mondays threw Sundays...
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    These last two,years have taught me to be strong from outside but to be a very weakling from inside. no matter what you do for others,,no matter how much problems you face to make...
    divich420 divich420 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    So my and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months but have been good friends for about 2 years. We are also both about to be seniors in high school. Although his guy...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    So my and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months but have been good friends for about 2 years. We are also both about to be seniors in high school. Although his guy...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Ugh I always wanna message him but I'm scared cuz he always says we will talk when we have time but I need to talk to him
    megan1247 megan1247 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    My boyfriend of two years and I are struggling because he broke a huge promise to me about always telling me when his friends had invited girls over and he was there. He failed to...
    misshaley7 misshaley7 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    He's always on my mind I just can't see him I can only talk to him on the phone This sucks
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Getting up with you almost every morning and walking out the door together as we leave for work wanting so much to press my lips to yours and when I leave work knowing I get to lay...
    mouse2816 mouse2816 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I'm with someone at the minute who I've been with for 4 years, we're arguing on and off recently, we haven't spoken for 8 days and seen each other for 4 weeks, I seen him this...
    bethbabe321 bethbabe321 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    My feelings were mending. I was starting to heal. I had accepted the fact that he was gone. I was slowly recovering from the hurt I had inside. And then I get a message...
    UGonnaKissMeOrNot UGonnaKissMeOrNot 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    This is tearing me apart.. Why does someone have to get upset and break up over something stupid I know I shouldn't want him back but I can't help it
    crazyminds crazyminds 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    He carries a little part if my soul with him, always with you in mind body and spirt x
    inboots inboots 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    I love you, I know I hurt you by staying, but I did it for my kids and I now realize they will be fine no matter what I choose as long as I'm happy they will be too. I hope you...
    raedavis raedavis 31-35, F Jul 15

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    He's my best friend/crush I wish he'd ask me out he left his shift at my house and it smells like heaven <3
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I feel like everything that happened was my fault I'm amazed you stayed with me for so many years but now that you ended it I feel so weak and lonely without you....please come...
    Cupcakeluv26 Cupcakeluv26 18-21, F Jul 22

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    10 things I hate 1. I hate the color purple 2. I hate the smell of skunk 3. I hate the sunflowers on my table 4. I hate looking at the moon 5. I hate crisp fall air and apples 6...
    smithgirl26 smithgirl26 26-30, F a week ago

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    My username says it all. He has made me miserable, he was and still is my everything.:)
    hebrokemyheart99 hebrokemyheart99 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Always anticipating the next letter and next phone call. He really gives me the butterflies in the stomach feeling. I love you GD.
    raedavis raedavis 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Stop clouding my thoughts or take me with you forever.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Yep so I'm thinking about him..
    Lilbit69 Lilbit69 16-17, F Jul 2

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    Seems like time heals all things... even though i have those difficult days, where I think about him and how I don't have him around anymore. I just remember: that he left me.. and...
    elenanicole elenanicole 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    It has been a couple of years since I spoke with him, and felt his lips, heard his laugh. But I cannot stop thinking of him.
    orchidblooming orchidblooming 31-35, F 13 hrs ago

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    I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend. He means everythjng to me. My family hates me and treats me like crap every day. There's nonstop screaming and yelling and name calling...
    saxophonegal22 saxophonegal22 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    What if? I do think back and wonder what wouldve happened if I did the opposite and what life be like if i chose another direction but then where I am now would not happen!I know I...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I hate thinking about people that I shouldn't, but sometimes those memories just makes me so happy and bring a smile to my face. When I need it most
    SimplyAmazingx SimplyAmazingx 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    I met my OH when I was 13 and he was 15.... we are pretty much together since than with some on/off phases inbetween. When I was 18 I had an affair with his younger cousin who was...
    anniecherry anniecherry 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'd love to hear from anyone that has managed to get themselves 'unstuck'. I am a sensible, intelligent woman. My head knows for certain that I must move on, and that being in this...
    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 9

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    I hate to cry when I get mad. When I confront someone when I'm mad it seems like they won't take me seriously bc I'm crying. When I'm actually I'm pi$$ed.
    Gingerl1652 Gingerl1652 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    When I argue with someone I cry when it gets really heated. I don't know why. Always have. I hate crying bc I feel like a baby & don't seem to have the same effect to an argument...
    Gingerl1652 Gingerl1652 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I would say that i think about death everyday. It is always on my mind, my fear of death is taking over my life, sometimes i just lie on my bed and try to image what it would be...
    lifeislife12 lifeislife12 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23