I Sometimes Feel Unloved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 198 People

    I Had a Friend Who Made Me Feel Like I Wasn't Worth Loving

    I know that people love me.  I know that.  I'm very grateful towards those people, but sometimes I feel like I'm drowning and the people that I want to be there aren't. I know I've told this story a thousand times on ep, but a year ago a long time friend who...
    SerenaDragonfly SerenaDragonfly
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2009

    I've been going through a lot

    and I know my boyfriend tries and he tells me he loved me but sometimes I just feel unloved and secondary to him... :( it's making me feel more upset than I should be and I'm already suicidal and I have anxiety (I can't cut or kill myself because I promised the hospital I wouldn...
    helloo12121 helloo12121
    16-17, F
    Sep 13, 2015

    By My Husband

    I feel loved and cherished by a lot of people. but sometimes this man that i call my husband really makes me feel like ****. he gets a kick out of dissing me, maybe its his own insecurity that he is feeding, but it hurts. he is always insulting and berating me and complaining...
    goldie25 goldie25
    31-35, F
    22 Responses Mar 4, 2009

    My Horrible Parents

    I guess I shouldn't feel this way because I had wonderful people in my life that did take care of me. But when your mother abandons you at 8 mths. and leaves you with a drunk father that only cares about his self then too leaves you then yes your gonna feel unloved. Thinking...
    StacyRoberts1985 StacyRoberts1985
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 5, 2012

    Shown No Love

    My parents were never there to catch me when i'd fall. In fact they were the ones who threw me down. My emotional issues stemmed alot from the abuse my "father" Scott, inflicted on me. When i was 14 i was raped. When i was in 7th grade started cutting my wrists. By 9th grade...
    xSinfulxPleasurex xSinfulxPleasurex
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2013

    Sometimes I don't get the responses I want.

    .. I know he might just not be in the mood, or annoyed with me, but it hurts to see him avoid telling me he loves me...
    themaskhero themaskhero
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 24, 2014

    Quiet Ones.

    We all just want to fit in somewhere and feel like we truly belong in this place where people will notice us and we would now that "I Matter", but it just always ends up with us getting in the shaddow of these people that search for spotlights and always have their life under...
    Minuet19 Minuet19
    18-21
    Dec 10, 2012

    Even Though

    Even though i have a family, and a beautiful girlfriend and a few friends, i always feel unloved. Like nobody wants me , like im always annoying someone, or like i have nobody. My mum and dad are good to me but i rarely see them, my girlfriend is who i see the most, but sometimes...
    Sexydeath Sexydeath
    16-17, M
    Sep 16, 2012

    Unloved Or Unlovable?

    I sometimes wonder when I feel unloved (which is most of the time), whether it is because I am unlovable. Maybe in a strange kind of way we send out bad vibes that make us less lovable. What do others think?
    felicita felicita
    66-70, F
    5 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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