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I Sometimes Feel Unloved

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    Even Though

    Even though i have a family, and a beautiful girlfriend and a few friends, i always feel unloved. Like nobody wants me , like im always annoying someone, or like i have nobody. My mum and dad are good to me but i rarely see them, my girlfriend is who i see the most, but sometimes...
    Sexydeath Sexydeath 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2012

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    It's Probably Nothing to Worry About

    Hey, we are all apt to feel a little unappreciated at times.  The ones we love have a lot on their minds; maybe they don't know how we're feeling. This seems especially likely to happen to women.  I know it occurs to my wife about six times a day!  Ha ha. ...
    ward ward 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 25, 2008

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    Lately I have felt unloved

    and unwanted and not needed and some times I wonder if I would be missed at all.
    Surrick Surrick 31-35, F Feb 23

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    I Had a Friend Who Made Me Feel Like I Wasn't Worth Loving

    I know that people love me.  I know that.  I'm very grateful towards those people, but sometimes I feel like I'm drowning and the people that I want to be there aren't. I know I've told this story a thousand times on ep, but a year ago a long time friend who...
    SerenaDragonfly SerenaDragonfly 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2009

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    I Just Do!

    Although I have loved ones who love me, I still feel unloved. I wonder why? Maybe I'm depressed or just weird.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Nov 25, 2011

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    My Horrible Parents

    I guess I shouldn't feel this way because I had wonderful people in my life that did take care of me. But when your mother abandons you at 8 mths. and leaves you with a drunk father that only cares about his self then too leaves you then yes your gonna feel unloved. Thinking...
    StacyRoberts1985 StacyRoberts1985 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2012

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    By My Husband

    I feel loved and cherished by a lot of people. but sometimes this man that i call my husband really makes me feel like ****. he gets a kick out of dissing me, maybe its his own insecurity that he is feeding, but it hurts. he is always insulting and berating me and complaining...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 22 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    Unloved Or Unlovable?

    I sometimes wonder when I feel unloved (which is most of the time), whether it is because I am unlovable. Maybe in a strange kind of way we send out bad vibes that make us less lovable. What do others think?
    felicita felicita 66-70, F 5 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    Quiet Ones.

    We all just want to fit in somewhere and feel like we truly belong in this place where people will notice us and we would now that "I Matter", but it just always ends up with us getting in the shaddow of these people that search for spotlights and always have their life under...
    Minuet19 Minuet19 18-21 Dec 10, 2012

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    I wake up, eat, work, go home or hang around co-workers sometimes, cook, then sleep. Either my life is going nowhere, or my life isn't exactly a life anymore.
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    Does it happen to everyone? Or is it just me. I'm not sure but one thing I do know is that I feel like no one truly likes me. I like to think Im a good person, that I'm nice and...
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    I feel i do not belong in society. I have unique ways of looking at things, i have high hopes and aspirations and i feel a lot of that is rejected by society. "Be like us and do...
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    For the past few months it feels like I'm not really living. It's like I've got some kind of daily routine and it doesn't require any emotions. I'm getting scared now because so...
    Lizz7 Lizz7 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I find myself seeing other happy couples and honestly feel like giving up, it comes so easy to others. I want that happiness, comfort and love.
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    Being bored and lonely at night is one of the worst feelings ever.
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    I feel like this all the time, just waiting around hoping one day something will happen out of my life, I'm wanting to go in army hopefully by next year I will be in there making...
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    I live so far away from my family and friends. I have no friends currently since I moved here I'm sad cause my S/O doesn't even talk to me as much anymore. I keep feeling bottled...
    browneyedgirl10 browneyedgirl10 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I feel like I don't have anyone to talk to. I want to tell someone but I also don't want to put the burden on them by telling them my problems. I wish I had someone I could talk to...
    ejc018 ejc018 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I really hate fake friends, they smile ,talk to you and say they will be there for you but always come up with an excuse when they not there
    lonelymum89 lonelymum89 22-25, F Apr 10

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    How do you know someone really loves you?
    lonelymum89 lonelymum89 22-25, F Apr 11

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    I'm the type of person that likes to change things up every now and then. I don't want to get stuck in a 9-5 job that I resent going to all week. I want to travel and experience...
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    I don't belong in this society. It has to many rules and is judgmental and hypocritical to everyone in it. Why cant there be a society that accepts all people of race, gender, and...
    Jewels2145 Jewels2145 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    At the end of the day, I have myself to blame.
    LocketRainbow LocketRainbow 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I live life how I want to not by what other people want me to live my life had that all my life MY LIFE!!! I decide what I want to do not you
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I'm married but just fill like I'm not good enough for him or fill like nothing I do is right
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    "Many Times The 'Wrong' Train Took Me To The Right Place" P. Coelho
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    How can a guy make guy friends? Strange question, but it don't seem to work out for me...
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    Yes that eternal waiting....
    KyleO KyleO 41-45, M Mar 28

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    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M Mar 28

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    Haha I can relate to this a lot. I went through this for 6 months after highschool. (I am an old soul) I felt like I had to have it all figured out because I was 19. Still 19 but...
    flexforchange flexforchange 18-21, M Mar 31

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    I hate the fact that my parents don't truly understand/accept where I want to go and be in life. It's holding me back from becoming who I want to be.
    unapologeticexpression unapologeticexpression 13-15, F Mar 31

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