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I Sometimes Feel Unloved

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    Lately I have felt unloved

    and unwanted and not needed and some times I wonder if I would be missed at all.
    Surrick Surrick 31-35, F Feb 23

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    Sometimes I feel like

    if I disappeared off the face of the earth would I truly be missed. I know my girls would and my parents but would others honestly notice, lately would my husband? Friends ? I don't ever know the answer but often wonder
    Surrick Surrick 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    It's Probably Nothing to Worry About

    Hey, we are all apt to feel a little unappreciated at times.  The ones we love have a lot on their minds; maybe they don't know how we're feeling. This seems especially likely to happen to women.  I know it occurs to my wife about six times a day!  Ha ha. ...
    ward ward 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 25, 2008

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    Unloved Or Unlovable?

    I sometimes wonder when I feel unloved (which is most of the time), whether it is because I am unlovable. Maybe in a strange kind of way we send out bad vibes that make us less lovable. What do others think?
    felicita felicita 66-70, F 5 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    I Just Do!

    Although I have loved ones who love me, I still feel unloved. I wonder why? Maybe I'm depressed or just weird.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 25, 2011

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    My Horrible Parents

    I guess I shouldn't feel this way because I had wonderful people in my life that did take care of me. But when your mother abandons you at 8 mths. and leaves you with a drunk father that only cares about his self then too leaves you then yes your gonna feel unloved. Thinking...
    StacyRoberts1985 StacyRoberts1985 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2012

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    I Had a Friend Who Made Me Feel Like I Wasn't Worth Loving

    I know that people love me.  I know that.  I'm very grateful towards those people, but sometimes I feel like I'm drowning and the people that I want to be there aren't. I know I've told this story a thousand times on ep, but a year ago a long time friend who...
    SerenaDragonfly SerenaDragonfly 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2009

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    Even Though

    Even though i have a family, and a beautiful girlfriend and a few friends, i always feel unloved. Like nobody wants me , like im always annoying someone, or like i have nobody. My mum and dad are good to me but i rarely see them, my girlfriend is who i see the most, but sometimes...
    Sexydeath Sexydeath 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2012

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    Shown No Love

    My parents were never there to catch me when i'd fall. In fact they were the ones who threw me down. My emotional issues stemmed alot from the abuse my "father" Scott, inflicted on me. When i was 14 i was raped. When i was in 7th grade started cutting my wrists. By 9th grade...
    xSinfulxPleasurex xSinfulxPleasurex 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Sometimes I don't get the responses I want.

    .. I know he might just not be in the mood, or annoyed with me, but it hurts to see him avoid telling me he loves me...
    themaskhero themaskhero 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Quiet Ones.

    We all just want to fit in somewhere and feel like we truly belong in this place where people will notice us and we would now that "I Matter", but it just always ends up with us getting in the shaddow of these people that search for spotlights and always have their life under...
    Minuet19 Minuet19 18-21 Dec 10, 2012

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    By My Husband

    I feel loved and cherished by a lot of people. but sometimes this man that i call my husband really makes me feel like ****. he gets a kick out of dissing me, maybe its his own insecurity that he is feeding, but it hurts. he is always insulting and berating me and complaining...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 22 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    I've been praying constantly for someone to help me get through my episodes of depression. I can have the best day and be surrounded by family and yet come home to cry myself to...
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    I just feel alone right now. Alone with myself is never a good thing..
    Gordonzobeanz Gordonzobeanz 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 5

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    The worst feeling is needing someone so badly when everything is going wrong and knowing you have nobody :/
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    The fact that I feel nothing right now; does it mean that I'm alive?
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    Like right now. Lonely as in I wish I had someone aside from family and friends to tell me they love me...and mean it.
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    And strangling people that annoy me as i do -_-
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    I wanna go to another place where no one knows me. no one will judge me l. and start a new life.
    kismet1427 kismet1427 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    I just don't want to in general. All ready fat enough.
    laneybrooklyn laneybrooklyn 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 10

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    "It's not hard to get your way when it's your way or the highway. People either follow suit or they're not around. I don't really like the sound of that, 'cause that sounds like a...
    MollyAgnes MollyAgnes 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    we seem to live in a world where people think that they HAVE to be the most badass, or they have to see who can give the least amount of ***** and where apologies are a foreign...
    BiCPP BiCPP 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 12

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    Only by the grace of God I go.....I am leading the great Exodus....Like Bob Marley sings about....Its a great movement of people...A state of mind that everyone can hear....and the...
    MMMartin MMMartin 51-55, F Nov 16

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    No need to. I don't need it. I like not eating.
    WinterGurl WinterGurl 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    For instance, School. I don't know about you, but at my school society is pretty ****** up. Maybe it's because you spend 7 long hours surround with people that care more about what...
    blueapple12 blueapple12 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 17

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    But God never promised to cater to me.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 17

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    It seems like I could take off tomorrow and no one would notice.
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    But then society demands credit.
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 17

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    oh god this is me everyday. there's no real way to succeed
    inkedmommy inkedmommy 22-25, F Nov 17

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    maybe I'm trapped by my own brain- regardless, it hurts. I'm so very sad tonight..
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    It's Gibbs! My first thought! I do though. It seems like I'm doomed to a life of misery. I HAVE to change that before I go crazy. I need help though....
    KimTin33 KimTin33 22-25, F Nov 18

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