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I Sometimes Feel Unloved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 154 People

    By My Husband

    I feel loved and cherished by a lot of people. but sometimes this man that i call my husband really makes me feel like ****. he gets a kick out of dissing me, maybe its his own insecurity that he is feeding, but it hurts. he is always insulting and berating me and complaining...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 22 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    Unloved Or Unlovable?

    I sometimes wonder when I feel unloved (which is most of the time), whether it is because I am unlovable. Maybe in a strange kind of way we send out bad vibes that make us less lovable. What do others think?
    felicita felicita 66-70, F 5 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    It's Probably Nothing to Worry About

    Hey, we are all apt to feel a little unappreciated at times.  The ones we love have a lot on their minds; maybe they don't know how we're feeling. This seems especially likely to happen to women.  I know it occurs to my wife about six times a day!  Ha ha. ...
    ward ward 56-60, M 1 Response Mar 25, 2008

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    I Just Do!

    Although I have loved ones who love me, I still feel unloved. I wonder why? Maybe I'm depressed or just weird.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Nov 25, 2011

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    Lately I have felt unloved

    and unwanted and not needed and some times I wonder if I would be missed at all.
    Surrick Surrick 31-35, F Feb 23

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    Even Though

    Even though i have a family, and a beautiful girlfriend and a few friends, i always feel unloved. Like nobody wants me , like im always annoying someone, or like i have nobody. My mum and dad are good to me but i rarely see them, my girlfriend is who i see the most, but sometimes...
    Sexydeath Sexydeath 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2012

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    My Horrible Parents

    I guess I shouldn't feel this way because I had wonderful people in my life that did take care of me. But when your mother abandons you at 8 mths. and leaves you with a drunk father that only cares about his self then too leaves you then yes your gonna feel unloved. Thinking...
    StacyRoberts1985 StacyRoberts1985 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2012

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    Shown No Love

    My parents were never there to catch me when i'd fall. In fact they were the ones who threw me down. My emotional issues stemmed alot from the abuse my "father" Scott, inflicted on me. When i was 14 i was raped. When i was in 7th grade started cutting my wrists. By 9th grade...
    xSinfulxPleasurex xSinfulxPleasurex 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Quiet Ones.

    We all just want to fit in somewhere and feel like we truly belong in this place where people will notice us and we would now that "I Matter", but it just always ends up with us getting in the shaddow of these people that search for spotlights and always have their life under...
    Minuet19 Minuet19 18-21 Dec 10, 2012

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    I Had a Friend Who Made Me Feel Like I Wasn't Worth Loving

    I know that people love me.  I know that.  I'm very grateful towards those people, but sometimes I feel like I'm drowning and the people that I want to be there aren't. I know I've told this story a thousand times on ep, but a year ago a long time friend who...
    SerenaDragonfly SerenaDragonfly 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I have been feeling apathetic towards anyone I love lately. I feel an emotional detachment and I can't get myself to care as much as I used to for others. Especially my boyfriend...
    KrisMiss KrisMiss 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Waves, coming and going back to the ocean, sometimes my emotions are like that like it will kill me by worrying me that much and sometimes i don't care at all about anything.
    visibleme visibleme 18-21 Aug 1

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    Sometimes I do and I don't mean to, sometimes people say really irrational things and I guess its not irrational to them so its really all just how a person perceives things but...
    christfukk christfukk 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I feel like this is not a bad thing but more of a normal thing. Everyone feels lonely and left out sometimes.
    Moelyn95 Moelyn95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I like the numb feeling tho, I guess sometimes I think its a numb feeling when really its just that I have not thought of things that I normally do in awhile. Then when I start...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F Aug 18

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    There's this feeling I have, that I've never been able to shake. It's down deep, somewhere in my soul, and it's empty and alone... I've never been able to fill it.... But I've...
    LEMONkinks LEMONkinks 18-21, F Aug 20

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    I used to be to tolerant of everyone and I feel I'm just so intolerant of anyone I sometimes forget how good people can feel. It's like I need constant attention or I feel rejected...
    dancerinadaydream dancerinadaydream 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Sometimes I feel as useless as a white crayon
    AintGotNoSpoons AintGotNoSpoons 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    So I don't really feel that way now, but I often do... But so I thought this was interesting... I mentioned that I was broke lately, well I started doing stuff to try to fix that...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    In the middle of nowhere!Sometimes I wonder if there's something that i should be doing or somewhere i should be going as I'm not moving up nor down or changing or improving!Like...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Sometimes. I have GOD though. He did say it's not good for man (human) to be alone.
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Lately, I have felt so lonely. I had people around me but I still feel all alone. No one to truly talk to about my life and feelings. I don't think anyone truly understands me. It...
    breeze90 breeze90 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 10

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    When you're surrounded by all these people, it can be lonelier than when you're by yourself. You can be in a huge crowd, but if you don't feel like you can trust anyone or talk to...
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 18-21, M Aug 16

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    I feel numb like the thought that no one cares and no one will ever take the time to care numb's my body and feel non existing
    annoying143 annoying143 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    When people say things like you are so ugly and retarded I tend to feel ugly!!!!
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Is there one night of the week that makes you feel more alone than others? For me it's Friday, the end of the Working week.
    clutterbuck clutterbuck 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 1

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    I feel numbness in my heart and chest like there's nothing there, like a black hole, leading to the abyss..
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M Aug 4

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    To anyone who reads this I want to point out this isn't some sort of pity party or a cry for help or anything; just me venting or whatever. So in 8 days (Aug 15) is my birthday...
    thedude5600 thedude5600 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    There are days when I feel like I'm so ugly and everyone will die. |:
    metaphornographic metaphornographic 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I work in a cruise ship. I really need someone to chat with. Feeling really lonely.
    izaness izaness 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I have felt numb in the face and a few times my body. I used to smoke cigarettes and when I smoked a lot I got those feelings. It's weird.
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Aug 18

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    I guess i feel a little lonely today. I'm not gonna lie or fight it. Well, at least I got my dog with me lol off to study.. Some more.
    Inthepr0cess Inthepr0cess 22-25, F Aug 20

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    Music makes me feel almost human
    weeshil weeshil 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Numbness can be scary, especially if you have a history of dissociation. A common way of dealing with it is self harm, but here are some more healthy ways to feel something. If...
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 4 days ago

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    All the times i feel like this :(
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I regularly feel that people are not so much out to get me, but that they think I'm a fool, I'm crazy, a pest. If I write a letter, an email or something online and get no...
    ifhsb ifhsb 41-45, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    So my ex says "I don't have time to talk to you." My second ex says nothing. No one calls. No one says "I miss her." No one stayed or ever wanted to....I am just getting...
    Nurse68 Nurse68 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Wow I haven't written in a while... Well... I guess I'm alone again. I guess I need someone to talk to again. So here I am. So my aunt, cousin, and cousins' stepdad all went to...
    secrets1can2be3told secrets1can2be3told 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    Especially when you hear of what people my age (25) are doing with their lives. I have potential, but without opportunities, it's difficult to realise that potential. Right now, I...
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 1

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    I just don't have anyone to talk, anyone to be with... Nobody cares about me...
    Ricking Ricking 18-21, M Aug 5

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    just do ...............................................
    angelofsweetness angelofsweetness 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Somedays it's off, somedays its on, lately its been going both ways
    RashLash RashLash 22-25, M Aug 11

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    You know those days where you really need to a hug or talk but no one is beside you, so you just want to curl up in a ball and sleep until all your problems go away.....? And Wake...
    mssst mssst 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 13

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    I am lonely I just want a friend
    eddiehughes eddiehughes 46-50, M Aug 15

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    Hate being paranoid with my bf,, just walked past him and he quickly turned his phone off but. I saw he was on his messages before he turned it off grrrr
    bansco bansco 31-35, F Aug 17

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    Growing up to the age of about six i had a normal, mischievous life like most kids until the death of my father. He died at the age of 32 from a heart attack, well so im told by...
    AnonGuy2 AnonGuy2 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Like doors that link halls that connect. No reward yet. Except pals. And no prison yet. Except in my head.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    I want to be drunk when I wake up on the right side of the wrong bed
    weeshil weeshil 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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