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I Sometimes Feel Unloved

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 186 People

    Quiet Ones.

    We all just want to fit in somewhere and feel like we truly belong in this place where people will notice us and we would now that "I Matter", but it just always ends up with us getting in the shaddow of these people that search for spotlights and always have their life under...
    Minuet19 Minuet19 18-21 Dec 10, 2012

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    My Horrible Parents

    I guess I shouldn't feel this way because I had wonderful people in my life that did take care of me. But when your mother abandons you at 8 mths. and leaves you with a drunk father that only cares about his self then too leaves you then yes your gonna feel unloved. Thinking...
    StacyRoberts1985 StacyRoberts1985 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 5, 2012

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    I Had a Friend Who Made Me Feel Like I Wasn't Worth Loving

    I know that people love me.  I know that.  I'm very grateful towards those people, but sometimes I feel like I'm drowning and the people that I want to be there aren't. I know I've told this story a thousand times on ep, but a year ago a long time friend who...
    SerenaDragonfly SerenaDragonfly 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 3, 2009

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    Unloved Or Unlovable?

    I sometimes wonder when I feel unloved (which is most of the time), whether it is because I am unlovable. Maybe in a strange kind of way we send out bad vibes that make us less lovable. What do others think?
    felicita felicita 66-70, F 5 Responses Mar 7, 2009

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    Sometimes I don't get the responses I want.

    .. I know he might just not be in the mood, or annoyed with me, but it hurts to see him avoid telling me he loves me...
    themaskhero themaskhero 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2014

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    By My Husband

    I feel loved and cherished by a lot of people. but sometimes this man that i call my husband really makes me feel like ****. he gets a kick out of dissing me, maybe its his own insecurity that he is feeding, but it hurts. he is always insulting and berating me and complaining...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 22 Responses Mar 4, 2009

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    Shown No Love

    My parents were never there to catch me when i'd fall. In fact they were the ones who threw me down. My emotional issues stemmed alot from the abuse my "father" Scott, inflicted on me. When i was 14 i was raped. When i was in 7th grade started cutting my wrists. By 9th grade...
    xSinfulxPleasurex xSinfulxPleasurex 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Even Though

    Even though i have a family, and a beautiful girlfriend and a few friends, i always feel unloved. Like nobody wants me , like im always annoying someone, or like i have nobody. My mum and dad are good to me but i rarely see them, my girlfriend is who i see the most, but sometimes...
    Sexydeath Sexydeath 16-17, M Sep 16, 2012

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    I Just Do!

    Although I have loved ones who love me, I still feel unloved. I wonder why? Maybe I'm depressed or just weird.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Nov 25, 2011

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    I am overwhelmed, I don't have much friends to talk to about my problems,I call my daughters father and he just says to deal with it,calls me lazy.I tend to complain because I live...
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    Then again I am someone's alter personality. I must help him so I must stay inside this body however I do sometimes wonder what it would be like to have my own body
    vladimirfoote vladimirfoote 13-15, M 8 hrs ago

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    I think this is common for most women. Throw in a mental illness and you sometimes get fireworks.
    forevereternal9 forevereternal9 26-30, F 10 hrs ago

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    Why do I feel so frekkin lonely even though I have friends inviting me to go out with them right now!!???
    Laraamani Laraamani 22-25, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I'm not sure if it's all in my head or what, but I constantly feel someone watching me. My best friend and I always talk about a group of people who are after us, and I don't want...
    MrMenShow MrMenShow 18-21, F 23 hrs ago

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    An old memory just came back to me.... I had a fight with my best friend in high school and we never really spoke after that fight. I was in the school newspaper office on the...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I don't always feel alone in my marriage, but at the moment and numerous other times I do feel alone. I suffer from PTSD, and my wife and I both have anxiety and depression issues...
    Frankenzombie Frankenzombie 36-40, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am tired with my family not accepting me as a gamer, an atheist and a feminist. They keep criticizing me for not living in the real world, say games are for kids and teenagers...
    EV97 EV97 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Big decision to make and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Big decision to make and I need some advice. So allow me first to give you some background. I first met my wife not too long after a really bad heartbreaking relationship where I...
    TiredDaddy TiredDaddy 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I know I don't belong in society, I am an alien and socially awkward. I'd honestly rather just live in the forest amongst the animals sometimes.
    SanguineNoire SanguineNoire 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Or maybe just just whole human society, I feel like I am a spectator, I feel like I'm studying the human race without belonging to it, not implying that I am above it, just...
    aPossibleFriend aPossibleFriend 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I feel like every one hates me. I try to be a good friend or girl friend. I sometimes feel like people see me as a making a joke target at me. Its like 4 or 5 people makes jokes...
    tasha2kids tasha2kids 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm not in pain. I'm not angry. I'm not pregnant. I'm not hungry. I'm not tired. I'm not scared. I'm not happy. I'm not upset. For some reason, no matter what the situation, I just...
    RealmRunner RealmRunner 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    i blocked him out. Then he made a new account to pretend to be someone else. Oh so desperate.
    Aaaashton Aaaashton 22-25, F a week ago

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    When one of my friends hurt me so bad, it tears me up inside. Even if it was not meant too, it goes in and takes my feelings out in shock. In disbelief, I'm so hurt and in shock. I...
    ghost25 ghost25 16-17, M Aug 19

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    "When I am silent, I have thunder hidden inside." - Rumi
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Sometimes I wonder if i died the next day she would care. I just got done quitting my job that was worth staying to go home to deal with college and with my ex. She was once a wife...
    JusDave JusDave 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Today I hit the bottom Just want cuddles and to be loved not to be glared at every time my husband walks by what's wrong with me it's been 10 years we been together and my last...
    Graceof5 Graceof5 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    so this entire summer I have had none stop remembrances of everything I have done, not just deja vu, full on memory's of old nightmares from when I was a kid. I am freaked out, I...
    mwradke mwradke 22-25, M Aug 16

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    This started happening to me about five years ago, and I take it as a sign of inner progress. I think it's what *real* happiness is -- just the pure joy of being alive and...
    MyNameIsSeven MyNameIsSeven 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I don't feel like my friends really care about me. We have been friends forever, but now I feel like they are only friends with me because they don't have anyone else, but if they...
    Mellomaniac Mellomaniac 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    most of the time I feel invisible no one ever come visit me except when they need money or food or other things they think they can get and if I don't have it they make a quick...
    masterLLL masterLLL 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 15

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    Mainly at work, a world of misogyny and double standards. Im a supervisor, I cover any shift someone calls out for and treated like a lesser being. " Are you sure you can manage...
    Disobey247 Disobey247 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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    As a young child I truly and honestly believed I had a power. That I, the worthless, possessed a skill, a gift no other was granted with. The ability to go along unseen, unheard...
    Hunttheheartofblack Hunttheheartofblack 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Someone message me everyone is ignoring me someone message me
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 14

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    I want to end the music completely, instead of just standing here in one spot, with the player's pin lifted up, for the rest of my life, I want to just unplug the player altogether...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 14

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    My friend has been in a long term relationship for two years.. That's when I started to feel lonely, because since then we haven't been in contact much and it felt like everyone's...
    Hunnybunay Hunnybunay 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    I know I shouldn't.. I don't know what's wrong with me... It's probably just my teenage brain being stupid.. I just wish I could stop feeling things right now.. I wish I could go...
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 13

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    I'm tired of breaking down every moment here in there so it's time quit my job packed up my **** from my ex's house and become homeless cuz I just can't trust anything and not...
    JusDave JusDave