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I Sometimes Find Men Puzzling

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    They Never Cease to Puzzle Me

    Once I tried so hard to make my husband smile, told him a lot of funny things that happened to me when I was a child. Finally I succeeded, yay! 7 months later, we had an argument about implementing a program, and he brought up the childhood situation and told me that's...
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 24 Responses May 20, 2009

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    A Challenging Jigsaw of a Saviour...

    It makes me curse, I twist pieces in my mind. I was sure this piece went here! Wait... *fumbles and clicks it in*! Ah darling, why do you look like Jesus? I am your Magdalene. :)  
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses May 9, 2009

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    Stubborn Men: Part 1

    I’m currently staying a SE Asian country where the people are in general very mild-tempered and sweet. In this tropical heat, it’s really too hot to be any other way. But something seems to be wrong with the way I’m communicating with the local men. At...
    xiaomei xiaomei 26-30, F 24 Responses May 4, 2009

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    Got It Now

      A typical bloke, having split from his latest girlfriend, decided to take a holiday.He booked himself on a cruise and proceeded to have the time of hislife, that is...
    stevester stevester 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 20, 2009

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    SOMETIMES Puzzling??? How About 'all the Time - I Have No Clue!!!'

    I can not relate to guys ... I don't think like a guy I don't act like a guy I can't rationalize like a guy I can't let it go like a guy I don't play games like a guy I don't have 'casual acquaintences' like a guy I talk more...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 39 Responses May 5, 2009

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    A Monk's Lesson

    In this SE Asian country,early each morning monks go from house to house with their begging bowls and satchels to gather food for their once-a-day meal. On this particular morning when 2 saffron-robed monks came to our gate, I presented them with 2 cartons of coconut milk, some...
    xiaomei xiaomei 26-30, F 25 Responses May 23, 2009

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    Stubborn Men: Part 2

     Our street is a very lovely and well-kept street except for the villa across the way which had overgrown grass and trash strewn on the sidewalk in front of their property. I thought this was strange because the sign outside says it is a major Japanese company and Japanese...
    xiaomei xiaomei 26-30, F 12 Responses May 4, 2009

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    I will not bow down to you because you are nice to me. You're supposed to be nice without wanting something in return, it's called being a decent human being. Too many males have...
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    i dont find to many men that like younger girls
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    I have placed myself in quite the awkward situation. Perhaps coming face to face with a girl i've been thinking about for a while now. But, I've only recently have been caught up...
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    I have people close to me in my life who have mental illness. I work on the business side of mental healthcare. Right now I am incredibly frustrated with someone near and dear to...
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    June 26. Surviving Slumps. A slump can go on for days. We feel sluggish, unfocused, and sometimes overwhelmed with feelings we can't sort out. We may not understand what is going...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    June 26. Surviving Slumps. A slump can go on for days. We feel sluggish, unfocused, and sometimes overwhelmed with feelings we can't sort out. We may not understand what is going...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Smart is what Smart does. When there Action is Smart. Not selfish or Biased. Not very many men could go beyond themselves and ACT without being Judged, Biased or Self Interest. I...
    paradisequeen paradisequeen 41-45, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Or don't like.....Hello boys and girls. About a year ago, I wrote one of my biggest stories ever. It just got over a thousand views and apparently its still to this very day is...
    zonus zonus 31-35, M 10 Responses Jun 24

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    This is a response I wrote to an anorexic woman. I'm bipolar, but I've talked to enough people with other kinds of mental illnesses to see we have a lot in common. I wrote this to...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M Jul 13

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    I am attracted to older men in there 30's or 40's I know it's strange but I like them and I am very horny. ;)
    Beckyy14 Beckyy14 13-15, F 10 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Women abandoned by their fathers and/or a used/neglected by their mothers.... The real tragedy is that in many of these instances, when a good, nice man does come along, the woman...
    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    You want to know what's wrong? I'll tell you.... The guys here want to know what's wrong with us, Ladies. They want to know why we won't do what they say or why we won't worship...
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I don't know if it's me or if it's my boyfriend. I'm a college student attending a 4 year university, my boyfriend and I started dating in 2011,which was the beginning of my...
    Latch Latch 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I find myself to be attracted to older men. Something about them is quite appealing(who are single of course) and I find myself to be indifferent towards men my age. It may because...
    StephFred StephFred 18-21, F 47 Responses Jul 6

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    I will admit this is a little long, and despite not wanting to seem like I'm feeling sorry for myself, I'll post this at that risk. I am a 21-year old guy, and I guess I should...
    SalemSaberhagen SalemSaberhagen 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    It is a burden and a blessing at the same time. The burden is the constant harassment. The nasty things men say. Crap the nasty women say to me. The gross stares men give me. Women...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 26-30, F Jun 28

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    June 29. God's Will. God's will most often happens in spite of us, not because of us. We may try to second guess what God has in mind for us, looking, searching, hypervigilant to...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jun 29

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    June 29. God's Will. God's will most often happens in spite of us, not because of us. We may try to second guess what God has in mind for us, looking, searching, hypervigilant to...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jun 29

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    I've always been attracted to older men ever since I was a little kid. After having experiences with younger men, I no longer have any interest in dating younger men and never will...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 29

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    And I'm sure men hate women sometimes too. We both do stupid ****. :/
    KittyMask KittyMask 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I mean, I totally love myself all the way. I accept who I am, and I like the person I am right now. Still, I feel scared sometimes, because I get really dark. I'm graduating...
    Celal Celal 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Men like this author are true gemsA Message to Women From a Man: You Are Not "Crazy"You're so sensitive. You're so emotional. You're defensive. You're overreacting. Calm down...
    SpiceZ SpiceZ 56-60, F 1 day ago

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    Hi,I'm simon,come from California,25 years old and like cougar. Recently,I met my true love,share my love story and happiness to everyone,hope you can find your love. I finally...
    zerliery zerliery 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    June 28. When Things Don't Work. Frequently, when faced with a problem, we may attempt to solve it in a particular way. When that way doesn't work, we may continue trying to solve...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jun 28

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    June 28. When Things Don't Work. Frequently, when faced with a problem, we may attempt to solve it in a particular way. When that way doesn't work, we may continue trying to solve...
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    Marriage is a total trap for men. Like a lot of people, this experience starts with a relationship between 2 people, then life happens. Anyhow there's these 2 people, they...
    carpediemer carpediemer 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It seems whenever I tried to open myself up to a man and tell him my life story they leave...Why do men leave me is it, because they are turned off by me. I have come to realize...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 5 days ago

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    I like placing ads on Craigslist to find guys to service. I am trying to find a black boyfriend. I crave black men & I will not rest until I find a good black man that I can share...
    Majestone69 Majestone69 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    I joined this group a long time ago and while I knew it was true it's only recently that I have really begun to ponder this topic. I have been reviewing all the men/boys I've been...
    ACuriousStudent ACuriousStudent 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 24

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    June 27. Achieving Harmony. When a pianist learns a new piece of music, he or she does not sit down and instantly play it perfectly. A pianist often needs to practice each hand's...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    June 27. Achieving Harmony. When a pianist learns a new piece of music, he or she does not sit down and instantly play it perfectly. A pianist often needs to practice each hand's...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    People absolutely misunderstand mental illness. They would never tell a person with cancer to' get over it' or 'just cheer up'. But it goes deeper than that. There is not a...
    accidentalme accidentalme 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    I have feelings for my neighborhood who's a text driver and I have always liked older men. He has a daughter only 3 years younger than me,I know people thinks it's gross. But I...
    TinaLewis TinaLewis 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 4

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    Sometimes it's really hard, but I always need to keep going. I was hospitalized for two days for extreme panic attacks. The whole thing was absolute Hell. I've struggled with...
    stephaanicole stephaanicole 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    July 7. Getting It All Out. "Let yourself have a good gripe session." From: " Woman, Sex, and Addiction" —Charlotte Davis Kasl, Ph.D. Get it out. Go ahead. Get it all out...
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    July 7. Getting It All Out. "Let yourself have a good gripe session." From: " Woman, Sex, and Addiction" —Charlotte Davis Kasl, Ph.D. Get it out. Go ahead. Get it all out...
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    I can't believe how mean and a-holesh most men can get. Hey I know women can be real ******* too and I loath a *****. But men when they show their evil it's a disaster in the wake...
    Tikhreed Tikhreed 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 8

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    As the title, I am a man, 29 yo. I think I should accept the fact that I do like handsome men, and I have had gay-relationships before, although none of those relationships lasted...
    beingol beingol 26-30, M Jul 11

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    It's more than just mentally abused but the physical pain has healed faster than the mental, My entire life I was a punching bag for my brother, all of my friends and sometimes...
    LunaValentine LunaValentine 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 15

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