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I Sometimes Find Men Puzzling

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    SOMETIMES Puzzling??? How About 'all the Time - I Have No Clue!!!'

    I can not relate to guys ... I don't think like a guy I don't act like a guy I can't rationalize like a guy I can't let it go like a guy I don't play games like a guy I don't have 'casual acquaintences' like a guy I talk more...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 39 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Stubborn Men: Part 1

    I’m currently staying a SE Asian country where the people are in general very mild-tempered and sweet. In this tropical heat, it’s really too hot to be any other way. But something seems to be wrong with the way I’m communicating with the local men. At...
    xiaomei xiaomei 26-30, F 24 Responses May 4, 2009

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    A Monk's Lesson

    In this SE Asian country,early each morning monks go from house to house with their begging bowls and satchels to gather food for their once-a-day meal. On this particular morning when 2 saffron-robed monks came to our gate, I presented them with 2 cartons of coconut milk, some...
    xiaomei xiaomei 26-30, F 25 Responses May 23, 2009

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    They Never Cease to Puzzle Me

    Once I tried so hard to make my husband smile, told him a lot of funny things that happened to me when I was a child. Finally I succeeded, yay! 7 months later, we had an argument about implementing a program, and he brought up the childhood situation and told me that's...
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 24 Responses May 20, 2009

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    Got It Now

      A typical bloke, having split from his latest girlfriend, decided to take a holiday.He booked himself on a cruise and proceeded to have the time of hislife, that is...
    stevester stevester 46-50, M 3 Responses Aug 20, 2009

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    Stubborn Men: Part 2

     Our street is a very lovely and well-kept street except for the villa across the way which had overgrown grass and trash strewn on the sidewalk in front of their property. I thought this was strange because the sign outside says it is a major Japanese company and Japanese...
    xiaomei xiaomei 26-30, F 12 Responses May 4, 2009

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    A Challenging Jigsaw of a Saviour...

    It makes me curse, I twist pieces in my mind. I was sure this piece went here! Wait... *fumbles and clicks it in*! Ah darling, why do you look like Jesus? I am your Magdalene. :)  
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses May 9, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    From all the cold and heartless things I've seen happen around the world i find my self doubting that god ever existed. why would a man with such great power sit by and ignore all...
    FrostyMethod FrostyMethod 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Like I feel lost ,alone in a huge desert with not a single bus or person in site that would help. I'm living in an area where there's no buses trains , we have cabs & van services...
    uglyman0712 uglyman0712 22-25, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    The only time You see me doing something awkward is when you catch me staring at your feet especially when your a guy. I love men feet. I don't why. Don't judge me
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response 53 mins ago

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    Women abandoned by their fathers and/or a used/neglected by their mothers.... The real tragedy is that in many of these instances, when a good, nice man does come along, the woman...
    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 5

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    This is a response I wrote to an anorexic woman. I'm bipolar, but I've talked to enough people with other kinds of mental illnesses to see we have a lot in common. I wrote this to...
    wundayatta wundayatta 56-60, M Jul 13

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    I have been fortunate enough to have a long line of men in my family that I have admired and learned cooking from. There's something amazing about how they create a dish. It's...
    holgado holgado 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Nice n big...thats hoe I like my mens hands especially when this squeezing me pacakage or playing glove puppet with my man tunnel
    thegaychef thegaychef 51-55, M 2 hrs ago

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    I sometimes say im fine or ok even when I not at all ok because I don't like to bother others with my problems because they have their own personal problems
    Rach1544 Rach1544 16-17, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    i think everybody is antisocial sometimes, we all need our own time alone , to relax and think about things , there's nothing wrong with it ... Right?
    nati900 nati900 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Sometimes people say or write things and aren't aware how they sound.its just like ? really? How am I suppose to respond to this?
    AllThatGlitters29 AllThatGlitters29 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    You want to know what's wrong? I'll tell you.... The guys here want to know what's wrong with us, Ladies. They want to know why we won't do what they say or why we won't worship...
    EmotionalPrincess EmotionalPrincess 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I don't know if it's me or if it's my boyfriend. I'm a college student attending a 4 year university, my boyfriend and I started dating in 2011,which was the beginning of my...
    Latch Latch 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I find myself to be attracted to older men. Something about them is quite appealing(who are single of course) and I find myself to be indifferent towards men my age. It may because...
    StephFred StephFred 18-21, F 46 Responses Jul 6

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    I will admit this is a little long, and despite not wanting to seem like I'm feeling sorry for myself, I'll post this at that risk. I am a 21-year old guy, and I guess I should...
    SalemSaberhagen SalemSaberhagen 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I've always found happiness through other people. I've relied on past boyfriends to make me smile, feel comfortable, and feel like I have worth. When I felt special to someone it...
    GabbyCot GabbyCot 18-21, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I have always been rejected so when someone finds me attractive it's like a culture shock
    Icephoenix90 Icephoenix90 22-25, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend for a while now, I'm attracted to him, sex is great, we connect, I love him genuinely.. My only confusion is that recently I've found some women...
    unexpectedhope unexpectedhope 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    June 29. God's Will. God's will most often happens in spite of us, not because of us. We may try to second guess what God has in mind for us, looking, searching, hypervigilant to...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jun 29

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    June 29. God's Will. God's will most often happens in spite of us, not because of us. We may try to second guess what God has in mind for us, looking, searching, hypervigilant to...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jun 29

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    This message is to all the radical man hating feminists who go on the Internet to trash and mock the male gender. It is obvious from what you're writing to your 100% blind to what...
    Ajushi Ajushi 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've always been attracted to older men ever since I was a little kid. After having experiences with younger men, I no longer have any interest in dating younger men and never will...
    texaschic35 texaschic35 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 29

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    And I'm sure men hate women sometimes too. We both do stupid ****. :/
    KittyMask KittyMask 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I mean, I totally love myself all the way. I accept who I am, and I like the person I am right now. Still, I feel scared sometimes, because I get really dark. I'm graduating...
    Celal Celal 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Men like this author are true gemsA Message to Women From a Man: You Are Not "Crazy"You're so sensitive. You're so emotional. You're defensive. You're overreacting. Calm down...
    SpiceZ SpiceZ 56-60, F 6 days ago

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    The perfect relationship to me would be something not to serious. Something where I could do what I still wanted to do during the day but come home and just know that the person I...
    nailwire nailwire 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Sometimes it's really hard, but I always need to keep going. I was hospitalized for two days for extreme panic attacks. The whole thing was absolute Hell. I've struggled with...
    stephaanicole stephaanicole 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I can't believe how mean and a-holesh most men can get. Hey I know women can be real ******* too and I loath a *****. But men when they show their evil it's a disaster in the wake...
    Esmahan Esmahan 36-40, F 16 Responses Jul 8

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    It's more than just mentally abused but the physical pain has healed faster than the mental, My entire life I was a punching bag for my brother, all of my friends and sometimes...
    LunaValentine LunaValentine 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    so a few months ago my dad started heightening his abuse of me, it's verbal and emotional but sometimes it even gets like physical not like hurting me but more like forcing me out...
    atinyratsy atinyratsy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Marriage is a total trap for men. Like a lot of people, this experience starts with a relationship between 2 people, then life happens. Anyhow there's these 2 people, they...
    carpediemer carpediemer 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    It seems whenever I tried to open myself up to a man and tell him my life story they leave...Why do men leave me is it, because they are turned off by me. I have come to realize...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F Jul 19

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    I like placing ads on Craigslist to find guys to service. I am trying to find a black boyfriend. I crave black men & I will not rest until I find a good black man that I can share...
    Majestone69 Majestone69 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    People absolutely misunderstand mental illness. They would never tell a person with cancer to' get over it' or 'just cheer up'. But it goes deeper than that. There is not a...
    accidentalme accidentalme 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    I have feelings for my neighborhood who's a text driver and I have always liked older men. He has a daughter only 3 years younger than me,I know people thinks it's gross. But I...
    TinaLewis TinaLewis 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 4

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    July 7. Getting It All Out. "Let yourself have a good gripe session." From: " Woman, Sex, and Addiction" —Charlotte Davis Kasl, Ph.D. Get it out. Go ahead. Get it all out...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 7

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    July 7. Getting It All Out. "Let yourself have a good gripe session." From: " Woman, Sex, and Addiction" —Charlotte Davis Kasl, Ph.D. Get it out. Go ahead. Get it all out...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Jul 7

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    As the title, I am a man, 29 yo. I think I should accept the fact that I do like handsome men, and I have had gay-relationships before, although none of those relationships lasted...
    beingol beingol 26-30, M Jul 11

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    There are so many differences....with everything....and if you think about it, men and women aren't exactly equal. In certain ways, yes. But in most, not at all. It seems to me...
    Kawiicatnipotaku Kawiicatnipotaku 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    I think this is a fun group to join.Like many, I have a healthy appreciation for beauty too, and no....nothing freaky like being celebrity obsessed...or being superficial in liking...
    LittleMinxx LittleMinxx 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Paranoid schizophrenia. Had it for a long time now. I don't like it when some people pretend they have it just to get sympathy or sound cool, schizophrenia is terrifying sometimes...
    Roslein Roslein 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 4

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