I Sometimes Hate Talking About What Is Bothering Me

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    Tried talking about something bothering me

    today. Every time I do that I instantly regret mentioning it. Maybe it's just me, but I always feel like I'm being invalidated for how I feel or what I think. And that's when I know keeping to myself is the easy way out of it all.
    simmerdame simmerdame
    18-21, F
    Nov 27, 2015

    Sometimes it's not so much

    that I don't want to, but that my mind won't let me.
    SqueezeTheLemon SqueezeTheLemon
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 4

    Its like I want to talk about them

    but at the same time, I just feel like I am bothering the person talking about them -_- but when I talk about them it makes me happy too. Mixed feelings
    KeKeNae KeKeNae
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 6, 2014

    Sometimes..... I Would Like to Change That Word

     I NEVER repeat NEVER like to "share what is bothering me" if its sad, ill cry and i HATE crying in fronnt of people even my mom. even if its not sad, maybe it just ****** me off i probly will start crying and (u got it) i HATE cryng in front of people it makes me...
    uni uni
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 15, 2008


    If people tend to get relieved when they talk about their problem, I'm not the case. I'll get even more bothered if I talk about it. Maybe it's because 1). I'm the oldest one and I always want to look like a strong person towards my little sister and be someone that my parents...
    Airlangga Airlangga
    May 7, 2013

    I've learned to never really talk about my

    feelings because alot of people think it's stupid and take it as a weakness. and also I feel like I'm being selfish and I don't like weighing all my problems on someone's shoulders not knowing what to do.
    BABA4801 BABA4801
    16-17, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015

    Why Open My Mouth?

    I am beginning to hate talking about anything that bothers me be it a feeling i have or a view that i hold I'm tired of being called hypocritical, immature, a child just because my view is different than someone else's i am tired of being told i do not love myself or that i...
    tulick tulick
    31-35, F
    15 Responses Jun 17, 2008

    Whenever you're furiously fapping

    and you're mom walks in and you are so surprised your hand slips off and you punch yourself in the eye and have to lie about how you got a black eye at school. Isn't a self experience btw
    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll
    16-17, M
    Nov 6, 2014

    It's Too Hard.

    I don't like it sometimes because I can never really explain whats bothering me. I have all these random stupid thoughts in my head and I can't really talk about them properly. Sometimes talking about it makes me even more depressed anyway.. it's not like I don't want to talk...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2009


    I hate talking about it, because I can never really say it. Sometimes it's forced out of me, and I would say it. A Third of it. A Fourth of t. A Sixteenth of it. Just a part of it, see people don't really want to listen to what we have to say; to...
    fauxrose fauxrose
    18-21, F
    Nov 12, 2008

    3 weeks after the break up

    and I still feel like crap. Oh well life goes on I guess…
    deleted deleted
    Oct 13, 2015

    It would take a lot before I confide my

    problems to someone and while it feels great to have a shoulder to cry on, it turns out that some people are only there for you because they are celebrating your misery. When people say that things could be worse off, well ta-daaah! ...Here you are, their perfect example of...
    Qtrelle Qtrelle
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 21, 2015

    Even if something is killing me on the inside,

    I usually hate talking to people about it. I feel like I should be able to deal with it on my own.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2014

    Unspoken Guilt

    "What's wrong?" He asked in a hushed tone, as not to be overheard by the other students passing by. I sighed, and pursed my lips. There is no way I could explain it to him. where would I start, anyways? "Just...the usual ****..." I reply, keeping my gaze down, and away from him...
    Celea136 Celea136
    18-21, F
    Apr 14, 2013

    It's much easier to smile

    than to explain what's going on.. :)
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    my story part 3 I finally managed to Justin

    after school on Monday.he has been avoiding me all weekend and all day. This is very awkward for me type. so I apologize beforehand if this is difficult to understand.justin started trying to leave saying he had to be home. he started trying to get in his car. So I jump into the...
    rose353 rose353
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 21, 2014

    I Feel Like I'm Defending My Emotions

    I'm usually happy around others, I push things down when in public so no one will ask me what is wrong, but on those days when I cannot hide it; it all pours out to whomever asks me at the right time. I try to give an all around background of what the problem is and how I feel...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 26, 2008

    I Have Never Talked About the Bad Things In My Life.

      My friends barely know anything about me. The worst things that I have happened to me I keep to myself. I hardly even talk about them on here.
    stillalone stillalone
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2008

    I'd rather try and work it out myself.

    But I do listen to others when they make observations and statements. Experiences can provide general remedies.I'll talk about it when I need to.
    Ducostrinity Ducostrinity
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 4

    But when I do want (or need) to talk about it,

    everyone is sleeping. I wish I could just talk about it when people ask.
    untamedx3heart untamedx3heart
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    Sometimes...It Can't Fix It.

    Sometimes talking about what I feel can only make things worse. Sometimes it upsets other people, and I just don't feel like fighting or arguing anymore. I am sick of it. I just wanna smile. So instead of getting it out to someone I just hold it in. It doesn't...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    Jun 15, 2009

    Just Leave Me Alone Until I'm Ready....

    Something can bother me for ages and ages but there is absolutely no way I will talk about it until I am ready.  If I talk about it too soon (a) it makes it real and so something I have to deal with and (b) I'm not prepared 'cos I don't have a proper plan...
    psyko psyko
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2009

    I know talking about something is supposed to

    help but have you ever just talked about it and it pissed you off all over again? yeah that's me sometimes.
    Clipz4her Clipz4her
    26-30, F
    Sep 8, 2015

    I don't even know what's wrong with me

    sometimes. All of my emotions are so piled up, and it's hard to know what is actually causing me to feel the way I do. So when people ask me what's wrong, I usually have no clue. And it's irritating. Then they keep on about it, and I just lose patience.
    ExploreroftheUnknown ExploreroftheUnknown
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Feb 5

    If somethings bothering you then you should

    message me and we can talk about it
    BrooklynTheHarlot BrooklynTheHarlot
    13-15, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2015


    I just don't want anyone to know.  I don't them to give me those sad, pathetic looks.  I don't want them to become offended.  I don't want them... And then, sometimes, I just know that they don't care.  And why would I want to talk about something personal to...
    moonlit1 moonlit1
    22-25, F
    Jul 6, 2009

    OK, Its Pretty Much Always...

    Call it my independent streak, but I tend to internalize everything. I just keep it in and deal with it on my own. Talking about things doesn't seem to help me most of the time. I need a moment to just deal...and then, maybe I'll talk about it.
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 16, 2008

    Frustrations Might Be Preferable.

    I want to talk about thinks bothering me so badly. I want to tell them, what they're doing and how I feel about it. People can just be so TOUCHY though. If I them why I'm upset, one of three things tends to result. Their problems are so much worse. Mine don't compare at all. If...
    Autocrat Autocrat
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2010

    Want To Be By Myself

    I just want to be myself when I am bothered about something because at that time I think I can not explain anyone what I am going through and they will not understand what I am going through. I just want to be left alone with no one bothering me!
    solitudem solitudem
    22-25, F
    Mar 24, 2011

    It feels endless sometimes

    and if it's and issue in which we cannot resolve, why go over it again? I get that talking things out is good, no matter the type of relationship (mother/child, siblings, friends, lovers); however, sometimes it is best left alone. Not every emotion I feel is how I should feel. I...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 20, 2015

    Sometimes I just want distraction

    rather than discussion - and some matters are private; I prefer to figure them out during quiet time alone and then take action rather than speak about them, necessarily.
    HTreaty HTreaty
    41-45, M
    Jan 18, 2015

    Believe It Or Not

    Despite the number of words that I can share here, when it comes to things that truly bother me or pain me, I can't seem to convey them in the same way. There are many things I want to say, but they don't translate into words for me, words somehow do not cover them and often I...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Aug 16, 2008

    What Do You Prefer: Facts Or Stories?

    It's not to often you'll hear me say "I feel ______"  Fill in the blank with a feeling, not a thought.  "I feel ?"  Sometimes I don't even know what I feel.  When I do, I have a hard time saying it.  A few times I wrote fiction...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    18 Responses Nov 10, 2008

    If I don't want to talk about a subject there

    probably is a good reason for it.
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616
    1 Response May 4, 2015

    It's amazing how people aren't what you thought,

    especially from the Internet, you think they're always there for you but you're wrong, they're just luring you in for some mistake waiting to happen,
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    I Dont Like To Share My Thoughts

    i have always a private person so when i'm upset i usually don't tell anyone i just keep it to myself. i keep my thoughts and feeling to myself and bury them inside of me (if that makes any sense??) people say thats not a good thing to do but most people dont understand what im...
    beautyfullgirl beautyfullgirl
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2012

    I'm very open on every aspect of my life

    but this. I don't want too worry people or be burdonsome. People have their own worries or issues why should I be selfish and add to their burden .
    deleted deleted
    Jan 18, 2015


    Despite how much I share on here in stories, or even through a chat here and there, when it comes down to one on one conversation  in person, over phone, and sometimes even in instant messages ..Its so hard to talk about what is bothering me. Sometimes I believe its better to...
    deleted deleted
    May 10, 2013

    Feels Kind of Odd...

    doing the on-line discussion group/support group thing for people who don't like to talk about whats bothering them.  Odd...but yet it makes sense.  Take me for example, I keep a very small social circle in my life and even though right now i'm going through a very...
    failingecho failingecho
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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