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I Sometimes Hate Talking About What Is Bothering Me

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    Sometimes...

    I just don't want anyone to know.  I don't them to give me those sad, pathetic looks.  I don't want them to become offended.  I don't want them... And then, sometimes, I just know that they don't care.  And why would I want to talk about something personal to...
    moonlit1 moonlit1 18-21, F Jul 6, 2009

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    Feels Kind of Odd...

    doing the on-line discussion group/support group thing for people who don't like to talk about whats bothering them.  Odd...but yet it makes sense.  Take me for example, I keep a very small social circle in my life and even though right now i'm going through a very...
    failingecho failingecho 21-25, M 2 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    Different

    If people tend to get relieved when they talk about their problem, I'm not the case. I'll get even more bothered if I talk about it. Maybe it's because 1). I'm the oldest one and I always want to look like a strong person towards my little sister and be someone that my parents...
    Awanputih Awanputih 18-21 May 7, 2013

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    Keep It In

    I hate talking about what is bothering me. I have always been a very private person. I try not to let my emotions show through. I put up a wall and don't let anyone in. There is only one person that I feel that I can actually trust to open myself up to. I still don't talk about...
    IntoGirls IntoGirls 26-30, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    I Have Never Talked About the Bad Things In My Life.

      My friends barely know anything about me. The worst things that I have happened to me I keep to myself. I hardly even talk about them on here.
    stillalone stillalone 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2008

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    I Get Mad When People Say........

    whats wrong if , im clearly upset or , if i am crying and someone asks , "why are you crying" i feel like pushing them on the floor , thats something , you dont ask someone . and exspecially when people want to know whats bothering me
    Donnamoss88 Donnamoss88 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2008

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    Just Leave Me Alone Until I'm Ready....

    Something can bother me for ages and ages but there is absolutely no way I will talk about it until I am ready.  If I talk about it too soon (a) it makes it real and so something I have to deal with and (b) I'm not prepared 'cos I don't have a proper plan...
    psyko psyko 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2009

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    Sometimes..... I Would Like to Change That Word

     I NEVER repeat NEVER like to "share what is bothering me" if its sad, ill cry and i HATE crying in fronnt of people even my mom. even if its not sad, maybe it just ****** me off i probly will start crying and (u got it) i HATE cryng in front of people it makes me...
    uni uni 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 15, 2008

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    Want To Be By Myself

    I just want to be myself when I am bothered about something because at that time I think I can not explain anyone what I am going through and they will not understand what I am going through. I just want to be left alone with no one bothering me!
    solitudem solitudem 22-25, F Mar 24, 2011

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    Frustrations Might Be Preferable.

    I want to talk about thinks bothering me so badly. I want to tell them, what they're doing and how I feel about it. People can just be so TOUCHY though. If I them why I'm upset, one of three things tends to result. Their problems are so much worse. Mine don't compare at all. If...
    Autocrat Autocrat 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16, 2010

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    The More You Discuss

    The more it bothers you. I always believe if I stay clam and understand what bothers me. I'll find a solution. Nobody knows me better than me. So, I am my best help!
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2008

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    Believe It Or Not

    Despite the number of words that I can share here, when it comes to things that truly bother me or pain me, I can't seem to convey them in the same way. There are many things I want to say, but they don't translate into words for me, words somehow do not cover them and often I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 16, 2008

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    Tough Subjects.

    Sometimes I really do hate talking about what is bothering me. and A lot of times I'd rather just be left alone with my own thoughts. and a lot of times I get really moody(sorry) if someone pushes me for information on whats buggin me. and that is one thing i don't like...
    UndeniablyConfused UndeniablyConfused 26-30, F Jan 14, 2009

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    It's Too Hard.

    I don't like it sometimes because I can never really explain whats bothering me. I have all these random stupid thoughts in my head and I can't really talk about them properly. Sometimes talking about it makes me even more depressed anyway.. it's not like I don't want to talk...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 21, 2009

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    Here and Reality

    here im fine with talking about my life, but with people I know I hattteeee it!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 11, 2008

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    Despite

    Despite how much I share on here in stories, or even through a chat here and there, when it comes down to one on one conversation  in person, over phone, and sometimes even in instant messages ..Its so hard to talk about what is bothering me. Sometimes I believe its better to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 10, 2013

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    Push It Under A Rug

    There are times when I put words to it, I sound silly. I feel like I'm making it a bigger deal than what it actually is.  I guess I get over dramatic.  So, I tend to push it under a rug until it becomes way to noticeable.   But I know that sometimes when I talk about it...
    EyzofBlue EyzofBlue 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I Feel Like I'm Defending My Emotions

    I'm usually happy around others, I push things down when in public so no one will ask me what is wrong, but on those days when I cannot hide it; it all pours out to whomever asks me at the right time. I try to give an all around background of what the problem is and how I feel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 26, 2008

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    Why Open My Mouth?

    I am beginning to hate talking about anything that bothers me be it a feeling i have or a view that i hold I'm tired of being called hypocritical, immature, a child just because my view is different than someone else's i am tired of being told i do not love myself or that i...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 15 Responses Jun 17, 2008

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    I Cant Always Talk About It,,

    Sometimes when things are really bothering me,, I just cant talk about it until i'm ready, which could be a day or a week.  But, it seems that no matter how long it takes to talk,, I almost always end up feeling better. Guess we all need some "I'll tell you when I...
    justANNIE justANNIE 46-50, F Aug 17, 2008

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    Too Often...

    Many times I tend to keep things bottled up. For too long. But, there always seems to come a time when I basically 'let loose'. I think I do it because I spend too much time analyzing and pondering. You know... looking at the whole picture, viewing all...
    SweetHoney SweetHoney 46-50 Nov 20, 2008

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    No One Wants to Be Open About What Is Bothering Them 24/7 of Course.

    Do they? I would imagine that everyone sometimes feels the need to keep to themselves what bothers them.  And I am among them.
    tearaway tearaway 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 26, 2008

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    Unspoken Guilt

    "What's wrong?" He asked in a hushed tone, as not to be overheard by the other students passing by. I sighed, and pursed my lips. There is no way I could explain it to him. where would I start, anyways? "Just...the usual ****..." I reply, keeping my gaze down, and away from him...
    Celea136 Celea136 13-15, F Apr 14, 2013

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    What Do You Prefer: Facts Or Stories?

    It's not to often you'll hear me say "I feel ______"  Fill in the blank with a feeling, not a thought.  "I feel ?"  Sometimes I don't even know what I feel.  When I do, I have a hard time saying it.  A few times I wrote fiction...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 24 Responses Nov 10, 2008

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    Just Can't

    Sometimes I don't like talking about what is wrong because honestly it hurts. What's wrong now is a lot, I can't talk about it because it chokes me up. Thinking about it al now hurts me I Shouldn't Feel the way I do. I just do and I can't talk about it.
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy 18-21, F Aug 18, 2008

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    OK, Its Pretty Much Always...

    Call it my independent streak, but I tend to internalize everything. I just keep it in and deal with it on my own. Talking about things doesn't seem to help me most of the time. I need a moment to just deal...and then, maybe I'll talk about it.
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 16, 2008

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    my story part 3 I finally managed to Justin

    after school on Monday.he has been avoiding me all weekend and all day. This is very awkward for me type. so I apologize beforehand if this is difficult to understand.justin started trying to leave saying he had to be home. he started trying to get in his car. So I jump into the...
    rose353 rose353 18-21, F Jan 21

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    Sometimes...It Can't Fix It.

    Sometimes talking about what I feel can only make things worse. Sometimes it upsets other people, and I just don't feel like fighting or arguing anymore. I am sick of it. I just wanna smile. So instead of getting it out to someone I just hold it in. It doesn't...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Jun 15, 2009

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    1/3;1/4;1/16

    I hate talking about it, because I can never really say it. Sometimes it's forced out of me, and I would say it. A Third of it. A Fourth of t. A Sixteenth of it. Just a part of it, see people don't really want to listen to what we have to say; to...
    fauxrose fauxrose 18-21, F Nov 12, 2008

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    I Dont Like To Share My Thoughts

    i have always a private person so when i'm upset i usually don't tell anyone i just keep it to myself. i keep my thoughts and feeling to myself and bury them inside of me (if that makes any sense??) people say thats not a good thing to do but most people dont understand what im...
    beautyfullgirl beautyfullgirl 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2012

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