I Sometimes Just Dont Understand

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    Yeah, I'm Wise But I Dun Understand Why!

    .I dun understand why i'm born into my family. I dun understand why i love to smoke knowing that it is bad for me. I dun understand why the grass is greener on the other side. I dun understand why i attract bad boys. I dun understand why all my ex boyfriends still stay...
    nicorley nicorley
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2007

    This is the closest topic I could find

    for this post, but I still am finding this hard to grasp after 3 years. I know being only 17 y'all are gonna critique my age, but I was in a relationship for 2 1/2 years that ended 3 years ago. He was my best friend. And I was only 13 or 14 when we started dating. He's two years...
    BlondeGirlBunny BlondeGirlBunny
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2014

    Sigh....''Oh what a tangled web we weave

    when first we practice to deceive'
    KiannaJ KiannaJ
    22-25, F
    Aug 13, 2014

    I remember one time on Career day at college,

    us students were supposed to go around and check out all the careers & junk. Just to get more information.. I went over to the SWAT & asked them about what they do specifically & how to become eligible.. The guy's answer kept on going back to weight. I was like okay, clearly I...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv
    18-21, F
    Jan 22

    It's not me. It's you.

    I don't understand you. I am considered by many to be smart. I am often sensitive. I am caring and understanding.* But your behavior makes no sense. At all. You want to be friends, but you don't want to hear my side. You say, "whatever. I'm so done." Ok then...
    Some1umayNo Some1umayNo
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 30, 2015

    Makes no sense to me

    why good people have to die young. Clearly i dont understand life well enough.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 2, 2015

    Please explain to me school,

    it's 81 degrees F, and you have the heat on.. WHY??!?! Crazy people up in here
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew
    18-21, F
    May 28, 2015

    Well I got messaged by someone

    and try suddenly called me tommy or something then started talking about all this stuff and I'm not sure what happened to that conversation but I was left lost and confused for life. 😶
    heyguysss heyguysss
    18-21, F
    Apr 24, 2014

    People

    I really don't understand people. So confusing and comforting and unpredictable and frustrating and emotional and fragile and strong and wonderful and horrible and inspiring and depressing. I don't know what to do with people sometimes. Yes, even you reading this. Even myself...
    soulrunher soulrunher
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Aug 22, 2013

    Friendships And Apples

    I am at a point at in life where I am evaluating my relationship with some people. And this is mainly for the folks I've known for ages. I know the general meaning of friendship and I have also come up with my own idea of friendship and sadly, what I've been seeing- is not...
    MadamElle MadamElle
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

    A guy shaves his head It's funny A girl shaves

    her head It's empowering WHHHAAAATTTTTT??? O.o
    MyaA13 MyaA13
    13-15, F
    Oct 2, 2015

    I sometimes dont understand my family,

    my mum. Life has become more complicated to us when it can be simplified. Everyone has its own attitude. Everyone has its own idea/notion on how things should be done. The word 'unity' has slowly fading into our minds. Almost everyone does their own thing and majority do not...
    theoabern0741 theoabern0741
    26-30
    Dec 10, 2013

    when people ask me what's wrong.

    . i tell them (this is mainly family) i am very calm when telling them how i am feeling about something or someone and i either get laughed at or called dramatic..... but when i dont tell them they get mad....and still call me names...
    momoayami momoayami
    22-25, F
    Aug 3, 2014

    The education system is willing to provide drug

    prevention programs such as D.A.R.E., but they're still iffy about handing out condoms??... After I was done with DARE I knew about more different kinds of drugs there areand how to take them and had WAY more questions than before when I knew nothing about them. Some people...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv
    18-21, F
    Aug 3, 2015

    Swear Words?

    "mother f-cker!" I say that's bad. He says "I have no problem saying mother f-cker" or he calles you a "D-ck. Bast-rd. B-tch." I dont understand it. I tell him not to swear and he says "I'm an Adult!" But then I don't know how to talk. Cause I want him to understand something...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 10, 2013

    Saw this girl on vine today.

    I et it. She's attractive. Stylish. (Love her jeans btw) and has a dancers body. What I don't understand it Why would anybody every create a belly shirt sweater??? Like what?
    JustScout JustScout
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 6, 2014

    Dirty people ... People

    who keep a filthy house ,and they invite someone who keeps a spotless house over to their trash cans house and get mad when the clean person freaks the heck out and say Ok wow I'm outta here .. Seriously you know this person is very clean so why would you expect them to sit...
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl
    70+, F
    1 Response May 30, 2015

    I just don't understand how can someone put my

    cousin down even when she's in hormonal stage with pregnancy and everything harassing her then her own fiancé and his mother kicks her out cause she works at her job we are taking her in but I can't understand people's cruelty half the time...
    Squigglesxo Squigglesxo
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 18, 2014
    ridleyswagg ridleyswagg
    13-15, M
    Jun 14, 2015

    It amazes me how people accept your friendship

    requests and you chat and seem to get on well and then when you are on they don't ever say hello , the internet certainly confuses and amazes me at times
    Waynal Waynal
    56-60, M
    Jul 18, 2015

    I don't understand why people think it's funny

    to talk **** about Africa and its countries, but then when I say something about where they're from, it's like I just started a war. (My parents are from Africa that's why I get offended)
    MO513 MO513
    16-17, M
    1 Response Mar 3, 2015

    There are just so many people in this world.

    You run into them on every corner. And even the weirdest ones are somehow able to find someone to be weird with. No problem at all. Over the years, I shared so much common social ground with people, what with school, then university, and basically just living life. You meet...
    citylights589 citylights589
    22-25, F
    Oct 7, 2015

    I wish I could understand

    why my husband has the need not to talk I just don't get anything anymore I cant understand if you leave another person don't that mean you want to end things so please help me understand why he isn't ending things it is almost a year I cant be live it I feel like I just was...
    monica0215 monica0215
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    Guys you don't need a girl to talk to on here.

    You need a glass of water cause you sound thirsty lol. Jk y'all do you
    theluckyduck theluckyduck
    31-35, M
    May 5, 2014

    I tired of stereotypes.

    For ex. : that girls who swallow are better in any particular way.
    JustScout JustScout
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Aug 16, 2014

    Sometimes even the simplest things I may not

    understand. For the most part I usually just say I don't understand or ask to be shown. Even if it may be awkward & claim to have a brain fart or something. But reality is that I just didn't comprehend it right away. I'm just too embarrassed to openly say that for fear of being...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 23

    Sometimes I just don't understand how easy it if

    for people to forget about you and move on. I don't understand how people can use other people and not have a deeper connection. To me you aren't just someone that shares a class with me; if something happened to you I would be upset. If I talk to you you aren't just a person...
    oKaYjAy oKaYjAy
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2015

    how was i being rude to someone

    for calling them out for brushing me off when i was helping them i don't understand how that even works
    foxytiffany foxytiffany
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    What's the deal with these young guys in luxury

    cars man!? I see them about two or three times a week, this guy who looks like he just turned 21 parking a brand new at least 2010 or higher pearl white Mercedes Benz that doesn't even have its plates yet. I'm standing here in a security uniform, feet hurting, legs and back...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 31, 2015

    I can't believe social conduct dictates you

    say, "Hi," to almost everyone you see when you walk by. Sometimes (More like most times), I just don't want to make an awkward situation (as I often do).
    Cosmic0Potato Cosmic0Potato
    16-17, M
    Jun 16, 2015

    I had a thing with this girl 5 years ago

    and haven't talked to her in about 4 but for some reason she popped in my head today and can't stop thinking about her. Weird...
    FrostyMethod FrostyMethod
    22-25, M
    May 6, 2015
    ridleyswagg ridleyswagg
    13-15, M
    Jun 16, 2015

    If it ain't one thing it's another.

    Bad things happen when something good comes along. It's like it's life's way of saying "You can have a good thing, but I don't want you to be completely happy". I'll never understand life and why things happen the way they do. It's a battle between pain and pleasure.
    DessyLove DessyLove
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2015

    Okay, sometimes, I will get messages.

    . then sometimes.. its like dead.
    KraftyTizz KraftyTizz
    41-45, F
    Aug 7, 2014

    Friends... We all have them.

    We all have, at the least. And for me I hate the feeling that some people I would consider my best friends. Don't even acknowledge me. I know I know. How come you can't just get it and move on. Thing is I do I just feel like crap because I'd try anything to be a good person to...
    blabweekly blabweekly
    16-17, F
    Oct 11, 2014

    I Really Try

    I try to understand people’s lives but I can’t see their past   I try to understand people’s minds but I can’t see their hearts   I try to understand people’s hearts but I can’t feel their pains     ...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses May 6, 2009

    I Just Dont Get It

    I am sitting in the Uregent Care tonight with my little one and while waiting for her to be seen a grandmother and grand daughter walk in....They are sitting there talking and grand daughter says something to her grandma and grandma misunderstood what she had said, so grand...
    specks77 specks77
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 28, 2013

    What Is Wrong With You People??

    I dont understand what the **** is wrong with some people on this site. I know I am not perfect but gezz is it really necessary for you to flaunt yourself all over the internet. Okay and what the hell is wrong here, all these men that wear women underwear, I know that is not...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 6, 2012

    Woke up grumpy People don't worry

    if I get grumpy with u just tell me to shut the hell up lol
    Ko23 Ko23
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 15

    I don't understand when someone tells me "I

    don't need them, I have you." Then things happen and you do need them. Or "I don't want (enter specific thing here) From anyone else" Then asks if it's okay to do that specific thing with someone else. Not only do I not understand why someone could say that and go back on it. I...
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Oct 13, 2014

    how some people call themselves my friends

    yet i never hear from them unless they want or need something from me does anybody feel what i'm saying?
    4evamaureen 4evamaureen
    22-25, F
    May 26, 2014

    Why must I feel so down all the time?

    I've always been one to cope with problems easily, but until recently, I just feel more and more depressed without explanation. I'm pushing all my priorities aside for things that I don't really care for either. I just don't understand anymore. What do I want? What am I doing?
    InferioritySimplex InferioritySimplex
    18-21, M
    1 Response Nov 6, 2015

    I don't understand why people play mind games

    towards someone that cares alot about them
    Fabgal1 Fabgal1
    22-25, F
    Aug 22, 2014

    Something I don't understand is

    why little children wear make-up, have boyfriends/girlfriends, sleep around, and party. I mean, seriously, don't they have better things to do, like schoolwork, hobbies and learning how to spell...? They're still children. Not adults. What are they doing with their lives...
    maiomeN maiomeN
    18-21, F
    Nov 6, 2014

    ... Boys. I just don't understand boys!

    So, I met his guy. I'm not after a boyfriend or anything, just ... A bit of 'fun' I suppose. Anyway, he seemed well into me. Wanting to meet me and stuff. And now he's just stopped texting me. Literally the last message he sent was how he wanted to be kissing me. That was...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart
    31-35, F
    Aug 20, 2014
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