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I Sometimes Just Dont Understand

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    Why? When? How? - I am 23 yrs old and i never thought that anything like this would happen to me.I didnt know i had it till i made a trip out of town to see my bf. And it was one...
    blueargus blueargus 22-25, F May 12, 2012

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    Something I Don't Understand... - is that phrase "stop pretending like you understand."  More than once, in my misspent youth, I was at a bar -  one of those...
    bunnymousekitt bunnymousekitt 31-35, F Jun 18, 2009

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    I don't think I'll ever understand people, they say one thing and mean the other. I've began to hate the whole process of making friend and meeting new people. You bare your self...
    pixiestar100 pixiestar100 18-21, F Feb 17

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    Our Hearts - I will never understand until my dying days why he treated me the way he did.. One minute he is warm and loving.. saying he love and miss me loads...the next there is...
    Eternal Eternal 31-35, F Jul 12, 2009

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    People Confuse Me Sometimes - - My one friend seems to always want to hangout with me and text me when we're not already hanging out or something, but then when we hangout she...
    RyanFrank RyanFrank 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 2, 2013

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    Is this a joke? I don't understand.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 31

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    People - I really don't understand people. So confusing and comforting and unpredictable and frustrating and emotional and fragile and strong and wonderful and horrible and...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 17 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    One Need Not to Understand Everyone Or Everything -      One need not to understand everyone else or everything. But, one should understand themselves. Yes...
    moonwalker moonwalker 46-50, F Mar 5, 2008

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    I know it's the thought that counts, but I spent several months getting my Girl's Christmas present just right, clothes, DVD series, handbag, chocolates; lots of other things. When...
    associatedbears associatedbears 41-45 Dec 24, 2013

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    Infrequent Eruptions - HI there.   well my story is a current worry I have about not being able to understand why my beloved periodically blows up and rocks the relationship...
    tumble tumble 41-45 Aug 22, 2008

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    I don't understand why asking very politely to see a more clear picture of someones face is a reason to be blocked??????
    Returnoflordtyrant Returnoflordtyrant 26-30, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Swear Words? - "mother f-cker!" I say that's bad. He says "I have no problem saying mother f-cker" or he calles you a "D-ck. Bast-rd. B-tch." I dont understand it. I tell him not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 10, 2013

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    *sighs* - I don't understand most of the things I do to myself. I get into a lot of situations and don't know why. I've been treated bad so many times and I don't know why. I'm not...
    Shonda Shonda 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    Friendships And Apples - I am at a point at in life where I am evaluating my relationship with some people. And this is mainly for the folks I've known for ages. I know the general...
    MadamElle MadamElle 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Changing A Little Too Quick... (Magic Related Or Supernatural) - Okay, I have never heard or seen anything like this before and I want to know what is happening! My bestfriend and...
    annabellemermaid annabellemermaid 13-15, F Jun 8, 2013

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    I Dont Understand Why I Should Waiting For Something That I Really Want - i pray for many times to have my own car and house.. yeah, that's what i really want now. the problem is...
    ziie7 ziie7 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    Sometimes... - I just don't know what's going on. Everything goes over my head, or in one ear and out the other. I'm not gonna pretend to know everything all the time. I don't. But...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 28, 2008

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    I Just Dont Get It - I am sitting in the Uregent Care tonight with my little one and while waiting for her to be seen a grandmother and grand daughter walk in....They are sitting...
    specks77 specks77 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    Confused - Sometimes i find life exhausting. I often find interacting with people difficult - I try to be open and honest with everyone, even people that i meet casually - what...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    my home just doesnt understand :(
    meganwalton meganwalton 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I sometimes dont understand my family, my mum. Life has become more complicated to us when it can be simplified. Everyone has its own attitude. Everyone has its own idea/notion on...
    theoabern0741 theoabern0741 26-30 Dec 10, 2013

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    Our Hearts - I will never understand until my dying days why he treated me the way he did.. One minute he is warm and loving.. saying he love and miss me loads...the next there is...
    Eternal Eternal 31-35, F Jul 12, 2009

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    Why People Are the Way They Are - I have met so many people in my life that over use the phrase "OH I UNDERSTAND COMPLETELY!".  It drives me nuts when someone says...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 11, 2008

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    Why Dont I Have Friends? - i dont understand i am a good person i dont swear smoke i dont even drink very often and i try to be the best person yet it feels as is everyone hates me...
    spongebobizdabomb spongebobizdabomb 18-21 1 Response Mar 5, 2013

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    I don't understand why people have to so freaking cruel. I don't understand why people do the things they do I don't understand a lot of things but yet im still living. I hate...
    mizzcola17 mizzcola17 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    What Is Wrong With You People?? - I dont understand what the **** is wrong with some people on this site. I know I am not perfect but gezz is it really necessary for you to flaunt...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Yeah, I'm Wise But I Dun Understand Why! - .I dun understand why i'm born into my family. I dun understand why i love to smoke knowing that it is bad for me. I dun understand why...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2007

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    I Really Try - I try to understand people’s lives but I can’t see their past   I try to understand people’s minds but I can’t see their hearts...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 6, 2009

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    Girls - They like you today. They ignore you tomorrow. I just dont understand why they act like that. They make me crazy. So hard to understand them. So hard to read their minds...
    sidburn sidburn 16-18, M 2 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    Realize My Worth - I just can't understand why I have to be unhappy all of the time come on life give me a chance give me something to cling onto show me how compassionate you can...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2012

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    I've had so many people come and go throughout my life. Whether it's something they did or something I felt I've never had any interest in trying to hold on to them. I've never...
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    overthinkinglife overthinkinglife 26-30, F Mar 22

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    I am a 15 year old Jewish, Orthodox girl. I was born 3 months early in Manchester, England. From the time i was a baby i have had a very hard life. I lived in fear every day of my...
    phobia1998 phobia1998 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    I have a great life, I life as a European in a 'paradise.' however sometimes I just wonder what life is in general, I mean i'm at school talking about a subject to my friend and...
    TheObserverr TheObserverr 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    "Be yourself!" Those optimists always exclaim. "Don't hold back who you really are!" Doesn't always apply. In order to lead a life which isn't shrouded with concerned faces, I...
    beatlegal beatlegal 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Relationships make me nervous and scared. Panic attacks are inevitable when it comes to someone getting to close (personally). I want someone that understands that I have OCD and...
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    Sometimes I just sit in a spot and look up to see this blank wall. I would hear the sound of faint talking coming from the other side, as well. "What is wrong with me?" I'd mutter...
    NOMBot NOMBot 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Sometimes I feel that I don't fit in with the majority of humans populating this world, mainly because i'm different than them. Is there something i'm missing? Because...
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    That is to say, I can be a difficult person to understand. Sometimes I have these ideas that are foreign and convoluted to people and they look at me like I'm from mars. Something...
    godonlyknows godonlyknows 22-25, M 3 days ago