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I Sometimes Just Dont Understand

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    I don't understand why people have to

    so freaking cruel. I don't understand why people do the things they do I don't understand a lot of things but yet im still living. I hate when people look down on me and ask me stupid questions like are u a freak or nahh. no its no i have no idea but im depressed and im happy i...
    mizzcola17 mizzcola17 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Our Hearts

    I will never understand until my dying days why he treated me the way he did.. One minute he is warm and loving.. saying he love and miss me loads...the next there is no news from him.  Not even a single text to give me an update like he used to... Maybe it is just me...
    Eternal Eternal 31-35, F Jul 12, 2009

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    Something I Don't Understand...

    is that phrase "stop pretending like you understand."  More than once, in my misspent youth, I was at a bar -  one of those downtrodden, seedy bars that has higher aspirations and so refuses to admit it's a dive -  and be involved in some half-hearted...
    bunnymousekitt bunnymousekitt 31-35, F Jun 18, 2009

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    I don't understand why asking very politely to

    see a more clear picture of someones face is a reason to be blocked??????
    Returnoflordtyrant Returnoflordtyrant 26-30, M 3 Responses Apr 16

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 31

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    I know it's the thought

    that counts, but I spent several months getting my Girl's Christmas present just right, clothes, DVD series, handbag, chocolates; lots of other things. When I opened my "big package", I got a bathmat and matching toilet mat. All from a famous designer and in a colour I like...
    associatedbears associatedbears 41-45 Dec 24, 2013

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    I sometimes dont understand my family,

    my mum. Life has become more complicated to us when it can be simplified. Everyone has its own attitude. Everyone has its own idea/notion on how things should be done. The word 'unity' has slowly fading into our minds. Almost everyone does their own thing and majority do not...
    theoabern0741 theoabern0741 26-30 Dec 10, 2013

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    Our Hearts

    I will never understand until my dying days why he treated me the way he did.. One minute he is warm and loving.. saying he love and miss me loads...the next there is no news from him.  Not even a single text to give me an update like he used to... Maybe it is just me...
    Eternal Eternal 31-35, F Jul 12, 2009

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    meganwalton meganwalton 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I Really Try

    I try to understand people’s lives but I can’t see their past   I try to understand people’s minds but I can’t see their hearts   I try to understand people’s hearts but I can’t feel their pains     ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 6, 2009

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    What Is Wrong With You People??

    I dont understand what the **** is wrong with some people on this site. I know I am not perfect but gezz is it really necessary for you to flaunt yourself all over the internet. Okay and what the hell is wrong here, all these men that wear women underwear, I know that is not...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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    Yeah, I'm Wise But I Dun Understand Why!

    .I dun understand why i'm born into my family. I dun understand why i love to smoke knowing that it is bad for me. I dun understand why the grass is greener on the other side. I dun understand why i attract bad boys. I dun understand why all my ex boyfriends still stay...
    nicorley nicorley 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2007

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    *sighs*

    I don't understand most of the things I do to myself. I get into a lot of situations and don't know why. I've been treated bad so many times and I don't know why. I'm not a bad person. I mostly don't understand humans. LOL
    Shonda Shonda 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    I Dont Understand Why I Should Waiting For Something That I Really Want

    i pray for many times to have my own car and house.. yeah, that's what i really want now. the problem is, i can't just praying all day, i have no money to buy that, and i'm too young for getting job.(i'm a scholar of a university in Indonesia). what do you think? should i waiting...
    ziie7 ziie7 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 14, 2012

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    People Confuse Me Sometimes -

    My one friend seems to always want to hangout with me and text me when we're not already hanging out or something, but then when we hangout she calls me annoying, rude, judgmental, etc, and insults my other friends. Like today I said that this kid didn't look like he did drugs or...
    RyanFrank RyanFrank 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 2, 2013

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    I don't think I'll ever understand people,

    they say one thing and mean the other. I've began to hate the whole process of making friend and meeting new people. You bare your self/soul in hope of cementing a friendshiip and the next day its like you don't even exist. I really would like to at least meet one person, just...
    pixiestar100 pixiestar100 18-21, F Feb 17

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    Realize My Worth

    I just can't understand why I have to be unhappy all of the time come on life give me a chance give me something to cling onto show me how compassionate you can be. Haven't I been through enough, lost enough, hurt enough, I know I've had enough. But no you just keep on testing me...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2012

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    People

    I really don't understand people. So confusing and comforting and unpredictable and frustrating and emotional and fragile and strong and wonderful and horrible and inspiring and depressing. I don't know what to do with people sometimes. Yes, even you reading this. Even myself...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 16 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Confused

    Sometimes i find life exhausting. I often find interacting with people difficult - I try to be open and honest with everyone, even people that i meet casually - what they see is me - it is who i am, not a version of me. I used to change to suit the situation/person but i don't...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 19, 2008

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    Swear Words?

    "mother f-cker!" I say that's bad. He says "I have no problem saying mother f-cker" or he calles you a "D-ck. Bast-rd. B-tch." I dont understand it. I tell him not to swear and he says "I'm an Adult!" But then I don't know how to talk. Cause I want him to understand something...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 10, 2013

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    Why Dont I Have Friends?

    i dont understand i am a good person i dont swear smoke i dont even drink very often and i try to be the best person yet it feels as is everyone hates me i dont have a friend in the world and ive never had a boy friend why cant i get treated as if i exist ????? i am in...
    spongebobizdabomb spongebobizdabomb 18-21 1 Response Mar 5, 2013

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    Why? When? How?

    I am 23 yrs old and i never thought that anything like this would happen to me.I didnt know i had it till i made a trip out of town to see my bf. And it was one of those nights when things get hot and heavy that the next day some thing had happened to both of us and we didnt...
    blueargus blueargus 22-25, F May 12, 2012

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    Friendships And Apples

    I am at a point at in life where I am evaluating my relationship with some people. And this is mainly for the folks I've known for ages. I know the general meaning of friendship and I have also come up with my own idea of friendship and sadly, what I've been seeing- is not...
    MadamElle MadamElle 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 25, 2012

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    Girls

    They like you today. They ignore you tomorrow. I just dont understand why they act like that. They make me crazy. So hard to understand them. So hard to read their minds. So far all the girls I met are like this. *sighs*
    sidburn sidburn 16-18, M 2 Responses Feb 13, 2008

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    I Just Dont Get It

    I am sitting in the Uregent Care tonight with my little one and while waiting for her to be seen a grandmother and grand daughter walk in....They are sitting there talking and grand daughter says something to her grandma and grandma misunderstood what she had said, so grand...
    specks77 specks77 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    Why People Are the Way They Are

    I have met so many people in my life that over use the phrase "OH I UNDERSTAND COMPLETELY!".  It drives me nuts when someone says that.  I have had people tell me that they understand me completely when all they are doing is projecting their own thoughts and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 11, 2008

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    Infrequent Eruptions

    HI there.   well my story is a current worry I have about not being able to understand why my beloved periodically blows up and rocks the relationship and upsets me for days... when he feels very relieved by the experience I am plunged into research mode and control and...
    tumble tumble 41-45 Aug 22, 2008

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    Changing A Little Too Quick... (Magic Related Or Supernatural)

    Okay, I have never heard or seen anything like this before and I want to know what is happening! My bestfriend and I looked in a specific mirror in her room and our bodys changed in the mirror! It was creepy , We aren't crazy and I would love answers soon please!
    annabellemermaid annabellemermaid 13-15, F Jun 8, 2013

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    One Need Not to Understand Everyone Or Everything

         One need not to understand everyone else or everything. But, one should understand themselves. Yes, even when you change you should understand & know why you have evolved into a new path or decision. I was raised in the country & I do not...
    moonwalker moonwalker 46-50, F Mar 5, 2008

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    Sometimes...

    I just don't know what's going on. Everything goes over my head, or in one ear and out the other. I'm not gonna pretend to know everything all the time. I don't. But I wish it wasn't this confusing. I wish it wasn't this hard to cope with that kinda stuff in this day and age...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 28, 2008

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    I hate my personality. I wish I could just change, but sadly it really is a hard thing to do. I would often curse myself 'Why am I born like this?' Sometimes I would just cry all...
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    I've had so many people come and go throughout my life. Whether it's something they did or something I felt I've never had any interest in trying to hold on to them. I've never...
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    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 4

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    I don't understand myself sometimes. I'm really confuse about my life. I don't know which path I should take. I feel like life is slipping away while I just stand there undecided...
    missbriseis missbriseis 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I am a barista, so a lot of people make small talk about the weather. I find it very frustrating when people say they are unhappy because it is raining. Rain is important too. I...
    innerself000 innerself000 18-21 Mar 30

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    I have a great life, I life as a European in a 'paradise.' however sometimes I just wonder what life is in general, I mean i'm at school talking about a subject to my friend and...
    TheObserverr TheObserverr 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    "Be yourself!" Those optimists always exclaim. "Don't hold back who you really are!" Doesn't always apply. In order to lead a life which isn't shrouded with concerned faces, I...
    beatlegal beatlegal 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Relationships make me nervous and scared. Panic attacks are inevitable when it comes to someone getting to close (personally). I want someone that understands that I have OCD and...
    jbohal jbohal 18-21, F Apr 3

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    Sometimes I just sit in a spot and look up to see this blank wall. I would hear the sound of faint talking coming from the other side, as well. "What is wrong with me?" I'd mutter...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 11

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    Sometimes I feel that I don't fit in with the majority of humans populating this world, mainly because i'm different than them. Is there something i'm missing? Because...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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    That is to say, I can be a difficult person to understand. Sometimes I have these ideas that are foreign and convoluted to people and they look at me like I'm from mars. Something...
    godonlyknows godonlyknows 22-25, M Apr 14

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    i dont understand how some people can just be the way they are, it disgusts me and with others, just tests my patience especially with the younger generation and some of the oldest...
    storylover6 storylover6 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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