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I Spank My Children

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 479 People

    I dont spank normally my 3 year old daughter

    but i smack,like just one or two swats on the bottom or bare legs or hand if she disobeys.
    Rebekah3 Rebekah3 26-30, F Nov 13

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    If I've learned anything about parenting,

    it's this: Teenage girls need an occasional session in which they're reduced to the status of a little girl, if they're to accept their parents' authority and mentoring until they're ready to leave home. That, in most cases, I think, means spanking. This is not, I know...
    freebooter48 freebooter48 66-70, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    My daughter is 4yrs old.

    I am a firm believer in spanking. I spank her with a wooden spoon, or my hand. I personally think I spank her good. But she keeps repeating the same behaviors. I feel like I constantly have to spank her. I sometimes question if i'm spanking her too much. My partner says that if...
    jazzy0727 jazzy0727 26-30, F 8 Responses Oct 14

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    What would you do to me?

    My room is a mess. And I will not clean it up. I talk back to my parents. I also make my mom do everything for me.
    memoll memoll 46-50, F Nov 15

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    zzcon zzcon 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    since it doesnt allow me to post this

    experience check the comments!
    Parentsof3girls Parentsof3girls 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 31

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    Yesterday, my nine year old,

    Brooke and seven year old, Scarlette both earned themselves a smacked bottom in the same day. Brooke and scarlet are my most rebellious and outspoken girls and they often find themselves over either my knee or my husbands knee. Before gymnastics, Scarlet refused to get ready...
    mumwhosmacks mumwhosmacks 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Does anyone still give birthday spankings,

    and if you do how do you give them?
    PunishmentPals PunishmentPals 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    My 5 year old stpdau hates taking baths.

    The other day she defused to come in to take a bath and ran away from me. When I got to her told her was going to be spanked. As I was carrying her upstairs she used a curse word so I spanked her right there. I then went to the bathroom and got a hairbrush to spank her with. I...
    Jim30 Jim30 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 25

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    I have a girl(7) and a boy(9)

    and I think spanking is competley fine untill u dont beat your child! Spabking is fine if u dont do it out of angre , if your a parent u should give them warnings and if they dont listen do the folowing. Spanking and beating is two difrent things and it Bugs me when people dont...
    MissySissy333 MissySissy333 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 27

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    They Lined Up To Get Spanked

    This afternoon I had to spank all four of my children for arguing with me about lunch. In front of other family on top of it all! They know better. I lined them up youngest to oldest. And gave them each 20-50 smacks with my brush and had them each in a corner in the living while...
    strictmomof4 strictmomof4 46-50, F 22 Responses Jun 28, 2013

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    Always On Their Bare Bottoms

    I understand that people have second thoughts when it comes to spanking their children on bare behinds, why I can't see. Me and my wife are true believers in corporal punishment of our children, a boy 8, and a girl 13, and have always spanked on bare bottoms since they were 4-5...
    disciplinelover disciplinelover 46-50 7 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Single Mom 0f 4

    I have four children. Three girls and a boy ages 11-18 and I spank all of them. I would love to speak to other parents about discipline.
    strictmomof4 strictmomof4 46-50, F 14 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    i am a 23 year old and i have 6 kids.

    They are 4,5,7,8,9,19. I have noticed a pattern and that is that they are gettin more violent each year. I have to do what i have to do because i am a firm belieber in spanking. the 19 year old, gets it the worst because she is a dog dealer. i have a custom paddle built for...
    spankmaster2000 spankmaster2000 51-55 1 Response Feb 12

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    Hello a little about my self i am a husband

    and father i have 6 kids ages from 16 to 5 there is Rebecca that is 16 Tori that is 15 Sarah that is 13 Lisa that is 11 and twin boys Alex and Travis that are 5. Sarah is my daughter from my first marriage and Alex and Travis are are mine and my wifes kids together rebecca tori...
    stevens975 stevens975 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 13

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    I am a man, 45 years old.

    I have through the years got some experience in spanking. I have had contacts with several moms, needing help with spanking from time to time. Most of these has been about girls in different ages. I believe in being very strict. In the beginning, it can feels hard, but after...
    Michaelme Michaelme 41-45, M Oct 29

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    I never usually spank

    or smack my 4 year old daughter.But today she had such an attitude and trust me her attitude is a big problem i warned her to stop but she continued then i warned her for a second time and she didnt listen so i put her in timeout for 10 minutes and when she got out of her...
    Louise9640 Louise9640 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 31

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    I am single mother of 2 kids,

    daughter is 16, and son is 13 years old. When I was young spanking was common method of discipline, we were spanked at home and also at school. Today I think that most people do not practice spanking, but for me it is still fine way for discipline children. I think it`s not...
    Tixy72 Tixy72 41-45, F 21 Responses Jan 18

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    I have 3 daughters.Vanessa(13),

    Grace(10) and Elizabeth(7),and i spank all of them,im a very strict mum.I put them over my lap and give them 20 swats with a paddle bare button.Me and my husband are very strict!
    Parentsof3girls Parentsof3girls 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 28

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    My Two Girls

    I am a young single mother . I made some mistakes (that I will do my best to make sure my daughters do not repeat!) and wound up with two kids by the time I was 18. They are now 8 and 7, both girls. We went through some rough times, but I have a job, and I recently became a Born...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 26-30, F 11 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    Kids need discipline

    and consequences for their actions, but grounding is a punishment for the parent as well as the child and loss of privileges or extra chores don't send an immediate message. The short sharp shock of a spanking is far more efficient.
    SarahTTG SarahTTG 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 11

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    Advice

    I'm a single mom with a 15 year old daughter who was out of control she got expelled from school she was just horrible until I started spanking her she has improved so much I switched her to home schooling to keep a better eye on her I still have to spank her often but it's just...
    mag27 mag27 31-35, F 12 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    I have 4 children , Cole (13) ,

    Avia (9) , Layla (5) , Aidan (3) . I spank them all! Yesterday , I received a phone call from Cole's Youth group to say that he has been banned permanently, I asked why, they said that he has unruly behaviour and Cole is constantly cursing and bullying other kids and back...
    KirstieMommyOf4 KirstieMommyOf4 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 16

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    I Am A Pro-spank Mum. And I Am Proud Of It.

    I have a big family. Kids are 11, 9, 7, 6 and 4 with last on the way. And I spank them. My 7yo is called Molly. She can be quite the mouthy little thing- a confident, cheerful, jokey delight to be around, but she can test your patience! If driving people up the wall was an...
    KaemiRae KaemiRae 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 14, 2013

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    I'm a single mother of 6,

    5 who still live at home. I have a river that runs behind my house and of course my children are not allowed by it unsupervised. my youngest 2 daughters, 9 and almost 8, deliberately go behind my back and go down to the river (usually occurs when I'm busy doing other things and...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 15

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    A few months ago my husband spanked my youngest

    daughter,Emma on the day I told my four kids I was pregnant again. Me and my husband decided that it was time to tell the kids I was pregnant again. I was 6 months which might seem like a lot but we wanted to be sure because about a year ago we told the kids I was pregnant with...
    Annamiya Annamiya 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 6

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    My Introduction As A Strict Mum

    Hello EP'ers! I found this site by accident and I found interesting stories about parenting. We are strict parents, with a loving touch. We have 3 daughters, called Hailee who's 16, Kelly who just turned 15 and Chloe who's 13. The ages combined with the amount of girls are...
    janetrosemum janetrosemum 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    Not Old Enough To Be Spanked!

    My husband(Erik) and I have 4 children, Darren (24) , Anna (21), Megan, (18) and Lucy (13). They have all had spankings from the age of 8, before then it was just slaps on the clothed bum. The youngest two girls, Megan and Lucy still get regular spankings. Megan even though she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    How do you spank A child

    and how long for and with what
    zzcon zzcon 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    Behind A Teen'S Bedroom Door

    They're my wife's girls and she does most of the disciplining as she's done most of their lives. I came along about a year and a half ago. The girls are 13 and 15 and objected to being paddled by their stepfather, but they didn't like what their protest earned them. Punishments...
    freebooter48 freebooter48 66-70, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2013

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    I spank my 6 year old daughter often.

    For severe misbehavior I use the belt.
    baywood baywood 26-30 Nov 24

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    My boyfriend and I have a three year old

    daughter. She does not get spanked often but my boyfriend (her dad) will spank her when she throws fits. Before having her, we discussed child discipline and decided to only use spankings as the last resort. Both of us were spanked growing so we did not want to raise our...
    angel241994 angel241994 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    why do kids always act up on the weekend ?

    i was looking forward for a nice calm weekend and now i get a call from the school that i shall pickup my daughter, apparently she vandalized the bathroom...
    Miriam75 Miriam75 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 14

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    I Discipline My Children My stepdaughter,

    In a recently blended family, there can be hiccups and struggles. One can be rules and discipline. My new husband has two girls who have been raised in... lets call it a permissive household. Their mother passed away when the younger was still an infant, and their father never...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 26-30, F 23 Responses Jan 21

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    I am a mommy of 4 , Cole (13) ,

    Avia (9) , Layla (5) , Aidan (3) I haven't mentioned my husband . My husband Scott , was cooking up some steaks and skewers and all the kids were playing in the basement which is where we have the playroom . At the time , I was on the computer checking my emails , My...
    KirstieMommyOf4 KirstieMommyOf4 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 20

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    If I was your child how would you spank me?

    I am always on my phone . my room is a mess and I will not clean it. I am rude to my Mon and treat her like my servent.
    memoll memoll 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 15

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    Hello, My Intro

    Hello all, I am Sandy and I am a divorced Mom of 2. My daughter, Abbi, is 14 and my son, Austin, is 12. Like all of you here, I spank when they misbehave. Abbi does not get many these days, but there are times when a sore bottom is needed for her. Austin gets the most here...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    A Very Sorry Girl

    Our 13 year old daughter Angelica is not so well behaved as you could wish. To make an impression on her, both her mother and I spank her. I remember one occasion not so long ago when she had been allowed to go to a school party. I drove her to school, and promised to fetch her...
    disciplinelover disciplinelover 46-50 7 Responses Aug 24, 2013

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    I am 18 and my parents are very big on chores

    and make my little sister and I chore charts every week. We get spanked if we don't complete them and we are allowed 3 strikes in a week .. Any more we get a spanking with daddy's belt. Do any other parents do anything similar?
    redbottommegan redbottommegan 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 14

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    The First Real Spanking I Ever Gave

    I mentioned in my first story that real spankings are something pretty new in our house, only a few months. It was something that came about when I started going and taking my daughters to church, and realizing they were, by far, the worst behaved kids in the church every Sunday...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    My Two Kid.

    Hi (: I am 30 years old , and I have two 15 year olds. I had quadtruplets when I was 15. I lost two within the first year , & now I have one boy, one girl. I spank my daughter , my husband spanks my son. My son nly gets it like 3 times a year though , he's an amazing kid. MY...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    I have 8 beautiful children

    who are also beautifully behaved. The head of our house hold, my husband! Decided we would spank them. We started late with our first children, twin boys. We started spanking them when they were 5 we'd ask them to pick the biggest branch from the tree outside and with that we'd...
    Jillianlwt Jillianlwt 36-40 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Just to let people know,

    yes belts and paddles still meet tushies on a regular basis.
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 26-30, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am a mom of 3 girls ages 9 12

    and 15. Spanking is the main use of discipline at our house and seems to work quite well. Feel free to message me
    Camilla03 Camilla03 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    Hello New Here And I Spank My Girls

    Hello everyone. My name is Jennifer, I have 3 daughters aged 6, 9, and 13. I'm a single mom. I divorced my husband a couple of years ago cause he was a drunk and he beat my girls and me a lot, but I'm not writing about that, this is an introduction of me and my girls. My...
    deleted deleted 26-30 25 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    I Spank, So What?

    I smack (or spank) my children and never really thought much about it until moving to another country and to a different type of area within that. Very different opinions there! I have five children, my fifteen year old, Emily, ten year old, Ben, eight year old Josh, and my...
    purpleheather purpleheather 36-40, F 5 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    hello, single mom of two here,

    my son is 7 and daughter 10, i strongly believe in spanking, but done in love. would love to talk to other moms and dads, who also spank. feel free to message me.
    katemomoftwo katemomoftwo 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    Hello so as most of you no i am a strict dad

    that has 6 kids. When my kids misbehave they earn there self a over the knee spanking with my hand now most of the time the spankings are just giving with my hand but there have been times where a belt or small paddle have been used but that don't happen to often. I do not enjoy...
    stevens975 stevens975 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 14

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    Absolutely. I have four children aged between

    8-16 and they all get their bottoms spanked when they earn it. Both my husband and I spank and it works to keep all our kids in line.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 7

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    Introduction

    Hello, to everyone. I'm Sherry Tyler, 63 years old. I spank my two girls as they grew up. In hindsight, I am, an ole fashion traditional spanking mom. I always tried other types of punishment first; such as: Grounding, lecturing, extra chores, early bedtimes, and more. Spanking...
    sherrytyler sherrytyler 66-70, F 18 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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