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I Spank My Children

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    today after Church there were a lunch

    and after eating some my girls was done I sat and talking with some of the other mothers there. after a little time we could not see any of our children and we bagan to look after them since it was time to leave soon. suddely we saw them on the playground on the other of the...
    donjuul donjuul 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Kids need discipline

    and consequences for their actions, but grounding is a punishment for the parent as well as the child and loss of privileges or extra chores don't send an immediate message. The short sharp shock of a spanking is far more efficient.
    SarahTTG SarahTTG 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I Have Spanked All Three Daughters

    Since each of my daughters have different personalities, they have each been spanked differently. My oldest daughter would seem to forget how to behave, and for this she received relatively minor spankings as reminders. My middle daughter was occasionally willfully disobedient...
    goodguyABC123 goodguyABC123 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 13, 2013

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    Hello, My Intro

    Hello all, I am Sandy and I am a divorced Mom of 2. My daughter, Abbi, is 14 and my son, Austin, is 12. Like all of you here, I spank when they misbehave. Abbi does not get many these days, but there are times when a sore bottom is needed for her. Austin gets the most here...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    I Am A Pro-spank Mum. And I Am Proud Of It.

    I have a big family. Kids are 11, 9, 7, 6 and 4 with last on the way. And I spank them. My 7yo is called Molly. She can be quite the mouthy little thing- a confident, cheerful, jokey delight to be around, but she can test your patience! If driving people up the wall was an...
    KaemiRae KaemiRae 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 14, 2013

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    Advice

    I'm a single mom with a 15 year old daughter who was out of control she got expelled from school she was just horrible until I started spanking her she has improved so much I switched her to home schooling to keep a better eye on her I still have to spank her often but it's just...
    mag27 mag27 31-35, F 13 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    My 5 year old stpdau hates taking baths.

    The other day she defused to come in to take a bath and ran away from me. When I got to her told her was going to be spanked. As I was carrying her upstairs she used a curse word so I spanked her right there. I then went to the bathroom and got a hairbrush to spank her with. I...
    Jim30 Jim30 26-30, M Jan 25

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    zzcon zzcon 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    Hi I'm Hilary mother of three girls,

    Lilly (10), Violet (8), and Rose (6). They are the most important things in my life! I love them to death but they make me crazy! I was spanked growing up and so was my husband but I never wanted to spank my children. But that changed as soon as I became a mother, for me it...
    Momof3LVR Momof3LVR 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2013

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    My Daughters

    I have 2 16 year old daughters who were asked to do chores today and both decided to have a attitude about it. they both ended up over my lap getting thier bare bottoms spanked and doing the chores bare. Why do teen girls think they can get away have having such a attitude?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    I am single mother of 2 kids,

    daughter is 16, and son is 13 years old. When I was young spanking was common method of discipline, we were spanked at home and also at school. Today I think that most people do not practice spanking, but for me it is still fine way for discipline children. I think it`s not...
    Tixy72 Tixy72 41-45, F 24 Responses Jan 18

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    If I've learned anything about parenting,

    it's this: Teenage girls need an occasional session in which they're reduced to the status of a little girl, if they're to accept their parents' authority and mentoring until they're ready to leave home. That, in most cases, I think, means spanking. This is not, I know...
    freebooter48 freebooter48 66-70, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    yesterday my girls came home from a visit at my

    mom house sadly my mom did not have very behaveing report to tell me and daddy about she told me that the girls was caught in her naighbour garden stealing Apples when my husbund heard that he sent our 7 year old tirza to our bedroom and our 10 year old Julie to the kids...
    donjuul donjuul 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 26

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    I am 18 and my parents are very big on chores

    and make my little sister and I chore charts every week. We get spanked if we don't complete them and we are allowed 3 strikes in a week .. Any more we get a spanking with daddy's belt. Do any other parents do anything similar?
    redbottommegan redbottommegan 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 14

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    A few months ago my husband spanked my youngest

    daughter,Emma on the day I told my four kids I was pregnant again. Me and my husband decided that it was time to tell the kids I was pregnant again. I was 6 months which might seem like a lot but we wanted to be sure because about a year ago we told the kids I was pregnant with...
    Annamiya Annamiya 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    Get In Touch

    If you'd like to chat with me 'live,' try freebooter48 at Y-a-h-o-o messenger.
    freebooter48 freebooter48 66-70, M Oct 29, 2013

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    Hello all. I'm a single father of two girls.

    Ages 7 and 5. Their mother left a couple of years ago. So I'm raising them on my own. I do spank them from time to time when its needed, but mostly they are good girls. They are big snuggle bugs and love to cuddle with their dad. I do spank them over my knee on their bare...
    DL4344 DL4344 31-35, M 3 Responses Jun 20

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    My Two Girls

    I am a young single mother . I made some mistakes (that I will do my best to make sure my daughters do not repeat!) and wound up with two kids by the time I was 18. They are now 8 and 7, both girls. We went through some rough times, but I have a job, and I recently became a Born...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    I am a mommy of 4 , Cole (13) ,

    Avia (9) , Layla (5) , Aidan (3) I haven't mentioned my husband . My husband Scott , was cooking up some steaks and skewers and all the kids were playing in the basement which is where we have the playroom . At the time , I was on the computer checking my emails , My...
    KirstieMommyOf4 KirstieMommyOf4 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    I'm a single mother of 6,

    5 who still live at home. I have a river that runs behind my house and of course my children are not allowed by it unsupervised. my youngest 2 daughters, 9 and almost 8, deliberately go behind my back and go down to the river (usually occurs when I'm busy doing other things and...
    tiffyof6andtwins tiffyof6andtwins 41-45, F 9 Responses Jun 15

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    I Spank, So What?

    I smack (or spank) my children and never really thought much about it until moving to another country and to a different type of area within that. Very different opinions there! I have five children, my fifteen year old, Emily, ten year old, Ben, eight year old Josh, and my...
    purpleheather purpleheather 36-40, F 6 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    My Introduction As A Strict Mum

    Hello EP'ers! I found this site by accident and I found interesting stories about parenting. We are strict parents, with a loving touch. We have 3 daughters, called Hailee who's 16, Kelly who just turned 15 and Chloe who's 13. The ages combined with the amount of girls are...
    janetrosemum janetrosemum 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    How Does It Feel!

    I was never "formally" spanked while growing up, but since marrying into a family where spankings are occasionally meted out to two teenage girls I've come to realize that the experience is very different depending on whether one owns, or is over, the lap in question. That may...
    freebooter48 freebooter48 66-70, M Oct 29, 2013

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    A Very Sorry Girl

    Our 13 year old daughter Angelica is not so well behaved as you could wish. To make an impression on her, both her mother and I spank her. I remember one occasion not so long ago when she had been allowed to go to a school party. I drove her to school, and promised to fetch her...
    disciplinelover disciplinelover 46-50 8 Responses Aug 24, 2013

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    Yes I Do

    Yes i spank my kids,i'm not apologising for it when they misbehave they get a good long hard spanking. My girls are 14 & 10 & have had their bare bottoms smacked since they were around 4-5. I also smack their bare legs. Yes i've tried other politically correct methods but none...
    smackedboarder smackedboarder 41-45, F 23 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    Absolutely. I have four children aged between

    8-16 and they all get their bottoms spanked when they earn it. Both my husband and I spank and it works to keep all our kids in line.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 7

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    I have 4 kids from 10 to 17

    and I am a firm believer in Spanking. A reguler thing at my house..Would love to chat with parents with the same beleifs
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 25

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    I have 4 kids, Girls 11 16

    and 16 and a son 17. I am a firm believer in spanking and would love to chat with other parents who belive the same.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 15

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    I have been wanting to add this story,

    I have been having writer's block the last few days, but here it is finally, a few days ago, I think it was late last week or this last weekend, I was talking to a friend on here, she told me that she puts baby oil on her daughters bottom before she spanks them, I guess it...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    The First Real Spanking I Ever Gave

    I mentioned in my first story that real spankings are something pretty new in our house, only a few months. It was something that came about when I started going and taking my daughters to church, and realizing they were, by far, the worst behaved kids in the church every Sunday...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    Hello New Here And I Spank My Girls

    Hello everyone. My name is Jennifer, I have 3 daughters aged 6, 9, and 13. I'm a single mom. I divorced my husband a couple of years ago cause he was a drunk and he beat my girls and me a lot, but I'm not writing about that, this is an introduction of me and my girls. My...
    deleted deleted 26-30 29 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    I got a call today saying to pick up my 10 year

    old Lilly because she swore at her teacher and was being rude. My husband and I do not use foul language around the house of course once in a while it slips but she has never done this before. When I picked her up from school I scolded her. Then when I told her to go to her room...
    Momof3LVR Momof3LVR 31-35, F 6 Responses Dec 13, 2013

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    I Spank My Kids

    Hello I'm a single dad of 2 girls age 9 and 6 I spank them offten when they do not behave my 9 year old gets spanked around 3 or 4 a week she gets spanked in her room on her bare bottom over my knee with my hand for minner things and she is at the age where she knows better so...
    stevens975 stevens975 26-30 7 Responses May 27, 2013

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    Well tonight before my husband came home from

    work, he picked up mindie from gymnastics practice, but when he got home he gave me a letter from her coach, I read it, it pretty much told us that she has not been paying attention in practice, he told us that this is the 3rd time she has done this, well with that news I was a...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 25

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    Single Mom 0f 4

    I have four children. Three girls and a boy ages 11-18 and I spank all of them. I would love to speak to other parents about discipline.
    strictmomof4 strictmomof4 46-50, F 14 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    How do you spank A child

    and how long for and with what
    zzcon zzcon 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I have 4 children , Cole (13) ,

    Avia (9) , Layla (5) , Aidan (3) . I spank them all! Yesterday , I received a phone call from Cole's Youth group to say that he has been banned permanently, I asked why, they said that he has unruly behaviour and Cole is constantly cursing and bullying other kids and back...
    KirstieMommyOf4 KirstieMommyOf4 41-45, F 5 Responses Jun 16

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    TV Development Producer Looking For Parents With Unique Parenting Styles!

    Hello! I work at a TV development company in NYC. Currently, I'm fascinated by parents with unique parenting styles. I'd love to find out more about this style of parenting and the people in this community. If you're interested in chatting, please reply to this message...
    brittanym17 brittanym17 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2013

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    My Two Kid.

    Hi (: I am 30 years old , and I have two 15 year olds. I had quadtruplets when I was 15. I lost two within the first year , & now I have one boy, one girl. I spank my daughter , my husband spanks my son. My son nly gets it like 3 times a year though , he's an amazing kid. MY...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 31, 2013

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    I Discipline My Children My stepdaughter,

    In a recently blended family, there can be hiccups and struggles. One can be rules and discipline. My new husband has two girls who have been raised in... lets call it a permissive household. Their mother passed away when the younger was still an infant, and their father never...
    TammySingleMom TammySingleMom 26-30, F 16 Responses Jan 21

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    Not Old Enough To Be Spanked!

    My husband(Erik) and I have 4 children, Darren (24) , Anna (21), Megan, (18) and Lucy (13). They have all had spankings from the age of 8, before then it was just slaps on the clothed bum. The youngest two girls, Megan and Lucy still get regular spankings. Megan even though she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 15, 2013

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    Well today has been pretty normal

    for the most part, samantha didn't want to take her nap, she was falling asleep in front of the tv, I told her to go take a nap with bella, she was like, mommy I am not tired, please can I stay up, I was like now samantha do as your told, I will start counting, and right when I...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F Feb 24

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    i am a 23 year old and i have 6 kids.

    They are 4,5,7,8,9,19. I have noticed a pattern and that is that they are gettin more violent each year. I have to do what i have to do because i am a firm belieber in spanking. the 19 year old, gets it the worst because she is a dog dealer. i have a custom paddle built for...
    spankmaster2000 spankmaster2000 51-55 2 Responses Feb 12

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    They Lined Up To Get Spanked

    This afternoon I had to spank all four of my children for arguing with me about lunch. In front of other family on top of it all! They know better. I lined them up youngest to oldest. And gave them each 20-50 smacks with my brush and had them each in a corner in the living while...
    strictmomof4 strictmomof4 46-50, F 23 Responses Jun 28, 2013

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    Introduction

    Hello, to everyone. I'm Sherry Tyler, 63 years old. I spank my two girls as they grew up. In hindsight, I am, an ole fashion traditional spanking mom. I always tried other types of punishment first; such as: Grounding, lecturing, extra chores, early bedtimes, and more. Spanking...
    sherrytyler sherrytyler 66-70, F 19 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    Well this morning I needed to go to walmart,

    I had to take the girls because anna was really busy with her school work, she had to write out this big paper thing, not sure what you call it, but while I was driving to walmart bella and samantha was hitting on each other, I told them to stop a few times or we would go back...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    Related Experiences

    I still get spanked quite a bit but nothing like when I was younger. Then I was a huge pain, which often caused my butt huge pain. I was always in trouble for doing things I...
    laurenstone97 laurenstone97 16-17, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I was at the pet store with my older bro nick and my younger step brother Johnny. My two brothers said they were going to go buy some pet food and I went to go look at the puppies...
    Fifidog Fifidog 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I have had a spanking when I was younger. I think I need one now, because I have been misbehaving. But my parents don't know about it. The guilt is really getting to me
    catherine1028 catherine1028 13-15, F 7 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    The short fuse! When I was about 11/12 I went for a sleepover at one of my friends houses. We had a lovely evening playing games that her mother had organised. She was a very nice...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    The short fuse! When I was about 11/12 I went for a sleepover at one of my friends houses. We had a lovely evening playing games that her mother had organised. She was a very nice...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F Aug 6

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    The short fuse! When I was about 11/12 I went for a sleepover at one of my friends houses. We had a lovely evening playing games that her mother had organised. She was a very nice...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    The short fuse! When I was about 11/12 I went for a sleepover at one of my friends houses. We had a lovely evening playing games that her mother had organised. She was a very nice...