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I Spanked My Oldest Son

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 229 People

    Skipping School And Lying

    I have a 13 year old daughter and a 15 year old son.So get a call from my son's school saying that he has missed a whole day of classes for the second day in a row. I was at work when I got the call so there wasn't anything I could do then. When I got home I told my wife what...
    jaredway jaredway
    31-35, M
    12 Responses May 28, 2011

    What's with people spanking nude, I'd never do that!

    I do spank my son if the situation calls for it. He's 13 now. But it's done in a way that isn't damaging to him. In his room and never showing any part of his body. Then he's given time to sit in his room and reflect on what he's done. Also only done as a last resort. I honestly...
    ak85 ak85
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Nov 4, 2013

    I Spank My Oldest

     My son is 16  (I was just 16 when he was born). I now have daughter who is 9 as well. I do spank my kids when they have done something I think out-weights a simple grounding. Like I spanked my son a few weeks ago for taking my car and staying out all night. He even decided...
    EricRight EricRight
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Apr 29, 2011

    Black Boys Can't Help But Be Spanked!

    Last summer I was over at a neighbor's house with our two boys, they have a swimming pool in the back yard. They had two black boys over and as we were sitting on the patio the black boys would get out of the large pool and were on in white briefs that showed everything. They...
    Indyspanker Indyspanker
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jun 21, 2011

    And I Didn't Feel Bad About It At All...

    My son, who is now grown was raised with spankings as punishments. They were usually bare bottomed and across my knee when he was little but over a chair or bed as he got older. One day, when he was 20, he walked out into the kitchen just after he got out of bed. Late in the...
    firmpapa firmpapa
    9 Responses May 29, 2012

    I was a big strong guy at 16--and my mom was a

    smaller person--She was and is a great mom--For serious disrespect for which I was totally sorry she ordered me to get the paddle and bend over the spanking chair and she paddled my bare butt with my brothers watching--- It hurt alot---but i was so sorry for having disrespected...
    1000highland 1000highland
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jun 6, 2015

    I'm a dad of two boys

    and I spank them regulary. My Ex-Wife often told me, I should have a strict dad or uncle, because I'm often rude to other people and I deserve a spanking, too. What does other think about this or can help me to be a better role model.
    BadBoySpanking BadBoySpanking
    36-40, M
    Aug 22, 2015

    Spanking Experience

    I am used to spank my son (now he's 14). I did it on a regular basis. it is much more OTK spanking on his bare butt. I started to lecture him then I ask him to down his pants and boxer. I do it with my hands or when I bent him over bed with my belt. last time I hint his...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Oct 24, 2013


    I have three kids, aged 14, 11 and 6. My son is 14. A week ago, he skipped school and was caught. He was expelled for two days and I am going to go to a few meetings. I didn't mind the losing two days of holiday and so on if it WORKED. He is normally well behaved, funny, kind...
    Etna10 Etna10
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2013

    I Spanked My Son Twice

    My husband and I have 2 sons 14 and 16. On Saturday I felt sorry for my son because I had to spank him once right after the first. My 16 yr old son was disrespectful to my sister while we were shopping. If he were younger I would have spanked him in the store but I told him I...
    Lninwa Lninwa
    41-45, F
    64 Responses Jan 28, 2013

    My Son Logan

    My oldest son Logan is 16. I don't know what was going on with him, but he had been very disrespectful & rebellious. He argued with everything I said and he had broken a bunch of rules. I'd caught him lying, skipping school, smoking, he'd been failing tests & not doing homework...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Feb 29, 2012

    Suspended From School

    i walked into my house to see my son and wife arguing my wife told him to go to his room and he said no i don't deserve any thing so i stepped in and said go to your room and he said no just like that no so i said harsher Richard Malachi now and he ran upstairs and slammed his...
    davie14 davie14
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Oct 10, 2012

    Hi all, I am a mom of 2 kids a boy 14

    and a girl 13.I spank them whenever i think it is required. Last saturday i wanted to go out to pick back my daughter from her friend's house, so i told my son to lock the door when i leave.he said 'ok mom'.Then i went. When we came back i realised that the door was not...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Oct 28, 2014

    What Should I Do?

    My oldest son just turned 17 years old & is becoming a senior in high school. His grandparents decided to throw him a birthday party. All of his friends were there & he enjoyed it. However, he decided that he wanted to stay with them a while during the summer & help out around...
    thomaseft thomaseft
    46-50, M
    9 Responses Jul 21, 2013

    My mom and i got along great

    and still do---She paddled me as I grew up but at 13+ seemed to stop---for serious misbehavior at the age of 16+ she told me to get the paddle--Wow, was i shocked--- I had filled out and grown alot since she last paddled me--I was a big guy----but I did as I was told at once...
    1000highland 1000highland
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Aug 14, 2015


    My eldest son is 10 years old,he knows the difference between right & wrong & he know the consequences if he is naughty. I'm a very strict Mom & i won't tolerate bad behavior,rudeness,swearing or being disrespectful amongst other things.My husband & i make sure we never use bad...
    steveslittlehelper steveslittlehelper
    36-40, F
    17 Responses Jul 1, 2011

    The week that past my son gave me a lot of

    attitude. Well its time to adjust his attitude with the leather belt.
    cobiba1975 cobiba1975
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Feb 27, 2016

    I Kind Of Feel Bad Making Him Cry

    I’m glad I found this group. I wanted some advice here. I have two boys, one is 16 and the other is 14. I haven’t spanked the oldest in 2 year, the youngest in about the same. They have continually missed curfew. So my youngest (with my oldest present) was told if he gets...
    mbigg54 mbigg54
    41-45, M
    23 Responses Apr 1, 2011

    Crashed My Car, And Underaged.

    Alright, So my oldest son Nick is fifteen. He's doesn't turn Sixteen till August. So my son Nick last night, Decided he was gonna steal my car and visit some of his friends for a new year's eve party. So i wake up at five a.m. to drive to the store cause we were out of Coffee, So...
    AshleighDallas AshleighDallas
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Jan 1, 2012

    My Son Is 15 And I Had To Spank Him Yesterday...on Father's Day Of All Days!

    My son got a spanking for being very disrespectful my great aunt. My son and his cousins were over my mom’s house. They were told to quite down and stop rough housing or to go outside and play around. They told her okay, but didn’t listen. When asked again, he told her to...
    dad1234 dad1234
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Jun 20, 2011
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    10 Responses Aug 8, 2014

    My Two Boys Are Still Spanked At 13 & 10 Bare Bottom

    After a good bare bottom spanking our boys have to do bare coner time fro 30 minutes hands on head. It's really not so much about the spanking as it is about the embarassment. the longer they are bare and exposed the more aware they are about what is showing! and i don't mean...
    Indyspanker Indyspanker
    46-50, M
    19 Responses Jun 14, 2011

    My Teen Son Punched A Hole In My Wall!!!

    I told him that he couldn't have any more money from me this week, I had already gave him his allowance. But I gave him the option on cleaning out the garage for extra cash. He got the worst attitude with me and I just told him to go to his room, before his mouth got him into...
    dad1234 dad1234
    31-35, M
    11 Responses Jul 22, 2011

    He Deserved It, I Administered It, And Now I'm Undecided

    My 15 year old son hadn't been spanked, (or belted) since he was 11. Tonight he got a dose of both (from me, with his mother's agreement) and I wonder if I did the right thing. Long story short, he lied after stealing $50.00 dollars from my wife's wallet, and went so far as to...
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Feb 26, 2013

    Problem With My Son, He Refuse To Accept Spankings

    I have always been a firm beliver of dicipline and spankings. I became a widower 5 years ago but have always been able to raise my 3 sons myself with the help of God and strong will. Until now there haven't been any problems at all. Spankings and early bedtime has always worked...
    Strictchristianfather Strictchristianfather
    56-60, M
    8 Responses Oct 16, 2013

    Actually we spanked our three kids

    when they deserved it. But I think the oldest got more spankings than his two siblings combined. In hindsight these are some possible reasons: we were young with the first one and maybe we expected too much from him, we used his behaviour as an example for our young kids. Our...
    pacodad pacodad
    70+, M
    4 Responses Jun 7, 2014

    I Was Beaten In To The Baby

    when i was 5 - 15 i had to have diaper disaplin as i also slept in diapers and school and i was beaten in to accsepting diaper disapline im here to the very day waiting for diaper dissapline i have no one i think you should do the same i even slept in a cot / crib in mommys room...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 19, 2013


    My eldest boy is 10 almost 11,i had to spank him about an hour ago for swearing at me.He told me to 'F*** off',i was so shocked that something like that came out of his mouth i thought i had heard wrong.My husband & i make sure we don't swear or curse in front of the boys & they...
    susseditout susseditout
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Jun 29, 2011
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