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I Spanked My Oldest Son

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    I Kind Of Feel Bad Making Him Cry

    I’m glad I found this group. I wanted some advice here. I have two boys, one is 16 and the other is 14. I haven’t spanked the oldest in 2 year, the youngest in about the same. They have continually missed curfew. So my youngest (with my oldest present) was told if he gets...
    mbigg54 mbigg54 41-45, M 23 Responses Apr 1, 2011

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    My Last Spanking

    I last spanking was on Friday the reason I was spanked I was late home for my curfew so my dad pulled my pants and underwear down and he put me over his knees and used his belt to smack me
    Robert9191 Robert9191 18-21 26 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    Yes

    I have three kids, aged 14, 11 and 6. My son is 14. A week ago, he skipped school and was caught. He was expelled for two days and I am going to go to a few meetings. I didn't mind the losing two days of holiday and so on if it WORKED. He is normally well behaved, funny, kind...
    Etna10 Etna10 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    My Teen Son Punched A Hole In My Wall!!!

    I told him that he couldn't have any more money from me this week, I had already gave him his allowance. But I gave him the option on cleaning out the garage for extra cash. He got the worst attitude with me and I just told him to go to his room, before his mouth got him into...
    dad1234 dad1234 31-35, M 11 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    Crashed My Car, And Underaged.

    Alright, So my oldest son Nick is fifteen. He's doesn't turn Sixteen till August. So my son Nick last night, Decided he was gonna steal my car and visit some of his friends for a new year's eve party. So i wake up at five a.m. to drive to the store cause we were out of Coffee, So...
    AshleighDallas AshleighDallas 36-40, F 8 Responses Jan 1, 2012

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    Actually we spanked our three kids

    when they deserved it. But I think the oldest got more spankings than his two siblings combined. In hindsight these are some possible reasons: we were young with the first one and maybe we expected too much from him, we used his behaviour as an example for our young kids. Our...
    pacodad pacodad 70+, M 2 Responses Jun 7

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    What's with people spanking nude, I'd never do that!

    I do spank my son if the situation calls for it. He's 13 now. But it's done in a way that isn't damaging to him. In his room and never showing any part of his body. Then he's given time to sit in his room and reflect on what he's done. Also only done as a last resort. I honestly...
    ak85 ak85 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    He Deserved It, I Administered It, And Now I'm Undecided

    My 15 year old son hadn't been spanked, (or belted) since he was 11. Tonight he got a dose of both (from me, with his mother's agreement) and I wonder if I did the right thing. Long story short, he lied after stealing $50.00 dollars from my wife's wallet, and went so far as to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Feb 26, 2013

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    Swearing

    My eldest boy is 10 almost 11,i had to spank him about an hour ago for swearing at me.He told me to 'F*** off',i was so shocked that something like that came out of his mouth i thought i had heard wrong.My husband & i make sure we don't swear or curse in front of the boys & they...
    susseditout susseditout 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 29, 2011

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    Problem With My Son, He Refuse To Accept Spankings

    I have always been a firm beliver of dicipline and spankings. I became a widower 5 years ago but have always been able to raise my 3 sons myself with the help of God and strong will. Until now there haven't been any problems at all. Spankings and early bedtime has always worked...
    Strictchristianfather Strictchristianfather 51-55, M 5 Responses Oct 16, 2013

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    Skipping School And Lying

    I have a 13 year old daughter and a 15 year old son.So get a call from my son's school saying that he has missed a whole day of classes for the second day in a row. I was at work when I got the call so there wasn't anything I could do then. When I got home I told my wife what...
    jaredway jaredway 31-35, M 13 Responses May 28, 2011

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    And I Didn't Feel Bad About It At All...

    My son, who is now grown was raised with spankings as punishments. They were usually bare bottomed and across my knee when he was little but over a chair or bed as he got older. One day, when he was 20, he walked out into the kitchen just after he got out of bed. Late in the...
    firmpapa firmpapa 51-55 8 Responses May 29, 2012

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    My Son Logan

    My oldest son Logan is 16. I don't know what was going on with him, but he had been very disrespectful & rebellious. He argued with everything I said and he had broken a bunch of rules. I'd caught him lying, skipping school, smoking, he'd been failing tests & not doing homework...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Feb 29, 2012

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    So you guys all know

    that I have a poly marriage now, well in between me and mouse we have 4 kids, and she is pregnant with her second son, so there will be 5 kids soon, but she is due in a couple weeks to give birth, so I have been spanking her son for her while she is pregant, he is older then...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    So this morning me and the girls all went

    outside to work in the garden while it was still cool, well they didn't have a problem with that at all, but mouse her son he through a huge fit over it, I was like you can help us or you can go stay in your room, well he storm off into the house, but i told him no tv at all, I...
    jennylovestosmile jennylovestosmile 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    Swearing

    My eldest son is 10 years old,he knows the difference between right & wrong & he know the consequences if he is naughty. I'm a very strict Mom & i won't tolerate bad behavior,rudeness,swearing or being disrespectful amongst other things.My husband & i make sure we never use bad...
    steveslittlehelper steveslittlehelper 36-40, F 16 Responses Jul 1, 2011

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    Spanking Experience

    I am used to spank my son (now he's 14). I did it on a regular basis. it is much more OTK spanking on his bare butt. I started to lecture him then I ask him to down his pants and boxer. I do it with my hands or when I bent him over bed with my belt. last time I hint his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    I Spank My Oldest

     My son is 16  (I was just 16 when he was born). I now have daughter who is 9 as well. I do spank my kids when they have done something I think out-weights a simple grounding. Like I spanked my son a few weeks ago for taking my car and staying out all night. He even decided...
    EricRight EricRight 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 29, 2011

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    What Should I Do?

    My oldest son just turned 17 years old & is becoming a senior in high school. His grandparents decided to throw him a birthday party. All of his friends were there & he enjoyed it. However, he decided that he wanted to stay with them a while during the summer & help out around...
    thomaseft thomaseft 46-50, M 8 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Today is my oldest son's 18th birthday. He is an incredibly sweet, smart, funny, caring and sensitive soul who I am very proud of. He's grown into an amazing man and I admire him...
    Indigolesbian70 Indigolesbian70 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    My wife and I started dating when we were 16. She was, and is, the oldest of 7 kids, 4 brothers and 2 sisters. I discovered her parents views on spanking when I overheard her...
    eli1601 eli1601 61-65, M 8 Responses Aug 3

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    I still get spanked quite a bit but nothing like when I was younger. Then I was a huge pain, which often caused my butt huge pain. I was always in trouble for doing things I...
    laurenstone97 laurenstone97 16-17, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    One of my best friends growing up was the son of my preschool teacher, and she spanked. He would be with us and sometimes if he misbehaved she took him to another room and spanked...
    deservedmorespanks deservedmorespanks 22-25 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi everyone! My name is Stella, i'm 18 and from the south of Italia. I have one (little) sister and four brothers. I grew up in a rather conservative and religious family, where...
    Stella615 Stella615 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Hi everyone! My name is Stella, i'm 18 and from the south of Italia. I have one (little) sister and four brothers. I grew up in a rather conservative and religious family, where...
    Stella615 Stella615 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    Hi everyone! My name is Stella, i'm 18 and from the south of Italia. I have one (little) sister and four brothers. I grew up in a rather conservative and religious family, where...
    Stella615 Stella615 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Hi everyone! My name is Stella, i'm 18 and from the south of Italia. I have one (little) sister and four brothers. I grew up in a rather conservative and religious family, where...
    Stella615 Stella615 18-21, F Aug 14

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    Hi everyone! My name is Stella, i'm 18 and from the south of Italia. I have one (little) sister and four brothers. I grew up in a rather conservative and religious family, where...
    Stella615 Stella615 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    Hi everyone! My name is Stella, i'm 18 and from the south of Italia. I have one (little) sister and four brothers. I grew up in a rather conservative and religious family, where...
    Stella615 Stella615 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 14

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    Me and my nearest sibling have NEVER gotten along. I'm the oldest child and he is 18 months younger. He LOVED to aggravate me saying me things like, "You're so ugly the dog wouldn...
    SexyRicana SexyRicana 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    Well, these songs remind me on the german forests and ancient germans and when I think about german nature and vikings I automatically think about you OnlyDeadHumansAreGoodHumans...
    Xiara666 Xiara666 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    Song of the Day needs no reason. More like Song of the Night!Surgeon General's warning: Gothic doom metal may turn listeners into satanic head-bashing zombies. Elysian Night...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 3 hrs ago

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    The short fuse! When I was about 11/12 I went for a sleepover at one of my friends houses. We had a lovely evening playing games that her mother had organised. She was a very nice...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    The short fuse! When I was about 11/12 I went for a sleepover at one of my friends houses. We had a lovely evening playing games that her mother had organised. She was a very nice...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F Aug 6

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    The short fuse! When I was about 11/12 I went for a sleepover at one of my friends houses. We had a lovely evening playing games that her mother had organised. She was a very nice...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    The short fuse! When I was about 11/12 I went for a sleepover at one of my friends houses. We had a lovely evening playing games that her mother had organised. She was a very nice...
    Jilly53 Jilly53 56-60, F 11 Responses Aug 6

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    Last time I was spanked was 16. I was spanked for drinking wine at a cast party. I got spanked because cops were called. I called the cops because the party was out of...
    StefanieL StefanieL 26-30, F 11 Responses Aug 10

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    My mother wasn't one to let us sleep in on a weekend so she woke us up around 8 I think I was 7 at the time and my sister was 14 so my mother woke us up but my sister refused and...
    Hannahong102 Hannahong102 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    My brother Alex never gets spanked he never gets in trouble my brother Luke got spanked weekly and maybe even daily I am in between I get Spanked if I had to guess maybe 7 times a...
    BeautifulBabygirlkayla BeautifulBabygirlkayla 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 17

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    Dear Diary,This is the tale of my life as cinderellaOnce upon a time i was born 1990 i am french who am i?I lived upon the riches with my dear mother and father they were always so...
    Cinderellagirl123 Cinderellagirl123 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Je me souviendrai toujours de cette fessée à cul nu à l'age de 5 ans .C'était les vacances de Pâques . Le jour d'avant nous avions marché en forêt ,j'étais fatigué et...
    boeing707 boeing707 51-55, M Aug 6

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    I am still spanked and I'm 17. It's only when I do something particularly bad. My parents says as long as me and my sister live at home we can get spanked if needed. The way they...
    kjamieb kjamieb 18-21, M 6 Responses Aug 10

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    It was a month ago that I became mad on my brother he was sleeping I picked up a rubber sleeper and started spanking my brother I am 13 while he is 25 after three swats he get up...
    ahmadiscrazy ahmadiscrazy 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    From the age of about 6 I was spanked fairly regularly whenever I misbehaved. Normally it would be over my dads knee as a 'spur of the moment' thing, and with just his hand. But...
    Londonboi Londonboi 22-25, M 7 Responses Aug 22

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    This song has been running through my ears all day. Such ear candy.
    Iblis88 Iblis88 26-30, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Two songs together. The first is a bit like Johnny Cash and the second is....well....a genre of it's own. I hope you can find a quiet moment and give it your attention. Thank you...
    poy1 poy1 70+ 10 hrs ago

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    Love this song!
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    Tiger Army's cover of Oogie Boogie's Song :)
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 6 hrs ago