True - My problem is that when I'm with other people I usually wish I was alone, and when I'm alone I wish I was with other people?
taylor468 5 Responses 3 Nov 25
I recently started talking to myself out loud and can have quite the conversation. I've talked about some great topics and I must say I give some great advice.
girlfromhere 1 Response 1 2 days ago
Too Much Time Lately... - I think I have been spending a bit too much time alone lately. I am going alittle nutty. I think about ridiculous things. I think about dating again and get scared. I think about remarrying and get scared. I think about my pile of shame as I call it...
Temprence 6 Responses 5 May 7
Maybe it because my friends never want to hang out, but I admit I actually love being alone. It gives me time to think and not worry about what other people are thinking about me(:
Juliette18 2 Responses 6 4 days ago
This is what I do when I have no real life friends. There is both pros & cons. It is a good thing as I won't get hurt by them.It is a bad thing, well... I don't know. lol I spent a lot time watching videos on youtube. If there's nothing to watch, I will watch some drama/anime...
serenec 5 Responses 5 1 day ago
Its My Choice. - I live in a very remote area, and work as a shepherd, my wife works away from home and my daughter has moved away and has her own family now. Although I have a neighbouring cottage it is a holiday let, and is only occupied for the summer months of July and August...
Sepulcher 1 Response 2 Nov 26
Gonna Get Down And Dirty!!! I Wish - I thought well? Friday night I'm buzzing I'm gonna hit the town I'm gonna find a fella and make me mother frown! I have dived into my wardrobe and found some sexy stuff and I'm gonna write my phone number on every sex gods cuff! I may...
dustydaisy 3 Responses 7 Nov 11, 2011
Misunderstood - I enjoy time alone. I enjoy the silence of my surroundings and the chaos of my thoughts. I find it difficult to connect with people because of the way they are. I don't like the barriers of the mind some people have. Trapped in their own mind and too ignorant to...
spiritualpersian 14 Responses 6 Nov 19
I Don't Think Of It As A Negative Thing Anymore - Growing up I had a few friends and one best friend in particular. It was exhausting. I was a reluctant friend at best. I've always been a person that didn't like to borrow stuff from others because I didn't want them asking me. I...
deleted 5 Responses 6 Jan 17, 2012
I would like to spend more time with myself, but I have no idea whit what to start. I like to be very honest with myself. I like to speak more with my little girl, but sometimes Im getting angry as she continued just said daddy, dada, tada. There was a moment when I loved her...
princessmummy2012 0 2 hours ago
First Concious Memory Of Who I Am !!!! - well it all started ehen i was about 4 -5 years old and this was the first time i was fully concious of who i am and who im supposed to be............. As i was growing up i always notices i was not like the other boysin scool, they were...
5tarlight1988 5 Responses 10 Nov 3, 2011
Sometimes it's just nice to be alone. No it's not because I'm depressed or antisocial, I just want to be ALONE. The silence is nice. Why don't people understand that?
XxSuicideSilencexX 2 Responses 2 3 days ago
I have so much free time since I've rarely been working and I don't know what to do with myself. I'm going crazy !
perfectlyimperfectz 1 Response 2 4 days ago
Yeah, because I like it that way. There's no one to bother me or tell me what to do. I can do whatever I want without following what everyone else is doing. I'm tired of being around with people, don't get me wrong, I'm not anti-social but sometimes people are annoying and it...
ElviraN 4 Responses 1 Dec 2
Did Not Expect To Though! - I spend a lot of time on my own, and I fill in the time on the computer or when the weather is fine and not too cold in the garden.My Wife is around but as I do all the chores and maintenance because of her inability to lift or bend, she is either...
alwaysawanderer 1 Dec 2
Everybody Needs Their Own Space - I don't really see anything wrong with spending time on my own. For example, I love shopping and I always spend a whole day window shopping until I find what I really want. And who would care to spend a whole day doing that with me? So I always...
deleted 3 Responses 8 Nov 13
Always Alone - I am 100% a loner. Other than internet "friends" I have no friends. Not one. I used to have a lot in school, but once my best friend decited she didn't like me anymore she turned everyone against me. It really messed with my head and now I find it easier to be...
skyyalexxis 42 Responses 15 Nov 13
Always By Myself - I spend most of the time by myself, I always tend to be alone.. sometimes i run conversations by myself ..also I think loudly, even some people witnessed me talking to myself in the street while i was walking.. sometimes i imagine specific people i run...
tamrhenna 17 Responses 9 Jun 21, 2008
It's comforting when you know you can depend on yourself and you are your own best friend. Spending time with yourself can help you with that. I challenge you to spend time with yourself.
inoris 6 Responses 10 Dec 2
I need new friends. I'm tired of being alone all the time. I'm lame.
Longlive300 1 Response 2 6 days ago
Time By Myself. - Sometimes when I'm off work I go days without talking to anyone other than the occasional cashier or Starbucks Barista. I don't really plan it that way just kind of happens. Crazy, somehow I seem to move through life on a personal level almost anonymously. On a...
Southside1212 1 Response 5 Dec 1
I spend so much time alone, I am worried that I am losing the the little bit of social skills I had. I just can't seem to engage anymore. I've gotten so used to being inside my own head. It's hard to come out of my own thoughts most of the time.
peacefulcha0s 4 Responses 5 2 days ago
I have friends, but I'm a loner. I think about stuff, listen to music while I'm at it, and chill out sometimes. I get use to the feeling of quietness. But when it comes to my friends, they're all loud and happy. I don't have much to be happy about in my life, sometimes I wonder...
SuicidalSilence 3 Responses 0 17 hours ago
Not Bad Company - I spend a lot of time by myself, at first it was not by choice but eventually it has become preferable. The majority of my life has been in the public eye, I never had my own room, shared a bed and bathroom, my home has always been open to those who needed...
mollydd 17 Responses 10 Nov 26, 2009
I Love Being Alone - I hate when people think I'm weird for being alone most times. It's true that I don't have many friends but when I did, I could wait for them to leave. I love reading and relaxing. It's less drama that way. I know plenty of people with a lot of "friends" and...
Hteag 2 Responses 7 Nov 22
I don't get along with my mom so I stay in my room to do homework and just listen to music
AmyRachels 2 Responses 2 2 days ago
My husband works nights so I spend long hours alone, I have no children and most of my friends do so they have all deserted me. I miss having long phone conversations with good friends, now I spend my time talking to myself or my animals.
pag0624 5 Responses 1 Nov 27
I like spending time by my self because at school I can't learn what I want so I study online line I study micro biology and I'm obsessed with it I'm only 13 but I'm planning to learn about through high school college and go to medical school ya I'm a nerd but I can't help it
scott7656 3 Responses 4 5 days ago
I Have Friends I Just Like Being By Myself - The thing is i have friends its just sometimes i like being by myself thinking about the things i've bottled up inside me. I don't really like telling people about things that have happened because no matter how much they say they...
BiggestLieImFine 1 Response 5 Nov 2
Content In My Own Company - I live by myself in an apartment at college, which is pretty far from home. I have some friends, but none very close to me out here. I have tried to make friends, but no one has really made me feel that I can trust them, or they have done things that...
Vaux17 3 Responses 2 Nov 23
I like being alone sometimes, I need it once in a while, it's kind of like medicine for me. I get sick of people occasionally, It's not that I don't like them, I just hate who they try to be.
passion4writing 1 Response 4 4 days ago
Yeah Buts And What Ifs? - Being alone is not all bad. It gives one time to really focus on what is going on in your life. I used to be so busy. I even joked about it.I just saw myself going the other way but neither he nor I had time to wave But now that I am alone. I have had...
Mehameha 7 Responses 4 Nov 2, 2011
But Not Through Choice A Lot Of The Time. - Whilst I'm an definite introvert and enjoy my alone time, for the most part it's all the time, I'd love to be able to do the normal things a guy my age does more often socially.
mrjonesmcr 1 Response 1 Nov 24
Solitude Is The Best Company - Even though I have a life I enjoy my time alone .. My solitude is my best company, I'm happy to come home and just hang out with me and myself ...
dreabri 1 Response 5 Nov 9
I spend a lot of time everyday by myself and I usually don't eat every meal so now I have a 3 inch thigh gap! It's so worth it
nicole5227 1 Response 1 1 day ago
I love oneness yesss I do I love to stay by myself and Observing this life good and feel peace in my deeps
hardwhay 2 1 day ago
Loner - I spend alot of time by myself. not by choice.my family is not close, I dont have any female friends or a boyfriend. Its always been hard for me to make friends. I think people just dont like me. I can understand why though im not the most pleasant person to be around. I...
beautifulnightmare20 8 Responses 5 Jun 2, 2012
I'm always by myself 24/7. Just me and my son.. I don't really have any "true" friends. I have a lot of friends actually, but none try to hangout or socialize out of school
HeartBigBeatsQuiet 1 Dec 4
It'S Great - It's feels relaxing to be able to be yourself. Without worrying about someone judging you, without having to always hear a second thought. It's a great feeling to be able to think for yourself. That's the perks of being alone. You can walk the streets alone, think...
mdkayvee 2 Responses 5 Oct 15
By myself is where i create myself and thoughts and ideas. I am an Introvert at heart by i try to be more open and social able. The thing about me is that i am social able and express myself a lot but at times of sadness, decision making or ect. I tend to be good by myself.
musicforreal 1 Response 1 2 days ago
Alone - Seems to be the best choice lately. I like myself, so I don't mind. I always wanted to take a trip alone. I can enjoy things by myself. Would love to feel that freedom of just going somewhere alone and not worrying about a phone or emails. I would like that. I am too...
soulrunher 5 Responses 6 Dec 9, 2012
Baby Steps Toward Self Actualization - As all of you don't know I've spent the last year in what's known as addiction recovery. For the past nine years I'd been using my body as a testing ground for a plethora of substances of abuse. Heroin and other opiates having a nice five...
billypilgrim 9 Responses 9 Aug 17, 2007
I'd rather spend my time alone than spend it on wasted people who don't deserve my company any day.
autumnes 2 Responses 3 4 days ago
It's a Personal Choice - When I was younger I couldn't fathom spending time alone. Fortunately, there came a point in life that forced me to either spend time alone and heal or to go forward ignoring an issue that would surely continue to haunt me. I chose alone time...
AbbyNormal 8 Responses 5 Aug 27, 2007
I tend to prefer being alone or with just a small group of people. I dislike being in large crowds of people because then my anxiety tends to start up.
azwick90 7 Responses 4 Nov 29
Time - Time is a weird concept, it's not real but it's there. I like to think of it as a endless ocean in which we drift rather then a line of history. Plato-“time is not an element of the realms beyond the physical, sensible world. The other realms are eternal” what we call...
daved90 2 Responses 7 Dec 4
Moonglow! - As I walked this morning, I saw this in my back yard and could not resist sharing it.
deleted 7 Responses 7 Feb 6, 2012
I'M Not Exactly A People'S Person.. - Everyone tells me I'm super nice and sweet, which is true and I love helping people and talking to people to make them feel better and makes me very happy to heal other people, but I'm still very quiet and I don't talk that much to people and...
itsjustbrit 10 Responses 6 Feb 27
Always Alone - I spend a lot of time alone. Not because I hate people, but because I need alone time. I hate being lonely, but I'm okay with being alone. When I'm alone, I get to think. I get to explore my own mind even more. I get to breathe and I don't have to be concerned...
hopeonhope 6 Responses 5 Jul 20
How It Is.......... - Depression unemployement not much money isolation running thoughts motivation gone food sleep anger and tears food sleep But now I am determined to change at least some of it for now by putting the music up and doing by doing something.
mysticmum 1 Response 5 Aug 10, 2007
The Gold Box - It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College, girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear across the country in pursuit of his dreams. There, in the rush of his busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past...
Evangeline1985 4 Responses 8 Mar 7
I'm so frequently alone cuz my friends live a bit farther away. After my gf broke up with me I found that people don't text as much as she and i did. im so used to texting non stop all day but now i get maybe 10 texts maximum. So I'm by myself alone
IFeelAlone0 4 Responses 3 17 hours ago
I enjoy it best, when I have time to myself, it's a way of cleansing all the negative I experience on a daily basis.
pinkky87 2 2 hours ago
The Solitary Kid - I cannot remember a time when I did not enjoy being alone. In fact, I can clearly remember running every baby sitter off that my parents hired by age eight, in order to manipulate by way into being a latch key kid. It was a sheer delight coming home from school...
hillbillycrone 7 Responses 5 Feb 12, 2012
I Have...A Goldfish - I like spending time with pets alone. I don't want anybody around, just me and my pet. Just having a pet, you know you're not alone, talking to yourself. They're there, and they're willing to play with you. Okay, sometimes they have that expression "I'm out...
Rushio 0 Nov 26
I Must Go On - I was married for 30 years before my husband found someone to start all over with. But, the most difficult part in my life was having my grand daughter move away after I helped raise her for 3 years. I found a love on a dating site and he turned out to be a...
lostat61 3 Responses 1 Nov 16
My Parent's Cabin at Big Bear - Going to school full time and working full time doesn't give Eric and I as much time together as we wish we had. We have time here and there, date nights and our weekend trips, but I miss Eric a lot during the day and at night when I am at work...
BentHalo 4 Responses 4 4 days ago
What If. - I don't know why being alone is so looked down upon in society. When we see someone sitting by themselves, we often think "aw poor thing." What if that person WANTS to be alone.
OxymoronFreak 0 Nov 13
I'd rather do things with my children, than without. Raising children only lasts for a season. Then they start to grow up and in someways, grow apart from you. You still enjoy their company and they still enjoy you..hopefully.. but you can't stop the inevitable from happening...
Sunshine0615 2 Dec 1
Alone Time - I think spending time alone is a good thing. I live alone and I love every moment of it. I have school and a full time job so home is the only space I get. I enjoy cooking listening to music, working out, dancing, reading writing, soo much more... Being alone isn't a...
trishypooh77 1 Nov 16