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I Spend A Lot Of Time In My Bedroom

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    Eutopia

    In my bedroom I have found eutopia. My bedroom is a place I can go and escape the world. I find solace in room. It is my world. I control everything in it. It is my place to play. I control what is there and what is not. I cannot control the world or what happens in my life but...
    alienatedvirus alienatedvirus 18-21, M Jan 30, 2012

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    When I'm not at work,

    my bedroom is my sanctuary...
    Felicity3110 Felicity3110 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    It's my sanctuary. The only place I feel truly

    at peace. I have a love/hate relationship with my room. On one hand it gives me peace and comfort. On the other, it isolates me and rebirths habits I want to change. It's my calm, but also partly responsible for the storm of my life.
    Flu1d Flu1d 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I just feel safe and comfortable

    when im there. At times I feels its my only sanctuary.
    shaunrain shaunrain 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    Oh my... Where to start.

    So I am 25 years old and I have completely sabotaged my life thus far. The past 4 months I have done nothing but sleep, lay in bed, stare off into space, and cry and wish for death. I've looked up the many ways to end my life but it's actually very difficult to successfully do...
    lyakamovich lyakamovich 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    I love my bedroom. It's the one place

    where I can let go and be who I want to be without any judgement.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I spend a lot of time in my bedroom

    because it's the one place where I can think and sort out my thoughts. Then I can organize my thoughts and just do what I have to do to get certain things without wasting too much time thinking about it.
    latinounico latinounico 22-25, M Mar 10

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    I like to be alone, no one to bother me just me

    and the internet. Maybe I'm a little antisocial but my parents take it to a whole new level. Especially my dad he thinks I hate life and everything with it. He takes me to and from school everyday and he just stares at me and when I ask him whats wrong he blows up and yells at...
    lani007 lani007 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    Home Alone

    I'm blissfully home alone! Kids are at school until 4pm...husband is gone working out of the house (usually works from home) so I'm alone! Such a small thrill! I just have to worry about my own needs, my own amusement. I'm my own best friend....I'm ecstatic!
    Feistynurse Feistynurse 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 7, 2013

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    The only time I come out of my room is too

    shower, go to the restroom, eat or leave. It's not the I hate the people I live with its just I can't stand having to put on a fake smile. I'm not happy and at least when I'm in in my room alone I don't have to act like I'm happy.
    Santos21 Santos21 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 24

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    Being in my room by myself is simply amazing

    (says an introverted college kid). People wonder how I could possibly entertain myself. In my room, I can play video games, surf the web, listening to music (and sing along when I want to), watch movies (thank you internet. Netflix, and Hulu!), talk to people on the phone, read...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M Feb 17

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    My mom calls it my bat cave.

    I spend most of my time in my bedroom, studying, wasting time on internet or sleepy. I just love being lonely and do whatever I want. I can sleep and no one cares.. (Sometimes) and I can also listen to my music without disturbing anyone!! My bedroom is my palace!! :D
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Basically 2/3 of the year.

    . I dont have...friends you could say Its gotten to the point i feel uncomfortable leaving it.
    notworthitatall notworthitatall 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Honestly, I hate how my room looks

    but it's the only place that's entirely mine year round. No one comes on without telling me. It's mine to decorate, short of painting the walls. I can't be bothered there I just turn up my radio and close the door. I may not like it but it's still mine. And it's where I go when...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    My bedroom is my place of peace.

    My entire apartment is, actually. Your home should be where you go to find your center.
    hauteboheme hauteboheme 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    My bedroom is my safe haven.

    As much as I love to be social, I always know where to go when I'm sad or when I need to be alone: my bedroom. I also spend a lot time in there because I just feel safe and I like that feeling :)
    SomeoneWhoBeenThroughIt SomeoneWhoBeenThroughIt 18-21, F Feb 19

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    I am perpetually depressed.

    Nobody seems to notice it in here. It is too much work to help me properly. They rather throw me some money so they can have the comfort that they are helping me but all it is doing is making me feel guilty for accepting that kind of help and not getting my problems fixed now...
    aokigahara29 aokigahara29 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    I'm at a very weird place in life,

    I have zero friends, I'm around zero family members , I'm forgotten , it's weird !!! Plus I'm very outgoing, giving, and very much committed what is going on I'm confused! The people I called friends were very undermining . I have a lot of life issues right now but where is my...
    inconcievablyunequivocal inconcievablyunequivocal 22-25, F Feb 15

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    yes because my bed is my bestfriend,

    lover and cuddler. Why do I need anyone? when I have my bed who can be there when your dumbass breaks my heart duh every girl would agree
    Emonerd9554 Emonerd9554 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    I Spend A Lot Of Time In My Bedroom!

    I spend probably about 70% of my time in my bedroom. 25% is at school, and 5% is out with friends. Whenever someone asks me where my favourite place to be is, I usually can't answer because I don't have a favourite place. Over time, I have started to say it's my bedroom, because...
    ArrowPewPew ArrowPewPew 16-17 5 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    BrowningBrownie BrowningBrownie 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 20

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    bendovergirl88 bendovergirl88 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    My bedroom is my sanctuary,

    I'm at peace when I'm there. I feel as though I'm no longer part of the world when I'm there. It's basically just another way for me to escape from life & rid my self of worries & problems. I feel isolated from my family & this helps with it.
    simplysiani simplysiani 13-15, F Feb 23

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    I like the idea of legit being able to stay in

    my bed for the rest of my life with perfect internet on my iPod. Oh and just throw endless rain and like four people in there so I don't go crazy.
    SassySloth SassySloth 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    hardwork365 hardwork365 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 2

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    My World.

    This is where I have my, me space. I don't feel comfortable with most people and only in my room can I just relax and escape the world, my family, problems and worries.
    Nalxx Nalxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 1, 2011

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    Do you like sex? Do you like black men?

    Do you like to talk about sex?
    Koenasean Koenasean 36-40, M Apr 2

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    I love having me time.

    My family thinks I'm weird and anti social. Not even the case. I just like being able to chill by myself, listening to music, watch tv, pamper myself, etc. I can do all that without the hassle of my whole family bothering me the entire time.
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 23

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    I do. I prefer to be alone then withy friends.

    I have long silk black curtains and its always dark, with the lights off, and a night light on. I have my phone, 3DS and games in there. Its like my central habitat. I have water bottles and food in there. And my hamster Dyl (short for Dylan). I have a blanket covering my bed (I...
    DivergentWolf DivergentWolf 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    Most of the time, I'm in my bedroom.

    Mostly reading a story to my son, doing homework, using my iPod/Laptop, watching TV, or something.
    LolitaChrisbell LolitaChrisbell 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Safest.

    My room is my sanctuary, my haven, my church, and the only space where i get to have everything just the way i want it. It has all my favourite things and its the place i feel the safest and most comfortable to just be me. It hides a lot of secrets. These four walls know things...
    TheRealMimi TheRealMimi 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2010

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    I really don't feel like going outside my

    bedroom most of the time. But my subconscious is like "go to school and be the top one percent." so I have no choice but go to school.
    lolrule101 lolrule101 16-17, M Mar 16

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    I like being by myself in my room.

    I like being in my room more than I like going out haha!
    balletlover21 balletlover21 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 16

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    reading, surfing, watching drama,

    sleeping, eating, daydreaming, listening to music, praying...what else...I don't need any other space. I just need my bedroom to spend my life.
    jalanyanglurus jalanyanglurus 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Today I Stayed in m room all day writing essays

    for professors , completing projects and etc I am a college student and I'm currently taking 19 credits. This sucks !!!! I never have the time to go out because Im either in class , at work or studying and completing work !!!!!
    BeautifulGorgeousss BeautifulGorgeousss 18-21, F Jan 25

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    I spend all day in my room

    because at some point my family will do something to **** me off. Just today, they came in my room because they wanted "family time". The only ones in my house are my mom, me, and my brother. I have a twin bed so they both decided to lay on my small bed with me. My brother tries...
    AquariusGirl150 AquariusGirl150 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2013

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    One of my most private place.

    My room.. Don't go searching in my room either, for ANYTHING. Because I would bite your head off. :)
    Rosieeeee Rosieeeee 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    In My World.

    ''i ll be in my bedroom,making no noise and pretending im not there'' isnt that what Harry potter said?  my bedroom is my own house..i need to close my door,my privacy.. i stayed more in my bed today,i said i ll stay more in mybedroom n i did.I put music n cleaned n tidy a lot.I...
    amysangels amysangels 22-25, F 22 Responses Jan 24, 2011

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    lilmissthang1 lilmissthang1 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    When I'm not working,

    in class, in the kitchen, in the bathroom, I'm exiled in my room. I'm living with my mother while I'm in school and she just loves the big screen tv. I feel like a NEET, on my laptop, watching anime. Or laying in silence, doing some yoga, sit-ups crunches, reading some culinary...
    ariecon23 ariecon23 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2013

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    My bedroom is like my own little world

    and where I could spend the whole day if I was allowed to :D
    mangadrawer12321 mangadrawer12321 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 15

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    Lmao, doesn't this experience sound kind of

    perverted? Spend a lot of time in your bedroom doing what?
    toba122 toba122 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    tah34 tah34 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    Why do I spend lots of time in my room?

    Because it's mine. My books, my music, my animals, my bed, my pillows, my blankets. It's decorated in the things I like, things that have a memory attached to it. Each item has a story to be told. I'm surrounded by the things that remind me of happy things in my life. That kind...
    3milyFaye 3milyFaye 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    My Bedroom, My Diary

    I call my bedroom my diary, because it knows how I feel and think when I am in it. I spend most of my time, both free and study, in my bedroom. I write down what I am thinking or feeling on loose papers or in notebooks. So when talking about letting someone into my bedroom is...
    kemi8698 kemi8698 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Who needs a person to cuddle

    when you have a king sized bed complete with 100% Egyptian cotton bedding and a soft goose feather duvet to keep you warm at night.
    dannyjc93 dannyjc93 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    I Really Do.

    For a start, I sleep in there, (obviously) when I don't fall asleep in my chair in front of my pc, and when I sleep in bed I sleep for ages. i often get up, make coffee and toast, and go back to bed taking a bar of chocolate and some crisps for later.  I will take the morning...
    AlmostAristotle AlmostAristotle 61-65, M 13 Responses Nov 19, 2011

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    I Spend A Lot Of Time In My Bedroom Playing

    With Myself Pretending To Be Doing Homework When I'm Doing Other Things ( Naughty Me ) 😇
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 14, 2013

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    I'm a gamer so I always spend less time around

    others plus I really hate drama.
    Mashinrb Mashinrb 18-21, M Mar 12

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    Throughout my life, I moved to many countries.

    Meaning, I had a lot of bedrooms, about 7, I believe. My room was always my favourite place in the house. It carried parts of me, it explained who i am. I'd spend hours on my bed, writing or drawing, or laying awake in the dark.. Wondering. It has seen my sorrow, my joy, my...
    caijedu caijedu 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Could Live In It

    It's my base of operations. I do just about everything in it. From reading, to watching tv, to homework. It's where I go to just be by myself and keep others out of my own personal world. And if I need something I get something. But it's my personal space and I keep it that way...
    pizzaboy213 pizzaboy213 18-21, M Oct 25, 2013

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    I spend too much time in my bedroom.

    I dont go out much, i dont talk to people. Am i in some depression or something cause i dont know how i feel anymore?
    phoenixgirl21 phoenixgirl21 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 20

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    Sometimes I feel that I spend too much time in

    my bedroom and I start to go crazy. That's when I go outside for a little while
    khokho204 khokho204 16-17, F Mar 15

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    MY BED ROOM IS LIKE MY BESTFRIEND I STAY IN IT

    ALL DAY I EAT SLEEP AND I ALSO HAVE A RESTROOM SO I NEVER HAVE TO LEAVE.
    MIMIEMOUSE MIMIEMOUSE 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 20

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    I love coming home from work & spending time with my 3 dogs, parrot & chicken. They take away any stresses & for that, I'm grateful:)
    izzi75 izzi75 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    It helps me relax and meditate. I feel at peace with myself and find internal stability with my emotions and thoughts. It's the only time during the day that I feel complete, and I...
    Close2You Close2You 26-30, M Mar 20

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