I Spend Too Much Time Wallowing In Self-pity

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    Too much. But the thing is I'm tired.

    I'm really tired. I'm tired and I know I have the complete victim mentality. But in the end, I blame nobody except myself.
    Lunan0va Lunan0va
    22-25, F
    Mar 18, 2015

    This would be true I spend too much time saying

    why me? Why couldn't it be someone else?
    shannonsjourney shannonsjourney
    18-21, F
    Mar 18, 2015


    When I'm not busy with anything else I pretend to be someone I'm not in my thoughts or live a life that is not my own, but in the way I want it to be. I drown in these thoughts and they make me happy but when the moment ends I always end up watching my life in reverse and see how...
    91st 91st
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 3, 2010

    Choosing Not To Be A Victim Doesn't Make Your Problems Go Away

    Its like they say in AA. Just because you become sober doesn't make the issues you were drinking away went away. You just now have a clear head to deal with them. I spent much, probably the majority of my life in a victim mentality, due to adverse circumstances at home and a...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 5, 2011

    I always feel sorry for myself it's a bad habit

    but I'm so use to it, always thinking about how I've failed socially and at life it tortures my mind
    Isaokomori22 Isaokomori22
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 4, 2016

    My Own and Pity Others Have For Me

    I'm always thinking of how unfair my life is, and I know I ought to just get over it and learn to deal with it rather than pitying myself. What's even worse than my self-pity is that I feel like I feed off the pity others have for me. I don't completely understand why. Maybe to...
    flyingintherain flyingintherain
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 12, 2009

    Well, someone's gotta care about me right?

    Might as well be me! 😄😄
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 17, 2015
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