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I Stare At Girls But Turn Away As Soon As They Look At Me

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    Need a Gaydar Update.

    I don't want them to catch me looking because it might make them feel uncomfortable. My gaydar is off all the time, so I don't really want to make straight girls uncomfortable.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    I Hate This.

    I'm bi, so I guess it's not really weird that I stare at girls, but I feel really guilty doing it. I don't even have a real pattern to who I stare at either. One time I'll be staring at a gorgeous blonde and be wondering to myself what her life is like. Another time I'll stare...
    KaBe22 KaBe22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2010

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    I'm Doing That With Someone Right Now.

    There is this woman in the same coffee house as me. I've seen her here before, and she has some kind of allure that I don't quite know how to articulate. I am stealing so many glances her way that I can't get much writing done. She seems a very confident and able woman, and she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 19, 2010

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    Oh Missing Commuting Partner

    Not that I knew her I just loved her from afar. So cute and nice to everyone around her. but alas I am a chicken and never talk to the women around me whom I fine so damn sexy Maybe int he next life I will have more balls.
    KaysFun KaysFun 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2008

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    I Can Get Away With It

    I look at some women all the time.  Not as a straight woman checking out my competition or see what's in style now.  I look at some women because I find them attractive.  If they see me looking, I can get away with it.  They don't know I'm a lesbian.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    Oh, Pretty Ladies...

    While I do not consider myself bi-sexual, I can't seem to help myself when it comes to having crushes and feeling attracted to certain girls. This especially happens on campus at my university. There's been several occasions when I spot a blindingly adorable girl (or maybe sit...
    de1eted de1eted 13-15 3 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    I Spend A Lot Of Time At Coffee Houses

    So, I spend a lot of time turning away from girls/women as soon as they look at me. This is very distracting when someone is trying to write. I wish I knew what would have to happen to make me stop staring at, and looking at, and thinking about the women. Well, I don't know. And...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 14, 2010

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    Everywhere I Go

    I'm a bit of a people watcher - so i always watch everyone. I never 'stare' though. I just love looking at people. Watching their expressions and all that. And girls - well girls always stare at me. I haven't figured out why yet. I always fee like i must have some...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    Haha

    I have been guilty of this more times than I care to admit. lol
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2010

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    Most of the Time Yes I Do

    I guess it's because I am a lot older than most that I look at.  I don't want them to think I am a lecherous old perv because I have always admired the beauty of a woman.  The way the conduct themselves, the way they feel the need to dress in something other than...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 12, 2008

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    Its Simple

    I see a girl I like and I cant help but look. soon as I see her start to look my way I quickly look away. Then when its all said and done I try to pretend she does not exist. Not like she would want me anyways :/
    Krie Krie 22-25, M Mar 24, 2012

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    Bisexyness forever. I'm more into girls though. Or at least right now. Guys, it's like 75-25 for the ratio of me liking girls to liking guys.
    mandarin125 mandarin125 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    now im the kind of guy that throughout school everyone came to for love/relationship advice and my advice always seemed to work for them yet when i use my own advice it never gets...
    stroudi stroudi 18-21, M Jul 3

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    I hate life. I hate emotion, I hate logic. I feel like I am insignificant, especially to those who say they love me. I try to be happy and yet that just doesn't fit into their...
    Icarus1228 Icarus1228 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    I love to check out girls, and I even check them out with my husband! I've always been this way but as I've gotten older I've been able to open up about it more. I'm so glad my...
    emariexx emariexx 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I recently came out and most of my family doesn't believe me! My brother says I'm lying to just sneak boys into the house, my dad says I'm just copying everyone else, my aunt says...
    Scared2BAlone57 Scared2BAlone57 18-21, T 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Love it when a girl will flirt with me or when a chic comes onto me il flirt back with a girl and tease them but I'm straight....not even bi.....
    Lollibear023 Lollibear023 16-17, F Jun 24

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    I wish I would have known what an overly sensitive, selfish, flaky, irresponsible loser he'd turn out to be... then I wouldn't have to feel so pathetic.
    rerow rerow 18-21, F Jul 14

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    Snap chatting pics and vids. Hit me up to receive.
    HornyBoiB HornyBoiB 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 7

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    It is just a movie, right. Yeah. But, somehow it popped into my brain, just now while i was out driving. I cant remeber everything from it. But i do remeber that he all the time...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Jul 7

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    Sometimes I hate it when people stare at me like I'm funny looking or something I mean they can stare at like for 2 mins to see how I look and stuff but when they stare at me for...
    Chasemanning Chasemanning 13-15, M Jul 13

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    Hi there, I am going to tell my story, it will probably take some time, BUT would appreciate some people out there to take some time to perhaps follow and comment if they have any...
    lukeyp03 lukeyp03 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Help? Girls? Even guys? Lol. I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks now, she seems pretty awesome, and I made the mistake of moving way to fast with my lasts girlfriend. I...
    sammykins101 sammykins101 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    This is going to surprise all of you but it surprised me more than anyone else some of you might not even believe it but I am not bothered as it is the truth from the bottom of my...
    Missreedy Missreedy 31-35 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Yes, women are very beautiful, but come on guys, they're not from a special planet of rejection. They won't look at you and say 'Ew, go the **** away!' Just go and say hi, stop...
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I had it all. A great boyfriend, such an open and loving relationship (or so I thought). But he kept secrets from me that turned into lies. I think it's important to ask about...
    abstersrox abstersrox 18-21, F Jul 8

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    Like a hour ago I was outside with my dog bending over playing with him I don't care who's see me my whole *** is hanging out I have one of them booty that open when you bend over...
    Gihi Gihi 22-25, F 8 Responses Jun 23

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    This story is going to be about a girl named Nikki who is being bullied Nikki was a normal 16 year old girl she was nice cute sweet and was hot on any guys terms. But there was...
    wedgiemaster2432 wedgiemaster2432 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I was in middle school so everyone is either straight or in a steel closet so...my options were pretty narrow. I guess I was most likely crushing on how they exuded femininity...
    MindvsHeartAJ MindvsHeartAJ 18-21, T Jun 29

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    I love big girls in shorts, they are cuties <3 I would love to rub their bellies all day, of course I like any chubby girl (if they look good) I just think shorts show off more...
    catbradley catbradley 13-15, M Jul 3

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    I think women get judge on how they look, which I don't think it's ok. There is this page on facebook, that all they do is judge girls. Like WTF? Ain't nobody perfect.. What the...
    1kz3l 1kz3l 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I am obsessed with overfeeding girls until they have a huge, fat, round, stuffed belly :), I love to make it bigger and bigger and rub it when she's stuffed, with greasy, fattening...
    thatguyjaymart thatguyjaymart 16-17, M Jul 5

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    So earlier today I was volunteering at this place (I don't want to be real specific) and there was this guy there also helping out. He was nice and kept making little jokes and...
    ZeroDigits ZeroDigits 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Indeed i am :) Every woman is beautiful and unique, i fail to understand why some feel the need to practically paint their faces with make up, or use so much fake tan they look...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Who els thinks a girls but looks sexy ?
    nathan6678 nathan6678 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    I have been in US for 2 years now. Honestly, I always have a dream that I can date an American girl and even get married though I'm Asian. It seems that I still get to know more...
    qizu qizu 22-25, M Jun 29

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    I have such fond memories of childhood. I was the last of four children, 14 years behind my oldest sister and the only boy in the family. I have only scant memories of a father...
    Varience Varience 70+, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    Okay so am I the only one who thinks its hilarious that so many of the girls on here post nude pictures of themselves and make their profile completely sexual and then their like...
    akrysrose akrysrose 22-25, F a week ago

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    Random people often come up to me saying I resemble Avicii that DJ. I i find that pretty cool even tho Im not perfectly Identical to him I'm actually the same background as him too...
    Codyj22 Codyj22 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Hey ladies I am looking for a penpal that might be in the same boat as me. I'm 26 and have been happily married for 6 years. I've also had the desire to be with another woman, but...
    shygirl2014 shygirl2014 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ok guys me and one of my friends Hannah where talking about wedges one day and i asked her how she grew to like them she said her brother had given her a bra connection wedge...
    wedgiemaster2432 wedgiemaster2432 13-15, M 15 hrs ago

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    Hey wed*gie lovers! Sheesh I've had 15+ INCREDIBLE long-term wed*gie Sla*ves (<3 u girls) but I've yet to find a sla*ve that does messy wedg*ies also. If you want a very...
    thatguy218 thatguy218 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I love having my belly button poked! I have packed on some weight, resulting in a pot belly and sometimes when I bloat, it looks pregnant! One time I ate so much, my belly button...
    MJ123321 MJ123321 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Have you ever lied to someone about loving colorful eyes only to avoid their pity that your child has her father's eyes? Well I did, because I never want some of the people around...
    ForeverSahour ForeverSahour 26-30, F 14 hrs ago

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    I admire fit/built men, I am a subdominant, so I would like to meet the man of my dreams, one who loves hugs, even if he has that bad boy charm, or if he looks like a delinquent, I...
    skyalarm skyalarm 13-15, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Honestly, I would fall for someone for their personality before even considering their looks. Personally, I have liked people because of who they arenas what they stand for, rather...
    mandarin125 mandarin125 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I have had one night stands with girls but I've never dated one. I would like to. For various reasons, I'm scared to - but I'm working past that :) Unfortunately, I only know...
    AlleywayGospel AlleywayGospel 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 1

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