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I Stare At Girls But Turn Away As Soon As They Look At Me

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    Oh, Pretty Ladies...

    While I do not consider myself bi-sexual, I can't seem to help myself when it comes to having crushes and feeling attracted to certain girls. This especially happens on campus at my university. There's been several occasions when I spot a blindingly adorable girl (or maybe sit...
    de1eted de1eted 13-15 3 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    Its Simple

    I see a girl I like and I cant help but look. soon as I see her start to look my way I quickly look away. Then when its all said and done I try to pretend she does not exist. Not like she would want me anyways :/
    Krie Krie 22-25, M Mar 24, 2012

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    Oh Missing Commuting Partner

    Not that I knew her I just loved her from afar. So cute and nice to everyone around her. but alas I am a chicken and never talk to the women around me whom I fine so damn sexy Maybe int he next life I will have more balls.
    KaysFun KaysFun 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2008

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    I Spend A Lot Of Time At Coffee Houses

    So, I spend a lot of time turning away from girls/women as soon as they look at me. This is very distracting when someone is trying to write. I wish I knew what would have to happen to make me stop staring at, and looking at, and thinking about the women. Well, I don't know. And...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 14, 2010

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    I'm Doing That With Someone Right Now.

    There is this woman in the same coffee house as me. I've seen her here before, and she has some kind of allure that I don't quite know how to articulate. I am stealing so many glances her way that I can't get much writing done. She seems a very confident and able woman, and she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 19, 2010

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    Need a Gaydar Update.

    I don't want them to catch me looking because it might make them feel uncomfortable. My gaydar is off all the time, so I don't really want to make straight girls uncomfortable.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    I Can Get Away With It

    I look at some women all the time.  Not as a straight woman checking out my competition or see what's in style now.  I look at some women because I find them attractive.  If they see me looking, I can get away with it.  They don't know I'm a lesbian.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    Most of the Time Yes I Do

    I guess it's because I am a lot older than most that I look at.  I don't want them to think I am a lecherous old perv because I have always admired the beauty of a woman.  The way the conduct themselves, the way they feel the need to dress in something other than...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 12, 2008

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    Everywhere I Go

    I'm a bit of a people watcher - so i always watch everyone. I never 'stare' though. I just love looking at people. Watching their expressions and all that. And girls - well girls always stare at me. I haven't figured out why yet. I always fee like i must have some...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    Haha

    I have been guilty of this more times than I care to admit. lol
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2010

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    I Hate This.

    I'm bi, so I guess it's not really weird that I stare at girls, but I feel really guilty doing it. I don't even have a real pattern to who I stare at either. One time I'll be staring at a gorgeous blonde and be wondering to myself what her life is like. Another time I'll stare...
    KaBe22 KaBe22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2010

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