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I Stare At Girls But Turn Away As Soon As They Look At Me

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    I'm Doing That With Someone Right Now.

    There is this woman in the same coffee house as me. I've seen her here before, and she has some kind of allure that I don't quite know how to articulate. I am stealing so many glances her way that I can't get much writing done. She seems a very confident and able woman, and she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 19, 2010

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    Need a Gaydar Update.

    I don't want them to catch me looking because it might make them feel uncomfortable. My gaydar is off all the time, so I don't really want to make straight girls uncomfortable.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    Most of the Time Yes I Do

    I guess it's because I am a lot older than most that I look at.  I don't want them to think I am a lecherous old perv because I have always admired the beauty of a woman.  The way the conduct themselves, the way they feel the need to dress in something other than...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 12, 2008

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    I Hate This.

    I'm bi, so I guess it's not really weird that I stare at girls, but I feel really guilty doing it. I don't even have a real pattern to who I stare at either. One time I'll be staring at a gorgeous blonde and be wondering to myself what her life is like. Another time I'll stare...
    KaBe22 KaBe22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2010

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    Oh Missing Commuting Partner

    Not that I knew her I just loved her from afar. So cute and nice to everyone around her. but alas I am a chicken and never talk to the women around me whom I fine so damn sexy Maybe int he next life I will have more balls.
    KaysFun KaysFun 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2008

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    Its Simple

    I see a girl I like and I cant help but look. soon as I see her start to look my way I quickly look away. Then when its all said and done I try to pretend she does not exist. Not like she would want me anyways :/
    Krie Krie 22-25 Mar 24, 2012

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    I Spend A Lot Of Time At Coffee Houses

    So, I spend a lot of time turning away from girls/women as soon as they look at me. This is very distracting when someone is trying to write. I wish I knew what would have to happen to make me stop staring at, and looking at, and thinking about the women. Well, I don't know. And...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 14, 2010

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    Oh, Pretty Ladies...

    While I do not consider myself bi-sexual, I can't seem to help myself when it comes to having crushes and feeling attracted to certain girls. This especially happens on campus at my university. There's been several occasions when I spot a blindingly adorable girl (or maybe sit...
    de1eted de1eted 13-15 3 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    I Can Get Away With It

    I look at some women all the time.  Not as a straight woman checking out my competition or see what's in style now.  I look at some women because I find them attractive.  If they see me looking, I can get away with it.  They don't know I'm a lesbian.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    Haha

    I have been guilty of this more times than I care to admit. lol
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2010

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    Everywhere I Go

    I'm a bit of a people watcher - so i always watch everyone. I never 'stare' though. I just love looking at people. Watching their expressions and all that. And girls - well girls always stare at me. I haven't figured out why yet. I always fee like i must have some...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    That is not to say that I don't care about looks at all, because I do. I want to be able to actually look into the eyes of the person I love! He or She, doesn't have to be a 10...
    girlinwhite girlinwhite 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I love my boyfriend. I always have and he's my world. But I developed some curious feelings for quite awhile. I have no idea what to do. I really think I could be attracted to...
    song95 song95 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    So many girls way overdo their makeup. I will admit it, I use heavy eye lines. I like the "dark" look on my eyes, but most girls, use way too much everything to wear they look like...
    BroknGirl89 BroknGirl89 26-30, F 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    I've always had an attraction to girls but more recently have come to terms with it / accepted it.
    timidclosetlesbian timidclosetlesbian 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Violinmaster242 and straightkillaaaa. You both are a piece of **** that should've never walked this earth. Go **** yourselves. Straightkilla you swear you're about that thug life...
    seseboo17 seseboo17 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I didn't think it was possible for me to have feelings towards another girl.I have found myself attracted to other girls but I thought it was for fun like making out and stuff.But...
    NamesAreOverrated NamesAreOverrated 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Basically, there is this guy at my school who I dated once for about a month but he ended it because 'we were too different'. but since we've hung out more, he said to me 'I'm...
    Ash7777777 Ash7777777 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So we've been having an unbearable heatwave all this week right up until yesterday. I looked back at yesterday's weather forecast and found out that we had some massive...
    xPrincessxPerfectxHairx xPrincessxPerfectxHairx 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    When using one of those dating apps where you swipe and swipe pictures, 80% or more has this icy look. I am not even sure if id call it a serious look, it is just kinda flat, icy...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I feel like it's a bad thing.The better they look, the more i care what they think about me. I need to change, don't i? But idk how to.
    opiumm opiumm 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I'm 16 but people say I definitely look like i'm a first grader.
    wchubb wchubb 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I personally care more about how people act and how their personality is than how they look, like honestly people's looks doesn't define who they are. For example, I wear all black...
    drunkpunker drunkpunker 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 21 years old and I have a actual reason why I can't sleep I have sleep apnea it's minor when I'm on my back and more medium when I'm on my side, it's odd and unsure why but...
    DriftingLeaf DriftingLeaf 18-21 5 days ago

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    One creature that is so quick to steal anyone's attention is the colourful butterflies. You can't help but notice them when they glide past you, or are nearby. Their colours are...
    tengil tengil 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    I have 3 cats - Pepsi and Tia (from the same litter) are 11yrs old, Harvey is 7yrs old. They each have their own unique personalities but are all equally adorable and loving...
    AlreadyOwned7379 AlreadyOwned7379 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    Lately I've been feeling really trapped and I just want to get out and be on my own. I'm only 14 so I know it would be a stupid idea to runaway. I think I'm just going to leave...
    dac01 dac01 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    It turns me on to see a nice woman's butt in a pair of tight blue jeans.
    bubley bubley 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    This is a personal thought...but I think I kinda look like the singer of Blessthefall O.o Just like, with the hair and chin. But I don't know, that's just what I think
    HidingBehindTheShadows HidingBehindTheShadows 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 24

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    Trueee, I might look dumb but don't let my looks fool you, i know a lot of things that y'all probably didn't know I knew
    LoneLone LoneLone 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Note: All characters are at least 18 years old. She lay on a narrow table looking up at the dark ceiling. She was on her back and fully clothed, even her shoes and socks were...
    kalelmuland kalelmuland 31-35, F Jun 24

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    Hi guys. Just wondering is anyone here has had a similar experience as mine..here goes.. Well basically, i cant seem to accept my gfs past. She has had 5 exs, and some other...
    etodajoseph etodajoseph 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 24

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    Something so warm and cozy about being a situation of complete helplessness but knowing that you will be safe and well looked after. The complete dismissal of adult...
    Gemma1990 Gemma1990 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I love giving females full back and butt massages. It turns them on so much, that they usually end up wanting to have sex.
    mysteriousohme mysteriousohme 22-25, M Jun 23

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    idk. i just feel like guys are more easy to talk to than girls. most the girls at my school, all they wanna do is gossip. they a bunch of 2 face and i ain't for that ****.
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F Jun 21

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    My husband harps on and on about "buying a house." He's made a great deal of rude comments to me over the years about "our" inability to do so. See it's my fault we don't own a...
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 20

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    so I don't consider myself as ugly but I think I could look better. Call me "crazy jenner" but I've always felt I was supposed to be born a boy.
    preppiboi preppiboi 31-35, T 1 Response Jun 19

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    To anybody who WANTS to believe in God and need knowledge and understanding I would be happy to help you. If you're looking to just debate please don't waste my time, but if you're...
    AngelOfGod1506 AngelOfGod1506 22-25, F Jun 18

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    A smile on my face but a drowning girl inside. No im not okay, but I can sure make it seem so. yes I can physically cry. You dont know so, sometimes I dont want to believe so.but I...
    petramullins petramullins 16-17, F Jun 18

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    Is it bad to want to know? Like obviously everyone wants to believe that they are attractive but no one knows what they look like in other people's eyes. Like I just wanna know...
    CourtneyPaige17 CourtneyPaige17 16-17, F Jun 17

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    I know turning them off is a bad choice but it helps... I won't feel the pain anymore. I don't want to feel this way. Last night I was sitting in the car just thinking 'why am I...
    laurenjauregui laurenjauregui 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    Like a beggar would hate the rich people who kick them away, I samely detest the girls. As I used to read that Women are Tender hearted, nice beings, loving creatures, etc., I used...
    lslav2 lslav2 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 17

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