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I Stare At Girls But Turn Away As Soon As They Look At Me

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    Need a Gaydar Update.

    I don't want them to catch me looking because it might make them feel uncomfortable. My gaydar is off all the time, so I don't really want to make straight girls uncomfortable.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    Haha

    I have been guilty of this more times than I care to admit. lol
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2010

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    Most of the Time Yes I Do

    I guess it's because I am a lot older than most that I look at.  I don't want them to think I am a lecherous old perv because I have always admired the beauty of a woman.  The way the conduct themselves, the way they feel the need to dress in something other than...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 12, 2008

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    I Hate This.

    I'm bi, so I guess it's not really weird that I stare at girls, but I feel really guilty doing it. I don't even have a real pattern to who I stare at either. One time I'll be staring at a gorgeous blonde and be wondering to myself what her life is like. Another time I'll stare...
    KaBe22 KaBe22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2010

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    I'm Doing That With Someone Right Now.

    There is this woman in the same coffee house as me. I've seen her here before, and she has some kind of allure that I don't quite know how to articulate. I am stealing so many glances her way that I can't get much writing done. She seems a very confident and able woman, and she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 19, 2010

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    Oh Missing Commuting Partner

    Not that I knew her I just loved her from afar. So cute and nice to everyone around her. but alas I am a chicken and never talk to the women around me whom I fine so damn sexy Maybe int he next life I will have more balls.
    KaysFun KaysFun 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2008

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    Oh, Pretty Ladies...

    While I do not consider myself bi-sexual, I can't seem to help myself when it comes to having crushes and feeling attracted to certain girls. This especially happens on campus at my university. There's been several occasions when I spot a blindingly adorable girl (or maybe sit...
    de1eted de1eted 13-15 3 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    Its Simple

    I see a girl I like and I cant help but look. soon as I see her start to look my way I quickly look away. Then when its all said and done I try to pretend she does not exist. Not like she would want me anyways :/
    Krie Krie 22-25, M Mar 24, 2012

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    I Spend A Lot Of Time At Coffee Houses

    So, I spend a lot of time turning away from girls/women as soon as they look at me. This is very distracting when someone is trying to write. I wish I knew what would have to happen to make me stop staring at, and looking at, and thinking about the women. Well, I don't know. And...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 14, 2010

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    I Can Get Away With It

    I look at some women all the time.  Not as a straight woman checking out my competition or see what's in style now.  I look at some women because I find them attractive.  If they see me looking, I can get away with it.  They don't know I'm a lesbian.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    Everywhere I Go

    I'm a bit of a people watcher - so i always watch everyone. I never 'stare' though. I just love looking at people. Watching their expressions and all that. And girls - well girls always stare at me. I haven't figured out why yet. I always fee like i must have some...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    I am neither a gynecologist nor a proctologist but I will take a look at it for free if you want me too ladies.
    LordGrayson LordGrayson 46-50, M 1 Response Oct 31

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    I consider myself bisexual, but prefer girls (atm anyway). Guys just treat me like crap, only want 1 thing, and they're crap at it. Girls are sweet, gentle, fun, forfilling...
    theB1tchX theB1tchX 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    Just because I tend to like girls more than guys, it doesn't mean I don't like guys
    metalchick18 metalchick18 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    After this guy i had been so deeply inlove with. I never thought someone will come and let me feel this thing again. Love. You've been so good, talkative, and really lovable. You...
    eumi eumi 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    One time a gf lost a toy on there and I had to dig around and fish it out. She was very new to toys and was very scared - but daddy saved the day...
    peterxom999 peterxom999 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 31

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    YAY ME BIRTHDAY IN 12 DAYS!!!! XD
    TetraZL TetraZL 13-15, F Oct 26

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    Funniest group yet....................
    MartellofDorne MartellofDorne 46-50, M Oct 31

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    Just wanted somewhere to write this I guess. I got in a pretty serious relationship when I just turned 17 and it was great for the most part, we could spend whole days together...
    dch29 dch29 22-25, M Oct 28

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    I have a crush on this guy. I don't talk to him. I know his mother. I say hello to his sister. He sooooooooo hot. He a white guy. I love white guys. He probably white and Spanish...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Hydrokinesis Manipulation. November 11th. at 7:35pm, my mother called for my help in order to flip a 5Gallon. water Jug into an Empty 5gallon jug for our water cooler... the hole...
    icey1 icey1 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 12

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    But this is a real problem in my little town. Most of my friends are straight and the dating pool is already small for them, (so it's even smaller for me.) I like feminine girls...
    ArdenWasHere ArdenWasHere 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 23

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    HAPPY BELATED 14 TO MEEE!! Like what my parents say, 1 year older, 1 year wiser. Gonna have a great dinner feast in about 30mins. I have invited friends to come over to the party...
    TetraZL TetraZL 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    That's right, I'm black and I LOVE white girls. They're so attractive, calm, cute, and so beautiful. My very favorite is a girl that has natural blonde hair and blue eyes. I've...
    YoungSwagTheRapper YoungSwagTheRapper 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 11

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    Hey ... Myself am karthika, and This is just, a little about me, Am a girl attracted to girls, I don't know exactly when I was into girls but I consider at the age of 16 I find...
    shiningbeautykarthika shiningbeautykarthika 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 25

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    Last night, when driving back home, I felt so relaxed, fulfilled and light. Wearing a smile, listening to the music playing, I searched for the reason for the way I was feeling...
    Meyouusyou Meyouusyou 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 13

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    I'm turning 19 soon, but I'm kind of petite in size: 5'4 and 110. People who don't know me think I'm between 15-17 years old.
    chocolatecurlz chocolatecurlz 18-21, F Nov 13

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    I been with my guy for 6 year we have 2 kids together we r both 30 and he has no idea I been sleeping with girls behind his back I was goin to tell him a few years ago but then he...
    faith84leanne faith84leanne 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 25

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    I'm perfectly flawed, so I always appreciate everyone's differences. People that say "She/He is ugly" must stare hard at that Mirror because they are NOT the true beauty they...
    beloved03 beloved03 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 2

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    Eyes tell you everything...they can lie, hurt, cheat, love, cry, laugh, lust, desire and so much more...They essentially tell you whatever you need to know about the person and...
    prettyface1 prettyface1 46-50, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm 62 yo man and I just love 30yo girls, had a couple of relations and enjoyed every moment, and they have to be slim, tall and bohemian/artistic... people tell me to stop chasing...
    jussiw jussiw 61-65, M 4 Responses Nov 5

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    they look so segoi!!!!!give me some
    loveybugy loveybugy 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 8

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    When I was a young boy I was attracted to older women (late teens and 20's). Now that I am older I am attracted to younger girls but here is the interesting part, I am still...
    kingdaddyo kingdaddyo 46-50, M Nov 14

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    Yeah I'm a guy,straight and love wearing hollister jeans,love how they look and fit on me,I bought a pair by accendent at a thrift store,and fell in love with them,I wear all the...
    denimman2014 denimman2014 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I guess I like girls, but I'm bisexual and like boys too. If I had to describe myself I would say I'm moe-ish. [Moe: Japanese Slang; Something that is cute] My friends always...
    PsychedelicSmile PsychedelicSmile 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I guess I like girls, but I'm bisexual and like boys too, but I guess I fantasize about being with a girl more than a boy. I guess I also have a hard time saying my true feelings...
    PsychedelicSmile PsychedelicSmile 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I like beautiful girls but they don't like me
    ivansognatore ivansognatore 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 26

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    I absolutely love girls with freckles, especially when they're natural redheads. The more the better, I don't really know why I just do.
    Crazycoral84 Crazycoral84 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 26

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    I like blonde girls but they are out of my league cause i'm not blonde
    ivansognatore ivansognatore 22-25, M Oct 27

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    Some people may think it is racist but I love black girls because for some reason they just have really great character.
    wabbey wabbey 13-15 2 Responses Nov 2

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    I love girls but at the same time they terrify me xD
    Chloeeee17 Chloeeee17 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 3

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    I would love to play with and experiment with girls, but they're so hard to find in my conservative town.
    BeautifulSoul408 BeautifulSoul408 18-21, F Nov 4

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    I have a crush on two girls at my school and they are both black. One is named katelyn, short, pretty, athletic, and loves soccer, the cute kind of chubby. Aiyana: average hight...
    bisexuwhale bisexuwhale 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 13

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    Okay, so basically I had a girlfriend around 3/4 years ago. We had gone out for 2 years but I was attending university so we decided (/I decided) we should go our separate ways...
    shellofaboy shellofaboy 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 6

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    I sit here tonight, bored with time and money on my hands. I like younger girls but never get anytime to meet them. Where are you all?
    softants softants 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 10

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    Only one girl. For 7 years. Since 7th grade when I met her to now I still get butterflies when I talk to her. She's straight and I've known and understood that so I made a promise...
    LustlyVareDe LustlyVareDe 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 26

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