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I Stare At Girls But Turn Away As Soon As They Look At Me

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    I Hate This.

    I'm bi, so I guess it's not really weird that I stare at girls, but I feel really guilty doing it. I don't even have a real pattern to who I stare at either. One time I'll be staring at a gorgeous blonde and be wondering to myself what her life is like. Another time I'll stare...
    KaBe22 KaBe22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 16, 2010

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    I'm Doing That With Someone Right Now.

    There is this woman in the same coffee house as me. I've seen her here before, and she has some kind of allure that I don't quite know how to articulate. I am stealing so many glances her way that I can't get much writing done. She seems a very confident and able woman, and she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 19, 2010

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    Haha

    I have been guilty of this more times than I care to admit. lol
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2010

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    Most of the Time Yes I Do

    I guess it's because I am a lot older than most that I look at.  I don't want them to think I am a lecherous old perv because I have always admired the beauty of a woman.  The way the conduct themselves, the way they feel the need to dress in something other than...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 12, 2008

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    Everywhere I Go

    I'm a bit of a people watcher - so i always watch everyone. I never 'stare' though. I just love looking at people. Watching their expressions and all that. And girls - well girls always stare at me. I haven't figured out why yet. I always fee like i must have some...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 5, 2009

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    I Spend A Lot Of Time At Coffee Houses

    So, I spend a lot of time turning away from girls/women as soon as they look at me. This is very distracting when someone is trying to write. I wish I knew what would have to happen to make me stop staring at, and looking at, and thinking about the women. Well, I don't know. And...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 14, 2010

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    Oh Missing Commuting Partner

    Not that I knew her I just loved her from afar. So cute and nice to everyone around her. but alas I am a chicken and never talk to the women around me whom I fine so damn sexy Maybe int he next life I will have more balls.
    KaysFun KaysFun 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2008

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    Oh, Pretty Ladies...

    While I do not consider myself bi-sexual, I can't seem to help myself when it comes to having crushes and feeling attracted to certain girls. This especially happens on campus at my university. There's been several occasions when I spot a blindingly adorable girl (or maybe sit...
    de1eted de1eted 13-15 3 Responses Sep 26, 2010

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    Its Simple

    I see a girl I like and I cant help but look. soon as I see her start to look my way I quickly look away. Then when its all said and done I try to pretend she does not exist. Not like she would want me anyways :/
    Krie Krie 22-25, M Mar 24, 2012

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    I Can Get Away With It

    I look at some women all the time.  Not as a straight woman checking out my competition or see what's in style now.  I look at some women because I find them attractive.  If they see me looking, I can get away with it.  They don't know I'm a lesbian.
    WarriorMom WarriorMom 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 14, 2008

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    Need a Gaydar Update.

    I don't want them to catch me looking because it might make them feel uncomfortable. My gaydar is off all the time, so I don't really want to make straight girls uncomfortable.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I read all these experiences of others on here, some stories are so interesting. I want to see one yet I don't because I know I'll be so freaked out. My husband does not believe in...
    aburns aburns 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    I have a bad habit of pushing people away. I try not to though. When I go through hard times of numerous sorts, my first instinct is to push people away. I have this mad desire...
    topsykrit topsykrit 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 19

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    I love chubby girls, I wish I was one myself! I've only recently admitted to myself that I love bigger girls, but I have my whole life. I would always stare and admire big bellies...
    butteryboo butteryboo 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    In my prep school the headmistress decided that all the pupils must wear the girls' regulation school uniform and p e kit . There were only a few boys in each class . They all...
    nickycherub nickycherub 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 18

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    I'm nineteen years old and I've never been in a relationship, and it's really starting to bum me out! Gay girls never notice me because I dress pretty femme. I'm like turning away...
    WaveOn WaveOn 18-21, F Dec 3

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    "Why We Like Girls" The truth is out there. They will always smell good even if its just shampoo. The way their heads always find the right spot on our shoulder. How cute they...
    dreamchaser23 dreamchaser23 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    this post is for straight guys and guys and women as well that do not flip out about jokes that include some sexism...and please if you are a woman, read the whole thing .. it's...
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    It's really hard for me to try and relate to other girls because I'm just different. While they're looking at which lipstick looks best on them and talking about guys and make up...
    Vagabond01 Vagabond01 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    I was quite flexible at my age but wasn't the most flexible person ever but uh yea sisters suck ***. :| So it started at age ten that I realized I was pretty flexible. Now of...
    Timelord47 Timelord47 18-21 Dec 13

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    I mean I'm 21 but I'm told I look like 16 or 17 It actually sucks because people treat me like a child and when I tell them my age they just stare at me in disbelief :P I take care...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 4

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    It’s been two months. two months since I last heard your voice. Heard you say my name, heard you tell me you love me. It’s been two months since I’ve been happy and...
    ohglob ohglob 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    When i'm on the beach i always try to make sure that my bulge is really showing.I love to see the eyes of boys and girls of all ages as they steal a look at what i have.The nicest...
    whitepantyman whitepantyman 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 16

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    Oh I do! I really really do a lot. You can't have the least of the least idea how much I still do. But the only irony of this all that she suddenly stopped and turned away; no...
    DAKtheligislator DAKtheligislator 26-30, M Nov 30

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    I tried of trying to get in girlfriends but I seen that they would only go for the "bad boys" I'm 6'2 brown hair Spanish chubby but I'm nice funny respectful kind Loving but when I...
    idkusername123 idkusername123 18-21, M Dec 4

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    I need run away soon I dead inside
    matrixwolf matrixwolf 16-17, M Dec 6

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    I've been in a rough patch with my life, I'm 18 and I've been bi for five years, I've dated two girls but it's been secret, my parents have never known, both of my parents are...
    Kamberxo Kamberxo 18-21, F 7 Responses Dec 8

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    **** can't deal with family and other problems. I want to cut so bad right now, but hey if I do I can get sent away sooner......maybe a drink or a cigaret can help cause just screw...
    BooBear99 BooBear99 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 13

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    OMG so fvcking damn right!!! Emo and Scene girls gets me soo much!!! They are soo adorable OMG and also even when they're lesbians!!! It would be so much fun!!! OMGGGGG!!!!
    xxBoyishGirlxx xxBoyishGirlxx 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    I'm a big fan of bigger females. I enjoy how they look and about the confidence of the ones that accept that they're larger.Knowing in their heart and soul, that it is a very good...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M Dec 14

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    a lot of people say that life does not come with instructions and i agree with that. my parents call themselves Christians but i just dont agree. and the pastor in my church says...
    kimberllytsy kimberllytsy 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Girls are the hottest when they only got on a big t-shirt, maybe some panties or a thong and their hair tied up in a bun.
    IDCFUKK IDCFUKK 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 16

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    I have this idea at some point I will run away, the only thing holding me back is my favourite kid in the world (my little brother) who understands me, in a family of 7 people, my...
    Guanabana Guanabana 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I met a guy online, I didn't expect that we'd end up like this. It has been 2 years since we started talking. I met him on omegle and he's from Scotland, he's going to a university...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 12

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    I had my first feelings towards girls when I was 13. I wondered if I was gay but I also liked boys. I settled on bisexual and continued into high school. I was cursed with having a...
    Sapphire89 Sapphire89 22-25 Dec 14

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    I sometimes day dream about girls, but I'm straight i just want to know what it feels like feel free to message me
    neverose neverose 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    With the conversations I've had with people on here, I've realized that I prefer to talk to people for a long time before seeing what they really look like... Or just not seeing...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 9

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    There, I said it. I really am attracted to teen girls, but I've never pursued them in any way. But I can't help but notice them when I see them. I'm also attracted to older women...
    FartrellCluggins FartrellCluggins 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 14

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    I'm just given no freedom at home and I just want to go and be free. Once I can drive and have a car, I might just drive away and never look back. I won't even care where I end up...
    MyFriendPug MyFriendPug 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 14

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    I'm starting to like someone and I dont even know what they look like lol :L
    racheldoyle00 racheldoyle00 18-21, F 14 Responses Dec 3

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    I love cute boy like butch women . I also like some girly girls but the right butch chick , yum .
    certifiable certifiable 70+, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    When you see someone on the street , and you think ( omg she's ugly ,fat,weird) well don't judge them by what they look like ok . I saw a girl getting beat up all because she was...
    zoeylove145 zoeylove145 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 19

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    I Was In Love I started when I became friends with a girl named Emyle (pronounced Emily). We were both nerdy and awkward so we were good friends. After a little while, I...
    Megato11 Megato11 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Spot the fake 101. 1) They will have pictures of "perfect" model quality women. The 10. Granted yes hot perfect people exist buuuuuut on social media hey most of us are "normal...
    Ownedforaprice Ownedforaprice 22-25, F 10 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    And unfortunately I lost a best friend because of that. I was best friends with a very smart and mesmerizingly beautiful Korean girl in all of my middle school years and we were...
    CursedWithABlessing CursedWithABlessing 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    Alright so I was once really good friends with this boy {we'll call him S} since kindergarten. He was my escape from having to fit in with the nasty girls I went to school with...