I Start To Worry If I Dont Hear From You

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 547 People

    Considerate

    I do worry if I don't hear from a man I am in a relationship with.  I don't have to talk to him all the time but I like to know where he is and that he is okay.  A simple text or email will do if you are too busy to call.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Feb 26, 2010

    It was much easier when I hadn't heard from him

    in months. Now I worry everyday if I don't hear from him. Stop the fighting. Bring them back home.
    tyk19 tyk19
    31-35, F
    May 12, 2014

    Please choose any of the ff reasons: abducted

    by aliens, ran off with someone else, joined a cult, became a militant activist, swallowed by a sinkhole, held hostage, hit by a fast moving truck, disappeared into thin air....give me ANY excuse but don't make me sit and wait.
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe
    46-50, F
    1 Response May 13, 2015

    I am a worrier. I get it from my mom,

    if I don't call her daily she thinks I am dead. If I don't get a text or message from someone I always think the worst. If I am your friend expect me to worry about you a lot. I can't help it.
    Nikolasmom Nikolasmom
    41-45, F
    Aug 14, 2015

    Not Good For My Imagination

    With my vivid imagination it's never a good idea to leave me to my own devices and allow my mind to wonder too much in devising a reason as to what might have happened to you.  For my own sanity I will ask you to take two minutes to contact me and let me know everything is ok...
    snowberry75 snowberry75
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 9, 2011

    I hate to admit this.

    But there are moments when I wish I never met you at all. The pain you put me through as each day passes is unbearable. If this is how it all ends then it wasn't worth it at all.
    LavenderDarling LavenderDarling
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    Please... ):

    I worry when it's been an hour since you got off work and you haven't called.... Or when we talk every day at a certain time and I don't hear from you.... Some may call it clingy..... Hey maybe they are right... ):
    RogueAngelWithoutWings RogueAngelWithoutWings
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2011

    Repeat.

    blah blah blah so happy together.but then he's gone. for weeks.i understand the distance.and you try to communicate with me as often as possible.but maybe it's just not enough anymore.i need to have you here when i need you. and when i dont.i want to be around you enough to be...
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2011

    Maybe Too Much

    Yeah at night when my girlfriend is driving home I freak if she doesn't text me at different point marks we made lol. Sometimes she forgets, and drives all the way home without saying anything. Then I call and she goes, "Yeah, I'm just getting out the shower".. -_- really? lol I...
    Thumpur Thumpur
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2011

    I just feel really terrible

    and broken right now.
    SaveTheGeek SaveTheGeek
    18-21, F
    Sep 25, 2014

    I'm Sorry, But....

    I don't think you call or text me nearly enough, considering the relationship we have.  I wouldn't know if you're hurt, dead, or just plain ignoring me.  When I bring it up to you, you're like "You act like I never call you."   Once every 3 days is not enough...
    patchworkofmistakes patchworkofmistakes
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 25, 2010

    I Care...even If You Don't Know It.

    I have friends on EP who disappear from time to time. This is understandable. We all have lives besides the Internet. Right? But some of them, I have really gotten to know and care about. I have listened to their stories and talked with them about their problems. when they are...
    NoWhereToGoButUp NoWhereToGoButUp
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 6, 2010

    Internet Friends

    I have a fair number of relatively close friends in my everyday non-cyber life.  Sometimes I go a week or ten days without talking to them, and unless I know for certain there is something that might be a cause of concern happening in their lives, I don't worry at all.  I...
    cedricsmom cedricsmom
    36-40, F
    May 31, 2010

    Is it so wrong of me to feel this way?

    When I do not hear from you I feel sad and my heart aches. I hate this feeling. Why do you disappear when you know I do not like it? Why have you not at least sent me good morning texts like you usually do? I keep wondering what you are up to and what is going in that mind of...
    Julieta30 Julieta30
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 5, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 10, 2015

    Keep In Contact

    If I am your friend and I do not hear from you for awhile I start to worry that something bad has happened to you as I take care of my friends to the best of my ability. I prefer taking care of other people instead of me.
    kthimm12 kthimm12
    18-21, F
    Mar 14, 2011

    2 Whole Days :(

    Ahhh man, I hadnt talked to my honey in 2 whole days...until this morning! I was getting so worried, it was killing me. I hate when this happens. I start to think something bad happened or that I did something wrong. Ive always been this way, even before the deployment. Once, I...
    MissingMySoldier80 MissingMySoldier80
    26-30, F
    Mar 1, 2010

    When

    I don't hear from people, I often start to feel rejection.  I know that sounds stupid and childish.  And a lot of times I wish I was not like that, but I am.  But, when hear from them, I kind of feel important and that people need and want to talk to me.  I...
    BamaBabe87 BamaBabe87
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 24, 2010

    Yeah. Like I broke up with you last night.

    .. I left you, addicted to crack and destitute, the only beam of light in your world, you said. Then you told me you might jump off a bridge. I haven't heard from you since you said that last night and I'm starting to worry, Even though almost everything you told me turned out to...
    prettyprude prettyprude
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Sep 24, 2014

    It's been 4 days! 😢 wth has happened 2 u?

    😭 I'm going crazy over here!
    blindangel92 blindangel92
    22-25, F
    Mar 30, 2015

    I'm a bit of an over protective friend.

    If I don't hear from you in a while I will assume the worst.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 24, 2015

    Well, I Used To

    I used to worry when I didn't hear from you, but now it's so commonplace that I'm more surprised when I hear from you than when I don't. >_>
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    Feb 26, 2011

    Pick Up

    I mostly get worried if my mom and boyfriend dont pick up there phone cause i think something bad happen to them. My mind starts to race to all the bad stuff that could have happen and that drives me crazy.
    eyeslikestars eyeslikestars
    26-30, F
    Mar 26, 2010

    I'm Worried

    I'm worried,My friend hasn't returned,No phone call,It's nearly 2:00am,Wish he'd ring,If I was going to be late,I'd phone,Should've been the same,When he's back,have I got something to say!
    cndrewdrvr8 cndrewdrvr8
    46-50, M
    Sep 9, 2011

    Worry To Much.

    Well, I guess I've been this way all my life. Whenever I don't talk to someone I care about for prolonged amounts of time, I tend to worry about them a lot. Its not exactly like I freak out when people don't talk to me, hell I'm fine when people just don't want to talk, I don't...
    Nemesisfrank Nemesisfrank
    18-21, M
    Jul 17, 2011
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