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I Started A T-gurl Coffee Shop - Join Me

Being a starbucks Barrista I have a chance to see groups of ladies come in everyday just a place to unwind, from kids, the hubbie, boy friends, Work. 522 People

    I was at a dinner party last week.

    There were about 15 people in attendance, many were young, under 30 and many of those there, I barely knew. No I wasn't fully in Fem but I was dressed in a very feminine sea green knit sweater, pearl necklace and my black skinny jeans, a little mascara and a lite lipstick. No...
    sissysurfer sissysurfer 61-65, T 1 Response Nov 25, 2015

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    A Fourteen Stage Model Of Transsexual Identity Formation

    I was chatting to Ellefem today and she said something that reminded me of this, so as promised. This is an excerpt (summary of the stages) from "Witnessing and Mirroring: A Fourteen Stage Model of Transsexual Identity Formation" By Aaron H. Devor, Ph.D For the time being, the...
    lizagirl69 lizagirl69 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    ...but You Have Changed

    Me and my bride keep discussing the same item. She.says can't look at me the same way. I say that I am still the same person. If I am not taking hormones, I am not dressing, then nothing has changed. She argues that her perception of me has changed. That is where I get...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 4 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    I apologize if I posted this in the wrong

    experience but I couldn't think of how I really feel. I just feel like I am on such an edge and need somewhere to vent. So this is it for me. I am getting ready to tell off therapist #4 tomorrow morning at my next appointment since I can't seem to make any connection once...
    Jaclyn9 Jaclyn9 36-40, T 2 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    Future Unknown

    Our nightly routine includes just talking. We talk about my brides crazy issues, then we talk about mine. So many questions. I feel most like Brenda when we talk. One question that came up is why am I transgender? Now, I have asked that question to myself many times...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 9 Responses Jul 29, 2012

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    To those of us GURLS

    that struggle everyday with our hidden feminine Spirits, just believe that WE are Perfection of Diversity! Live from the Heart Lol
    sissysurfer sissysurfer 61-65, T 2 Responses Nov 12, 2015

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    am just crazy about "makin it" with well hung

    black men. they are so big and sexy and gorgeous "down there" I'm addicted
    tinytutu48in tinytutu48in 51-55, T Dec 25, 2015

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    Saying Goodbye To My Manhood

    I am slowly saying goodbye to my manhood. No, I am not getting srs...for now, anyway. I am not sad; maybe I should be. I have never really been all that good at being a man. More often than not, my wife took the lead. I tried to be the aggressive parent when it came to...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 5 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    An Update

    I know I haven't been on here in a while, my life has been rather crazy lately. I was offered a full time position where I work and accepted it, despite not liking all of the conditions; but it was that or unemployment again. The condition that I don't like is a discrimination...
    lizagirl69 lizagirl69 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    I came for some coffee.

    ..If anyone would ever like to join me, I'm always around somewhere XD
    Jewelina Jewelina 31-35, T 3 Responses Dec 11, 2015

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    A Time To Enjoy

    Ladies, I do so love the T-gurl Coffee Shop idea. I have truely enjoyed reading through your stories and I feel like I am getting to know you. This evening I sit here at my computer enjoying your company as I start a weeks worth of dessing to suit my feminine side. The wife has...
    DonnaSt DonnaSt 66-70, M 6 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    The Total Package

    it is not just one thing for me, it is the total package. nylons panties short skirt and low cut tank top. i was out the other day like that and i had 3 men making all over me for there attention, it was great, i love men who try to show off for me
    closet36 closet36 61-65, T 1 Response Jun 5, 2012

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    Another Crossroad Traversed -- Name Change Is Filed ...

    It is done with a shakey hand I entered the post office looking left and right as I see who is there. I gingerly select a large envelope, slide my birth cert and the for for my name change with a check for $165 into the envelope, close it up and steady my hand to write the...
    Alasandra Alasandra 51-55, F 11 Responses Sep 5, 2012

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    I Was Blocked After Being Asked To Add?!?!?

    yesterday a guy send me a request to add him.  He had read one of my experiences and really liked it.  I sent him back a message that I appreciated him liking my story and that I would check his profile out and let him know.  He then sent two gestures and two gifts.  Ok, nice...
    Ellefem Ellefem 51-55, T 15 Responses Mar 18, 2012

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    What Single Clothing Item Makes You Feel Most Fem?

    In another topic the subject came up -- What is the clothing item that you wear that makes you most feminine?many many choices, Nylons, corsets, thongs (sigh) Bra's, Tampons (lol) the field is wide open, LETS HEAR IT GIRLS!!!!
    Alasandra Alasandra 51-55, F 36 Responses May 18, 2012

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    Learn To Fly

    Run and tell all of the angels This could take all night Think I need a devil to help me get things right Hook me up a new revolution Cause this one is a lie We sat around laughing and watched the last one die I'm looking to the sky to save me Looking for a sign of life Looking...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T Oct 16, 2012

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    An Update. On February 1,

    2014; I finally started my HRT. Within 3 weeks I was seeing changes.
    lizagirl69 lizagirl69 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 26, 2014

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    Thanks Cracker Barrel

    Today we had to keep my fourteen year old out of school today. We had to take him to the doctor. He has streph. Since the 14 year old was not having the easiest time with food we let him choose. He chose Cracker Barrel. He wanted chicken and dumplings. Our wait person...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 3 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    I realized what I love about my Journey into

    Femininity, yes it is the fact that finally get to express myself as a Woman and wear the gorgeous variety of women's clothing, but there is something much more important to me. That thing that I love, about my Journey is the Circle of Women that are excepting me as one of them...
    sissysurfer sissysurfer 61-65, T Dec 11, 2015

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    ​Blonde or brunette - can't decide

    which look I like better so I'd love others advice here. Have a great day! 
    Jaclyn9 Jaclyn9 36-40, T 5 Responses Oct 26, 2015

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    Southern Girl

    Hello Ladies, I also just found the "Coffee Shop" I love the idea. I am a married [unhappily] CD/TG guess Tg is more like it I have been on HRT for 18 months so have changed quite a bit. I am retired so this was a factor in begining transition. I live in...
    dly645 dly645 56-60, T 18 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    Pink Essence

    Has anyone joined or are members of http://pinkessence.com/? I've joined it, but no quite sure if I belong there or not since I'm not out of the closet.  Anyone have any experience with the site?  Thoughts, Opinons, etc. would be greatly appreciated!
    Ellefem Ellefem 51-55, T 4 Responses Oct 29, 2012

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    I can't think of anything except well hung

    beautiful black men, and pretty sissy white boys
    tinytutu48in tinytutu48in 51-55, T Nov 19, 2015

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    Should I Just Order A Strap-on For My Wife And She What She Does When It Arrives?

    I am on the fence for this one, I have read about prostate stimulation. I sat on the fence all day and when I was logging into ebay I saw her account was last logged into from my laptop, so I went ahead and using her account I have a nice one on the way. When it comes in Ill...
    Alasandra Alasandra 51-55, F 9 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Great Idea

    Hi girls....this is a great thing and i hope to meet lots of new girl friends here.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 10, 2012

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    National Coming Out Day

    October 11, 2012 national coming out day. This was the goal I had sat for myself. Come hell or high water I was going to tell my wife I was transgender. Well, I came out to her on July 17, 2012. Those of you that gotten to know me know how we have progressed. I thought...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 3 Responses Oct 7, 2012

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    PINK NEWS....online news advice

    for the latest world news that concerns us in the LBGT Community. Read it GURLS! Stay informed and OPEN!!!!
    sissysurfer sissysurfer 61-65, T 1 Response Nov 21, 2015

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    Ok What Happens Now?

    A week and a half out of the closet. From about 10pm until about 1am we talk. She is still unsure. Can she stay with me? She is not sure. Sometimes I am still a man to her. Sometimes I am a woman. It is all about perception to her. Even though she hasn't met Brenda Karen...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 7 Responses Jul 27, 2012

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    Happy Holidays Girls!

    !! I apologize for not writing as of late. So many big things are happening for me, I just can't believe what exactly what I feared all those years. The more I open up to people, friends and family, the more compassion, understanding, and love has come back to me. I feel so...
    sissysurfer sissysurfer 61-65, T 1 Response Dec 11, 2015

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    I Live Kinda By The Bay Area

    I live in watsonville like an hour down of San Francisco im looking for some one to treat me nice and be understanding of my feminine side if I could experiment at my pace it would be so nice.also if somebody wants to chat that's ok too cause currently I am a male to female and...
    Nataliefs Nataliefs 26-30, T 4 Responses Mar 1, 2013

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    Role Models?

    In another story someone was talking about showing genetic females generosity and appreciation, then topic got to role models. Those questions are easily answered, but what about something harder. What.about transgender role models. I would say number one for me is...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 5 Responses Jul 1, 2012

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    The Most Beautiful Transgender Women.

    On another site someone had posted the 15 most beautiful transgender ladies. One of the ladies was someone named Candy Darling. Of the famous Lou Reed song Walk on the Wildside. The lyric goes, Candy grew up on Long Island. In the backroom she was everybody's darling; but...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 5 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    Point Of No Return

    A friend of mine from another Blog site has just completed grs. While she is healing she has been posting a lot of questions on varying topics. Its not like I cheat on ep; I rarely post on the other site. One question she posted I just cant get out of my head. For you...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 4 Responses Oct 16, 2012

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    I Came Out Today

    I did it. After 38 years I came out of the closet to my wife. It went like I expected. I hurt her. I wish I could take it back. Betrayed, facade, pretending, lied to, not who I thought you were, were some of the phrases. She said that she thinks back and feels like our sex...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 12 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    A Possible Theme Song For Our Coffee Shop

    I have been thinking about a theme song for our Coffee Shop. I think that I found one, but it is just an idea. I spoke to Tiff about it, she and I agree that it should be up to all of us. The following is a copy of the Wikipedia writeup found at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki...
    lizagirl69 lizagirl69 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 12, 2012

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    About Filing Taxes As A Married Couple After You Go Into Transition In The Usa

    I found out today that thru the Defense of marriage act, a couple that is married as an opposite sex couple, is considered in the same group even if one of the partners gets into transition. So if you filed jointly, then one went thru transition the same filing jointly applies...
    Alasandra Alasandra 51-55, F Oct 1, 2012

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    love this idea. I'm hoping to get to chat,

    and get to know like minded gurls. there is thousands of us sissies, but no one ever talks about their feelings, and likes. come on gurls, here's your place to confess, learn, talk about cloths, men, women, fun things you do. or just visit.
    tinytutu48in tinytutu48in 51-55, T 2 Responses Nov 20, 2015

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    If I Had It All To Do Over

    A question everyone is asked at some point. If you had to live your life over again; knowing what you know now, would you do it? Most people answer no. Most people by age 40 have some contentment. Their roles are cement. The relationships they have are set in stone. Then...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 2 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    Hey Ladies

    Well I think it's time to settle on one doctor the doctor visit today was not so good I really need to get a doctor who really cares.
    RJ43 RJ43 46-50, T Oct 23, 2012

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    Salon Day

    Since I have yet to start to transition. I get few opportunities to express Brenda. One of those opportunities is salon day. Once a month me and my wife go to the salon together. I get a manicure, pedicure, and get my eyebrows shaped. I get a clear coat on my toe nails and...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 1 Response Oct 10, 2012

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    Hormones

    So how many of you girls have taken hormones? Herbs?  Thought about it?  I've done the herbs, some good, some bad.  I've also played with the hormones.  Self medicated.  Currently I'm doing 2 mg/day of estrogen under the tongue. Mainly it helps calm me down and takes the TG...
    Ellefem Ellefem 51-55, T 13 Responses Sep 26, 2012

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    My Dragon Slayer

    In her book She's Not The Man I married, Helen Boyd talks about what drew her to her partner Betty Crow. She said that maybe it was because her husband Betty had a dragon to slay. Looking back, I can relate. 24 years ago when I met my wonderful bride lets call her Rebecca...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 2 Responses Oct 13, 2012

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    I soooooo wish my exwife would have clipped

    (emasculated ) me, and kept me for her amusement.
    tinytutu48in tinytutu48in 51-55, T 1 Response Nov 19, 2015

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    My Winters Heart

    Winter is almost here. My favorite time of year. The days shorten. The wind flows freely through the trees; springs leaves nothing but a memory to the smooth branches. I know some of my sisters in parts of the country and world are saying "she is crazy". Well; yeah, we...
    brendakaitlin brendakaitlin 36-40, T 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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