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I Stayed In a Relationship When I Knew He Was Cheating

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    Just A Question

    If you know that he is going to cheat, shouldn't you plan to cheat too? You knew he was going to, you stayed with him anyway, so shouldn't you be allowed to have some on the side as well? Just asking.
    rocktheduece rocktheduece 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 21, 2011

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    Hello, I'm Rose ( Not real name ) I recently

    found out that this guy I have been talking too for months has been cheating on his Gf with me... I had no clue at all that he had another secret life. He's been dating his gf for about 2 years now, oh yeah by the way he's 20 about to be 21! And I'm 15 he has no clue I'm 15 I...
    BieberBabe13 BieberBabe13 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I Finally Left!

    Because I was in love, and naive, and he was one hell of a smooth talker.  He could sell a pair of 500 dollar shoes to a person with legs.  Do I have regrets, yes and no.  I loved him, and I learned a lot about myself and the world by being with him; but that was hell on...
    JustBernieGirl JustBernieGirl 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 15, 2011

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    I Keep Thinking He'Ll Learn

    Oh he's learning alright. Learning exactly how to not get caught again. It all started when I was 8 months pregnant with our first child. A thank you for your flower purchase came in the mail. I didn't get any flowers so I called him to find out what was going on. He didn't...
    klady23 klady23 26-30, F Apr 5, 2013

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    Just Like a Salesman

      He was the "good times" guy. He was fun. He was kinda dumb. But he had some panache that my previous aerospace engineer boyfriend had lacked. He was good at grand gestures...New York for the weekend, ten dozen roses for my birthday. But on the card? He spelled...
    serenityprayer serenityprayer 31-35, F Jun 30, 2009

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    Broken

    Its finally over but the memory of that relationship still haunts me.He was a serial womanizer but i was only 18 so being young & naive I thought i could change him. He was controlling & possesive-slept with girls who I thought were my friends behind my back & told...
    angelwingz angelwingz 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    Reason Enough

    I expected him to cheat. In fact, when he asked me to marry him, I assumed he meant a marriage in name only.  After all, he was gay.  And not that closeted, repressed, nobody knows kind of gay.  No, he was out, proud, and had already confronted everyone who might have a...
    RascallyRabbit RascallyRabbit 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 12, 2011

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    Just One Time?

    In retrospect it seems stupid. It's the one thing I swore I'd never do. I tolerated cheating. The first time was when he kissed her in my room during my party. Thrice they made out during my party. I knew, yet I kept quite. When he confessed and swore to never do it again, I...
    xSilverWillowx xSilverWillowx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    I am in a relationship in

    which my bf cheated on me. it is difficult for me because his cheating this time is physical and emotional. I still want him and love him very much because I see a home in him. When I take a time off with him, I can't seem to function. Maybe I love him more than I love myself...
    mrnlq mrnlq 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    Am I The Only One?

    Many times I find myself asking this question. Especially here recently.. I'm not sure why I joined this website or why I'm writing this. Maybe because its easier to share my feeling with a group of stangers?becauseI'm not sure who can even view this. I just feel like I've held...
    cb333 cb333 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 19, 2013

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    As long as you don't bring it home.

    I found out. Twice. He is not a very good liar or cheater so that didn't last
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 14

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    I Know Exactly When You First Became Infatuated With Her

    Something was going on emotionally if not physically before you vanished.
    BPBitch BPBitch 41-45, F Feb 2, 2013

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    I Never Listened

    My ex and I recently broke up a couple months ago. He and I were dating for over a year and were madly in love with each other. So I thought. From the very start when we first met, his mom never liked me. She was so in love with his ex girlfriend. After time I thought she liked...
    justanordinarygirl23 justanordinarygirl23 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2013

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    She was drunk more. We met at a club. Danced a little. Drank some. Then took a cab to her place. We had just started making out on the couch in her living room when she...
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    I did play video games and watch TV a little, but I was mostly outside either playing with my friends, killing/capturing bees, or both. I haven't killed a single bee in my new...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 27

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    My friend slept over, when we decided to sneak out and meet up with her boyfriend who was like 16. He had cruisers, rum, vodka, and lemonade we were all sitting on the dirt tracks...
    Perdonal Perdonal 13-15 1 Response Dec 8

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    okay...here's a tale. I took some education tests in the Fifth Grade In the sixth grade, I had an unstable time, moving from school to school, exploring the different educational...
    SShawnO SShawnO 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I was new to the United States and didn't speak the language add to that that I was and still am shy. This girl would push me or punch my arm in the hallway for no reason. I try to...
    LunaSolTierra LunaSolTierra 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I was invited to another boys house to play he was in my class in school and his mom and my mom were friends he was a bit of a mammies boy or so I thought before I went to his...
    strictdaddy strictdaddy 46-50, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    The cost of my time cannot be measured by tangible earthly possessions. I cannot place a value to how much my time costs as we are not guaranteed a specific number of days so if I...
    Jerseygirl72 Jerseygirl72 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    One day I was at a softball game and we were just warming up. He couldn't find the balls so we were just standing there. Well some lady is walking toward the bleachers( it is a...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    I watched my pastors wife spank her daughter we were real close in age she has a mean swing her mom was like a mom to me she saw me standing there said some day this might b you...
    unspankablebrat80 unspankablebrat80 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 2

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    My aunt was 15 and I was 8, she was the most gorgeous girl around, at least in my opinion back on those days. I still love her but I know that I will never have her again
    keekhe keekhe 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    I was about 5 or 6 sitting by my front door for my neighbor to come and play with me After about 5 minutes his mom dragged him outside pulled down his pants and spanked him with a...
    Noaz45 Noaz45 18-21, M Dec 7

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    that's good. You like it when they did it?
    gyty gyty 13-15, M Dec 11

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    I was diagnosed right before my third birthday with acute lymphatic leukemia or a.l.l . Had to go to a nearby Children's Hospital for chemotherapy . The chemo save me, but about 13...
    ImJustJen ImJustJen 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    Today while I was out for lunch a mother and her probably 8 or 9 year old daughter were eating across from me and a friend of mine. After many warning of the girls behavior her...
    Mattymatt9 Mattymatt9 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 13

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    I was 8 when it all started. Mostly for my color because everyone here in this town is white.. But then it got worse for my weight and teeth. Then it went to name calling and...
    janaeBoo janaeBoo 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 17

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    I was physically bullied in 3rd,4th,5th, and 6th grade. I have been mentally bullied all my life. I mean I've tried to fit in more than once but it doesn't work. Most of the...
    Pinkaboo168 Pinkaboo168 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    bully through elementary and middle school thats when i got sick of it became an ******* towards people and friends i wanted to fit in then started to get in trouble. started to...
    tones714677 tones714677 22-25, M a week ago

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    Thank you bullies. I was bullied and this is not a dog story. I got punched, name called, threatened, but I had two options. Be a victim or decide to stand up for myself. I decided...
    Kathree84 Kathree84 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I had just turned 16 and my birthday is in december. My gf came over to exchange presents with me and we eventually headed to my bedroom, where we started singing songs for fun...
    MBAttack MBAttack 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Other guys who were in high school in the 60's must recall seeing guys get paddled in the locker room by coach--In high school I got it a couple times and i saw other guys get it...
    bearcreek51 bearcreek51 51-55, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    My parents caught me In the act ounce in our pool
    white652 white652 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    My story is too long... so message me if you are interested in knowing. It won't be pretty though.
    mentalgirl96 mentalgirl96 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 28

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    Life all those people struggling with this, just remember the reason the have to be such a gigantic ****, is to compensate for the one they don't have
    thisISalessa thisISalessa 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 2

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    Wow, there seems to a lot of sexually active dogs out there
    lsmith966 lsmith966 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Why me i don,t know but my life is destroying because of bad people that bullied me and make fun of me
    alexandru1990 alexandru1990 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I will write it down in the comments, to avoid the sensors.
    MattTyler MattTyler 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 5

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    Having plenty of groups idc idk
    maecassiopeia maecassiopeia 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 12

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    Is it bad I still do this at 19..Hahaha
    nathans872 nathans872 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 12

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    I still do it now! Silly! : P
    Asia06 Asia06 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 13