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I Still Get Affected By What The Bullies Said To Me

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    Something That I Struggle With

    I have been the target for bullies my entire life. I guess being smaller than everyone else and being a shy, quite person makes them think that I would be an easy target. I still remember what they used to put me down about in school. However, the bullying that I struggle with...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Nov 19, 2012

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    I Know I Shouldn't.

    I've been bullied by different types of people in many different ways. Name calling at school, munipulation by adults, the list goes on. At the time of the bullying I didn't let it bother me and I just shoved it aside, but as the day drew to an end, it did upset me. Because of...
    OnMyTippeeToes OnMyTippeeToes 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 8, 2011

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