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I Still Have Contact With Ex

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    September

    I just remember that my ex dumped me on September 08. After two years, I still see him every two weeks or so. My daughter and I saw him twice past month, and that's made us pretty happy. I felt strange to see him so closely now. I even felt that he is the big roof of our life...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Sep 16, 2010

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    What Makes Him To Be With Us?

    That's my thought this morning. We met ex last week. Rain. Spent few hours at a restaurant and a cafe. My daughter was happy to see him. He seemed happy, but told me that he was going to see a new shrink. Also, he previously told me that he had no plan for Halloween, but told me...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Oct 31, 2010

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    Follow Up

    Called Ex twice last Saturday to find out if he still had an intention to come over to see my daughter. No return call. When I left a message, I said that I wanted to get a return call on Saturday, or by 11 AM on Sunday.  I was ready to get out on Sunday about 11 AM, but ex...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    Casually

    My Ex and I still have contact though it's not the typical post break-up conversations. Mostly we ask about recipe's and she every once and a while asks if I still have one thing or another. Everyone say's things like, "she wants to come back" and such which I believe is utter BS...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2010

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    Do You Love Her?

    Ex e-mailed me on Friday stating that he was too busy to form a reply, but he has been reading my e-mail. I knew that. I didn't reply. I told my daughter "he said hi to you" which brightened up her smile. She had Asthma attack on Sunday. I always surprise to see that how...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Sep 20, 2010

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    My Ex's Email

    I received emails from ex few days ago. First one stated that his apology regarding his action of few years and he wanted to me to forgive him. He described "insanity" of his action, "terrible" to feel about what he had done to me and my daughter. Second email stated that he...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Jul 4, 2012

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    The End

    I think, this is it. I give up to communicate with Ex. What happen was that he said that he would teach a skateboard for my daughter. So, we all went to a shop. We bought a board, and a helmet. We all happy at that moment.  Then, my daughter start to practice, and of  ...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F May 26, 2010

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    My Daughter Loves My Ex Who Broke Up With Me About 1 Year And 8 Months Ago

    He broke up with me in September 2008 after 2 years. I had to go to see Medical professional to recover from it. He was 9 years old younger than me, and I aborted her baby a year ago because I wasn't strong enough to resist what he said me. I already know that pain stays with...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F 1 Response May 9, 2010

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    It's Been A Battle....

    My ex-husband and I still have contact.  We do not have kids together...our finances are completely separate...we live in different cities...but we still remain close friends.  I was still married when I met "Ivan" and remained in contact with my soon-to-be ex-husband...
    behindthemask24 behindthemask24 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2011

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    Amicable

    Our breakup seems amicable at least this point. I have been seeing my ex every few weeks now, and we seem get along okay. Since my daughter and I are going to 3 weeks vacation, I asked him to meet my daughter before we depart. So, we met last week, but it was still 3 weeks...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Jul 13, 2010

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    Finally, Confirmed. The break up was due to his cheating.

    As the tile said, I finally confronted him about it, and he admitted. Finally, I am relieved. He cheated, I wasn't the cause of breakup. Relieved. I really feel better now.
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Jul 16, 2011

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    To Have Empathy

    My daughter has been sick on and off since February, and she wanted to see Ex. I have been e-mailing him often to let him know how my daughter thought about him. Result ? No reply. I haven't received no reply from him for 2 weeks. Finally I decided to ask "What's wrong?". His...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Mar 27, 2011

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    Happy Holidays

    My daughter, and I have been spending pleasant Holiday since Thanksgiving. But we have rarely heard from EX since Halloween. Thing got worse last night, he has completely ignored phone calls, and text message. We have plan to go to Ballet tomorrow, so I need to find out if he is...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2010

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    I Still Love Him

    He is mean Rude Iggnorant UNcaring Yeh he is all of the above n more. He treats me like dirt. Puts me under his feet. But i love him n NO WAY cn i go on one day witout talkin to him. His presence..means so much to me
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 27, 2010

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    This Is It?

    I have been suspecting that the real reason of our breakup was a cheating. Since I found out that my ex's current roommate (F) has Friday night off from her work as a care taker. I have remembered that he didn't pick up my calls several times on Friday night within a month prior...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Oct 16, 2010

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    To Date.

    Ex e-mailed me last Monday (Memorial day) that he would like to see my daughter, and said that he even have a gift for her.  I wasn't sure if I should reply, but did it sake of my daughter. After 5 days, no further word from him to arrange the meeting. I used to call, e...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Jun 5, 2010

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    I really hate this feeling. You know this person hurt you and yet you still have feelings for them. Logic tells you to get over it they're not worth it. Yet your heart keeps...
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    I would love to have sex with a black women never done it I am so girly right now I will eat eat that p up
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    Hi my name is Jan I am 21 and have sex with lots of guys. I work at a bar and always bring guys back to my place after work and have sex with them. I have a no condom rule. I want...
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    This year, I had a extremely attractive chemistry teacher. He's sweet, and has vibrant blue eyes, short blonde hair and a perfect body. Every time that I would look at him, I...
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    Well umm don't know how to start, but I am currently happily married 27 and still think about my childhood crush. We met when I was 8 we were in the same school / grade but not...
    indigo1987 indigo1987 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    It is a friend with benefits rather than multiple like the title suggests. I have never done it before. Probably wouldn't do it again. But now I feel trapped and I think he does...
    starflower1 starflower1 26-30, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    ashlea345 ashlea345 13-15, F 13 Responses Jun 30

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    It's been five years,but he still appears constantly in my dreams. I'm not sure about my feelings towards him but it certainly doesn't feel the same as before.
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    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F Jul 11

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    I thought i am strong w/o her, I know it is painfull but i didnt expected that this pain is so hard to bare. I miss her, I still love her, so hard to breath whenever she flash...
    Kram978 Kram978 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago