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I Still Have Contact With Ex

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    September

    I just remember that my ex dumped me on September 08. After two years, I still see him every two weeks or so. My daughter and I saw him twice past month, and that's made us pretty happy. I felt strange to see him so closely now. I even felt that he is the big roof of our life...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Sep 16, 2010

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    Happy Holidays

    My daughter, and I have been spending pleasant Holiday since Thanksgiving. But we have rarely heard from EX since Halloween. Thing got worse last night, he has completely ignored phone calls, and text message. We have plan to go to Ballet tomorrow, so I need to find out if he is...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2010

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    I Still Love Him

    He is mean Rude Iggnorant UNcaring Yeh he is all of the above n more. He treats me like dirt. Puts me under his feet. But i love him n NO WAY cn i go on one day witout talkin to him. His presence..means so much to me
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 27, 2010

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    My Daughter Loves My Ex Who Broke Up With Me About 1 Year And 8 Months Ago

    He broke up with me in September 2008 after 2 years. I had to go to see Medical professional to recover from it. He was 9 years old younger than me, and I aborted her baby a year ago because I wasn't strong enough to resist what he said me. I already know that pain stays with...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F 1 Response May 9, 2010

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    To Have Empathy

    My daughter has been sick on and off since February, and she wanted to see Ex. I have been e-mailing him often to let him know how my daughter thought about him. Result ? No reply. I haven't received no reply from him for 2 weeks. Finally I decided to ask "What's wrong?". His...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Mar 27, 2011

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    Follow Up

    Called Ex twice last Saturday to find out if he still had an intention to come over to see my daughter. No return call. When I left a message, I said that I wanted to get a return call on Saturday, or by 11 AM on Sunday.  I was ready to get out on Sunday about 11 AM, but ex...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    This Is It?

    I have been suspecting that the real reason of our breakup was a cheating. Since I found out that my ex's current roommate (F) has Friday night off from her work as a care taker. I have remembered that he didn't pick up my calls several times on Friday night within a month prior...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Oct 16, 2010

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    My Ex's Email

    I received emails from ex few days ago. First one stated that his apology regarding his action of few years and he wanted to me to forgive him. He described "insanity" of his action, "terrible" to feel about what he had done to me and my daughter. Second email stated that he...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Jul 4, 2012

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    Finally, Confirmed. The break up was due to his cheating.

    As the tile said, I finally confronted him about it, and he admitted. Finally, I am relieved. He cheated, I wasn't the cause of breakup. Relieved. I really feel better now.
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Jul 16, 2011

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    Do You Love Her?

    Ex e-mailed me on Friday stating that he was too busy to form a reply, but he has been reading my e-mail. I knew that. I didn't reply. I told my daughter "he said hi to you" which brightened up her smile. She had Asthma attack on Sunday. I always surprise to see that how...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Sep 20, 2010

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    To Date.

    Ex e-mailed me last Monday (Memorial day) that he would like to see my daughter, and said that he even have a gift for her.  I wasn't sure if I should reply, but did it sake of my daughter. After 5 days, no further word from him to arrange the meeting. I used to call, e...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Jun 5, 2010

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    It's Been A Battle....

    My ex-husband and I still have contact.  We do not have kids together...our finances are completely separate...we live in different cities...but we still remain close friends.  I was still married when I met "Ivan" and remained in contact with my soon-to-be ex-husband...
    behindthemask24 behindthemask24 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2011

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    Casually

    My Ex and I still have contact though it's not the typical post break-up conversations. Mostly we ask about recipe's and she every once and a while asks if I still have one thing or another. Everyone say's things like, "she wants to come back" and such which I believe is utter BS...
    myheartmypain myheartmypain 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 16, 2010

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    Amicable

    Our breakup seems amicable at least this point. I have been seeing my ex every few weeks now, and we seem get along okay. Since my daughter and I are going to 3 weeks vacation, I asked him to meet my daughter before we depart. So, we met last week, but it was still 3 weeks...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Jul 13, 2010

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    The End

    I think, this is it. I give up to communicate with Ex. What happen was that he said that he would teach a skateboard for my daughter. So, we all went to a shop. We bought a board, and a helmet. We all happy at that moment.  Then, my daughter start to practice, and of  ...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F May 26, 2010

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    What Makes Him To Be With Us?

    That's my thought this morning. We met ex last week. Rain. Spent few hours at a restaurant and a cafe. My daughter was happy to see him. He seemed happy, but told me that he was going to see a new shrink. Also, he previously told me that he had no plan for Halloween, but told me...
    iceland iceland 46-50, F Oct 31, 2010

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    I'm still in love with my ex .... Not sure why though ..... He's full of s***! What a waste of love .
    According2Me According2Me 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There are times that I and my GFs still have a form of sleepovers and we always have a great time. Because we all have weird schedules, they are usually planned far in advance and...
    Marcette88 Marcette88 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    GloriousGrey GloriousGrey 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I think i would be great to have sex with a trans women. They are really gorgeous but also independent in a sense. I'm not gay but I definitely want to go for a transvestite woman...
    lolzmeplz lolzmeplz 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 4

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    I would have been with you forever, with you I didn't need anybody else ... more importantly I didn't want anybody else, but finding out that you were unfaithful in our...
    qbanbb85 qbanbb85 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I want to have sex with woman while my boyfriend partipates however he wouldn't **** her or lick her. She would lick me while my boyfriend ***** me and I would return the favour to...
    Readingaddict Readingaddict 18-21, F Aug 9

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    I have a guy friend who's willing to help me with my sexual needs. But I also my have my bestie to have fun with if we feel inclined to indulge in some girly fun. I love having...
    lacess lacess 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Someone please tell me what's going on with my tonsils! I went to the doctor and they said it wasn't strep. I'm so irritated because I ALWAYS get strep or a sore throat and I'm...
    irefusetosink23 irefusetosink23 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I am 19 years old. Two years ago, when I was 17, I met someone who would end up completely altering who I thought I was. I was a happy girl. I enjoyed being single and flirting...
    sheonlysighs sheonlysighs 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Am I crazy for still being in love with my ex boyfriend? Or am I even in love with him. It's complicated really, our relationship was up and down, and four years of hurt and pain...
    PassionOnFire PassionOnFire 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I still love my ex...I will always love him.
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F Aug 2

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    I still love it, and it still works fine!
    JRVanguard JRVanguard 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I just had a baby, and my ex broke up with me a month prior to his birth. He still talks to me. He still says he loves me, but he says there's just too much going on in his life. I...
    alouro93 alouro93 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Many guys have tried to get me in bed with them..I refuse every time cause I am saving myself for marriage...yes I am still a virgin and I am proud of it
    CountryBabs321 CountryBabs321 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I started having a sitter again only in April when I moved to my Grandparents house. I am 16 and I find it pretty embarrassing, like I would never tell people at my new school when...
    kanadiankitty kanadiankitty 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 4

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    Okay so I have a dilemma.. My boyfriend and I split maybe 3 months ago, and I did the breaking up. It was our second time dating and I thought he'd changed from the first time...
    Kano413 Kano413 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I've been waiting for him to come back for a whole year after we broke up, and I just gave up a couple weeks ago and since then we haven't text or call each other ever again until...
    Areddreamgirl Areddreamgirl 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    My wife and I are separating after twenty years. Its my idea, she does not want to and she is devastated. I love her very much and its tearing me apart inside and I'm having...
    mohoganyred mohoganyred 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 16

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    Well, of course I still love her... I always will.
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    My ex-boyfriends friends hate me. That's why he left me. But I know he still had feelings for me, I really miss him. What should I do? Go after him or try to move on?
    teenagegirl102 teenagegirl102 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    “It's really a wonder that I haven't dropped all my ideals, because they seem so absurd and impossible to carry out. Yet I keep them, because in spite of everything, I still...
    nealbrute nealbrute 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Do you still remember the post about my prom or have you read it? If not read it first to know the story. My friend/pervert asked me the same question for 3 days straight and he's...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I love having a friends with benefits but it can be so nerve wracking. In the past, I have had feelings for a friend with benefit & that didn't turn out so well. I would go over...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I kinda started a friends with benefits situation with my ex boyfriend. We broke up and he started dating again but then realized that we have better sex so we hooked back up for a...
    jgala90 jgala90 22-25, F Aug 8

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    Okay it's kinda like a love-hate relationship. I swear I love her with all my heart, but sometimes it's just like......... UUUGGGGHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! I mean both my brothers and me...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    My mother has slapped me, called me numerous, belittling names, and abusive curses. When she is angry, she will hit me and she will have that look in her eye that will make you...
    sienabrowns sienabrowns 16-17 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I just woke up with a wet underwear and bed it was Awesome
    Guywhopees Guywhopees 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    So he replied to my last message. Said it was cool to see me too. Which, obviously is just in a friendly way. But I'm relieved that he was happy enough to see me. And he mentioned...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F Aug 9

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    I wish I didn't though. I hate talking to my ex because we have a great friendship dynamic and then we ruin by flirting and bein ourselves
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 11

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    Ugh I can't stand her sometimes... She does all these little annoying things by me all the time and is constantly moving...she never sits still and is constantly scratching herself...
    bribri590 bribri590 18-21, F Aug 19

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    sometimes it just takes a few people to tell you that they care, that are really willing to be there for you, and accept you for who you are, to show you that you can do the same...
    reachingforthesun reachingforthesun 16-17, F Aug 20