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I Still Have Feelings For Someone Who Has Broken My Heart

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    nancyramos94 nancyramos94 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    i am feeling broken..

    just can anybody help me out on concentrating on my life & not think what my ex is doing? i am always thinking what she is doing, she might be messging that some guy.. going out...bla bla bla....why if that person? what was wrong on me if that person is good....tired of...
    raoudupi raoudupi 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 18

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    Yup. Feelings , I l believe it will go away ,

    breath it out, breath it out, Even though I made a mistake Even thought feelings jump back to me It is not my fault I forgive myself I acknowledge it is there But I believe it will go away As long as I breath and breath It will go away, as all things in my life, it will
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana 31-35, F May 21

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    Of course. I am finally happy with Adam.

    Sure he lives 12 hours away, but still. Then, two days ago Tyler texted me. I don't understand him. He broke it off with his girlfriend and came right back to me. Why does he do this to me? I don't understand. He has broken me so many times so why do I put up with him. He...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Why can't I get over him?

    Why do I care so much?
    stephfrench6680 stephfrench6680 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 8

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    Well it's all started

    when he randomly snap chatted me one day. I didn't know who he was but in the photo he looked cute so I replied. We continued sending pictures and talking and eventually we began messaging. We had a lot of things in common and he was very sweet. There was some flirting going on...
    imtoomuch imtoomuch 13-15, F Jul 12

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    I know it's over...I do.

    I know that whatever we had, that connection, is now gone. I know that it will never be like that again. I'm trying not to contact you for silly reasons. I know you have someone else. I'm trying to move forward, but I'm also dragging my feet. It still hurts though. I wish that...
    Arcavala Arcavala 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    How Long Will It Take To Get Over Her?

    I'm 26 years old and live in a rural part of Northestern PA. Hmmm, where to start... Well, my fiance left me about a year ago. We were together for a little over three years and everything was great until 6 months or so before she left. I'm originally from Pennsylvania but I met...
    Torox Torox 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    As much as I try not to have it happens my

    ex-crush keeps appearing in my dreams. The latest one is weird because I was shaving his chin...I won't get that close to him again. Even if we were to talk again, I wouldn't stay around. I'm so numb around the word 'love'. I don't even like PDA in front of me. Makes me feel...
    meleternal meleternal 26-30, F Apr 12

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    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    First Love

    It's been about four years, and I'm not helplessly in love with this girl, as I was when we first broke up. But I still think about her. And I miss her. Part of me believes that because she was my first true, head-over-heels, in deep love that I was always have some sort of...
    mjme26 mjme26 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17, 2013

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    Feelings

    The biggest fear I had was losing you. The funny thing is, in the end that's what it came down to. Two people new to this love thing, not knowing what to do. Extremely different but a lot alike. No one said it would be easy, but to me you were worth the fight. I was in it all...
    Unknownwriter123 Unknownwriter123 18-21 Jan 19, 2013

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person

    whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn’t the only guy staring at her either. Through my mind, I was thinking, "you know what, I'm gonna try to...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Still Love But Moved On

    I was engaged to a great woman. I loved her so very much and still love her to this day. I loved her girls like they were my own. I messed up my fault. But instead of trying to work anything out she ended our relationship. I tried to repair things for so long until I...
    racer12884 racer12884 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 27, 2013

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    I'm Still Numb...

    Oh, where do I start?? I met the love of my life almost 2 years ago. He was the man I said I'd never date, he is in the military and I never wanted to date military and if the relationship suceeded, have to move away from my very small, close family. But I did, and fell hard...
    Bailey24 Bailey24 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    He is my ex and we've been on the friend zone

    for a while... It's fun how we talk about old days and everything. And when I think about him I miss him so so much. But I guess that is because he is the first man I ever loved. Still, every time I'm with him, I know I would never get back together with him haha idk why...
    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F Jul 11

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    My boyfriends a **** !

    ! Let's me down for my birthday and doesn't understand that he's upset me says I'm being childish. Okay yeah it's a concert he said he would pay for a ticket and come with and is now saying he's not doing it! Every valentines day he lets me down arg! He use to cheat on me and I...
    Butterflyfairy23 Butterflyfairy23 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    Love Or Craziness?

    Yes unfortunately I still love him a lot. Is it love or craziness? :(
    mysticallyinvisible mysticallyinvisible 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2011

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    I wish I didn't though.

    I hate talking to my ex because we have a great friendship dynamic and then we ruin by flirting and bein ourselves
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 11

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    there's this guy who broke my heart

    and I still have feelings for him. can anyone give me advice on how to forget about him completely?
    meguare meguare 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    Life seems almost overwhelming at times.

    I struggle to move on from my last relationship that ended over a year ago. I genuinely love her beyond what words could express and have continued to take care of her from a far even though she has been dating a girl off and on. So it's a long distance ex, we still love each...
    Geminiblueeyes Geminiblueeyes 22-25, M 2 Responses Jun 19

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    Dated a guy 4 1/2 years ago we been friends

    since we broke up we stop talking because he was hitting on me while in a relationship so I decided to send all our text message to his new girlfriend and every since then he hate me and don't want to talk to me but I miss him.
    chardia chardia 18-21, F Jul 11

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    I dated this guy my junior/senior year of high

    school. He was always super sweet and of course very cute. I was an idiot and broke it off because of something's people were saying. We remained good friends after that. About a year after I graduated we decided to go out on a date. It was perfect and things were just the same...
    PierceTheOvercastKid PierceTheOvercastKid 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I Still Love Her

    We dated around six months but i was like madly in love with her she ued me to get stuff she dated other peoplebut i loved her and i wanted her so I let it slide. I feel like a idoit for leting her do that when i would talk to her about it she would say that she loved me and i...
    Zach2294 Zach2294 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 20, 2011

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    Love Doesn'T Have An On/Off Switch

    I am slowly getting over a break up. Overall, I am doing better. But, some days still are really hard. Yesterday, I made the mistake of allowing myself to drive by his house (I usually take a different route to get to my friends house.. I felt I could handle it). Well, I...
    rosedl rosedl 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    Glyskie Glyskie 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    It Was A Long Time Ago ...

    She was one of the first, and the prettiest (in my memory). I have cried more tears over that lady than any other. Yes, it may be (a little) due to it being a special time in my life - but - She was so fine. Is it true that the proof of loving someone is that you cry about them...
    scabow scabow 70+, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2011

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    My wife and I are separating

    after twenty years. Its my idea, she does not want to and she is devastated. I love her very much and its tearing me apart inside and I'm having severe anxiety and depression. She was badly injured in a car accident 14 years ago and had severe head injuries TBI since then has...
    mohoganyred mohoganyred 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 16

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    Its 12 midnight and all im thinking its about

    her, what could she be doing, is she okay? Is she doing the right things, how is he better than me, its been a year since i lost her and still affects me. Its 12midnight and all im thinking is the day i saw her holding somebody elses hand, how did i let you go, i miss you, but i...
    mcalderon89 mcalderon89 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 21

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    My ex-boyfriends friends hate me.

    That's why he left me. But I know he still had feelings for me, I really miss him. What should I do? Go after him or try to move on?
    teenagegirl102 teenagegirl102 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    You shattered my heart into tiny pieces,

    but yet I still have feelings for you... I don't get it.
    Thatbrokengirl1 Thatbrokengirl1 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I hate myself because I think I love you.

    I've always had trust issues with men because the only man in my life I have been able to trust until recently was my dad (recently my brothers have regained my trust). I have a history of being attracted to bad boys and doing bad things. My last year of high school I was...
    kaps105 kaps105 18-21, F Jun 25

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    I thought i am strong w/o her,

    I know it is painfull but i didnt expected that this pain is so hard to bare. I miss her, I still love her, so hard to breath whenever she flash out of my mind :'( ... Im so tired, because the more i love her the more she hurts me..... I always smile and laugh in public while...
    Kram978 Kram978 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Dreamin' With A Broken Heart...

    Happened to me again this morning......In the deep throughs of sleep I dreamt with her again. In my dream we shared a tender kiss...right before I woke up. I swear I could still taste her when I woke up, I can still feel her lovely lips...... God I hate this!! I guess there is no...
    Oldfool81 Oldfool81 36-40, M 7 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    "You can love someone

    and not want to spend time with them" I love her so much, but I know she is better of without me, and I am without her.
    Amidala97 Amidala97 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    New To Love And Heartache

    I met him while he was still dating a mutual friend. He was that guy that all girls wanted to take home to their mom--kind, caring, honest, sensitive, a gentleman--and she treated him like her slave. Even her overprotective father told her she should treat him better, to which...
    Schweetpea Schweetpea 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    My had my first real boyfriend not

    so long ago, we dated for half a year and then his mother said we couldn't be together anymore because I was distracting him from school. I was heartbroken, then twi weeks later he starts dating this girl who I was very close to, I even told her how much our breakup hurt me. A...
    Mi5h Mi5h 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I don't have feelings

    for him, but he'll always have a place in my heart. It kinda kills me because he's been dating someone for the past 7 months and I check on their Facebook (mainly his) just to see what they're doing or if they are engaged. I founded out recently his girlfriend moved in with...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F Aug 16

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    So yesterday I find out the guy I thought was

    my next forever....which I know you guys have seen on my experiences has moved on completely and found himself a new girl....how do I move on though don't get me wrong I am happy for him if he is happy and I know that's weird for a girl to say but....I feel like I was hurt and...
    teardrop12 teardrop12 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I hate to say i still have feelings.

    . for the girl who broke my heart just last month. I should have realized i was going to get hurt! Honestly I felt like i was the only one trying in this relationship! I remember always making time for her! getting her presents like roses and hearts! And we spend so many hours...
    AlejandroM AlejandroM 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 19

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    MISSING YOU: Isn't it strange how we can miss

    those who have treated us poorly, been abusive and cold toward us? We walk away because we respect ourselves too much too tolerate such treatment and yet....we can still miss the person. The way they were when they made us feel great, made us laugh, and warmed our hearts, and...
    Jasiri Jasiri 56-60, F 2 Responses Apr 30

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    My story is of us. We have been together

    for close to 10 months and the beginning felt like a fairytale. I had a cautious heart at first because this is my first relationship, my first love, my first everything.. and soon to be my first heartbreak. I have always admired the way you care for me, the way you kept me in...
    livelydreamer2 livelydreamer2 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I think I secretly still do

    but I don't want to admit it to myself and I just mask it but trying to hate him.
    moriartyloveskittens moriartyloveskittens 16-17, F Apr 15

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    I sometimes think that karma has come to bite

    me in the ***! Why? Maybe because i took feelings for granted but i always tried not to hurt anyone. Yet im left hurting now. Something i did has put me where i am or maybe i just needed to have my eyes opened to see that anyone can hurt you.. I thought she was the one but she...
    essjay26 essjay26 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    So I lived 5min away from this guy,

    we spoke everyday for a year.. Crazily enough we never met up, because I was too scared and have massive anxiety etc.. So we never met but I'm crazy about him. He even once said his never felt this way about a girl before.. ANYWAY so early this year I moved county.. He said...
    dontkillmyvibe17 dontkillmyvibe17 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    So I started talking to this guy late June of

    last year. He was great and I fell for him very fast. I got into a very bad car accident and was lucky to get out of it with no severe injuries. After that, I questioned a lot of things, was very unhappy, and cried from the pain and mental stress I was in. Parents didn't approve...
    AlpacassoLover AlpacassoLover 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 22

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    I don't know if I should hold on to it

    or if I should just let it go. It's been bout 7 months and a few encounters with each other. He says think to make it look like he don't care but then takes them back for example e would get mad and say get out my life and then a month later he would say I never said I didn't...
    NicoleBailey NicoleBailey 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    You broke up with me

    and won't even try to talk things out now I can't even look at a picture of you without my heart sinking into my stomach. :/ but yet I still want you back :(
    Scarsstayforever Scarsstayforever 18-21, M Apr 25

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    I Still Love Him

    I still Love the one guy who I Loved very much, and the one guy who broke my heart. I still find myself thinking about him, and thinking about why he left me, and I cry, and hurt, and it totally su*ks. I Loved him so much, and I thought he Loved me, but I guess I was wrong. When...
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved 18-21, F 16 Responses Apr 23, 2008

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    I was with the same woman

    for 22 years we have three kids together and I am divorced as of last week she has had three affairs in our 21 year marriage I still love her I am deeply in love with her and I can't get over her and I am very jealous with the boyfriends she has she has told me she'd rather be...
    ichael70 ichael70 41-45, M 4 Responses Mar 30

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