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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-17, F Nov 6, 2007

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    I still think of him quite often ,even though I haven't seen him in 10 years.. I still really care for him and I would like to know how his life turned out.. "PLUS IT'S PRETTY EASY...
    lovelee83 lovelee83 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    He's the first person who made me experience how love actually feels. He made me a better person than I was before I met him and he was my inspiration. I owe him and I can't...
    Genesol Genesol 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    5 months on and i am still trying to put the pieces of my life back together for myself and my kids whilst the ex is living like he doesnt have a care in the world..why does it...
    kylieheartbroken kylieheartbroken 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My stranger for a Mother has refused to pay my bills once again. I have a $2000 bill to pay. The only reason that I ran it up was because I was working, but my stranger for a...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    There has been one "relationship" in my life that has been toxic. I met Nick online several years ago. He said all the right things, wanted to spend time with me, claimed to...
    mica3021 mica3021 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    In 2006, I had to have a hip replacement, I was in the hospital, the surgery did not go well, and I was in a lot of pain. As the doctors had fractured my right knee during surgery...
    darlingrose darlingrose 70+, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    He's on my mind almost all the time. I'm happy whenever we are talking and sad when we're not. Sometimes I feel like I'm being so pushy and really clingy cause I have so much time...
    oyen oyen 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Some days I wish that our paths had never crossed and I'd never gotten the chance to meet you--to know you--to be held in your arms and to fall hopelessly in love with you. Some...
    yourgirlalex yourgirlalex 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    and he still loves me but I'm scared to ask him out since he broke up with me then he asked me back out again and I turned him down but today he said " np anything for my ex" and...
    aby2015 aby2015 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm so used to him being there that when I have news I still go to text or ring him.
    binxxy binxxy 22-25, F Jan 28

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    The guy I've been crushing on for a couple of weeks ... I still am falling for him pretty hard... He might be falling for me but I'm not positive.....
    Camrakes Camrakes 16-17, F Jan 28

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    i still miss him every day and it still hurts so bad but i learnt to pretend im okay
    DeadEmoStrawberry DeadEmoStrawberry 18-21, F Jan 27

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    So not only was this person physically perfect but he seemed to get me. However the issues were endless. 1)I spoke to him first (which us ladies should never do because real men...
    reginastrength reginastrength 22-25, F Jan 27

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    MEETING SOMEONE NEW is always exciting especially when you discover you have INSTANT chemistry! I am currently getting to know a beautiful young lady with a wild imagination...
    HollowBravado HollowBravado 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 26

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    My first serious girlfriend. Saved my life way back then, more than 30 years ago. She gave me a choice - either her or the drugs, and I chose her and cleaned up. We were together...
    egbertnosh egbertnosh 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T Jan 26

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    From the age of 18, when I joined the college I had a crush on this guy who was an year senior to me. Even though he used to smile at me and all I never talked to him because I...
    anandchandran anandchandran 22-25, M Jan 25

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    So true. Adversarial love doesn't exist. Patience is something real love intructs. Understanding is the ultimate reward. Love sophisticates perspective. We learn seeing through...
    Actactualaredy Actactualaredy 51-55, M Jan 24

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    I slept with of my long time friends who I've always had a bit of a crush on. We were "talking" for a couple of months after it first happened, and hooking up when he would come...
    stephrome stephrome 22-25, F Jan 24

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    I can honestly say I wish I had never gotten married. we had our daughter a yr ago, and she has been so lazy for the last year. she sits around and does nothing all day long when...
    idkw2 idkw2 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 23

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    I am an idiot. I've been in a pretty stable ongoing relationship for a year and six months but recently the splendor and overal enjoyment of being with my partner has declined...
    IAmWhoIAmWhoAmI IAmWhoIAmWhoAmI 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    AbsoLUTEly, you can! Why has life gotten you down? Because we have sensitive hearts, but I want you to know that you can have a fresh start today!!Please try to remember...
    Grace2U Grace2U 66-70, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    I met him on a greyhound and we hit it off immediately, lets call him Andrew. I fell for him and he for me but I had a boyfriend we so remained friends until I broke up with my...
    AquaQ AquaQ 22-25, F Jan 22

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    Ask me about the summer I fell in love, and I'll tell you; It was like a mouth watering thirst one couldn't quench. I often wonder what would have happened had I never placed my...
    LavenderDarling LavenderDarling 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    I was with my ex for 3 years and we were great friends before we ever got together. There were rumors that he was sleeping with my promiscuous sister and I asked her about it and...
    sheknowsbetter sheknowsbetter 22-25, F Jan 21

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    He was my classmate since grade 3, we sat next to each other for a short while. Since then developed a crush on him, he was always nasty to me, but in a way i have noticed him...
    Rainbowrainrain Rainbowrainrain 26-30, F Jan 20

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    I started right away with an apology for an overreaction to an incredibly terrible dream I had, he cut me off right away. 'I don't care about your dreams. I don't live in a dream...
    iamcass iamcass 31-35, F Jan 20

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    The last time he was in my house was about a year ago. I would pick him up from the airport not too far away from where i live. I would hit the button for the lift gate in the back...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Some of you may have followed my story. For nearly a decade I lived with my girlfriend, Katie, as if we were married. I helped raise her kids, she helped raise mine. But when her...
    LostStepDad LostStepDad 36-40, M Jan 20

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    2 abusive relationships back to back..My daughters father had me in jail over something i didnt do. Iv havent worked in those 4 years..Iv been traumatized and beaten..Iv...
    findingtruth828 findingtruth828 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    Well I was the one caught. I was not married to my wife yet but we were dating. She came over to bring me lunch before I went to work that afternoon, I already had the shower...
    Loadonyourpic Loadonyourpic 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    I dont usually fall for just anyone but when it came to him... damn was it hard NOT to like him.
    Yremo24 Yremo24 18-21, F 2 Responses