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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-18, F Nov 6, 2007

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