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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-18, F Nov 6, 2007

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    His name is Paul, and he was the year above me in school. He went away to uni last year, but since he's been away we've been talking loads and I've totally fallen for him. He has a...
    claudiamonique claudiamonique 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Its taken such a long time, years of feeling dreadful, hopeless and not knowing what to believe and where I stood....but now, I have finally accepted the relationship is over and i...
    sillysoo sillysoo 41-45, F Jul 3

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    I still love him, way more than he ever loved me, if he even did. He says closure, that he doesn't want to see anyone, that he doesn't feel anything for anyone anymore, that he's...
    dexxie dexxie 18-21, F Jun 27

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    Getting my stuff back from him and giving his back to him. Yep:)
    BeautifulCatastr0phe BeautifulCatastr0phe 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I wish I could take him out of my life..forever!
    luv4get luv4get 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I NEED to get over a guy that has left a year ago! Can anyone help please??
    xxfunloverxx xxfunloverxx 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    its about 3 years I havent see him, 'cause yeah we are now school in a different place. I dont know the reason why, but actually a friend see a message or mention from twitter just...
    Katyaing Katyaing 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    So I've liked this guy for at least 3 years and we've had an on-off relationship for the past 6-7 months..in June he said that he had 'lost feelings' for me. I was crushed. Then...
    eirwin15 eirwin15 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Dated this guy for 8 months. I believe he was my first love. We kissed, hugged, held hands, Ide sit on his lap and tease him. He'd never seen my body in person or felt it but just...
    alliebear1211 alliebear1211 13-15, F Jul 1

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    Yes I love him and hate him. It was fun hanging out and chatting with him. He lied to me a lot of times and treat me like ***** when he is in a bad mood. He said he love me but...
    yomy1603 yomy1603 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    So I lived 5min away from this guy, we spoke everyday for a year.. Crazily enough we never met up, because I was too scared and have massive anxiety etc.. So we never met but I'm...
    dontkillmyvibe17 dontkillmyvibe17 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Even though it was over 2 years ago, and I have another man that I love very much, I still think about my first love all the time. He was emotionally and physically abusive but I...
    Kaylamarie9413 Kaylamarie9413 16-17, F Jul 6

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    So the past few months have been hard since my boyfriend and I broke up. We were together for iver a year, He was into drugs bad and things got rough. He ended up lying constantly...
    vallyjean123 vallyjean123 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I feel like we just fell apart but now we're unfinished business. He said he still loved me but i don't know if he said that just to make me feel better. I don't know if we can...
    chemically99 chemically99 13-15, F Jul 9

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    It's been a long time but I reckon because I never got any closure I am still not over him. We dated for 7 months but lived together too, he was my first love and although to some...
    TashaBbb TashaBbb 18-21, F Jul 9

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    Maybe it's the anxiety disorder, but i flip out over everything. I have crazy thoughts and process every possible or impossible way of things going terribly wrong at every moment...
    chemically99 chemically99 13-15, F Jul 13

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    There hasn't been an abundance of lies but the ones that he told were pretty big. I honestly don't even know how to feel. I'm mad that he lied and I don't understand why but I...
    gummball gummball 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    It's been 5 years and I'm still not over him I'm still in love with him
    theflightlessbird theflightlessbird 26-30, F Jul 16

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    Before telling you my story, I wanna ask you something... Is there someone who you just can't get over? Someone who's broken your heart and you just can't mend it? 3 years ago I...
    vinylvanilla vinylvanilla 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Just starting to be happy and content with the fact that were done. And he texts me out of the blue with relationship problems. I miss him so much. And I wish I could be his first...
    avagrace03 avagrace03 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    there's this guy who broke my heart and I still have feelings for him. can anyone give me advice on how to forget about him completely?
    meguare meguare 13-15, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Talking to an ex boyfriend. He was my first lover, but he's not good for me at all. I know I shouldn't be talking to him, but I just can't see myself ever getting over him.
    Maq98 Maq98 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I don't know what it is but this guy has has my heart since the day he walked in my life. He has manage to break my heart into so many pieces, managed to put me through so much...
    R3b3llion32 R3b3llion32 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    well ok here I goes, I will try and make this as short as possible. First thing first, my boyfriend has a girl best friend named Anna. They always hang out in school and she helps...
    lilyranger90 lilyranger90 22-25, F 2 Responses 35 mins ago

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    Now I'm starting to worry. I just turned 15, and I still have no signs of puberty. No growth, no hair, no nothing. I've always been one of the smallest boys in my class, but it...
    zakkattakk zakkattakk 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can't help but fear that my feelings are entirely one-sided. It really has gotten to the point where it physically hurts to even think about him. We've been good friends for a...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    My husband and I started dating when we were back in high school as sophomores. He was a jock and I was attracted to that. When we graduated high school we broke up for a few...
    akahlig2 akahlig2 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Nine months ago, while I was at a lakeside music festival, I ran into an old acquaintance. John and I had met in 2008 through a mutual friend. Over the years, our paths had crossed...
    wastedmonths wastedmonths 26-30 1 Response Jul 3

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    I hate him but miss him! I had a best guy friend and I have talked about him before. I met a guy his name was Jonathan. We became best friends and somehow he managed to fall in...
    GoodbyesandHellos GoodbyesandHellos 16-17, F Jul 13

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    It's the love part that's keeping me here. I don't like him very much. We've been together for four (nearly five) years. It seems like we've traded places. Most of our relationship...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I haven’t posted in a while. It hurts too much to write sometimes. My MM and I broke up over two months ago. The last time we talked was April 29. We both love each other deeply...
    celticwarrior96 celticwarrior96 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Well umm don't know how to start, but I am currently happily married 27 and still think about my childhood crush. We met when I was 8 we were in the same school / grade but not...
    indigo1987 indigo1987 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    It feel like forever since I've written sth here. There's been a lot going on in my life; good and bad. Although, ultimately the good outweighs the bad, it still can't be erased. I...
    Ilovecharlie Ilovecharlie 16-17, M Jul 1

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    ...........and as I knew, I got rejected. It's funny that I was worried if I tell him I love him, he may not keep the friendship anymore. But it is me who stopped connecting with...
    EternalWanderer EternalWanderer 31-35 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I have to get this off my chest or I will explode. My husband and I have been married several years. I had a child from a previous relationship, and we had two together. I always...
    nwhermit nwhermit 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I believe one person can definitely change your whole life. I wish I could go back and unmeet him. It all started at college, that's when I met him, we were put next to each other...
    PrincessMegz17 PrincessMegz17 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    So I invited one of my close friends over for dinner tomorrow. My ex boyfriend used to be one of my best friends and we still talk now even though I've moved on so I decided to...
    justlovelye311 justlovelye311 18-21, F Jul 5

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    I'm 17 and i'm about to turn 18 on August 7. The reason I havent been able to is because, every time I want to take, my mother never takes me. She always says to study it and on...
    Vanessanicolexo Vanessanicolexo 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Me and my boyfriend have known eachother for years. We have been dating for 2. A few months ago we signed a lease and moved to a new town. A week after moving in together we get...
    angrynhyrt angrynhyrt 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I was in an abusive relationship as a teenager. We met in high school, he was a few years older than me, and for the first 4 months it was wonderful, then he moved away, and slowly...
    sheloveshim57 sheloveshim57 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 26

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