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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-17, F Nov 6, 2007

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    I know I sometimes seem to make him jealous when I talk about my new boyfriend years after him but we broke up months ago for a good reason. Well, it wasn't my fault that my ex...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    So this is now week 6 and 4 days tomorrow that we've had no contact with one another. 4 months since we've seen each other. I feel like I could just die. I miss him soooo much...
    ArizonaCheater ArizonaCheater 46-50 5 Responses Apr 9

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    No matter how much he hurt me I still tend to love him even more. I said I will give all my love for him and I think I did. Because during December 2014, I realized it's been two...
    XxCuTiE14xX XxCuTiE14xX 16-17, F Apr 17

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    Yes, as big of a sadist as I am, I could do many things in this situation. I'm refusing any manipulation, because I do love the guy. As a friend, though. My feelings for him are 10...
    TheRogueWolf TheRogueWolf 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    He came to drop something off for my mom. He asked how I was doing and I lied and said I was alright. Then he apologized for slapping me and I said sorry for being rude to his...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F Apr 7

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    We went on a date and I fell for him hard. Two days later I want to his house and hung out with him. The next day he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship. Why can't I get...
    haiimlola haiimlola 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    I really don't understand. My ex boyfriend broke up with me after he moved back home in December. After that he invited me to his house on Valentine's weekend and he acted like...
    TheSongPlaysWithin TheSongPlaysWithin 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I heard about his passing later on. I was listening to the radio---in 2010! I was starting to listen to music again, after recovering from a breakdown. Well, Leader of the Band...
    DF79 DF79 46-50 Apr 24

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    I seriously can't stop thinking about this guy i used to like. I don't even know if I'm even really over him. I see him everyday at school and when we talk, I'm happy for the rest...
    Cutiepieadwoa17 Cutiepieadwoa17 16-17, F Apr 25

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    we were friends ever since i was 8 years old and he  asked me and i said yes and last friday we got in a fight and he broke up with me but i still have feelings for him and...
    pretty12345678 pretty12345678 13-15, F Apr 16

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    Here it is... The story of me and my first love. Currently, I am so confused about where to share my feelings and I want to thank this site for letting me release my emotions...
    ApplePamilar ApplePamilar 18-21, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I met this guy on hear and we be became good friends until two weeks ago we started going out and I fell deeply in love with him and I still am but Saturday night we had a argument...
    thelittlekidindiapers thelittlekidindiapers 13-15, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Does anyone else still have something of their ex's? I still have his t-shirts and a bottle of the cologne he used to wear, no matter how badly I want to get rid of them I can't...
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    1. The day I met you, you took me dancing, clumsily I tripped over your feet, you went home with her. 2. On Halloween, they told me you were coming, I took a few shots to ease my...
    breannajust breannajust 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    When I first met him it was the end of my first year in high school, I had just moved to a new house near my 2 best friends. We went to the park and there was 3 boys there Best...
    ILoveMyKiwiPuppy ILoveMyKiwiPuppy 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I can't move it's so painful I havent had my period for 9 months I'm surprised I haven't ended up in hospital sick this pain is uncontrollable I have never felt so sick in my...
    crazyanimal222 crazyanimal222 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 22

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    Ever since I was 14 (now 18) my twin sister has spanked me. We have a routine now. Every night my sister tells me to get ready for my spanking. I then must ***** down and put my...
    babykatie18 babykatie18 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Something from my past has recently come up, in a way. Just recently a friend of mine went through a very similar situation as I did when I was 12. In 2009, I found my older...
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I remember the bright summer day, when I went to a friend house who had a five week old litter of kittens. My friend suggested I take one, and I felt the strangest pull inside me...
    4gotwhereIwas 4gotwhereIwas 26-30 Apr 10

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    recently it's been really bad I have always been a person to over think everything but it's gotten to a point where last time I had to go out side for a friend's 21st I had a...
    godnox godnox 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 18

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    I was in love with this woman who fell in love with me we work together at the library she was a janitor and I was the security guard it's a bad town that needs a security guard...
    dfries63 dfries63 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 23

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    So I met a girl recently who spiked my interest in astrology, which i had been raised to mistrust and reject. It was a sin to entertain it because it was seeking counsel in...
    babybop12 babybop12 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Hi everyone, there's something I need to get of my chest and it's killing me. I'm a 27 year old woman who recently got out of a relationship with a muslim man. I met him about 7...
    Katef88 Katef88 22-25 1 Response Apr 8

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    It's been a very long time since I've been in a relationship with him.He broke it off a long time ago and it was one of the worst days of my life.After the breakup, I avoided the...
    KAYDUBAU KAYDUBAU 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I'm 13 and haven't hit puberty yet. I haven't got any hair on my body and my penis is still kinda small :/ anyone going through the same or just anyone that can offer help message...
    charlie131 charlie131 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    Although I am just in my primary stage in adulthood, Man do I wish I could redo my childhood or my youth for that matter. I'm so stressed out and worried about everything and all...
    MarcellusZaynn MarcellusZaynn 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    ok. so fate being what it will, I'm happy. I loved talking to you, I'm happy you are talking to me. I'm so happy I almost can't stand it. I just want one moment. With you. To climb...
    individualfreedom individualfreedom 26-30 Apr 14

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    "You'll get over it!" "You deserve better!" "You'll find someone else!" I've been waiting. I've been praying. I don't even pray for him to come back, I just pray to let go. I don't...
    MissAutumn MissAutumn 18-21, F Apr 17

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    I am 16 yrs old girl and in my life happened something strange that I cant understand but I love and I cant let go altough it is hurting me and I just can't decide what is right so...
    nitheism nitheism 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 18

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    So many times my mother has hurt me and rejected me and ostracised me. She has a mental illness and everyone makes excuses for her behaviour, but my brothers are welcome there my...
    Vmmars Vmmars 31-35 Apr 12

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    It's been over a month since I have been on here and I apologize to those who've messaged me and had no response.
    Indomitable6811 Indomitable6811 18-21, F Apr 20

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    As a young boy and only child, my son had separation anxieties. He was shy, had a hard time blending with other kids. He was sensitive. He took reprimands very seriously. I...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 23

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    So earlier today I made a trip to macdonalds. I was really hungry so I first sat in the toilets and drank 2 full bottles of vegetable oil to increase my appetite. I order my huge...
    thatfatblondechick thatfatblondechick 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 25

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    I studied him before he knew who I was. I read everything he wrote and felt as if we were sharing the same lives. I had to get his attention. I wanted to communicate with him...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F Apr 26

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    He hurt me so badly but I still miss him. There was a time when I would have died for him, he was my whole world. I hate myself for still loving him, but I'm scared that I'll never...
    Madison18 Madison18 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I've been asked before, but I've been saving myself for when I know what I want so I don't regret my first time. And I'm glad I waited because now I know the type of person I want...
    MagHow MagHow 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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