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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-18, F Nov 6, 2007

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    The guy that I still have feelings for I use to be scared of saying hi now he stammers a bit saying hi and steals a glance oh if he didn't lead me on it wouldn't be like this :(
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    So my guy best friend ( the boy i like ) went out to a party last weekend. I couldn't go because i was sick. So anyway after the party had finished he called me when he got home to...
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    Last night, for the first time in over 7 years, I cried over him. Deep, heart wrenching sobs. I'm not sure why I was crying. I had done the stupid thing of reading my old diaries...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    MaraIsNotKawaii MaraIsNotKawaii 13-15, F Sep 18

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    I did it again ... I read my old diaries, the ones from my time with him. It's so strange thinking about how long ago it was. It seems like it just happened. But it'll be ten years...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I still love him so much. I wanted to talk to him but he ignores my call or text so I jus stop. I treated him like we were married and he jus broke my heart. I never thought he...
    amly68 amly68 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 17

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    mynameiskayla mynameiskayla 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    iambacknow iambacknow 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    eflor1436 eflor1436 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    My wedding was planned next Monday, we broke up 2 months ago, and i still love an miss him as much as i did before..
    dipressedban dipressedban 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Qwerty089193 Qwerty089193 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    GabbyCot GabbyCot 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I do but I feel like it will take time for me to actually get over him. Hopefully soon.
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    He was the love of my life but I guess I need to get over him I don't like sadness
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    smackedagain smackedagain 13-15, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    SirenaVonLee SirenaVonLee 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    maggie3333333 maggie3333333 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    sunniedays89 sunniedays89 22-25, F Sep 3

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    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 19

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    I hate it, but I've gotten used to it. In college, my friends started gossiping about me because I had a different schedule from them. I had no choice but to meet and hangout...
    lonelydinosaur lonelydinosaur 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I guess I need an outlet and have enjoyed many of the stories and things I've read here....So I thought I should just write about the last year of my life and see what people think...
    trafik25 trafik25 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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