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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-18, F Nov 6, 2007

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    let go of that ex you think ur still in love with. it's not ez but worth it. move on. once you move on someone worth you will come your way. we can't get over the ex because we are...
    Alanis1024 Alanis1024 36-40, F 3 hrs ago

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    This was my dream. At the time, it was the guy that I fell head over heels for. In the dream, we were married and had two kids. A seven year old, blonde, girl, and a brown, curly...
    stretch25 stretch25 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Last night we technically hung out for the first time in over a year (we were together for two years). We barely spoke and I felt as though he purposely was starring straight. He...
    december789 december789 16-17, F Dec 30, 2014

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    I'm over you, I just need to stop talking about you, I can't say I forgive you and still bad mouth you. Knowing you so long made me feel a way when you did what you did. But it's...
    staytrue123 staytrue123 18-21, F Jan 5

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    it has been a couple of months now we have been apart, it hasn't been easy but it was the right decision to make, It was all good in the beginning like two lovers destined to meet...
    afiomai afiomai 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I would have thought by now I would have gotten over him. I've been on several dates. Kissed other men. Nothing feels the same. I don't know what to do. I've tried being nice to...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    Ok here goes. In the fourth grade I had just moved back to a school I had been to in second grade(I move quite a lot). As soon as I was back this boy started talking to me and...
    Bonshaquitalafondria20 Bonshaquitalafondria20 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Good afternoon. Still not fully over my ex boyfriend. I did something foolish and unblocked him from facebook. I wanted to see what he was up to and if he was still with the girl I...
    RangerSarah RangerSarah 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    So I've got a ton of stories on here about Brandon. This one isn't. This one is about Moogle, the guy I was with before Brandon. Christmas Eve three years ago was the last night...
    MadamAZC MadamAZC 22-25, F Dec 31, 2014

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    In kindergarten we never really talk but after school we play outside till nightfall. I lived up on a hill that over looked his house and the town. In first grade I got held back...
    PoopieNoodle PoopieNoodle 18-21, F Jan 12

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    So my most recent ex-boyfriend of course knows how much I still and always will love him. We had a great 2.5 year relationship, but then he got some opportunities in Alaska for...
    CaliforniaCobra CaliforniaCobra 26-30 Jan 1

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    I met and fell in love with the man I had an affair with before I even met my husband, but he never noticed me that way, until of course I was engaged. I met the other man when I...
    pamdaqtpi pamdaqtpi 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I haven't gotten over all the emotional scarring but bruises heal and I had to move on.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Its been a few months since I found out he cheated on me, and I still find myself crying a puddle over him as well as still looking at his social media profiles. Yes, I am...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    he's hurt me so much and I just go right back to him when he wants me to cuz I love him so much I don't think he knows how much he has hurt me... I know I've hurt him but that was...
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Yeah if he'd leave me alone after breakup and let me get over him and move on, I'd be so happy
    Nausicaafreckled Nausicaafreckled 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I hate him because he never had the balls to pursue me. But most of all, I hate myself for not giving him enough reason to pursue me. True that! I'm different in that I ignore the...
    malipatient malipatient 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 12

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    I'm having a hard time thinking about him..everynight, every time I'm alone I can not help myself to think of him.. I wanna forget him cause I know that he can't love me like I...
    magebricks magebricks 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    Writing on her is beyond nerve wracking. Guys , she's back again. I have been with my guy for almost 3 years now, and her she is again. Ready to spin my world around and be a part...
    WhiteOrchid403 WhiteOrchid403 22-25, F Jan 8

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    so just a lil life update; im still single, im a sales girl at marks&spencer klcc, my phone got stolen but got a new one right away and then smashed the back of the new one, havent...
    sophiexone sophiexone 16-17, F Jan 1

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    Speeding ticket... Hi everyone just got spanked by my husband for a speeding ticket I received on the 11th of January. £90 and three points... Not the first time though. Anyway I...
    lauraAd lauraAd 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 14

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    I'm sure this has been on here before but I'm new so…here I am asking for encouragement and stories of common experiences. I know he is abusive. Emotionally and occasionally...
    flugelbread flugelbread 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    three Invest in some distilled h2o to dissolve the Vitamin C in. This are available at grocery and drug merchants.What's the differece in between ascorbic acid and L ascorbic...
    Anthonick826k7ka4 Anthonick826k7ka4 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    I haven't been on this site in weeks, logged on over an hour ago and I'm still on!! Making up for lost time I guess!
    ocaseygirl ocaseygirl 31-35, F 4 days ago

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    I love my little wolf demon so much I never want to let him go or be away from me. I never let him out of my sight. We are always talking and having fun together. Sigh love.
    Wolfy14 Wolfy14 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    So the story starts out is i known him for 2 years and we been friends but he lives in LA, so i met him through another friend from a game we both played online. We are both 24. so...
    cakess cakess 22-25, F Jan 6

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    I suppose this is equally a question as it is an experience. I need to have the experience to express in detail what happened, and what has resulted -what I've become. I need...
    CatherineGray CatherineGray 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    The fact that I am calling him that destroys me. It's been months now. I picked myself up dusted myself off and we were still on good terms, even though I betrayed him. I came home...
    saraandherfoxes saraandherfoxes 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    Ok I'm just going to vent. It's so hard trying not to think about him. It's been a year so why am I still hurting? He was my first kiss and everything but he rejected me. I still...
    batjokes batjokes 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    I am married five years but started to feel like something was missing in my life. Passion was lacking in my marriage and my career. I met "John" and we immediately clicked. I...
    Anastasia2000 Anastasia2000 31-35, F Jan 9

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    So, here I am, an adult...and I find myself to have fallen in love with a man that has never been in a relationship. I know that he knows my feelings for him. And everyone else...
    BlueMoonLuck BlueMoonLuck 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I have been so emotional. It has been 7 weeks since we have been intimate, and I have only spent 1 afternoon with him during this time😩 He says he is trying to figure things...
    nitrolove nitrolove 46-50, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    My ex gf cheated on me with my best friend 5 years ago. I'm still not over it even my family still hates her. Besides my brother and my current gf no one else know me and her were...
    JoeC201 JoeC201 18-21, M Jan 1

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    We were married for 8 years. He still is my best friend. I just saw him yesterday to get some stuff from the house. I didn't want to leave. We were laying on the bed just talking...
    meganm1994 meganm1994 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I mean his my everything I just can never see myself without him . We fight like couples he has gotten me so mad like u don't even know but that doesn't mean I will end it all...
    Iloveastronomy Iloveastronomy 18-21, F Jan 6

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    I've never posted anything on here before, but at this point I simply don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for around 2.5 years now, and both of us are in...
    makitath makitath 18-21, F Jan 14

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    Perhaps even more admirable still is that he listens. I've said before I will never cheat (and I WON'T) but there have been times where I would worry about feeling, well it's a...
    BelleGold BelleGold 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    So here we go...I fell in love with someone and I keep thinking about him ALL the time. But the sad thing is, he is famous and I am not. By famous, I don't mean singer, actor...
    queendragoness queendragoness 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    he couldn't handle my emotional meltdowns (typical BPD style) and confessed to his wife a vm "toned down" version, a calculated move, before he risked the chance of me telling on...
    69NTD8 69NTD8 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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