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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-18, F Nov 6, 2007

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    I keep crying over him and he wasn't even mine. Can people message me? I need to get over him.
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    He cried a whole year after breaking up with his ex, and he used to talk to me about her. Then we got into a relationship, and he broke it off this year. I'm still upset about it...
    Lonelyndepressedgirl Lonelyndepressedgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    I can not get over Daniel. He is my love and star. I Miss being his girlfriend more than he probably understands. My dad use to say you can't really love or Miss someone you haven...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I can't get over a guy I was seeing earlier this year. He was completely my type..his place was literally next to mine (no joke)! We had amazing sex and that's all I think about. I...
    billabonggirl27 billabonggirl27 22-25, F Sep 5

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    I have always known it would be hard to hear of him finally falling for someone else. I just recently realized though; that I'd get back together with him over any of my ex's...
    Ilovehavingbraces Ilovehavingbraces 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    The guy that I still have feelings for I use to be scared of saying hi now he stammers a bit saying hi and steals a glance oh if he didn't lead me on it wouldn't be like this :(
    bohemianlife925 bohemianlife925 16-17, F Sep 3

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    All this time I thought I didn't have feelings for him now since Iam seeing him in school most of the time now feelings are getting deeper gosh I wish sometime I was emotionless...
    bohemianlife925 bohemianlife925 16-17, F Sep 5

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    He was my everything, I loved him. He treated me like a princess and I felt so happy. Then he left....out of the blew...and I've cried everyday ever since.
    purelove246 purelove246 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I talked to my ex for the first time in over a year. It killed me. He is what you call natural beauty. I wonder if he felt the same ;(
    december789 december789 16-17, F a week ago

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    My names Rayanna McRee and I'm going to be writing you tonight about a man that changed my life. I couldn't keep this in any longer because its been tearing me apart for 4 years...
    Avalina20 Avalina20 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I am a woman in my mid-30s and have Asperger Syndrome. Even with that, I completed my MBA in accounting after toying with the possibility of careers in healthcare and even law...
    nschulm nschulm 31-35, F 10 hrs ago

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    Hi... My name is Autumn. Me n my boyfriend had been together almost 3 months we had dated wen I was 14 but it was bad timing bc he's 3 years older. So we gave it another shot bck...
    autumn977 autumn977 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Last night, for the first time in over 7 years, I cried over him. Deep, heart wrenching sobs. I'm not sure why I was crying. I had done the stupid thing of reading my old diaries...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I go on holiday every summer to Greece to see my family. About 3 summers ago I met a boy who lived next door to us, called Thodoris. I was 14 and he was 17. I only speak a little...
    Ame101 Ame101 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Once again, I should be asleep. But instead I am awake... Thinking about him, as usual. I almost cried. But I keep telling myself I don't cry over him anymore. What is wrong with...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F Sep 1

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    So here's a complicated story. I'm Mara. I'm 15 and I am a complicated young character. You see, where I live I don't have many friends so I catch the bus out of my town to go to...
    MaraIsNotKawaii MaraIsNotKawaii 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    Well actually it was pretty easy getting over him. His name is jack and he was my recent boyfriend until two months ago. He and his pals put a bet on who could get a snog(kiss...
    Smexyshannonxo Smexyshannonxo 13-15, F Aug 25

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    I did it again ... I read my old diaries, the ones from my time with him. It's so strange thinking about how long ago it was. It seems like it just happened. But it'll be ten years...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I still love him so much. I wanted to talk to him but he ignores my call or text so I jus stop. I treated him like we were married and he jus broke my heart. I never thought he...
    amly68 amly68 22-25, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love him, he has blocked me on everything today so there is no longer anyway I can talk to him. I never did anything to him. I tried to get to know his 'friend' better to find...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 20

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    So there's this boy. We've been best friends for 9 months. And last month he took my virginity. Now at the time we did it for fun and we knew where eachother stood, it was a...
    mynameiskayla mynameiskayla 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I'm 24. He's 38. A wife. Two kids. One is two. The other a year almost. He's my co-worker. We share an office together. The first time i saw him, time slowed. His marriage was in...
    lostemt lostemt 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I can't get over him. He told me to let him go because he's moved on with someone else but I can't. He treated me like crap which makes me feel worse about not being able to move...
    Qwerty089193 Qwerty089193 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    I might always have feelings for him somewhere in my heart... But he treated me like **** and i dont want someone like that but its soo hard to get over him... Luckily im talking...
    bballcutie14 bballcutie14 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    just thinking about this puts so much anger back into my soul.... you're going to think I'm the biggest idiot after reading this,but here goes.... I was fifteen years old. He was...
    jaycer jaycer 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    2 1/2yrs togthr. Now its over. He is a stubborn man tht rarely shows emotion. He waited 2yrs to tell me he loves me cuz he wanted to mean it. We were happy, same life interests...
    Beckarae Beckarae 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    Divorce was filed 12 hours ago. Guess the notice is coming later today by certified mail. I was checking my FB and got the dreaded "FB kick-in-the-gut" when I noticed that my own...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    You will discover rooms with lounge (or apartments) sleeping both 2 or four persons. The annex building offers double rooms and single rooms. Both equally solitary and double...
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    Sometimes I think if this really happen to me because it is such a surreal story. I find myself thinking of him often and this is someone I know nothing about in fact I've just...
    B33sus B33sus 26-30 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    So my last post was in July and I believe it was about starting over. Well, starting over is definitely what I have done. Of course, I am still working on things because nothing...
    sunniedays89 sunniedays89 22-25, F Sep 3

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    Unfortunately, I don't often succeed. It has gotten worse since I am pregnant. I completely lose it emotionally and put my poor husband through hell. I expect him to understand...
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    I would do just about absolutely anything to be back together with my boyfriend and just to be able to hold him at night and wake up to him in the morning. I would give up all my...
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    They say that when you often talk about someone who breaks your heart, when you still cry over the break-up, when you wallow in self-pity, disgust & can't move on to another...
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    When my wife and I first met, we were both in loveless relationships. A simple handshake in late 2005 took us down a complicated road of friendship, love, loss, love again...
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    I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We met at university through a mutual friend. We don't live together as we live and work in different cities and I am still caring...
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