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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 40 People

    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 1 Response May 9, 2012

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-17, F Nov 6, 2007

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    I might as well be single because he can't stay faithful... our children being together is the only reason I am with him. I feel sad when I think about him. he doesn't get me or...
    somebodyssomebody somebodyssomebody 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    Hoping that writing this will just make it stop. It's been a while since I thought of him and yet my heart still aches when I do. It's been 3 years since I last spoke with him or...
    js246 js246 22-25, F 10 hrs ago

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    Yeah, I know, I'm 14 and still wet the bed. The funny thing is I really don't care, because diapers are pretty comfortable... Message me if you also wet and are 10-15. :)
    JackTheSlayer JackTheSlayer 13-15, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Every man and every woman is entitled to whatever type of person they like. Just because a man does not like an obese out of shape woman does not mean there's something wrong with...
    niceguycursed niceguycursed 31-35, M 14 hrs ago

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    i have been killed off so many times its sad.. then you put everything in a place where it is gone from your mind.. but it creeps back up .. and there it is.. yesterday i was...
    FreeThinker2 FreeThinker2 51-55 1 day ago

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    i still love my first love even though hes been dead for 7 years its still hard getting over it
    aaron4455 aaron4455 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Even though am probably the last thing on his mind I still have feelings for him.
    Kadeez Kadeez 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I really wish I hadn't married my husband. the only reason we got married is because I was pregnant and had a whole bunch of people yacking in my ear and convinced me. I should of...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I cant get over a guy I crushed on in the past. I still like him, but in society and my religion to god it would never be acceptable. I dont want to break gods rules, I would...
    figureskaterr96 figureskaterr96 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    It bothers me that my girlfriend is still hung up on the **** her ex had to say about her, they were together for 5 years, so yes there was alot of love and more, they tried to be...
    firesoul07 firesoul07 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I was 16. He's not my first, though. I've had crushes on guys since i could remember.. But he was the one that kept rejecting me. To others; he was the nerd, one of the brains in...
    bellabong bellabong 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Heart Is Broken Evanescence I will wander 'til the end of time, torn away from you. I pulled away to face the pain. I close my eyes and drift away. Over the fear that I will...
    Jackie69C Jackie69C 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    Feel like I'm in a constant nightmare. My boyfriend is still in jail. Have no clue if he is going to get out and be put in drug court or be stuck in jail for a while. People in my...
    skatinem13 skatinem13 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    People be like..."You changed" i be like "No i havent changed, i have grown , from a caterpillar to a beautiful colorful butterfly...
    sparksspunk sparksspunk 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    The rumble of the heavy railcars is audible long before the eerie, drawn-out sound of the whistle echoes through my open window. Memories flood in, uninvited. Suddenly it's no...
    MandyWhat MandyWhat 26-30 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've been in an on & off relationship with my ex. He's a United States marine.. I regretted that I didn't trust him. & I think, no matter how many more guys I meet in the future...
    mskuran mskuran 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I read an article recently over 'unhealthy soul ties'. It's a warning I've heard before for young ladies cautioning them against giving themselves away sexually. The article stated...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 46-50, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I still think of him quite often ,even though I haven't seen him in 10 years.. I still really care for him and I would like to know how his life turned out.. "PLUS IT'S PRETTY EASY...
    lovelee83 lovelee83 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 5

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    He's the first person who made me experience how love actually feels. He made me a better person than I was before I met him and he was my inspiration. I owe him and I can't...
    Genesol Genesol 18-21, F 4 Responses Feb 4

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    5 months on and i am still trying to put the pieces of my life back together for myself and my kids whilst the ex is living like he doesnt have a care in the world..why does it...
    kylieheartbroken kylieheartbroken 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    My stranger for a Mother has refused to pay my bills once again. I have a $2000 bill to pay. The only reason that I ran it up was because I was working, but my stranger for a...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F Feb 2

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    There has been one "relationship" in my life that has been toxic. I met Nick online several years ago. He said all the right things, wanted to spend time with me, claimed to...
    mica3021 mica3021 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    In 2006, I had to have a hip replacement, I was in the hospital, the surgery did not go well, and I was in a lot of pain. As the doctors had fractured my right knee during surgery...
    darlingrose darlingrose 70+, F 12 Responses Feb 2

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    He's on my mind almost all the time. I'm happy whenever we are talking and sad when we're not. Sometimes I feel like I'm being so pushy and really clingy cause I have so much time...
    oyen oyen 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    Some days I wish that our paths had never crossed and I'd never gotten the chance to meet you--to know you--to be held in your arms and to fall hopelessly in love with you. Some...
    yourgirlalex yourgirlalex 18-21, F Feb 1

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    and he still loves me but I'm scared to ask him out since he broke up with me then he asked me back out again and I turned him down but today he said " np anything for my ex" and...
    aby2015 aby2015 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    The guy I've been crushing on for a couple of weeks ... I still am falling for him pretty hard... He might be falling for me but I'm not positive.....
    Camrakes Camrakes 16-17, F Jan 28

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    So not only was this person physically perfect but he seemed to get me. However the issues were endless. 1)I spoke to him first (which us ladies should never do because real men...
    reginastrength reginastrength 22-25, F Jan 27

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    MEETING SOMEONE NEW is always exciting especially when you discover you have INSTANT chemistry! I am currently getting to know a beautiful young lady with a wild imagination...
    HollowBravado HollowBravado 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 26

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    My first serious girlfriend. Saved my life way back then, more than 30 years ago. She gave me a choice - either her or the drugs, and I chose her and cleaned up. We were together...
    egbertnosh egbertnosh 51-55, M Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 26

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    is name is (initials) Z.T, my first love/boyfriend ..we met when i was 14? (young silly love, didn't get really serious until i reached my Sophmore year) and dated until after i...
    anonymouskiwi anonymouskiwi 22-25, T Jan 26

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    From the age of 18, when I joined the college I had a crush on this guy who was an year senior to me. Even though he used to smile at me and all I never talked to him because I...
    anandchandran anandchandran 22-25, M