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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-18, F Nov 6, 2007

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    My ex dumped me a year and a half ago and has never spoken to me since. He quickly meet another woman and married her in 6 months time. He told me he loved me when obviously he was...
    brainwrecked brainwrecked 36-40, F Aug 15

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    I keep crying over him and he wasn't even mine. Can people message me? I need to get over him.
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 24

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    He cried a whole year after breaking up with his ex, and he used to talk to me about her. Then we got into a relationship, and he broke it off this year. I'm still upset about it...
    Lonelyndepressedgirl Lonelyndepressedgirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 28

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    I can't get over a guy I was seeing earlier this year. He was completely my type..his place was literally next to mine (no joke)! We had amazing sex and that's all I think about. I...
    billabonggirl27 billabonggirl27 22-25, F Sep 5

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    The guy that I still have feelings for I use to be scared of saying hi now he stammers a bit saying hi and steals a glance oh if he didn't lead me on it wouldn't be like this :(
    bohemianlife925 bohemianlife925 16-17, F Sep 3

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    All this time I thought I didn't have feelings for him now since Iam seeing him in school most of the time now feelings are getting deeper gosh I wish sometime I was emotionless...
    bohemianlife925 bohemianlife925 16-17, F Sep 5

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    He was my everything, I loved him. He treated me like a princess and I felt so happy. Then he left....out of the blew...and I've cried everyday ever since.
    purelove246 purelove246 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I talked to my ex for the first time in over a year. It killed me. He is what you call natural beauty. I wonder if he felt the same ;(
    december789 december789 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    And it's a one-sided story. He'll never know. We don't meet.
    SecretsOut14 SecretsOut14 18-21, F Aug 15

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    My names Rayanna McRee and I'm going to be writing you tonight about a man that changed my life. I couldn't keep this in any longer because its been tearing me apart for 4 years...
    Avalina20 Avalina20 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Hi... My name is Autumn. Me n my boyfriend had been together almost 3 months we had dated wen I was 14 but it was bad timing bc he's 3 years older. So we gave it another shot bck...
    autumn977 autumn977 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Last night, for the first time in over 7 years, I cried over him. Deep, heart wrenching sobs. I'm not sure why I was crying. I had done the stupid thing of reading my old diaries...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    I go on holiday every summer to Greece to see my family. About 3 summers ago I met a boy who lived next door to us, called Thodoris. I was 14 and he was 17. I only speak a little...
    Ame101 Ame101 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Once again, I should be asleep. But instead I am awake... Thinking about him, as usual. I almost cried. But I keep telling myself I don't cry over him anymore. What is wrong with...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F Sep 1

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    Well actually it was pretty easy getting over him. His name is jack and he was my recent boyfriend until two months ago. He and his pals put a bet on who could get a snog(kiss...
    Smexyshannonxo Smexyshannonxo 13-15, F Aug 25

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    Before I use to tell him I love him every time we talk or every 30 minutes. A few days ago he cheated on me for the second time and I caught him the same day and confronted him...
    Kallman92 Kallman92 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I did it again ... I read my old diaries, the ones from my time with him. It's so strange thinking about how long ago it was. It seems like it just happened. But it'll be ten years...
    ImpossibleHeart ImpossibleHeart 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I love him, he has blocked me on everything today so there is no longer anyway I can talk to him. I never did anything to him. I tried to get to know his 'friend' better to find...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 20

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    So there's this boy. We've been best friends for 9 months. And last month he took my virginity. Now at the time we did it for fun and we knew where eachother stood, it was a...
    mynameiskayla mynameiskayla 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    Lestermg94 Lestermg94 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    I can't get over him. He told me to let him go because he's moved on with someone else but I can't. He treated me like crap which makes me feel worse about not being able to move...
    Qwerty089193 Qwerty089193 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 1

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    This time a year ago I was laying in a hospital bed, I had taken on overdose on paracetamol. The story of my trip the eventual overdose starts a year and a half ago, when my ex...
    dankenyon86 dankenyon86 26-30, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    This really sucks. Being in a bad relationship has been THE most taxing and draining experience of my entire life. As we speak, I HATE HIM and I am also still in love. Maybe what I...
    SinginGlamChick85 SinginGlamChick85 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    (2)... We had been meeting for months and although we would have a fantastic time together I often felt brushed off and forgotten until he wanted me again. I suspected there was...
    1a2l3j 1a2l3j 46-50, F 1 hr ago

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    A further essential stage will be to embrace the freshness and clarity of quaint drinking water and exchange sugary sodas with at the least sixty four ounces of drinking water each...
    James4815fxm8 James4815fxm8 31-35, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    If you have ever read any of my other stories you'll know I've been single for a long time. It was innocent when it began. I was drawn to his picture on the wall and told him I'd...
    1a2l3j 1a2l3j 46-50, F 1 hr ago

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    My first love. We were friends from college, and 6 years after meeting each other, we plunged into a serious, 1.5 year relationship that was long distance for all but 2 months. We...
    sometimesIwander sometimesIwander 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm currently 15, Bi. I have a girlfriend, and she's great. I love her so much. But there's a guy.. I like him too. I've sexted with him quite a lot of times. Everytime we do, I...
    YoungAndCurios YoungAndCurios 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    The guy I liked is a complete idiot, he just enjoys kissing and touching up girls. But when he started doing those things to me it was different he only liked me I was being called...
    Erdm Erdm 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    2 1/2yrs togthr. Now its over. He is a stubborn man tht rarely shows emotion. He waited 2yrs to tell me he loves me cuz he wanted to mean it. We were happy, same life interests...
    Beckarae Beckarae 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Even though we don't have a label on our relationship, I still want to have sex with him and kiss him and hug him and cuddle . I like the way he feels inside of me . I don't know...
    neuroticgal neuroticgal 22-25, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    (3)... Beau had been the arm around my shoulder I often vented on him over the past year. Not three days ago Leam txted me and we talked about him just finding comfort in his...
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    As I come out of the post office, I slowly head down the stairs, thinking about my life, and what it will become. How it will include you, and our unborn child, I smile. "I have...
    CongratulationS CongratulationS 22-25, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I think if this really happen to me because it is such a surreal story. I find myself thinking of him often and this is someone I know nothing about in fact I've just...
    B33sus B33sus 26-30 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I still believe in fairy tales I still believe in picking flowers I still believe in getting lost in someone’s eyes And talking for hours I still believe in shooting stars I...
    SweetEmotions SweetEmotions 36-40, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    So my last post was in July and I believe it was about starting over. Well, starting over is definitely what I have done. Of course, I am still working on things because nothing...
    sunniedays89 sunniedays89 22-25, F Sep 3

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    Unfortunately, I don't often succeed. It has gotten worse since I am pregnant. I completely lose it emotionally and put my poor husband through hell. I expect him to understand...
    VerveMum VerveMum 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    It has been over 30 years since I last saw her,I amm married and so is she. But I have never really had any closure from my love for her. We met by way of my step sister ,after we...
    highlander21666 highlander21666 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    FINALLY. I have pubic hair! It's Corey, 15, the bottom half of "The Jay and Corey Show." Today is a landmark in my life. Labor Day 2014. I woke up this morning and checked my penis...
    moltencorey moltencorey 13-15, M Sep 3

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