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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-18, F Nov 6, 2007

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    I deleted this story because I was getting over him and thought I didn't need it there.. but you know what.. I'm posting it again.. because life is a handful of bad and good...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F Mar 24

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    so in like February I was dating this guy [we'll call him James] and at first I reallyyyy liked him. a lot. then when we started dating, it was cool at first. but then he started...
    mahogany2136 mahogany2136 13-15, F Apr 7

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    So long story short I dated a sociopath for 3 years. worst experience of my life. He destroyed everything about me....for fun. I was so helplessly in love with someone who didnt...
    IndependentGrl IndependentGrl 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Ok ... I'm gonna be honest (chukle) Yes I look strong.. and I am brave lol... thats true... But.. inside I am weak, sensitive, and vulnerable... yes just like a ballon hahaha :p...
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    It's been two years since my ex boyfriend and I broke up. I'm still not over it. He recently started dating my best friend. Everyday they hang out together and kiss and flirt...
    unfaiir unfaiir 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I have tried so hard to get over someone I haven't even dated ! He's just my best friend and I've liked him forever, but no matter how hard I try I can't seem to like anyone else
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F a week ago

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    I once knew a guy for a few hours then i rode him and he busted inside me. About 5min after that i meet his wife.
    100slut 100slut 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I have been dating my boyfriend all through highschool an one day we are going to get married and be highschool sweethearts. We have been sexually active for almost 2 years. I have...
    Ashleygirl123 Ashleygirl123 18-21, F a week ago

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    The worst part of your past, is living with the scars that scare you away from even wanting to get back on the horse, or let someone in... cj.
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I can Honestly say, I'm almost 100% back to my old self :) listening to same old songs, talking to everyone about anything lol, and most important... I HAPPY :D
    Chabelle Chabelle 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    3 years off and on, long distance one day hes so sweet he says he loves me the next day hes soo distant with me hardly messages me i miss how things used to be but were not...
    yesiigarciaa yesiigarciaa 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm still pretty young but recently I've experienced 'love'. Or what I thought was love. I used to talk to a lot of guys and get around a lot until I met him. We had mutual friends...
    dreadedsunnydays dreadedsunnydays 18-21, F Mar 26

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    Last year I fell for a guy. This was not just some guy... I was an exchange student, 17 years, in Madrid, Spain, and he worked at a club. He was 10 year older than me. It all...
    lachickaloca lachickaloca 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    It was a chance encounter. It was only a chance encounter 294 days ago, but I cannot get him out of mind. On a whim, I took a trip up north last summer. At the last minute I wasn...
    CaliLove87 CaliLove87 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Strange as it might sound because I’m married with a child but I don’t think I’ve ever truly gotten over my first love. I guess I’m thinking about it more now as I’m not...
    northwestjames northwestjames 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    My name’s John, and on January 2nd, 2014, I met the guy of my dreams. Yes, I said guy. Yes, I am gay. I’ve told quite a few people but haven’t really got around to announcing...
    hallasholm101 hallasholm101 18-21 a week ago

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    I am having such a hard time getting over my last relationship. I met him online, on Facebook out of nowhere. We started hanging out, and things started to get more intense. He...
    visionsofexile visionsofexile 18-21, M Mar 20

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    He wasn't even my boyfriend (I have another experience where I detail our relationship, but let's just say that I was "the other woman"....twice). We only saw each other through a...
    rlc91 rlc91 22-25, F Mar 24

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    I met my first love 1993 we worked together I was only 17 he was 22. We flirted around each other for a year he was a Muslim practising so I did not think I had a chance. I told...
    natty999 natty999 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    so me and my ex broke up end of 2012 but i just cant seem to get over him!! even tho he treated me like complete **** ..isolated me from friends and family , beat me, broke my...
    smurfett22 smurfett22 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I can't get over my ex. I've had a few boyfriends and am in a relationship now even and still can't get over him. Probably doesn't help that I stalk him and his new girlfriend and...
    anonomyouslybroken anonomyouslybroken 18-21, F Mar 25

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    The title is my life. It happened 8 years ago. Wow, I can't believe it has been that long... At 7 years of marriage and 3 kids, my husband and I became roommates... I loved him but...
    swimminginemotions swimminginemotions 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    I know i should be over him by now but no. I fell in love with him after a break up, he was always there for me so i guess it was easier to love him. Anyway we were together about...
    Medusafreak Medusafreak 22-25, F Apr 3

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    Been in love with him since i was 12 years old and i cannot get him outta my blood. Never stopped loving him. I love my husband too. I am so confused. We use to talk occasionally...
    amazonwoman1 amazonwoman1 22-25, F Apr 9

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    The fire time I saw him, I swear I heard some music in my head. He was simply beautiful. He had these gorgeous thick eyelashes, which underneath were hidden the cutest emerald eyes...
    ibak12 ibak12 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend broke up with me because we were "growing apart" So in other words, he doesn't love me anymore. It is so difficult to get over him now, because I still love him. I'd...
    ashley719 ashley719 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I'm still in love with him. I don't know what to do. I want to be over him but it's so hard. He broke my heart but I still can't get over him.
    WeekndOVOXO WeekndOVOXO 16-17, F Mar 22

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    This is my story, I gave up everything for a guy : My friends, my family, my career everything and I was ready to give him everything, I never said NO for anything he wanted. I...
    cutiehmm cutiehmm 26-30 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My heart breaks into millions of pieces when I hear his name, look at him, see something that reminds me of him, a song that makes me think of him. His face pops up no matter what...
    stephox3 stephox3 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    i met this man online and he was separated from his wife. We got on well together. The more i talked to him the most i liked him. He is alot older than me. I am 45 in May and he is...
    Babe69 Babe69 41-45, F Mar 31

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    He was perfect. The kind of guy that had it all, popularity, friends, looks. perfect package. it would have taken a miracle for him to notice me, but he did. for a little while at...
    gtsl gtsl 18-21, F Apr 8

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    So at 16 I met this guy, I fell in love and five years later here I am still in love with him, we broke up a year after meeting, at 17 we got pregnant and fear drove me to have an...
    TheEmpress14 TheEmpress14 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Well as some of you may know I'm in a sexless and loveless marriage . I sat down and wrote my husband a letter about 3 weeks ago telling him that I wasn't happy and wanted out of...
    nothingrite nothingrite 51-55, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    So me and my fiance have been together 5 years. With in the first year he had done some shady stuff on line with girls. Ever since iv had such a hard time to trust him and recently...
    jamvu9 jamvu9 22-25, F Apr 7

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    And stop thinking all these little things are "things" at all. I need to stop guessing. We've been "done" for months. No more sneaking around. No more hand holding. No more tears...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 29

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    You can't even understand. He's an idol while I'm here stuck in a small town nobody knows about. He's halfway across the world and I've never met him before. It started over 10...
    exoflower exoflower 70+, F 7 hrs ago

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    we have been chasing and running from eachother..went through alot of pain.but now i'm finally over him, i feel whole and healed!..was he even my twinflame..false twin?..or he just...
    shinney shinney 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was completely heartbroken when I read of Cory's death back in July 2013. As a Glee fan, he was always my favourite character and I always wanted a man like him in my life. I was...
    stephanie1980 stephanie1980 31-35, F Mar 22

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    They always say you never stop loving your first true love. But it that really realistic? I'm not sure. But my first love and I broke up two years ago and I still occasionally...
    Jessica0906 Jessica0906 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    My ex and I were completely in love, we were perfect for each other and we knew it. The only problem was he continuously let his ex girlfriend walk all over him, me and our...
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I don't want to overthink but I still end up overthinking. Why am I overthinking this much? 😓😐
    iamblue1234 iamblue1234 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Idk why the **** am i still in love with him /my ex .And now , he doesn't even in love w me or probably never think bout me no more ... And now that i found that ,he already have...
    Christinamayday Christinamayday 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I fell in love with my best friend, now all I want to do is get over him. But I'm only breaking my heart in the process
    XoAmber XoAmber 18-21, F Mar 25

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    Since I was a little boy I didn't communicate with people. I was something like an introvert. Instead of improving my social life I started different activities like martial arts...
    ghos7 ghos7 22-25, M 3 hrs ago

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    My ex and I have been together two different times. The first time lasted 3 months and then 6 months later we ended up together again for a year. It's been a little over two months...
    LameyC LameyC 18-21, F 6 days ago

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