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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-18, F Nov 6, 2007

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I'm married with two kids and so is he. But our story started long before now. We went to high school together and had this instant attraction and dated for a little bit. We went...
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    I'm over you, I just need to stop talking about you, I can't say I forgive you and still bad mouth you. Knowing you so long made me feel a way when you did what you did. But it's...
    staytrue123 staytrue123 18-21, F Jan 5

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    let go of that ex you think ur still in love with. it's not ez but worth it. move on. once you move on someone worth you will come your way. we can't get over the ex because we are...
    Alanis1024 Alanis1024 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    I just really need to. enough said
    stretch25 stretch25 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I would have thought by now I would have gotten over him. I've been on several dates. Kissed other men. Nothing feels the same. I don't know what to do. I've tried being nice to...
    EmilyPouliot EmilyPouliot 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Ok here goes. In the fourth grade I had just moved back to a school I had been to in second grade(I move quite a lot). As soon as I was back this boy started talking to me and...
    Bonshaquitalafondria20 Bonshaquitalafondria20 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Good afternoon. Still not fully over my ex boyfriend. I did something foolish and unblocked him from facebook. I wanted to see what he was up to and if he was still with the girl I...
    RangerLucy RangerLucy 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    So I've got a ton of stories on here about Brandon. This one isn't. This one is about Moogle, the guy I was with before Brandon. Christmas Eve three years ago was the last night...
    MadamAZC MadamAZC 22-25, F Dec 31, 2014

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    In kindergarten we never really talk but after school we play outside till nightfall. I lived up on a hill that over looked his house and the town. In first grade I got held back...
    PoopieNoodle PoopieNoodle 18-21, F Jan 12

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    So my most recent ex-boyfriend of course knows how much I still and always will love him. We had a great 2.5 year relationship, but then he got some opportunities in Alaska for...
    CaliforniaCobra CaliforniaCobra 26-30 Jan 1

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    I met and fell in love with the man I had an affair with before I even met my husband, but he never noticed me that way, until of course I was engaged. I met the other man when I...
    pamdaqtpi pamdaqtpi 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 21

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    I met the most amazing guy I have ever known back in November. I gave him my number thinking he'd never bother with me. But then he sent me a text. We talked for just over a week...
    roserama87 roserama87 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    I haven't gotten over all the emotional scarring but bruises heal and I had to move on.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Jan 21

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    Its been a few months since I found out he cheated on me, and I still find myself crying a puddle over him as well as still looking at his social media profiles. Yes, I am...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    he's hurt me so much and I just go right back to him when he wants me to cuz I love him so much I don't think he knows how much he has hurt me... I know I've hurt him but that was...
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Yeah if he'd leave me alone after breakup and let me get over him and move on, I'd be so happy
    Nausicaafreckled Nausicaafreckled 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I hate him because he never had the balls to pursue me. But most of all, I hate myself for not giving him enough reason to pursue me. True that! I'm different in that I ignore the...
    2Paz 2Paz 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 12

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    Accepting: The phrase, "time heals all wounds" has to be the biggest crock of human sludge I've ever heard. Perhaps for normal people it is so, but it certainly isn't that way...
    dontknowdontcare dontknowdontcare 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I wish I could go back 3 to 4 years. So I could fix things between my ex boyfriend and me. To really help him get the help he needed. To really make him understand and see. To...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    we spent time together he bought me coffee we went out to a house he's building since he hasn't done things in a year he was a minute man but he's big i have a dancers body so he...
    carolinespecht4 carolinespecht4 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    okay Camille. stand there and watch me burn that's alright because I like the way it hurts, stand there baby and watch me cry that's alright because iam the one who lie.I know i...
    Lilyalexandergia Lilyalexandergia 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    In a months time I lost my job, the love of my life and now the depression is so bad I can't even care for my kids. In a week I will lose my home and car as well bc I still haven't...
    arshonda arshonda 36-40, F 1 Response 44 mins ago

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    Writing on her is beyond nerve wracking. Guys , she's back again. I have been with my guy for almost 3 years now, and her she is again. Ready to spin my world around and be a part...
    WhiteOrchid403 WhiteOrchid403 22-25, F Jan 8

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    so just a lil life update; im still single, im a sales girl at marks&spencer klcc, my phone got stolen but got a new one right away and then smashed the back of the new one, havent...
    sophiexone sophiexone 16-17, F Jan 1

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    Speeding ticket... Hi everyone just got spanked by my husband for a speeding ticket I received on the 11th of January. £90 and three points... Not the first time though. Anyway I...
    lauraAd lauraAd 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 14

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    I'm sure this has been on here before but I'm new so…here I am asking for encouragement and stories of common experiences. I know he is abusive. Emotionally and occasionally...
    flugelbread flugelbread 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I got in trouble in school a few days ago for emailing during class so i havent been on in forever..
    MichelleTanner MichelleTanner 13-15, F 23 hrs ago

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    three Invest in some distilled h2o to dissolve the Vitamin C in. This are available at grocery and drug merchants.What's the differece in between ascorbic acid and L ascorbic...
    Anthonick826k7ka4 Anthonick826k7ka4 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    So the story starts out is i known him for 2 years and we been friends but he lives in LA, so i met him through another friend from a game we both played online. We are both 24. so...
    cakess cakess 22-25, F Jan 6

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    I know. I know. I'm only 13. Everyone tells me not to worry it about. They say I shouldn't be concerned until I'm 15. If I still haven't started puberty by then, I should see my...
    00Henry 00Henry 13-15, M 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    Since the moment I met him, which was over a year ago, I have been in such deep like with him, sometimes it's hard to think straight. I haven't liked anyone else since I met him...
    dawnqt dawnqt 18-21, F 16 hrs ago

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    I need something to take my mind off my life...bc every conversation or look people give me I think about over and over for hours and it's exhausting
    xxangellynnxx xxangellynnxx 16-17, F 1 Response 54 mins ago

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    Ok I'm just going to vent. It's so hard trying not to think about him. It's been a year so why am I still hurting? He was my first kiss and everything but he rejected me. I still...
    batjokes batjokes 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Anastasia2000 Anastasia2000 31-35, F Jan 9

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    So, here I am, an adult...and I find myself to have fallen in love with a man that has never been in a relationship. I know that he knows my feelings for him. And everyone else...
    BlueMoonLuck BlueMoonLuck 22-25, F Jan 20

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    My ex gf cheated on me with my best friend 5 years ago. I'm still not over it even my family still hates her. Besides my brother and my current gf no one else know me and her were...
    JoeC201 JoeC201 18-21, M Jan 1

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    We were married for 8 years. He still is my best friend. I just saw him yesterday to get some stuff from the house. I didn't want to leave. We were laying on the bed just talking...
    meganm1994 meganm1994 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I mean his my everything I just can never see myself without him . We fight like couples he has gotten me so mad like u don't even know but that doesn't mean I will end it all...
    Iloveastronomy Iloveastronomy 18-21, F Jan 6

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