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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-17, F Nov 6, 2007

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    I know I sometimes seem to make him jealous when I talk about my new boyfriend years after him but we broke up months ago for a good reason. Well, it wasn't my fault that my ex...
    RoselynnPila RoselynnPila 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Long story short, this guy had liked me since 2007. Eventually we started dating in 2009. In 2010 we broke up (so it was only 13 months long). I was 19-20 when this happened and he...
    monosaccharide monosaccharide 22-25 2 Responses Mar 19

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    Just posting this to get it off my mind. (LONG.) Lately my ex and I have been texting here and there for the last month even though he has a girlfriend now. (Note: We're 1000...
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Hello everyone. I've been MIA from my MM for 4 weeks and 1 day. This is monumental because usually I cave after 4 weeks to the day. (You could set your watch to it.) I've...
    ArizonaCheater ArizonaCheater 46-50 Mar 25

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    It's been a year since me and this guy broke up. We went out in the beginning of freshmen year and we broke up before summer came up. I moved schools for a month but came back and...
    JusttSomeonee JusttSomeonee 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    So this is now week 6 and 4 days tomorrow that we've had no contact with one another. 4 months since we've seen each other. I feel like I could just die. I miss him soooo much...
    ArizonaCheater ArizonaCheater 46-50 5 Responses Apr 9

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    No matter how much he hurt me I still tend to love him even more. I said I will give all my love for him and I think I did. Because during December 2014, I realized it's been two...
    RoselynnPila RoselynnPila 16-17, F 14 hrs ago

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    He came to drop something off for my mom. He asked how I was doing and I lied and said I was alright. Then he apologized for slapping me and I said sorry for being rude to his...
    ChildOfHarmony ChildOfHarmony 16-17, F Apr 7

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    We went on a date and I fell for him hard. Two days later I want to his house and hung out with him. The next day he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship. Why can't I get...
    haiimlola haiimlola 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I really don't understand. My ex boyfriend broke up with me after he moved back home in December. After that he invited me to his house on Valentine's weekend and he acted like...
    TheSongPlaysWithin TheSongPlaysWithin 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    He's my soul mate. Though, I didn't realize it the first time I met him. I saw him the first time in two years a couple days ago. I had the oppirtunity to look deep in his eyes...
    cowellowl cowellowl 22-25 Mar 24

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    Got over him a year ago But the feelings. Came back
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    we were friends ever since i was 8 years old and he  asked me and i said yes and last friday we got in a fight and he broke up with me but i still have feelings for him and...
    pretty12345678 pretty12345678 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I am 16 yrs old girl and in my life happened something strange that I cant understand but I love and I cant let go altough it is hurting me and I just can't decide what is right so...
    nitheism nitheism 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    It's been three years since I moved away from where I used to live. I've gotten a lot better but there's still a ways to go. (This is very long so I don't know if anyone will...
    aki98 aki98 16-17, T Apr 1

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    Something from my past has recently come up, in a way. Just recently a friend of mine went through a very similar situation as I did when I was 12. In 2009, I found my older...
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I remember the bright summer day, when I went to a friend house who had a five week old litter of kittens. My friend suggested I take one, and I felt the strangest pull inside me...
    4gotwhereIwas 4gotwhereIwas 26-30 a week ago

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    I need to get right with me. Do you know what I mean? I need to get my head right and get right with me. My life isn’t bad, I just feel like something’s missing. And I know...
    ChristinaWrites ChristinaWrites 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I met this guy online through someone I met on here actually. We're the same age. Anyways, we dated for 6 months until last month. It was amazing, but I screwed things up by being...
    IllusionalDreamer IllusionalDreamer 16-17, F Mar 23

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    I met this guy online through someone I met on here actually. We're the same age. Anyways, we dated for 6 months until last month. It was amazing, but I screwed things up by being...
    IllusionalDreamer IllusionalDreamer 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    For want of an easier explanation, my brain is currently trying to process everything that is going on, and my poor brain is crashing under the pressure. I have had to reboot a...
    kinkysexybabe kinkysexybabe 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    So I met a girl recently who spiked my interest in astrology, which i had been raised to mistrust and reject. It was a sin to entertain it because it was seeking counsel in...
    babybop12 babybop12 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Hi everyone, there's something I need to get of my chest and it's killing me. I'm a 27 year old woman who recently got out of a relationship with a muslim man. I met him about 7...
    Katef88 Katef88 22-25 Apr 8

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    I still jump on the bed when I get a chance!
    chichi4441 chichi4441 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I havent lost faith in humanity as yet but whoever abandoned this poor dog ... them I wish to rip their guts out and feed them to the swines. http://www.littlethings.com/dog...
    AcousticAnne1 AcousticAnne1 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I'm 13 and haven't hit puberty yet. I haven't got any hair on my body and my penis is still kinda small :/ anyone going through the same or just anyone that can offer help message...
    charlie131 charlie131 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    Although I am just in my primary stage in adulthood, Man do I wish I could redo my childhood or my youth for that matter. I'm so stressed out and worried about everything and all...
    MarcellusZaynn MarcellusZaynn 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    ok. so fate being what it will, I'm happy. I loved talking to you, I'm happy you are talking to me. I'm so happy I almost can't stand it. I just want one moment. With you. To climb...
    individualfreedom individualfreedom 26-30 3 days ago

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    "You'll get over it!" "You deserve better!" "You'll find someone else!" I've been waiting. I've been praying. I don't even pray for him to come back, I just pray to let go. I don't...
    MissAutumn MissAutumn 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    So many times my mother has hurt me and rejected me and ostracised me. She has a mental illness and everyone makes excuses for her behaviour, but my brothers are welcome there my...
    Vmmars Vmmars 31-35 6 days ago

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    Till this minute.. im hurt with the drastic change.. but i am no one to him besides a silent crush that i have for him.. and i never got over it. I want him to treat me like...
    Marshello Marshello 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    me and my boyfriend have been dating almost a year and I caught him cheating me over 6 times with 6 different people I only found out cause friends of mine told me he was deleting...
    DarkKnights10 DarkKnights10 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    When i finally got to experience him in the way i have been dreaming of for all these years, i discovered that not only is he appealing to my eyes but he is the most wonderful...
    solongago2 solongago2 31-35, F a week ago

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    The reason i want to meet a gay man for a friend is because I love male friends. I'm open to all friends really except the straight man. You can be gay, lesbian, bi, straight...
    heavenlyrose118 heavenlyrose118 41-45, F 7 hrs ago

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    I was married to him for 12 years, divorced. in 2004. it was 12 years of psychological abuse. I tried to leave him 3 times, finally successful on the 4th try. I can't seem to...
    MLang MLang 51-55, F Mar 25

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    He is my lover, my friend, my world .. He saved me from myself .. he showed me love that I never had ... the type of love that is normally just dreamed about .. Never in my life...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28