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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 37 People

    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-18, F Nov 6, 2007

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    It's been one year and still this man haunts my dreams...it's sucks because he broke my hearts so bad. I just want to be over him already.
    realicegoddess realicegoddess 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I met this guy, he was wonderful at first, kind, sweet and different. He used to give me this sweetest smile whenever we walked by or saw each other. He told me that I was...
    Kiwijee Kiwijee 18-21, F Jan 31

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    And this time I won't comeback to you! Because I found happiness again without you. After so many months I finally can say that I'm over him! Farewell my first love..
    Miriam212 Miriam212 16-17, F Feb 15

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    It just occurred to me that for the past week he hasn't been the first thing on my mind when I awake.... Him and I have been over for more than a month... Today I told someone...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hi I was hoping you could help me with some advice, insight into my situation as Im desperate. I was in a relationship for five years I adored him, it was very passionate but...
    saor saor 26-30, F Feb 10

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    The Unfinished Story We both met each other back in college, which was like 12yrs ago. It was not at all love at first sight. I didn't like him at all initially. He was the most...
    desiredangel desiredangel 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    The Lilywhites still havent won aback Boxing Day, admitting abandoned accident already at home all season, while Nigel Cloughs United admission alternated amidst defeats...
    liafifaku liafifaku 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    Hello. I wanna do this shortly - okay, I couldn't complety live up to the standards of being a girlfriend because of my illness, paranoid schiophrenia, yet I had the BEST, believe...
    Elverbasse Elverbasse 13-15 Feb 4

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    hey guys .. !! i am 16 and in a confused stage on life ' teenage' !!! man these can get the world around !! Today i decided to share my story with you guys because i was dying...
    aishaaa29 aishaaa29 16-17, F Feb 5

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    My boyfriend left me for another women he met on the Internet after being together for 5 years and having two kids together. When he left I lost everything; job, car, house and...
    kha0 kha0 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 17

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    My son is now 4 years old. My sons dad started dating this woman almost 2 years ago so my son was 2 1/2 years old.....he never told me about her I found out about her myself...
    Trineeh90 Trineeh90 22-25, F Feb 3

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    I met the most amazing guy I have ever known back in November. I gave him my number thinking he'd never bother with me. But then he sent me a text. We talked for just over a week...
    roserama87 roserama87 26-30, F Jan 29

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    I can't really explain how much I miss him so I wrote this ... It's just stupid . She shed so many tears over him , she thought she would never be whole again . She thought of...
    Delusionalkrysti Delusionalkrysti 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am completely obsessed with this guy I met in Memphis. We were both there for a family member that was reviving an award. We didn't actually talk till the last night but the...
    ka216 ka216 18-21, F Feb 19

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    Give me a problem to solve,and I will give you five creative solutions. But when life will give me five options of perfectly sane men and one deranged guy,who will escalate my...
    aquabunny aquabunny 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 2

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    I still have dreams about him and it's been nearly 4 years I love him so much and he's in love with some other girl
    ivettefromtheblock ivettefromtheblock 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    It dont matter what we go through he will always be my NFL . He was my first love the first guy that ever made me feel special and the first guy that I gave my heart too. We may be...
    HisTrapQueen HisTrapQueen 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    He had me download a voice messaging app before things ended. We hadn't used it in months, but I also hadn't deleted it from my phone. About 2 weeks ago he sent me a message with...
    sarabear7 sarabear7 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    there is this guy i really like but he doesn't like me back and I tried to get over him but it never works no mater how hard I try
    stayhigh101 stayhigh101 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 19

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    I got in trouble in school a few days ago for emailing during class so i havent been on in forever..
    MichelleTanner MichelleTanner 13-15, F Jan 29

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    After reading what seems to be a common issue, glad I found someone going through the same right here. My partner's s#@t, I can't think of any other word. We've been married for...
    koh72 koh72 41-45, M 3 Responses Feb 2

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    So this is going to be somewhat of a long story.. But I need to share with someone. Maybe sharing it will help me figure out where my heart lies. My ex an I broke up about 2 years...
    StephanieLynne1125 StephanieLynne1125 22-25, F Feb 6

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    It has been over five years now, and has taken me this long to come close to accepting it. I just don't get it though. Let me explain. About five years ago I was under lots of...
    kinkysexybabe kinkysexybabe 36-40, F 9 Responses Feb 13

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    We met at work in 2011. He was charming, funny, and handsome. He had a crooked smile that could make anyone fall in love. He was the cool guy, the one people warned me about. "I...
    followthesea followthesea 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I recently shared an experience where I had become infatuated with one of my good friends. Long story short, we reconnected after several years and after discovering that we now...
    brendacouttes brendacouttes 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Since the moment I met him, which was over a year ago, I have been in such deep like with him, sometimes it's hard to think straight. I haven't liked anyone else since I met him...
    dawnqt dawnqt 18-21, F Jan 29

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    I loved him so much it hurt, but I didn't start out that way, it started as co workers over summer I knew of him but all the sudden he was like "I love you" and I was like "ew go...
    katttmills katttmills 18-21, F Feb 9

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    I can't stand being with my boyfriend any longer, but I don't know if I can leave him...I'm too afraid to let go. So this is our story: We're at a long distance relationship...
    Bitterlove Bitterlove 16-17, F Feb 10

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    months ago, we've been chatting always and now that we're not i really miss him. i think i miss him even if we havent talk personally. i hope he does to. yesterday he tweeted "i...
    agnessander agnessander 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I totally understand how pain - being unloved when you need it desperately - can lead to resentment and outright hatred. I totally get how things even just within yourself - guilt...
    scalner scalner 31-35 2 days ago

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    Because not for nothing, I used to be so very confident and... low self esteem? I mean what was that. Now it's just been eating away at me and my relationship with my girlfriend...
    LeeOmar88 LeeOmar88 26-30, M 5 hrs ago

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    I don't know if I really miss him or if I just crave someone who cares about me as much. I was only seventeen when we met and spent a few days together. He was the first person to...
    cocoagirl95 cocoagirl95 18-21, F Feb 2

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    I still think about the man that I had an emotional affair with for 2 years. No stranger, we’d gone to high school together. We had history, flirting in study hall, talking...
    Raven57 Raven57 56-60, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I became clinical depressed when I was 15. I tried to kill myself for the first time when I was 16, after my emotionally abusive boyfriend dumped me. I am 20 years old now, I don't...
    terrywill15 terrywill15 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 17

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    I’m a college freshman, and I can easily say that these first few months of my new life have been unbearable. My boyfriend and I dated for a year, and he was my best friend...
    lalarose lalarose 18-21, F Feb 1

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    I'm 19 now, but the rape happened when I was 14. My mum and da had split up, and I moved out with my mum. I had to move school and I had no friends. I felt so lonely. This was when...
    Jmemma Jmemma 18-21, F Feb 5

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    It's going to be 2 years this June since my brother died. I don't know if I'll ever get over the absurdity of that kind of sentence. There were three of us growing up. I was in the...
    lottacar5 lottacar5 26-30, F Feb 11

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    This year I will be 41 and have just gotten back into the dating world. I have been single now for almost a year after nearly 20 yrs of marriage/divorce and a long complicated...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm not really waiting as I've started online dating again, but he's still in my mind all the time. He's messed up, messy divorce and end to his relationship which he'd just not...
    redbluepurple redbluepurple 31-35, F Jan 31

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    Over 2 years ago, I was working at a restaurant and the most amazingly hot guy walked in. Totally my type (olive skinned, "man bun", full beard, tattoos, tall, broad, surfer body...
    experiencepisces experiencepisces 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18

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