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I Still Havent Gotten Over Him

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    I Should Know Better....

    I've moved on.....married...with my little familyI still can't get over the pain that my ex caused me....We were together for 10 years I should have left long before then. I wanted things to work out so badly.....But I met someone who actually appreciated me and made me feel...
    sweetsie sweetsie 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

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    Depressed

    there is no way i could ever get over him. ive tried so many timess but he just keeps popping back in my head. We've been together 5 times and everytime he dumped me. I odnt know why i let it happen. I just couldnt help myself for some reason i like him to much. I think i loved...
    mustardlyxinsane mustardlyxinsane 16-18, F Nov 6, 2007

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    Him..

    ok well heres my story... About last year in november my friend went to a party and met this boy then they started becoming really close and she always would talk to me about him and i'd be like hmm yeahh awesome but really i had no interest what so ever, then an week later we...
    Niikii Niikii 16-17, F Sep 24, 2008

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    I'm Thinking the Question ...

    i'm thinking the question is suppose to be "you still haven't gotten over him?" lol anyways no i haven't gottten over him and he isn't making it any easier to do so. first loves are the hardest even if they started out as young love....more than a decade later the...
    hotmess hotmess 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2007

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    Getting There But Not Quite There Yet

    I left my x three years ago now and recovery has been a rather slow process.During the first three months I was terrified of my own shadow.Never knowing if and when I would see him or run into him.And he tried as much as possible to frequent the places he thought I would be.It...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 2 Responses May 9, 2012

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    I Have Gotten Over Him.  ...

    I have gotten over him.  I think the last phase was just recent, but I'm finally over him.  I don't think about him more than a couple times a month, no one brings him up in conversation anymore, and I finally don't have to see him/talk to him/converse with him if I don...
    theophania theophania 22-25, F Jan 23, 2007

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    I need to find a way to be able to stop him using me whenever he feels like it. I'm in love with him, so I jump at any chance to see him even though I know he doesn't want to be...
    NicolleSashaa NicolleSashaa 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Lol done with his bull ****
    Youresocreepy Youresocreepy 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13

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    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13

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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
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    I wanted him to stay in my life. Even though I’ve cried, felt like I was going to die, and drank alcohol a few times before over someone I was in love with not loving me, I’ve...
    Roshunn Roshunn 26-30, F Oct 13

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    I havent talked to him in a long time and now i have!!! I missed him so much!
    MartinJust MartinJust 13-15, M Oct 6

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    So I'm going back to middle school because that's were it all started. I was like what idk 12 yes old haha and I liked umm this guys since kinder but like I liked him on and off...
    thecatso thecatso 13-15, F Oct 9

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    My grandfather passed over 10 years ago, yet I still miss him everyday... He died from cancer, which kind I can't remember, but it was terrible. To watch him turn from strong and...
    HeatherMarie14 HeatherMarie14 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's awkwardly interesting to feel one thing yet think another. I think I want to be with my ex I feel like I have to be a with him I'm terribly obsessed and I need relief. I'm so...
    Janisoneluv Janisoneluv 26-30, F Oct 5

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    I used to be a debater last year and there was this boy from another school. He was in a higher division than I was and he actually graduated already. I liked him since two years...
    123peppy 123peppy 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    It's been over two years ago since my husband had this affair. I still can't get over it. To be honest I don't think I ever will. Still can't trust him 100%. I've been trying to...
    mysticangel40 mysticangel40 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    I keep telling myself I'm over him. I even made Changing of the Seasons by Two Door Cinema Club my break up anthem, but I know I'm just lying to myself. I am 100% certain that he...
    nikkiiic nikkiiic 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I'm wondering about this tonight. Am I really still in love with the man I loved so intensely for 2 years? When we were together, I was completely in love with him. Real life...
    lostit77 lostit77 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday because someone told me he was cuddling some girl at petrified forest.. I was devastated. still am. It hurts so bad cause I know he liked me...
    sabby86 sabby86 16-17, F 9 Responses Oct 5

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    I still love standing over the heater vent in the winter and watching my nightgown billow out. I still love the feel of cool green grass under my bare feet. I still love the smell...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    I want to get over my ex but he's around me every day, and I can't change that. He always tries to make me jealous and rubs everything good about his new life without me in my face...
    GabbyCot GabbyCot 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    It is like no other. Addicted is the only way to describe it. I mean on the superficial level, outside looking in, he isn't even THAT attractive. Certainly though his sex appeal...
    hizkitten hizkitten 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    I lost a 2 year old relationship in the past but never shed a tear. In fact i felt that freedom when i broke it off. But when everything is stumbling down between us i cannot count...
    ShadesofWhite67 ShadesofWhite67 26-30, F 9 mins ago

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    I havent wrote in months.. and i am now because i need to let it all out and feel like no ones really there for me how i want them to be i feel like they just judge me or tell me...
    sanchez18 sanchez18 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm not happy or excited about anything in my life for over a year, but I'm trying to find a way to find myself again. Feeling like this just makes me want to be alone, away from...
    SirenaVonLee SirenaVonLee 36-40, F Sep 27

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    If only I could push some magical button and go back even just a few years. I could try to be a better person than I was the first time. I could treat my lovers better and maybe...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F Oct 9

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    Haven't seen him for 4 months. Everywhere I turn there are couples, together. Every song reminds me of him. I stare at my ring. The tears just keep falling, I need him. I need his...
    soccer4life777 soccer4life777 16-17, F 24 mins ago

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    It's been too long.too long missing him, too long appart....I cannot endure life without him. The pain of him not being with me tears at my heart and the tears fall down my cheeks...
    soccer4life777 soccer4life777 16-17, F 20 mins ago

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    I can listen to this song over and over and not get annoyed of tired of hearing it -------> Lost It All by Black Veil Brides, listen to it and see if you can relate to it :D if you...
    liveshadow90 liveshadow90 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    I started dating a wonderful guy 2 months ago- as in, we went on our first date two months ago. We had been friends for a few months before that. The relationship started out from...
    peacelove75 peacelove75 22-25, F Oct 1

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    I feel helpless. It really is out of my control. I don't know if there's anything else that I can do. I'm frustrated because I had just typed out a long paragraph and it got erased...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    I am so overwhelmed and am shutting down. I don't even know where to begin... My family is very dysfunctional with severe enmeshment and co-dependency issues, which is why I...
    VegasOnyxxx VegasOnyxxx 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 17

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    My husband of 27 years has not been speaking to me for the past three days. He speaks to my daughter lovingly, and he speaks to my sons (2) casually. A couple of days ago, my...
    neglected08 neglected08 46-50 Oct 17

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    Dude ****** me off to no end and i cant say anything about it. Theres this guy, Ill call him J and hes really pushing his luck. My girlfriend and I had picked up a game we use to...
    ShadowAiriax ShadowAiriax 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    Being appart is so old. I need him more than I need anything. The pain in my heart is unbearable, I cry more than I laugh, and I spend my every quiet moment thinking about when we...
    soccer4life777 soccer4life777 16-17, F 10 mins ago

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    I have GOT to get this out... I cant keep it bottled in any longer. I may only be rambling to myself here, but I dont care, at least it will be out of my system. ( I'm going to...
    ashuriiNikooru ashuriiNikooru 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    I hate it, but I've gotten used to it. In college, my friends started gossiping about me because I had a different schedule from them. I had no choice but to meet and hangout...
    lonelydinosaur lonelydinosaur 26-30, F Sep 27

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    I guess I need an outlet and have enjoyed many of the stories and things I've read here....So I thought I should just write about the last year of my life and see what people think...
    trafik25 trafik25 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 29

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    Just over A year ago (almost two years ago) my ex boyfriend (of two years) left to work on cruise ships. I ended my relationship with him because I couldn't handle long distance...
    deldel87 deldel87 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 29

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    It all started when I was 13 years old, lots of changes were happening. My parents were already not together anymore since i was 3 years old, my mother and she was getting...
    zetreax zetreax 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 17

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    You know, I still love and miss my ex, but I'm tired. I'm tired of caring about him. I'm tired of thinking about him. I'm tired of piecing together bits of information trying to...
    Foolhearted18 Foolhearted18 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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