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I Still Love My Ex

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    I don't know why I care

    so much when he was always so mean to me.
    footfungusfairy footfungusfairy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    There are times when he is forgotten,

    almost like he never happened. I go along with my day and with my boyfriend and I am happy. And then, all it takes is one song, or one movie, or one place, and I am suddenly remembering that, yes, I AM happy. But not as happy as I was with him. I have written him letters...
    reppindetroit reppindetroit 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 13

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    It is easy to say "you should move on" "give

    time some time" etc But when it comes down to getting over someone you love with all your heart.. it is the hardest thing I ever had to face! It is still there, every second of the day he walked away.. all the words he had to say.. I close my eyes and I can feel the pain of the...
    mimosasgl mimosasgl 22-25, F 1 Response May 2

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    I have unfinished business

    and unresolved feeling with one of my ex's. Even though I'm in a relationship now, I've never been able to get closure and move on from him.
    anonymousfraud anonymousfraud 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    I tell myself it don't mean a thing That what

    we got got no hold on me But when you're not there, I just crumble I tell myself I don't care that much But I feel like I'd die till I feel your touch Only love Only love can hurt like this Only love can hurt like this Must have been a deadly kiss Only love can hurt like this...
    TearsAlwaysWin TearsAlwaysWin 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    Sometimes.....

    I still miss him even after he did what he did. While the same time he was dating me he got another girl pregnant. It hurt me so much when I found out about it. He and I are still friends and I still have some feelings for him, but I did forgive him for what he did. I have...
    EmoMusicLuver EmoMusicLuver 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 20, 2010

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    Stupid ex, let my heart go.

    It hurts with you holding on so tight. Give it back! ....... Now look what you did. You broke it.... Stupid ex.
    rathernotsay12 rathernotsay12 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    We split up 9 years ago.

    I've since had two long term relationships. One lasting 7 and a half years, we have a 3 year old son together. I left him about a month ago because he's a div. all these years, my ex has been there, sometimes not obviously, but I've dreamt of him constantly. We are still in...
    TearsAlwaysWin TearsAlwaysWin 26-30, F Jun 19

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    Its been already 3 years

    since we broke up. He's the only ex I haven't gotten over with until now. I just learned how to live without him. I regret that I left, it was a very confusing time before for us and I didnt want to cause him anymore trouble. He didnt want me to go, that time I thought it was...
    akeginu akeginu 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 10

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    We've been broken up

    for almost two months now. I know we shouldn't be together, but I still love and care about her. I don't just love her either, I'm in love with her still. I thought I was over her. I thought I was still mad at her too because of the way she treated me until last week. I was...
    Enaud21 Enaud21 31-35, M 1 Response May 22

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    This is probably why I'm here in the first

    place. After three years together, it is so hard to drop everything and move on. We were best friends. I'm the one that broke up with her. It was something I needed to do so I could focus on myself and better myself. Talk about a perfect girl, she is caring, beautiful, and funny...
    Derrick4You Derrick4You 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 6

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    iamj iamj 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    We've talked about how much we missed each

    other last night. I can see us about to get together in the future but it just feels like I'm going to hurt her again. I don't know how to change for her or for anyone. That's the love of my life and it's sad that I can't change for her. She's better off without me, I know it...
    druggydavis druggydavis 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I love him and I hate him.

    It's been a year. We are both in different relationships now, but we still text sometimes. He's always said he'll always love me.. It hurts me to know he has another gf. I see them kissing and posting I love you all over Facebook. It hurt me so bad I deleted my Facebook. I love...
    leahhansil leahhansil 16-17, F 1 Response May 12

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    I Want To Let Her Go Though......

    i want to let her go though.....
    ninja ninja 16-18, M 2 Responses Jan 8, 2007

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    I still can't call her my ex,

    because it doesn't feel like it. Holly was my everything. She was the one I could go to when the world was falling apart around me. Yet I don't know if she loved me. She was emotionally abusive for sure. She was the one who said iloveyou first, but I know now it was a lie...
    eloquentshadow eloquentshadow 13-15, F Jun 26

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    In the middle of anything you will pop in my

    head, all I will see is a flash of a smile... my heart and my throat will become very tight, tears will slowly feel my eyes... I try hard to hold them... I wonder where you are, what you are doing, are you thinking about me, are you missing me... This moments happens too often...
    leakcim leakcim 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    I just can't get over.

    I've really tried everything possible put i just can't. She's moved on now. I should've treated her much better, I shouldn't have lied to her. I should've loved her the way she wanted to be loved. If I ever had a second chance with her in the future , I would cherish every...
    druggydavis druggydavis 18-21, F Jul 2

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    I've had a hard life a dad

    that was an abusive alcoholic and a brother that got recognized when I deserved to.... I was sad and broken so I fell into drugs I smoked pot and took ecstasy pills she was the only one to love me.. Kaileayh an angel sent to clean and purify my heart... The first day we met she...
    jcountry jcountry 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    I just don't even know what I'm doing.

    I just can't get him to go away. I thought I had. But deep down I always knew that was just a lie I made myself believe so I could move on. And I did. I really did. I moved 60 miles away, and lived, laughed, pro created and loved for over 7 years. But he would creep in. He'd be...
    TearsAlwaysWin TearsAlwaysWin 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    This Is How It Goes.... My Ex And Me

    Okay, I am thirteen and I've had one boyfriend, about 7 weeks ago. I was told by his best mate (who is also a great friend of mine, and who I like) that this boy really liked me, would I give him a chance? This lad is a bit like me, quiet surrounded by people, loud when in a...
    YhItsMeAgain YhItsMeAgain 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2012

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    Yes, v.much so. ...

    Yes, v.much so. But what is so confusing is that i am infatuated with another man at the moment and my feelings for them both keep getting intwined-don't really know what is going on-altho at this precise moment its quite simple as i'm angry at both of them, but would also love...
    trixabell trixabell 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 19, 2007

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    Why is he so annoying?

    ! Why has he 'invited' me to 'like' his stupid Facebook page?! I don't like the fact that he's probably only done it because he's scrolling through his fb friends and noticed I hadn't 'liked' the page yet. It's not like he's gone, 'I wish she would like my fb page'. I am just...
    TearsAlwaysWin TearsAlwaysWin 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    Just two weeks ago, I thought I started moving

    on finally and I thought I am happier living in the life without him. I felt so hopeful that I told my therapist that I am glad that I did not contact my Ex and I am glad that the relationship is over. However, starting from this past weekend, I just could not stop thinking...
    xiaofengzi xiaofengzi 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    I Still Love My Ex

    LET ME FIRST START FROM WHERE IT ALL STARTED........I FIRST MET MY EX, RAY, WHEN MY SISER WAS SEEING HIS COUSIN. HE WAS 12 YEARS OLD & I WAS 15. WE BECAME REALLY COOL FRIENDS. MY PARENTS & HIS WERE GOOD FRIENDS TOO. NOW MY PARENTS DIDN'T LIKE RAY OR HIS COUSINS. BUT...
    CRYBABY CRYBABY 21-25, F 3 Responses Oct 25, 2006

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    I'm still in love with my ex.

    It's been almost 2 years since we broke up. The worst thing is he knows how I feel about him and that I have trouble refusing him anything, so he comes in and out of my life as he pleases. I know he's just using me but I feel powerless to stop it.
    ShyGirlie78 ShyGirlie78 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    I just found out that my ex

    who broke my heart a year and a half ago still likes me... I'm crying and I can't tell if they are happy tears or sad tears! But I think they're happy tears and I'm trying to stop myself from squealing I'm so happy. The only problem is the age difference. I turn 18 in 16 months...
    sunny97 sunny97 16-17, F 2 Responses May 27

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    I still talk to my ex on

    and off it turns into an unreal emotional connection every single time, its a torrid emotional affair that kills us every time we could easily escape into time to see each other and be together but its not about the physical connection we have not taken it that far... Now 9...
    MunecaTrizte MunecaTrizte 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    I was with my ex for nearly 3 years.

    We had a very tumultuous relationship. She told me that she had slept with an ex of hers, 14 months into our relationship and I finished with her. She cried and begged me to give her another chance as she loved me so much. I relented and went back to her. I truly wish that I...
    dps23 dps23 46-50, M 5 Responses Jan 17

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    I Miss Him

    I miss him so much, I think about him every day It's been 5 months since we split and I can't even imagine life without him popping up in my mind at least once a day I feel he is my soul mate Life is difficult without him He made me so happy He made me whole
    Diliges Diliges 22-25, F Sep 4, 2013

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    Ummm ..... Well we dated like four

    or five times , and it's been like a year or two sense the last time we dated , but I still love her 💖
    Guy1618 Guy1618 13-15, M 6 days ago

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    He was my first love,

    we broke up last year in August, not long after his twentieth birthday. When we met I was only 14 and he was 17 we grew up together, I made everything in his world come to life and made him a better person but not after getting together I moved to Arizona, he didn't know how to...
    Syydnee Syydnee 18-21, F May 7

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    I just want to get over him,

    but it's tough when he's the only one who's really ever gotten me.
    3eblover 3eblover 16-17, F Dec 9, 2013

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    He left me 8 years ago.

    But we always kept in touch. When we connected after months, it felt like old times. I still cannot replace him though I know he would never want me ever. I still love him. Hard to pin why exactly.
    nusyj nusyj 26-30, F Jun 8

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    But I Don't Miss You

    I loved the way you felt in my arms and when we kissed. I loved walking, hiking, going to the beach, and going skinny dipping with you. I loved how you made me laugh and that beautiful smile, especially when you struggle not to. I loved holding hands with you as we walked...
    bitabyss bitabyss 41-45, M 10 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    In the end of April this past year,

    I had a woman contact me and tell me she's been my husband's girlfriend for the last few years, even traveling with him on business trips. She spared me no detail, even when it came to their sex life. He and I have been together 24 years, married 22. I found out that he's been...
    Kaeli624 Kaeli624 51-55 2 Responses Jan 5

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    i think I've fallen for him again,

    heartbreaking moment when i see another girl hug him : he's glimmering eyes when he's talking to her . I think he likes her because thats how he used to look at me ._. what to do ? (T ^ T)
    Melodyk3 Melodyk3 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 4

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    I Wish She Would Call Me.

    I wish it every day... I know I shouldn't', not because she is no good for me or because she mistreated me in any way, not because she did something unforgivable or because I wronged her and don't deserve her back. Quite the opposite in fact, she made me want to be a better...
    Poodlelez Poodlelez 22-25, F 15 Responses May 15, 2011

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    It's been a long time

    but I reckon because I never got any closure I am still not over him. We dated for 7 months but lived together too, he was my first love and although to some people who don't understand he was my world. He treated me like a princess and I treated him like he was my world! I was...
    TashaBbb TashaBbb 18-21, F Jul 9

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    Yes!!! I still love her eventhough we're done

    2yrs ago and im the one who ask for the break up.. And now she loves someone else and im just here waiting everytime she needs someone to talk to.. It breaks my heart everytime i remember how perfect we are before! 💔
    curlmylash25 curlmylash25 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 30, 2013

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    It's almost been 5 years

    since I last saw her. Every dream I have of her is a blessing because it reminds me of the familiar passion of earlier days. She was so beautiful - in every way. She broke up with me because of all the lies. Maybe I didn't have to lie, she was the type of girl that would have...
    northexit182 northexit182 22-25, M 22 Responses Feb 5

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    And miss him dearly. My heart aches recalling

    the events - which I am to blame for - that led to our separation. He wanted nothing more than to make my life a little easier, a little brighter, and wanted me to know that he believed in me. I threw that away. And for what? I hope every day that he will forgive me, and that I...
    boneknuckleskin boneknuckleskin 26-30, M 8 Responses May 12

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    And I honestly don't know why.

    I mean we have a kid together, but he's a **** parent, a liar, a manipulator, a cheater, an alcoholic and an *******, but I just can't stop caring about him and hurting when I hear he is. -_- now he wants me back and I'm trying my hardest to say no, I'm still so angry for...
    Purplesloths Purplesloths 18-21, F 1 Response May 22

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    My Story And Conundrum

    I was involved with a young lady for close to three years. Like many failed relationships, this was long distance and entirely online/over the phone with a single week-long visit last fall. We were very much in love, despite our handicapped means of communication and lack of...
    Triundi Triundi 26-30, M 21 Responses Sep 14, 2012

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    I believe once you love someone,

    you love them forever. YES I moved on from my ex's. But, is it wrong I still love them, miss them and wish I could be with them? I don't think so. Humans are meant to love and be loved, just like every animal. I just wonder if my ex's still think about me the way I think about...
    oreosnow oreosnow 18-21, F Dec 9, 2013

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    even though he abused me ,

    cheated on me and treated me poorly , I would still give him everything I had just to put a smile on his face . because I believe that when you truly love someone you are so busy admiring the great things that you don't have time to glance at the bad ones .
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I still love you. I feel like

    such an idiot for not proving my love. I miss you. It's hard for me because you are my first love. You will always be my number one and I'm truly sorry. I guess you really don't realize what you have till it's gone
    alexandra2014 alexandra2014 16-17, F Dec 7, 2013

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    That feeling that u miss talking to someone.

    . But he dont want to talk to you :(
    zheiy zheiy 31-35, F Apr 30

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    I broke your heart, but broke mine too.

    I messed up so bad that I didn't know how to fix it. I cheated, I lied.. I gave up on you. The only person that's never given up on me. Now I'm sitting here racking my brains, and lying to myself. I don't want to lie anymore? I love you, and I can't ever see myself not loving...
    herfacade herfacade 18-21, F 2 Responses May 10

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    I miss my ex so bad..

    . its been about a year since I let her go but I feel like she's etched into my heart and I am still in love with her, she's got a boy friend now and I'm currently in a complicated relationship, but, sometimes I miss her so much I just break down and cry...
    BarelyAdulterated BarelyAdulterated 18-21, F 2 Responses May 20

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    A song that has always made me think of him .

    .. It's how I felt before we got together. We listened to it when we were together. And he sang along when I played it at gigs. To me, it our unofficial song. Liquid, melancholy dreams Won't you tell me what it means Cuz you drive me crazy Driftwood, won't you float me down...
    TearsAlwaysWin TearsAlwaysWin 26-30, F Jun 26

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    I Hope You See This

    I still love you, and I always will. Nothing you say or do could ever change that. I know you don't want to hear this. I know you're over me, and that you've moved on. But despite that, it doesn't change how I feel about you. All a person needs in this world is someone that loves...
    haley1369 haley1369 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    the difference between me

    and her is that i can make him smile with my closes on.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 18

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