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I Still Love Them Though They Hurt Me

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    With love comes hurt. But often, love > hurt. :)
    crimsonjade crimsonjade 70+, F Aug 1, 2009

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    I Want a Seperate Room

    i want a separate room. you know why? i will hange the photos of my loved ones an see them always. i will cry in fornt of the photos and scold them. ask them why they are not loving me as i do. i will take care of them like my kids. i will spend my time with them. one day when i...
    LiveAlone LiveAlone 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    Help Me

    This group looks interesting, but a need a clearer definition of what it stands for. Can someone explain to me , please.
    retiredmother retiredmother 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    I Wish I Wasn't So Attached.....

    I never expected to be in a situation at work where I would bond with a colleague like family. I have no older female relatives who I can relate to and who I am close with. I guess my colleague filled that spot and because I looked after her kids,we did form a bond. For years, I...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    They Hurt Me Even Though I Dont Take Them

    When you don't come home at night, i love you still. When i know you out doing drugs, it hurts me because i love you. If you saw me doing these things, how would you feel? You know how they hurt you, but do u know how they hurt me? Your my everything, and i dont want you to die...
    Musicfanatic75 Musicfanatic75 16-17, F Feb 24, 2012

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    It Is Just My Nature

    Throughout my life, I have had a few people that have hurt me deeply, both emotionally and physically.  But as I grew older, my hatred for them turned to something different.  I started to feel love for them.  Not physical or sexual love but an emotional love that...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 4 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    When my wife and I first met, we were both in loveless relationships. A simple handshake in late 2005 took us down a complicated road of friendship, love, loss, love again...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    well my ex broke up with me a month ago. We have a son together and I try all the time to get back with him. We still have sex the only thing differently is that he won't say he...
    Fleo94 Fleo94 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Even if they "did me wrong" I still hold love for them in my heart. I love them for the good times and the romance that I wouldn't have even experienced had they not come into my...
    writerchic writerchic 36-40, F 5 days ago

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    My soul is dead. I can just stare. There is no reason to live. You were my only reason. And now my sandy is gone. What did i do wrong? Why did I have a chance with you anyway? You...
    TheKidInTheCorner TheKidInTheCorner 13-15, M Aug 27

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    Many of them. Yes. They were all fine people.
    MrPlank MrPlank 51-55, M 6 days ago

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    Blake! I still love u like a lot maybe we should get back together and plus I feel so much safer with u by my side<3 Love u babe<3 I know that u still love me cuz u said that...
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47 16-17, F Sep 11

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    He sees me in the hallways, he gets depressed. He acts as if I'm not there. I text him but he ignores me. I love him but he hates me. I don't get what I did for you to leave me...
    ANNI3PI3 ANNI3PI3 16-17, F Aug 23

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    I Love The Feeling Of How He Replies Back I Love Of How He Looks I Love That We Live Close I Know That He Has A BoyFriend But I Still Love Him
    DubDancer24 DubDancer24 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 23

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    We started dating on September 2nd, 2013, and we broke up two weeks before Valentines Day, so she could have a breather. We were going to get back together but I got so angry I...
    septemberiris septemberiris 13-15, T Aug 31

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    Is it wrong that I feel weird telling my family I love them but I have no problem telling my best friends (which is like 4 or 5 people) and my boyfriend (if I had one) I love them...
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I love my glasses. Oh, I love them so! But my father wants me to get rid of them for contacts. Too bad I can't put them in!
    HAH37 HAH37 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    Like my profile pic? Lol. I do. Muaaaaaaahhhh *big kiss*. Here a big fat juicy **** YOU to all tht hate on meh. I love my haterz~~~ they make meh famous! Hey... A girls gotta stand...
    kittykat6918 kittykat6918 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    The divorce papers came this AM. I met our mail carrier in the driveway, signed for the delivery and went inside the house and sat and stared into space for an hour. Went grocery...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Divorce was filed 12 hours ago. Guess the notice is coming later today by certified mail. I was checking my FB and got the dreaded "FB kick-in-the-gut" when I noticed that my own...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Am I the only one hurting right now? Does it even have any effect on her? Is this just her way of coping? Does she keep checking the cell to see if she missed my call/text...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    As many of you know by now, I have an obsessed office stalker. She delights in getting off on my life, either in the office or outside of it. If there's any rumors about me in...
    deepscar deepscar 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 26

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    I cant wait to get out of this place I hate everyone its crazy how much I use to love my father and my mom but nothings the same anymore I hate them so much. I've been through a...
    annabella2245 annabella2245 18-21, F Sep 11

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    Hi there. My name is Marin and I am in a dilemma of my life. I have recently accepted to be friends with my ex, who I deeply care and love for. I wish for him to move on, but...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F Sep 6

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    I don't completely shut people out though. I usually just take a step back and let them try to earn the trust back. If it happens too many times then I start getting hurt and the...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    My names Rayanna McRee and I'm going to be writing you tonight about a man that changed my life. I couldn't keep this in any longer because its been tearing me apart for 4 years...
    Avalina20 Avalina20 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    So I am kind of rekindling with my ex of 6 years (well, we did try to reconnect 3 years ago but that didn't work out and then we had limited contact for the last 2 years). He lives...
    yellowtrees yellowtrees 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I'm really ticked off. Okay so an adult I trusted I wrote about it in another experience (long story short I don't trust her anymore. She would literally ignore me and like cringed...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    It's like a trigger goes off in my head... And I completely shut down when I feel I've been wronged or hurt in some way sometimes I don't even realize im doing it's like my heart...
    Forbiddenkisses Forbiddenkisses 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    If you've managed to hurt me it's probably because I told you things. So I must've trusted you, and now you broke that trust. I'm not going to ever trust you the same way again I...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    This is definitely an experience I have a lot of experience with. Unfortunately right now my brother is behaving in a way that at the lease can be called predictable at the most...
    missquietriot missquietriot 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    My heart pines for my ex, he shattered my heart. When I had gingerly brought the pieces together again, it happened again. He came back a third time, well ofcourse the pattern...
    GilmourGirl2 GilmourGirl2 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    I don't belong in this world, no lie. I am 17 & for too long now I have pretended I'm okay, well I'm not. Sick to death of my Mum, me and her have never gotten along we argue and...
    Maddie1O1 Maddie1O1 18-21, F Aug 27

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    This hurts my face. Oh, the pain...
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T Aug 27

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    if someone hurts me and they KEEP BOTHERING ME there going 6ft down in the ground
    TheColorfulDino TheColorfulDino 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    Yes, she does her job. They are kinda nice, and I know that they love me too. But I cannot just ignore the fact that their flaws are starting to irritate me. They are...
    misselley misselley 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I trusted this guy I started talking to a year ago. We've never met but we knew each other well... Talked a lot and even both liked each other at the same time... I liked him the...
    MindOfManyThoughts MindOfManyThoughts 16-17, F Sep 11

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    i always really want to go to them. till we get to the gates and i see all the rides and i'm like oh my god, they are massive. i've changed my mind lets just go home now. after the...
    varjakpaw varjakpaw 18-21, F Sep 11

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    So we've recently broken up and it hit me pretty hard! It's been two weeks since we separated. Even though we've broken up we still talk on a daily basis. It's weird that were on...
    KyLeone KyLeone 18-21, F Aug 24

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    That is he and I.So I was in a relationship with this guy named Omar Diaz. He was 22 and was in University, he was studying some kind of art major. He lived at home with him mom...
    Canadianchick94 Canadianchick94 18-21, F 13 Responses Sep 8

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    I do wear glasses and I like wearing them. I actually feel most comfortable with my glasses on. I suppose they are some sort of "safety blanket" for me. So to be without them...
    MRH1978 MRH1978 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 11

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    I shut out everyone whenever I feel like they are going to attack me.
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Here it is 6 years later from meeting her online. We were best friends and the minute she invited me to be more with her I jumped at the invitation. Loved her kids like they were...
    smurfette2012 smurfette2012 31-35, F Aug 29

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    I love mermaids ^_^ they are mystical
    jenna0990 jenna0990 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    ......If it's meant to be then they will come back. It is more truth than just an old wives tell.
    iamokaynow iamokaynow 31-35, M Aug 25

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    I love him as a friend and I'm so happy I still have him. He's the only one who knows everything about me, and he still cares about me :)
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F Aug 26

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    I was with my ex for a year and 8 months. He was the absolute sweetest guy I've EVER met. He showered me with love and affection and as did I. We went to Hawaii, we went to...
    Noireon Noireon 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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