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I Still Love Them Though They Hurt Me

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    I Wish I Wasn't So Attached.....

    I never expected to be in a situation at work where I would bond with a colleague like family. I have no older female relatives who I can relate to and who I am close with. I guess my colleague filled that spot and because I looked after her kids,we did form a bond. For years, I...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    It Is Just My Nature

    Throughout my life, I have had a few people that have hurt me deeply, both emotionally and physically.  But as I grew older, my hatred for them turned to something different.  I started to feel love for them.  Not physical or sexual love but an emotional love that...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 4 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    Natural

    With love comes hurt. But often, love > hurt. :)
    crimsonjade crimsonjade 70+, F Aug 1, 2009

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    Help Me

    This group looks interesting, but a need a clearer definition of what it stands for. Can someone explain to me , please.
    retiredmother retiredmother 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    They Hurt Me Even Though I Dont Take Them

    When you don't come home at night, i love you still. When i know you out doing drugs, it hurts me because i love you. If you saw me doing these things, how would you feel? You know how they hurt you, but do u know how they hurt me? Your my everything, and i dont want you to die...
    Musicfanatic75 Musicfanatic75 16-17, F Feb 24, 2012

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    I Want a Seperate Room

    i want a separate room. you know why? i will hange the photos of my loved ones an see them always. i will cry in fornt of the photos and scold them. ask them why they are not loving me as i do. i will take care of them like my kids. i will spend my time with them. one day when i...
    LiveAlone LiveAlone 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    I was in Australia for about a month. We had been in contact a few times over viber, a lot of which were hurtful messages. Not abuse but through the messages I could tell he was...
    EBAAA EBAAA 18-21, F Aug 11

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    One day I went out after work with some friends, and some people I kind of knew, but not well. After leaving the bar, one of the guys I didn't know all that well invited all of us...
    Jackie22k Jackie22k 26-30, F Aug 3

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    It's common for people to say they do what they do because it's how their parents did, it's a cycle. I think cycles are to be broken. I grew up in a house where my parent never...
    didyouseethat didyouseethat 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    We went through a lot together..he hurt me..he helped me...he was there for me..and at times I felt helpless..seems like the feelings towards he won't vanish..he is still part of...
    genesis99 genesis99 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    you hurt me deeply b.itch, ur f.ucking words touched me.dont do that again gobshit.ı say this whn they hurt me :/
    idunnowhttodo idunnowhttodo 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I had to shut out two people in my life because they hurt me so much
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I am in a committed relationship, and love the woman I am with. However, I continually think about an ex-girlfriend. The thoughts are unwanted. When she and I were together she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I love all of my six children and soon to be born a seventh child very much. Each and every day I personally hug, kiss, and tell them that I love them so much. They are use to...
    tammylynne tammylynne 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I still love that person.i wrote a post last month or something.got loads of help and advice.and my craving to hear his voice or see him has reduced.but still I can't forget him...
    Naina94 Naina94 18-21, F Jul 28

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    I Still Love You Like the winds of change flowing through the trees I can no longer feel your love for me.. your beautiful heart that would beat so strong Every time we would...
    SweetEmotions SweetEmotions 36-40, F Aug 5

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    Hello, I am going through a divorce with my husband whom I still love. How do you get through this?
    biggirl47 biggirl47 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Ummm ..... Well we dated like four or five times , and it's been like a year or two sense the last time we dated , but I still love her 💖
    Guy1618 Guy1618 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    And I'm over it, I'm over it, I promise I'm over it. But it still hurts sometimes. - Laura Elizabeth Ross
    foreignindulgence foreignindulgence 18-21, F Jul 21

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    We've talked about how much we missed each other last night. I can see us about to get together in the future but it just feels like I'm going to hurt her again. I don't know how...
    druggydavis druggydavis 18-21, F Jul 25

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    I remember the "Circle of Trust" discussions in a Ben Stiller comedy movie - De Nero tells Stiller he's found himself "outside the Circle of Trust". I laughed so hard at that...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F Aug 10

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    It has been over 30 years since I last saw her,I amm married and so is she. But I have never really had any closure from my love for her. We met by way of my step sister ,after we...
    highlander21666 highlander21666 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    It hurts you know, that you shove me in the corner. One day you'll look back and I won't be there. I hope that day comes soon, I'm sick of being your after thought, your last...
    isacake isacake 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    i started loving my bf accidentally when i ws tryng to get rid off an childhood fren/classmate who had crush on me n ws spreading rumours everywhere tat no 1 shd look at me cz im...
    givemedeath givemedeath 18-21, F Aug 9

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    No matter how much we fade away. I'll always love you.. I miss you... Here's a song for you if you read this. It's by A group called Freestyle - Before I Let You Go. I can...
    allencam05 allencam05 22-25, M Jul 24

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    even though he abused me , cheated on me and treated me poorly , I would still give him everything I had just to put a smile on his face . because I believe that when you truly...
    abbyhh25 abbyhh25 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    SighSighSigh. So yeah...about three months ago my bf broke up with me because he knew his family wouldn't let us wed .-. Yeah... I'm brown-Asian and interracial marriages are...
    aliyahatake aliyahatake 18-21, F Jul 26

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M Jul 22

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    1. all kalashnikov rifles why I hate them: they are inaccurate the parts are poorly put togather and despite what people say they are not very reliable and the 5.45 rifles are a...
    thecrocodile thecrocodile 18-21, M Aug 7

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    Guess not many people on the experience but going to post anyway. The Animorph books is what got me to start reading back when I was 7 year old. I have read them all and am now...
    fallenzero fallenzero 22-25, M Jul 22

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    There are some people who could hear you speak a thousand words and still not understand you. And there are others who will understand without you even speaking a word. — Unknown...
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F Jul 24

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    Even though I said I hate you, I don't. I hope you find happiness. I really do want the best for you, and I'm sorry that we couldn't be together. I hope you find someone capable...
    xsarah23x xsarah23x 16-17, F Aug 3

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    mainly the disney and pixar ones but kids movies are great i love chilling with my little sis and singing the movie theme songs too
    Sumptous Sumptous 18-21, F Aug 11

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    Don’t let anyone ever break your soul. You have to stand on your own two feet and stand up for yourself. There are those that would give anything to see you fail, but you must...
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F Jul 24

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    I don't know why but lately when my mind wonders I keep thinking about spanking experiences I've had. I'm finally opening up to talking about them. Message me if you want to talk...
    cpo3302 cpo3302 26-30, M Aug 6

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    I love my kids so much, I am so afraid that when they are old enough to not need me they will hate me.
    erieclover erieclover 26-30, F Aug 11

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    I am getting sick of seeing people posting about girls being big not needing to wear this or that or whatnot what does it matter what they wear don't look it isn't you wearing it...
    Ambee94 Ambee94 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Today Thorpe park was amazing! I went on:- swarm, colossus, saw, nemeses inferno, slammer, rush, massive teacups that go fast, samurai, (I think that's how you spell it), tidal...
    tiashepherdx tiashepherdx 13-15, F Jul 30

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    I want to be taken in front of my parents. They can see how corrupted their perfect little girl is.
    libertinette libertinette 22-25, F 26 Responses Jul 31

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    She's convinced we aren't meant for eachother and we will never work and yet I'm still so Inlove with her. How do you convince someone your intentions are true & feelings are pure...
    drewbond drewbond 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    Always will :) I thank God everyday for my love and for the blessings he continues to give us. We have a love like no other.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jul 28

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    Sometimes love is not enough. If how you love each other is incompatible. It is the bigger thing to do. leave set each other free.
    dalston dalston 51-55, M 2 days ago

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    To lose sleep worrying about a friend or a loved one. To have trouble picking yourself up after someone lets you down. To feel whole again because someone didn’t love you enough...
    Tonia248 Tonia248 51-55, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    When I needed glasses I was so happy because I loved how glasses looked. The other kids made a big deal about glasses and was afraid to wear them but I didn't care. I like the...
    WhatTheFrenchToast WhatTheFrenchToast 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love most music. some artist i love: -P!ATD -Good Charlotte -Trevor Moran -Will.I.Am -Kansas -Fall Out Boy -Adele Adkins -Avicii -Nirvana -Gorillaz -Austin Mahone -GreenDay...
    TegsT TegsT 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I would love to go Disney World and Universal Studios Orlando again!!
    FuSoYa FuSoYa 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Pretty girls cry.. I hate it honestly. Why can't I just be happy all the time.
    slutfactory slutfactory 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 4

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