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I Still Love Them Though They Hurt Me

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    Loyalty Has Hurt Me.

    I have loved people that have beat and abused me. I litterally have been beat and been loyal enough too come crawling back too them. As a kid your suppossed too love your parents. But they hurt you and you dont understand instead all you can do is let it go and love them. I just...
    MysteriousShadow MysteriousShadow 18-21, F 2 Responses May 13, 2012

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    I Want a Seperate Room

    i want a separate room. you know why? i will hange the photos of my loved ones an see them always. i will cry in fornt of the photos and scold them. ask them why they are not loving me as i do. i will take care of them like my kids. i will spend my time with them. one day when i...
    LiveAlone LiveAlone 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    Help Me

    This group looks interesting, but a need a clearer definition of what it stands for. Can someone explain to me , please.
    retiredmother retiredmother 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    I Wish I Wasn't So Attached.....

    I never expected to be in a situation at work where I would bond with a colleague like family. I have no older female relatives who I can relate to and who I am close with. I guess my colleague filled that spot and because I looked after her kids,we did form a bond. For years, I...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    It Is Just My Nature

    Throughout my life, I have had a few people that have hurt me deeply, both emotionally and physically.  But as I grew older, my hatred for them turned to something different.  I started to feel love for them.  Not physical or sexual love but an emotional love that...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 4 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    Natural

    With love comes hurt. But often, love > hurt. :)
    crimsonjade crimsonjade 70+, F Aug 1, 2009

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    After being told on Wednesday that the doctors will no longer help my son because of possibilities that he might not live very long any way. It take emotional strength, inner...
    PowerfulWomanSS PowerfulWomanSS 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I still love my Ex boyfriend Dorian event though it seems that I have moved on but I still have the a special place in my heart for him. Maybe its because he was my first...
    lyricbutterfly2013 lyricbutterfly2013 18-21, F Mar 30

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    Having broken up with my ex, about 3 years ago, I went through the usual cycle of depression, obsession and craving. Its not unlike an addiction... So while I was in this funk, I...
    v33rh0ra v33rh0ra 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    Ya know it's funny, because I really thought I didn't anymore, I really didn't think I still loved you I didn't feel like I needed you thought I would be fine without you, and I...
    A7xinsane A7xinsane 18-21, M Mar 24

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    Well, my ex boyfriend and I broke up approximately three weeks ago. Were were together for a year and one month and it was a pretty serious relationship which you guys will...
    ambitousk ambitousk 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I started wearing glasses in the second grade and fortunately I suppose did not go through the teasing that many face because I grew up in a country (not where I live now) where...
    GlassesNancy GlassesNancy 31-35, T Mar 26

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    Ever since my younger siblings were born I knew there was a sudden shift in attention. I didn't mind, I knew it was because they were younger and thus needed more care. It didn't...
    Akiakane Akiakane 18-21 Apr 6

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    I am 23 years old and have spend the last two years of my life with the most amazing man ever. We started talking while I was in a short term relationship with another guy, it was...
    equisgirl1 equisgirl1 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I am still close friends with my ex who I still love. We've not been together for longer than the length of the relationship pretty much, but I still can't shake off these feelings...
    AHelpfulLover AHelpfulLover 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    My ex and I Dated for 6 months.... I get that it's not that long at all but in those six months I was a better person, I was happy, and everything was going right. She was...
    JonBenik JonBenik 16-17, M Apr 4

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    I was in a long distance relationship, back in 2007. I loved her with all my heart. Then, suddenly, she broke things off. It crushed me. Like, imagine the Titanic landing on a...
    Youdontknowmedontpretend Youdontknowmedontpretend 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I was in a relationship for the first time and it was a secret. This relationship was the best. He was not the gentleman that I dreamed of and i still loved him. I was a bipolar...
    AnniaVanilla AnniaVanilla 16-17, F Mar 23

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    Spring is here and do you know that I am doing? Laying here, while I think about you. Imagining your kiss while we play in the grass. Hiding in the cold basement after a game of...
    streetstylecrew streetstylecrew 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I turned on the tv today. The Red Sox were on, bases loaded bottom of the seventh down 3-5. Papi was up. He hits a screaming liner to right field: only one run scores.. Usually now...
    davisbre davisbre 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I love my children that God could have only given to me! Two bright young men. Both so different but special to me. Jr and Jay is what we will call them today! I have so many...
    Ttbaby23 Ttbaby23 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Its been two years, and we truly have not stopped loving each other. I'm lucky tho l, cause he wants me back. He made me wait two horrible years for him to say it, but he still...
    AlicebeneyisSilvereyes AlicebeneyisSilvereyes 16-17, F Apr 14

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    Can't say I love them but I definitely need them, I have worn glasses since my early teens. In my 30's my old aviators needed to be replaced so my wife made both of us eye...
    CdKimmi CdKimmi 61-65, M 2 days ago

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    My ex and I have been together two different times. The first time lasted 3 months and then 6 months later we ended up together again for a year. It's been a little over two months...
    LameyC LameyC 18-21, F Apr 12

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    So a couple days ago I went on my first vacation with a man ever, my boyfriend of over 1 year. 1 Year 3 months to be exact. The second day of vacation I received a friend request...
    awkward11 awkward11 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I don't I have realized after I divorced him it's taken me a while to see the forest threw the trees so to speak he was manipulating if it wasn't all about him he was angry upset...
    kimy51 kimy51 51-55, F Apr 15

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    please don't let my age fool you.. I was in a relationship with this boy for a whole year. me and him shared so many memories, had such a bond, and he was really honestly my first...
    brooklynitexo brooklynitexo 22-25, F Apr 3

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    Yes I do. If somebody hurts my feelings by something they said or did I retreat into myself away from them. Also if somebody I care about ignores me then I draw away from them. It...
    1SweetL 1SweetL 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 13

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    I have severe depression. They've considered putting me in a mental hospital more than once. Depression is the worst thing a person can feel. Especially when you can't figure out...
    JayyPsythe JayyPsythe 13-15, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    how amazing animals can be and I believe every kind of animals has their own uniqueness and personality including the wild once but personally I love dogs the most and yes pet dogs...
    nataliechu nataliechu 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I always will love all my exes (I've only been in 2 long term/serious relationships (as serious as they can be at that age lol)) This doesn't mean that I'm in love with them by...
    lemoncarrotcake lemoncarrotcake 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    **** people, get a dog, they won't hurt you.
    nottobevelealed nottobevelealed 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Not so much when someone "hurts" me, just in general. I think it's more of a defense mechanism for not letting someone close enough to hurt me, having realized that, I don't really...
    OneSizeFitzpatrick OneSizeFitzpatrick 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    Stupid ex, let my heart go. It hurts with you holding on so tight. Give it back! ....... Now look what you did. You broke it.... Stupid ex.
    rathernotsay12 rathernotsay12 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    It has been a week since we broke up and I wish I could erase him from my memories so that it wouldn't hurt anymore. Continuing to see his name pop up on my phone everyday gives me...
    NeeverForget NeeverForget 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    Four months ago...My love left me alone ,he said that he loves me but he don't want to keep going anymore. Is that love? . He said that he needs a break till my birthday and he...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Four months ago...My love left me alone ,he said that he loves me but he don't want to keep going anymore. Is that love? . He said that he needs a break till my birthday and he...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Four months ago...My love left me alone ,he said that he loves me but he don't want to keep going anymore. Is that love? . He said that he needs a break till my birthday and he...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I don't know why, but I love heights even though I am scared of them. You might say that I can't be terrified if I can even bare them, but I get scared standing on a chair! I have...
    LizzPixie LizzPixie 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Today I feel much the same way I felt about a year and a half ago. It's been a good amount of time since I broke up with a very special person and things have gotten only a little...
    dannylivinlife dannylivinlife 18-21, M Mar 31

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    I know i should be over him by now but no. I fell in love with him after a break up, he was always there for me so i guess it was easier to love him. Anyway we were together about...
    Medusafreak Medusafreak 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Say what you want but they still make the best chicken sandwich from a fast food place. I still crave the berry lemonade.
    Retronatrix Retronatrix 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I love my squad. We have been together through thick and thin. They always have my back and I always have there's there are 5 guys 1 girl and me and they are like my family I would...
    iloveyoutooboo iloveyoutooboo 18-21, F Apr 10

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    I met my first love 1993 we worked together I was only 17 he was 22. We flirted around each other for a year he was a Muslim practising so I did not think I had a chance. I told...
    natty999 natty999 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Hey my name is Tia and I have a boyfriend but I haven't told anyone but my friend and if I tell my parents they will disown me and I really do not know what to do so please help me...
    tianguyen tianguyen 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    So me and my fiance have been together 5 years. With in the first year he had done some shady stuff on line with girls. Ever since iv had such a hard time to trust him and recently...
    jamvu9 jamvu9 22-25, F Apr 7

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    I helped him move back to his hometown. He moved to be with me a few years back. We are best friends but want to be more again. I know we aren't ready to get back together. We are...
    hazelangeleyes68 hazelangeleyes68 41-45, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I still miss him after an year of our breakup. I get jealous seeing other couples. I miss that bond of affection. I mishis caring actions. I still want to be with him. I miss our...
    steee15 steee15 18-21, F Mar 27

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    I wouldn't say I'm still in love with her, I love her as a close friend like I'd do anything for her.
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F Apr 6

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    I'm still in love with her. It's hard to see her in the halls without wanting to take her in my arms and tell her how much I miss her. It takes so much willpower to turn away...
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Hi! I am Sharmeen Im 28 Years Old and I have a son he is 6. Ive been Married for 7 years. I Loved My bestfriend since 16 years old. He went a different path and we separated. i...
    pinkielips22 pinkielips22 26-30, F Apr 7

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