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I Still Love Them Though They Hurt Me

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    With love comes hurt. But often, love > hurt. :)
    crimsonjade crimsonjade 70+, F Aug 1, 2009

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    I Wish I Wasn't So Attached.....

    I never expected to be in a situation at work where I would bond with a colleague like family. I have no older female relatives who I can relate to and who I am close with. I guess my colleague filled that spot and because I looked after her kids,we did form a bond. For years, I...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Help Me

    This group looks interesting, but a need a clearer definition of what it stands for. Can someone explain to me , please.
    retiredmother retiredmother 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    They Hurt Me Even Though I Dont Take Them

    When you don't come home at night, i love you still. When i know you out doing drugs, it hurts me because i love you. If you saw me doing these things, how would you feel? You know how they hurt you, but do u know how they hurt me? Your my everything, and i dont want you to die...
    Musicfanatic75 Musicfanatic75 16-17, F Feb 24, 2012

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    It Is Just My Nature

    Throughout my life, I have had a few people that have hurt me deeply, both emotionally and physically.  But as I grew older, my hatred for them turned to something different.  I started to feel love for them.  Not physical or sexual love but an emotional love that...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 4 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    I Want a Seperate Room

    i want a separate room. you know why? i will hange the photos of my loved ones an see them always. i will cry in fornt of the photos and scold them. ask them why they are not loving me as i do. i will take care of them like my kids. i will spend my time with them. one day when i...
    LiveAlone LiveAlone 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    Even you. I shut people out when they hurt me. It is how I manage to keep my head above water despite the chaos left in our wake. First was my mother. I shut her out at quite a...
    Lullacus Lullacus 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    I shut them all out!!.. I will never let them ever get close to me or the people that they associate with to get close to me too .. Im so sick of thur sorrys & yet they choose to...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I met her in school . she's 3 yrs younger to me. We became really close friends and then one day i told her i loved her but she wasn't ready for that at the moment but eventually...
    Helsing77 Helsing77 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Today I saw some faces from the past (more like junior high school of HELL) at my school and I heard that they were looking for me to patch things up. So I spent the whole day...
    johannesc4 johannesc4 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 8

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    Ever loved someone so much that no matter what, you'll always be there for them when they need you? You could never purposely do them wrong. You can't go a day without talking to...
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I've always loved the American girl dolls since I discovered them at 10 years. I couldn't get them as a child, they were considered expensive and when I finally saved money to get...
    lilbabygirl1 lilbabygirl1 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    They spoiled me and don't let me do anything I never have to work a damn day for anything. I'm 24-years-old now and I don't even have to take care of basic household chores because...
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 11

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    My ex that I still love said he still loves me but he said he loves a friend of mine He said he wanted to be with me but its going to be a long distance relationship and I will...
    Maria134747 Maria134747 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    I shut out a lot of people, mainly because they're the reason why I'm like this.. They keep breaking the walls, I keep building higher ones. I've hidden myself for so long, no one...
    PureLies PureLies 13-15, F Nov 5

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    I love them and I hate them so I needed to leave, not to be able to hurt them ever again.
    SwanNual SwanNual 22-25, F Nov 11

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    There is nothing quite like the sight of a wagging tail and big, happy eyes of a dog who just lives to be with you. It is especially great when you've had that dog since she was...
    redmoon383 redmoon383 16-17, M Nov 7

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    Even though you said you dont love me im sure you do deep down ♡ Its not your fault that you had a screwed up family and i still love you no matter what *^-^*
    mialotta mialotta 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Yes I still love my ex and I'm afraid to confess this to him. I still want to be with him but I don't know if he wants to. We haven't talk to each other since our break up. I have...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 2

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    I still love him. We dated for 5 years, high school sweethearts. One day he decided he didn't want me anymore. He made up his mind long before he left me, he left without much of...
    youngandwreckless youngandwreckless 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    I wear eyeglasses. I can't read far away. I love them. I need to buy another pair Actually multiple pairs But they cost a lot
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I was fortunate enough to have the best first boyfriend a girl could ever ask for. He was my first love, and I’ve never had that kind of love with anyone other than him. He loved...
    miryam57 miryam57 56-60, F Oct 24

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    It's been years since we broke up...but we were engaged and it just didn't work out because of his infidelities and my insecurities. I'm in a relationship now but I'm not nearly as...
    MsScaredOfLonely MsScaredOfLonely 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 5

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    One year back.. I saw a guy through facebook i started liking him he was full of my type . I started talking with him like full day we had chit chat . first time i met him that...
    malhotraanjali malhotraanjali 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I'm just done even on ep. I always get hurt even before I say anything. I can admit feelings for a girl, they block me. I can say hi to a guy and they hate me. I can have crushes...
    luischimbo luischimbo 16-17, M 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    I lost a 2 year old relationship in the past but never shed a tear. In fact i felt that freedom when i broke it off. But when everything is stumbling down between us i cannot count...
    ShadesofWhite67 ShadesofWhite67 26-30, F Oct 26

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    Most often my reaction to getting hurt or being dissatisfied is 'cutting my losses' and moving forward with life. The truth is, however that I am not cutting out losses in my life...
    CarlyOnline CarlyOnline 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 10

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    After going through so much as a child and being hurt so many times I have learned to create barriers when people hurt me. I wish that wasn't the case. I tried so hard to be a...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 26

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    I don't know how much more I can take. It hurts but I have too.It's not like anyone cares anyway... even though I wish someone did. It hurts...you know....it just hurts. The tears...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F Nov 5

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    Big dogs are the best. They always get so excited to see you when you come home. My dog will practically tackle me to the ground every time I walk through the door XD plus dogs are...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 8

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    My parents have been physically, emotionally, and psychologically abusive to me over my lifetime. They are self absorbed, manipulative, jerks who actively fight me to keep me from...
    Kingshelman Kingshelman 31-35, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    It is a reflex. I guess after years of people being ****** to me, and me just taking it, forgiving them again and again, I have developed away to stop myself from being that person...
    JE1158 JE1158 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 2

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    I found out they my first love is dating my best friend I just feel so hurt I can't believe I believed everything he said it was just all lies
    Maria134747 Maria134747 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I have walls, they're really big walls. Only one person can get through them.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    why should I bother with them anymore, when it's obvious they didn't care about my feelings?
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    I love my befriend I'd love to marry him I believe he's my other half but he in jail for who knows how long we discussed a marriage I love him he knows me better than anyone we get...
    yizzo yizzo 26-30, F Oct 27

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    It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel...
    LoveHadassah LoveHadassah 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    Iv been hurt so much just takes a pinch to get me in block world mode
    1kingdarkness 1kingdarkness 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    And that's that. Trust is the only indicator to me of actual friendship. If you hurt me, I can't trust you. You will only ever be an acquaintance after that at best. You'll think...
    Elayla Elayla 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've always wanted glasses since like the age of like 8.. I finally was prescribed reading glasses at the age of 10! I thought it was awesome! Although the novelty wore off after...
    catho catho 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    It's crazy I just can't stand this feeling. I don't even know him that well yet I just want him back. I wanted to get to know him so bad. He never cheated on me as far as I know...
    Dynasty2000 Dynasty2000 13-15, F Nov 11

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    Today I saw him in the same car he used to take me to the beach, the first man who made me feel beautiful, wanted, appreciated, worthy and that I deserved to be loved. But he wasn...
    almasolitaria312 almasolitaria312 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    For example, Spongebob is but I still watch it. Lol
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F Oct 23

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    Everyone calls me a nerd or dork with my rose colored glasses . But now those glasses broke /: In need of some new glasses , thinking about getting contacts also . I just hate to...
    cutefacejay cutefacejay 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I wear glasses and get hate them. I love the glasses but I sat on them and idk what happened but they don't sit right and if I look down that fall right off my face
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My Little PoniesI have a collection of pony plushies in my window next to my bed and sometimes I pull one of them out and cuddle with it. It helps me fall asleep and what can I say...
    NeighFlowers NeighFlowers 16-17, M Nov 8

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