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I Still Love Them Though They Hurt Me

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    I Want a Seperate Room

    i want a separate room. you know why? i will hange the photos of my loved ones an see them always. i will cry in fornt of the photos and scold them. ask them why they are not loving me as i do. i will take care of them like my kids. i will spend my time with them. one day when i...
    LiveAlone LiveAlone 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2009

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    I Wish I Wasn't So Attached.....

    I never expected to be in a situation at work where I would bond with a colleague like family. I have no older female relatives who I can relate to and who I am close with. I guess my colleague filled that spot and because I looked after her kids,we did form a bond. For years, I...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Help Me

    This group looks interesting, but a need a clearer definition of what it stands for. Can someone explain to me , please.
    retiredmother retiredmother 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2009

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    It Is Just My Nature

    Throughout my life, I have had a few people that have hurt me deeply, both emotionally and physically.  But as I grew older, my hatred for them turned to something different.  I started to feel love for them.  Not physical or sexual love but an emotional love that...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois 56-60 4 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    Natural

    With love comes hurt. But often, love > hurt. :)
    crimsonjade crimsonjade 70+, F Aug 1, 2009

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    They Hurt Me Even Though I Dont Take Them

    When you don't come home at night, i love you still. When i know you out doing drugs, it hurts me because i love you. If you saw me doing these things, how would you feel? You know how they hurt you, but do u know how they hurt me? Your my everything, and i dont want you to die...
    Musicfanatic75 Musicfanatic75 16-17, F Feb 24, 2012

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    Normally, I am tolerant & forgiving of people's mistakes; it depends what they have done to me. If they make a simple error or accident, then it is no big deal; however, if they...
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    I've always loved Disney movies. When I was younger it was because of the story but as I got older I began to appreciate the darker parts of the twists and turns. It shows good...
    Plungeintoadream Plungeintoadream 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I just found out she got married not too long ago. I thought it wouldn't effect me since we haven't spoken to each other for years now, but I guess it's all a lie cause I still...
    luckie530 luckie530 18-21, F Sep 24

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    When I was a junior in high school I met a boy. It wasn't love at first sight, in fact, I ignored him mostly. But as time went on we became better friends. Best friends, in fact...
    EimineP EimineP 22-25, F Oct 10

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    A day never goes by that I don't tell my children I love them. I have so much fun with them. It is amazing how we share things from day to day. We talk about our day and what is...
    Sunshinegirl07 Sunshinegirl07 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    they r actually my housemate's cats. but since i live in her house and i am a part of her life now,so i treat them like my kids,i love them and now i need to feed the. yesterday...
    fraufraufrau fraufraufrau 26-30, F Oct 7

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    Blake I didn't know what was happening I'm so so so so so sorry. I was to drunk to help it pleas come back!<3 I STILL LOVE YOU. I HOPE YOU KNOW THAT BLAKE!!<3 I love you and...
    Strangerdanger47 Strangerdanger47 13-15, F Oct 6

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    No matter how much longer this goes on for I still love you
    Verix Verix 18-21, M Sep 24

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    I just broke up with my first boyfriend although I've dated girls before but I think he was my first love. I still love him but I just had to break up with him. It was the best for...
    joses69 joses69 16-17, M Sep 27

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    I have endured so much with this guy. Yes we are now fully done. He says that he no longer cares for me and that all he feels is emotional attachment.. I hate that I still love him...
    tutu18 tutu18 18-21 Oct 7

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    ...i thank God, i slowly accepting the fact that we really can't be together, my heart is more at peace now but still love you and misses you...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F a week ago

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    I have an ex who I still love and care about but I can't be with him. He always put other female friends & co-workers before me and that made me feel unwanted and insecure. Now he...
    hazeleyedangel68 hazeleyedangel68 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    First, I would like to explain they way we met each other. About 3 years ago, I used BB smartphone and there was someone sent me a friend request so I accepted. It seemed like this...
    Nottae Nottae 18-21, M 14 hrs ago

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    I shut myself out in general. I'm socially awkward, and really trusting. I let people get into my heart, just to rip it in the end. I don't HATE people, I just worry that either A...
    evie2001 evie2001 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Ok well I'm kind of bad at expressing my feelings I guess but I have to tell someone what I have been threw in the last 6 years. So anyways it began back in the spring of 2009 I...
    Jimpartridge Jimpartridge 31-35, M 3 days ago

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    I always try and learn from my experiences! And I'm proud of how far I have come and how many things I've had to go through at such a young age! I am very aware of things now in...
    AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    (using google translate) ..um.. i don't know where to start, i haven't been having good past days and yesterday i started to hurt in my chest and it was on my left side.. on the...
    killercukee killercukee 13-15, M 3 Responses Oct 8

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    So I'm going back to middle school because that's were it all started. I was like what idk 12 yes old haha and I liked umm this guys since kinder but like I liked him on and off...
    thecatso thecatso 13-15, F Oct 9

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    I will always love my ex. In the two years since we broke up we've become better friends than we were together. We co-parent our wonderful son together and without court...
    MomsAgainstBombTrains MomsAgainstBombTrains 36-40, F 2 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Real talk!! Relationships are harder now because conversations became texting, arguments became phone calls, feelings became subliminal messages online. Sex became easy, the word...
    mimi2226 mimi2226 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    If love is religion, you're my God and I'll attend my church every single day!!!
    newmaibou newmaibou 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    No reason to keep someone around that makes me suffer, actual betrayal.. not 'you look weird in that hat' kinda hurt because you love that hat lol
    khewster khewster 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    Dear Friend - I wish I could say this to your face, but I'm really hurt by the way you treated me.... And I think I'm done. I've been helpful and friendly every time you've...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 14

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    It's been years since I've seen him. Maybe it was my mistake for taking too long to reach out for him. Today I finally gave in the long years of silence, and typed him a heart...
    LadyAnneBoleyn LadyAnneBoleyn 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    Many times I get the impression people here are actually writing to their loved ones. To the ones they lost. Anyway... sometimes it is important for us to protect ourselves, right...
    Ankokushin Ankokushin 26-30, M Oct 14

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    I wish more people saw this. It seems that most people who realize that someone disagrees with them, they instantly see them as their enemy....
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M a week ago

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    Last night, I heard something that made it really hit home how far I have come from the happy person I used to be. My wife and I were talking about our divorce and I asked her if...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 24

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    I've been dating the most amazing woman on earth for two years. She broke up with me two months ago. She told me she doesn't love me the way she used to. Two days later, we made...
    bpperson bpperson 18-21, F Sep 26

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    I used to be a debater last year and there was this boy from another school. He was in a higher division than I was and he actually graduated already. I liked him since two years...
    123peppy 123peppy 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Are you ready to show the jerks in your life just how strong you are? Is it time for people to recognize? I'm casting a new show for SPIKE TV where people who have a rivalry or an...
    CastNow CastNow 31-35, F Sep 29

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    I don't usually watch animated films but that was one of the most adult themed disney films. I enjoyed the characters: Quasimodo, a deformed but love able and sweetly surprising...
    ajrestless ajrestless 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    I am starting to notice that I don't care for my ex like I thought I did. The more I talk to her the more I remember what I didn't like about her. Which leads to: Do I just want...
    heylookineededanameok heylookineededanameok 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    So funny when your younger you don't look at people for who they have or what they can offer you in life. Most people do that when your single in your 30 ' s. How many man can...
    loyal4him loyal4him 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So i'm writting a story. Is about a former military intelligence officer who is choosen to crack the down a domestic terrorist group due to his success on top secret missions and...
    Storyguy007 Storyguy007 18-21, M Sep 30

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    Sticky situation because he wants to be with someone else, how can I love someone who wants to be with her. It kills me to see him go online and know he is talking to her, but I'm...
    cbaremans cbaremans 16-17, F Oct 3

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    So, I go to church and my boyfriend doesn't. People typically say this is bad. I'm working on it though. We do believe in the same things. Which is good. My boyfriend finally...
    mkmoore mkmoore 16-17, F Oct 14

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    Well if someone loves you, they should accept any decision you make.
    slashy11 slashy11 26-30, M a week ago

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    The flame within, burning through your chest. Thoughts that continuously...run through your head. The rapid heart beat, that exhilarates your every nerve within. The smile on your...
    ThoughtFulMoments ThoughtFulMoments 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    I just want this whole ******* thing to end because I still ******* love you
    Verix Verix 18-21, M Oct 6

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