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I Still Think About Him

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    Can't Get Him Out of My Head.

    I just can't stop thinking about him. My stomach's tied in knots. I was the one who ended our relationship - i was scared of the implications on my relationship with my family if it was to continue, as my mom is strongly against us being together. Long story there - won't go...
    CrippleAndStarfish CrippleAndStarfish 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2009

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    It Has Been A Year Now, I Have A New Boyfriend, And I Still Think Of My Ex...

    I was in 8th grade in 2006 and had problems in elementary school with making friends and all that good stuff. I didnt have a single person to go to, I had ADD and took concerta, which caused me to be very shy but finally 8th grade year i met this fantastic guy..He made me laugh...
    shellbell592 shellbell592 18-21, F Apr 11, 2012

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    I Hate My Own Mind

    It's been nearly two months since Brandon and I split up this last time. Everyday I get dressed up and put on my war paint to step out into the world. I pretend that there's nothing bothering me. When people ask about my ex, I just laugh as if it's nothing to me. The truth is...
    MadamAZC MadamAZC 22-25, F Oct 19, 2013

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    Don't Think I Don't Think About It

    So...this song basically sums it up pretty well. It's kinda of one of those when you hear it you just go 'Wow...someone read my mind and then wrote this song.' I left out in a cloud of taillights and dust Swore I wasn't coming back, said I'd had enough Saw you in the rear view...
    bemynothing bemynothing 18-21, F Sep 2, 2008

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    Bleh, Corey. After all the memories we've

    shared, all the ****** moments and all the damn problems with my emotions etc AGH I can't believe even after you've given my ******* bed bed bugs, even after you toyed with my emotions knowing I liked you, even though you fell in love with my best friend when I was in love with...
    Tabithaaa Tabithaaa 16-17, F Dec 23, 2013

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    I Thought It Would Be Forever....(again)

    I'm sorry for reposting (I made a huge mistake last time, and I feel like an idiot lol) I can still remember our first date. I was so nervous that I couldn't stop talking. I could tell her was nervous too. Hell, he barely said a word. He was so shy.To this day I still...
    eforempathy eforempathy 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 6, 2010

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    Still Everyday

    Yeah i still think about him. But i don't cry anymore. I'm not upset or devastated anymore. I'm so glad i've got to this stage of getting over him. But he was still a big part of my life. It's been 6 months and i still think about him everyday. I wonder what he's up to. We...
    jasminjane jasminjane 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2009

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    First Love.

    I was a young teen when i first found love. He was 2-3years older then i, and MUCH more experienced. he was that guy who i thought was so cute, and would "accidently bump into".  I only had one boyfriend before, never kissed anyone, and was very sweet and shy, mature, but...
    sceneofsilence sceneofsilence 13-15, F Mar 9, 2010

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    It's been years since we sat face to face,

    but career puts him everywhere. And I find that he continues to cross my mind after all these years, so I just feel lost sometimes.
    doodle83 doodle83 31-35, F May 6

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    Anytime, But Now...

    In any other time period, we would have needed up together. If it was post 1961 in Berlin we would have got married and had an apartment together and fallen in love. If it was the apocalypse we'd be hand in hand. If it were any other time, but here and now, we'd be together, I...
    Kriegerin Kriegerin 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2013

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    I Can't Stop. Nothing Works...

    Yesterday I was online since I came home from school.. I was free, nothing to study as it was Friday... I chated with my boy.... but he wasn't free, he had to study so he asked me to let him for 2-3 hours.. I said "of course" because I know it's waste of time when you...
    bublina bublina 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 11, 2008

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    He Is On My Mind Occasionally.

    I wish we could have worked things out, but I have to move on for the emotional security and emotional/mental growth of myself. He still trickles in and out of my mind on occasions. I don't know if I'll ever speak to him again because we've distanced ourselves from each other...
    nosanity nosanity 22-25, F Sep 1, 2008

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    It's Been 3 Years...

    I'm hoping someone, at least one person will take time reading this. I've always been the shy girl, my whole life literally. Elementary were good years, until I made it to middle school, where my world came crashing down. I couldn't socialize well with other students, so I had...
    melody101 melody101 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 4, 2009

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    Still Thinking of the Ex...

    Its been 6 months today... i havent seen him talked to him , nothing. Usually i see him driving by on his way to work. Not even that .I still get butterflies in my stomach when i see a vehicle like his...maybe because im scared to see him ,I dont know.  3 years of ups and...
    lhdz lhdz 31-35, F Mar 31, 2009

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    My Dream

    I slept last night so peacefully and then I started to dream... Lately my dreams have felt different... I have felt more in control but more vulnerable in them. I have the power to do many things in my dreams but I feel like I am more likely to die in them... Anyway so in my...
    Tabithaaa Tabithaaa 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2012

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    I Thought It Would Be Forever...

    I can still remember our first date. I was so nervous that I couldn't stop talking. I could tell her was nervous too. Hell, he barely said a word. He was so shy.To this day I still consider him to be one of the smartest, most attractive, and just amazing guys I've ever dated. I...
    eforemapthy eforemapthy 18-21, F Dec 5, 2010

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    I Think About Him Every Other Day

    I have known this guy since I was in the fifth grade. When I got in high school we almost ****** I hella wanted him to **** me but my mom was almost going to be home so we couldnt. I just saw him last weekend and I currently have a fiance and a baby with him. We were drinking...
    Imreal94 Imreal94 18-21, F Nov 20, 2012

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    A Hateful Love.

    I remember the day we met as if it was just yesterday.And I can more clearly remember the crushed and disappointed look on your face when I broke your heart.I thought that you were just another boy ruled by your hormones. I simply couldn't and wouldn't believe that you did indeed...
    Bittersweet90 Bittersweet90 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2012

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    And There Will Be Times-

    And there will be times when I convince myself I am over you and I believe the words- the words that sound so stupid out loud. But then I'll remember- I'll sit in my car and remember how you kissed me Here pushed up against the window. I'll stand in the shower and...
    waiting8 waiting8 18-21, F Jun 20, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    We have been together for 2 years now and because of my trust issues i grabbed his phone what might have been innocent flirting i turned into a big deal, we were both intoxicated...
    steph102112 steph102112 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    I can't stop thinking about him... Of how his lips felt against mine. So gentle and passionate. The sparkle in his eyes when he looks at me. Its like he's seeing me for the first...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've dated other guys, and still talking to other guys but none of them are like him. I've liked him over 3 years now and still secretly love him. We've been through a lot, but we...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    I decided your not worth it anymore :) I don't need to waste time even thinking about you when I still don't know what I want to do with my life. I have high standards and meeting...
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    I am laying here in bed watching movies and all I can think about is him he's my everything if I lost this man I wouldn't know what I would do he's picked me up from being...
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Not in the way you probably think. I don't obsess about her, but she is still the thing I think about most after nine months. Is this a bad thing?
    HumanAsPossible HumanAsPossible 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    I think about my boyfriend all the time He just makes me feel so secure about myself
    lavabug01 lavabug01 13-15, F 18 hrs ago

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    Sometimes in our life we’ll feel broken inside as if it will never end. But as days pass we’ll meet some people who will make us feel worthy of having a second chance...
    LAithought LAithought 22-25, F Jul 16

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    Ugh I always wanna message him but I'm scared cuz he always says we will talk when we have time but I need to talk to him
    megan1247 megan1247 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    i like this guy but i know i cant have him. hes so sweet sometimes but then other times hes such a jerk. idk what i want anymore.
    theydontunderstandmee theydontunderstandmee 13-15, F Jun 25

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    I'm with someone at the minute who I've been with for 4 years, we're arguing on and off recently, we haven't spoken for 8 days and seen each other for 4 weeks, I seen him this...
    bethbabe321 bethbabe321 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    "Love is a battlefield" sings Pat Benatar. "I will love you till the end of time" sings Beyonce. "I will wait for you" sing Mumford & sons. "No one compares to you" sings Lana Del...
    lwelo lwelo 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    Well it seems like you are doing great and I am glad, and sad at the same time.... I wish I could have helped mold this happy person I see before me. But no worries you are forever...
    strawberry99 strawberry99 22-25, F Jun 27

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    Im in love with my babydaddy but he keeps throwing my past in my face and i dont know what to do :/
    aclines18 aclines18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I love you, I know I hurt you by staying, but I did it for my kids and I now realize they will be fine no matter what I choose as long as I'm happy they will be too. I hope you...
    raedavis raedavis 31-35, F Jul 15

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    He's my best friend/crush I wish he'd ask me out he left his shift at my house and it smells like heaven <3
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I feel like everything that happened was my fault I'm amazed you stayed with me for so many years but now that you ended it I feel so weak and lonely without you....please come...
    Cupcakeluv26 Cupcakeluv26 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Seems like time heals all things... even though i have those difficult days, where I think about him and how I don't have him around anymore. I just remember: that he left me.. and...
    elenanicole elenanicole 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Every day, he used to text me at 9:30pm until two words, "I'm done" popped up. It's been three months and he suddenly showed up out of no where yesterday. Asked me about summer...
    catherineeac catherineeac 13-15, F Jul 9

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    I haven't heard from her in over a year. It seemed like I had forgotten her over that long period of time. But then out of the blue I get this message from her saying that she...
    YouDaOne23 YouDaOne23 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I'd love to hear from anyone that has managed to get themselves 'unstuck'. I am a sensible, intelligent woman. My head knows for certain that I must move on, and that being in this...
    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm trying to get over an ex and I replay the last 24 hours over in my head and then I think about all of the things that would make me not want to be with him and then I think of...
    IntomeYousee IntomeYousee 36-40, F Jul 13

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    I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend. He means everythjng to me. My family hates me and treats me like crap every day. There's nonstop screaming and yelling and name calling...
    saxophonegal22 saxophonegal22 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I can't stop thinking about you. Not even something as cliché as your smile... I just can't stop thinking about you, as a person, how you acted, how you laughed, how you'd tell me...
    avabellaforb avabellaforb 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I cant stop thinking about this fuking girl first in school we never talked i just made her laugh alot cuss she sat in front of my desk. I walked home wit her sat in lunch wit her...
    StaticMajor StaticMajor 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I need to stop talking to you because when we aren't all I do is think about wanting to talk to you, When I finally say, "Okay, I need to stop talking to him." Here you are, not a...
    RayneZ RayneZ 13-15, F Jul 13

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    I don't know why, but i think about cheating on my husband all the time. I am 21, we have been married for about 2 and a half years now, together for 4 and my husband is the only...
    70f0rmul4 70f0rmul4 18-21, F 13 Responses Jun 26

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    Sometimes as a passing thought. Other days it's all I can think of. There will always be times I'll think about you more often, and right now is one of those times. Your date draws...
    alexwolfe alexwolfe 26-30, F Jun 30

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    not only movies ,i like everything which made me think about life...but religious movies are the one i liked for this cause!
    happyhuman1 happyhuman1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I know i would never kill myself but i do think about it at times. My mom makes me feel worthless everyday, and im allways the third wheel. Only one girl has ever liked me but she...
    tribetown tribetown 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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