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I Still Think About My First Love

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    They always say you never stop loving your

    first true love. But it that really realistic? I'm not sure. But my first love and I broke up two years ago and I still occasionally think about him and dream about him. It's nothing serious, for I am in a new loving relationship. But sometimes I just wonder... Any opinions?
    Jessica0906 Jessica0906 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Mythological Love

    back 15 years or so ago i was sitting in math class there was this guy sitting infront of me i rembered him from my old school me and my old group of friends used to make fun of this kid pritty bad so as i sat in math class thinking about how mean we used to be he looked at me i...
    Rathernotsay01 Rathernotsay01 26-30, F Jul 17, 2013

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    They Exist...

    I am talking about soul mates and Andrew was mine. We met each other by accident under crazy circumstances. No one would have thought it would end up like it did. Our talks would last through out the whole night. We couldn't stay away from each other. The chemistry was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 9, 2013

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    In the book (Gone with the wind),

    Rhett finally left Scarlett ,i cannot help but thinking ,will Rhett come back?He said ,what is broken is broken,but....I'd rather he could back ..
    lemonhan lemonhan 18-21, F May 28

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    It's been 9 years and I still think about my

    first love, wonder if he thinks about me? I feel guilty for it, I'm married n hv kids now.
    DancingRoses DancingRoses 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Alot More Lately

    My first love was 32 years ago. That feeling of falling in love for the first time was so powerful. I'd never felt anything like it before and I've never felt anything like it since then. Even when I met my wife, it wasn't like that. It was different - wonderful - and the best...
    Lrak Lrak 46-50 Jul 16, 2013

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    Every once in a while,

    I fantasize about my first love. I didn't realize he was my first love for a long time. One day I became aware of it after seeing his face in my mind over years. No matter the relationship I had, during bad times or break ups even while married I'd think of him and what may have...
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    My One True Love

    I remember all to well my very first real true love, It was in middle school at a dance when a teacher I had for a class introduced me to a real pretty blond haired girl, I was'nt into a lot of the fast dancing but gave it a try with her. Dance after dance we hit the floor, I...
    dustermouse dustermouse 61-65, M Oct 20, 2012

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    I do.. It's been years.

    . ( i fell in love in an early age ) at first I thought it was just puppy love or whatever they call it.. But idk.. I wish I can have him back... But it's impossible.. Because of the things I've done to him.. I left him... And hurt him a lot.. ( yes, I did. Can't explain..) I...
    xJesuslivesx xJesuslivesx 13-15, F Jun 22

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    Absolutely!

    Its been almost five years, and I think of him on a daily basis. Every night, I wonder how he's doing, how he spent his day and then I think of why things didn't work and how much he hurt me. Then I toss and turn, play a game on my phone and go off to bed. During the day, I am...
    thanatophobic thanatophobic 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I'm 21 now..I met my first love

    when I was 17 and we were together for 3 weeks. I still think about him to this day. I met him at the down town library and I think I fell for him the first time I talked to him. he was very handsome and charming and he talked about the subjects of my school books as if we were...
    urbangirllost urbangirllost 18-21, F May 28

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    Yes I Do Still Think About My First Love

    So I still think about my first Love ❤️ 💏 I remember our first kiss our first date &&- how we met. It's so hard to completely forget him. I'm in a relationship and currently living with my boyfriend that I'm now with for 6 years and it's just so hard to forget (him) . Don...
    Dominicana809 Dominicana809 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 30, 2013

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    Him

    I still think about HIM I can't find anybody like HIM He knew how to hold me He knew how to kiss me He knew when I was down He knew when I needed some alone time I really miss HIM I really want to get over HIM I'll search the web for a picture of HIM I'm not a stalker but I know...
    Legit97 Legit97 18-21, F Oct 14, 2012

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    I remember New Year's Eve about four years ago,

    I went to her house for a party. We had an incredible relationship between us, but we lived a little too far to make it labeled as anything. The first two hours were filled with us flirting and having a hell of a time, until her boyfriend arrived. The night turned to ****, drank...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I Still Think About Him...

    ...every day. Sometimes I welcome the thought and get lost in old memories and end up missing him terribly all day. Other days I just brush the thought away and just try to live my life. Either way, he crosses my mind at least once every day. In fact there hasn't been a single...
    Heartonmysleeve22 Heartonmysleeve22 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    My First Love

    My first love was 2 years older then i. I am still desperately in love. He had left me after sex but i do know y it was because i was immature. I was also to clingy but im hopeful we might get back together still.
    Halfg Halfg 18-21, F Jul 20, 2013

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    I wonder what she is doing.

    I wonder if I would even recognise her? I wonder how it might have been. You never forget your fist love, the first time you did all those things together. I don't think about her and miss her terribly, but she stays in my soul somewhere.
    jumpersforgoalposts jumpersforgoalposts 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    Still Think About Him Even Though I Was The One To Break It Off..

    My first love, if we can call it that was with this guy from school. He liked me more than I did in the beginning and after a while we got together. I did like him, and I still do, but I always felt like he liked me more, because he was always more forward and wanted to meet me...
    Summarflow Summarflow 18-21, F Jul 17, 2013

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    Always Have

    have tried to find him it is a dream of mine.  do people searches.  have even paid money would just like to talk to hime one more time in my life even if it is just to see how he is doing and see if he has ever thought of me in all the past years
    saggy saggy 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2007

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    I'm broken hurt scared crying I'm

    so broken because of u u hurt me so bad
    butterflypink butterflypink 13-15, F 2 days ago

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