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I Still Think of Him

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    Should I Pour My Heart Out To Him?

    We dated for a month but when we split up, we both didn't want to. I have thought of him ever since and it has been a year and a couple months since then and I still love him. I am 16, almost 17 and I keep feeling like I need to just tell him how I feel. I dot think he has...
    ShortAndAwkward ShortAndAwkward 16-17, F Sep 2, 2012

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    Falling In Love And Falling Apart

    I fell in love with my best friend. Adults always told me you couldn't be in love when you were as young as i am. I knew this boy. Let's call him Nick.We were so close that everybody said we would be cute together. I never thought about it until someone pointed out that he saw...
    blueyedgirl17 blueyedgirl17 13-15, F Mar 13, 2013

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    Why Should I When He Doesn't?

    I like this guy that I work with. I'm 19 and a sophomore in college; I turn 20 in November. He just turned 23 in June and is about to graduate college. I've had a crush on him for 6 months now, and finally told him so over a text ( I totally wimped out on telling him in person...
    joynaye joynaye 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 10, 2012

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    My Life Sucks So Much Im Ready For It To Be Over

    well if enyone can help i feel so alone i suffer deppresion and agraphobia really dont no how long i can go on for pray each day i niver wake up i have a family but am sure my b/f and me are over we dont talk he showes no emotion no care all and we both live in the same house...
    charmer30 charmer30 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    Depressed.

    Broke up with the most amazing guy I will probably ever be with and got with a dumbass who cheated on me. Don't I feel really great. That was a lie by the way. I feel really ugly,
    TorianaXGummybears TorianaXGummybears 13-15, F Jul 21, 2012

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 11, 2011

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    Ah I Cant Have Him And Yet

    i cant have this man which i will call mello he was my first love and i think he's my only love i cant have him he happy with some other girl and it macks me happy but it hurt i wont lie it hurts knowing i cant have him and i dont think i can every get him back but if he happy...
    hiaru hiaru 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2012

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    I Wonder.

    Like, hows your marriage going? Oh happy, no doubt. She's finally won your folks approval I'm sure. Last we spoke, or texted they wanted to see a picture- that picture led to a meeting, a meeting let to comfort and now she officially family. Hm, family, like in-laws.. I wonder...
    MissusBrightside MissusBrightside 31-35 Sep 1, 2013

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    I Should Think Before I Fanny!!

    I sometimes  wish I thought things through a bit more. Now sitting in work fannying around with my pens I remembered that my favourite 'posh' pen had run out of ink, so having a bit to much time on my hands, I thought I would take a refill out of  a cheap pen, one of those...
    dustydaisy dustydaisy 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2011

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    He Came He Saw He Conquered!!

    Then he tried to tip toe back out, you know repair the door as he left, acting as if he had never been here, do I offer to hold the screws and let him patch up things and go, make him feel good about himself let him go to conquer some other poor fool who falls for his charms...
    dustydaisy dustydaisy 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 28, 2011

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    If I Had 5 Minutes With Him Alone.the Things I Would Say

    When I was 18 I feel in love with a man,he was 23.I didn't date him long, maybe 6 months.But he was one of those kinds of guys that you never forget.He had very deep sea green colored eyes and dirty blonde hair.He was dreamy and He loved everything I loved all the way from music...
    StacyLeanna StacyLeanna 31-35, F Dec 21, 2011

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    Every Day

    At least once.. Usually more. He's always there, whether it be something I'm doing to spark a memory, or my train of thought making him pop into my head.. He was mostly just a best friend (with a exception of a few experimentations), but he was still the best person i've ever...
    StrippedxPride487 StrippedxPride487 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 1, 2011

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    Wow I Sure Miss Him.....

    I fell in love 25 years ago. Then we both went our own ways. Here we are all these years later and now we found each other again. It's like we never parted, still talking, still playing around with each other, still teasing like we used to. We still have fun with each other even...
    hardenedhart70 hardenedhart70 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 27, 2011

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    Friendship After The Breakup?

    So Wednesday of this week, I decided to end the last means of my connection with my ex. Which is my facebook. I had deactivated my Facebook for a week before Wednesday because I couldn't unfriend him and I couldn't stop sending him messages and looking at his profile. I wanted to...
    cataleyarestrepo cataleyarestrepo 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 13, 2013

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    Angle Cry

    Never before did I see my angle cry,  But today I observed a tear in his eye.. Drops of crystal dripping down his cheek,  Every drop I witnessed was making me weak.. Every tear pierced like an arrow into my heart,  The fact that in this I did play a big part.. Knew he didn't...
    Standing4life Standing4life 18-21, F Jan 20, 2012

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    Ill Be Strong

    Words of wisdom come to my ears, Telling me what I know in my heart, But never wanted to hear. With the truth finally said and out in the open for me to plainly see, I wonder why I can love so deeply but never had that love returned back to me. I confessed the feelings...
    Standing4life Standing4life 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 20, 2012

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    He Was Hot Stuff Was Burnie!!

    A long time ago now, a wet November evening as I bundled my guy down the stairs and out the door dragging him down the road to our chosen spot I sat on the wall and he sat grinning on the floor his head to one side with his hat half over his eyes, I jumped down to sort him...
    dustydaisy dustydaisy 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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    Every Night

    "Your words are my prayers that I say before I sleep"
    Oso41412 Oso41412 41-45, F Oct 16, 2012

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    I Hate This

    I always say that I never liked him but, if I'm going to be completely honest with myself, I think I may have liked him a little. Or maybe I just liked the idea that someone as attractive as him wanted me. So, we hooked up twice. The first time he initiated it, and the second...
    CrackTheCode CrackTheCode 18-21, F Jun 25, 2012

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    Everyday...

    i dont just think of him... i still dream about him too... will it ever stop?
    myshadesofgreen myshadesofgreen 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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    Don't Follow Any Advice,

    Don't follow any advice, no matter how good, until you feel as deeply in your spirit as you think in your mind that the counsel is wise.
    Curtesy Curtesy 31-35 Oct 31, 2011

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    Sometimes

    I still dream about him sometimes. You would think that after so many months of having absolutely no contact, the dreams would stop. Or the wondering would stop. I wonder about him. Is he OK? Did he find love? Did he leave another woman in his wake? And of course: Does he ever...
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Nothing Comes From Nothing.

    It was the month of April. I had just moved states, & thats when I first layed eyes on him, it could have been fate. I still remember what he was wearing, & how he stood there alone. I could feel him watching me, as I danced, pretending not to notice. My friend whispered to me...
    SiennaRain SiennaRain 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 23, 2012

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    We met the summer of 2012.

    I was in a relationship but not happy & on the verge of being single at the rate things were going. Right person , wrong time is what I keep telling myself. He was extremely smart , well educated and had a career established with a good paying job. We had a lot of things in...
    LoveMakesUsHuman LoveMakesUsHuman 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I Love Him And I Know He Doesnt Love Me So Why

    My best friend is a guy I've knowed for a very long time I'm lose him to the military we have talked about my feelings for him a lot and he knows that my love him is deep and full and pure he was the first boy to kiss me and the first man to tell me he loves me I know and not...
    happyness234 happyness234 22-25, F Oct 18, 2012

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    After 20 + Years He Still Makes Me Weak

    I ran into an old friend about a week ago. we had absolutely no idea that we would see each other at this event. he was with his wife whom I met for the first time. he stood up to greet me with a hug. I walked past him to hug someone else first, then came back to high him. he...
    shallowdeep shallowdeep 36-40, F Jul 6, 2012

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    It's Not Fair

    I was with a guy for several years as a teenager and young adult, he was controlling and abusive and my life was a wreck, we finally ended it and moved on, I have been having a very hard time, I had a mental breakdown when it was over, not because I lost someone I loved but...
    be2cute be2cute 22-25, F Jul 8, 2012

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    Dancin' Away With My Heart

    there is a song by lady antebellum that they just released on their new cd that makes me think of my first love. I had fell for him in high school and it wasn't until our senior prom that the feeling seemed to be mutual. we were together for about 2 months after we graduated and...
    hurleyalex18 hurleyalex18 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    Out Of Them All Its Only You

     i still think about you. sometimes... i remember us laughing together..... and i smile. but other times... late at night... i think of how empty my chest feels now that your not with me... and i can’t help but cry. when i told you i loved you... i meant id love you forever...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 24, 2011

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    Hes The Most Awful Person, And The Only Person I Want To Talk To.

    My ex is the worst. We broke up a week ago, and he already has a new girlfriend. She's even answered his phone when i've called saying to stop "calling her boyfriend" He has the worst mood swings, but can snap right out of it and have no idea what he just did to me.. i really don...
    rockbottom244 rockbottom244 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2011

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    Why Do I Hold On

    you you hunted my mind and i love it still because this means i can hold on to you in a way as a phantom to love and hold and never fear to dream to wish on and may be im a phantom to you two some one you ones knew and may be you love me two... may be you hold me close your...
    hiaru hiaru 16-17, F May 17, 2013

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    I'll Be There For You

    Of course I still think of him...Hell, I'm still married to him!  But, it has been 7 years since we slept in the same bed, used the same shower, washed dishes together, watched t.v. together, laughed together, ate dinner together, or done much of anything together.  It's...
    umbrellatree umbrellatree 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    Rather Feel Pain Then Nothing

    Scream at me Spit on me Throw me down Lie to me Laugh at me Make me fall My dreams are not important Not to you What are dreams to you? Do you enjoy my pain? Do you enjoy crushing all i am? It's my turn to laugh at you What's wrong? Are you confused? I don't hate...
    Standing4life Standing4life 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2012

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    Over You

    When I think that I am over you. You still on my mind. I know you are part of my past but sometimes you affect my future. I wish I could forget about about you but I cant it still feel like some thing is missing every time i try to get over you.
    kekediva11 kekediva11 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1, 2012

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    Even After 7 Years...

    Unhappily married I still think of him and what we could have become. I still dream about him constantly and wonder if he thinks of me. In my dreams I feel so in love and when I wake up I feel depressed and wished I was living in my dream.
    dreamingbutterfly dreamingbutterfly 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2012

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    2 Months On Hes Still On My Mind Always Will Be.....

    Its been two months since my ex broke up with me. When we were together we were really in love i still love him. We never argued or fought with eachother we were great. It was strange because one night he just turned round and said to me its over i dont love u anymore,. Hearing...
    lylkitkat lylkitkat 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    He Still Makes Me Smile

    Ok we all, well most of us, learn from our mistakes and then go on. The hardest lesson I learned is"never give up on your first love" The first mistake was letting my first husband become my ex-husband. The second was marring my future ex-husband. I want to get this right and it...
    tmmarion tmmarion 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 16, 2010

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    I wanna get over him

    but I cant i really cant . I havent talk to him maybe once , its love at first sight . You know ... Well i just wanna know if he feels the same way i do or its just my imagination , not like i could help it , its just my feelings .
    natyguadalupe natyguadalupe 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    The Good Times

    It ended badly. We had been married eleven years. It ended with animosity and bitterness, But, now, looking back in retrospect I choose to remember the good times. Our travels together. Our summers here on the beach. The lovemaking that was so intense.I sometimes wish to return...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Oct 31, 2011

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    There this guy who liked me before

    and was extremely sweet and he'd hold my hand in class. But he didn't want anyone to know, he did tell his friends though. Then after maybe 2 weeks of that. When u came to school he just treated Meuse he treated anyone else. And then the next week. He had a girlfriend. I never...
    ally6372 ally6372 16-17, F Feb 25

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    Do Not Want to Fail Again

    Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm. —Winston Churchill     I Always have put My husbands needs ahead of mine. It has to work Out. I will Put him first.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2009

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    This is a confusing situation.

    He need hours even more than a day to reply to my messages. But when replying to message me, he looks so excited and very sweet. Even sending me photos and video. When I get tired with this and would like to finish it, he cries, even looks very messy when I didn't reply to...
    Sk203 Sk203 18-21, F Apr 14

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    What A Heartless Man

    This is just a freaking nightmare what happened to me. It happened two months ago and it bothers me like it happened yesturday. All my life my luck with guys sucked. I have always been a good women at heart but those fake guys out there made me sick. the ones that were interested...
    skydancer24 skydancer24 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2011

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    The Wonders of Lust and Love

        As I gaze up at the stars tonight I sit and wonder why I miss you so.  Why do I hear your voice in my quiet moments? Why can I feel you touch me when I know you...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 53 Responses May 21, 2009

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    And Then I Woke Up.

    every night for about a month, i dreamed about him. sometimes funny- most of the time sadly realistic. i woke up always wondering where he was, who was he with, was he thinking of me, did he ever think of me? with all these questions cluttering my head it was nearly impossible to...
    ayannamay ayannamay 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 24, 2011

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    Irritate

    I try to push thoughts of you away... But I still end up thinking about you at least once a day. If I'm lucky, you only cross my mind ONCE. A year ago tomorrow will be the one year anniversary you broke up with me. Do I care? Yes, actually. I achieved my goal and I feel whole...
    kulashka kulashka 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2011

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    To Help Us Let Go

    I didn't write this. I wish I did. It's credited to lots of different people, most frequently someone named Reverand Safire Rose. Whoever wrote it, it's breathtakingly beautiful...so I wanted to share it with you. Without a thought or a word, she let go. She let go of fear. She...
    cataleyarestrepo cataleyarestrepo 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    More Like "them"

    I've joked in the not too recent past that I couldn't go back to work for anyone because all the people I have used for a job reference over the last 50 years are all dead. Almost daily I think of one of my old buddies from high school, or right up through a few years ago, and...
    AlbertSAT AlbertSAT 66-70, M 1 Response Oct 31, 2011

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    He's The One

    There's this guy in my life who I fell completely in love with he goes to my school and we are pretty good friends but he dated my Bestfriend last year and then they broke up durning the summer and she has no feelings for him at all. But the one problem is he still likes her. He...
    ThatGirl457 ThatGirl457 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am 23 years old and have spend the last two years of my life with the most amazing man ever. We started talking while I was in a short term relationship with another guy, it was...
    equisgirl1 equisgirl1 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I still miss him after an year of our breakup. I get jealous seeing other couples. I miss that bond of affection. I mishis caring actions. I still want to be with him. I miss our...
    steee15 steee15 18-21, F Mar 27

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    It's been 9 years and I still think about my first love, wonder if he thinks about me? I feel guilty for it, I'm married n hv kids now.
    DancingRoses DancingRoses 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    They always say you never stop loving your first true love. But it that really realistic? I'm not sure. But my first love and I broke up two years ago and I still occasionally...
    Jessica0906 Jessica0906 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Four months ago...My love left me alone ,he said that he loves me but he don't want to keep going anymore. Is that love? . He said that he needs a break till my birthday and he...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Four months ago...My love left me alone ,he said that he loves me but he don't want to keep going anymore. Is that love? . He said that he needs a break till my birthday and he...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F Apr 7

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    Four months ago...My love left me alone ,he said that he loves me but he don't want to keep going anymore. Is that love? . He said that he needs a break till my birthday and he...
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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