I Struggle to Define My Own Self

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    Perhaps a Woman In My Past Life...

    I imagine all kinds of sex... I imagine it and want it with both women and men.. all the time. Sometimes I am me--the real me??--and I am perfectly happy... Other times, I dream of sucking c**k and I know I'd like it... I think I never will, though.. It is not right.. Is it?? So...
    ebrat ebrat
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Apr 2, 2007

    Me

    there are many things that define me, but i dont think only 5 can capture them all. I think the people around me define me, and if they do, then im in trouble. i think i need to fix myself.
    lateproject lateproject
    16-17, F
    Jul 23, 2007

    My Life = Confusion

    This is typical adolescent behavior right? Being confused about who I am, struggling with identity v. identity confusion? The great thing is that I don't see myself getting out of it anytime soon. I'm almost 21 for crying out loud, and I'm still dealing with the same issues I...
    flyawayhome flyawayhome
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2010

    What Happened to Me?

    I am not the same person I was before I had kids. I never used to care what anyone thought about me I was who I was and didn't feel the need to make everyone else happy like I do now. Fear of people judging me or my kids consumes me, and I end up not knowing what I should do. I...
    krispychick krispychick
    22-25, F
    Apr 16, 2008

    Now Is As Good a Time As Any

    Trying to fit to someone else's definition of "a good person" or "an ideal life" is MORE stressful than setting out to break routine and cut your own road.  No matter how hard you try, you'll never fit their criteria.  I've come to realize I cannot...
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech
    22-25, F
    Jul 8, 2009

    What Am I?

    I feel pretty lost right now. I can't define myself because I feel like I don't know anything about me.  I have no interests, no hobbies, no activities that I enjoy.  I am sure my clinical depression plays a part in this, but it is still very difficult.
    psychochic psychochic
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2007

    Seeds Of Kinship

    Feeling the need for a renewed life. I planted the first part of the garden yesterday.  March 21 and 70 degrees.  Winter thaw melting away while I work to unlock the deep freeze inside my head.  The soil worked easily, with the hope of things to come, to fill its...
    princecaspian princecaspian
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Mar 22, 2010

    It's Weird...

    I've tried for years to find out who i am. It still bugs me to this day, i've lost sleep over it before. I recently had a big "mess" involving who i was. My boyfriend calmed me down and just told me that i was me. I only cried harder after that, but it was a happy...
    candiipup candiipup
    22-25, F
    Apr 18, 2008

    Revelation Of Self

    Recalling my adolescent years occupied in high school,that past was my awakening.Everyone (just about,no bragging intended) at school came to know me as "crazy" due to my strange behavior.During my first year,a question was asked that I was never asked about before."Why do...
    Kurainia Kurainia
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 2, 2010

    Normal?

    I know that being a teenager is all about growing into who you are and finding the real person inside you but it's kinda hard. I mean who am I? and how do I found out who i am? -x-x-x
    mascaratearsx mascaratearsx
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 16, 2008

    Perhaps a Woman In My Past Life...

    I imagine all kinds of sex... I imagine it and want it with both women and men.. all the time. Sometimes I am me--the real me??--and I am perfectly happy... Other times, I dream of sucking c**k and I know I'd like it... I think I never will, though.. It is not right.. Is it?? So...
    ebrat ebrat
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 2, 2007
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