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I Stuggles With Impotence

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 42 People

    Not Working Right

     I guess mine is a little different I have been married for many years. We have tried stories . Ever since she has not worked she l. lost her drive. I have tried alot of things and its hard for me.I have used Viagra and cialsis They work fine both the problem persists. I...
    ranger462 ranger462
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jan 13, 2010

    Impotence And Marriage

    I am a 58 yo married man with Diabetes. As a result of the diabetes, I have serious Erectile Dysfunction / Impotence. Oral medications like Viagra, Levitra, and Cialis work a little but not enough to have intercourse. From my perspective, this is not as bad as it might seem. I...
    lickitysplit lickitysplit
    66-70, M
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2010

    My Story.

    Well ive been like this for longer than I would care to remember, since I was 17/18 probably. At the age of 31 soon to be 32 im getting no better!. I have never had sexual intercourse, have tried at least 6-7 times and could have had more opportunities only dont see the point...
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2008

    Young Guy With It- Was Humiliated By Urologist

    i can get it up but can't stay hard enough to penetrate anyone. i'm in my 20s. went to a urologist and he was convinced it was in my head. he was a mean old guy and frankly wasn't very sympathetic. all i wanted was for him to prescribe me viagra and when i asked for this he blew...
    bitchboy1984 bitchboy1984
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 20, 2010

    Frustrated And Depressed

    I started having erection problems 10 years ago its was first caused my prescription medication but now i have spinal damage which causes loss of feeling in the testicles and penis. My wife sleeps in a separate room because i cant sleep well due to the back problems, she never...
    flaccid flaccid
    46-50, M
    Nov 27, 2009

    Lifelong Burden

    Impotent? cant get it up? mr floppy? yes, for as long as i can remember i first got some idea things were wrong age 11 looking at line drawings of an erection in a biology book with other boys - it's just like that they all said - not mine i thought, it doesnt do that when i...
    milkmenow milkmenow
    1 Response Nov 16, 2009

    Can Anyone Relate to Stuggles With Impotence

    I am new to this whole thing but I was wondering if anyone else can relate to struggles with impotence.  For me it has been going on for several years now and I have been checked out by a urologist and he tells me its psycological but that does not make me feel any better...
    flash1964 flash1964
    6 Responses Jan 12, 2008


    I struggle to get it up, it only can do half a job. It is there limp down my left leg most of the time. I still play with it and it is fun to play with.. If some one wants a hard on in place, I can't do that. I cann't have intercourse sex., it gose solf and that it.  I am...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 29, 2010

    Not Alone

    You're not alone there, buddy. My stories a little different to yours but there's certainly a lot of similarities. I'm a 21 year old with a similiar problem. I've never had complete natural sex. For me, the erection is there during the kissing and what have you, but as soon as it...
    JSinger JSinger
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jan 29, 2008

    Antibiotics For Lyme Disease

    Antibiotics are probably the only cure and the effective in helping cure the Lyme disease when they are taken at the initial phase of the disease setting in. Early treatment with antibiotics can prevent future problems with arthritis, the heart and the nervous system though the...
    KeyTop KeyTop
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Nov 22, 2010

    At Wits End

    I am a Diabetic at 56 years old, suffering from impotence.  I have not had sex with my wife for at least 6yrs.  My wife does not like oral sex and is uncomfortabe with me performing oral sex on her.  I have tried all three oral medications,  but none of them...
    mwjohnson2 mwjohnson2
    Oct 26, 2010

    No Sex

    I am impotent after my prostrate was removed. I have tried everything put I donot get stiff anymore and no ***** comes out. I wonder if their is any other way to have sexual satisfaction ether orally or through my rear. It is bad enough I have to wear diapers 24/7 but incontence...
    gordon8 gordon8
    70+, M
    4 Responses Jan 23, 2010

    No Easier With Age

    I struggles with impotency. If you can gain any comfort from knowing you are not alone take heart.  Seldom have I known of anyone 32 that is as impotent as you indicate. My first bit of advice would be to move out from living with your mother.  To me that would not be...
    randyz randyz
    Oct 20, 2008

    After a Prostatectomy

    I had a prostatectomy at the age of 42, and have had no success with performance since then.  The procedure is one during which many nerves in the penile are have to be moved aside (they used to cut through them).  This moving aside of the nerves greatly harms...
    quandary quandary
    Apr 20, 2009

    Impotence : I’m Confused - Any Knowledgeable Advice Would Be Appreciated!

    I’ve been suffering in silence with this worry for a long time, so if any of you kind people out there could help clarify things for me I’d be very grateful. The reason why I can’t deal with it in a ‘normal’ way is that I suffer from VERY severe...
    Steven75 Steven75
    5 Responses Aug 14, 2008

    What Diabetes Can Do.......

    this is a long story but will make it short, been a type 1 diabetic male for 30 years now, ups and downs just like my cohorts,   one story thats quite devastating is that I have been suffering from erectile dysfunction since a very young age ,  had treatments...
    fredo544 fredo544
    3 Responses Aug 6, 2009

    Just Seems Normal Now

    While I never was very big at least I never had any problems getting hard untill I went on Heart, BP AND diabeties Meds That was about 12 years ago and I also tried the Viagra, Pumps & other " Cures" The only thing that worked was shots  and they worked too...
    mnscooter mnscooter
    56-60, M
    Dec 15, 2009

    Accepted It Rather Than Struggle With It

    I guess I'd say I've accepted my impotence rather than struggle with it. I have diabeties and heart meds that pretty much kill any hope of erection. I tried all the meds with only little sucess ( I never knew if they were going to work of for how long) I did use shots with great...
    mnscooter mnscooter
    56-60, M
    1 Response Jun 9, 2009

    Impotence And Penis Size

    I have impotence. I began having problems about ten years ago when I was 55 years old. At first I could perform with a metal **** ring. That stopped working so I went to pills then injections. I always made my penis the center of my world. It is very large and I always liked...
    aoconnel01 aoconnel01
    Sep 1, 2012


    Hi my name is Mike,      I'm been having trouble getting an eriction for about 30 years and I have tried Viagra but it did not work so I tried kavajeck and that worked but it was pain full. So I started to talk to a sociologistand we found out that it came from back when I...
    reztek1 reztek1
    3 Responses Jan 14, 2011
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