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I Submit To My Husband Through Domestic Discipline

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 457 People

    A *****wonderful****** Weekend!!!!!!

    I dont know why I am posting this on this particular page, I guess because I had written about going away on here last week. My husband had told me because I have been behaving so well lately that we would skip this past weeks maintenance spanking and that we were going away for...
    Nov 9, 2012

    What Would My Punishment Have Been

    I posted my story about the spanking I received last night from my husband. It was well deserved but I have been feeling a little sorry for myself and my sore behind today. I was simply curious about what mu punishment might have been if I lived in another household> To cut a...
    josfairmaiden josfairmaiden
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Dec 3, 2012

    A Domestic Discipline Marriage Is Not Abuse.

    Lately I have read a lot of comments on this site that criticizes domestic discipline relationships. There are many women around the world in abusive and oppressive situations. But a loving, mutually fulfilling, respectful domestic discipline relationship between two consenting...
    inhandwife inhandwife
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Dec 7, 2011

    New To DD But Grateful Already

    so, my husband and I have only been practicing DD for a few months, but it is already having a positive affect on our marriage. when I was "in charge" of our relationship, our life had too many ups and downs, too many break ups. if it had not been for discovering DD, our marriage...
    shadowplayTH shadowplayTH
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2013

    What are some of your rules,

    if you don't mind sharing? :) I'm just trying to get some inspiration and see if there's anything we should add to our relationship. Some of mine are, I have to have dinner on the table when my Husband gets home, I need to let him know if I am leaving the house and where I'm...
    hislove7 hislove7
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    Divorced And Undivorced

    Years ago.........Ok maybe it wasn't that long ago. My husband and I hated each other. I was being strong and independent. I took total care of the kids, worked up to 3 jobs at a time. Got them all cell phones so they could call me at any time, and took them to a sitter if I...
    JennaR JennaR
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Sep 14, 2012

    This Weeks Maintenance

    As I have shared before, Wednesday evening's are the evenings that I recieve my maintenance spankings. It has always been this way. Thursday's my HoH makes it my special night. Usually dinner and some type of entertainment like a play or concert. He has even done things like...
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2012

    Time Management. Yesterday was beautiful

    outside. I wanted to go out and get some craft items. I wanted us all to go. Sir told me he was staying home with the children, but wants me to go. They have not kept up with chores and I have felt like the "lazy" maid. My children are old enough to pick up their rooms, etc...
    silencedshy silencedshy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 16, 2015

    Waiting Is The Worst Part

    Hello, all. I am 20 years old and my husband and I practice DD. I am in big trouble tonight, and have to wait until he comes home after work. I talked to a guy friend that he doesn't like because it's an old high school ex who tends to flirt with me. I responded to said friend on...
    ajw93 ajw93
    18-21, F
    Jun 11, 2013


    Anyone have tips for doing punishment while pregnant? We love DD but don't want to hurt the baby
    ajw93 ajw93
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 13, 2013

    Ups And Downs

    DD is hard. It's not an easy life.  Why do we do this? Because it's fulfilling; it's a dynamic that is beyond compare in a committed relationship.  It's relatively lonely; however, the support we have found in each other on EP makes it that much easier.  For that, I am...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 18, 2013

    Obedience Is The Lesson Learned

    I am usually a very good submissive wife. I get my fair share of beatings (usually deserved) but I learn from them and try harder. Obedience is something my husband (daddy) insists on and I am mostly good at it. Then this happened... The other day I lost my wedding ring. This...
    JosesBabyGirl JosesBabyGirl
    41-45, F
    Nov 18, 2012

    Maintenance Day Has Arrived

    Today being Wednesday, I will recieve my maintenance spanking. This one I am really nervous about. My husband has always spanked me with a belt on this day. Today, he is using a Loopy Johny. When I was making his breakfast today, he brought the box into the kitchen. He told me to...
    8 Responses Oct 10, 2012

    Goodness gracious I can't stay out of trouble

    these past two weeks. I'm due for a punishment spanking tonight again 😕
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    4 Responses Aug 1, 2014


    My husband and I have this game we play with our daughter. We sometimes will surprise her with an ice cream from McDonald's.  When we do, we pretend that the car is taking over and won't go the way we want it to drive.  She's almost 9 and thinks it's hilarious!  She laughs...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 2, 2013

    Mouthiness Will Do It Every Time...

    Tonight I submitted to a spanking from my husband. I woke up in a bad mood. I slept in for 3 hours after him, which was no biggie, but the rest of the day I was just mouthy and disrespectful. I called him dumb, twice, while he was driving, called him a liar in the store parking...
    girvingtree girvingtree
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 15, 2013

    Head Strong But In Love

    Hey i will start off saying I'm new to this so please bare with me. My husband of seven years and I are maddly in love with each other but I am very stuburn. And very set in my ways . He has asked me for years to let him be the control in our family because I literally stress...
    Cdmproperty Cdmproperty
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jul 17, 2012

    Would You Like?

    Hello everybody. I am just a regular 20-something from the US, and I am happy in my domestic discipline relationship with my husband. Fortunately, we have the support of our family, my husband's brother and his wife practice this partnership, and we have encouraged my brother and...
    RayneLovesLife RayneLovesLife
    22-25, F
    Dec 26, 2012

    New Toy

    I got an early Christmas present Today. Mr postman delivered it this morning. It's a lelo love egg that has a remote that controls the egg. It's so beautiful I can't wait to try it out on the weekend with the bf. we are going out for drinks with some friends Saturday so it should...
    sublucy sublucy
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 17, 2012

    Our Implements

    James and I do not own a vast array of implements. When it comes time for punishment, he sticks to the wooden spoon, wooden hairbrush, or wooden ruler. On occasion he has given me a few licks with his belt. We both feel there is no reason to have conspicuous implements laying...
    Domestic Domestic
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2013

    My Dominant Hoh Cherishes Me

    There are a lot of stories about DD and TIH that describe, in detail, punishments and corrections. I know, I wrote some of them :) This story is to add the other element of a great TIH relationship, which is that my HOH treasures me. I am his beloved and he makes sure I know this...
    inhandwife inhandwife
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 6, 2012

    Well with the Holidays finally over

    and things back to normal we are getting back into keeping our relationship on track. With being away for the holidays for almost a month we kinda slipped away from the DD lifestyle! But this morning I brought it back up and asked if we could get focused again. He said that he...
    cheljohnson cheljohnson
    22-25, F
    Jan 6, 2014

    I FULLY submit to my husband in every possible

    way and I am honored and happy to do so! Before the DD phase of our marriage, we had horrible knock- down, drag- out fights. It was truly a horrible time in our marriage.. I was always acting out and wanting to be in charge of all my relationships. Deep down, what I really...
    NorthernSugarVT NorthernSugarVT
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jan 20, 2014

    My Blog!

    Hello all! I have started a log about a Taken In Hand Relationship. For those of you who like to read those, here's the link. I'd appreciate it so much if you were my first viewers! I'll be posting here and there until I'm able to be consistent. This is not about a kinky...
    Cocobonbon97 Cocobonbon97
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2013

    Spanked Twice Today So Far Today.

    Last night I fell asleep in my child's room while putting him to sleep, which my husband has asked me not to do. I did not intend to do it . Well needless to say we ended up in an argument the next day and we were angry with each other. I did not think it was fair to be...
    Rollinghills Rollinghills
    46-50, F
    10 Responses Nov 6, 2012

    Waiting For A Spanking Today

    My daddy Jack is going to help me today by reminding me what a good submissive wife is.I feel a need to be put on track again - and I know he feels that way too.I know I'm in for a whooper of a spanking with 2 paddles -but that's fine with me.Today I will thank him for...
    JackAndJillDD JackAndJillDD
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Jan 20, 2013

    I've created a safe and private dd community on

    facebook, no aliases or fake profile pictures allowed.
    girvingtree girvingtree
    22-25, F
    Mar 20, 2015

    I love making my husband happy!

    He can come home to a CLEAN home, which makes up both happy! I take pride in being the best homemaker on the block!
    youreallythink youreallythink
    46-50, F
    Jan 9, 2015

    I Am Spanked Regularly And Wouldnt Change A Thing About It!!!!

    My husband and I have been married for almost 15 years. We have one of those relationships that all our friends are envious of. He has never let me down on anything. He has always provided for our family and has never neglected me in any way. I have tried to think and think about...
    10 Responses Sep 27, 2012

    I Respect Him Because Of It.

    I've been marriage for five years now. And been doing dd for 2 years. It was my husband idea to start. He brought up the idea to start it. And we both agreed it would help our marriage. He is always calm about it. The first time it happen was a month or so after we agreed to it...
    mega11m mega11m
    6 Responses Feb 22, 2012

    A Rebel Or A Brat?

    Hi. Im not sure.where exactly to begin. My story is a little complex more than others stories that I have formally read. Domestic discipline is something I have chosen to bring into my life. I originally got into it as an experiment, roughly a year ago. The reason I have...
    psychogiggles92 psychogiggles92
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 31, 2012

    Friends Into Dd Lifestyle.

    I need a friend. I need another woman in this lifestyle to talk to and to help me. I don't care how old you are, I just want someone who is experienced in this lifestyle who can be a good influence on me and who can help me improve myself and my relationship. I really wish there...
    HisSweetSubmissive HisSweetSubmissive
    18-21, F
    14 Responses Feb 14, 2012

    My husband told me to post this.

    He would like all the submissive women and Dom men's opinion on this. He believes that when I continue to act out, that it is foreplay for me. I explained that it is not in anyway foreplay. When I initially act out it is just a slip, however, when I am allowed to act this way...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2014

    There Are Times I Feel Closer To My Tih/ Dd Friends On Ep Than Most Of My Other Friends In "real Life"

    To the girls: I've never "met" you. We've never hung out. You haven't seen my face. We are strangers in real life, but friends in a virtual one. Thanks for allowing me to be me and accepting me for it. Thanks for sharing your stories. Thanks for sympathizing in my @ss's plight...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses May 12, 2012

    Spanked last night. Again.

    .. But it was certainly deserved! I was very rude the other day and pouted and walked away from hoh after disagreeing with him. I also neglected to do a very important errand he requested. He asked 4 times. :( So last night I was otk for his hand, paddle & strap. He also...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 12, 2014

    Anxiety Vs Positive Attitude

    My husband is determined to do all he can to make me successful. Including fighting my tendency to be negative and letting anxiety take over.  Last night I shared with him that I was nervous about my attitude towards work because I have a strained relationship with my boss...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 30, 2013

    What Makes Him Happy

    My husband is very protective and dominant. And I love it. I love submitting to him fully and making him happy. Every morning, I wake up at 4:30 so I can make him breakfast, iron his clothes etc... As soon as I finish, I go upstairs, get undressed and get in positions (in our...
    Slavemistress1999 Slavemistress1999
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2013

    Yes Sir

    This is what I say to my husband anytime he asks a question...He deserves this respect. When I am a little mouthy or out of line he uses domestic discipline to pull me out of that mood. From spankings OTK with his hand to a belt spanking while laying across the bed with my hips...
    edwardjeanette edwardjeanette
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 9, 2011

    Love This Book .....

    This is a passage from a book i read a few years ago that really struck a chord with me and the issues we have faced recently and that i'm sure many others have or will face at some time. (The Diary of a Submissive, Sophie Morgan) When you hurt me I like it, I crave it even...
    sublucy sublucy
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 7, 2013

    Surprise! He Caught Me!

    I get maintenance twice a week now. It's new.  It has been exactly twice now that I've received maintenance on this new schedule.  I get one sometime between Monday-Thursday (his choice based on my behavior and attitudes) and one Friday- Sunday (again, his choice.)I never know...
    ANewCreation4Him ANewCreation4Him
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 7, 2013

    A Close Call Turned Into A Wonderful Afternoon!!!!

    I had a terrible scare this afternoon that turned out to be a day I will never forget. I wanted to share this with everyone. My husband and I have another couple that we regularly associate with because their lifestyle is a mirror of ours. They are a little younger than us and I...
    4 Responses Sep 28, 2012

    I'm in big trouble. Threw a fit.

    Swore in anger. Stomped alway from the table. I was made to return to the dinner table and told to calm down. I swore in response. Not at him but I'm anger at the situation. Stomped away AGAIN shortly after. I also neglected to do something he told me do 4 times now...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2014
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