I Suck At Dating

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 667 People

    I broke up with him today.

    It's easy to find someone who says they love you; it's hard to find someone who means it.
    marandajenine marandajenine
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 9, 2014

    I am looking for a connection with someone :-)

    28 - 37 Come chat .... I'm one of the good ones.
    snowmoon123 snowmoon123
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 17, 2015

    I've been texting with a guy I used to go to

    school with. It's been 6 1/2 months now and I thought he was beginning to like me... flirting and such. But twice now he's suggested we do something, a movie our something, but then backs out. He's not married and I'm pretty sure he's not dating someone else because he texts me...
    vickie8669 vickie8669
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jan 26
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 26, 2014

    Ok I know I have been posting thirsty posts

    but I just wish I wasn't so ugly and have that lucky girl in my life
    jimboslice501 jimboslice501
    18-21, M
    Nov 11, 2015

    Can't really get good at something

    when you can't practice. I've gone on 3 dates in my laugh, and the last one was 3 years ago.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 16, 2015

    This is an off topic i don't understand

    why girls get mad when their boyfriend flirts with another girl. I have almost never had a boyfriend unlucky me. I don't even know what it feels like to have a boyfriend and for them to flirt with someone else. Why do girls fight and actually end up killing each other over who...
    ilovejesus777 ilovejesus777
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    you think you suck at dating!

    ? Check out his faillll. Day 9 - A Java Rejection https://youtube.com/?reload=7&rdm=1vq2016vm#/watch?v=ip8IUV-Svz8
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 4

    Dating Life Update As A Post-Feminism Man

    I am now 22 and all my female friends where removed or blocked by my ex. she broke up with me about 5 months ago. so i delved into dating and the problems and thoughts i had before dating her and discovered how feminism is a major factor of why most western women are not wroth it...
    kurokineko kurokineko
    18-21, M
    Jul 23, 2013

    It would be nice to go on a date

    and not have to send a "sorry I was weird" text the next day.
    Angelcum Angelcum
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Mar 2, 2015

    Am I the only one that get in a relationship

    this is so weird. That they break up with you. And then they want you back. Then you say yes and it keeps happening over and over. Should I just stop. Or try and keep the relationship going and try that out
    emmalacelle emmalacelle
    13-15, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2014

    I used to suck at dating till I started dating

    this older guy. What came with his age was maturity, and a lifetime of experience. He was well into psychology. I think I ended up learning a huge amount about what people look for in a person when it comes to attraction. He used to run a site called dateabilityiq.com , but he...
    herdinstinct herdinstinct
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 19

    Of course I suck because I never practice.

    It seems like no one wants to go out with me.
    Goku1900 Goku1900
    18-21, M
    Aug 4, 2015
    iheartny28 iheartny28
    26-30, F
    Feb 4

    I can never keep a stable boyfriend.

    I can make it too weeks if I'm lucky. Maybe I'm just meant for sex and not love
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2015

    I'm so bad at it I can't

    even talk to girls
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 6, 2015

    I am that typical girl

    that you don't wanna date but date anyways because she's funny or sweet or cute . Well, in my opinion, I'm not that pretty. Maybe like a 7.5, cute enough to be a little shallow. I tend to insult people on accident . It's hard being fake nice so I try to be quiet and end up...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 29, 2015

    Its All About Where You Are

    I am now 20 and I have yet to have any female friends even though I hear from allot of girls I chat with that "im so charming, good looking, compassionate and all that good stuff". People can say "oh be confident and they will be all over you" while that is true it won't work all...
    kurokineko kurokineko
    18-21, M
    8 Responses May 4, 2012

    I Just Suck At The Starting Dating Part

    for most of my "grown up" life i was a major pot head.   and that was fine,  it was fun and all that,  but it has lead me to problems with dating.when i used to smoke, all i had to do was invite the girl i was interested in over to my home to smoke,  and we would get really...
    FutureChef FutureChef
    26-30
    Oct 24, 2011

    ever just find yourself in a world of your own,

    thinking about things that you don't normally let yourself think about? I totally done that today! A lot of people at work were questioning me about why im not in relationship, why im not dating, why I don't flirt with boys and it got me thinking. I care so much about every...
    MissMay97 MissMay97
    18-21, F
    Nov 5, 2015

    I've been talking to a guy

    that I met a couple months ago (may) since the day he added me on fb -May we been texting all day and night. 3 weeks ago he asked me to hang out with at the coffee shop. we see each other 2-3 a week and we have gotten closer.Haha like getting to know each other and stuff...
    kawaiikoala1 kawaiikoala1
    22-25
    Aug 11, 2015

    Need some advice. I haven't dated in awhile

    but my friend is trying to hook me up with someone. He doesn't necessarily have the greatest looks but he seems to be super sweet. I know looks aren't everything but I feel like I should be somewhat attracted to a guy that I would even think about dating. I honestly don't think...
    TheQuietOne92 TheQuietOne92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    This girl told me I was clingy.

    I am not sure how to talk it. She was not the best at giving me feedback.
    kcthinker kcthinker
    41-45, M
    Mar 24, 2015
    jimboslice501 jimboslice501
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 4

    I suck at dating because - I have no interest

    in school - I am immature to my very core - the few girls I have engaged convo in( real life girls) they have rejected my kind spirit Is all hope lost for me??
    BenedictJones BenedictJones
    16-17, M
    3 Responses May 13, 2015

    I don't know if it's the weather

    or what, but I really miss having a guy to cuddle up with. I haven't been properly touched by a guy in a little while. I just miss laying my head on a guy's shoulder. I put myself out there, but it seems like nobody wants me. I have having this self pitying attitude..
    Wallybaby Wallybaby
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 23

    Never really got the hang of it.

    Been more practiced at being alone than being part of relationships
    one2free one2free
    51-55, M
    Mar 8

    ...

    well, I went to this office a few days ago and a guy working there helped me with the documents i needed. He gave my priority and my documents was done in few days.... Amazing.... I said thank you very much and left!!! A couple of days later he sent me a text message on facebook...
    Katia8765 Katia8765
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Nov 16, 2013

    I think it's funny when your talking to a girl

    and it seems like things are moving forward or at least you think she likes you, then all of a sudden silence. It's happens to me often. Women find another guy to give them what they need and then sort of push you aside. It doesn't upset me, but I think it's funny how the...
    wolfmore wolfmore
    26-30, M
    1 Response Sep 21, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 21, 2014

    I can't date. And I don't know

    why anyone would even WANT to date me, or even like me, I don't even like me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Dec 2, 2014
    jimboslice501 jimboslice501
    18-21, M
    Jan 3

    I am so looking forward to finding the love of

    my life. See I am almost 50 and the men who approach me are either younger than my children or look like Benjamin Franklin, and I have no attraction to them. I don’t want to sound picky but I want someone between these options. I see people who look so unusual and yet they...
    SofiaLongino SofiaLongino
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    May Dating Life (...or Lack Thereof)

    Don't get me wrong, I'm not one of those people who is unhappy when I'm not in a relationship; I prefer being single to dating for the sake of being in a relationship. But every now and then I do meet someone that I feel a an attraction for, or a connection with. It doesn't...
    dexter110 dexter110
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 12, 2011
    veeoneeyee veeoneeyee
    13-15, F
    Aug 30, 2015

    I guy I really wanted to sleep with says he

    wants to be more than friends. ****. /:
    BastilleBlue BastilleBlue
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 26, 2015

    if you don't want to date me that's fine i get

    that but you're wrong and i hate you
    Angelcum Angelcum
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 11, 2014
    veeoneeyee veeoneeyee
    13-15, F
    Aug 30, 2015
    Ivanmejia Ivanmejia
    13-15, M
    1 Response Jan 24

    I get a lot of signal

    and compliments from girls. But when I ask them out they don't come. maybe i ask them too soon but after a few days talking I have nothing more to say.
    Faraboy Faraboy
    26-30, M
    Aug 25, 2015

    So I'm gonna spend the evening alone .

    Nachos and salsa nd a movie :-) maybe some ice cream . Oh yeah !!!
    snowmoon123 snowmoon123
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    I can never keep a guy interested in me

    and when a guy is I am not interested. Maybe I am just not meant for love... Maybe I am meant to be loner. Or maybe I am just not anyones type. Why can't someone just come into my life and love me and tell me I am perfect for them. Why is love so complicated!!!!! Either you are...
    coraimaal coraimaal
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 17, 2015
    alexisjubar alexisjubar
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2015

    Went on a date with a guy

    who asked me out, just walked up to me and started talking. I was alittle taken back but continued conversing. We went to Hyde park- his favourite place to sit lie underneath the big trees and watch the world pass by. The next night he called and asked to meet up again only with...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 10, 2015

    I'm clueless when it comes to dating.

    I'm currently talking to someone & he is such a sweet guy. His dating ways are old fashioned, & that's what I really like about him. How many girls can say a guy has opened every door for them before the girl had the chance to? He refuses to let me pay for him when it comes to...
    TheQuietOne92 TheQuietOne92
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 9, 2015
    jimboslice501 jimboslice501
    18-21, M
    Dec 26, 2015

    So... A coworker asked

    for my number, he wanted to go on a date with me. but there's 2 problems here, he's my superior and big friend of my boss and I wanted to apply to another job position in there. It would sound pretty weird if I would be dating him, it would look like I was using him to get the...
    blackberries blackberries
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 23, 2015

    I don't know how to describe the way I suck at

    dating, I just do. I tend to suck at social interaction with people generally, social interaction generally makes me really anxious, so when it comes to dating I can be even worse. I can kind of be a bit impatient too. I need someone who can be there for me when I need them...
    lonelyguybc lonelyguybc
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 13, 2015
    jimboslice501 jimboslice501
    18-21, M
    Dec 26, 2015

    Well that's a novel thing.

    I usually like to get to know the person well before I go that far.
    No4skin49 No4skin49
    56-60, M
    Aug 19, 2015

    Are You Sure We're More Than Friends?

    My boyfriend and I were friends for about a year and a half before we started dating. We lived on the same floor freshmen year and sophomore year and had a class together. By the second semester of sophomore year things started changing. Valentines day came around and his was so...
    DisneyDreamer DisneyDreamer
    18-21, F
    Sep 20, 2013

    Once again another fail,

    but I kind of knew it going into it I still haven't learned how to pick people, I ignore the signs and hope they will change if I can just show them, show them how to feel. But it doesn't work that way, people are in different places and sometimes it just isn't worth it to stick...
    Wbyogimaso Wbyogimaso
    26-30, M
    Jun 27, 2015
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