I Suck At Love And Relationships

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 407 People

    Well.... Yup lol, I am never one to be openly

    honest about my feelings. Normally I just stay quiet or get really hyper, but when it comes to feelings towards others, it sucks like monkey acorns. In relationships, I tend to lack the emotion. Those kind of things actually frustrate me, thus when I end up in a relationship it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 25, 2014

    I'm currently in a fantastic relationship

    but I love getting attention from other men.
    klingesm klingesm
    26-30, F
    Mar 29, 2015

    When the only person you loved,

    was only with you to pass the time. - To wait for someone better to come along.
    Lu24642 Lu24642
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jun 14, 2015

    Fuxk you all I played nice you all wanted an

    enemy you've got one. Step to me and I will go out of my way to fuxking crush you. Offered the world to two women and got stung by them they better steer clear because they've got a **** ton more to lose than I do. All I wanted was love. All you'll get is war.
    R3493r R3493r
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 16, 2014

    There's no doubt in my mind

    that I am in love, and I know he loves me too, but the distance gets to me emotionally. He's only three hours away, but it still affects me in ways that are beyond the physical. And I feel like I don't make it any easier. Me always being sad, or upset at him not being here...
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17
    18-21, F
    Dec 3, 2014

    Inablitly To Express.....

    I am nothing but a lover. I only want to love one person at a time...and I will do anything for the person I love. I will stay monogamous and loyal....but the problem that I have is that I am horrible at expressing my feelings. I can say I love you and I am very affectionate but...
    bootzy87 bootzy87
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2013

    I don't even think I like my BF.

    I've been with him twice before. Every Time he asked me out: 1) I feel pressured to say yes. 2) at my school you're cool if you have a BF/GF. 3)he's kinda cute but EXTREMELY annoying and drives me crazy. He's really mean. Tries to hard and does really stupid crap to try and...
    RandomGirl1003 RandomGirl1003
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 14, 2015

    My Love Life In A Nutshell.

    I either meet a great guy... who lives at LEAST 500 miles away, or I meet a guy near me who treats me like I don't exist.  Well, I've really only been in two relationships where the guy lives near me and able to see me in person.  My first boyfriend was a lot better...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 26, 2010

    My marriage is pretty much dead.

    .. Nothing left except a respectable love. As in I appreciate all that you do and I need you here with me in order to do it. When it comes to the other aspects of our relationship I'm just another tortured soul... Wishing I could have what I don't and not knowing whether or not...
    stargazer2468 stargazer2468
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 3, 2015

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    kerenccaa kerenccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 15, 2015

    I thought he Lyked me bt he dnt.

    .. Jys wntd 2 trick me lyk everibodi else do..
    laceyboo14 laceyboo14
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2014

    I run by her window every night hoping

    that I'll see her as I pass.
    halcyondays2 halcyondays2
    18-21, M
    Sep 23, 2014

    I have such bad trust issues from being hurt

    several years ago even though we remained in the relationship and I ended up leaving her. I thinking I sabotage my current relationship because I just do not know how to trust her and therefore pick stupid fights and shut off and become very cold rather than discuss what's...
    crystalballer27 crystalballer27
    22-25, F
    Sep 29, 2014

    theres this guy whom i had a crush on whom

    lasted about 4year-ish at first having this crush was such a foreign feeling i was like "???!@!!|?///?!1" questioning myself every night and crying myself to sleep just bc i developed a crush and i was afraid that meant he can manipulate me?? kinda?? lmao(i was 12) and right...
    uwuvvv uwuvvv
    22-25, F
    Nov 2, 2015

    So I've decided that I'm going to completely

    stay out of relationships and focus 25/8 on starting a band and creating/playing music until after High School.
    jesusofbatterycity jesusofbatterycity
    16-17, M
    2 Responses May 26, 2014

    How is it that every time I fall in love,

    she cheats? I often wonder if there is something wrong with me. Maybe my looks? Or perhaps I'm boring? I honestly do not know why. I just know that I have only ever been in one relationship where I was not cheated on.
    Jpb8773 Jpb8773
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Feb 12, 2014

    Seems like no relationship ever works out

    for me and I think I'm the one to blame.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 4, 2015

    Just recently I had my first boyfriend.

    It's only been a week but I'm starting to feel like he is so needy and jealous and selfish. Are relationships like this or I'm just not used to having someone caring about me n craving for my attention?
    hildaq14 hildaq14
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 23, 2015

    Just say goodnight to me.

    ... That's all I want.... To know you are thinking of me too!
    stargazer2468 stargazer2468
    31-35, F
    Oct 26, 2014

    My relationships always seem to end horribly.

    My first boyfriend went back to his ex without giving me any explanation or saying sorry, nothing. Then, I started talking to this guy. We've been talking for months. He always tells me he loves me but has said he doesn't get into relationships. Today, he turned around and said...
    honor1997 honor1997
    18-21, F
    Jul 27, 2015

    Jealousy, Immaturity And Insecurity

    Greetings!Just want to share. I currently have a boyfriend. We are at the same age and we go to the same college. We used to be enemies. But, somehow, it turned to love. It's just 4 months since we went steady. At first, I had this blind jealousy over him. Well, I thought it was...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2013

    Sometimes it sucks being a woman with lots of

    experience and use to being independent cause it'll take a looong way for you to find your perfect fit.
    NicoSapphire NicoSapphire
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 12, 2014

    I'm currently dating my second boyfriend

    and am definitely noticing the problems with myself that have been making me struggle with both my current relationship and previous one. My main problem is that I'm naturally very closed and not at all trusting. So pretty much I never will tell them when I'm feeling terrible...
    BoredomAtItsBest BoredomAtItsBest
    18-21, F
    Mar 29

    I'M Afraid Of Being Alone

    I had my first and only boyfriend at 15. We stayed together for 6 years. I was positive he was the one for me. As time went on things became stagnant. The sex life sucked, I hated my body, and was bored with him. But even so I stayed because he was my other half. The love of my...
    Sickchick26 Sickchick26
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Oct 25, 2013

    Why Do I Suck!?!?!

    Why is it everytime i have feelings for someone, everytime i sart to fall in love with someone, it goes to **** in like five seconds flat. maybe i move too fast. No i already know i do. Which is why i suck. But i cant help it.I have gone my entire life not being loved. by...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 15, 2010

    When you see my monster Looking at you through

    my red eyes Checking on you to make sure you're not the vampire again Spying. Worrying. Trying to control my choice to be alone than with a cheater. Always investigating to make sure things are still us, still safe. Remember it's a monster you created from a sweet girl who we...
    syntheticrhyme syntheticrhyme
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 15

    I really do considering I've never been I a

    relationship!!! . #iamlame
    lonleygurl23 lonleygurl23
    13-15, F
    Jul 27, 2014

    Hate To Admit The Truth

    At one time I tried to make it seem, at least in my mind, that it was always 'her' fault. As I matured, I had to admit I'm just not the kind of guy women want. I'm the kind of guy women SAY they want. It bothered me for many years until I came to accept it as a handicap. A guy on...
    KaleKing KaleKing
    70+, M
    1 Response Apr 16, 2013

    I told a guy I really liked

    that I wasn't interested to go out with him because I was too scared. That was so selfish and stupid of me. I saw him today and we didn't talk. I feel really terrible because he liked me too. I'm afraid he doesn't like me anymore or that he hates me. I just want him back😔
    disposibleteen disposibleteen
    18-21, F
    Sep 2, 2015

    I feel so vulnerable.

    I felt so vulnerable. Is that all he wanted. Is that all he wants.
    emelon12 emelon12
    22-25, F
    Aug 8, 2014

    Yup- Life Story

    I have tried many times at love and relationships in the past.. I look back now at my past and see a good track record of failed relationships. I chalk it up to being slightly ahead of my time and inexperienced in ilfe in general.Whats the old saying go... "Had I known back then...
    onceasailor onceasailor
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 10, 2011

    Too many failed relationships

    and the individuals are really good at telling me what's wrong with me. But whatever. I'm a pretty cool friend and I'm amazing in bed. Think it's time to focus on my strengths.
    Sicarium Sicarium
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Oct 5, 2014

    I feel like every time I begin to really like

    someone my nerves get the better of me and I over think things and screw things up before anything really starts :/
    screaxxx screaxxx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2014

    I'm the type of person who'll get real jealous

    at some point and because of it. I'll back off merely because I don't feel adequate enough anymore and i
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 19, 2015

    I don't know what I should call my boyfriend.

    I don't want the simple 'baby' I want something nice. He calls me all sorts of cute names and I don't even have one for him 😳😁
    StoryOfMyLife1234 StoryOfMyLife1234
    18-21, F
    Jun 21, 2014

    Advice Needed Very Much!

    I met a guy. I thought he was so cool and great. He told me he had a place but we could chill at his mom's crib while she was out of town. When she came back in town I found out he did not have a place but crashed on people's couches. It is not hardcore homeless, but he was also...
    lilyholic lilyholic
    26-30
    Jun 8, 2013

    So it started out when I started liking this guy

    who was on my tennis team, and we went on a date, but I didn't realize it was a date at the time, I suck with those kinds of things anyways, so I really liked him & it turned out he liked me too & I kept waiting & waiting for him to ask me out & he never did & so about a year...
    Frenchfry3 Frenchfry3
    18-21, F
    Aug 5, 2014

    Having trouble getting over her.

    It's all because of the way our situation ended -with her completely ignoring me . Last time I texted her all I wanted was to talk for some closure , and no response to any texts or calls . I know she used me , and that really stings , but really ?! That's the goodbye I get...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 7, 2014

    So tired of love, wish I never did.

    Its gotten me nowhere but trouble and sad memories
    WentAway WentAway
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    Yeah, I don't really get those "feelings"

    that others get, so it's kind of difficult for me. The two things that go through my mind once I. In a relationship is A.) we'll break up with eachother B.) in stuck with this person until one of us perishes They're the only two possible outcomes so you have to be careful
    thedimone thedimone
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 21, 2015

    I have Aspergers syndrome

    and I don't know if that has anything to do with it, but any time I like a girl, I either don't say anything, or give it away and never let girls go though this "chase" that they oh so love. I always just tell them I really like then, because I do. But because of society, that...
    Phoenix259 Phoenix259
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jun 19, 2014

    Why do men not know what the term dating means

    anymore? Their version is asking a girl out on a so called date taking her to a bar and then trying to have sec with her. Why don't people want to take the time to get to know someone before they have sex with them?
    summergurl55 summergurl55
    26-30, F
    May 5, 2014

    Forever #2

    No one likes to settle for being someone's #2. No one likes to settle for being someone's sideline. No one likes to be lied to. No one likes to be used. No one likes to look like a dumbass, but it happens. It happens to everyone. some more than others. As for myself? I learn my...
    trickkytwin trickkytwin
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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