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I Suck At Love And Relationships

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 295 People

    It's Not So Bad!

      It's not so bad not to be in a serious relationship. I know I don't need to be "with" someone but I think it might be nice to find someone special. I've had my heart filled and elated. I replaced me with their world and again find myself. I'm not a stranger to love but I...
    kvitka kvitka 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    Jealousy, Immaturity And Insecurity

    Greetings!Just want to share. I currently have a boyfriend. We are at the same age and we go to the same college. We used to be enemies. But, somehow, it turned to love. It's just 4 months since we went steady. At first, I had this blind jealousy over him. Well, I thought it was...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    My Life!

    I became a human after 16 , i mean at 16 i started to think about my self like who am i ,why am i,how to talk, behave etc..at just 16 i fell in love with someone bt she didn,t and this results in messes in school,suspended for week from schools and charged with fighting and gore...
    Summer80 Summer80 18-21, M Feb 9, 2013

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    My boyfriend broke up with me today it was my

    fault I **** everything up I can't seem to be in a relationship for more then I year I feel so ******
    Jadeygirl88 Jadeygirl88 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    What Am I Returning To

    I fell in love with someone in high school. I felt it then, but didn't realize how deeply I felt it until much later in life. All I knew was that it scared me to feel that strongly about anyone else so early in life. I didn't want to be the girl that marries her high school...
    WW337 WW337 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    My Love Life In A Nutshell.

    I either meet a great guy... who lives at LEAST 500 miles away, or I meet a guy near me who treats me like I don't exist.  Well, I've really only been in two relationships where the guy lives near me and able to see me in person.  My first boyfriend was a lot better...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    Forever #2

    No one likes to settle for being someone's #2. No one likes to settle for being someone's sideline. No one likes to be lied to. No one likes to be used. No one likes to look like a dumbass, but it happens. It happens to everyone. some more than others. As for myself? I learn my...
    trickkytwin trickkytwin 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2013

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    Well.... Yup lol, I am never one to be openly

    honest about my feelings. Normally I just stay quiet or get really hyper, but when it comes to feelings towards others, it sucks like monkey acorns. In relationships, I tend to lack the emotion. Those kind of things actually frustrate me, thus when I end up in a relationship it...
    TeenyTheTwisted TeenyTheTwisted 18-21, F Jan 25

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    And I Was Like Baby Baby Baby Oooooooooooo

    BABY BABY BABY NOOOOOOOOOOOO BABY BABY BABY OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I THOUGHT YOUD ALWAYS BE MINE, MINE
    GinoIsAFAG GinoIsAFAG 70+ Dec 15, 2012

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    Five Years Wasted....

    I was in a relationship with this guy for over five years. We were really close we shared everything with each other so I thought... We took a mini break over the summer and then we got back together again recently ;however, I just found out this past week that the whole time he...
    aqua83 aqua83 26-30 Nov 5, 2012

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    The other day I found out the most perfect boy

    that I've dreamed of was only leading me on & had a gf for over a year . She asked did we have sex . We didn't . Her bf was only a taster .. Everything was too good to be true
    draby draby 18-21, F Dec 13, 2013

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    Not Strong Enough

    They liked her as long as they didn't get too close. She seemed like everything they had ever wanted. Smart, funny, pretty...she had heard it all. And she stayed true to herself, having learned that when she tried to change for someone it had only ever made her unhappy. She...
    WW337 WW337 31-35, F Jun 8, 2013

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    ok so recently I've been wanting to have a cute

    relationship,to have someone,someone I can lean on. I'm a girl but there's this girl in school who's a really good friend to me,(she's into girls) and I really like her,when I'm with her it makes me feel ok,like I've got my **** together,she hugs me and tells me it's alright...
    recoverybemine recoverybemine 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Made The Same Mistake Again! Hate Myself For It.

    I met this guy I really liked recently. We only stated seeing each other (2 weeks) but I was really into him. I wanted him to be my boyfriend so much that I'm afraid that I scared him off. The problem is that I really like the guy i never have patience to take things slowly. From...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 8, 2013

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    Inablitly To Express.....

    I am nothing but a lover. I only want to love one person at a time...and I will do anything for the person I love. I will stay monogamous and loyal....but the problem that I have is that I am horrible at expressing my feelings. I can say I love you and I am very affectionate but...
    bootzy87 bootzy87 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    Hate To Admit The Truth

    At one time I tried to make it seem, at least in my mind, that it was always 'her' fault. As I matured, I had to admit I'm just not the kind of guy women want. I'm the kind of guy women SAY they want. It bothered me for many years until I came to accept it as a handicap. A guy on...
    KaleKing KaleKing 70+, M 2 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    I don't understand relationships.

    .. After so many experiences of loved ones being hurt by their partners or wives knowing about their unfaithful husbands or boyfriends with multiple girls and millions of divorces... I mean what's the point?
    Amelia888 Amelia888 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    You See

    there was this guy me and him were dating for a year,we both knew him and i weren't honest with each other we both had other people on the side never really talked about it. i never wanted to be sure its one thing to think it and another to actually know, once he started talking...
    umiee umiee 16-17, F Jul 30, 2012

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    How is it that every time I fall in love,

    she cheats? I often wonder if there is something wrong with me. Maybe my looks? Or perhaps I'm boring? I honestly do not know why. I just know that I have only ever been in one relationship where I was not cheated on.
    Jpb8773 Jpb8773 36-40, M 4 Responses Feb 12

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    I'm done with them I'm working to finish being

    the "dream" guy so I can deny everyone that wasn't there for me when I needed them. Rich intellectual fit sound body in a sound mind I've learned it's better to be alone people slow you down I don't mean to sound pessimistic more power and luck to those still searching I wish...
    R3493r R3493r 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    Apprently!

    I thought I was going to be married forever...all three times! I am working on it though, I don't think it was always them ;)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 7, 2011

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    To Choose One Person When I Have Two.

    i know i might sound weird but im sure there's someone out there facing the same thing i am now.seriously,im stuck between two guys.and their both awesome.im not talking awesome by physical appearances but yes they are good looking.that isnt the matter. i have been in a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19, 2011

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    Advice Needed Very Much!

    I met a guy. I thought he was so cool and great. He told me he had a place but we could chill at his mom's crib while she was out of town. When she came back in town I found out he did not have a place but crashed on people's couches. It is not hardcore homeless, but he was also...
    lilyholic lilyholic 26-30 Jun 8, 2013

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    Why Do They Feel So Slowly?

    I recently was jolted and dumped.He went away and for 2 months left me in the dark with a broken heart.     We rejoined a couple times since with no strings, no commitment. He's calling now crying to me.He needs me.Now?        I feel...
    kvitka kvitka 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    Fuxk you all I played nice you all wanted an

    enemy you've got one. Step to me and I will go out of my way to fuxking crush you. Offered the world to two women and got stung by them they better steer clear because they've got a **** ton more to lose than I do. All I wanted was love. All you'll get is war.
    R3493r R3493r 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    Yup- Life Story

    I have tried many times at love and relationships in the past.. I look back now at my past and see a good track record of failed relationships. I chalk it up to being slightly ahead of my time and inexperienced in ilfe in general.Whats the old saying go... "Had I known back then...
    onceasailor onceasailor 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

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    To Be Honest...

    i try my best to be sweet, i try to make things perfect for both of us. trying to be motivated with this relationship, i try my best to make him happy. and try to show him how much i love him. i love him sooo much but what gotten so suckish is that we both lie to each other which...
    Babeekrishelle Babeekrishelle 18-21, F Jun 25, 2012

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    I Just Don't Understand Why I Do The Things I Do.

    It seems no matter what I do, I always get dumped because of my stupid actions.  I don't mean like cheating, stealing or snooping.  It is more like what happen last night.  I went out with a friend of my for a few drinks, few drinks turn into a lot of drinks and...
    aprettymess aprettymess 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2010

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    Why?

    It's official my crush is teasing me ! Question is why do I still like him ?
    triciaa1 triciaa1 13-15, F Nov 10, 2013

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    I Was Born And Destined To Be Single

    i used to think that one day that when i get older that i'll become this successful man who excels at any field of work and when it comes to the ladies that i would be this irresistable man who can get any woman he wants, but when reality kicked in i realised that this thought of...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M Jul 25, 2010

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    Why Do I Suck!?!?!

    Why is it everytime i have feelings for someone, everytime i sart to fall in love with someone, it goes to **** in like five seconds flat. maybe i move too fast. No i already know i do. Which is why i suck. But i cant help it.I have gone my entire life not being loved. by...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 15, 2010

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    **** women man. Guys suck too I guess

    but seriously chicks you should be ashamed -.-
    R3493r R3493r 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Doomed

    I think its because after a while I stop seeing the person I'm with as a person and start seeing them as a thing that could hurt me. I think it all stems from this one relationship I was in a couple of years ago that was a real catastrophe. It was the first time I was truly in...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F Mar 11, 2011

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    Bein in love with a girl

    that all my friends hate.. I still fight everyone for her! She means everything to me and I normally don't give a **** what anyone would say about us.. Except the fact that we both have boyfriends! I would love to be with her and only her.. I would tell the world about her & how...
    Aboswell Aboswell 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    I'M Afraid Of Being Alone

    I had my first and only boyfriend at 15. We stayed together for 6 years. I was positive he was the one for me. As time went on things became stagnant. The sex life sucked, I hated my body, and was bored with him. But even so I stayed because he was my other half. The love of my...
    Sickchick26 Sickchick26 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Jesus Christ some boys are such wankers. No wonder I am horrible at relationships, I either get bored quickly or become annoyed by most males repulsive behaviours.
    kyliethain kyliethain 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Sooo... I THINK I'm falling in love. I'm falling in SOMEthing with this man. Lol. Yes. The only thing is it's just going soooooooooooo slow. And the weird thing is...
    pinkkcotton pinkkcotton 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    "To share suffering for another is an act of compassion and a task for the heart that seeks to heal the world.." Meditations on love, relationships and letting go.
    thislittlejourney thislittlejourney 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I'm quite serious. I walked away from a 28 year relationship because there was no love there anymore. Why would I stay? She had become a complete stranger to me by the time it was...
    JusBec JusBec 51-55, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    As a bi guy of course id let guys suck me but I also love sucking guys myself. Might try 69.
    Damatros Damatros 31-35, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I love this girl so much, I would do anything for her but I never truly know if she feels the same. I've had so many relationships after we broke up but I never felt the same love...
    JMA787 JMA787 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    Hello all! Was wondering if they're are any polyamorous couples out there in healthy productive relationships? How'd you meet and what are some tips to maintaining a healthy...
    danimonyve danimonyve 36-40, F 16 hrs ago

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    We started talking February 23, and realized that we wanted to try this online relationship thing! I love her a lot, we spend all night talking, there is an hour difference in time...
    Girlm35 Girlm35 16-17, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Ive only truely loved 3 guys and each one has broken my heart. Each heart break was leaving me with the urge to kill myself becuase the pain was all too much. Im so scared of being...
    musicismysalvation musicismysalvation 16-17, F 13 hrs ago

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    After surviving infidelity and the ensuing divorce 4 years ago I still find myself next to the road of life. Watching people pass by, on what seems to be a normal state of...
    nubib nubib 31-35, M 10 hrs ago

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    Once I told a guy I liked him he said cool now we are best friends but now instead of liking him I love him we sit and talk all day and I just don't know what to do but then I just...
    youfirgotaboutmebff youfirgotaboutmebff 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I have taken three classes with one professor. Initially, he was just a teacher to me. Gradually, he became so much more. He is funny, intelligent, and down to earth - as well as...
    queenvm queenvm 22-25, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I do wish that some people say they do but their actions reflect opposite I feel as if somedays I'm the most unloved person in the world and I wish I didn't I wish I could be like...
    nicenerd5107 nicenerd5107 13-15, M 15 hrs ago

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    Call me old fashioned, but I actually take relationships seriously and wholeheartedly.. IF I HAD ONE!
    Lunaaaa Lunaaaa 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I'm bisexual... and I really want to find a boy or girl who loves me for me, and would stay up with me all night... no I'm not looking for somebody on here. but if you stumble upon...
    OliKean OliKean 13-15, F 1 Response 59 mins ago

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    I have a personality problem, I spend a lot of time alone but not by choice. I don't seem to know how to build relationships with friends or family! I love interacting with others...
    ladymaverick ladymaverick 51-55, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Who doesn't? Though I've heard that besides the deaf, some people are physiologically unable to enjoy music. That really sucks. :(
    adorea adorea 70+, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I luv sucking off random guys,I have eaten loads from more than 80 diffent guys
    bioral62 bioral62 46-50, M 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I've always just wanted to start singing in front of people but ever since I was little I'm terrified that my friend will pop out and tell me I suck. She told me this whenever I...
    TayBearXoXo TayBearXoXo 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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