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I Suck At Love And Relationships

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    So it started out when I started liking this guy

    who was on my tennis team, and we went on a date, but I didn't realize it was a date at the time, I suck with those kinds of things anyways, so I really liked him & it turned out he liked me too & I kept waiting & waiting for him to ask me out & he never did & so about a year...
    Frenchfry3 Frenchfry3 16-17, F Aug 5

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    My Love Life In A Nutshell.

    I either meet a great guy... who lives at LEAST 500 miles away, or I meet a guy near me who treats me like I don't exist.  Well, I've really only been in two relationships where the guy lives near me and able to see me in person.  My first boyfriend was a lot better...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 26, 2010

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    I don't know what I should call my boyfriend.

    I don't want the simple 'baby' I want something nice. He calls me all sorts of cute names and I don't even have one for him 😳😁
    StoryOfMyLife1234 StoryOfMyLife1234 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Inablitly To Express.....

    I am nothing but a lover. I only want to love one person at a time...and I will do anything for the person I love. I will stay monogamous and loyal....but the problem that I have is that I am horrible at expressing my feelings. I can say I love you and I am very affectionate but...
    bootzy87 bootzy87 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    Jealousy, Immaturity And Insecurity

    Greetings!Just want to share. I currently have a boyfriend. We are at the same age and we go to the same college. We used to be enemies. But, somehow, it turned to love. It's just 4 months since we went steady. At first, I had this blind jealousy over him. Well, I thought it was...
    Sapphire13 Sapphire13 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2013

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    I Was Born And Destined To Be Single

    i used to think that one day that when i get older that i'll become this successful man who excels at any field of work and when it comes to the ladies that i would be this irresistable man who can get any woman he wants, but when reality kicked in i realised that this thought of...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M Jul 25, 2010

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    I really do considering I've never been I a

    relationship!!! . #iamlame
    lonleygurl23 lonleygurl23 13-15, F Jul 27

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    Well.... Yup lol, I am never one to be openly

    honest about my feelings. Normally I just stay quiet or get really hyper, but when it comes to feelings towards others, it sucks like monkey acorns. In relationships, I tend to lack the emotion. Those kind of things actually frustrate me, thus when I end up in a relationship it...
    TaintedSnowflakes TaintedSnowflakes 18-21, F Jan 25

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    My Life!

    I became a human after 16 , i mean at 16 i started to think about my self like who am i ,why am i,how to talk, behave etc..at just 16 i fell in love with someone bt she didn,t and this results in messes in school,suspended for week from schools and charged with fighting and gore...
    Summer80 Summer80 18-21, M Feb 9, 2013

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    Having trouble getting over her.

    It's all because of the way our situation ended -with her completely ignoring me . Last time I texted her all I wanted was to talk for some closure , and no response to any texts or calls . I know she used me , and that really stings , but really ?! That's the goodbye I get...
    Musicaddict02 Musicaddict02 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 7

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    I Just Don't Understand Why I Do The Things I Do.

    It seems no matter what I do, I always get dumped because of my stupid actions.  I don't mean like cheating, stealing or snooping.  It is more like what happen last night.  I went out with a friend of my for a few drinks, few drinks turn into a lot of drinks and...
    aprettymess aprettymess 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2010

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    Why Do I Suck!?!?!

    Why is it everytime i have feelings for someone, everytime i sart to fall in love with someone, it goes to **** in like five seconds flat. maybe i move too fast. No i already know i do. Which is why i suck. But i cant help it.I have gone my entire life not being loved. by...
    DavesDaughter DavesDaughter 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 15, 2010

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    It's Not So Bad!

      It's not so bad not to be in a serious relationship. I know I don't need to be "with" someone but I think it might be nice to find someone special. I've had my heart filled and elated. I replaced me with their world and again find myself. I'm not a stranger to love but I...
    kvitka kvitka 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2010

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    I don't understand relationships.

    .. After so many experiences of loved ones being hurt by their partners or wives knowing about their unfaithful husbands or boyfriends with multiple girls and millions of divorces... I mean what's the point?
    Amelia888 Amelia888 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    ok so recently I've been wanting to have a cute

    relationship,to have someone,someone I can lean on. I'm a girl but there's this girl in school who's a really good friend to me,(she's into girls) and I really like her,when I'm with her it makes me feel ok,like I've got my **** together,she hugs me and tells me it's alright...
    recoverybemine recoverybemine 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 18

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    I'm done with them I'm working to finish being

    the "dream" guy so I can deny everyone that wasn't there for me when I needed them. Rich intellectual fit sound body in a sound mind I've learned it's better to be alone people slow you down I don't mean to sound pessimistic more power and luck to those still searching I wish...
    R3493r R3493r 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 10

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    What Am I Returning To

    I fell in love with someone in high school. I felt it then, but didn't realize how deeply I felt it until much later in life. All I knew was that it scared me to feel that strongly about anyone else so early in life. I didn't want to be the girl that marries her high school...
    WW337 WW337 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    Apprently!

    I thought I was going to be married forever...all three times! I am working on it though, I don't think it was always them ;)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 7, 2011

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    To Choose One Person When I Have Two.

    i know i might sound weird but im sure there's someone out there facing the same thing i am now.seriously,im stuck between two guys.and their both awesome.im not talking awesome by physical appearances but yes they are good looking.that isnt the matter. i have been in a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 19, 2011

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    Five Years Wasted....

    I was in a relationship with this guy for over five years. We were really close we shared everything with each other so I thought... We took a mini break over the summer and then we got back together again recently ;however, I just found out this past week that the whole time he...
    aqua83 aqua83 26-30 Nov 5, 2012

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    I thought he Lyked me bt he dnt.

    .. Jys wntd 2 trick me lyk everibodi else do..
    laceyboo14 laceyboo14 18-21, F 20 hrs ago

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    Why do men not know what the term dating means

    anymore? Their version is asking a girl out on a so called date taking her to a bar and then trying to have sec with her. Why don't people want to take the time to get to know someone before they have sex with them?
    summergurl55 summergurl55 22-25, F May 5

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    How is it that every time I fall in love,

    she cheats? I often wonder if there is something wrong with me. Maybe my looks? Or perhaps I'm boring? I honestly do not know why. I just know that I have only ever been in one relationship where I was not cheated on.
    Jpb8773 Jpb8773 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 12

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    I feel like every time I begin to really like

    someone my nerves get the better of me and I over think things and screw things up before anything really starts :/
    screaxxx screaxxx 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Bein in love with a girl

    that all my friends hate.. I still fight everyone for her! She means everything to me and I normally don't give a **** what anyone would say about us.. Except the fact that we both have boyfriends! I would love to be with her and only her.. I would tell the world about her & how...
    Aboswell Aboswell 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    You See

    there was this guy me and him were dating for a year,we both knew him and i weren't honest with each other we both had other people on the side never really talked about it. i never wanted to be sure its one thing to think it and another to actually know, once he started talking...
    umiee umiee 16-17, F Jul 30, 2012

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    I've been with my boyfriend

    for 2months now and the other week i tossed him off however im crap at it and can't move my hand that fast so has anyone got any tips on handjobs?
    vickaaay22 vickaaay22 16-17, F May 21

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    And I Was Like Baby Baby Baby Oooooooooooo

    BABY BABY BABY NOOOOOOOOOOOO BABY BABY BABY OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I THOUGHT YOUD ALWAYS BE MINE, MINE
    GinoIsAFAG GinoIsAFAG 70+ Dec 15, 2012

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    Forever #2

    No one likes to settle for being someone's #2. No one likes to settle for being someone's sideline. No one likes to be lied to. No one likes to be used. No one likes to look like a dumbass, but it happens. It happens to everyone. some more than others. As for myself? I learn my...
    trickkytwin trickkytwin 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 22, 2013

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    Not Strong Enough

    They liked her as long as they didn't get too close. She seemed like everything they had ever wanted. Smart, funny, pretty...she had heard it all. And she stayed true to herself, having learned that when she tried to change for someone it had only ever made her unhappy. She...
    WW337 WW337 31-35, F Jun 8, 2013

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    I'M Afraid Of Being Alone

    I had my first and only boyfriend at 15. We stayed together for 6 years. I was positive he was the one for me. As time went on things became stagnant. The sex life sucked, I hated my body, and was bored with him. But even so I stayed because he was my other half. The love of my...
    Sickchick26 Sickchick26 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 25, 2013

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    Yup- Life Story

    I have tried many times at love and relationships in the past.. I look back now at my past and see a good track record of failed relationships. I chalk it up to being slightly ahead of my time and inexperienced in ilfe in general.Whats the old saying go... "Had I known back then...
    onceasailor onceasailor 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 10, 2011

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    Why Do They Feel So Slowly?

    I recently was jolted and dumped.He went away and for 2 months left me in the dark with a broken heart.     We rejoined a couple times since with no strings, no commitment. He's calling now crying to me.He needs me.Now?        I feel...
    kvitka kvitka 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    I have Aspergers syndrome

    and I don't know if that has anything to do with it, but any time I like a girl, I either don't say anything, or give it away and never let girls go though this "chase" that they oh so love. I always just tell them I really like then, because I do. But because of society, that...
    Phoenix259 Phoenix259 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    Hate To Admit The Truth

    At one time I tried to make it seem, at least in my mind, that it was always 'her' fault. As I matured, I had to admit I'm just not the kind of guy women want. I'm the kind of guy women SAY they want. It bothered me for many years until I came to accept it as a handicap. A guy on...
    KaleKing KaleKing 70+, M 2 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    **** women man. Guys suck too I guess

    but seriously chicks you should be ashamed -.-
    R3493r R3493r 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    The other day I found out the most perfect boy

    that I've dreamed of was only leading me on & had a gf for over a year . She asked did we have sex . We didn't . Her bf was only a taster .. Everything was too good to be true
    draby draby 18-21, F Dec 13, 2013

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    I feel so vulnerable.

    I felt so vulnerable. Is that all he wanted. Is that all he wants.
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Fuxk you all I played nice you all wanted an

    enemy you've got one. Step to me and I will go out of my way to fuxking crush you. Offered the world to two women and got stung by them they better steer clear because they've got a **** ton more to lose than I do. All I wanted was love. All you'll get is war.
    R3493r R3493r 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    Made The Same Mistake Again! Hate Myself For It.

    I met this guy I really liked recently. We only stated seeing each other (2 weeks) but I was really into him. I wanted him to be my boyfriend so much that I'm afraid that I scared him off. The problem is that I really like the guy i never have patience to take things slowly. From...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 8, 2013

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    Doomed

    I think its because after a while I stop seeing the person I'm with as a person and start seeing them as a thing that could hurt me. I think it all stems from this one relationship I was in a couple of years ago that was a real catastrophe. It was the first time I was truly in...
    explainit2me explainit2me 22-25, F Mar 11, 2011

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    So I've decided that I'm going to completely

    stay out of relationships and focus 25/8 on starting a band and creating/playing music until after High School.
    jesusofbatterycity jesusofbatterycity 13-15, M 1 Response May 26

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    To Be Honest...

    i try my best to be sweet, i try to make things perfect for both of us. trying to be motivated with this relationship, i try my best to make him happy. and try to show him how much i love him. i love him sooo much but what gotten so suckish is that we both lie to each other which...
    Babeekrishelle Babeekrishelle 18-21, F Jun 25, 2012

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    Advice Needed Very Much!

    I met a guy. I thought he was so cool and great. He told me he had a place but we could chill at his mom's crib while she was out of town. When she came back in town I found out he did not have a place but crashed on people's couches. It is not hardcore homeless, but he was also...
    lilyholic lilyholic 26-30 Jun 8, 2013

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    Why?

    It's official my crush is teasing me ! Question is why do I still like him ?
    triciaa1 triciaa1 16-17, F Nov 10, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Basically all the relationships I've ever had started online and a few were completely virtual, but that never diminished the intensity of my feelings. The very first relationship...
    princeofglow princeofglow 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    When my wife and I first met, we were both in loveless relationships. A simple handshake in late 2005 took us down a complicated road of friendship, love, loss, love again...
    overtherainbow47 overtherainbow47 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go...
    TitaniumSkyScraper TitaniumSkyScraper 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    And that is why I am not the best woman I could be.There is someone always younger,more attractive,more intelligent,more stable than you. Does love even exist?Love is selfless...
    UrANUS101 UrANUS101 18-21, F Aug 28

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between...
    tessacc11 tessacc11 22-25, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    Video games are one of my favorite things to do in my free time and I love all genres, even the retro ones like pong. I have a self imposed rule to play every game at least once...
    SleepyGamer SleepyGamer 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    Maybe I'm the weirdest person here... Anyway, I admit that I liked SL at least. He was a teacher. Actually there was nothing btw us. Just some moments were very sweet and nice, I...
    feelthu feelthu 13-15, F Sep 12

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