I Survived Heartbreak

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    Some people are scared to end relationships

    because they think 'but i've spent so much time with that person, and now everyday that passes, i won't know how he is, or what's going on with him. I have those pictures, those memories, what do i do with them?" It's out of this fear that you don't end things, and you let...
    piscean1234 piscean1234
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 18, 2015

    If I Got Over Her, You Can Too

    So around December, my best friend of 2 years, who i had loved for the most part of those 2 years, finally told me that she felt the same way. After she told me that, I was over the moon, nothing could bring me down. In the 2 years that we were best friends, I had always had to...
    ausproject123 ausproject123
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Aug 6, 2012

    recently my ex came to the place I work with

    her new "boyfriend" and her "kids". she complained about the food and want it replaced. Stay the **** away from where I work *****. go **** yourself and get the **** out of this town
    jagart01 jagart01
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 3, 2014

    It has been the worst pain I have ever felt.

    I am no where near the milestone of having "survived", but I am surviving day by day. Even though it has only been about four days since our initial split, I have been going absolutely insane and cannot stop myself from thinking about him every waking second. I am only 18, so...
    hazelruby13 hazelruby13
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    I thought I was in love with my first serious

    boyfriend (15). <3 Until I found out he was just using me while dating some other chick. But I'm over it now and once and I while we even see each other.
    Jessica4770 Jessica4770
    18-21, T
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2015

    The Sheep That Turned Into A Lioness.

    Ladies, to all of you out there living in (verbal, physical, economic) abusive relationships, please, hear me: God gave us freedom, it is the most precious jewel of all jewels, no one has the authority to take from you what God granted you with. Find the courage in your hearts...
    6 Responses Jul 1, 2013

    Here it is, to start off,

    i am not a very trusting, loving person. Deep down i am, but because of my past and the way i grew up, it really screwed me up in the long run. My childhood didn't consist of playing with toys and getting hurt riding a bicycle. My childhood consisted of getting beat by my father...
    fucklove123 fucklove123
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2015

    More then once. All relationships will end in

    heartbreak even if they last 60 years. Nothing is forever. I have been through three broken hearts. It doesn't quite effect me like it once did. I am 42 and know that it ends. Don't get me wrong. I still grieve and get sad, but it doesn't last as long and go as deep...
    rosedl rosedl
    41-45, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2013


    I am writing this story to let you know that there still are some men out there that have much pain even after they find out their girlfriend was cheating on them. I will give you a little of my story so that way one reading this will know why I am the way I am. I just lost my...
    1 Response Jan 20, 2013

    You Can Move On After Heartbreak

    What s it about so many relationships that eventually end up in Heartbreak. I think most of us have been through this in our lifetimes, some more than others. As someone who has suffered through this calamity, more than once, I can honestly say it can be the most miserable...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Nov 28, 2011

    It's Not The End Of The World...

    They cheated, lied... tore my heart apart then turned and blamed me for the break-ups.  Many sleepless nights.  Days of lonelyness and dispair.. I was crushed by Love.  Left with a wounded heart and a  broken spirit... I didn't feel like talking to anyone or going anywhere...
    myserendipity myserendipity
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2012
    sunnyagain sunnyagain
    36-40, F
    6 Responses May 21, 2014

    Sophomore year, my boyfriend of 6 months cheats

    on me, with 3 other girls. Sad to say, I handled it like a baby. I cried, fell into a depression, started living an unhealthy lifestyle. It took me about a month to realize I needed to start fresh. I cut him out of my life, started eating healthier, started Yoga and Pilates...
    tessagj14 tessagj14
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2015

    Many young women today are a bit tired of the

    usual relationships that they have with men of their age. This is why it is no surprise nowadays that we see a lot of Younger Women Older Men Dating . Are you a man looking for a younger woman, or a woman seeking an older man? Everyone has their preferences in relationships...
    celinecc11 celinecc11
    26-30, F
    Feb 2, 2015

    I was only 13 when HE should upand

    now im 19 and HES gone 4ever
    joonashotty joonashotty
    16-17, F
    Feb 16, 2014

    It hurt, yeah. Probably the deepest pain you

    will ever feel is losing your first love. Except I didn't just lose him, he lost himself. It was sad to see someone you were once to in love with completely change out of the blue. I tried talking to him about it but he wanted nothing to do with me, and that hurt. I could see...
    LorenFlower LorenFlower
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 29, 2015

    It was with my BF Dominic we lasted half a year

    how we broke up was a stupid jealousy, Dominic got mad over me going to a movie with a guy friend, but he sooner found out when my friend told him, I was alone at my house at the time then he came there and said " I heard you went to the movies with your friend" I told him the...
    NathanNathanial NathanNathanial
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Jan 1, 2014

    The Man I Thought I'd Marry Left Me

    When I was 20 years old, I moved overseas for a study abroad program. I was not at all looking for a relationship, but on my second day there, I met a guy from another country, also living there. We fell in love extremely fast and I ended up moving there more permanently. It...
    laviebelle laviebelle
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2013

    So Mr thought me to be mentally ill; yeah I was

    the time I said yes to his proposal the time I left my ex for him.If I felt low enough and that too because of this bastard telling me he would socialise my private pic and made cuts on my arm what's so wrong ?any girl could get impulsive in such sensitive situation ;wasn't...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 12, 2014

    My Story...

    Yes even the great Silver01ta can get his heart broken. I dont know where to begin... but I know how it ended. She packed up, moved out, and told me its over via a text message two weeks later. Why? I think she was scared of ending up like her parents. I didnt help the...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Jun 11, 2011

    Have Respect For Yourself To Walk Away....

    So I'm only 23 and can honestly say i've been in love THREE times....yes three. Im a Libra, so you know when we love we love HARD. I was that naive person who believed no one could do wrong. I believed in the idea of real love with all my heart. After the second time I told...
    RealHeart27 RealHeart27
    3 Responses Sep 30, 2012

    Breakup deal breaker validation To move on

    from a broken relationship, you need to provide yourself a reason that was truly validated by you why you cannot go back to that person anymore. For me, I had finally validated mine. He's a deal breaker in everything love should have given me - love, trust, care, concern, peace...
    sunnyagain sunnyagain
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jan 5, 2014

    Never Lose Hope....

    i was with a guy since i was 15 ...he was my puppy love ,my first crush ,my first love....we were together for 9 years and we were supposed to get married in summer he was very kind,loving and extermly passionate about us always talking and planning about our future ... our...
    3 Responses Feb 2, 2013

    Just over 4 years ago I met the love of my life.

    Our relationship was perfect - it had its ups and its downs, but to me, it was perfect. We spent four amazing years together. We had so, so much fun together. I was proud of everything about him, proud to walk down the street with him, proud to introduce him to my friends and...
    Mayski Mayski
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2014

    Where To Begin.....have I Really Suvived Yet?

    It's been 4 weeks since my wife and I separated. I have been living on my own in our family home for the whole time, while she’s been living with her brother. I know this website is about sharing stories of Surviving Heartbreaks, and I know I haven't survived it by...
    theslims theslims
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Feb 21, 2010

    Have Respect For Yourself To Walk Away....

    So I'm only 23 and can honestly say i've been in love THREE times....yes three. Im a Libra, so you know when we love we love HARD. I was that naive person who believed no one could do wrong. I believed in the idea of real love with all my heart. After the second time I told...
    RealHeart27 RealHeart27
    4 Responses Sep 30, 2012


    About 2 months ago me and my long term boyfriend broke up. I know it was for the best (he didn't treat me very well) But as many of you probably know, it's not easy to just get over someone, no matter what the circumstances. I haven't seen him since we split but tonight I am...
    Arlandria23 Arlandria23
    18-21, F
    Jun 16, 2012

    I'd like to share my story.

    I'm 24, he's 19. I'm already working, he's still a student. I'm a Muslim, he's Catholic. It was very wrong from the very beginning yet I still pushed through it. I have a learned a few years ago from his cousin, who was my friend, that he really liked me. I didn't give much...
    Jojane Jojane
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 16, 2015

    It might not sound like Heartbreak,

    but I assure you it is. I've known my best friend for 16 years now, and I've fallen for his soon to be ex wife. Ever since I met her, I've had feelings for her, we get along great, laugh at the same jokes, are interested in the same things, she's gorgeous, intelligent, has a...
    Bradok Bradok
    31-35, M
    3 Responses May 21, 2014

    Feel free to read guys.

    . However a little long winded, Haha this title is a bit over the top however fits the bill I guess... My first love is on the left next to me, excuse me for looking young this was over a year ago.. I met this girl, her name is Lizzi who I met at my old workplace and we got along...
    lewismoore7 lewismoore7
    22-25, M
    Feb 1, 2015

    Religion And Running Had Made Me Stronger Through The Breakup Healing Process

    It's almost two months plus after my breakup. Some days I will feel better but some other days I will feel bad. It's really a rollercoaster ride for me going through the healing process. I realised I had the trend to feel bad and down especially on days where I am most free. Eg...
    sunnyagain sunnyagain
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Sep 28, 2013

    by day i long to write,

    by night my fingers ache for one small moment of inspiration. i've lost the flow of words? or has it never been there? i've realized it is only when my heart breaks that i do write but my heart is broken now and i do not. is it really though? can a heart be broken ? or is it...
    UnusualAngel UnusualAngel
    22-25, F
    Feb 2, 2014

    Hell And Back

    Went through a personal journey of Hell which has finally ended. Took me so long to fit the parts of my life back together. It was like a puzzle where none of the bits would fit. Then I began to breath again and find my own pace. Im starting to really love life again. How...
    UkToday UkToday
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jan 24, 2013

    Path Of A Broken Heart

    ::Hans Zimmer - Time:: ::This story with this music will make you tear up inside, but hopefully it will rebuild you. Music has a way of getting to us than any other media can. With Time, I want you to know that you are going through a tough time and I understand. But you are not...
    LysanderFremont LysanderFremont
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jan 10, 2013

    I don’t know what can I really say about my

    stupid love story.. I feel like I’m the most stupid girl in the world… My ex-boyfriend broke up with me three years ago. I can’t describe all the sadness and grief I felt at that time, when I was only 13. Yes I was a little girl but I loved him sincerely very much! I was...
    Ranonym Ranonym
    18-21, F
    Feb 27, 2016

    I Did It! So Can You...

    I was looking for stories similar to mine and couldn't find any so I figured I'd share for the next person that has to go through what I went through and needs hope. What an emotional roller coaster this has been. Almost three years ago I met the perfect man, he was great...
    gblah gblah
    4 Responses Mar 13, 2013

    im tired of that feeling

    that s enough
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 28, 2015


    İ know whats the worst thing ever...... When you love a person and you think about him all along. And the day comes you found out that he didnt think of you even one second. That i think is the worst thing. Well just know that everything happens for a reason. And if that guy...
    FaceYourFears FaceYourFears
    13-15, F
    6 Responses Jan 9, 2013

    Dont no if to call it survived .

    All most 1 year from my frist love left me wtih eny answer from her it woz online dont think eny of us excspet what woz gonna happing . We meet on a game not a date site we start of friends talk talk a lot iam scotish she woz usa . She loved scotland . We spoke loads . Then...
    marcuscent marcuscent
    26-30, M
    1 Response Dec 15, 2015

    How Can I Forget My First Love?

    It started three years ago. He was funny, he was sweet, he was handsome, and he was smart. It wasn't very long before I fell in love with him . We were young and free and in love and we were the happiest people in the world. We did EVERYTHING together. He was the only person that...
    katybee123 katybee123
    22-25, F
    15 Responses Jul 5, 2011

    Still Bleeding

    Every time I hear certain songs, every time I see certain shows, books...you name it.  Any time I notice any of those things we had in common I hurt a bit...or a lot...Even though I had to do it, my heart shattered when I broke up with him.  I broke us both to give us both a...
    Plaid Plaid
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 12, 2011

    The more I try to improve the person I am,

    the more pain I feel when I am treated disrespectfully by those I love. How can I feel that I have value when others treat me as though I have no value to them what so ever.
    casunshine casunshine
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Mar 24, 2015

    so I just had a birthday pass

    and I guess I drank too much I completely blacked out don't remember what happened.but I was supposed to get my bf when he got off work ..I didn't and he woke up hating me because apparently I texted him a whole bunch of messed up stuff. like I don't even remember and I don't...
    Gmode25 Gmode25
    22-25, F
    Feb 23, 2014

    I want to find the perfect guy.

    However to find the perfect guy I needed to experience the guy who I thought way "the perfect guy" but turn out to be an a**hole I met this guy (for the sake of this story I'll call him Adam). The second I saw him I knew it wasn't going to end well-for me. After a few weeks of...
    aliceS96 aliceS96
    18-21, F
    Mar 29, 2014

    Coping. Well, trying to.

    It's been 4 months since the breakup. After 1 ½ years of what-I-wrongly-believed-was-bliss and him calling my mother ‘mom,’ my then bf (a.k.a narcissistic nomad) decided to call it quits for reasons unknown (though I have a pretty good idea why he did &ndash...
    islegal islegal
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Oct 18, 2009

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    sunnyagain sunnyagain
    36-40, F
    Feb 3, 2014

    We met in uni, separated

    when we returned to our different countries but i held on to the hope of getting back together for 2 years... until he announced he had a girlfriend. What's worse in this case, losing a lover or losing a friend?
    LetRainFall LetRainFall
    26-30, F
    Feb 5, 2014

    Divorced At 23? Really?

    I was fifteen-years-old when I met the man I was going to marry. Did I know it at the time? No, of course not. But as the years passed by, and our relationship grew; marriage was more and more a part of our future. We had survived so many things, it seemed like we were destined...
    e0771773 e0771773
    15 Responses Jan 4, 2011

    I know my ex boy friend from Social media

    since 2009. He is from Sri Lanka n I'm from Malaysia. We were became friends in Social media friends n used to chat once in a while. And than i started my thesis and dance so i was a pretty busy woman no time for chat. I was a happy go lucky girl with bunch of friends. I used...
    Solitaria87 Solitaria87
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    "When I can be me, and paint

    and do other things like I used to, my self esteem will return. When that happens, I might feel strong enough and good enough to start a meaningful relationship again." Ok, so when I was with my ex partner, thankfully he was a deeply intelligent man, and he taught me many many...
    1 Response Apr 21, 2014

    I found this Job!!! It was all I worked

    for for 13 years!!! Under Sheriff for Hughes County Oklahoma, Holdenville OK. I fell in Love with Denise Fullerton, who works for Trish Smith, DA. We were engaged. She told me she loved me every day. She got a Job with the D.A. One day we had a fight. I asked her if it was...
    ozzyblaine ozzyblaine
    46-50, M
    Jun 12, 2014
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