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    I am a transgender man living as a woman full time. It has always been a dream of mine to be married in a wedding gown one day.  I have the man already and he has asked me to be his wife.  A legal wedding is impossible for us but I would be happy if we exchanged vows like any...
    PinksWoman PinksWoman 61-65, T 9 Responses Jan 24, 2013

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    More to the point, I don't think people should police others based on their genitalia. In some areas of my life, I am quite feminine. I also have a few "masculine" characteristics...
    notthis78 notthis78 36-40, F Feb 10

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    I have always thought that I was female because that has been the way that I was born. As a kid, I was manipulated (the best word I can think of right now) to like girly things by...
    Blackbutterflies99 Blackbutterflies99 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm going to resolve all issues with gender. I'm going to put the government and all established systems revolving around gender on their ears. I'm going to make all society...
    Sweetphoenix35 Sweetphoenix35 31-35, F Feb 13

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    I'm really not sure about anything that has to do with my gender rn, I feel differently everyday, but then other days I feel like nothing gender wise at all. Genderfluid? Nonbinary...
    erin7300 erin7300 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    i'm biologically female but i don't really identify with any gender to be honest. when i think of myself, i'm essentially genderless in my mind and i don't feel female most times...
    tremere tremere 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    I freakin hate when people say "your a girl, you should do this.." Or " Girls aren't suppose to do..." I hate it. Stop putting stuff in gender area. There are no rules for what a...
    Shal2 Shal2 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I hardely trust myself to talk about this because I am afraid that people will think I'm just a special snowflake but this is pretty real for me. I am genderfluid. Most of the time...
    LunaSanguine LunaSanguine 18-21, F Feb 18

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    Men are not always stronger Women are not always better mother figures Statistics are only part of a whole picture Just because 90% of people fit them doesn't mean the other 10...
    winglessdove winglessdove 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I am gender non-conforming. GNC means I am male and I have the male body, but I am not masculine at all. I wear dresses, I wear make-up, I act feminine. I identify as gender fluid...
    QueerCobweb QueerCobweb 13-15, F a week ago

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    as I read so many other stories I become more and more confused about how I feel inside about my gender. I am male by birth, but I don't feel entirely male. of course I don't feel...
    Freja14 Freja14 31-35, T 3 Responses a week ago

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    I will never understand why gender stereotypes still exist. I hate having people tell me that a girl needs to look and act a certain way. And I'm sure that men as well hate the...
    glomilk glomilk 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 12

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    So I am not out to most people I know, including my mother whom I will probably never come out to, but I would like to share a little story About how one of my friends accidentally...
    HeatherTKS HeatherTKS 13-15, F Feb 17

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    I guess I'll start with, I'm gender fluid. I'm more female than male most days, but I roll back and forth depending on the situation. I get a lot of flack from the ppl in my life...
    CDragontamer CDragontamer 31-35, T 4 Responses Feb 19

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    I came out to my best friend yesterday as gender fluid and have yet to tell my parents but I don't know how they'll react.
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I JUST FOUND OUT IM GETTING NEW SHRINK AN IN MY FILES IT SAYS I HAVE GENDER IDENTITY ISSUES/DISORDER GUESS IT KINDA MAKES SENSE SINCE A FEW YEARS BACK I TRYED TO CUT MY **** OF...
    SweetGazePup SweetGazePup 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    I JUST FOUND OUT IM GETTING NEW SHRINK AN IN MY FILES IT SAYS I HAVE GENDER IDENTITY ISSUES/DISORDER GUESS IT KINDA MAKES SENSE SINCE A FEW YEARS BACK I TRYED TO CUT MY **** OF...
    SweetGazePup SweetGazePup 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 23

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    I am a biological female. Ever since I was young, I can remember feeling different sorts of body dysphoria. Kind of like I am not entirely female. Like I am equal parts male and...
    Bigweenie24 Bigweenie24 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    The only problem is, if I have a gay boyfriend, and then I get a gender change... What happens then?
    metallic28 metallic28 16-17, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Looking to swap pics of wife and i
    dukendaclub dukendaclub 36-40, M Feb 4

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    As a transgendered boy I so desperately wanted to be a flower girl and never had that joy due to being born at the wrong time and to the wrong parents. Attached is my dream dress.
    CatholicTess CatholicTess 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I am going to accept that I am to homemaker now as my wife is the sole breadwinner in our marriage. That fact is now being solidified by the fact that I am also transgendered and...
    Christinya Christinya 31-35, T Feb 7

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    I am 33 years old now and have been married 17 years. I know probably most are against arranged marriages but all I can say is that for me it has been wonderful.
    akaLauraWhitmer akaLauraWhitmer 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 19

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    Though I am not married, I know the kind of relationship I want. I want to be my husband's supportive partner, I do not want to guide his decision making. I think, for me, part of...
    liliuminterspinas liliuminterspinas 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I hate when guys think all girls are the same. Like when they think all girls are heartbreakers, or *******, or that all girls are crazy. I hate that because I'm none of those...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    I am a sixteen year old transgender (Female to male). I'm only out to a few online friends that I have known for a couple years, one friend in real life, and my mom. I live with...
    lag7502 lag7502 16-17, T 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Hi boys and girls and those who are neither. :) I've been reading through some of the posts on here, which I haven't done in awhile. I see so many of you pouring your hearts and...
    Jennifer337 Jennifer337 31-35, T 6 Responses Feb 11

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    I am trying togrow breasts I think guy with breasts look so good I want big breasts
    unbuckle21 unbuckle21 61-65 1 Response Feb 13

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    yeah i really think it decribes me perfectly!!! all pronouns are fine with me though i like they/them a lot
    sutsuki sutsuki 16-17 Feb 14

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    I like painting my toe nails I wish to grow breasts size c or bigger I wish to be friends with transgender peolpe
    unbuckle21 unbuckle21 61-65 Feb 15

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    Always have been honestly. even when I was a child, i liked to dress as androgynous as possible, and play both with the boys and girls in my daycare center even tho thats usually...
    Alyss22 Alyss22 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    I recently came out to my boyfriend and he seemed ok. I was still really scared when I told him I couldn't buy clothes from the men section because we have family coming out soon...
    daisy124 daisy124 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I've come across this question multiple times throughout my life. Never in a serious manner though, only wanting to see what it would be like in the shoes of a man for a day or so...
    Altairswifi Altairswifi 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Trying to explain these things to ppl can be exhausting. I'm open about who I am, I'm not ashamed because there is nothing to be ashamed of. I've had feelings for ppl of all walks...
    CDragontamer CDragontamer 31-35, T 2 Responses Feb 18

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    Everyone used to tell me "you ms to gain muscle, get big". Really is it so wrong to want to be slender sexy verses big and handsome?
    CDragontamer CDragontamer 31-35, T 1 Response Feb 18

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    I am a bit lonely and could use a good female friend. I am married and it's fine. But I still feel lonely. Like a football widow I am a horse widow. All her spare moments involve...
    twojay twojay 61-65, M 1 Response Feb 18

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    ish...? I'm not sure, but sometimes I'm a girl, and sometimes I'm not and I don't exactly know :/
    winception winception 13-15, T Feb 19

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    I have a friend who always makes me smile.. that person who lifted my head, when I was losing faith in myself.. he cares too much for me I'd say.. it was easy sharing my thoughts...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    I really hate being stuck in the situation I've managed to get myself into. I thought I'd found a label that fit me, and now it doesn't feel quite right again. I'd say "screw...
    beingbrye beingbrye 22-25, T Feb 22

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    I love my best friend so much. She just asked me what my pronouns are(them/they). I'm happy she accepts me and at least tries to understand me :3
    AJayL AJayL 13-15, T Feb 22

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    I want my friend to be happy. He just came out to everyone as transgender. His blood family disowned him. I know money is tight for people but he really wants to get breast surgery...
    GoldenUniverse GoldenUniverse 18-21, F a week ago

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    The past couple of weeks have been a ride and I want to ramble a bit. I went from many days of feeling great to this weekend feeling awful. It's amazing how the walls just close in...