Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Swapping Of Gender Roles In Weddings

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 143 People

    Someday

    I am a transgender man living as a woman full time. It has always been a dream of mine to be married in a wedding gown one day.  I have the man already and he has asked me to be his wife.  A legal wedding is impossible for us but I would be happy if we exchanged vows like any...
    PinksWoman PinksWoman 61-65, T 8 Responses Jan 24, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    My stepdaughter is 13 years old now and she knows and understands that I am leading the house and my wife is responsible for the household and kids. She adores her mom and is very...
    husbandanddad husbandanddad 36-40, M 13 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Want to help make an LGBT project? In Southern California? Want to make videos or play games/sports/physical activities? Got 2 free groups on FB (can be on other sites w/ groups...
    supergirl805 supergirl805 22-25, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    so it would be nice to say, hey I know who I am. I'm confident abt me, everyone knows me for this . . . . in reality, I shy, don't know how to express myself without it feeling...
    janeinchains janeinchains 31-35, M 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Men have feelings too, and I know that men know that too. And what the fuq is a man card anyways? I grew up using a card called the REAL MAN CARD, there's a difference. And plus...
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000 13-15, M 1 Response 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have officially decided to transition I am a MTF and was wondering if there is anyone willing to chat with me to get to know some people as friends
    chelsea2610 chelsea2610 18-21, T 3 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm pansexual btw...and I support my transgender and genderqueer "cousins"! LOVE Y'ALL! Stay strong lovelies! It only gets better once you accept who you are. :D
    eharber97 eharber97 18-21, M 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i wanna talk to a transgender only ones who are 17-18 😋im a guy an 17
    cvvxo cvvxo 18-21, M 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just got blocked for being honest and pointing out real sexism.
    sievert sievert 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Queerness is certain. But I don't know at what level. This question has been taking over my mind for the last few weeks and I just need an answer. A while ago, I posted something...
    shawking shawking 13-15, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was born female but I feel like a male. I don't like being called "she" or with my female birth name. I don't like being considered as feminine. I don't like dress feminine. I...
    darklotus01 darklotus01 13-15, T 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Her - I wonder what our second date will be like, or when we get married, and how many kids we'll have.Him - Wow, this is really good ice cream.Is this really what they are...
    MaddietheGoalie MaddietheGoalie 13-15, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i was here a while ago. i'm 15, boy, and still unable to talk to my mom about my possible trans-gender/sexuality. i told some of my close friends they were accepting(thank god...
    jennie323 jennie323 13-15, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i really want to talk to a transgender person, message me
    Saints521 Saints521 18-21, M 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I dunno, I was born male and now all of a sudden I get this feeling I'd be happier if i were to become a girl :/ I still have a ton of things to figure out first... I really need...
    Kurlzz3Tears Kurlzz3Tears 16-17, M 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
     i have been stuggling with gender identity for a while. I wanted to be a boy, then i wanted to be a girl. I LOVE wearing guy clothes and going by guy pronouns and a guy name...
    cigarettedaydreams0523 cigarettedaydreams0523 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    OK here is another stereotype i hate if a girl is in her 20's younger or older and says she's a virgin people are like all right good for you if a guy is people are like seriously...
    PurpleMonkey34 PurpleMonkey34 22-25, M Feb 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Please do not be offended, but the "transgender thing?" People are not wrong for their different personalities, but society is wrong for putting pressing on and stereotyping the...
    Mickey899 Mickey899 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a question for you all. have any of you experience, not really a change in personality, but an ability to show your true personality when you transitioned? it may seem to...
    Volner Volner 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I love being male and female. Starting to realize their are so many rights and wrongs about life because of it. Our thoughts on relationships needs to be rewritten. But that's for...
    lovemichelle71 lovemichelle71 41-45, T Feb 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I tend to change genders a LOT and my appearance and voice could go either way, so no one really knows if I'm a boy or a girl haha.
    BennettStark BennettStark 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Just saw the Danish Girl yesterday, and although it had a tremendous emotional impact and was very psychological in some aspects, i feel like there was some awkwardness. And i mean...
    Noodlepudding666 Noodlepudding666 16-17, F Jan 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Dysphoria. When I am a girl i like my hair long (how it is) When i am a boy i only want it short When i am in between/neither it doesn't usually matter I am tired of always...
    skinnylove14 skinnylove14 18-21, T 3 Responses Jan 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    so today I realise I am 35 male, could be straight/gay/ bi/ wanna be cross dresser. who loves heels, women's clothes painting my nails and generally exploring what it is too be an...
    janeinchains janeinchains 31-35, M 6 Responses Jan 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    a am 100% female. for those of you who don't exactly know what gender fluidity is and may think it's something else but sometimes I feel more masculine and sometimes I feel more...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 12 Responses Jan 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's was a long battle to a) figure out who I am, and b) figure out what to do. I never understood the stigmas behind gender roles, I always wanted to dress in a "girly" manner...
    helsingrise helsingrise 18-21, T 3 Responses Jan 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have recently been torn between looking at very attractive women and wanting to be with them, love the way they look very hot and wanting to look the same way myself!!! ahhhh...
    janeinchains janeinchains 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate how men are told to not complain or man up when their girlfriend/wife does stuff that upsets them, and how sexist women call them abusers if they complain... smh
    ThrBlueDragonISuckYourCock ThrBlueDragonISuckYourCock 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It just depends on who's being the man! Cinnamon Roles! Not Gender Roles! http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/12/magazine/whats-so-bad-about-a-boy-who-wants-to-wear-a-dress.html?_r=3...
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire 61-65, T Jan 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is a NY Times article that I found a very good read. It's the closest dissertation that I have ever found that treats gender as non binary. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/12...
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire 61-65, T 1 Response Jan 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know what I exactly am. Sometimes I feel like a man and I behave like one. I'm not like a woman. And I hate it mostly to wear female clothes... they feel weird. I like wide...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    maybe not mine, exactly, but i'm always confused about gender in general: i'm glad i was assigned as i was, but it's more of a matter of thinking it's the best fit. i often...
    astrifer astrifer 22-25, F Jan 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just came out as trans. Would like to talk about it with someone
    tyguy21 tyguy21 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi, my name is Peyton. I 've struggled my whole life with my gender and sexuality. Recently, I have realized that, even since a young age, I have always been attracted to anyone...
    SimpleSiezures SimpleSiezures 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i am a guy basically but i kinda wish i was more female but still me like if i had breasts and curves but can still have my full facial hair if I want and also still be male down...
    PurpleMonkey34 PurpleMonkey34 22-25, M Jan 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i hate gender stereotypes because in society if a girl acts like a girl and a boy acts like a boy everybody is fine with that but when a girl acts more like a guy they say why can...
    PurpleMonkey34 PurpleMonkey34 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a 1 year old son. Everything I do is wrong to family, I can't get him cute snow boots because they are in the girl section. They were black, and the only reason the Dads...
    TellyLuv TellyLuv 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Mostly male exploring my female remaining 100% heterosexual.
    Straightcdingmale Straightcdingmale 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have no clue what's going on here. I don't feel comfortable when being called 'female' but I also don't feel comfortable being called 'male'. Lately, on the internet, I've been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I thought I was genderfluid but something is still so unsettling. I feel like I'm not right...something not right. I always believed I was a boy or that I was born in the wrong...
    ryuichibecca ryuichibecca