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    I am a transgender man living as a woman full time. It has always been a dream of mine to be married in a wedding gown one day.  I have the man already and he has asked me to be his wife.  A legal wedding is impossible for us but I would be happy if we exchanged vows like any...
    PinksWoman PinksWoman 61-65, T 8 Responses Jan 24, 2013

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    I always hated when people would say you can't have a best friend of the opposite gender because it always ends in a bad relationship. I was lucky enough to have met my best friend...
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