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    I am a transgender man living as a woman full time. It has always been a dream of mine to be married in a wedding gown one day.  I have the man already and he has asked me to be his wife.  A legal wedding is impossible for us but I would be happy if we exchanged vows like any...
    PinksWoman PinksWoman 61-65, T 9 Responses Jan 24, 2013

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    For me that is what works. As to anyone else I say just figure out what works for you and go with it.
    TKD1 TKD1 46-50, F Jan 19

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    I cry at the thought of weddings because it's just so beautiful :') Can't watch wedding movies or videos without tearing up :') Can't wait for my own :3
    StarsxSunsets StarsxSunsets 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    My niece is getting married and gosh weddings sure have changed over the years. There is a lot to be said for elopement .
    Dancemomisme1 Dancemomisme1 46-50, F 8 Responses Jan 18

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    Every time it comes to a sexual EP user, they ask me what gender I am. Isn't that very rude if I kept my gender undecided for a reason??? Why is that always the first question? You...
    ResidentGoddessAstraea ResidentGoddessAstraea 18-21 3 Responses Jan 1

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    I love stereotypical feminine things. I don't really feel 100% comfortable wearing a frilly dress, but I still love them anyway. I love magical girls and frills and fuzzy animals...
    magicalenby magicalenby 16-17, T Jan 6

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    My genderfluidity is not very simple, to be quite honest. I identify as female, but my gender expression and desired titles can vary quite a bit. For example, I prefer to be...
    Moomooing Moomooing 18-21, F Jan 11

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    After gender counselling I've identified as bi gender and looking meet meet other bi-gendered people
    DrewB1974 DrewB1974 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 12

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    Yes, I of course currently manifest through a specifically sexed body. But when the realisation finally dawned that I am not the body and that I am in fact pure consciousness (a...
    Ashanti Ashanti 51-55, T Jan 17

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    Hi, so I was born in a female body, but throughout my life I've never especially thought of myself as a girl. I've grown used to the idea of being a girl because that's what I've...
    ThunderMuffin ThunderMuffin 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I was born female but was a tom boy when I was younger and it was honestly the only time in my life that felt correct. I am older now and have been living the female life having...
    sabbrinalindara sabbrinalindara 18-21, F Jan 3

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    hi everyone. i'm a 22 years old cisgender female. first of all, i apologyze for my english. lately i've been questioning my gender a lot. When i was a child (actually until I was14...
    finnien finnien 22-25, T 1 Response Jan 6

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    Hey all, My name is Chris, I am a 23 year old biological male who just recently began questioning my own gender identity! Hurray me! This whole experience has turned me whole...
    ReassessingSelf23 ReassessingSelf23 22-25, M Jan 8

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    After years of confusion I decided to have gender counselling. I was always torn between am I transgendered, fem boy or a transvestite. Well I'm third gender. My male name is Drew...
    DrewB1974 DrewB1974 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 13

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    Haiii I am GenderFluid. Born female I just don't like acting like it. Most of the time I dress and feel male. I even *cough* get off like a male and as a male. I'm more attracted...
    Briikachu22 Briikachu22 22-25, F Jan 19

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    I guess I've finally come to the realization. I'm in a female body. But who defines when a mind is female or male? There are some people who have a sense of what their mind makes...
    Gab1331 Gab1331 16-17 1 Response Jan 1

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    Meant for students to focus on their studies properly where there isn't distraction from other gender within the school(except teachers). But I have a boyfriend, so yea. I'm still...
    iTetra iTetra 13-15, F Jan 6

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    I was born female but never fit in so I tried to be a guy I didn't fit in there either now I can act either but I'm not labeld as one or the other but I am still scared to come out...
    sadnesskillsme sadnesskillsme 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 6

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    And are not in all honesty I believe love is love no matter what it doesn't know gender race age or even how many I know this to be true for myself at least me and my girlfriend...
    Lookingupalways Lookingupalways 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I am male. I have feminine features and people often mistake me for a girl. Sometimes (about half the time) I wear my hair long and I wear nail polish. Sometimes I wear simple...
    namelessentity namelessentity 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 6

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    hi everyone. i'm really confused about my gender. lately i started identify as demisexual, but i'm not to sure.. i need somebody to talk to.. can you help me? (sorry for my english...
    finnien finnien 22-25, T 2 Responses Jan 7

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    hi guys. i need somebody to talk to. i'm having a lot of doubt about my gender and i don't know what to do.
    finnien finnien 22-25, T 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I don't believe in gender, just like I don't believe in ghosts or goblins, and I don't get why after thousands of years of civilization and intellectual growth, humankind is still...
    astrophobia astrophobia 26-30 Jan 9

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    This is an interesting topic. "I don't believe in the other gender." My girlfriend is a figment of my imagination and her lady parts are lies...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    In My Limited Experience i have had the good fortune to be in relationships of varying types with people of different ages and races. while i think the word 'love' is used fairly...
    wasirishblue wasirishblue 18-21, M Jan 17

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    i wish that transgender was just treated like another gender, just like male and female. i wish that it was completely normal for a man to become a woman or a woman to become a man...
    Tyrone147 Tyrone147 18-21 6 Responses Jan 18

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    yeah true ,,,.guess love blinds all issues of gender ..race and age..love transcends these barriers with ease...
    romel4747 romel4747 41-45, M Jan 19

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    its fun if its real time.. like you are with them right there right now
    hornycurvycock hornycurvycock 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 13

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    Hi i'm bored and lonely you want to join me, i'm naked now in my room what is your skype :) My skype is melissasmit_888 add me
    melissa012 melissa012 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    Thats how my household was my Mom stayed home with us cook and helped with homework. that's one of the best feelings to come home and your mom is there to hugg u and ask about your...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    A mother speaks out about her six year old daughter transitioning from male to female. She covers answers to attacking questions and how the neighborhood treated her. Very...
    saintargentina saintargentina 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I have a friend who is mtf
    25ImBeth 25ImBeth 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    And no one knows ... they don't even guess at it despite how I introduce myself some days as Moe. I spent my entire childhood calling myself a tomboy and enjoying it because then I...
    Karmickitten Karmickitten 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    No one at school or my parents know yet. I do have everyone call me Eric on my guy days, but no one has actually clued in yet. I'm like an undercover agent 😂😂 ~ Erica
    EricOrErica EricOrErica 13-15 Jan 3

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    *just curious* Do, let's say, 'normal' women who sometimes really LIKE transexuals (m2f) or drag queens exist?;d I mean, those good-looking ones,not ugly transvestites.
    roxx1 roxx1 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 4

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    Not just because I myself would love an intimate night with a M2F but because we should all be who we want to be! HUZZAH! Cheers.
    LoveOverHatred LoveOverHatred 18-21, F Jan 5

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    I'm a cisgender female. But I keep wishing I was born a guy lately. I hate my boobs. I hate my hips and waist. I keep cutting my hair hoping to look more boyish, but I have a...
    r0ck3r6 r0ck3r6 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 5

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    I have a question for all my queer peoples. Do you think someone that is Agender is transgender or do you think they are just not part of any category?
    NotApplicable NotApplicable 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I definitely believe in love and love only. where you find it and who you find it with is your business.
    Literally3872 Literally3872 36-40 Jan 6

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    Love is love. As long as its reasonable. A 28 year old claiming that they are in love with a 5-9 year old isn't reasonable, the kid doesn't even know what love is or what it is...
    MissJazmineeeee MissJazmineeeee 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 6

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    If only people stopped using the word "gay" or "lesbian" and introduced them as "I am interested in "boys" or "girls" or "both". After all love happens between 2 souls. It should...
    AksharGoyal AksharGoyal 16-17, M Jan 9

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    I'm trans but in want to be referred to as a girl
    Sophiebo09 Sophiebo09 18-21, T 1 Response Jan 13

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    What annoys me is that many guys in my school tells me how to be a man and all that bullshit!!!! It sickens me.
    Badboy1996 Badboy1996 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 14

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    My friend told me she was extremely Girly as a child until age 11, but now says she feels like a guy inside and doesn't dress Girly anymore. She wanted me to find out if this...
    DarkOnTheInside13 DarkOnTheInside13 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I am a girl. I don't like pink. I don't wear makeup. I won't grow up to be a housewife. But I'm not a tomboy either. I'll never pretend to be naive to seem more attractive. I'll...
    winglessdove winglessdove 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 15

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