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    Got The Tables Turned On Me!

    So this is a cautionary tale to all of you in the lifestyle who might not have fully thought out a "fantasy" request, or a riposte from your Significant Other, and could just as well be titled "be careful what you ask for." I have to go back to my first "swinging" weekend, when...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F Jan 15, 2013

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    Our Friends Birthday She Will Never Forget :)

    One of our friends had her birthday couple of months back. She is part of one of the couples we swing with. On eve of her birthday we called and wished her and said we would take a treat from her later..:) Her husband called us the next day for the surprise party at thier place...
    jennyphilip jennyphilip 26-30, F Oct 15, 2011

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    Sister-in-law & Husband Sex

    After 10 years or so of marriage ( I was in my early 40's) my wife and I often fantasized about sex with others. I knew my wife had been no shrinking violet before we met but wondered if we ever dare take fantasy any further. Always the risk that in the sober light of day outside...
    ramtell ramtell 56-60 1 Response Jun 11, 2013

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    My First Time As A Single Swinger Was Amazing

    I've just gripe up with my bf ans travelled abroad alone for work. My hotel was near a swinger club which i noticed as sono as checked in. Starting to think to go there but missed the courace cause i was alone. But, who cares, i dont know Anyone here... So i went, just to have a...
    Jota33 Jota33 36-40, F Jun 30, 2013

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    We have only ever swung with two couples,

    excluding a swingers party with once went to. The first couple were only interested in pleasing their own desires, and it was an afternoon to forget. The second couple we met through a swinger’s website and after explaining our previous experience they were happy to take it...
    kinkycoupleuk kinkycoupleuk 46-50 Aug 9

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    Alaska

    My wife an I are looking for a Lifestyles or swing party in Alaska
    Katysmaster Katysmaster 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2012

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    A nice friend was asking about swinging

    so I thought I'd tell you about what happens. I usually visit the club with a good friend, but I have lots of friends there. We chill and relax with a drink and just chat and flirt for a while, usually in our fav outfits. I like to wear my stockings and corset as that seems to...
    PinkyPinks PinkyPinks 31-35, F 9 Responses Apr 19

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    Eureka Springs Arkansas - Sep 26-28th

    We will be in Eureka Springs Ar. from Sunday the 26th till some time Tuesday the 28th if there are any sexy people that want to hookup and have drinks and fun. Let us know. We will most likely be staying at a downtown hotel.
    swingcouple417 swingcouple417 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 19, 2010

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    The Life Of Swinging

    Swinging isn't for everyone and for those who are just beginners you must communicate with one another before jumping into bed with another couple. At first it started when my husband's birthday was coming up and I wanted to give him a present which was to try swinging or have...
    AKF30 AKF30 31-35, F Jun 5, 2013

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    Sister-in-law & Husband Sex

    After 10 years or so of marriage ( I was in my early 40's) my wife and I often fantasized about sex with others. I knew my wife had been no shrinking violet before we met but wondered if we ever dare take fantasy any further. Always the risk that in the sober light of day outside...
    ramtell ramtell 56-60 Jun 11, 2013

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    A Must

    A must try for every one,ok maybe not every one but those who can handle it.....for my wife and I it started back when we meet...She had this friend that was hot, and one night we were hanging out in of her apartment for the whole world to see. The thing I know my wife pulled my...
    longgun longgun 31-35, M 9 Responses Aug 2, 2008

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    Our First Lifestyle Party (part Two)

    The day has finally arrived for us to attend our first swingers club party. We were nervous and excited, and still not 100% commited to attend. Leading up to this, we were very flirtatious and suggestive to one another. Discussing possible scenarios, and laughing and joking about...
    swingcouple417 swingcouple417 46-50, F 14 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    Indian And Filipino Wife Wanna Try A Another Couple In A Foursome

    Hello Dubai!!! Any swinging couple interested in hooking and meeting up to explore and have fun?? Contact for more details and pics.
    raoulanderson raoulanderson 36-40, M Jun 4, 2013

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    The New Couple

    Back when my then girlfriend and I were fairly active swingers, we often had the best times with beginner couples, or newbies if you use the lingo. Not that we would be intentionally manipulative, but merely participating with couples as they transitioned into new territory was...
    zumahl zumahl 36-40, M Oct 16, 2012

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    Overnight Swap

    My wife and I have been swinging for several years now. Lately we've been talking about trying new and different things. Our kids are older and out of the house for the most part so that starts to open up new avenues. We've always been together when we were swinging, we enjoy...
    swap4fun swap4fun 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 23, 2009

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    Blindfolded And Restrained - My First Swing Club

    My boyfriend, Ross, and I played truth or dare the other night and I lost. So, the dare was to go to a swing club with him and allow him to direct our activities.  M selected a club and set the date 2 weeks out.  I could not stop thinking about what would happen on the "big...
    mateo305 mateo305 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2013

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    Our New Member

    We did enjoy ourselves this weekend, our new friend especially! Since one of my buddies brought us his new gf, Jane but she was too bushful to join us immediately, she sat in the middle of me and her bf as my wife indulged herself with my two buddies. One licked around my wife's...
    mocliam mocliam 36-40 9 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Joined A Swinger Club As A Single Male

    at first it was a long time before I was called by phone but when my first couple told others bi men with wifes asked me to arrive to there party just in a shirt I loved that part I had 7 couples most were in there 40ies I was 50 my girl friend went to try her...
    nothanging nothanging 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    Help

    I'm a 23 year old female, and my boyfriend is 24. We met each other online at the ages of 15 and 16, respectively. I moved from my home state to Florida 2 years ago to be with him. We love each other immensely and I am very happy with him. However, he is into "swinging" and me...
    phantasiexoxo phantasiexoxo 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 5, 2012

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    Our First Private House Party

    We had been swinging for about 5 months, but only with one couple we found online and at a swingers club where they took us a few times. It turns out that couple liked to host an annual Halloween costume party for all their swinging friends. They invited us, and we wre a bit...
    OwlnPussyCat OwlnPussyCat 66-70, M 3 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    My First Sober Swing

    We met them on Craigslist. The plan was to show up at a hotel and get naked and screw, I suppose. I drove to the hotel and parked next to my boyfriend's truck where he was sitting waiting for me. I was incredibly nervous. I couldn't even look over at him, he sent me a text so I...
    slutmeg slutmeg 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    One Woman's First Swing Weekend

    This is the story I meant to share earlier today, when I wound up posting my 'how to talk to your wife about swinging" thread. It would probably make more sense to read that first, then this. In fact, I'll pick up pretty much right where I left off on that posting here. We...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2012

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    Oh My! What Did I Get Myself Into?

    I enjoy kissing and public displays of affection very much. Well it is that time of year again. Fair time! My friend J, who I have not seen since last fair season was on my mind. He was very into PDA's. So I send him a message and make plans to meet him at the fair. Sunday...
    BeeJay2366 BeeJay2366 46-50, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2013

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    Our First Time, Day Two

    This picks up where my previous posting leaves off, and is also relevant to the thread "how to get my "wife/husband" to swing that I also posted. After the girls left, we decided to go downstairs and get lunch, and then come back up to the room to eat. So, we strolled around...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F Dec 27, 2012

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    My Wife's Old Friend

    My wife and her old friend, Cindy are swimming in front of me. I know Cindy is bisexual and had sex with my wife when they were in college. Cindy goes out the pool and sits beside me. She is curious about how do I make the desicion to marry my wife? I give her a honest answer...
    mocliam mocliam 36-40 Nov 29, 2012

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    I Used To When I Was Married

    it was her idea... i had alot of fun and most of the couple were her friends so once things ended with us they all took her side so now im not a swinger and i dont know if i ever will be... how do i go about telling another girl about what i used to do let alone try to see if she...
    dann042O dann042O 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 28, 2012

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    New

    So my husband and I have recently started dicussing the prospect of swinging....I've asked him repeatedly before but he has jsut recently warmed up to the idea and now we aren't sure what to do or how to go about it- we know there are swinger clubs near us...but are there rules...
    purplepatty purplepatty 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    My Swinging Experiences: *********

    I've been sharing some more "mainstream" swinging experiences, and the process of writing, then reading the comments, and then having to reflect has been giving me a lot of insight into this somewhat new lifestyle. Well, new for me, anyway. So, this "********" thing is...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    My First Time Swinging

    I have written about my sex life starting from when I was very little, which involved Shirley and her little brother and my brother and I. We were all too young to ***, but we sure played with each other and done a lot of licking and sucking, would this be considered my first...
    emanonl emanonl 61-65 1 Response Apr 6, 2012

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    A Fantacy Comes True

    Me and my wife use to watch horny movies once in a while for better sex. There we saw the **** actor was slightly middle aged with very thick and pink ****. He was very nice and romantic and kissed sensually.He use to fondle and suck the  nipples very gently and in nice manner...
    sikatia sikatia 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 22, 2010

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    Getting Hubby'S Side Of The Story: Why HE Likes To Swing

    The past few weeks I've been writing so much about my own initial reluctance, and eventual embrace of swinging that I've quite neglected to even consider things from Hub's perspective. So, last night, after posting my story about why I like the men in the lifestyle so much, I...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Love Shedding Inhibitions

    Actually, we both swing, gf and I. We don't get enough opportunity, and have to make a special effort to make it happen. It helps that we're both liberated, and naturally explorative people, who love the sensuality of being with like-minded, uninhibited, sensual people. We...
    doublefeature doublefeature 41-45, M Nov 15, 2009

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    Seeing The Stranger's Cxxk In My Wife's Mouth(part 1)

    After a whole night sex with my wife, I woke up after the noon and just couldn't find her in our villa. There was a memo under my watch," I need the comfortable spa to soothe my strained body. Come to me as you wake up, my VIGOROUS STUD!" I rubbed my sore glans then put my pants...
    mocliam mocliam 36-40 Dec 23, 2012

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    More Is Best

    After the erotic massage by my wife's magic hands and tongue, I was lying on the bed with my red hot erecting ****. My wife opened the door of bathroom then gave me my birthday surprise. 2 men and 2 women came into our bedroom and I knew them all. Judy and Sean was a married...
    mocliam mocliam 36-40 Dec 11, 2012

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    Discrete Swingers!

    For us, we started with a couple who were quite open about swinging and some of our friends sort, of, well, blanked them from social events because of this. We approached them, as a couple, and they were keen to involve us in their sex life. We followed their lead on swinging...
    HorseyGirl82 HorseyGirl82 26-30, F 15 Responses Dec 31, 2011

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    My First 4sum

    I had been in the lifestyle for only 8 months when I answered an ad from a guy looking to meet a woman who would be interested in a 4sum with him and another couple. I have only been in 3sums before and one of them is a triad relationship. I was intrigued to say the least. I...
    BeeJay2366 BeeJay2366 46-50, F Aug 4, 2013

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    Where To Start

    Some of you have heard but to those that haven't please read and I'd love your serious (and sexy) comments. OK, where to start...let me give you some idea of who I am and why I am on here... Yes, I am real married wife, we are swingers-role play/enjoy cuckolding, etc.. I love...
    karynkn1 karynkn1 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 13, 2011

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    Our First Time, Day Two In The Evening

    After we woke up from our nap, ventured out for some more food and a cocktail or two we decided check out the crowd at the fire pit again tonight. The warmth of the fire was very welcome given the rapidly cooling night, and we were enjoying flirting with another couple from...
    froggycali froggycali 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    Our First

    My ex and I, about two years after we were married began talking about having sex with others. After several months of discussing it, usually after sex, we decided to look for a couple. We agreed that if we entered this lifestyle, we would have no rules for each other, which...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 1, 2013

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    A Man Of Many Experiences

    me and my wife swing ocasonly we both enjoy it and it add a bit of spice in our relationship
    wolfman1987 wolfman1987 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 22, 2009

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    Wife Swap

    Before even meeting my wife I had already been friends with the other couple. We hung out a lot, parties, clubs, bbqs, etc. We all got along great, similar personalities and joked around all the time with sexual undertones an references. Once I started to date my now wife things...
    cowboy004 cowboy004 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Our First Lifestyle Party (part One)

    This is a story about our first trip to a Lifestyle party. It happened about three years ago and became our introduction into the swing lifestyle. Long story with a prelude to the party. (PART ONE) We have great, hot sex together. I often tease her about playing with others...
    swingcouple417 swingcouple417 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2009

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    Swinging

    yes we do.. not often but it's been fun when we have. 
    Rnlimagery Rnlimagery 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 27, 2009

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    I Had to go Back for More!

    So after spending everyday for the next week thinking about the fun I had with J and his friend at the fair I just had to go back again. A quick email to J before I lost my nerve got me on his calendar for the following Friday. The last few days of the fair and I was praying...
    BeeJay2366 BeeJay2366 46-50, F Dec 3, 2013

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    I love women, I love being inside of them,

    Touching them.Feeling their hot bodies against me and having deep dominate sex with them.I love married women, The ones who let their husbands know they're playing and the husband is okay with that.I love having a woman on all four and submitting to me .I especially love...
    carguy3 carguy3 31-35, M Jan 2

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    Related Experiences

    We have only ever swung with two couples, excluding a swingers party with once went to. The first couple were only interested in pleasing their own desires, and it was an afternoon...
    kinkycoupleuk kinkycoupleuk 46-50 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Hi Dear All , This is arsal i am 23 and by profession i em engineer i am looking for LDR or swinging relationship with couple or married female ...I am very honest boy and wants...
    ArsalMalik ArsalMalik 22-25, M Aug 14

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    It was embarrassing, a bit painful and hilarious! Me and my girlfriend were walking in our neighborhood and saw our friends over in the park so we went over. After a little while...
    MtnDewForever MtnDewForever 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    Really think the swing is one of the purest, simplest, most meditative things ever invented. Even when you're pushing a loved one. Maybe their availability should be expanded...
    Micfly Micfly 51-55, M 4 days ago

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    My wife and I are planning to goto a swingers club in NYC. What should we expect? It would be our first time and we think we are gonna ease into it. Is that a realistic thought...
    Justtryn2understand Justtryn2understand 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate the fact that i have them. like when i was talking to my friend on fb she did nothing wrong no one did theres nothing wrong but it just happens just like that
    rsddhj rsddhj 13-15, F Aug 2

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    I am a single 47 Year old male. VERY well build and physically very active. Looking for a Lady or couple for some fun.
    Machardy1 Machardy1 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 7

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