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    Our First

    My ex and I, about two years after we were married began talking about having sex with others. After several months of discussing it, usually after sex, we decided to look for a couple. We agreed that if we entered this lifestyle, we would have no rules for each other, which...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 1, 2013

    My Swinging Experiences: *********

    I've been sharing some more "mainstream" swinging experiences, and the process of writing, then reading the comments, and then having to reflect has been giving me a lot of insight into this somewhat new lifestyle. Well, new for me, anyway. So, this "********" thing is...
    froggycali froggycali
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2013

    Got The Tables Turned On Me!

    So this is a cautionary tale to all of you in the lifestyle who might not have fully thought out a "fantasy" request, or a riposte from your Significant Other, and could just as well be titled "be careful what you ask for." I have to go back to my first "swinging" weekend, when...
    froggycali froggycali
    46-50, F
    Jan 15, 2013

    Sister-in-law & Husband Sex

    After 10 years or so of marriage ( I was in my early 40's) my wife and I often fantasized about sex with others. I knew my wife had been no shrinking violet before we met but wondered if we ever dare take fantasy any further. Always the risk that in the sober light of day outside...
    ramtell ramtell
    Jun 11, 2013

    Our Friends Birthday She Will Never Forget :)

    One of our friends had her birthday couple of months back. She is part of one of the couples we swing with. On eve of her birthday we called and wished her and said we would take a treat from her later..:) Her husband called us the next day for the surprise party at thier place...
    jennyphilip jennyphilip
    26-30, F
    Oct 15, 2011

    We have only ever swung with two couples,

    excluding a swingers party with once went to. The first couple were only interested in pleasing their own desires, and it was an afternoon to forget. The second couple we met through a swinger’s website and after explaining our previous experience they were happy to take it...
    kinkycoupleuk kinkycoupleuk
    1 Response Aug 9, 2014

    My First Time As A Single Swinger Was Amazing

    I've just gripe up with my bf ans travelled abroad alone for work. My hotel was near a swinger club which i noticed as sono as checked in. Starting to think to go there but missed the courace cause i was alone. But, who cares, i dont know Anyone here... So i went, just to have a...
    Jota33 Jota33
    41-45, F
    Jun 30, 2013

    A Must

    A must try for every one,ok maybe not every one but those who can handle it.....for my wife and I it started back when we meet...She had this friend that was hot, and one night we were hanging out in of her apartment for the whole world to see. The thing I know my wife pulled my...
    longgun longgun
    31-35, M
    10 Responses Aug 2, 2008


    I'm a 23 year old female, and my boyfriend is 24. We met each other online at the ages of 15 and 16, respectively. I moved from my home state to Florida 2 years ago to be with him. We love each other immensely and I am very happy with him. However, he is into "swinging" and me...
    phantasiexoxo phantasiexoxo
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Mar 5, 2012

    Blindfolded And Restrained - My First Swing Club

    My boyfriend, Ross, and I played truth or dare the other night and I lost. So, the dare was to go to a swing club with him and allow him to direct our activities.  M selected a club and set the date 2 weeks out.  I could not stop thinking about what would happen on the "big...
    mateo305 mateo305
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Aug 5, 2013

    Looking For Like Minded People

    Hi readers, We are a couple of swinging virgins in the south of England. We would love to find a couple or two who we can build a trusting relationship with. We are a committed, open-minded couple seeking intelligent people for all kinds of sexual experiences. We believe sex...
    robandjayneg robandjayneg
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Oct 1, 2010

    Our First Lifestyle Party (part Two)

    The day has finally arrived for us to attend our first swingers club party. We were nervous and excited, and still not 100% commited to attend. Leading up to this, we were very flirtatious and suggestive to one another. Discussing possible scenarios, and laughing and joking about...
    swingcouple417 swingcouple417
    46-50, F
    13 Responses Nov 29, 2009

    One Woman's First Swing Weekend

    This is the story I meant to share earlier today, when I wound up posting my 'how to talk to your wife about swinging" thread. It would probably make more sense to read that first, then this. In fact, I'll pick up pretty much right where I left off on that posting here. We...
    froggycali froggycali
    46-50, F
    1 Response Dec 27, 2012

    Our First Lifestyle Party (part One)

    This is a story about our first trip to a Lifestyle party. It happened about three years ago and became our introduction into the swing lifestyle. Long story with a prelude to the party. (PART ONE) We have great, hot sex together. I often tease her about playing with others...
    swingcouple417 swingcouple417
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2009

    Oh My! What Did I Get Myself Into?

    I enjoy kissing and public displays of affection very much. Well it is that time of year again. Fair time! My friend J, who I have not seen since last fair season was on my mind. He was very into PDA's. So I send him a message and make plans to meet him at the fair. Sunday...
    BeeJay2366 BeeJay2366
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 23, 2013

    I love women, I love being inside of them,

    Touching them.Feeling their hot bodies against me and having deep dominate sex with them.I love married women, The ones who let their husbands know they're playing and the husband is okay with that.I love having a woman on all four and submitting to me .I especially love...
    carguy3 carguy3
    36-40, M
    Jan 2, 2014

    Shortly after our marriage 20 years ago my wife

    and I began socializing with another couple (wife went to school with her). We four had the opportunity to hottub naked together while on a vacation. After returning home we continued to socialize partially dressed or naked about once a month. This soon led to mutual...
    Edward1973 Edward1973
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2014


    So my husband and I have recently started dicussing the prospect of swinging....I've asked him repeatedly before but he has jsut recently warmed up to the idea and now we aren't sure what to do or how to go about it- we know there are swinger clubs near us...but are there rules...
    purplepatty purplepatty
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Sep 23, 2009

    Discrete Swingers!

    For us, we started with a couple who were quite open about swinging and some of our friends sort, of, well, blanked them from social events because of this. We approached them, as a couple, and they were keen to involve us in their sex life. We followed their lead on swinging...
    HorseyGirl82 HorseyGirl82
    26-30, F
    10 Responses Dec 31, 2011

    Our start down this road we love to travel.

    It all started when a guy from my work told me about a swing club in the city we were living. From that I took a leap and started telling my wife about it. We discussed the club and did some research. That lead us to checking out that club for the first time.
    kinkyhubby69 kinkyhubby69
    1 Response Jan 18, 2015

    Indian And Filipino Wife Wanna Try A Another Couple In A Foursome

    Hello Dubai!!! Any swinging couple interested in hooking and meeting up to explore and have fun?? Contact for more details and pics.
    raoulanderson raoulanderson
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jun 4, 2013

    Getting Hubby'S Side Of The Story: Why HE Likes To Swing

    The past few weeks I've been writing so much about my own initial reluctance, and eventual embrace of swinging that I've quite neglected to even consider things from Hub's perspective. So, last night, after posting my story about why I like the men in the lifestyle so much, I...
    froggycali froggycali
    46-50, F
    1 Response Mar 26, 2013

    Bringing My 'alternative' Lifestyle And 'life' Together!

    It has finally happened. I know have a home/space that is gorgeous, unique, and a perfect place for parties and sharing with other swingers, etc.Life has been really good to me.Every Saturday I am having parties now. Last week, many of us were hanging out in the living room while...
    GabrieleAngel GabrieleAngel
    41-45, F
    Feb 27, 2012

    A Man Of Many Experiences

    me and my wife swing ocasonly we both enjoy it and it add a bit of spice in our relationship
    wolfman1987 wolfman1987
    22-25, M
    Oct 22, 2009

    Eureka Springs Arkansas - Sep 26-28th

    We will be in Eureka Springs Ar. from Sunday the 26th till some time Tuesday the 28th if there are any sexy people that want to hookup and have drinks and fun. Let us know. We will most likely be staying at a downtown hotel.
    swingcouple417 swingcouple417
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Sep 19, 2010

    Wife Swap

    Before even meeting my wife I had already been friends with the other couple. We hung out a lot, parties, clubs, bbqs, etc. We all got along great, similar personalities and joked around all the time with sexual undertones an references. Once I started to date my now wife things...
    cowboy004 cowboy004
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

    I Had to go Back for More!

    So after spending everyday for the next week thinking about the fun I had with J and his friend at the fair I just had to go back again. A quick email to J before I lost my nerve got me on his calendar for the following Friday. The last few days of the fair and I was praying...
    BeeJay2366 BeeJay2366
    46-50, F
    Dec 3, 2013

    Love Shedding Inhibitions

    Actually, we both swing, gf and I. We don't get enough opportunity, and have to make a special effort to make it happen. It helps that we're both liberated, and naturally explorative people, who love the sensuality of being with like-minded, uninhibited, sensual people. We...
    doublefeature doublefeature
    41-45, M
    Nov 15, 2009

    I Used To When I Was Married

    it was her idea... i had alot of fun and most of the couple were her friends so once things ended with us they all took her side so now im not a swinger and i dont know if i ever will be... how do i go about telling another girl about what i used to do let alone try to see if she...
    dann042O dann042O
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2012

    The Life Of Swinging

    Swinging isn't for everyone and for those who are just beginners you must communicate with one another before jumping into bed with another couple. At first it started when my husband's birthday was coming up and I wanted to give him a present which was to try swinging or have...
    AKF30 AKF30
    31-35, F
    Jun 5, 2013

    A Fantacy Comes True

    Me and my wife use to watch horny movies once in a while for better sex. There we saw the **** actor was slightly middle aged with very thick and pink ****. He was very nice and romantic and kissed sensually.He use to fondle and suck the  nipples very gently and in nice manner...
    sikatia sikatia
    41-45, M
    1 Response Oct 22, 2010

    A nice friend was asking about swinging

    so I thought I'd tell you about what happens. I usually visit the club with a good friend, but I have lots of friends there. We chill and relax with a drink and just chat and flirt for a while, usually in our fav outfits. I like to wear my stockings and corset as that seems to...
    PinkyPinks PinkyPinks
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Apr 19, 2014

    Forum For Cuck And Wives Support

    This isn't exactly a story but it isn't spam either. If you are interested in the cuckold lifestyle at any level, there's lots of good advice here. is another valuable resource for couples considering the lifestyle.   They...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 23, 2012

    Our First Time, Day Two

    This picks up where my previous posting leaves off, and is also relevant to the thread "how to get my "wife/husband" to swing that I also posted. After the girls left, we decided to go downstairs and get lunch, and then come back up to the room to eat. So, we strolled around...
    froggycali froggycali
    46-50, F
    Dec 27, 2012

    Our First Time, Day Two In The Evening

    After we woke up from our nap, ventured out for some more food and a cocktail or two we decided check out the crowd at the fire pit again tonight. The warmth of the fire was very welcome given the rapidly cooling night, and we were enjoying flirting with another couple from...
    froggycali froggycali
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jan 6, 2013

    Sister-in-law & Husband Sex

    After 10 years or so of marriage ( I was in my early 40's) my wife and I often fantasized about sex with others. I knew my wife had been no shrinking violet before we met but wondered if we ever dare take fantasy any further. Always the risk that in the sober light of day outside...
    ramtell ramtell
    1 Response Jun 11, 2013

    The New Couple

    Back when my then girlfriend and I were fairly active swingers, we often had the best times with beginner couples, or newbies if you use the lingo. Not that we would be intentionally manipulative, but merely participating with couples as they transitioned into new territory was...
    zumahl zumahl
    36-40, M
    Oct 16, 2012

    Hit Me Up

    Single Male/ Part time X Dresser Giver.. more than a taker.. Anxious for an invite to your next party.. Solid Stud request here. Regards, Nippie nibbles and Kisses to you.. woo.. woo ;)) Billy Ray
    NewTGurl NewTGurl
    41-45, T
    Apr 6, 2012

    Our First Private House Party

    We had been swinging for about 5 months, but only with one couple we found online and at a swingers club where they took us a few times. It turns out that couple liked to host an annual Halloween costume party for all their swinging friends. They invited us, and we wre a bit...
    OwlnPussyCat OwlnPussyCat
    66-70, M
    2 Responses Feb 4, 2011

    My First 4sum

    I had been in the lifestyle for only 8 months when I answered an ad from a guy looking to meet a woman who would be interested in a 4sum with him and another couple. I have only been in 3sums before and one of them is a triad relationship. I was intrigued to say the least. I...
    BeeJay2366 BeeJay2366
    46-50, F
    Aug 4, 2013

    My First Sober Swing

    We met them on Craigslist. The plan was to show up at a hotel and get naked and screw, I suppose. I drove to the hotel and parked next to my boyfriend's truck where he was sitting waiting for me. I was incredibly nervous. I couldn't even look over at him, he sent me a text so I...
    slutmeg slutmeg
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Nov 18, 2013


    My wife an I are looking for a Lifestyles or swing party in Alaska
    Katysmaster Katysmaster
    36-40, M
    1 Response Dec 17, 2012
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