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    Looking for an experienced couple to help

    introduce me and my lady to being swingers. Is there anybody out there near Pittsburgh or willing to take a trip to Pittsburgh?
    TigerEyes42 TigerEyes42 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 22, 2013

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    How We Started

    We were introduced to swinging by 2 very good friends of ours before we were married.Mike and I knew they were swingers even though she was 18 and he was 20 and it got us thinking of the possibilities.Mike told me how much he got turned on when I went topless on holiday and he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    Planning And Follow Through...

    The whole idea of alternative lifestyles is very new to me a and extremely arousing. I'm interested in something between swinging and poly. I am unsure if I could have a full time 3rd & possibly 4th but want more than the casual sex. My fiancé has agreed (with little pressure...
    JAngel65 JAngel65 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2013

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    Neighborly Hospitality

    Unannounced visitors were not very common, especially in the middle of the day, so when the knock came at the door for Lisa Ingles, she was caught a little off guard. Little did she know that she was about to be introduced to a world of experiences that would shift her reality...
    AfroerotiK AfroerotiK 46-50, F Jun 20, 2013

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    Wife And I Become Swingers

    The first time my wife and I had sex with Charlie and Tracy was a little troubling. You can read about it here on EP "Mixed feelings about Group Sex." In short, it was unplanned, very exciting, and erotic. It also caused some insecurities and awkwardness between my wife and I at...
    kennef06 kennef06 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    Swinging With Swingers

    I joined a swinger's site awhile back not knowing what to expect from it. A few days before Thanksgiving, I heard from a couple. They were 50ish and from Toronto Canada. They were heading down to go shopping in Buffalo,NY for Black Friday. They told me in the email that they...
    rr997 rr997 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 30, 2012

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    Hubby And I Started

    My husband and I have talked about it for years. A few weeks ago we had our first swing time together. We both loved it. We have one couple that wanted separate rooms. That was hot but not as much as having sex in the same room where my hubby can see me being ****** and I can...
    wildwifeamy1970 wildwifeamy1970 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    North Mississippi Area.

    Are there any swingers groups in the north Mississippi area? I would love to find and get involved in one.
    bayoucougarforplay bayoucougarforplay 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 31, 2013

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    Thinking... Possibly Rambling

    This isn't so much a story as a stream of thought musing that may allow me to organize my thoughts and may alloq others to give e a bit of advice on key points or in general. Im 26 and my wife is a bit younger at 22 and we share an amazing life together along with a wholly...
    wereyourplus2 wereyourplus2 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 6, 2013

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    Swingers

    My husband & I have been Swingers for almost exactly 3 years. In that time we've had sex with almost 75 other people.
    SwingGoodTime SwingGoodTime 36-40 3 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Advice Confused After Nudist Trip

    after a couple of drinks on holiday , i suggested to my wife of 20 years we go to a nudist beach in spain. to my suprise the following morning she still wanted to go.off we wentwow what a mind fucki loved watching a man next to us looking at my wifes *****. my wife also noticed...
    damoh damoh 41-45 1 Response Jul 30, 2013

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    I Love Swinging

    My hubby and I have been swinging for about 8 years now. It's funny, we've done things that others only fantasize about. I was 20 when we started swinging, he's older than me & he was in the lifestyle with his ex before, so he was happy when I told him I wanted to try it. We...
    PaganPride PaganPride 26-30, F 1 Response May 23, 2013

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    Club Eden

    While I was visiting my good friend in Fort Lauderdale I went with him to club Eden. He had never been to one before and wanted to experience so I agreed to go. It was quite an evening. It is an optional clothing club with a building top heated pool. My friend couldn´t wait to...
    gemify gemify 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    Tucson Revisitied

    Following up at the request of an ever decreasing number, I'm writing about the second Tucson Swing Club experience. Jeanne started this story, got called away by her work, and I couldn't find her "start", so this will be fresh. We spent the first night of our second visit to...
    tsiugnilinnuc tsiugnilinnuc 51-55, M 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    BEST TIME EVER

    Well me and my wife were at a bar and we had knocked back a few drinks me always being curious about the lifestyle I had said what the hell let's give this a shot she agreed so we set our search for a guy that night luckily we found one we went to a local hotel and had a...
    johnnyb26 johnnyb26 26-30, M Oct 9, 2013

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    Our First Time...

    We start swinging around 10 years ago. All these took place in Australia when we were studying there. It took a while to convince my wife into the lifestyle, which is not easy at the beginning. At the end she's agree, so we put an ad on a famous Adult website. We had lots of...
    nicecouple26 nicecouple26 31-35 11 Responses Aug 20, 2011

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    Saturday Night!

    Well one Saturday Jeff came in from doing some work and asked if I would like to go for dinner later on and then stop by a local bar for a drink.  The bar he suggested is a dive bar where mostly locals hang out on the weekends. "Why that **** hole?"...
    US2andU2 US2andU2 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 5, 2009

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    Best Swinger Party Ever!

    When we first started swinging, I couldn't bear to see my wife with another man, so we always were careful to be in different rooms. As time passed, and I learned that she wasn't going to fall in love with another guy or run off with someone, I began to want to watch her. It...
    OwlnPussyCat OwlnPussyCat 66-70, M 3 Responses Feb 4, 2011

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    Partner Watching Me Have Sex With Another Male

    I am recently dating a man who wants to be a swinger and swap partners.  I tried it for the first time this weekend and found it to be very exciting, but of course, i was very nervous.  My new mate seems to feel that I should have sex with a man first while he watches...
    tweety52 tweety52 51-55 7 Responses May 12, 2008

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    Best Camping Ever

    My wife and I had met several couples on lifestyle sites and usually the meeting became awkward as the physical attraction was missing for one or the other of us. The one experience we did have my wife (I will call her Eve) had some jealousy issues. Usually after a medeocre...
    FC6000 FC6000 56-60 16 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    Our First Time....

    Well the long wait is over... Looking for the perfect couple and our  Patience paid off. Even after all the hesitation on my part I had a great time.  We belong to this website called SLS (swing lifestyle.com) and we have looked through so many profiles and we have...
    isabellaR1970 isabellaR1970 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 3, 2010

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    How We Got Started Swinging

    My wife and I married when we were 18. We had decided to wait to start a family until we were sure we would stay married and also get a good income started. I had a job where there were a lot of sex books and some were on swinging and had people advertising. It got me to...
    ladywatcher50 ladywatcher50 56-60, M 5 Responses Jun 14, 2012

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    Kelly's Birthday Gift

    Kelly’s birthday is New Year’ Eve. This year we decided to attend the New Year’s Eve party at the local swinger’s club. We have been attending for about a year but we are still relatively new to the lifestyle. Up to this point, Kelly had had one MFM which was her...
    pandorasboxisopen pandorasboxisopen 46-50 Mar 5, 2012

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    Couples First Swingers Club Experience (And It Was A Good One)

    *This is a true story that happened very recently! My wife, Kate, and I are a white couple in our late 20's. I'm a pretty big guy at 6' 290lbs. She's 5'5" 120lbs with perfect b cup breasts. We were high school sweethearts and have been married now for several years. Being that...
    TheGoodTimes TheGoodTimes 26-30, M 1 Response Oct 9, 2013

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    How It Works In Our World

    Cheaters, yeah they exsist: but this is how it works in our world. The reason people cheat is that they are not getting what they need out of the current relationship. NOW...not always can that person give them what they need. But here is the real issue: its not the cheating...
    darkrid3r darkrid3r 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Easing Our Friends In

    My lovely wife and I have had some great and adventurous sexual experiences over the years. We have done swinging and group before but we aren't what you would call your typical swingers. We have been to clubs but it really wasn't our thing. Most of the time its been with just...
    kennef06 kennef06 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 20, 2013

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    Whoknewhawtwife's Gonna Do It.

    We are the couple next door with kidS, the van, pets, the whole nine yards. My husband and I have been together 24 years since high school, and we are totally dedicated. He's hawtter to me today than he was the first day I met him: He's tall and slender and blonde but graying at...
    whoknewhawtwife whoknewhawtwife 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    How We Met

    I am writing this story from true life events. We are married and have been since a year after these events took place. I love my "Celtic Goddess" and know that her heart is just as much given to me. I make no apologies to anyone about our lifestyle. It is not for everyone and I...
    cobaltblu cobaltblu 61-65 11 Responses Dec 22, 2012

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    Swinger Couple Looking To Hook Up On Skype.

    I am 39 and my girl is 42.wanting to get freaky on Skype.we are a attractive couple.
    Lowgears Lowgears 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    Another Fun Weekend Party

    We were invited by some friends to go with them to a house party some time ago now. Due to no-shows, there turned out to be 3 couples, (including the host couple, our friends, and us), and three single guys. Soon after arriving, our friends sitter called and they...
    US2andU2 US2andU2 26-30, F May 30, 2009

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    First Time

    my wife and i were over at a friends house we went up to their bed room and started wacthing **** it wasent long before my freind tom was ******* his wife dawn so i begain to **** my wife cari i was doing here doggy  on the eadge of their bed and we were wacthing them **** tom...
    clovernook67 clovernook67 41-45 4 Responses Mar 24, 2011

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    Interested In Being A Swinger Couple

    I am interested in becoming a swinger couple. I am interested but my wife is sort of a prude when it comes to sex. We might have sex maybe once every two weeks. She like only to positions. Normal style me on top and her on bottom. Or maybe once every few months we do the 69...
    paulrhight paulrhight 36-40, M 2 Responses May 16, 2013

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    Is It Normal To Run Into Friends More At A Swingers Or Family Too ?....

    hi everyone..is it more normal to run into people u know at a swingers fun or family too?.....if u have inbox me so we can share each others stories
    mr40yroldmale mr40yroldmale 36-40, M Oct 21, 2013

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    The Party Is Close

    So we have been involved with planning a hotel party, 50 couples, 14 admin staff, 5 single males and as many single females as we can find. Total about 120 or so people. So far we are 75% sold on tickets, and its broken even, Thats all I truly wanted. I am so excited I cant...
    darkrid3r darkrid3r 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 26, 2013

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    Looking For Fun

    My fantasy is to find a hot couple to play with... No holds bared kind of fun... Open, fun and completely naughty. Where do I goto find this???
    Pambi1975 Pambi1975 31-35, F 10 Responses Dec 25, 2010

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    The party was off the hilt.

    My wife went in a school girl outfit, it was so hot. I went with a very nice dress shirt on with an embroidered pattern. As an admin staff we did not get as much time to visit and check out people doing it this time. Too much admin stuff, making sure people were doing ok and...
    darkrid3r darkrid3r 36-40, M Dec 12, 2013

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    The Repair Man

    One of our ideas we always though would be very hot to try was the thought of having a repair man come to fix something , then having Chrissy seduce them and allow them to have their way with one another.  We would frequently talk about different ideas like...
    US2andU2 US2andU2 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 3, 2009

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    First Time

    Over the weekend I went out to a new bar with someone I hardly know. We only know each other through mutual hobbies and interests. While out at the bar I noticed mid 40's woman eyeballing me while sitting next to who appeared to be her husband. I'm in my mid 20's and my friend...
    Murder1 Murder1 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 4, 2013

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    Encore

    About 10 years ago, we visited a club in Tucson that friends had suggested to us as swingers of long experience. It was a large private home with a sizable basement, two floors of living quarters, a large outdoor pool in an enclosed backyard, 2 hot-tubs and many chaise lonngues...
    tsiugnilinnuc tsiugnilinnuc 51-55, M 4 Responses Apr 2, 2013

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    Not Always A Good Expereince

    Our first experience swinging (read on EP, Mixed feelings about group sex) was a little difficult because it raised a few insecurities, it was unexpected, we didn't have boundaries set up, and we were unsure what we wanted out of it. The good thing was afterward we really talked...
    kennef06 kennef06 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    An Amazing Couple

    So Hubby and I have been seeing a couple now for about three months. We first met them online and seemed to hit it off right away. After much flirting back and forth, we decided to meet them over lunch. There were instant sparks of attraction right away. Hubby's straight, so...
    LoriK69 LoriK69 31-35, F 14 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    My First Swing Experience

    Me and my man have been in the lifestyle a bit now. But I still remember our first experience. We went to meet a couple for the first time and had decided to not do much. Well, the night progressed and they envited us back to their house. We went and after an hour of talking and...
    vangaurdcym06 vangaurdcym06 22-25, F 18 Responses Apr 3, 2012

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    Dam-It! We Let Our Gurard Down.

    We meet with a couple, I had been chatting with on the "swingers site". We dressed up, and drove 40 miles to meet "for drink's". He was a nice guy, she was a *****. She started telling us we were going to Hell. And how wrong she thought swinging was. And how could you love...
    tomtom2401 tomtom2401 46-50 3 Responses Jul 29, 2013

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    My Husband And I Went To A Swingers Club

    For his birthday my husband and I went to a bar and got shitfaced drunk. To tell you how drunk I was, I ASKED the cop working security to give me a sobriety test. He did and laughed and said I was too drunk to drive and called a cab for us (what a sweetie). But instead of going...
    LuckyLatina LuckyLatina 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    Can I Get A Fantasy In Today

    i like to watch my gf in a tight dress and heels go to a gas station late in the morning round 3-4 am and watch guys talk to her and she walk them back to the car and i play sleep and she tell them im drunk dont worry bout him then she get in the driver side of the car and start...
    thagod thagod 46-50, M Sep 30, 2013

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    My wife has pasted away looking

    for someone to date, Maybe candle light and a little wine and get to know each other. If your a woman between 60 and 70 and interested connecting, for romance and pleasure, I like to please the woman I am with. message me
    Bb6868 Bb6868 66-70, M a week ago

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    Interested And Hot Wife

    My wife and I are and have been swingers for a long time. We both are very particular about the people we swing with, neither of us really like big people. That is why it is really hard for us to swing very often. We frequent this club nearby and have meet a few couples we found...
    RJR6357 RJR6357 56-60, M Jul 18, 2013

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    A House Party

    We went to a a house party last weekend. It was a bonfire gathering of some friends and new people that were all interested in or were swingers. So the opportunity for my wife and I to have some fun was high. But as it was the evening started out a bit slowly with talk of the...
    mikeanddeb mikeanddeb 41-45 4 Responses Aug 25, 2011

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    Newbie

    Hi wife of 17 years is heading up the next swing. My husband has arranged the last swing and a ********* now I would like to!
    SuzyQ55 SuzyQ55 41-45, F Jul 30, 2013

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    My husband and I had been married

    for 20 years the first time we experienced swinging. I was a Sunday school teacher and considered my self very proper and conservative,especially when it came to sex. My husband had meet some swingers online and was invited to a private swingers party. He knew I would never...
    bama2for2ormore bama2for2ormore 56-60 6 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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