I Talk Less When I Am Insecure,hurt Or Angry

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    Who doesn't? I feel like the world hates me

    even if it wasnt involved in my life lol
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 11, 2014

    I was cool caring person few years back,

    but some family issues changed everything. I had to sacrifice my job, my lifestyle and i have been very irritated since then. I become insecure if i had to compromising in anything. Am i becoming very arrogant, egoistic person ? I dont want to be like that. It's affecting my...
    preeti2012 preeti2012
    31-35, F
    Feb 11, 2015

    I talk less, but worst

    when I'm not on my mood to talk whatever the cause is. When I don't talk I am in the super sensitive mood. So usually my family will just keep away if they don't want to be shouted at or scolded..
    meandmythought meandmythought
    26-30, F
    Nov 12, 2014

    Most of the time when I'm good friends with the

    person, but if I don't know them too much I become really rude...
    tabby8f tabby8f
    18-21
    1 Response Nov 13, 2014

    Much Less.

    But still no one notices. I don't feel a need to talk when something is bothering me. It might help to stop concentrating on it and what not but I don't think so. i just think keep myself in myself for now. Just stay quiet.
    LoveLindseyMusic420 LoveLindseyMusic420
    18-21, F
    Mar 26, 2010

    All The Time

    I always talk less when im insecure or hurt or angry and I hate it and im pretty sure that it gives away im feeling scared , hurt or angry I want to find someway to not act like this
    PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD PRETTYGIRLHATESTHEWORLD
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2010

    Think That Is Pretty Common

    seems like when we should talk we stop talking fore somereason may be it is to fear or withdraw angry we do not talk as we really even mad do not want to hurt others
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    2 Responses Sep 29, 2011

    No Words

    When I get upset, I lose my words.  I know what I'm feeling, but haven't got the words to express it.  So as I get more and more upset I get quieter and quieter.Sometimes it gets to where I can't talk at all.
    Plaid Plaid
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 14, 2011

    I Find Its Best To Not Talk At All

    Especially when I am angry. Like hen I am angry at my mother, I try not to talk because if I do, then I will get myself in trouble, or say something that I regret. I like to be alone when I am sad, so I go some wheres isolated and just silently cry. When I am hurt, I do the...
    cutebutdeadly295 cutebutdeadly295
    13-15, F
    Mar 7, 2010
    Sunshineh13 Sunshineh13
    22-25, F
    Mar 14, 2015

    :)

    I guess you can tell I am not insecure on EP because I never shut up lol.  However I do get very quiet when I am hurt or angry.  If I start replying in one word answers chances are I am angry or hurt.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    13 Responses Feb 21, 2010

    It is because I won't be in a mood to joke

    or be very nice, so I talk less. If anything, people should appreciate it, not blame me for it. From now on, I better talk less, become a creep, and watch my back well. Well, I guess you have no idea what I am talking about.
    MissGaga MissGaga
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 6, 2014

    Hide

    Im the girl who slams the door. who blasts her music till you can feel it through the floor. Why talk to someone? i don't need anyone, of course thats one of the biggest lies i tell my self. But when i'm angry i have to be silent, i have to fade away. Because in the end i'm going...
    Artemis17 Artemis17
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jun 10, 2010

    i do this. its all about protecting yourself

    from more pain. I've gotta protect me, no one else will.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    Nov 12, 2014
    awesomeguy3125 awesomeguy3125
    31-35, M
    Aug 5, 2015

    I just got to keep quiet

    for a short period of time. Just to sort things in my head. You are the reason why I'm insecure. You hurt me. And I'm mad at you, all of you. But I will never give you the satisfaction of seeing me break down. So I pretend to be happy around you. It's hard to explain. I make an...
    BlackRosesAmongLilies BlackRosesAmongLilies
    13-15
    Feb 28, 2015

    When too much hurt or too much angry i just

    become quite and try listening music or taking a walk
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 3, 2014

    Please, Just Give Me A Few Minutes

    I have run into this time and time again and its really frustrating.  Here I am trying to be cool, calm. and collected. Trying to clear my head and think logically instead of allowing my emotions to take over. So that I can present my concerns in a proper way. I feel things very...
    snowberry75 snowberry75
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 1, 2011

    I talk more when I'm

    so upset. Just like a bomb waiting to explode. Been feeling that way for several days. Once you've cracked my shell, I won't talk anymore. I hate people who thinks that lying, conniving with another, hiding will get them reach the Finish Line. They're just fooling...
    hawksnravens hawksnravens
    41-45, F
    Feb 16, 2016

    that's cos If I don't control myself I'll say

    something and end up hurting others too :/ so I prefer to talk less when I'm angry or hurt.. and it literally ruins my sleep and eating habits
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90
    22-25, F
    Nov 22, 2015

    Me Too

    i talk less to others when im angry but more to myself.sometimes i just battle it out in my head.actually most of the time
    j8mes j8mes
    18-21, M
    Nov 13, 2012

    Want To Alone

    whenever i m angry or hurt i come into my room lock it and spend a lot of time alone not talk to anyone or goto my motorbike if available and drive as fast as it go and as rough as i can and sometime when i really hurt then i cut myself too i know this is bad but i do it and i...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 10, 2010

    I feel hurt. In the last week

    or two it seems I just make everyone angry. My long distance bf & I had a fight because I've been doing all the travelling to be together, so I tried together stand up for myself and asked him to come to me so I could have time at home. Somehow I ended up hurt and apologising...
    Jenstar84 Jenstar84
    31-35, F
    May 30, 2015

    Definitely when I am angry .

    .. BEWARE of the HULK!
    deviltalks deviltalks
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 11, 2016

    im prolly gonna feel bad

    for sayin this or maybe i wont idk but just like they hope i get raped, i hope my ex dies
    LiLJunie LiLJunie
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 29, 2015

    Our Skype didn't exactly end too well today.

    .. We were talking about university offers and all that future stuff. And I was a bit stressed about not getting any offers and I was worried about how my university offers would impact on our relationship. At that one moment I said, "if I don't get into a good university then...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 28, 2015
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