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I Talk to the Other Side

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 2 People

    The grass may be greener on the other side of the fence, but you still have to mow it. - Anonymous
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M Sep 19

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    Even when I disagree I still want to understand the motivations of people's choices. I like having my mind changed by a really good reason.
    rsgalindo01 rsgalindo01 31-35, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I think I have finally came to the realization that this affair is over. We rarely see one another, and hardly talk anymore. I can see now that ever since his new baby was born...
    freddiesgirl69 freddiesgirl69 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 17

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    I'm at a loss again reading some "other woman" stuff. I am the other woman now because I been on the other side of it (cheated on) and probably because I wanted to try the other...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 15 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hey, everyone. My names Nikki from a small town where everyone knows each other. I've found this forum several times whilst typing random things into google, so I thought I'd...
    NikkiH94 NikkiH94 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 20

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    My exAP has been talking to me more lately. He is lost and miserable and confused. I told him something he didn't want to hear on Friday, so he went quiet...always does when that...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I wish I would see it a lot more. There was one day that my boyfriend was driving in the pointing rain and in the other side of traffic I saw an elderly man walking, I wished that...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 18

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    I've been married for 3 years now. I have a two year old child who still keeps me alive. I've been dealing with depression since I was little... I thought marrying my husband...
    SexyUnicorns SexyUnicorns 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 22

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    I am a hypocrite. I often have disagreed with "ow" and have been on the other side of cheating. Now I can't help but talk to this guy even though he's in a relationship and this...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I always feel different with a different person. It seems like i become different myself too, as if every person brings out the other side of me that i didn't even know exsists...
    Gitamomo Gitamomo 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    I'm now the ow much to my amazement.but ive also been other side of the fence my ex h had ow.what I'm doing is bad enough and if found out deserve everything his partner throws at...
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    My mm shut me out after my husband found out. Really my mm and I were close friends. He lives on the other side of the country and our relationship isn't physical. My hubs has...
    Mb24 Mb24 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    MM asked me to skype him last week and I told him I couldn't because I had plans already. He didn't contact me for four days. I didn't contact him either. I figured he was upset...
    Guilty1982 Guilty1982 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Since third grade, I was neglected for not being like everyone else. I liked video games and drawing, and since I didn't know anything outside my own world, that was all I could...
    DrowningInRed DrowningInRed 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Upset, annoyed, mad... that's all happening at 2:45am. The last few days he has been letting our conversations drop... the first time it was a couple hours and I sent a smart...
    Ahmazing Ahmazing 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I just had to post this! I have newly laundered pillows. I love the freshness and now it's cold both sides. Yey!! Fresh sheets, fresh pillow, and a warm blanket. Will be having a...
    lonelydinosaur lonelydinosaur 26-30, F 17 mins ago

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    I spoke to my MM early Saturday Morning (3am). I had just finished a Skype session with a friend and he signed in. It wasn't anything prearranged. He just happened to sign in...
    Guilty1982 Guilty1982 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    So I am trying to get over my MM. I love him loads but as you know, he hadn't been treating me right of late, so have been practicing detachment for while now (hope that word...
    Ruru7 Ruru7 31-35 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Anyone to talk and vent some one who would listen and give advice?
    strawberriful strawberriful 18-21, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I'm too close to this to see clearly. The guy I was chatting to has left his woman and gone to stay at his brothers. I stopped talking to him, refused to meet him - eventually...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I doubt anyone will respond to this. Its not like I want anyone to respond, its just that.. I hope someone will. Ive lost a lot of faith. Faith in god, myself and humanity. So...
    DerangedScubadiver DerangedScubadiver 18-21, M 8 Responses 1 hr ago

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    So many thoughts on my mind tonight, trying to find any distraction by browsing through my PM’s on EP during and after the course of my affair with exMM. And there it is, a...
    lostsoul0311 lostsoul0311 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I drive my *** to go see my boyfriend every single day..... He doesn't have a car so I drive like 25 min to a see him...... I always let him see my phone everything!!!! Well today...
    AndreaaG AndreaaG 18-21, F 15 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I've always talked to myself but I only incessantly depended upon my own voice when I was about six years-old and beyond. I used to get left at home a lot of the time and I was...
    NocheSombra NocheSombra 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 18

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    So I don't think I can do this anymore..... He is so inconsistent with how he is with me and it makes me feel insane, last week we talked almost everyday at work at least. He came...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 8 Responses 5 days ago

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    Anyone else out here have people suspecting your affair that would be a problem if they found out? MM and I have friends. They are friends of mine and friends of his and his W. I...
    BlackHiHeels4Me BlackHiHeels4Me 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    I'm 26 years old and the last time I saw my dad I was 18 - on the day I got on a plane and left for college. He has messaged me through Facebook off and on over the last few years...
    aviatrix17 aviatrix17 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    Hard day today. I felt like I wanted to have a temper tantrum today. It was just one of those days I wanted to scream "leave her!!! She makes you so unhappy and it's written all...
    MarieVon MarieVon 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 11

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    The saddest thing about this, for me, is I let all my other relationships fall to the waste side.. unnurtured and neglected. My two best friends are him and his wife!! I am so mad...
    megansunshine megansunshine 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 17

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    Well, definitely punched in the stomach today. Things had been wonderful with him for the past week, but I am now seeing that I made a grave mistake by opening myself up to him...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 11 Responses Sep 18

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    There's more than two, I'm struggling to clarify myself in a world full of labels that box people in. I don't feel a need to define myself for myself but for other people to...
    HopefullRomantic HopefullRomantic 22-25, F Sep 19

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    ive had a friend since grade school. weve kept in touch all our lives, and were always close. after i came back many years living in another country, ive had a different broader...
    blue951 blue951 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Who would want to be the other women? You wasting your time ******* some other ***** man. Go find your own man who would actually treat you right. Not talking about sugar daddy...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    If anyone wants someone to talk to im here
    jones10375 jones10375 18-21, M 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    To other women, to wives, to all women in various relationship choices, You are unique. You are special. We are all equal human beings. We all have feelings, weaknesses, strength...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 7 hrs ago

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    I need some help this was way before I got with my boyfriend my boyfriend went on a beer train with all his friends In dec 2012 and they all went in fancy dress and there was some...
    kayloulou kayloulou 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Today marks one year since the funeral of a good friend of mine.A guy who excelled in academics and sport.He was a kind person.It doesn't even feel like a year has gone since he...
    RafaReu RafaReu 22-25, M 25 mins ago

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    He's been alone before Trapped in his own small hell He has tried to be stronger But he won't care much longer He might need a miracle She never leaves his side Even when he won't...
    heysho heysho 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    So, I posted on here a couple of days ago about my bf messaging an old girl he used to mess around with a couple of days ago. To make a long story short, I blocked her number which...
    silarial silarial 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 8

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    Just having readqueenfl's last post (it was really good), I'm now feeling confused / angry and tired /sad / broken. I love this guy, and the writing speaks for itself. I feel...
    Missy1179 Missy1179 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 15

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    Hi ladies. I haven’t been on in a while, and I have really missed you all. I realize it is better to have people to talk to who understand my situation. I will give you a...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 15

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    So I've been dating this guy for almost a year now and its been a really rough year but I really like him and we always seem to work things out. A couple of months ago we had an...
    silarial silarial 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 5

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    He gives me perspective. He loves how I look on the bright side of things and he gives me confidence!! Through the faith he has in me I feel like I can accomplish anything. This...
    MarieVon MarieVon 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 10

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    Im really trying to break up with my boyfriend. We're both 17 and he just already has this idea that we're gonna get married. Not that that's a bad thing, I'm just having a severe...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 12

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    I still haven't bothered responding to his half *** message from Sunday. On the way to school today, I was late so I had to take a shortcut. It took me right past one of his...
    ArlingtonRose ArlingtonRose 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 16

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    I was a victim of domestic violence this past Saturday from my boyfriend and now that he's been bailed out of jail I've been speaking with him. All he says is that the first time...
    silarial silarial 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 17

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    Saw him in person yesterday for a few hours. Just talked. I didn't get into the topic of contact. I wasn't in the mood for excuses and I knew if we "discussed" we would end up...
    blue963 blue963 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 18