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I Talk to the Other Side

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    A different perspective. (This will be long...sorry) I'm going to change names and certain details purely because this is not my own experience, but observations I've made about a...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 4 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    "We're not broken, just bent..." One of my husband's most sustaining phrases he has used to keep my spirits up during our marriage recovery, is a lyrical line, from the song...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I've been back for two and a half weeks. It's two and a half weeks since he text me last. I'm still hoping every day that he'll be in touch, still waking in the night and checking...
    Bittersweet14 Bittersweet14 26-30 1 Response Jul 6

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    As the OW, I've really learned what it's like to be on the other side of the spectrum. I used to ridicule woman who put themselves though these somewhat torturous relationship, and...
    StuckInEternity StuckInEternity 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 29

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    (This is long but I just want someone to read and hear my struggle and understand. Please read I'll appreciate it!) I have no friends in high school. None at all. During break I...
    DavidDG DavidDG 13-15, M 6 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am NOT the other woman any longer but then again I never did feel that way…..For those that know my story already know that my relationship was an open book for all including...
    daisydew1973 daisydew1973 41-45, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I feel like I'm going crazy as the days go by. It has been about four months since my father has been diagnosed with stomach cancer, and well since it was caught late, there is no...
    suskypls suskypls 16-17, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Hi, t this is gonna be a bit of a story, sorry, thanks for reading, I am terrified. Three years ago I was 18, graduating high school and travelling south with a girl I loved. When...
    illusive223 illusive223 18-21, M 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I don't want to say hate so I'll use the word dislike. I dislike when human beings try to bring other human beings down just boost their ego, make them feel powerful and more...
    wolflover1648 wolflover1648 16-17 2 hrs ago

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    Going to be a rough morning. Having to clean up a problem that H created between me and my inlaws. He through me under the bus with lies cause he couldnt be a man and admit what...
    blue963 blue963 46-50, F 7 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I talk to myself a lot. Like a lot, and in great detail. Like I'm talking to other people but I'm the only one there. In my head I could be in a group of people making them all...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I talk to myself a lot. Like a lot, and in great detail. Like I'm talking to other people but I'm the only one there. In my head I could be in a group of people making them all...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    The pain of being the other woman and my story.... Thanks to Experience Project, Thanks to my new circle of friends here, thanks to those people who are just browsing, thanks to...
    annettesan annettesan 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 11

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    It's my hopeless hope to find a friend like you. You've been anything but supportive to me, but lately? Not only we're drifting apart, we are no longer something that we could call...
    Mininyaa Mininyaa 18-21, F Jul 7

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    It's interesting that the Japanese tv dramas always like the stories about people with double sides of personality. It's like, the same person, but in one period of time is being...
    kekehuang kekehuang 36-40, F Jul 12

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    My husband and I have been together since 2010 abd married since 2012 every since I've been with him he's know this girl from the us they both liked each other and wanted to be...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9

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    I'm open to all questions just ask ! I love giving advice if needed or if you just want to talk 😘
    Lovelyx2 Lovelyx2 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I don't know what to do. I feel like I don't know who my boyfriend is anymore.. He's been so hateful the past couple days. I feel like it might be time for both of us to walk away...
    kissmyax kissmyax 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Hi all, I am stronger inside than I have been in a longtime. I am now three months into a separation. I don't know where that will end up. I have learned to love myself again...
    Dlgadlga Dlgadlga 51-55, M 1 Response 44 mins ago

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    never had a girlfriend but there was one girl that I wanted as my girlfriend that also wanted our relationship to an open one meaning she wanted to have other lovers. I didn't like...
    beachboy14u beachboy14u 18-21, T 4 Responses Jul 3

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    Hello you can call me G (parents don't want me sharing my name so I'll use my first initial) and I'm fairly new here. What I mean by having a dark side is that I'm normally very...
    GSquared2 GSquared2 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    I have found the man that I want to be with forever.. The only guy since being in an abusive relationship that I have cared about and respected enough to stick with past the first...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I am the oldest child of 3 children. We all share the same drug addict mother, however we each have different drug addict parents. I was Taken away from my mother right before my 1...
    secretdestiny secretdestiny 18-21, F Jul 11

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    He is a complicated man, to say the least. I can't help but love him, though. He keeps trying to give off subtle hints to let me know that I'm more to him than just some younger...
    Ditto85 Ditto85 26-30 4 Responses Jul 2

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    As I've been reading other stories on here I've been noticing that quite a few of us are OW to men we work with. As much as I have feelings for my MM, I feel like our feelings and...
    Livesforme Livesforme 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I have never understood why it is so much easier to talk to another woman. Talk within a marriage seems to get restricted to talking about the kids, the finances and the extended...
    clutterbuck clutterbuck 51-55, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    This both a good and bad thing for me. The good: whenever I'm alone or with someone I don't like for example my fake *** friend I tend to talk to my self. When I need to make a...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F Jul 9

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    I'm filled with guilt!!! and utterly confused!!! I met a guy 2 1/2 years ago, we have talked nearly everyday since bar a few arguments. He is married, with 2 kids, the oldest is...
    angelheelz angelheelz 22-25, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    I like people talking dirty to me.... I will admit i am not very good at talking dirty, i can never think of things to say when i am being pleasured the moment is just to intimate...
    peachypic peachypic 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Okay so I've been talking to this guy for a little more then 2 weeks now. We sorta had a thing back in then like 2 - 3 years ago. We hung out a couple of times but nothing ever...
    sassyjay sassyjay 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Let's talk about sex, shall we? One of the most difficult things to get past after Dday is the thought that your husband had sex with another woman. I know I struggled with this...
    Uht2014 Uht2014 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    At various times in my life l have sat on both sides of the fence. Although these times have not always been fun and at times have been fraught with difficulties, they have...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Ugh ok how do I stay supportive when he doesn't want to talk? This part is hard for me. He's going through the worst part of things right now and although he's been texting some...
    sweetmae79 sweetmae79 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I'm young. A freshman in college now. Most of my life I've been privileged and fortunate. However in recent years I've struggled with an ongoing emotional issue. I go through deep...
    theabsurd theabsurd 18-21, M Jul 17

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    If anyone needs advice or just someone to talk to, I'm here for you! If you need a friend, I'm here for you!
    gurlnextdoor94 gurlnextdoor94 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I got married last year in a simple civil ceremony. That was fine, but pretty much everything went wrong. Stained dresses (mine), missing transport, wrong music, late groomsmen...
    CorruptedAngel CorruptedAngel 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    Well, there we go.... For my whole life, people, friends, family have always helped me and were examples to me or inspired me. I think it's about time that "I" tried and inspired...
    Scavyfox Scavyfox 18-21, M Jul 1

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    This is the first time I wrote something like this, if you cared enough to read...Thank you.. On the other day I saw a post here that said something like "we -the other women- are...
    ShallowPink ShallowPink 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't even know what I'm doing anymore. What I'm choosing to believe, who I'm choosing to be with and care about, the vile stuff I know I shouldn't be doing; they all have me...
    michae10pvhs michae10pvhs 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    Hello EP! This is my first post here. I have spent a lot of time reading others experiences and have found comfort in knowing that there are so many others in a similar situation...
    JulyBug JulyBug 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 3

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    Everytime i say something, people dont really care or get it. I dont blame them, cause trully i dont know what to say that grabs attention or not get on the bad side of others.
    Jasoncbp Jasoncbp 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I love sex , I think about it all the time. But I don't have sex often. I've always had a steady boyfriend but for the past two years I've been dating and it seems I'm only...
    Renee175 Renee175 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    Me and my older cousin used to be best friends. We did everything together as kids and we were so close. Now he'll barely spare me a glance, and when we're in the same house, he'll...
    weby667 weby667 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm nervous because my aunty travels around the country, but she's coming to my city in a few months. She's on my mum side of the family and her and my mother are very close. My...
    kristen36 kristen36 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    On cloud 9 today. I didn't think he'd be in the office today and I was in a board room by myself all morning and I sent him a text saying I wish he was in the office so he could...
    PrincessLolita PrincessLolita 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    i wanna talk to some aged ,mature nd sincere lady ...i wanna some advice ...
    rev411 rev411 18-21, M 3 Responses 9 hrs ago