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I Talk to the Other Side

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    The grass may be greener on the other side of the fence, but you still have to mow it. - Anonymous
    expressomarkie expressomarkie 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I think I have finally came to the realization that this affair is over. We rarely see one another, and hardly talk anymore. I can see now that ever since his new baby was born...
    freddiesgirl69 freddiesgirl69 41-45, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hey, everyone. My names Nikki from a small town where everyone knows each other. I've found this forum several times whilst typing random things into google, so I thought I'd...
    NikkiH94 NikkiH94 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    My exAP has been talking to me more lately. He is lost and miserable and confused. I told him something he didn't want to hear on Friday, so he went quiet...always does when that...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    My mum cheated on my dad, two times. She then moved in with one of her boyfriend. My older sister moved with her but I stayed with my dad. I didn't see her much but still spoke to...
    anonomouslyposting anonomouslyposting 22-25, M Aug 31

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    I wish I would see it a lot more. There was one day that my boyfriend was driving in the pointing rain and in the other side of traffic I saw an elderly man walking, I wished that...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I always feel different with a different person. It seems like i become different myself too, as if every person brings out the other side of me that i didn't even know exsists...
    Gitamomo Gitamomo 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I just would like to talk to someone to feel like someone actually listens to what i say. And i will listen to what he/she says no matter how weird the conversation is. :l
    Merrcury Merrcury 18-21, M 18 mins ago

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    I spoke to my MM early Saturday Morning (3am). I had just finished a Skype session with a friend and he signed in. It wasn't anything prearranged. He just happened to sign in...
    Guilty1982 Guilty1982 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So many thoughts on my mind tonight, trying to find any distraction by browsing through my PM’s on EP during and after the course of my affair with exMM. And there it is, a...
    lostsoul0311 lostsoul0311 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Wow! Seems I've stirred up the pot a little bit with one of my posts. Thought I would take this opportunity to clarify a few things for the OW that may want to pay us a visit. 1...
    Uht2014 Uht2014 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    Things have been really quiet for the last month. We don't talk about it .. We seldom do.. When he goes quiet I don't pressure him, I take the hint fast.. And stop initiating...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I don't know how you all stay stable while your men are deployed. My boyfriend was deployed while we were talking, but only for two months. Now, he's being deployed for seven...
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F Aug 30

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    Anyone else out here have people suspecting your affair that would be a problem if they found out? MM and I have friends. They are friends of mine and friends of his and his W. I...
    BlackHiHeels4Me BlackHiHeels4Me 36-40, F 6 Responses Sep 12

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    I've always talked to myself but I only incessantly depended upon my own voice when I was about six years-old and beyond. I used to get left at home a lot of the time and I was...
    NocheSombra NocheSombra 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Today was another great day. My OW is taking steps for us to be together even if she isn't fully committed yet. Encouraging her and reassuring her everyday is working wonders for...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    I'm 26 years old and the last time I saw my dad I was 18 - on the day I got on a plane and left for college. He has messaged me through Facebook off and on over the last few years...
    aviatrix17 aviatrix17 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    Hard day today. I felt like I wanted to have a temper tantrum today. It was just one of those days I wanted to scream "leave her!!! She makes you so unhappy and it's written all...
    MarieVon MarieVon 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 11

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    The saddest thing about this, for me, is I let all my other relationships fall to the waste side.. unnurtured and neglected. My two best friends are him and his wife!! I am so mad...
    megansunshine megansunshine 18-21, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well, definitely punched in the stomach today. Things had been wonderful with him for the past week, but I am now seeing that I made a grave mistake by opening myself up to him...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    There's more than two, I'm struggling to clarify myself in a world full of labels that box people in. I don't feel a need to define myself for myself but for other people to...
    HopefullRomantic HopefullRomantic 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    You ask yourself why he seems sad, after the affair, and think it's because he misses being with you. That he doesn't feel love and attention from her like you gave him. Or that...
    proulxfam proulxfam 31-35 Aug 24

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    He's been alone before Trapped in his own small hell He has tried to be stronger But he won't care much longer He might need a miracle She never leaves his side Even when he won't...
    heysho heysho 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    So, I posted on here a couple of days ago about my bf messaging an old girl he used to mess around with a couple of days ago. To make a long story short, I blocked her number which...
    silarial silarial 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 8

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    After a lovely weekend, it's sad to leave. I'll see him tomorrow but it won't be the same. A hand picked rose from his garden on my dashboard. My favorite. The wanting to be...
    Risktakingflirtation Risktakingflirtation 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Just having readqueenfl's last post (it was really good), I'm now feeling confused / angry and tired /sad / broken. I love this guy, and the writing speaks for itself. I feel...
    Missy1179 Missy1179 31-35, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hi ladies. I haven’t been on in a while, and I have really missed you all. I realize it is better to have people to talk to who understand my situation. I will give you a...
    lavc lavc 46-50, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Day 0 of NC It took a month, but today MM and I are officially over and nc. I wrote to him yesterday saying that I couldn't do this with him anymore. A month ago I ended the...
    JulyBug JulyBug 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 26

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    So I've been dating this guy for almost a year now and its been a really rough year but I really like him and we always seem to work things out. A couple of months ago we had an...
    silarial silarial 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 5

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    He gives me perspective. He loves how I look on the bright side of things and he gives me confidence!! Through the faith he has in me I feel like I can accomplish anything. This...
    MarieVon MarieVon 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 10

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    Im really trying to break up with my boyfriend. We're both 17 and he just already has this idea that we're gonna get married. Not that that's a bad thing, I'm just having a severe...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 12

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    I still haven't bothered responding to his half *** message from Sunday. On the way to school today, I was late so I had to take a shortcut. It took me right past one of his...
    ArlingtonRose ArlingtonRose 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was a victim of domestic violence this past Saturday from my boyfriend and now that he's been bailed out of jail I've been speaking with him. All he says is that the first time...
    silarial silarial 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Saw him in person yesterday for a few hours. Just talked. I didn't get into the topic of contact. I wasn't in the mood for excuses and I knew if we "discussed" we would end up...
    blue963 blue963 46-50, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm infatuated with this guy's hair color. Last night I was on my phone talking to my dad out front of the dorms. I get service there and here comes my crush it was a really good...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    The epitome of gracious, Seaside-side consolation, the two-Bed room villa contains a perfectly-appointed family room positioned among two bedrooms. Adjacent to each bedroom is a...
    Magalyid72 Magalyid72 31-35, M Aug 28

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    I'm still working on this. She's been inside me my entire life and is one of my best friends. She's more proud of my accomplishments than I am, and gets just as upset (if not more...
    ia16 ia16 36-40, M Aug 30

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    I am tired of seeing people who are not happy with their relationships. Just talk to them. Remember every time you defend yourself you continue the argument and you dig a deeper...
    NameIsMailbox NameIsMailbox 13-15, M Sep 1

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    I think we all have that dark side of us. Some have been controlled by it and others haven't really seen it. For me I used it for a certain part of my life to cover up my mothers...
    DavidHamilton1 DavidHamilton1 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Been seeing my MM off and on now for 4 years. Started out as a mutual agreement of just sex. He made it clear that he was never leaving because of his kids. He attempted to leave...
    Jennbme24 Jennbme24 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 27

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    Our Sugar Land facility is conveniently located near the intersection of Hwy 90A and Easton at the entrance to Telfair. The really visible place incorporates a circle travel, a...
    Andrew558n8la3 Andrew558n8la3 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    This is what I found, posted one year ago. Things have changed, but I believed we would be the ones to work out. "The One The Works Out Sometimes it works out. I'm a work in...
    chasinglesun chasinglesun 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    I feel like i love this guy Please read my experience about I met a guy online before continuing. I would love all the help i get in making my decision with such an awesome...
    NikkiCena NikkiCena 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    Andrew558n8la3 Andrew558n8la3 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    My bestfriend pretends like I dont exist and I feel so alone all the time. I'm trying to talk to her and she's just not responding. She only responds when i'm in a crisis which is...
    99jasi 99jasi 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I love girl from canada so so so much And i think thats love just from one side ( me ) But really I don't care I love her I love talking to her I'm happy just seeing her
    Ihabq8 Ihabq8 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    We haven't even met in person yet... I'm new here, so I'll just launch right in. I'm having a lot of trouble dealing with these "other woman" rules. I've been here before, but I...
    Ahmazing Ahmazing 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago